There is a lot of shame in addiction. Amber Valletta is doing the right thing by being brave, exposing herself, and helping people talk openly about addiction. I'm predisposed to addiction. It's painful and isolating. She's awesome for shedding light on this disease- that kills people. Be kind to addicts: Whether they are homeless or supermodels.
I am so grateful for this - I had not a clue of her struggles - Me as a person who has had an experiences with coping with myself and being outside of myself - I think that the stigma of addiction and making it So underground and making a seed grow from it’s horrible environment -- I love that she is being so honest and open . And even having humor with it - I really respect that as a human and as a person with done dark experience- humility & humour -
Addiction sucks. It robs you of your autonomy and turns you into a slave. I'm sober for 119 days today and while it gets easier, every day is a struggle. I have to constantly remind myself of what I almost lost, what I could lose so easily and I have now because I remain sober. I've made a great number of friends in recovery, people who truly care about my well being and who are there to help me remain sober. They constantly remind me of what I need to do to keep from using and to make sure I continue down the path of freedom and to never look back at the bondage that gripped me so tightly for over s quarter of a century. Being able to spend quality time with my beautiful children, something I was denied as a slave to narcotics, is worth more than I can possibly verbalize. I didn't know what I was missing until it was nearly taken from me and the way I felt when I thought I would lose them is a feeling so horrific that I lose sleep at the very thought of it becoming a reality. So I continue to take things one day at a time. It's all I can do. But it's also everything. One day at a time I will slowly earn back those things I lost. I no longer need to be a slave. No one need be.
@@brianjay9811 Thanks for asking. My clean date is 2/6/2018 so I now have 1549 days clean just for today. I couldn't have scripted a better life for myself if I had a Hollywood screenwriter's imagination.
@@EdGloss I am saluting you and sending a high five! Fantastic, Ed! I know of too many who just aren't making it through this, so I cheer when I see proof that one can survive the nightmare. God bless...
I knew there was a reason why I’ve always liked her, regardless of her model “status”. And let me add just one thing that I feel needs to be said: that this wonderful speech that she’s given does also apply to any kind of addiction, not only drugs.
AMBER VALETTA! You are much more than a pretty face‼ Thank you for the courage and compassion it took to heal yourself, and then helping others‼ You are a wise and beautiful person on the inside too‼ Wishing you much love and joy💟
such a beautiful person, when she says i cant do this alone, and how do you live? i relate because its my own words, and im sure that beyond what she says there is a lot more that cannot be expressed with words
I'm sorry I just don't agree with the idea that we are helpless over addiction. I was a full-blown addict, and AA and that 12-Step bullshit just keeps you locked in that same disempowered, "I'm an addict" mentality. I disagree that will power doesn't work with addiction. It doesn't take will power alone. It takes will power, shitty consequences, and perseverance. One must try over and over again. All it is is behavior re-modification. I did it. Anyone can do it. Take your power back.
She spoke really well, is she an aquarian? She has insight into herself which is step 1 to healing. It's so important not to see yourself as a victim and take accountability. Not to focus on the past and live in the present.
Ms Valletta, maybe you found your calling. Maybe start a charity and network with the best processes of reprogramming the brain; do well and the benefactors increase as well as the alumni of those your charity will have helped
I applaud you Amber. Beautiful words full of hope and encouragement. Just wanted to share that God says in bible the King James version: Jeremiah 30:17 - "For I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds,' says the LORD... So Amber and everyone out there.....there is a God that wants to have a relationship with you and that is willing to heal all sickness and addiction out of your life so that you will never desire to do those things that bring shame and guilt. Remember time flies by....and one day we will give an account to God for all of our actions. Hopefully everyone reading this will be touched and will want to change their life. John 3:16 says: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Accept Jesus Christ and pray that he comes in your heart and ask him to forgive you of all of your sins. Then ask God to guide your steps, in prayer. And you will be amazed of the great things God will do in your life and through you. You will have abundance of peace...even in the storms of life.
Baku Matsumoto She didn't say she's been clean and sober for 16 CONSISTENT or CONTINUOUS years. The fellowship of recovery is based on the honor system. As a addict in recovery, Baku, relapse is part of recovery. So, it isn't DESPITE all, it is a miracle she's clean one more day, and today.
