It's been a year since I moved to America, and since I had to start figuring my life out after a failed marriage. I never thought I'd be a divorcee...but I also wouldn't change a thing!
Oooh Thando, you're speaking to me 😭😭😭😭 In Feb this year, I lost my job in the most weird way. And I'm the breadwinner at home, for my parents and my 4 year old daughter. 2 months after that, my dad fell sick and his health deteriorated so quickly and we lost him in July 2023. I lost love as well and I was single. Soon after that, I had no way to provide. Nothing at all. No money, a child in school, me and mom being both my responsibility. I remember in the first week of September 2023, praying so hard and crying..... Asking God to just take over because I am absolutely tired. I was broke and broken. I cried sooooo much in that prayer and prayed even harder. Two weeks later I submitted a job application and within days, I got called for an interview. An hour after my interview, I got another call and was told to please start the following week. 😭😭😭😭 Currently, I'm working in my dream job🥺🥺🥺 A job I had been desiring for years. I'm on a healing journey for the loss of my dad. I'm in a much better space and it's God's Grace 😭😭🙌🙌🥺🥺
Your story is so similar to mine my sister, am here in Botswana, nodding as am listening to u. Am a 45 years divorcee, someone who loves the Lord, going through healing, after my divorce being finalized 5 months ago . So am encouraged because I never wanted a breakup. I really thought it was going to be a forever thing. So thank you.
I relate to your story so much.. I'm still waiting for my "I know why I had to go through what I went through" because at this point I keep on asking myself "at what cost"
That’s the most amazing thing about God.. you may not get it when you’re going through something but you come out of it with a clear understanding of that season
Hehehehehe I’m laughing out loud coz seems like you narrating the story of my life . Divorce is the most painful experience in the entire world and what hurts the most is to leave someone you really love coz what was supposed to be a comfortable space is no longer comfortable anymore ✅ but nevertheless I’m glad we survived ❤keep glowing sis
“Sorrow is better than laughter,for sadness has a refining influence on us”-Ecclesiastes 7:2. As I was listening to you for the first 5 minutes;you reminded me of that verse
I needed to hear this. Going through a season of waiting for a job its been a tough year but prayer has really kept me grounded. Thank you for your testimony.🙏🏾
I can listen to Thandoe for 24/7…365 days a year sana, I love you so much MaMvelase, thanks for sharing your life story with us🙏❤️ I pray for so much peace and happiness that surpasses all human understanding in your life 🤍
Love you Thando. I relate so much, choosing God and His Will is HARD but there is a reward. “After you have suffered a while, the God of Grace will indeed RESTORE and perfect and establish you”. You’re amazing sis ❤
The nice thing about serving God and being a believer is no matter sesizifake kangakanani ezintwen akade eth usinqanda kuzo, He would give you signs and show you lot of things to not continue with whatever you were doing BUT WE CONTINUE KODWA AKASILAHLI. He makes all that work together for good. There is always lesson one learns at the end of heartbreak. If it were up to God ngabe kuningi esingadlul kukho but because He give us freewill we sometimes do what we want. As a result NGIYI SINGLE PARENT AND i always thank God that atleast something good came out of all ukungalaleli yize mpilo yam yashintsha kakhulu but my Son is my blessing.
Seeing this after loosing my 4th pregnancy where l had twins (lost 1 @ 9 weeks & the other @ 13wks). This is a word in season... Thank you Pastor Thando
Thank you Thando for sharing, I wept so much watching this. How my story is so similar to yours, the move to Cape Town was not planned but God saw me through it all.
I can relate to this story🥹 my first born 6years old and my last born was 6months old when I had to leave my ex husband.. heeeh all I can say is that God can make you whole again..
This could not have come at the right time. I guess this is another reasurance from God to me about where he is leading me. Thank you for being Gods voice.
You are such a breath of fresh air… I love everything about this episode. We always learn Thando and your love for God and Godly stuff is amazing.❤ We love you 🥰
😭😭😭😭😭 I'm I tears because wow are a 1 of my separation, having no income, going back home with my son. I've come to completely understand Romans 8:28. But God, sis, your story is so similar to what I went through.
