This was such a breakthrough for me!! Seriously, highly recommend trying to conquer your own fashion fears and trying those styles you’ve put off as “not for you”, because they ARE for you!! You can do it! 💕💕
Hey Sierra just want to say been subscribed for quite a few years and want to compliment you. I know im a bunch of your old videos you would say I don’t like big T-shirts or something because they are unflattering. But lately you have been saying it’s not what I would like it’s feels unflattering to me. Which really shows growth that you see different people prefer different things! Love you and will always support you 🥰 💚💚💚
If there’s anything that proves that fashion “rules” are ridiculous, it’s that loose-fitting, white/horizontal striped t-shirt dress that looks just adorable and effortless on you (I think the length was perfect which made it look cute and sassy rather than shapeless). I thought everything you wore looked great!
A very powerful lesson I learned from a friend was "you live a lot freer when you realize no one gives a shit about you", not in a mean way, but in a "that stranger on the train probably could not care less about what size my pants are" way.
Yes ma'am. I preferred it to the t-shirt dress just cuz it looked flattering because I love a confident person owning their shape. It literally just looked great in her... Of course being comfy is important too!!
Amanda That style is coming back though..it’s mostly worn in the style called ‘y2k’. Lots of tiktokers are styling low rise jeans with crop tops more often, and they actually look really good! They pull it off effortlessly.
I always love how supportive Steven is. I got choked up over you saying “if only my insecurities were as simple as my husband saying they look fine. Then I’d have no insecurities.” It’s beautiful to have someone who just loves you no matter what and always thinks you’re beautiful 💕
The thing that opened my eyes about how I talk about myself was when I was trying on bathing suits with my daughter (who is only 11 months) in the dressing room. I would never say or want to hear herself say those things about her, so why would I allow myself to say mean things about me and my body?
I have 2 young girls, 6 and 8 and I NEVER belittle my body in front of them. It’s been a hard thing to stop doing but they will jiggle my belly or ask why my thigh is bumpy (cellulite) and I just say “mommy’s fat”. Not in a derogatory way, ever. Just “this is what my body shape is and I’m ok with it” kind of way. I already see media teaching them things I HATE and I just pray I never add to it. You’re doing the best thing you can for that baby! ♥️
@Ashley Buchanan Definitely! My grandmother talks like that and I have to remind her that she's perfect the way she is, especially because she's around my daughter when she says it
Hearing you say that your insecurities were highest when you were “thinner” and obsessing over your body was so validating. Sometimes it’s hard to explain that if I hyper focus on my body and losing weight it makes me hate my body even more because I’m constantly comparing it to some better “future me” which doesn’t exist
I thought it was because she was not wearing makeup that let her natural color pop instead of getting the pop from makeup. Maybe she will let us know. :)
Giiiirl, why’d you have to talk about and love Savage X Fenty??? Since I’ve gained weight I haven’t purchased any sexy or comfortable bras or lingerie... Well, an hour of browsing later I have 13 items en route. Thank you for always being amazing and helping spread confidence. ❤️
If I didn't know this was a "fashion fear" video, I would've thought this was just a "what I wore in a week" video. You looked great in every single one of those outfits! You can rock anything!
I really resonated with what you said about being the smallest size you've ever been and at the smallest self esteem at the same time. I feel like people associate skinny with happy, and that just isn't always the case.
Vi Jay omg yes ! I have been naturally thin all my life and friends say they wish they could be as skinny as me but it honestly isn’t all that glamorous. I have insecurities too and would love to gain weight but it is very hard for me.
Honestly this video made me cry. I’m realizing how often I stand looking at myself in the mirror telling my body “I wish you were different.” Even amidst other people, I find myself thinking “wow she’s tiny, why can’t I look like that?” It puts this barrier in my mind that prevents me from truly experiencing the joy of being present with people I love. Seeing you jump around the pool with your husband and just the joy and freedom you had where a barrier like that is not there got me real choked up.
Oh my god that makes me sad. I really hope you can overcome that soon. I mean insecurities are normal, but they should never stop you from having fun with the peolple you love...because they also love you thats why they are in your life...and they love as you are..so there s no need to hide from them
Story time: I started modeling about a year ago. Yesterday, I worked with a photographer who was SO GREAT! Before we started shooting, the photographer asked me what I was insecure about. His mentality was that if we take a beautiful picture, he doesn't want me getting fixated on one aspect or a certain way part of my body looks. And he told me, "I know this won't change how you feel or see yourself, but you are beautiful and we're gonna make some amazing art today." It was just so great to have a photographer level with me and meet me at where I'm at in my -body confidence journey.- And he was right, we did create some stunning images!
Wow that's awesome. Can you help me to start getting into modeling, like do you have any Tips? I'm an amateur and I think it's pretty expensive to create a portfolio right?
Hearing "your body is not a problem area, it is a vessel that houses your soul" hit me SO HARD ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THANK YOU SIERRA for being a real role model and sharing these vulnerabilities with us to empower others too ❤️
Sierra: talks about not shaving her armpit and not caring Also Sierra: lifts arm and there’s nothing there Me who has naturally dark pigmented armpit area: 🥺 no fair
I feel like people (including me) need to understand that feeling "insecure" is different than feeling "uncomfortable". She may have concord the "strapless" insecurity, but that doesn't mean she is going to wear all strapless swim suits all the time. Not wearing crop tops does NOT mean you are insecure about your body, you just might not be comfortable showing that much skin. love your body, but don't feel like you need to wear, and be comfortable, in all of those things to prove it.💖💖💖
Yes!! I also feel like there's something else I don't really know the word for. I love short skirts and shorts and how they look on my body but I don't feel comfortable wearing them out of the house because of practical reasons and because I'm a teacher in a small community so I worry about my professionalism being questioned.
Interesting! I feel similarly about strapless swimsuits. I genuinely would be popping out some full on boob if I wore that swimsuit to the beach/pool (it has happened). I'm not insecure about that part of my body, just don't want everyone privy to it! haha
Hahaha Stephen making it “very clear!” How much he liked your dress 😅👀! It made me laugh thinking about how some of my husbands favorite clothes on me are usually things I am insecure in! Love a supportive partner who makes us feel our best 🤍
Oh my gosh, me too! Anyone have a wall of inspirational quotes and images in high school? This needs to very large and central on one of those! 💜💜💜💜😢😆😁 all the feels!
Low waisted jeans are just so uncomfortable though, would just feel like I was flashing by butt crack every time I sat down! maybe low waisted soft pants would be better
I grew up mixed Japanese, and when lacy style ‘kimonos’ became trendy in the US, I remember being so frustrated that they were called that. Not even offended, just confused...because that’s not what a kimono is? So it’s really nice to hear someone address that.