+Baku Matsumoto How do you know she's not sober today? Have you witnessed her drinking but water, tea, coffee, soda, natural juices, are one of her drinking buddies? Why can't people just accept what's been shared and not look to discredit the woman, or anyone for that matter. She has been revealing and honest about past, her addiction. Enough already with the cynical comments.
Currently we have 2 legal drugs and in some places 3: alcohol, tobacco and recreational marijuana; people weren't happy just having the first two. I should go - legally - in the alcohol, tobacco and weed business and make money out of people's foolishness and stupidity.
There is a lot of shame in addiction. Amber Valletta is doing the right thing by being brave, exposing herself, and helping people talk openly about addiction. I'm predisposed to addiction. It's painful and isolating. She's awesome for shedding light on this disease- that kills people. Be kind to addicts: Whether they are homeless or supermodels.
This lady is a good person. That's rare in fashion/modeling/entertainment.
Amber is amazing, and I so appreciate her sharing her experience, strength and hope!
I am so grateful for this - I had not a clue of her struggles -
Me as a person who has had an experiences with coping with myself and being outside of myself - I think that the stigma of addiction and making it So underground and making a seed grow from it’s horrible environment -- I love that she is being so honest and open . And even having humor with it - I really respect that as a human and as a person with done dark experience- humility & humour -
Wow. She put into words what I always believed and felt about my addictions. This was revealing.
Thank you for sharing your story and strength, Amber.
Been clean off dope for 21 days, realized the fear i was feeling while I'm getting clean is just misinterpreted excitement for the future.
Connor Phebus How you doing?
How you doing?
Hope you are doing good!
Amber, you are so brave and generous in sharing your truth. I am humbled and grateful for the lessons. Bless you!
Addiction sucks. It robs you of your autonomy and turns you into a slave. I'm sober for 119 days today and while it gets easier, every day is a struggle. I have to constantly remind myself of what I almost lost, what I could lose so easily and I have now because I remain sober. I've made a great number of friends in recovery, people who truly care about my well being and who are there to help me remain sober. They constantly remind me of what I need to do to keep from using and to make sure I continue down the path of freedom and to never look back at the bondage that gripped me so tightly for over s quarter of a century. Being able to spend quality time with my beautiful children, something I was denied as a slave to narcotics, is worth more than I can possibly verbalize. I didn't know what I was missing until it was nearly taken from me and the way I felt when I thought I would lose them is a feeling so horrific that I lose sleep at the very thought of it becoming a reality. So I continue to take things one day at a time. It's all I can do. But it's also everything. One day at a time I will slowly earn back those things I lost. I no longer need to be a slave. No one need be.
Now three years later, how are you? I hope and pray you are happy and still free from the addiction...
@@brianjay9811 Thanks for asking. My clean date is 2/6/2018 so I now have 1549 days clean just for today. I couldn't have scripted a better life for myself if I had a Hollywood screenwriter's imagination.
@@brianjay9811 And it's actually almost four years later. TH-cam doesn't do half years. Lol
@@EdGloss I am saluting you and sending a high five! Fantastic, Ed! I know of too many who just aren't making it through this, so I cheer when I see proof that one can survive the nightmare. God bless...
@@brianjay9811 Indeed. Thanks. I've lost many.
She is an amazing women I saw light in her back when Hitch came out and this just makes me happy and inspired.
I always admired Amber before and do even more now after listening to her message.
Beautiful talk. An honest and human speech. The beauty in facing our vulnerabilities and understanding them, not denying them or trying to hide it.
She has a lot of guts to go public. She will save a lot of lives in doing so.
Beautiful, raw and honest🙏✨❤️ I'm so grateful for Amber's courage, self love and her passion to reach out, educate and help others🕉
I knew there was a reason why I’ve always liked her, regardless of her model “status”. And let me add just one thing that I feel needs to be said: that this wonderful speech that she’s given does also apply to any kind of addiction, not only drugs.
AMBER VALETTA! You are much more than a pretty face‼ Thank you for the courage and compassion it took to heal yourself, and then helping others‼ You are a wise and beautiful person on the inside too‼ Wishing you much love and joy💟
Thank you Amber for your courage. I show your video to many creative people.
This has to be one of the most amazing things I've ever seen.
Why? Because she's attractive?
So touching and intense. Thank you, Amber.
