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  • @allisont440
    @allisont440 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7158

    I love how she isn’t toxic and doesn’t trash talk her ex. She tried to be respectful which i appreciate

    • @ummok..4823
      @ummok..4823 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +361

      I mean she literally said they ended on good terms or mutual terms

    • @mcstalgic
      @mcstalgic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +157

      they ended on a good note tho😭 and this is social media! Dosent mean she’s not toxic

    • @aaaanail3
      @aaaanail3 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      @@aerabyeolwhere did they say that

    • @nukiesduke6868
      @nukiesduke6868 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      No. She doesn't trash talk him online. She's got a big following and that would make her look bad. It's entirely possible she trash talks him to her friends.

    • @rayan5v
      @rayan5v 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@nukiesduke6868 Cute wheres the source that she does this???

  • @aditimishra8950
    @aditimishra8950 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2587

    it literally feels like watching my bestie go through a break up. erica this is your reminder that you are loved and appreciated despite what your brain might want to tell you!! your ex was a wonderful person and a great boyfriend but youre a great and wonderful person as well and you also have the capability to love and cherish yourself like anybody else can, if not better!! things will absolutely get better and you look gorgeous as fuck the hair the make up the accessories all slayed SO HARD!! you got this we love you

    • @amydothi
      @amydothi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      This is such a healthy mindset! ❤

    • @t0tally_nots4ra
      @t0tally_nots4ra 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      stop i love how u stated this😭!

    • @Stafeins
      @Stafeins 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      erica knows shes loved why yall acting like she got kicked out the house

    • @aditimishra8950
      @aditimishra8950 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @thats_my_eye she literally said she feels like somebody died so like I think she feels worse than that but nevertheless it's never a bad time to remind someone they're loved!

    • @szeynepkunday
      @szeynepkunday 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      i love how you wrote this it couldn't been worded any better than this

  • @maha_khair
    @maha_khair 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2145

    Just a friendly advise from someone who went through a bad break-up, don't suck it up, feel your emotions, go through every single of them. You’ve to get hurt first to be healed.

    • @EllaxEdits.
      @EllaxEdits. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Amen amen ❤

    • @nwphn1
      @nwphn1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      😢 I appreciate u for saying this

    • @Ahyeon_fan2
      @Ahyeon_fan2 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I really needed this ty😊

    • @Amina_hehe-3
      @Amina_hehe-3 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Her breakup was a mutual decision and they went no contact a few months later

    • @Annie-hiring.niki12
      @Annie-hiring.niki12 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr

  • @berrietropic
    @berrietropic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1106

    you know what i love about erica is that even after something bad has happened she puts it aside and puts herself first like she glowing up so she can put her break up aside and focus more on herself.Erica you are my role model ,we are here for you love u queennn❤❤

    • @kay_450
      @kay_450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ur profile pic ate😂🤪

    • @berrietropic
      @berrietropic 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kay_450 yuh so did yours

    • @kay_450
      @kay_450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lol

    • @kay_450
      @kay_450 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You eat

    • @nanettehidalgo6306
      @nanettehidalgo6306 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just me but I saw here put the help sign

  • @estrellassoliloquies
    @estrellassoliloquies 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    please don't try to rush it, it will take time, let your heart feel the love you have for him, and don't force it to stop feeling, let it feel the pain, and remind yourself that you are only human and this is a normal process of grief, you loved them and this pain justifies all of it! let yourself cry or feel like nothing is worth it because they are not there with you, let yourself be pathetic and vulnerable, but remember that this will pass, and you will look back in disbelief of how deep of a pain it was and how strong you were to accept it and move on...
    you will be proud of yourself for being through it all with so much love, pain, and respect...
    I hope the pain is not for too long, I hope it gets better for you... It is hard, hell, I know, but you are stronger!

  • @nyafvrs
    @nyafvrs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6864

    can we all agree that erica doesnt need a glowup! she’s beautiful as she is!

