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I stay more on track, when it’s hard, but I need to focus on the process even more, when things are easy, because the product thinking try’s to take over. Gaining ground on understanding the process, between the hard and the easy, I’m finding that middle area in my thinking, as the process helps my identity shift.
My wife and I are separated for 4 months now. At first she went on dating apps and dated some people. Recently she stopped dating, maybe because she got tired of not finding the right guy. Now she has a male friend who I believe has an emotional and physical affair. Recently she started being closer to me and told me there might be a slight chance of us getting together again after I asked her. I feel hurt for all the things shes done while separated so Im in a dilemma whether I should still fight for our marriage or not.
Honestly what if you have changed in that 1 month.. because holy shit, when you get this kick in the ass it wakes you up and makes you see life in a whole other light l. I truly believe and know that I have changed a lot of the toxic bullshit from my life. Could I be even better sure there is always room for improvement but I’ll never stop improving so sometimes a month is enough man
Confused. My wife separated from me as she found that I was on dating apps. We still live in the same house as we have you young twins. I’ve been trying to change and I think she recognised this because at the weekend she invited me back into the bedroom and we had passionate sex all weekend. Things were going well except since the separation (just over 4 weeks ago) she has been using dating apps. We spoke and she explained that she felt she is not ready to date anyone yet but needed the validation at the time. Last night I explained to her that I could not continue to sleep in the same bed and be intimate whilst she was on dating apps. This would confuse matters too much and whilst I wanted the relationship to work I foresaw there being many problems in the long run. I reassured her that I still wanted to work on our marriage and would be happy to do so when she is ready. Isn’t he meantime I am happy to carry out the steps to bettering our connection as we have done so over the past week. She said I’ve been manipulative and she feels used. Like it was just a weekend fling. She thinks I’m trying to force her into making a decision based off of the emotional connection we have recently built. The thing is... I genuinely thought this was me not being focused on the outcome and trying to be a better version of myself. But have I been manipulative!?
Hi Dicerevo, Your partner will always misinterpret your intentions behind your actions whenever you are trying to change… This is completely normal and it’s due to the confirmation bias your partner has of the old you. So you need to have the conversation with her to clear up any misunderstandings and communicate your intentions behind your actions.
Awesome! I am so excited right now. My Ex is back with much love and Commitment. So Happy to have met this Great (Spellcaster) she saved my relationship and healed my Mom of her Prolonged Herpes Disease. I recommend you to her
6 months seperated and wondering if I did something’s right where she has been having affection and intimacy with me one a week last5 Weeks but she still Chris die when I mention cnanciing divorce .. I feel So close and improvements don’t Know i
My marriage is broken already. I want to deal with my anxiety and my dumb thoughts of wanting to make his life miserable. I don’t want to do that so why do I think like that?
My problem is unique. If I don't attend the same church as my wife, (because I don't believe the same way they do), the church then disfellowshipes me including my wife. We have been married 36 years. We got a new preacher who I disagree with. My wife didn't like him either, so we left the congregation. The next thing you know my son, who became friends with the preacher, disfellowshiped me and my wife stating that, "we would no longer have access to the grandchildren because we were in disfellowship status." Well my wife couldn't handle that so she went back, I didn't. We have been separated for 5 plus months now and climbing 😢
What I do not understand is. Man is starting to change and to growth and put so much effort in the process but all your examples show me that wife’s meet during this time a new guy or something like this. How can someone after a long time relationship directly start to meet other guys is that the nature of women? For example when you are separated why man’s need time to heal and growth but woman are starting to date other man no matter how long the relationship was, even after decades there a looking really fast for someone!
You have a victim mindset. You are being selfish. The fact that you’re focusing on what she’s doing instead of asking what you did to push her into this decision, tells me exactly why you’re in this situation. Try thinking about it from your partner’s perspective for once. Ask yourself why she would feel so unhappy in your relationship that she would choose to have an affair. She’s searching for someone to fulfill her higher order needs that you haven’t met. She’s so unhappy with you that she’ll risk the stigma that comes along with an affair just to get away from you. She’s been suffering for a loooooong time and hasn’t had the safety to express it to you. You have to focus 100% on the part you’ve played in the demise of your relationship. You have a lot of work to do to shed your victim mindset before you do anything else. If you don’t do that first, you’ll end up right back here if she ever takes you back or with your next relationship
@@nuclearimbecile7674you suffer from a victim mindset. You blame everything outside of yourself instead of looking inwards and owning your part in the demise of your relationship. Stop blaming women and take ownership of what you can change within yourself
I'm not well developed in the process but if you are really truly changing, it looks like resistance from my interpretation. Resistance equals opportunities. That's how how you loose the victim mentality I think.
Hey guys hope this was helpful! Leave me a comment with your thoughts?
Be sure to check out my brand new masterclass on the 5 Proven Steps to Rebuilding Your Relationship/Marriage. (Warning: Spots are limited)
💪 Here is the link to the MASTERCLASS! -> relationshipsmastered.com/masterclass
🎁 Download the FREE GUIDE! -> relationshipsmastered.com/healing-partner-emotions
🗣 Join the FB Group! -> facebook.com/groups/1032426806961329/
I know everything goes a hundred times deeper than these videos but your videos have really helped me
Hey Shane,
The program goes definitely way deeper than what you see in my videos… It has been a massive life-changing experience for all my clients as you can see in the client review videos...th-cam.com/play/PLQ8tvyhQlPzsNm-vC_g_8SWGcJRngefgU.html
Happy the content here has been helpful to you in your situation.