Excellent presentation - addiction is vast. Thanks for your courage - yes a ribbon or walk or public holiday would be great.
WOW WOW WOW!!!! So much love and respect!!
such a beautiful person, when she says i cant do this alone, and how do you live? i relate because its my own words, and im sure that beyond what she says there is a lot more that cannot be expressed with words
Such a brave and authentic presentation.
thank you.....BOARDEM AND FRUSTRATION are my triggers.
Hmmm... I'm high while watching this. Man, it doesn't feel good. I look to the future and hope I get sober some day.
How are you doing now, my friend?
Thank you Amber and very important message beginning @11: 36 ....so important "seeing them in a different way".
Beautiful and courageous. Prayers
What a truthful speech
I'm sorry I just don't agree with the idea that we are helpless over addiction. I was a full-blown addict, and AA and that 12-Step bullshit just keeps you locked in that same disempowered, "I'm an addict" mentality. I disagree that will power doesn't work with addiction. It doesn't take will power alone. It takes will power, shitty consequences, and perseverance. One must try over and over again. All it is is behavior re-modification. I did it. Anyone can do it. Take your power back.
Beautiful! Thank you and G-d bless.
Very Brave Amber.
love love love Amber
She spoke really well, is she an aquarian? She has insight into herself which is step 1 to healing. It's so important not to see yourself as a victim and take accountability. Not to focus on the past and live in the present.
If you didn’t know she is an aquarian prior to posting this comment, I have to say that’s really impressive.
@@amircammok2268 OK thanks for the reply, well the saying goes it takes one to know one.
Ms Valletta, maybe you found your calling. Maybe start a charity and network with the best processes of reprogramming the brain; do well and the benefactors increase as well as the alumni of those your charity will have helped
How did she do all these crazy drugs and still look so beautiful! It just goes to show you anyone can have addiction.
I didnt even imagine she had an addiction about drugs.
Brave.
Wow thank you.
thank you
Amber,I want to send you lots of love...........................way to go
One love 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
thanks
💛
I applaud you Amber. Beautiful words full of hope and encouragement. Just wanted to share that God says in bible the King James version: Jeremiah 30:17 - "For I will restore health to you and heal you of your wounds,' says the LORD...
So Amber and everyone out there.....there is a God that wants to have a relationship with you and that is willing to heal all sickness and addiction out of your life so that you will never desire to do those things that bring shame and guilt. Remember time flies by....and one day we will give an account to God for all of our actions. Hopefully everyone reading this will be touched and will want to change their life. John 3:16 says: For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. Accept Jesus Christ and pray that he comes in your heart and ask him to forgive you of all of your sins. Then ask God to guide your steps, in prayer. And you will be amazed of the great things God will do in your life and through you. You will have abundance of peace...even in the storms of life.
Wow.
She is clean here, but I am afraid she is not sober since 25 years old. Despite all, what she is doing here is great. I want to advocate her entirely.
Baku Matsumoto
She didn't say she's been clean and sober for 16 CONSISTENT or CONTINUOUS years. The fellowship of recovery is based on the honor system. As a addict in recovery, Baku, relapse is part of recovery. So, it isn't DESPITE all, it is a miracle she's clean one more day, and today.
+Baku Matsumoto
How do you know she's not sober today? Have you witnessed her drinking but water, tea, coffee, soda, natural juices, are one of her drinking buddies? Why can't people just accept what's been shared and not look to discredit the woman, or anyone for that matter. She has been revealing and honest about past, her addiction. Enough already with the cynical comments.
she has been sober ALL those years!!
coolnice
their is infinite sadness with her look how blank her eyes are
Just for the algorithm
I hate to say this, because it's gonna sound poorly, but if I had a girl like Frauline Valetta I would never have drank to excess in the first place.
Currently we have 2 legal drugs and in some places 3: alcohol, tobacco and recreational marijuana; people weren't happy just having the first two. I should go - legally - in the alcohol, tobacco and weed business and make money out of people's foolishness and stupidity.
Wow didnt know she was an addict.
Want to get out of yourself?
Read a book.
so she used to drink and take drugs, then she stopped, and now she's a hero?!
immediamal coccinello Not a hero. Just an example of 1 way to deal with addiction. I’m sure there must be a million ways.
You will always be a hero to yourself if you can overcome any type of addiction.