    • @Veelynet
      @Veelynet 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Agreed! 💕

    • @ITSALMABROVA
      @ITSALMABROVA 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agreed 💯❤

    • @SH00T1NGST4RSs
      @SH00T1NGST4RSs 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes

    • @smoothpeel
      @smoothpeel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep

    • @aprillstars
      @aprillstars 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      agreed.

  • @arijitgd
    @arijitgd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1819

    she has the right attitude and positivity for this breakup you slay girl
    🥰

    • @animefangirl9006
      @animefangirl9006 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree

    • @Vlogs_with_Avery
      @Vlogs_with_Avery 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She really does

    • @Fatumata-q6l
      @Fatumata-q6l 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Wait.. SHE BROKE UP?! I THOUGHT SHE WAS HEARTBROKEN CUZ OF A ACNE BREAKOUT AND GOT A GLOW UP!

    • @lenasloveys6712
      @lenasloveys6712 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      dude she said like 49 times they broke up.. and even the title says "post breakup glow up" not breakout 😭😭@@Fatumata-q6l

    • @Yabbadabbaboopbopleedop
      @Yabbadabbaboopbopleedop 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@Fatumata-q6l did you read the title bro- and shes also mentioning EX in her sentence 😐

  • @minisangels
    @minisangels 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +532

    Even though erica doesn’t need a glow up I feel shes probably doing this for herself and mental health to try to get stuff off her mind I love her for that and she’s treating herself to the things she wants 🩷 love you Erica so proud of you

  • @mmirayah
    @mmirayah 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I went through a break up in August and have been no contact since September. I completely understand how you feel, grieving someone that is still here. My 2 year relationship ended and it hit me so hard. The most difficult part for me was to accept that things were over. Please do not rush the healing journey, feel everything. Process the breakup and everything you feel. Im still healing from my breakup but things are much better. I no longer cry when I talk about it. I realized so much from it, I came to the realization that I deserved more. Anything that is meant for you will stay and anything that isn't will go. The universe is always working in your favor. Anyone that is going through a breakup or healing from one I promise it gets better!! And know that you are loved

  • @hmwj
    @hmwj 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    breakups are so so hard! especially when they end mutually, it feels even harder to let go of. the healing will always fluctuate up and down and that's okay :) it's okay to cry whenever you need to, even if it feels like a lot of time has passed. trying to resist the pain can make it feel even more insufferable. i've had a similar experience recently so i'm right there with you! the insecurity part is so real, but it does become the best time to be gentle with ourselves. i hope you feel better with your glow up, but know that even without it you're still glowing!

  • @PaNggi13
    @PaNggi13 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +139

    In the past two years, I went through a similar situation as you did. I broke up with my ex, and we kept in contact as we used to for six months. However, I realized that we couldn't be the same anymore. It's incredibly painful, but trust me, once you accept it and move on, the best things will come. Don't be too sad; it's a waste of time. You can get through it! Big support ❤️

  • @ilycrissi
    @ilycrissi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +488

    i love how transparent and real erica is bro cus all of us be like this at some point 😂

  • @Basang456
    @Basang456 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +530

    it’s okay erica. We are all here for you. Don’t worry

  • @onceinablumoon
    @onceinablumoon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    thank you for being so real with your struggles and your grief erica ❤been on this same journey for the past few months and it truly sucks. the flashbacks that just attack you out of the blue, reminders when you see something random, and just absolutely feeling like you need a big ugly cry for no explainable reason... i think the pain also comes from the fact that a part of you literally died, but it's still kinda stuck onto you. it's the worst, but i believe it'll get better in its own time. fully with you!

  • @lauragonzalez2600
    @lauragonzalez2600 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    From a person who is going through a friendship break up, is comforting watching this video. Hope things get into place soon. Love from Brazil ❤❤

  • @blablablatruc
    @blablablatruc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +450

    GIRL YOU LOOK SO GOOD ?!?!? this hair color is just PERFECT on you !