I stay more on track, when it’s hard, but I need to focus on the process even more, when things are easy, because the product thinking try’s to take over. Gaining ground on understanding the process, between the hard and the easy, I’m finding that middle area in my thinking, as the process helps my identity shift.
wow that's some good advice...."be the best version of yourself, the rest will take care of itself" THANKS MAN :')
Hi Geoffrey and your team. Your videos help me a lot. Thanks for making them.
This one is golden bro, thank you 🙏🏽✊🏽
Hey Andrew, thank you brother!
Saint Geoffrey, I love you bro! Giving hope to the hopeless and changing the world with hard truths
That was important to hear! Thanks.
My wife and I are separated for 4 months now. At first she went on dating apps and dated some people. Recently she stopped dating, maybe because she got tired of not finding the right guy. Now she has a male friend who I believe has an emotional and physical affair. Recently she started being closer to me and told me there might be a slight chance of us getting together again after I asked her. I feel hurt for all the things shes done while separated so Im in a dilemma whether I should still fight for our marriage or not.
Honestly what if you have changed in that 1 month.. because holy shit, when you get this kick in the ass it wakes you up and makes you see life in a whole other light l. I truly believe and know that I have changed a lot of the toxic bullshit from my life. Could I be even better sure there is always room for improvement but I’ll never stop improving so sometimes a month is enough man
Confused. My wife separated from me as she found that I was on dating apps. We still live in the same house as we have you young twins. I’ve been trying to change and I think she recognised this because at the weekend she invited me back into the bedroom and we had passionate sex all weekend. Things were going well except since the separation (just over 4 weeks ago) she has been using dating apps. We spoke and she explained that she felt she is not ready to date anyone yet but needed the validation at the time. Last night I explained to her that I could not continue to sleep in the same bed and be intimate whilst she was on dating apps. This would confuse matters too much and whilst I wanted the relationship to work I foresaw there being many problems in the long run. I reassured her that I still wanted to work on our marriage and would be happy to do so when she is ready. Isn’t he meantime I am happy to carry out the steps to bettering our connection as we have done so over the past week.
She said I’ve been manipulative and she feels used. Like it was just a weekend fling. She thinks I’m trying to force her into making a decision based off of the emotional connection we have recently built.
The thing is... I genuinely thought this was me not being focused on the outcome and trying to be a better version of myself. But have I been manipulative!?
Hi Dicerevo,
Your partner will always misinterpret your intentions behind your actions whenever you are trying to change…
This is completely normal and it’s due to the confirmation bias your partner has of the old you.
So you need to have the conversation with her to clear up any misunderstandings and communicate your intentions behind your actions.
Awesome! I am so excited right now. My Ex is back with much love and Commitment. So Happy to have met this Great (Spellcaster) she saved my relationship and healed my Mom of her Prolonged Herpes Disease. I recommend you to her
Thank you
@Shane, you are welcome brother!
6 months seperated and wondering if I did something’s right where she has been having affection and intimacy with me one a week last5
Weeks but she still
Chris die when I mention cnanciing divorce .. I feel
So close and improvements don’t
Know i
My marriage is broken already. I want to deal with my anxiety and my dumb thoughts of wanting to make his life miserable. I don’t want to do that so why do I think like that?
My problem is unique. If I don't attend the same church as my wife, (because I don't believe the same way they do), the church then disfellowshipes me including my wife. We have been married 36 years. We got a new preacher who I disagree with. My wife didn't like him either, so we left the congregation. The next thing you know my son, who became friends with the preacher, disfellowshiped me and my wife stating that, "we would no longer have access to the grandchildren because we were in disfellowship status." Well my wife couldn't handle that so she went back, I didn't. We have been separated for 5 plus months now and climbing 😢
If you don’t mind me asking what denomination are you guys in? It seems cold with all these dis fellowships
What kinda church separates family like that? And your wife should know better.
What I do not understand is. Man is starting to change and to growth and put so much effort in the process but all your examples show me that wife’s meet during this time a new guy or something like this. How can someone after a long time relationship directly start to meet other guys is that the nature of women? For example when you are separated why man’s need time to heal and growth but woman are starting to date other man no matter how long the relationship was, even after decades there a looking really fast for someone!
It's all about crutches and money
You have a victim mindset. You are being selfish. The fact that you’re focusing on what she’s doing instead of asking what you did to push her into this decision, tells me exactly why you’re in this situation. Try thinking about it from your partner’s perspective for once. Ask yourself why she would feel so unhappy in your relationship that she would choose to have an affair. She’s searching for someone to fulfill her higher order needs that you haven’t met. She’s so unhappy with you that she’ll risk the stigma that comes along with an affair just to get away from you. She’s been suffering for a loooooong time and hasn’t had the safety to express it to you. You have to focus 100% on the part you’ve played in the demise of your relationship. You have a lot of work to do to shed your victim mindset before you do anything else. If you don’t do that first, you’ll end up right back here if she ever takes you back or with your next relationship
@@nuclearimbecile7674you suffer from a victim mindset. You blame everything outside of yourself instead of looking inwards and owning your part in the demise of your relationship. Stop blaming women and take ownership of what you can change within yourself
I'm not well developed in the process but if you are really truly changing, it looks like resistance from my interpretation. Resistance equals opportunities. That's how how you loose the victim mentality I think.
@@bryandaves1005 Valid reply, how did you shed that victim mindset?