That’s a massive relief to me. I have some sort of speaking problem, and certain words are just major tongue twisters for me when I try to use them in a sentence. “Kimono” is one of those words, and I wear those little cardigan wraps all the time, so when I first heard them be called that, I was alarmed 😅
THIS VIDEO. wow. Sierra, I watched this once and then had my mom watch it with me. We have had so many discussions about fashion standards for midsize(me) and plus size(mom) body types and have definitely created some of these fashion fears. your constant reassurance and reminders that this is a process but that "your body isn't a problem area" legitimately made my mom tear up. We actually decided together that we would go shopping (our first time out of the house) for some new clothes for college that will make me feel confident style wise, not just fit wise. I actually got a few oversized tees (that I am SO excited about), a really cute white linen button down shirt (super similar to the ones you like to wear) and some other things which came directly from this video... Thank you for sharing such a positive message on your platform, I applaud you for this video and everything you have done to make all of your fans self-confidence journeys a little less lonely. I hope you, your husband, your family and your team are all doing well during this crazy time.
As someone old enough to have worn low-rise jeans every day in the early 00s, I can confirm that this was a very real concern, particularly when sitting on bar stools. And people deliberately wore thongs that peeped above the waistband.
“If only my insecurities were as easy as my husband saying I look fine, then I’d have no insecurities.” Omg same. Also, low rise pants would be great to wear to dinners or movies. Ya know, if those ever come back. I have to say, even though you are mostly at home but still wear real clothes during the day is crazy. Like, awesome crazy. I think I’m going to try that more.
I remember back when I was at my lowest confidence point, I used to wear high waisted skinny jeans with a loose graphic tee on top, not tucked in or anything. And I'd think it looks ok like that but it was showing my body too much so I'd wear an oversized flannel on top untied. Throughout the day, I'd feel more and more insecure especially because when I'm walking the flannel wouldn't be covering me as much because of the wind. I'd end up tying up all the buttons on the flannel and I can't believe I used to do that because it looked extra bad like that but all I wanted was to disappear. I had that same outfit every day in slight colour variations. It hurts me to know that I felt that way during those 2-3 years of high school, I was so beautiful and my body was perfectly normal. Today I wear crop tops and short shorts and I love my body on most days. Thank you Sierra for helping us all through our own journeys by letting us see yours
I really related to that. I wore tights under everything, even shorts and pants. I never ever thought I was beautiful and I still don’t, if I can hide my legs I always will.
@@vintagelover2211 I'm sorry to hear that, I really hope you can learn to love your body and be comfortable with it. I already know you're beautiful no matter how you look. You should follow influencers who look like you on Instagram and youtube, that really helped me. At some point, you get tired of hiding and missing out.
Hi Sierra! I have 2 video ideas I’d be interested in: The first is you trying youtuber workouts. I love doing them but sometimes they seem to be targeted towards smaller people. The second is you wearing/styling more professional clothes. While I love your style, I wouldn’t be able to wear most of it at work (teacher). Thanks!
or like job interview/work meeting outfits. I use to go into the office before covid and would wear the same business casual cardigan blouse and either black or wide leg pants.
i’ve lived in japan for a long time and personally i’ve never met someone who would be very mad or offended at how you’ve used kimono, but i love love the thoughtfulness!💖 you’re my fav
I see what you mean. In general, japanese people who never lived outside of japan get excited whenever they see foreigners use our words, but people who lived abroad and know about cultural appropriation get offended. I personally felt annoyed whenever someone said kimono, because 99% they're not talking about japanese kimono, but I got used to it. Now I can see that it's alright to use the word as you don't have the intention of disrespecting our culture. Knowing she didn't mean to disrespect our culture in her former videos, I thought her thoughtfulness was so respectful of her. Always a thoughtful queen.
I had someone call me racist for calling a kimono a kimono. I asked my friend who is Japanese and I asked my cousin’s wife who was born and raised in Japan what they thought about it. My cousin’s wife wasn’t offended by it and didn’t see the issue. My friend said “that’s what they’re called. If we’re talking about a Japanese kimono I’d say “traditional kimono’.” They both wear kimonos and call them kimonos because “that’s what they’re called.”
There are so many things that, as a really pale midsize girl, i “can’t wear” because of my body. Seeing you face your fashion fears makes me feel so confident and makes me wanna wear everything I haven’t been confident enough to wear!! Especially since I’m not going anywhere. Maybe just wearing it around the house will make me feel confident to be able to go out and wear those items!!
Girl don't let anyone tell you what you cannot wear! You are beautiful inside and out don't let some silly number on a waist band keep you from feeling confident and fresh! You are beautiful don't forget that :)
Ya know, I didnt expect to be this inspired about my insecurities oR the clothing choices, but I'm totally okay with it. I'm kinda mid size and DEFINITELY fluctuating with this quarantine, so my insecurities have been crawling back. I'm kinda in and out of the "I like myself so everything has to show my waist" and the "pls dont look" parts, so seeing these, like the body con and low rise, it's just really nice. And everything you say is not only genuine and heart warming, but it's nice to hear someone with experience. Thanks Sierra ❤
Right! Just about everything looks great on an hour glass. I'm an extreme pear, straight size on top and plus size on the bottom, it's insanely difficult to find outfits that flatter my figure.
I loved your comment about not shaving even when wearing a tank top because it's a personal choice! For so long, thought my underarm hair was disgusting, but slowly, I've been letting it go more if I'm wearing a tank top. Overall, I do enjoy shaving for myself, so I will probably never stop fully, but I don't need to shave every single day just because it's hot outside!
I loved to see Stevens reaction to the dress. Seeing your husband encourage you really helps me convince myself that if I were to wear stuff like that my husband would do the same thing
At 11:47 she said “and I added in” but it sounded like she said “I edited in this little denim hair scarf” and I was just like *YOUR EDITOR MUST BE GOOD*
The bodycon dress portion made me wanna cry because it made me remember being at war with my mind and my body. Loved that you preached you are not gonna say or think bad things about your body, gonna take that inspo!
I so appreciate that you refer to "your insecurities" rather than "problem areas" or something that is more commonly used but super damaging language! The little things matter, so thank you 💖
I loved the whole video, but something that really stuck out to me was during the first outfit, when you said that you’d prefer some more arm coverage, and that, while that desire is not out of insecurity, it’s just your preference and that’s okay! I think that is important to share too, because not everybody likes to have everything showing. I appreciated how you were trying to get it across that it’s okay to not like a style or lack of coverage on yourself and it *does not* have to be about a confidence issue.
I’ve had a really rough body image week this week, I’ve spent hours every day not being about to stop thinking about my body, I’ve undereaten and felt guilty for eating, and I haven’t even been able to look in the mirror without getting super upset- I even didn’t brush my teeth one night because I couldn’t handle having to look in the mirror of 2 minutes. This video made me feel much better- just like your channel always does. It’s so helpful to realize that everyone has insecurities and I don’t care about everyone else’s body, so odds are they don’t care about mine.
Oh my god! Don’t starve yourself! It’s really tempting sometimes, but all it does is harm you. I hope you feel better in the future! I support you and I *know* you’re beautiful.