  • @TVXQkj92
    @TVXQkj92 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Love how real you are. Breakups ain’t easy but it’s also a process of knowing yourself more. It’s tough but we all know you will get better ❤ everything will get better, trust the process!

  • @lizavillanueva5805
    @lizavillanueva5805 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +348

    the amount of people in the comments saying she doesn't need a glow up or whatever 😭, y'all just stfu and enjoy the video, THESE TYPA VIDEOS ARE MY FAVEEE (from a lot of other creators too, but ofc, erica's my fave), if erica stops making makeover videos, I'm literally gonna cry + I'm going through a break up too rn, so I get comfort from watching erica - knowning I'm not alone with feeling the way I feel

    • @sillyisfree
      @sillyisfree 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Ikr they all need to understand her better. Also hope you girlies feel better

    • @evxelyxn
      @evxelyxn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Ikr like there’s some things we all know but don’t need to say it. We all know she doesn’t need a glow up but the video is entertaining and clearly she likes doing these videos.

    • @Imokayluv
      @Imokayluv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      These people are delusional and selfish. They probably get changes here and there to make themselves feel better but have so much to say when an influencer does the same

    • @prettiestdolly
      @prettiestdolly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      No Fr 😂

    • @zee12404
      @zee12404 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      rightt, everyone needs a reset once in a while and her glow up suites her so well she genuinely looks so happy

  • @niacer
    @niacer 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    this vid was very comforting and i heavily relate to the happiness thing, it’s been 9 months and it still feels like im grieving a death sometimes but u’ll be okay, we all will!!

  • @grey_xoxo9540
    @grey_xoxo9540 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Erica is great that she is acknowledging her emotions cause that can help her to move forward easily. The process might be rough but soon it will be worth it. Also, letting your emotions out while trying to make yourself better by doing what you want is a big step so I'm so proud of you erica! Your hair suits you well too and you always look gorgeous.

  • @gracehahn7079
    @gracehahn7079 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +124

    I got broken up with 3 days ago 😭 We were together for over a year! He went from loving me one day to saying “this ain’t gonna work” the next. I needed this video Erica 😃

    • @tiiaramisu
      @tiiaramisu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      i feel so sorry for you 🥲 hopefully you find someone new!!

  • @jinyioio
    @jinyioio 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1707

    love how she is glowing up when she doesn't need it

    • @YouareMine.7
      @YouareMine.7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yea frr✨

    • @A2A3556
      @A2A3556 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      why are you lying

    • @jinyioio
      @jinyioio 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@A2A3556 wdym im not she is gorgeous has the best skin ever, tall, pretty,funny and has swag

    • @earthtoshea
      @earthtoshea 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ur a hater

    • @A2A3556
      @A2A3556 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      proudly @@earthtoshea

  • @vidhit9407
    @vidhit9407 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    You are making everyone who had gone through a serious breakup feel normal and comfortable to be heartbroken

    • @gunnotes
      @gunnotes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Rightttt

  • @meepers9773
    @meepers9773 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Erica this hair color suits you SO well!!! Not everyone can pull off the red hair color but truly I think this is your best hair color yet! Plus, all the outfits at the end were a slay especially the first and last one. 😍😍💜💜💜 the more self love you have for yourself the happier you’ll be that you won’t focus on your breakup anymore. You got this!

  • @Hope-xb4vp
    @Hope-xb4vp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Your hair colour is soooo pretty. It suits you so well. Andd your hair doesn’t look damaged at all. It looks so nice and glossy. You can do it girl!! Do not forget just how strong you are!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!