It's so amazing to be back to self, and God truly just revealing himself to me in ways I could have not imagined, but also the birth of a women's ministry where I'm just seeing God doing things that I can't even comprehend. 😭😭😭
All things work together for good for they that trust the Lord and are called to His purpose. You look beautiful Thando I'm excited for all that God has started doing and shall continue to do in your life.
Thank you Thando darling , I have had so many fresh starts and everytime I had to start over it’s always refreshing but trust me I when it hits you it’s like you have never been here befor , but I always trust the process because I know God is shifting things in my life to be in my other dimension and for me that’s when I know growth is near.😊❤🙏🏽Enkosi ntombi for sharing.
As someone who relocated to Germany six months ago, I relate to your journey in a great way. Although the whole experience has been extremely overwhelming, I know this is exactly what God planned for me. In South Africa I was too comfortable and my life was slowly drifting astray - when this opportunity presented itself I could have simply refused, but I knew that I would be denying God's purpose for my life.
Thank you for sharing Thando. It’s amazing having followed you for so many years and seen you through various stages of your life, you are a breath of fresh year always. I love you MaMthembu❤️
Thank you sis Thando I really need this, uNkulunkulu uyakusebenzisa sis and uzokubusisa🙌🙏🏾ngiyabonga your story is about to change my life and I'm ready to testify about it🙏🏾
So glad I stumbled upon this - A week ago I broke up with my partner and I am deep within umgowo. I am slowly getting better, day 2 of not crying and inhliziyo yami ayisabalisi. I am just asking God to heal me completely and also see why this had to happen.
I remember when I started following you a few years back. It was the best decision of my life. We thank God for your life Thando and I’m proud of your faith.
I didn't know that a year ago when I started following you you help me nevigste my own troubles and the beautiful part is the fact that you involve the Lord.
"I didn't need solutions, I needed to cry" shuuuuu, thank you Ps Thando for a beautiful reminder of the role of the Holy Spirit in our lives...The Comforter🌸🌸🌸
I am in a position right now, where I was forced to start over against my own will. My partner didn't want to be with me anymore. I had to move out in a short space of time, to a place I don't like. I am trying to trust God in my actions, but I am seriously doubting that he is there. I feel like he doesn't see what is going on. This situation is forcing my faith. Like I feel like God has put me in a corner and forcing me to trust him. Because if I am being honest, I am finding it hard to trust God. Because this was not part my plan at all. I am in a position I don't want to be in. I still think about my ex. That how could he do this to me, especially in a time where I was at my lowest. I needed him but instead, he decided to end the relationship. I cannot wrap my head around this. It is not making any sense to me. I hope one day, I get to understand why I went through all this.
Be strong in Faith and in the knowledge of God. You will come out of this with a testimony. God will never leave you nor forsake you. Please continue to pray and study the Word. One day all this will make sense. May God continue to bless you and prosper you and keep you in perfect health in Jesus Name, Amen.
"At some point in the journey it was my own will." ❤️So many times we pray for God to bless our own will (plans) without asking Him for HIS WILL for our lives❤️...
Oooh Thando, you're speaking to me 😭😭😭😭 In Feb this year, I lost my job in the most weird way. And I'm the breadwinner at home, for my parents and my 4 year old daughter. 2 months after that, my dad fell sick and his health deteriorated so quickly and we lost him in July 2023. I lost love as well and I was single. Soon after that, I had no way to provide. Nothing at all. No money, a child in school, me and mom being both my responsibility. I remember in the first week of September 2023, praying so hard and crying..... Asking God to just take over because I am absolutely tired. I was broke and broken. I cried sooooo much in that prayer and prayed even harder. Two weeks later I submitted a job application and within days, I got called for an interview. An hour after my interview, I got another call and was told to please start the following week. 😭😭😭😭
Currently, I'm working in my dream job🥺🥺🥺 A job I had been desiring for years. I'm on a healing journey for the loss of my dad. I'm in a much better space and it's God's Grace 😭😭🙌🙌🥺🥺
The lesson here for me is just letting God!!! ❤️🥺🥺
@@cwayitagcilitshana7982 And that's that my love 🥺🥺❤️
I love you ❤
@@nosibulelonocy8538 Love you too hun 🥺❤
Painful yet beautiful. Thanks for sharing
“You can’t rush a season, it has to play out” felt that Sis🥺❤
So glad you are now in a better space and God is using you mightly. Much love Thando ❤
Your story is so similar to mine my sister, am here in Botswana, nodding as am listening to u. Am a 45 years divorcee, someone who loves the Lord, going through healing, after my divorce being finalized 5 months ago . So am encouraged because I never wanted a breakup. I really thought it was going to be a forever thing. So thank you.