Livua Joonstoon smoothies are my go to “guilt free” food when I’m having a bad day and don’t want to eat, mine is more appetite (or lack there of) issues than body image but they’re so fresh and good I love
I'm surprised that crop tops are an insecurity but I guess I understand. It took me a while to get to wearing them but now they're one of my favorite things to wear. I think it's so flattering on my body to wear a tight crop top with bigger, flowy pants or shorts. I encourage you all to try a crop top!!
@Kara Hoffman don't let that stop you. I do too and I became way happier when I stopped letting things like that stop me from doing what I want. I also understand it's hard and I really don't want to make it sound simpler than it is
A fashion fear for me is jeans because even though they are super cute and a staple for my aesthetic, they make me feel chubbier because they tend to feel tighter which makes me feel like I’m “too big” to look good in them. This video inspired me to try and conquer my fear and I realised it’s not really that bad and I actually look pretty cute in them! Thanks sierra 💛
You’re silhouette actually looks so flawless with the low rise jeans. That’s coming from someone who also only wears high rise stuff lol. Idk why maybe the jeans you got were really flattering but they actually look amazing on you
It will be a cold day in hell before I go back to low-rise. Though the ones you wore weren't THAT low. I was imagining those "hip huggers" I think they were called 🤔 where the fly was like 1" and they sat right at the top of the buttcrack 🤣
Seriously the low rise of the early 00s hit like a half inch above the pubic mound, always has to yank them up after three steps while walking so annoying
I love the way you worded this! How these things are what you hate or don’t like but what you’re working on LOVING and not fixing and it just makes these videos even better❤️
I LOVE THIS!!!!! This made me think of clothing fears I had - sleeveless tops, dresses, tube tops, anything that exposed my shoulders, wide arms, & wider chest area. I always covered it with cardigans until I tried on a cute tank top and realized I look really good just the way I was. Or wearing shorts, feeling so self concious about my cellulite after I gained a lot of weight within these past years. I can definitely relate to your video and will be something I can look at back. Your videos are amazing and really has gotten me back to loving myself now as a size 29 now compared to when I was a size 25-27 years back. Love u so much
first of all, i LOVE the natural makeup look you've been rocking. that natural beauty is POPPING!! second, that first crop top especially is SO cute on you. i love how you styled it with the pants! your videos always inspire me and i've really enjoyed watching this one unfold on instagram too 💕 i personally find sleeveless tops physically uncomfortable haha. i don't mind showing my shoulders, i just find tee shirts soooo much more comfy than sleeveless tops!
The relationship she has with her husband is so cute🥺🥺
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I just got some new stretch marks on my body and I'm having a hard time dealing with them. I tried to find some content about how stretch marks are okay and normal, just to make myself feel better or whatever, but it's just so hard! All the videos I can find are of people telling me how to get rid of strech marks. Idk, just a suggestion of a topic you could touch in some future video, because the internet is definetly lacking some positive content about this.
Feijões Mágicos I get you. I got some new ones on my inner thighs and especially in summer I feel like people are looking at them/ judging them because they’re sooo dark
I think stretch marks are marks of a goddess, not only does show women good but they are absolutely stunning. 💛 your beautiful, it’s pointless to not love every bit of you :))
I never understood the chat around stretch marks and how to remove them, because to me they're just like scars and I've never felt insecure about a scar. Bodies grow and change, and it's all natural. Most people are more worried about their own insecurities than others', and if they're not they're truly not worth your time. If it helps, I have a lot of stretch marks and I've been asked what they are and how I got them, but no one has ever said anything mean to me or made me feel bad about having them. In fact, they often end up telling me they have a bunch of them themselves.
If you have ever seen Barbie in a mermaid tail 2, she gets these awesome arm decorations to showcase strength and all and that’s how I see stretch marks, they beautiful
What you said about feeling like you need outfits that always compliment your body shape well is so real to me!! I struggle with the same exact thing: I have a big chest and wide hips, so I always feel like I need something that really brings out my waist in order to feel like I look good even if it’s not comfy or practical for me. Thank you for helping me reflect on this ❤️
how i keep calm is remembering “everyone is just as concerned with themselves as you are with yourself, that they’re probably not even thinking about you” but anyways that first one is THE CUTEST THING IVE EVER SEEN 😍 & you 100% made me feel better about myself 🥺🥺
It always bothered me that people referred to loose wraps and shawls as a kimono. It is so nice to see an influencer actually realise and correct this.
Only halfway through and I love how you pull everything off. I carry most of my weight in my stomach and it protrudes out more so I definitely will always be afraid of wearing ANY type of crop top, anything extremely tight, and especially bodycon dresses w/o shape wear.
I don't shave my armpits anymore I just "cut" the hair with my boyfriends hair buzzer because everytime I shaved them it was so itchy growing back that I (in my sleep) scratched myself bloody, but I just kept on shaving anyway because "that's what you are supposed to do" until my boyfriend told me to just stop if it caused me pain afterwards. So now I rock my Tanktops and sleeveless dresses with only "buzzed" armpits. Also regarding the skin tight tanktop / crop top I stuggle with it but kinda "force" myself to wear it and just repeat to myself it isn't something bad if people can guess where my belly button is underneath, it's not like they don't have one of their own anyway so🤷♀️
I just burst out laughing with “ohh you wear them really high ... up to here” 😂😂😂😂my husband says the same thing “you wear them like turtle necks” 😂😂🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I especially loved that in this video we get to see your body moving in the clothes, doing normal daily things because our bodies look different posed and just from the front than all around if that makes sense. Anyway, love this video
Even though it makes me feel like such an old lady saying this... I am so proud of you girls! I wish I could have allowed myself to feel confident in my 20s. I love watching your channel because I want to make sure my daughter (15) grows up to be as confident and secure about her body as you are. It’s not about not having fears, but about conquering them. 💖
Love how you included comments each time, and it was surprising to see people being really insecure no matter their size or shape... Really interesting ! And definitely inspires me to push myself out more.
I shave my armpits maybe once a month and I don’t care if people see. It took me awhile to accept my body hair but if I don’t feel like shaving I won’t.
I’m the exact same! At first my husband was like woah what’s all that hair but after awhile it became “normal” so now I only shave my body unless I feel like it. That goes for other parts of my body too!
I have hip dips and always thought that most high waisted pants make my butt look long, but low rise stop right at the dip and look natural on me. I didn't even realize that it was my hips till I realized that other people look good in high waisted pants. (High skirts are great because they hug my hips differently. Pencil skirts are one of my favorite things!)
This video (and all your videos, really) have been slowly helping me accept my body. I have medication induced weight gain, and a sort of extreme postpartum body and it means the world to me that you upload these messages. Thank you SO so much you’re an absolute ANGEL 💖
I saw Sierra in the bodycon dress and I gasped... it just looks so amazing on her! Thank you Sierra for showing us bigger girls that we can rock anything and for pushing yourself outside of the norm, and encouraging us to do the same. Thanks so much! Love you
Me this whole video: Sierra looks so hot what is she talking about?! Me when I try to wear these things: nope nope nope I have some work to do lol. Thanks for always pushing me to love myself more!