  • @jjjizzz
    @jjjizzz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8687

    u can tell how bad the breakup hit erica 😭😞
    edit: TY FOR 7.5K LIKES 🩵

    • @Urmo517
      @Urmo517 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

      Wait did they break up i saw their vd when they were in spain u could tell they’re in love 😭what happened ??doesn’t seem like a healthy breakup to me hope she’ll move on

    • @n.laylaaah
      @n.laylaaah 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +403

      @@Urmo517nono she said it was just the right person at the wrong time and they still respect each other

    • @neyeah915
      @neyeah915 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Urmo517oh my 😢

    • @suyati4416
      @suyati4416 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

      It breaks my heart and still gives flashbacks about them happily on a vacation in Spain😞

    • @vaisevennnn
      @vaisevennnn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Is her ex is Sean

  • @maiphammy
    @maiphammy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +563

    been waiting for this one

    • @zoiadecoene7271
      @zoiadecoene7271 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      MAI????

    • @Rosesthetic-cw1yg
      @Rosesthetic-cw1yg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      You were waiting for her to break up?!!?

    • @lelevss
      @lelevss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      @@Rosesthetic-cw1yggirl what no

    • @leila.hopeee
      @leila.hopeee 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      ARIANA WHAT ARE YOU DOING HERE??

    • @prettiestdolly
      @prettiestdolly 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      MAIII ILY❤

  • @-Elevelyn
    @-Elevelyn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +432

    I love Erica sm she makes my day 1000% better

  • @tanushreesarker
    @tanushreesarker 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    girl ilysm this is exactly what i needed cuz i'm also going through a break up rn and its been through hell and back ommggg... but its nice to know i'm not the only one. sending much love 💕

  • @diyajoshi0308
    @diyajoshi0308 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    erica just for you know this video touched me so deep into my heart this was exactly me a few months ago, these exact same words you said and the feelings you felt were so touched to me oml. Trust me girl you'll be so back feeling happier and prouder for yourself very very soon. I had my days thinking my world is crashing down but here i'm happier and prouder! So will you erica please take care of yourself and this place is YOURS. We're here for YOU. We love to see our bestie having a rant sesh w us. AND YES MA'AM YOUR HAIR ATEEE I LOVE ITT. Lots of love from india

  • @thatladydriver
    @thatladydriver 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I’m sorry for your breakup Erica… its so true, the pain of losing someone you love and have been part of your life hurts so much, I literally felt my heart breaking, and finished boxes of tissues for god knows how long when it happened to me and the person I thought was the love of my life. It’s hard and true, you just gotta allow yourself to grief… I pray you will feel better with time, and your broken heart will be healed… slowly but surely ❤ take care beautiful

  • @crystalveeshohe4013
    @crystalveeshohe4013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I thought I was insane crying so much , but post break up withdrawal is real! Thank you Erica for assuring me that I'm not alone in this ❤

    • @elifbozkurt3951
      @elifbozkurt3951 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree with you and now ı am in the same stiation

  • @itz_fatima1409
    @itz_fatima1409 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +442

    At this point she's my role model oml!!!
    LITTERALLY SLAYS IN EVERY POST👁️👄👁️💅🏼

  • @sullijung2
    @sullijung2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    After watching this video of u, it helps remind me that people come and leave… and there are people out there going through this pained as I am now

  • @its_charm
    @its_charm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    hii erica~ im so proud of you for trying your best to move forward despite the pain you've been feeling. maybe it's just a matter of time. maybe you are feeling so different because you are not yet used to your current set up/life without him. as time goes by, i hope you'll immediately adjust to the changes and feel like healing. the only constant in the world is change, so people come and go. there are still a lot of good things that life will give you, and i hope you'll start feeling excited and happy again. you're enough, it's okay. you will get through this season of your life, erica~ ♡

  • @Its_Lili4n-R0s3z
    @Its_Lili4n-R0s3z 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    “When someone leaves your life, it feels like someone died.” In break up terms, yes. Because that’s how it felt for me. ❤❤ you’re so pretty Erica, and I mean that you don’t have to change for anyone, but you do you!! I think it gives my brain a fresh start😊

  • @ilovemyself8593
    @ilovemyself8593 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    Erica is the prettiest, amazing personality ,great fashion sense, humor is on another level...is there more one can ask?she is that person no one can be mad at for long or not want to be friends with......she is the best and it's the end of discussion...😂😂😂😂
    She stands out man!!!! Damn girl