I relate to your story so much.. I'm still waiting for my "I know why I had to go through what I went through" because at this point I keep on asking myself "at what cost"
I’m literally waiting with you …because wow somethings don’t make sense. Sending love and light to you❤
Its gonna be okay Ladies, trust God!🫂
That’s the most amazing thing about God.. you may not get it when you’re going through something but you come out of it with a clear understanding of that season
Love the camera quality, also your hair came out so great❤
'Things falling into place while other things were falling into pieces.'.....uthetha nam ❤
Hehehehehe I’m laughing out loud coz seems like you narrating the story of my life . Divorce is the most painful experience in the entire world and what hurts the most is to leave someone you really love coz what was supposed to be a comfortable space is no longer comfortable anymore ✅ but nevertheless I’m glad we survived ❤keep glowing sis
“Sorrow is better than laughter,for sadness has a refining influence on us”-Ecclesiastes 7:2. As I was listening to you for the first 5 minutes;you reminded me of that verse
I needed to hear this. Going through a season of waiting for a job its been a tough year but prayer has really kept me grounded. Thank you for your testimony.🙏🏾
I am glad you are talking about it now. May God continue to heal you Pastor T💕
Definetly relating with the "over to you ke my dhiye" it's my season of over to you ke Bawo ngoba eeeeeey😭😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you for this ❤
I can listen to Thandoe for 24/7…365 days a year sana, I love you so much MaMvelase, thanks for sharing your life story with us🙏❤️ I pray for so much peace and happiness that surpasses all human understanding in your life 🤍
I so resonate.with you Pastor T in that season. Of take over my dhiye....Bless you
Same here,she's my sisi this 1❤....amazing lady yhoo'so real
Our God restores! 🥹🥹🥹🥹♥️ we love you Pastor Thando 😘
I can’t say I enjoy starting over but I am comforted by Gods grace and presence through each difficult season
If u believe and trust in God u will never lack nothing. God is the greatest 🙌 🙏
Your journey is different friend, may God continue to heal and use you for his Kingdom
Love you bbe❤️
Love you Thando. I relate so much, choosing God and His Will is HARD but there is a reward. “After you have suffered a while, the God of Grace will indeed RESTORE and perfect and establish you”. You’re amazing sis ❤
You're absolutely one of my favourite "finds" on socials...you are so real and relatable ❤
The nice thing about serving God and being a believer is no matter sesizifake kangakanani ezintwen akade eth usinqanda kuzo, He would give you signs and show you lot of things to not continue with whatever you were doing BUT WE CONTINUE KODWA AKASILAHLI. He makes all that work together for good. There is always lesson one learns at the end of heartbreak. If it were up to God ngabe kuningi esingadlul kukho but because He give us freewill we sometimes do what we want. As a result NGIYI SINGLE PARENT AND i always thank God that atleast something good came out of all ukungalaleli yize mpilo yam yashintsha kakhulu but my Son is my blessing.
Seeing this after loosing my 4th pregnancy where l had twins (lost 1 @ 9 weeks & the other @ 13wks). This is a word in season...
Thank you Pastor Thando
Thank you Thando for sharing, I wept so much watching this. How my story is so similar to yours, the move to Cape Town was not planned but God saw me through it all.
This is part of the book❤. Thank you Pst.Tee😊😊😊. You inspire usore than you can imagine!!!! We thank God for your life!!!!!