Joined the Savage X Fenty VIP monthly membership program a couple months ago when I first heard talk about them! So glad I did! Not only do they cute things in all the sizes they also have a fantastic customer service department. Ordered wrong sizes for my first order and they exchanged them so easily, quickly and with no hesitation! Thank you Sierra and Savage X Fenty!
To my fellow early 90’s kids. We all remember this one! Everyone: let’s make a high waist super skinny jeans and call it a trend We: Panicking holding our extra low, flared jeans Everyone now: let go low rise and flared would be cool We: noooooo don’t bring back the embarrassment of your buttcrack showing :D ;)
Honestly Sierra, this is the best video you’ve ever made and one of the best videos I’ve watched in awhile. This is my favorite kind of content and I really wish there was more of this message spread around for others to see. Everyone should feel like they can wear whatever they want to wear. (as long as it’s not a swastika or confederate symbol..duh...) More people should feel confident about themselves, see their value and worth by remembering you are not a number on a scale or the size of your clothes, but a person with a heart and personality. Also you and Steven are adorable! I hope you and your family are happy and living your best lives!
Honestly, your body confidence and positivity is literal goals for me! You radiate such confidence and you rock everything you wear. Will never regret the day I stumbled across your channel because you brighten up my day every time I watch your videos! 💞
I love your attitude and appreciate you not allowing other's negative comments or opinions to get to you! I have items I would love to wear such as crop tops, but I am too self-conscious. Love your attitude and it is very inspirational!
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This was such a breakthrough for me!! Seriously, highly recommend trying to conquer your own fashion fears and trying those styles you’ve put off as “not for you”, because they ARE for you!! You can do it! 💕💕
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I love this video so much! 🙌🏼😭💕
love this sierra!! you deff got me into wearing hollister mom jeans which I never thought & could pull off 💜💜
Hey Sierra just want to say been subscribed for quite a few years and want to compliment you. I know im a bunch of your old videos you would say I don’t like big T-shirts or something because they are unflattering. But lately you have been saying it’s not what I would like it’s feels unflattering to me. Which really shows growth that you see different people prefer different things! Love you and will always support you 🥰 💚💚💚
If there’s anything that proves that fashion “rules” are ridiculous, it’s that loose-fitting, white/horizontal striped t-shirt dress that looks just adorable and effortless on you (I think the length was perfect which made it look cute and sassy rather than shapeless). I thought everything you wore looked great!
I like Steven, “I can’t even tell”. We all need to remember that is what EVERYONE is actually thinking.
A very powerful lesson I learned from a friend was "you live a lot freer when you realize no one gives a shit about you", not in a mean way, but in a "that stranger on the train probably could not care less about what size my pants are" way.
Melissa Stephan this^^
Yes ma'am. I preferred it to the t-shirt dress just cuz it looked flattering because I love a confident person owning their shape. It literally just looked great in her... Of course being comfy is important too!!
Hard mode: super short tank top crop top WITH low rise pants. I call it the 2003 Paris Hilton challenge
Let's add silver eyeshadow while we're at it!
NOOOOOO WE MUST NEVER GO BACK 😂
Amanda That style is coming back though..it’s mostly worn in the style called ‘y2k’. Lots of tiktokers are styling low rise jeans with crop tops more often, and they actually look really good! They pull it off effortlessly.
@@cert1fiedoffender because they're mostly skinny hahaha
Yeah but she did not need a stomach to balance her brain out 😜
I always love how supportive Steven is. I got choked up over you saying “if only my insecurities were as simple as my husband saying they look fine. Then I’d have no insecurities.” It’s beautiful to have someone who just loves you no matter what and always thinks you’re beautiful 💕
This has bare minimum Twitter vibes 😂
The thing that opened my eyes about how I talk about myself was when I was trying on bathing suits with my daughter (who is only 11 months) in the dressing room. I would never say or want to hear herself say those things about her, so why would I allow myself to say mean things about me and my body?
I have 2 young girls, 6 and 8 and I NEVER belittle my body in front of them. It’s been a hard thing to stop doing but they will jiggle my belly or ask why my thigh is bumpy (cellulite) and I just say “mommy’s fat”. Not in a derogatory way, ever. Just “this is what my body shape is and I’m ok with it” kind of way. I already see media teaching them things I HATE and I just pray I never add to it. You’re doing the best thing you can for that baby! ♥️
@Ashley Buchanan Definitely! My grandmother talks like that and I have to remind her that she's perfect the way she is, especially because she's around my daughter when she says it
Hearing you say that your insecurities were highest when you were “thinner” and obsessing over your body was so validating. Sometimes it’s hard to explain that if I hyper focus on my body and losing weight it makes me hate my body even more because I’m constantly comparing it to some better “future me” which doesn’t exist
Is it just me or are Sierra's eyes looking extra gorgeous in this vid...
They look extra gorgeous in every vid😂❤️❤️
yeah its cuz she has on eyeshadow
i think its the eyeliner on the bottom waterline
I thought the same thing!
I thought it was because she was not wearing makeup that let her natural color pop instead of getting the pop from makeup. Maybe she will let us know. :)
I normally never wear dresses because I try to hide my back rolls and my arms but today I said WHO CARES and wore the dress and I feel great!
Proud sis right here😪😊❤
I hope you'll start wearing dresses! I think they look great on everyone....also NO PANTS!!!!
“Your body is not a problem area”
I love that! ❤️
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Giiiirl, why’d you have to talk about and love Savage X Fenty??? Since I’ve gained weight I haven’t purchased any sexy or comfortable bras or lingerie... Well, an hour of browsing later I have 13 items en route.
Thank you for always being amazing and helping spread confidence. ❤️
If I didn't know this was a "fashion fear" video, I would've thought this was just a "what I wore in a week" video. You looked great in every single one of those outfits! You can rock anything!
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I really resonated with what you said about being the smallest size you've ever been and at the smallest self esteem at the same time. I feel like people associate skinny with happy, and that just isn't always the case.
Vi Jay omg yes ! I have been naturally thin all my life and friends say they wish they could be as skinny as me but it honestly isn’t all that glamorous. I have insecurities too and would love to gain weight but it is very hard for me.
Also video idea: trying early 2000s trends, such as dresses with jeans, boot cut jeans, halter tops, platform sandals etc💖
Yesss
DRESSES WITH JEANS omg I forgot about that!
Yesss
Also, peasant blouses, babydoll tops, velour jumpsuits, SHORT shorts and still at that time lots of skater-inspired clothing.
Yess!
Honestly this video made me cry. I’m realizing how often I stand looking at myself in the mirror telling my body “I wish you were different.” Even amidst other people, I find myself thinking “wow she’s tiny, why can’t I look like that?” It puts this barrier in my mind that prevents me from truly experiencing the joy of being present with people I love. Seeing you jump around the pool with your husband and just the joy and freedom you had where a barrier like that is not there got me real choked up.