  • @str4wberryme1ody
    @str4wberryme1ody 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +623

    can we all agree, we just love it when erica posts? ❤

    • @delaaa.12.
      @delaaa.12. 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yess❤❤

    • @sam-ds4um
      @sam-ds4um 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YESSSSS FR

    • @Ari-tj9zb
      @Ari-tj9zb 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      YESSSSS

    • @user-go3ko5nl4n
      @user-go3ko5nl4n 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yepppp

  • @Sunnyy423
    @Sunnyy423 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Erica I love you sm your videos are like therapy to me, and also I was super sad and mad bc my ex bf cheated on me and called me bad stuff but watching your videos makes me so happy your like a therapist making millions of others happy. Sending love and support❤️

  • @oreofilling1751
    @oreofilling1751 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Erica is so strong and she stands up high and is so brightful even if she’s hurt badly and she still gives so much respect and generosity to her ex still is amazing and how amazing she is and that she takes the situation more positively even after that she has such a great and lovely and strong heart and personality and your not Alone and you are always loved im so proud of you and for being the Brightest even at this moment and treating yourself you deserve it and you are so beautiful inside and out and beyond more❤❤❤🙏🏽

  • @KhushiSahuu
    @KhushiSahuu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Erica, you're so real and i absolutely love you for it. Breakups can be really freaking hard but i hope you keep reminding yourself that you're so much more than just your love life and find happiness within you. You're my favourite creator and you're only a few months older than me haha. Sending you lots of warm hugs. Love you boo

  • @mellooobruhhh9281
    @mellooobruhhh9281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I understand how you feel Erica 🥺 breakup is hurtful and when you’re in healthy term with your ex, making a decision to stop talking is sooo hard especially if he’s a nice person and didn’t do anything wrong 😭 I’m glad to see how brave and strong you’re. It’s okay to cry and to feel like you can’t accept the ending of your relationship in some days cuz healing is up& down. Sometimes you’re okay, sometimes you’re not. Just don’t be too hard on yourself and some day you will be 100% healed. Always rooting for you and I love your new hair color btw ❤️

  • @bxnnykat
    @bxnnykat 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Erica is so real with us! When I'm watching her videos I feel like I'm on facetime with her, also I love her new hair colour, It suits her so much

  • @wenjingw8326
    @wenjingw8326 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I love how she treats herself after that stuff. I feel like I watch my bestie already healed after the breakup and put herself first. I love you Erica!!!🥺🥺🫂🫶🏻✨

  • @heysiri7016
    @heysiri7016 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    self care is so important erica! im so happy ur doing this to urself to make urself feel better

  • @Asiawontlie
    @Asiawontlie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I love how you are really trying to take it like a champ although it’s not easy for us emotionally sensitive people so I feel you girl❤

  • @Mimi-br6hh
    @Mimi-br6hh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    The hair actually looks soooo good! Loved the transformation

  • @hehe-sc5gc
    @hehe-sc5gc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +322

    did erica maybe mention her ex 1000 times? yes. BUT DOES SHE LOOK GREAT??? YESS

    • @arcaiscry
      @arcaiscry 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      YESSS

  • @shreyanshisingh15
    @shreyanshisingh15 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    you deserve the whole world, queen.

  • @gunnotes
    @gunnotes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Erica, thank you bub for being SOSOSO REAL , i mean, im going thru this same sh*t . And i feel validated. You are so damn REAL. THANK YOU, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH IT HELPS PEOPLE.

  • @peachilynn2966
    @peachilynn2966 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    im literally obsessed with Erica's videos.she deserves the world everything will be fine erica also you're so gorgeous! love u sm erica❤

    • @Daina-g3x
      @Daina-g3x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!