Thank you Thando for sharing your story of starting over. Your testimonial gives me hope as I go through a transition phase
Absolutely appreciate your vulnerability
I can relate to this story🥹 my first born 6years old and my last born was 6months old when I had to leave my ex husband.. heeeh all I can say is that God can make you whole again..
Oh sis Thando why did I wait for so long to check your TH-cam channel…so much wisdom❤❤❤❤
Seeing this just after of the morning prayer ❤ #AllShallBeWellWithUs
Same
Aaah man,you are such a blessing ❤God is using you in such an amazing way ❤
Profound Thando, thank you🥰🥰❤
This could not have come at the right time. I guess this is another reasurance from God to me about where he is leading me. Thank you for being Gods voice.
Thank you Thando sisi. May the holy spirit that was your comfort also lead you in the foreign country. See you in the morning @6am. Ndikuthanda❤
Powerful messages and words of encouragement Thandolwenkosi
Don't be afraid to say goodbye to everything you knew... that hit me🎉
You are such a breath of fresh air… I love everything about this episode. We always learn Thando and your love for God and Godly stuff is amazing.❤
We love you 🥰
“God’s intentionality in my spontaneity”❤
When you said I didn't need solutions I needed to cry, I felt so much relief in that.
😭😭😭😭😭 I'm I tears because wow are a 1 of my separation, having no income, going back home with my son. I've come to completely understand Romans 8:28. But God, sis, your story is so similar to what I went through.
God of Another Chance❤Thank you Thando love you big time❤❤
I'm so proud of you Mama! ❤❤May God continue to strengthen you and uphold you.
Thando 😢😢😢😢😢 you’re healing me. He perfects everything that concerns you 🥲🥲🥲
You are the most beautiful human being Thando honestly. What a sacrificial gift this offering is. Thank you
It's so amazing to be back to self, and God truly just revealing himself to me in ways I could have not imagined, but also the birth of a women's ministry where I'm just seeing God doing things that I can't even comprehend. 😭😭😭
Very relatable…Thank you for sharing 🙏✨😇
❤❤❤thank you for sharing your story sis
Our father of faith Abraham was a patriotic. He lived by moving. He understood like you said it was on God. Thank you cc..I needed to head this.
Congratulations on 1 year overseas Pastor T🎊🎊🥺🥺🚣♀️🚣♀️🎉🎉🎉🎉God is so good 🥺❤️
All things work together for good for they that trust the Lord and are called to His purpose.
You look beautiful Thando I'm excited for all that God has started doing and shall continue to do in your life.
Your wisdom, your faith, your perseverance!!!
Thank you Thando darling , I have had so many fresh starts and everytime I had to start over it’s always refreshing but trust me I when it hits you it’s like you have never been here befor , but I always trust the process because I know God is shifting things in my life to be in my other dimension and for me that’s when I know growth is near.😊❤🙏🏽Enkosi ntombi for sharing.
As someone who relocated to Germany six months ago, I relate to your journey in a great way. Although the whole experience has been extremely overwhelming, I know this is exactly what God planned for me. In South Africa I was too comfortable and my life was slowly drifting astray - when this opportunity presented itself I could have simply refused, but I knew that I would be denying God's purpose for my life.
Where do you guys apply for these international opportunities 😢❤
@@phenomenonto328 I was already working for an international company in SA, so I simply moved to their Headquarters in Germany
We thank God for your life and your wisdom ❤😊
Thank you for sharing Thando❤, you're a God sent ❤
This is so beautiful ❤️ thank you so much 💞
Mvelase🙌🏾 sisi wami 💕 it’s always such a delight to watch your videos 🔥 I always leave with something.