Oh my god that makes me sad. I really hope you can overcome that soon. I mean insecurities are normal, but they should never stop you from having fun with the peolple you love...because they also love you thats why they are in your life...and they love as you are..so there s no need to hide from them
Jenny Goodman I feel similar. This put my feelings into words. Thank you.
Jenny Goodman you’re so gorgeous and nothing will change that. I hope you defeat those insecurities queen
I feel the same way you do 😞
Story time: I started modeling about a year ago. Yesterday, I worked with a photographer who was SO GREAT! Before we started shooting, the photographer asked me what I was insecure about. His mentality was that if we take a beautiful picture, he doesn't want me getting fixated on one aspect or a certain way part of my body looks. And he told me, "I know this won't change how you feel or see yourself, but you are beautiful and we're gonna make some amazing art today." It was just so great to have a photographer level with me and meet me at where I'm at in my -body confidence journey.- And he was right, we did create some stunning images!
Wow that's awesome. Can you help me to start getting into modeling, like do you have any Tips? I'm an amateur and I think it's pretty expensive to create a portfolio right?
@@etiniel2971 do you have IG?
@@Joy314k yes @alicen.nimue
Hearing "your body is not a problem area, it is a vessel that houses your soul" hit me SO HARD ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ THANK YOU SIERRA for being a real role model and sharing these vulnerabilities with us to empower others too ❤️
“That time was called high school and I do not wanna go back”😂😂
Saaaame 😂 😂
God I feel it... just seeing the low rise jeans gave me anxiety
I literally said “same girl” at that moment
Mathilde amen
One more time for the people in the back
SHAVING👏IS👏A👏PERSONAL👏CHOICE👏
Love you Sierra💕💕
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Absolutely, I’m chilling with my unshaven legs and LOVING IT
Definitely agree with this one!!
👏👏 yes!! I almost never shave. It's so much effort. And totally not necessary.
Me personally cannot stand unshaved armpit and chipped nail polish ... everyone is having different preferences
Sierra: talks about not shaving her armpit and not caring
Also Sierra: lifts arm and there’s nothing there
Me who has naturally dark pigmented armpit area: 🥺 no fair
Same 😰
Honestly, her armpits are so pretty😅
Same 😂 😂 I really dislike the way my armpits look, no matter if I shaved them or not. But good for her to feel this comfortable.
My asian genes screams "SAME"
Edit: any of yall have a good recommendation armpit care? Leaving this here in case someone knows.
sameee
Stephen's reaction to the body con dress was so sweet! His little kiss when y'all were playing the game 😻 y'all are goals
He was INNNTOOo it
The girl who said “a bish could never” to low rise jeans..... SAME GIRL,same 😭😂
I feel like people (including me) need to understand that feeling "insecure" is different than feeling "uncomfortable". She may have concord the "strapless" insecurity, but that doesn't mean she is going to wear all strapless swim suits all the time. Not wearing crop tops does NOT mean you are insecure about your body, you just might not be comfortable showing that much skin. love your body, but don't feel like you need to wear, and be comfortable, in all of those things to prove it.💖💖💖
Yes!! I also feel like there's something else I don't really know the word for. I love short skirts and shorts and how they look on my body but I don't feel comfortable wearing them out of the house because of practical reasons and because I'm a teacher in a small community so I worry about my professionalism being questioned.
I think you might have means conquered... Sorry if I am being annoying but it was just bugging me. It's no biggie though 😊
Victoria Bush Maybe you just want to dress more modestly? I think that is maybe the word you are looking for 🤷🏻♀️ idk...
Interesting! I feel similarly about strapless swimsuits. I genuinely would be popping out some full on boob if I wore that swimsuit to the beach/pool (it has happened). I'm not insecure about that part of my body, just don't want everyone privy to it! haha
@@Upper_echelon_exotics haha, oops! 😭😂
Hahaha Stephen making it “very clear!” How much he liked your dress 😅👀! It made me laugh thinking about how some of my husbands favorite clothes on me are usually things I am insecure in! Love a supportive partner who makes us feel our best 🤍
Omgsh same. He loves loves me wearing sleavless dresses and show my arms. And I'm so insecure about it. Gotta love supportive spouses. 💗
That cracked me up.
“Your body is one cohesive unit that houses your soul” 🥺❤️
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Idk why but, it made me tear up when she said that 😢
Oh my gosh, me too! Anyone have a wall of inspirational quotes and images in high school? This needs to very large and central on one of those! 💜💜💜💜😢😆😁 all the feels!
I love how these aren’t insecurities that only plus size women deal with. Great video as always 💙
Low waisted jeans are just so uncomfortable though, would just feel like I was flashing by butt crack every time I sat down! maybe low waisted soft pants would be better
For reaaLll
Yeah same... I have super narrow hips so I have trouble getting my pants to stay up anyway lol
I grew up mixed Japanese, and when lacy style ‘kimonos’ became trendy in the US, I remember being so frustrated that they were called that. Not even offended, just confused...because that’s not what a kimono is? So it’s really nice to hear someone address that.
That’s a massive relief to me. I have some sort of speaking problem, and certain words are just major tongue twisters for me when I try to use them in a sentence. “Kimono” is one of those words, and I wear those little cardigan wraps all the time, so when I first heard them be called that, I was alarmed 😅
The “you don’t have to shave” psa in the middle gave me LIFE
Literally made me wanna cryyyy 🥺❤️❤️
THIS VIDEO. wow. Sierra, I watched this once and then had my mom watch it with me. We have had so many discussions about fashion standards for midsize(me) and plus size(mom) body types and have definitely created some of these fashion fears. your constant reassurance and reminders that this is a process but that "your body isn't a problem area" legitimately made my mom tear up. We actually decided together that we would go shopping (our first time out of the house) for some new clothes for college that will make me feel confident style wise, not just fit wise. I actually got a few oversized tees (that I am SO excited about), a really cute white linen button down shirt (super similar to the ones you like to wear) and some other things which came directly from this video... Thank you for sharing such a positive message on your platform, I applaud you for this video and everything you have done to make all of your fans self-confidence journeys a little less lonely. I hope you, your husband, your family and your team are all doing well during this crazy time.
Does anyone else have the concern wearing Lowrise pants that when you sit your butt crack is just out for the world to see ? No just me ? 😂
Literally was searching for this comment, I can’t do low rise otherwise half my butt is hanging over the top lol
Same!! I’m so concerned for them to come back in style because I never want to go back 🤣
As someone old enough to have worn low-rise jeans every day in the early 00s, I can confirm that this was a very real concern, particularly when sitting on bar stools. And people deliberately wore thongs that peeped above the waistband.
Nea Myers yes also on the white clothing thing I am insecure about spilling stuff on white clothes lol
Girl!! Even if I’m standing, my booty is not covered! I’m a mid rise girl for sure!
“If only my insecurities were as easy as my husband saying I look fine, then I’d have no insecurities.” Omg same.
Also, low rise pants would be great to wear to dinners or movies. Ya know, if those ever come back.