    • @ss_11_0o
      @ss_11_0o 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      shuuut up ❤😂​@@Daina-g3x

    • @IAteMyFamily2
      @IAteMyFamily2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Daina-g3x💗

  • @serenitywilson395
    @serenitywilson395 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Erica is one of the strongest people i know it's been almost three months since she's been single and she still continues to put a smile on her and our faces she's still making videos after that Breakup I seriously don't think I love any other youtuber but erica and her sisters 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @rabiahaynes
    @rabiahaynes 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You're literally doing such a good job getting over your ex even if it doesn't feel like it rn bcs you keep mentioning/remembering him. Just remind yourself that the best way to get over emotions is to go THROUGH them. (You're doing this breakup thing right lol) It's good that you're feeling/crying yourself through this now so that later when you see him again or your paths cross you won't be triggered by his presence & get all crazy bcs you already got all those emotions out. Holding it in and pretending to be fine now would've back-fired on you at a later stage so Good going Erica. !!!!

  • @imthe_yn
    @imthe_yn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    OMG this hair colour looks great on you! literally obsessed. love seeing a girly loving herself!! 🎀 love watching your vlogs after a long day. love your energy gurll!!💗 basically love everything🧚🏼‍♀️

  • @Μελινα-ε4γ
    @Μελινα-ε4γ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lowkey Erica’s new hair fits her whole style and character and looks SOOOO GOOD ON HERRRR

  • @bellaschannel8996
    @bellaschannel8996 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    ilysm erica, u deserve the whole world, your beautiful the way you are 🫶🏻

  • @grace_383
    @grace_383 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i frickin love your hair erica it looks so good with your skin tone. sorry your breakup has been rough, you can get through it i promise you. love you lots ❤

  • @A777K
    @A777K 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The comeback you deserve, the comeback we need!!

  • @Luvvv_sofie
    @Luvvv_sofie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    bro erica is my big inspiration, today i literally just figured out that my bf didn’t actually love me, he just used me for past timing or for fun, and seeing her glow up just inspired me so much, and erica also makes me smile even though my hardest
    TYY ERICA ILYSM~

  • @silenskie6210
    @silenskie6210 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You'll heal in time Erica, I'm always proud of you. Just continue trying the things you love doing❤

  • @niniiirubyjane
    @niniiirubyjane 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    SHE LITERALLY DONT CARE ABOUT MENTIONING HER BREAK UP😭😭😭I LOVE HER FOR THAT SUM INFLUENCERS KEEP ACTING LIKE THEIR EX PARTNERS NEVER EXISTED AS IF THEY ARE SOME KPOP IDOLS OR IDK BUT I LOVE ERICA FOR THIS😭😭😭

  • @riaa_10763
    @riaa_10763 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    GIRL UR SO FLIPPING PRETTYYY!! Generally whoever stupidly broke up w u seriously. they are and will regret it. Not in a weird way bc im a girl but if i were to be in a relationship w u then breakup id never recover. IL YOU AND YOUR VIDS

  • @Little_Pekiitas
    @Little_Pekiitas 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    You’re hair looks SOOOO good 🤩
    Erica you look freakin amazing!🔥
    Going through a breakup is not easy, but time will heal 💕 take all the time you need! You’ll feel better soon xx

  • @lakshmipl2511
    @lakshmipl2511 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Erica doesnt need a glowup.she’s always pretty.i think her personality makes her really pretty.take care.hope you have a smooth healing journey!!

  • @mirnaguix8284
    @mirnaguix8284 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Omg erica you didn't need a glowup ur so beautiful, really drop dead gorgeous, ik the breakup was hard and u eventually went through it all. We love u

  • @Mazadepizza
    @Mazadepizza 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Erica, 0 contact is the best option! You will slowly stop caring and feel better. You got this

  • @eeeeeemmmmmmiiiiiillllllyyyyyy
    @eeeeeemmmmmmiiiiiillllllyyyyyy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    i love how erica still posts content for us even though shes going through a breakup ❤

