I am a muslim woman with a crush on my atheist work colleague | EP 30

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  • @beyourself9293
    @beyourself9293 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I know it’s all cute and romantic 💘…. But shaytan is definitely making this so romantic until you commit zina with an atheist…. I know we hate a good advice when we are in love 😅but stay away from him and just make dua. Allah May guide him , if you leave him for the sake of Allah!!! People going to hate my comment but I really don’t care bc it’s the haqq! 😢😮

    • @xoOoBunnyoOox
      @xoOoBunnyoOox ปีที่แล้ว +11

      The thing is, if he is the one for her, Allâh will turn his heart. I married a former atheist myself after he reverted to Islam. It is possible but she has to trust in Allâh :)

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@xoOoBunnyoOox
      Yeah after .
      Don't commit sin and mention the Lords name

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said .
      It's all nonsense

    • @xoOoBunnyoOox
      @xoOoBunnyoOox หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@noreenbi9079 of course! FIRST he has to revert. Read closely that’s what I said. I married AFTER he reverted, meaning first he became Muslim and after that we married. Before talking about sin learn to read properly my fellow brother or sister in faith.

    • @noreenbi9079
      @noreenbi9079 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@xoOoBunnyoOox
      I can read properly but the person in this video is not talking about a revert .
      Stick 2 ur own people .

  • @sarhiar8166
    @sarhiar8166 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’m surprised they didn’t mention to simply state the facts to him. “You know I am a Muslim woman and you have Muslim friends, so I hope you are aware and if you are not I only intend to “date” to marry and only marry a Muslim man.” And basically continue saying that you have an interest but would only like to continue if he is serious both in her and Islam.

  • @spiceofthat
    @spiceofthat ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Been in this situation except he was Christian. Sis it’s not worth your iman dropping, drop him while you can!! I was in love and nothing good came out of the situation he ended up beefing me anyway LOOOL

  • @ht3905
    @ht3905 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I enjoyed this message a lot and had the same reactions as you guys. It's so sad that this story is probably not gonna have a happy ending and moving on is gonna be really hard on her but I just wish her all the best

  • @Zancity6666
    @Zancity6666 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The 2nd scenario is so difficult!! I think if she explains her new practices and why she does them (eg donating to charity and showing her parents that Islam requires you to, fasting Ramadan to heal the body and empathise with the poor) their hearts will open to Islam inshallah

  • @Ines-wu9lt
    @Ines-wu9lt ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Salam alaikoum ❤️ I would add some thoughts to this. Everybody is telling her to just forget about him and live her life, but she could also talk to him about religion to see if he's genuinely interested so maybe she could guide him to someone else to learn about Islam. Then she could decide maybe more wisely if he can fit her because yes she can't wait that he reverts until the end of times . But he may stay in her mind for a long time so maybe she could try something like this if she can speak with once or twice.
    May God protect you sis and bring you ease ❤

  • @PositiveWomenTV
    @PositiveWomenTV ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get."

  • @shahminahil9578
    @shahminahil9578 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like chances r high of him reverting since he is inyerested in islam. I hope he reverts. I am saying this for his good akhirah not just becaus ehe can marry her. If the guys proposes. She should openly tell him. The farther this crushing goes the harder its gonna be to move on if he does not become a muslim.

  • @prroneiaparrapiofictions4797
    @prroneiaparrapiofictions4797 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think it's better to stay away. Cause then it'll be too late to let go if she gets too close and he won't turn to Allah. So i know finding a gentleman is hard. But i hope she gets a gentleman who is Muslim and tru to her ❤❤

  • @MuhammadIbrahim-el9pi
    @MuhammadIbrahim-el9pi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Fear Allah and cut all communication a Muslim women can not be with a kafir if she is married the nikah is invalid

  • @adila2442
    @adila2442 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    First story sounds like a romantic novel reading it. May Allah give her a good muslim husband inshallah. No guarantees he would convert.

  • @Ahmad67475
    @Ahmad67475 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m smiling so hard ❤ also arms, especially forearms 😍
    But yeah she needs to leave it where it is, as tough as it may be. This situation can be so harmful emotionally. If it is meant to be, it will be by the will of Allah.

  • @samiramohamud3411
    @samiramohamud3411 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a submission 👏

  • @korruptnovellst4751
    @korruptnovellst4751 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How can you say you 'love love' but then say dont pursue love because hes not muslim?

  • @B_muslim
    @B_muslim หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HE WANTS HER SOO BADDD
    However unless he seems like he’s into Islam nothing should truly develop

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not the arm girl 😅😂

  • @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ปีที่แล้ว

    Good advice!

  • @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ohhh Kaltun r u married congrats

  • @araksanrobleh4031
    @araksanrobleh4031 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I died 😂😂😂 ilhay ha naqabto anako lana qaboo

  • @iqranuur2362
    @iqranuur2362 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was best if she stopped much earlier before feelings were involved but since that didn't happen she can learn from this incident. Maybe Allah swt has written for her a guy much better then him who is fully halal. Or maybe he is written for her and he will become muslim. She should leave him for the sake of Allah because this relationship will only earn the displeasure of Allah. In the end she should put her trust in Allah and let his plan go accordingly.
    "But Perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you and Allah knows what you know not".

  • @meer1060
    @meer1060 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I watch first time u video look good. I m Mir taimur from Karachi Pakistan

  • @IbrahimHoldsForth
    @IbrahimHoldsForth ปีที่แล้ว

    im so lonely

    • @May-nu9vv
      @May-nu9vv ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry to hear! Things will get better insha Allah

    • @daganomer3877
      @daganomer3877 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don’t forget you have allah, in sha allah all your problems will soon fade away 🤲🏽

  • @missmessi
    @missmessi ปีที่แล้ว

    😬😶

  • @GokuBlack-sn5dr
    @GokuBlack-sn5dr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    these two are laughing and giggling and saying this is cute when they should be giving clear advice which is to avoid freemixing and dont work a job that has the opposite sex.

    • @sihamhajji2010
      @sihamhajji2010 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Goku Black I believe you’re an extremist like ISIS, Boko Haram and Al Qaeda where does it say in the Quran and Sunnah that you cannot work with the opposite sex. Let me ask you this question, do you ride the bus with women?

    • @mdafridi3442
      @mdafridi3442 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude i dnt know why these individuals opposing and saying free mixing is haram

    • @korruptnovellst4751
      @korruptnovellst4751 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂

    • @shahee6579
      @shahee6579 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nafs