I have to say, even though you are mostly at home but still wear real clothes during the day is crazy. Like, awesome crazy. I think I’m going to try that more.
I remember back when I was at my lowest confidence point, I used to wear high waisted skinny jeans with a loose graphic tee on top, not tucked in or anything. And I'd think it looks ok like that but it was showing my body too much so I'd wear an oversized flannel on top untied. Throughout the day, I'd feel more and more insecure especially because when I'm walking the flannel wouldn't be covering me as much because of the wind. I'd end up tying up all the buttons on the flannel and I can't believe I used to do that because it looked extra bad like that but all I wanted was to disappear. I had that same outfit every day in slight colour variations. It hurts me to know that I felt that way during those 2-3 years of high school, I was so beautiful and my body was perfectly normal. Today I wear crop tops and short shorts and I love my body on most days. Thank you Sierra for helping us all through our own journeys by letting us see yours
Oh God... that sounds like me a year ago. And I'm a senior in high school
I really related to that. I wore tights under everything, even shorts and pants. I never ever thought I was beautiful and I still don’t, if I can hide my legs I always will.
lo haze I bet your beautiful
@@vintagelover2211 I'm sorry to hear that, I really hope you can learn to love your body and be comfortable with it. I already know you're beautiful no matter how you look. You should follow influencers who look like you on Instagram and youtube, that really helped me. At some point, you get tired of hiding and missing out.
@@vintagelover2211 Same: I have NEVER shown my legs unless I'm swimming
Hi Sierra! I have 2 video ideas I’d be interested in:
The first is you trying youtuber workouts. I love doing them but sometimes they seem to be targeted towards smaller people.
The second is you wearing/styling more professional clothes. While I love your style, I wouldn’t be able to wear most of it at work (teacher).
Thanks!
or like job interview/work meeting outfits. I use to go into the office before covid and would wear the same business casual cardigan blouse and either black or wide leg pants.
Hi! I actually do a lot of the TH-camr workouts on my YT channel, because you're so right they are targeted at smaller people!
You tuber workouts are usually gaining muscle but for more curvy women, cardio workouts or HIIT are better and there are some, but there are less.
I would love some professional work attire styling!!
i’ve lived in japan for a long time and personally i’ve never met someone who would be very mad or offended at how you’ve used kimono, but i love love the thoughtfulness!💖 you’re my fav
I see what you mean. In general, japanese people who never lived outside of japan get excited whenever they see foreigners use our words, but people who lived abroad and know about cultural appropriation get offended. I personally felt annoyed whenever someone said kimono, because 99% they're not talking about japanese kimono, but I got used to it. Now I can see that it's alright to use the word as you don't have the intention of disrespecting our culture. Knowing she didn't mean to disrespect our culture in her former videos, I thought her thoughtfulness was so respectful of her. Always a thoughtful queen.
@@asami7414 this is my first time knowing people say "kimono" not refering to Japanese kimono... I only know japanese kimono 😅
I had someone call me racist for calling a kimono a kimono. I asked my friend who is Japanese and I asked my cousin’s wife who was born and raised in Japan what they thought about it. My cousin’s wife wasn’t offended by it and didn’t see the issue. My friend said “that’s what they’re called. If we’re talking about a Japanese kimono I’d say “traditional kimono’.” They both wear kimonos and call them kimonos because “that’s what they’re called.”
you should do a “I dressed as a Gen-Z for a week” video!!!!
I thought she was an older Gen z though?
@@Alicia-ix9yp is being born in 1996 Gen-Z ?
@@sammiee.702 1996 is on the cusp of being a millennial or gen z, it basically depends on the study
@@Alicia-ix9yp she's on the border
Everybody is insecure about different parts of is body, even if they are not “plus size”. You are an inspiration for everybody❤️🙏🏻
There are so many things that, as a really pale midsize girl, i “can’t wear” because of my body. Seeing you face your fashion fears makes me feel so confident and makes me wanna wear everything I haven’t been confident enough to wear!!
Especially since I’m not going anywhere. Maybe just wearing it around the house will make me feel confident to be able to go out and wear those items!!
Piage Fabez You go girl ! Wearing the clothing around your house sounds like a great first step ❤️
Girl don't let anyone tell you what you cannot wear! You are beautiful inside and out don't let some silly number on a waist band keep you from feeling confident and fresh! You are beautiful don't forget that :)
You can wear anything you want. You go girl! 💪🏻
Tell me why I started crying when she said "your body's not a problem area"
When you said ‘your body houses your souls it doesn’t need to fit into a narrow standard’
That hit hard
Ya know, I didnt expect to be this inspired about my insecurities oR the clothing choices, but I'm totally okay with it. I'm kinda mid size and DEFINITELY fluctuating with this quarantine, so my insecurities have been crawling back. I'm kinda in and out of the "I like myself so everything has to show my waist" and the "pls dont look" parts, so seeing these, like the body con and low rise, it's just really nice. And everything you say is not only genuine and heart warming, but it's nice to hear someone with experience. Thanks Sierra ❤
A plus size hourglass is still an hourglass. I don’t think a lot of people understand that.
Azalea N LADIES AND GENTLEMAN'S THE VOLUME INSIDE OF THIS BUS IS ASTRONOMICAL😅😅
I am also plus size hourglass.
Right! Just about everything looks great on an hour glass. I'm an extreme pear, straight size on top and plus size on the bottom, it's insanely difficult to find outfits that flatter my figure.
Ashley Edwards I’m sure ur stunning 💖💖. I have the opposite insecurity lol (inverted triangle)
Ikr? Like what's so hard to understand people???
Why does Sierra literally look beautiful in everything💛😂
Because she’s got that confidence girl!! 😍
Confidence is the key! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🔐
I loved your comment about not shaving even when wearing a tank top because it's a personal choice! For so long, thought my underarm hair was disgusting, but slowly, I've been letting it go more if I'm wearing a tank top. Overall, I do enjoy shaving for myself, so I will probably never stop fully, but I don't need to shave every single day just because it's hot outside!
I loved to see Stevens reaction to the dress. Seeing your husband encourage you really helps me convince myself that if I were to wear stuff like that my husband would do the same thing
At 11:47 she said “and I added in” but it sounded like she said “I edited in this little denim hair scarf” and I was just like *YOUR EDITOR MUST BE GOOD*
Who ever reading this you are beautiful and you deserve everything in life!! Your body is perfect, you are worth it and people love you!!!
What an amazing comment! You must be a very kind person.
You may not understand how much this means to some people to see this. Thank you so much! 💖
Thank you, I really needed that right now ❣
🙏 amen
SAY IT LOUDER!
The bodycon dress portion made me wanna cry because it made me remember being at war with my mind and my body. Loved that you preached you are not gonna say or think bad things about your body, gonna take that inspo!
“Your body is not a problem area” I can’t even tell you how bad I needed to hear that. It literally brought me to tears just hearing that. ❤️
I so appreciate that you refer to "your insecurities" rather than "problem areas" or something that is more commonly used but super damaging language! The little things matter, so thank you 💖
SIERRA you are GLOWING your hair and skin looks flawless and i love all of these outfits, love you!!