  • @cicimayxo897
    @cicimayxo897 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    May god help both Erica and Sean through out their break up, coz its hard like she said it really feels like you're grieving for someone's death.
    Sending them lots of love 😢

  • @sw33tfr0styy
    @sw33tfr0styy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You’re good, not crying once in your videos. I wouldn’t be able to make this video. I’m already balling my eyes out at the thought of breaking up with mine. I think I will feel the dying pain. My eyes is shot red and puffy from crying about my relationship. I don’t recognize myself right now. Breakup does feel like someone died and you won’t talk and see this person ever again. The last time I handled grief was a reck. Like someone pulled all my bones and limps out of my skin. Good job for powering through this video for us. I truly look forward to seeing an upload of how to get over a breakup or the different stages of what you’ll feel during each month or something like that. Love your videos and your energy ❤

  • @cherlyramos6622
    @cherlyramos6622 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Omg GIRL THAT GREEN FROM THE FIRST OUTFIT LOOKS SO GOOD WITH YOUR HAIRRRR I AM SO OBSESSED

  • @ChickwnYT
    @ChickwnYT 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I’m literally going through one as well, everything you said I related too. Glad to be going on this journey not so alone due to you and your sisters’ videos

  • @eellllaaa
    @eellllaaa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    the hair color is so pretty!!! I’ve been there before and I understand you! But trust me you got this your literally such an admirable figure and and inspiration to me❤

  • @froggieskkk
    @froggieskkk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Your videos are so good!
    And you look so pretty!! (both before and after) your new hair fits u so well💐
    I hope you’ll heal from the breakup as soon as possible, and i hope that you’re okay:)
    Love u sm🫶💗💕

  • @Michael_Francis_Gray
    @Michael_Francis_Gray 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel you Erica, I am still not over my break up... wish I could give you a big hug right now. It would be cool to be your friend and help each-other thru this.

  • @Sanasjourney
    @Sanasjourney 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I promised to thank u in my diary so here i m
    thnks erica for making me feel comfort as i was also going through the same feelings and made me feel comforting tht its ok to nt be okay smetimes and to move on live on without denying any of my actual feelings and just saying it out
    love u babe ❤❤
    u deserve the best ❤

  • @NickyAlfonsoBaldonado-js2tk
    @NickyAlfonsoBaldonado-js2tk 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    She ate this up, but she doesn't need a glow up!! she's already so gorgeous 💕

  • @crepus-eu4bc
    @crepus-eu4bc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +168

    We all know that she doesn't need all the makeup to look beautiful but let's all support her guys!!

  • @aestheticworld5109
    @aestheticworld5109 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I’m currently going through a similar thing- me and my best friend went us being the only two people who understood eachother to complete strangers who never talk. 😆 honestly- it took me a lot of time to work on myself mentally and be ready to build new and stronger friendships- and be a new me. I believe you can do this! You’re strong ❤

  • @sallysilly65
    @sallysilly65 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved how Erica openly made a video after the breakup n talked about how sad she is. she is such a sweetheart. she didn't try to hide it or act nonchalant, admitting that u r struggling is so much more respectful to the last person u loved n cared about. Its truly genuine n sweet which is y I love her🥰

  • @Oyy477
    @Oyy477 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    love seeing how healthy she goes through her breakup!!!

  • @afrahali9661
    @afrahali9661 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    “ new year same me wasnt ever the problem” *sabrina carpentar*
    WE ARE BY YOUR SIDE ERICA WE WILL SUPPORT YOU NO MATTER WHAT🤓✨

  • @Tqn1shaaa.x
    @Tqn1shaaa.x 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Breakups aren’t easy but just know we’re all here for you & your not alone. You can do this Erica , we believe in you! Btw your new hair is honestly so gorgeous 😮🙈