Now lemme watch 😄😃
Thank you so Much for Sharing. Don’t Rush the Season . Allow the season to take and play its course 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
We love you Pastor T
Resilient is your name!🤩🤩🤩❤️❤️❤️
I thank God for you uyangiphilisa sis❤️😭👏🏼
Thank you for sharing Thando. It’s amazing having followed you for so many years and seen you through various stages of your life, you are a breath of fresh year always. I love you MaMthembu❤️
Lord knows I needed to watch this❤
Thank you for sharing ❤
"Waiting with boldness and humility" on my God he is always at work
What a mighty God we serve ❤ we thank God for your restoration Pastor T❤. Also, thank you for sharing with us your testimony ❤
Yhooo Thando you inspire me please pray for me tooo
You’re such an inspiration sisi wam🥺❤️May the Great Lord continue blessing you.
Wow Tee... Soo inspired by this 😮❤❤
“You can't rush a season, it has to play out”❤️
Missed you on this app Pastor T❤
Izimpi zama First born ❤sisi azifan nezamuntu.
Waze wamuhle😍😍😍The God Glow!
Thank you sis Thando I really need this, uNkulunkulu uyakusebenzisa sis and uzokubusisa🙌🙏🏾ngiyabonga your story is about to change my life and I'm ready to testify about it🙏🏾
Wooooo Thando you are making me 😭❤❤❤❤❤
So glad I stumbled upon this - A week ago I broke up with my partner and I am deep within umgowo. I am slowly getting better, day 2 of not crying and inhliziyo yami ayisabalisi. I am just asking God to heal me completely and also see why this had to happen.
Thank you Thando for sharing your story. Truly amazing and inspiring 🙏🏽. May God continue to see through to all that concerns you ❤️❤️
Thank you sis, just the word I needed to hear😢
So happy I just came across your channel. So much depth. Thank you for opening up and sharing.
Thank you for sharing Thando
I remember when I started following you a few years back. It was the best decision of my life. We thank God for your life Thando and I’m proud of your faith.
God restores 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
You glowing our International Sister 😍😍😍
You can’t rush a season, it has to play out
Felt that
I didn't know that a year ago when I started following you you help me nevigste my own troubles and the beautiful part is the fact that you involve the Lord.
Welcome back pastor Tee😢
Wow trusting God fully
Love this for you sana❤thank you for this
I love you so much.❤️
Oooh Thando ❤❤
Our God is always speaking. Sometimes we choose not to listen.
"I didn't need solutions, I needed to cry" shuuuuu, thank you Ps Thando for a beautiful reminder of the role of the Holy Spirit in our lives...The Comforter🌸🌸🌸
I love you sis❤❤❤❤
Wow thando I didn't know you are so strong mf2 and I can see that your healing is complete ❤️
❤❤❤❤You are loved sooo much by God
I am in a position right now, where I was forced to start over against my own will. My partner didn't want to be with me anymore. I had to move out in a short space of time, to a place I don't like. I am trying to trust God in my actions, but I am seriously doubting that he is there. I feel like he doesn't see what is going on. This situation is forcing my faith. Like I feel like God has put me in a corner and forcing me to trust him. Because if I am being honest, I am finding it hard to trust God. Because this was not part my plan at all. I am in a position I don't want to be in. I still think about my ex. That how could he do this to me, especially in a time where I was at my lowest. I needed him but instead, he decided to end the relationship. I cannot wrap my head around this. It is not making any sense to me. I hope one day, I get to understand why I went through all this.
Be strong in Faith and in the knowledge of God. You will come out of this with a testimony. God will never leave you nor forsake you. Please continue to pray and study the Word. One day all this will make sense. May God continue to bless you and prosper you and keep you in perfect health in Jesus Name, Amen.
@@sihledunamiz420 amen. Thank you sisi😢❤️
You are most welcome sisi😇
Eish your story touched me, been there, still trying to heal. You are going to be ok dear
@@botse6088 😢😢thank you sisi
"At some point in the journey it was my own will." ❤️So many times we pray for God to bless our own will (plans) without asking Him for HIS WILL for our lives❤️...
I am in the season of showing me that you Trust me....
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Not even cute 🥰 but cuter 💖 beautiful ❤️ strong and courageous ❤
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This is literally the question I was asking God and myself about taking the next big bold step 🥹❤️🔥 so time!🙌🏾✝️ Glory to Jesus!