I loved the whole video, but something that really stuck out to me was during the first outfit, when you said that you’d prefer some more arm coverage, and that, while that desire is not out of insecurity, it’s just your preference and that’s okay! I think that is important to share too, because not everybody likes to have everything showing. I appreciated how you were trying to get it across that it’s okay to not like a style or lack of coverage on yourself and it *does not* have to be about a confidence issue.
Maybe where she lives is a major factor too. Sunburnt shoulders are NOT fun
If only my armpits looked like that after three days without shaving 😂😂
Sara Djaroud right?! I was like “where’s the hair?!?!”
That’s exactly what I thought! I would have double that amount of hair after just one day 😂
My pits are hairy af after the first day 😂
I've given up
I do seem to get my hairless legs’ hairs at my armpits during my women’s hormone changes in life.
I’ve had a really rough body image week this week, I’ve spent hours every day not being about to stop thinking about my body, I’ve undereaten and felt guilty for eating, and I haven’t even been able to look in the mirror without getting super upset- I even didn’t brush my teeth one night because I couldn’t handle having to look in the mirror of 2 minutes. This video made me feel much better- just like your channel always does. It’s so helpful to realize that everyone has insecurities and I don’t care about everyone else’s body, so odds are they don’t care about mine.
Oh my god! Don’t starve yourself! It’s really tempting sometimes, but all it does is harm you. I hope you feel better in the future! I support you and I *know* you’re beautiful.
It's perfectly okay to feel that way! Just know that it passes. Smoothies help when you dont want to eat! You are beautiful!
Livua Joonstoon smoothies are my go to “guilt free” food when I’m having a bad day and don’t want to eat, mine is more appetite (or lack there of) issues than body image but they’re so fresh and good I love
@@allana1997 it's my way of eating without thinking about it and it not being chips
THE TSHIRT DRESS WAS SOOOO CUTEE, this video makes me wanna try tshirt dresses
Sierra, each time I watch your videos I feel like I heal a little more. Thank you for helping me love my body for the first time in my life!
Sierra: Low rise pants
Me: THEY STILL SELL THOSE 🤢🤮😭
They can pry my high waisted pants out of my cold dead hands lol
I think low rise pants are much more comfortable xD
the scariest part is i think they are starting to come back into style 💀
Me when all they would sell were skinny jeans low rises are amazing I love them ! 😂😂
When the 00s era will come back ( and this will hapen very soon) it wii be hard to find high-waisted jeans
I'm surprised that crop tops are an insecurity but I guess I understand. It took me a while to get to wearing them but now they're one of my favorite things to wear. I think it's so flattering on my body to wear a tight crop top with bigger, flowy pants or shorts. I encourage you all to try a crop top!!
it's one of my biggest nightmares LOL
@Kara Hoffman don't let that stop you. I do too and I became way happier when I stopped letting things like that stop me from doing what I want. I also understand it's hard and I really don't want to make it sound simpler than it is
Lol I always look pregnant, so I’m pretty sure my belly would just be hanging out all day 😕
Sandra omg ME TOO! I have two kids. I completely forgot about my stretch marks because I hate looking at my belly 😂😂😂
"These pants triggered my fight or flight" had me rolling 🤣
Thank you for calling the cardigans another name :) you are the people that this world needs more of. Thank you
A fashion fear for me is jeans because even though they are super cute and a staple for my aesthetic, they make me feel chubbier because they tend to feel tighter which makes me feel like I’m “too big” to look good in them. This video inspired me to try and conquer my fear and I realised it’s not really that bad and I actually look pretty cute in them! Thanks sierra 💛
You’re silhouette actually looks so flawless with the low rise jeans. That’s coming from someone who also only wears high rise stuff lol. Idk why maybe the jeans you got were really flattering but they actually look amazing on you
I think low waisted pants are more flattering sometimes than high waisted. She looked great!
Low rise pants make me insecure because my butt crack is not "secured."
dailycaprice omg you described it perfectly !!
Low rise pants should be burned!!!!😂
can we just talk about how good Sierra's curls look! oh my gosh girl, they look AMAZING!!
the tight crop top looser pants looks amazing on you! i really think that style is flattering on everyone gives you a nice silhouette.
For me, low rise bottoms aren’t an insecurity, they’re just uncomfortable especially when sitting down.
Honestly girl? You looked amazing in every single one of those outfits.
It will be a cold day in hell before I go back to low-rise. Though the ones you wore weren't THAT low. I was imagining those "hip huggers" I think they were called 🤔 where the fly was like 1" and they sat right at the top of the buttcrack 🤣
I think they changed the low rise fit so that they could sell them today in 2020 because I never see anyone wearing hip huggers anymore
Seriously the low rise of the early 00s hit like a half inch above the pubic mound, always has to yank them up after three steps while walking so annoying
Oh man those were impossible to sit, bend, or really walk in without a whale tail or plumber's crack.
Agreed lol I think to find a true low rise you'd have to buy them second hand because they don't make them that way anymore
Oh the glorious late 90s early 2000s. 😂
I love the way you worded this! How these things are what you hate or don’t like but what you’re working on LOVING and not fixing and it just makes these videos even better❤️
I LOVE THIS!!!!! This made me think of clothing fears I had - sleeveless tops, dresses, tube tops, anything that exposed my shoulders, wide arms, & wider chest area. I always covered it with cardigans until I tried on a cute tank top and realized I look really good just the way I was. Or wearing shorts, feeling so self concious about my cellulite after I gained a lot of weight within these past years. I can definitely relate to your video and will be something I can look at back. Your videos are amazing and really has gotten me back to loving myself now as a size 29 now compared to when I was a size 25-27 years back. Love u so much
first of all, i LOVE the natural makeup look you've been rocking. that natural beauty is POPPING!! second, that first crop top especially is SO cute on you. i love how you styled it with the pants! your videos always inspire me and i've really enjoyed watching this one unfold on instagram too 💕 i personally find sleeveless tops physically uncomfortable haha. i don't mind showing my shoulders, i just find tee shirts soooo much more comfy than sleeveless tops!
Those pants😍 I want them for work!
The relationship she has with her husband is so cute🥺🥺
I just got some new stretch marks on my body and I'm having a hard time dealing with them. I tried to find some content about how stretch marks are okay and normal, just to make myself feel better or whatever, but it's just so hard! All the videos I can find are of people telling me how to get rid of strech marks. Idk, just a suggestion of a topic you could touch in some future video, because the internet is definetly lacking some positive content about this.
Feijões Mágicos I get you. I got some new ones on my inner thighs and especially in summer I feel like people are looking at them/ judging them because they’re sooo dark
I think stretch marks are marks of a goddess, not only does show women good but they are absolutely stunning. 💛 your beautiful, it’s pointless to not love every bit of you :))
I never understood the chat around stretch marks and how to remove them, because to me they're just like scars and I've never felt insecure about a scar. Bodies grow and change, and it's all natural. Most people are more worried about their own insecurities than others', and if they're not they're truly not worth your time. If it helps, I have a lot of stretch marks and I've been asked what they are and how I got them, but no one has ever said anything mean to me or made me feel bad about having them. In fact, they often end up telling me they have a bunch of them themselves.
I have red stretch marks on the inside of my thighs and ive heard people thinking im leaking out of my pad onto my thigh 🙄
If you have ever seen Barbie in a mermaid tail 2, she gets these awesome arm decorations to showcase strength and all and that’s how I see stretch marks, they beautiful
What you said about feeling like you need outfits that always compliment your body shape well is so real to me!! I struggle with the same exact thing: I have a big chest and wide hips, so I always feel like I need something that really brings out my waist in order to feel like I look good even if it’s not comfy or practical for me. Thank you for helping me reflect on this ❤️
how i keep calm is remembering “everyone is just as concerned with themselves as you are with yourself, that they’re probably not even thinking about you” but anyways that first one is THE CUTEST THING IVE EVER SEEN 😍 & you 100% made me feel better about myself 🥺🥺
I’m going to wear clothes that are more ‘out there’ next week. Can’t wait to kill those insecurities!
You go! Hope you'll find new favies :D
oH mAn hOly sHit yessss you’re going to to so gorgeous
Steven is such a supportive hubby, we stan Steven 💕
It always bothered me that people referred to loose wraps and shawls as a kimono. It is so nice to see an influencer actually realise and correct this.
Only halfway through and I love how you pull everything off. I carry most of my weight in my stomach and it protrudes out more so I definitely will always be afraid of wearing ANY type of crop top, anything extremely tight, and especially bodycon dresses w/o shape wear.
I don't shave my armpits anymore I just "cut" the hair with my boyfriends hair buzzer because everytime I shaved them it was so itchy growing back that I (in my sleep) scratched myself bloody, but I just kept on shaving anyway because "that's what you are supposed to do" until my boyfriend told me to just stop if it caused me pain afterwards. So now I rock my Tanktops and sleeveless dresses with only "buzzed" armpits.
Also regarding the skin tight tanktop / crop top I stuggle with it but kinda "force" myself to wear it and just repeat to myself it isn't something bad if people can guess where my belly button is underneath, it's not like they don't have one of their own anyway so🤷♀️
I use a cream I just hate the smell so much
You should not feel insecure you are stunning and perfect just the way you are! I love you embrace your self
Hell ya! Just keep in mind we all have insecurities when it comes to clothes even if we love our bodies :)
I just burst out laughing with “ohh you wear them really high ... up to here” 😂😂😂😂my husband says the same thing “you wear them like turtle necks” 😂😂🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️
I especially loved that in this video we get to see your body moving in the clothes, doing normal daily things because our bodies look different posed and just from the front than all around if that makes sense. Anyway, love this video
Even though it makes me feel like such an old lady saying this... I am so proud of you girls! I wish I could have allowed myself to feel confident in my 20s. I love watching your channel because I want to make sure my daughter (15) grows up to be as confident and secure about her body as you are. It’s not about not having fears, but about conquering them. 💖
When you asked him what aspect of the pants did he think made you insecure and he said “black” I choked😂😂 I love when men are slightly clueless❤️🥺
Love how you included comments each time, and it was surprising to see people being really insecure no matter their size or shape... Really interesting ! And definitely inspires me to push myself out more.
I shave my armpits maybe once a month and I don’t care if people see. It took me awhile to accept my body hair but if I don’t feel like shaving I won’t.
Totally agree!! Also love ya vids Lexi :)
I’m the exact same! At first my husband was like woah what’s all that hair but after awhile it became “normal” so now I only shave my body unless I feel like it. That goes for other parts of my body too!
I have hip dips and always thought that most high waisted pants make my butt look long, but low rise stop right at the dip and look natural on me. I didn't even realize that it was my hips till I realized that other people look good in high waisted pants. (High skirts are great because they hug my hips differently. Pencil skirts are one of my favorite things!)
Saaaame!!
This video (and all your videos, really) have been slowly helping me accept my body. I have medication induced weight gain, and a sort of extreme postpartum body and it means the world to me that you upload these messages. Thank you SO so much you’re an absolute ANGEL 💖
I saw Sierra in the bodycon dress and I gasped... it just looks so amazing on her! Thank you Sierra for showing us bigger girls that we can rock anything and for pushing yourself outside of the norm, and encouraging us to do the same. Thanks so much! Love you
Me this whole video: Sierra looks so hot what is she talking about?!
Me when I try to wear these things: nope nope nope
I have some work to do lol. Thanks for always pushing me to love myself more!
that bodycon dress with the lace duster is so gorgeous! I love the navy and white combo 😍
You are giving me soooo much confidence to try clothes that I've always wanted too. The crop tank top. The body con dress. You look incredible!!!
Joined the Savage X Fenty VIP monthly membership program a couple months ago when I first heard talk about them! So glad I did! Not only do they cute things in all the sizes they also have a fantastic customer service department. Ordered wrong sizes for my first order and they exchanged them so easily, quickly and with no hesitation! Thank you Sierra and Savage X Fenty!
the skin on your body is actually so nice and smooth. you look amazing in all these outfits. you go girl
To my fellow early 90’s kids.
We all remember this one!
Everyone: let’s make a high waist super skinny jeans and call it a trend
We: Panicking holding our extra low, flared jeans
Everyone now: let go low rise and flared would be cool
We: noooooo don’t bring back the embarrassment of your buttcrack showing :D ;)
Can't we just have a high waist flare jean and call it a day? 😂
@@themillionairess775 welcome to the netherlands. Almost every girl has some type of high waisted flaired leggings/jeans
literally had to be dragged out of low waisted jeans and now i will NEVER put on another pair in my life 😂
Yes!
Jette h haha yes definitely
Honestly Sierra, this is the best video you’ve ever made and one of the best videos I’ve watched in awhile. This is my favorite kind of content and I really wish there was more of this message spread around for others to see. Everyone should feel like they can wear whatever they want to wear. (as long as it’s not a swastika or confederate symbol..duh...) More people should feel confident about themselves, see their value and worth by remembering you are not a number on a scale or the size of your clothes, but a person with a heart and personality. Also you and Steven are adorable! I hope you and your family are happy and living your best lives!
"Your body isn't a problem" YES!! Also a great reminder for myself. I need to love and nourish my body because it's when I live! Great video!
Honestly, your body confidence and positivity is literal goals for me! You radiate such confidence and you rock everything you wear. Will never regret the day I stumbled across your channel because you brighten up my day every time I watch your videos! 💞
I love your attitude and appreciate you not allowing other's negative comments or opinions to get to you! I have items I would love to wear such as crop tops, but I am too self-conscious. Love your attitude and it is very inspirational!
Omg i can’t - you and Steven are literally so cute together😭😭❤️ also i LOVE this video idea! I definitely wouldn’t complain if you made a part 2❤️