  • @its_charm
    @its_charm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i kind of feel the same rn, but it's because of my bestie. she moved to a different school and i'm still not used to not seeing her and not talking to her face to face everyday like how we used to last semester. last semester, the day she said that her decision to move is final, i spent as much time as we can to talk about life and to just spend the time together. i got very attached to my bestie, so i still feel the sadness sometimes and i miss her. we could meet up once a week, but it's kind of hard beacuse of our schedules and we got busier this semester. we could still see each other and talk to each other over the phone, but it's different. the feeling is different when you are physically with the person and the eeling is very different from how things used to be. she's one of the reason why last semester was easier than i have expected because she was always the one to make me laugh, smile, and feel lighter when i feel stress or nervous. she's my closest friend at school, she's the one who knows and understands me the best. she always looked after me and i appreciate it so much. right now, i pray that i will be given someone who can treat me the way my bestie did. a new friend who could make this difficult semester more bearable. i hope i'll meet that person one of these days~

  • @h0tfudge.c0m
    @h0tfudge.c0m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it's okay Erica!!! It takes time to heal and i promise you you'll get better eventually. I also went through the worst breakup last year and I'm still not over him 100% i guess but I'm there almost there and I'm proud of myself

  • @sonakshibisht1172
    @sonakshibisht1172 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +262

    Here's some Indian advice for your hairs Erica ...
    1. never ever brush your wet hair
    2. You can use coconut oil for strong hair and damage repair, leave oil on the scalp overnight once a week
    3. You can braid you hair sometimes it prevents split ends
    I hope it'll help you ❤

    • @sarina1794
      @sarina1794 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      The coconut scent stays in your scalp for a few days in my opinion I don't recommend it since it doesn't do anything but make my hair smell

    • @kpopfan012
      @kpopfan012 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​Gurl for me I think it's on her and maybe work on her who knows, we have different types of hair soo yuh,

    • @Ranuneesa
      @Ranuneesa 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sarina1794amla oil is a good replacement for coconut oil I’m pretty sure

    • @THEUMMAH555
      @THEUMMAH555 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ⁠​⁠@@sarina1794it works different for different people. You should look up hair porosity and that might help with what oils you should put in your hair. Also ^^^ im surprised the OG commenter put coconut oil and not mustard or amla which are far more popular in India I think, but then again idk, I’m not Indian so maybe not

    • @Dotncopymyname
      @Dotncopymyname 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@sarina1794 in pakistan we always do it and it never leaves smell in hair maybe its about different hair but doing this gives alot of volume to your hair makes it healthy and shiny

  • @BeliciaBioh
    @BeliciaBioh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Girl your glowing, loved you before and after but i'm glad your feeling yourself with this hair! It looks amazing 💕💕

  • @mirithesimpp
    @mirithesimpp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The hair before was lowkey giving, like the transition from light to dark was really pretty but ofc, it's Erica's choice if she wants to change the hair

  • @anshunegi1939
    @anshunegi1939 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This place feels like heaven 😢So many comforting advices from so many people to so many breakup going through girlss!!! ❤

  • @sweetcreature21
    @sweetcreature21 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    okay I am going through this exact same thing rn and I can relate to every single thing, it hurts so bad!!! *I am also listening to hype songs so I dont cry bc I cant stop crying and whenever I feel like I made some progress bam I cry the whole night thinking about it. it honestly sucks but all my friends say it gets better. Just remember u guys broke up for a reason and u need to move on w your life however hard it is bc you deserve sm better❤❤

  • @mellastarr4332
    @mellastarr4332 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    this is so real I lost 2 “friends”who I found in out didn’t care for me at all and I cut them off, turned out just liked controlling me and I loved them sm and it did feel like a loss even though they weren’t good to me

  • @AbhinaAnargha
    @AbhinaAnargha 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The hair colour is literally made for you You literallyyy so pretty in ittt❤

    • @Cowy313
      @Cowy313 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Frr

  • @redhood6705
    @redhood6705 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    my mom watched this video with me and she loved loved the first outfit with that mini skirt!! and she said you should stop crying out your pretty face and she hopes you’ll find peace sooner! stay strong, erica 😚

  • @EveVette-jp6gy
    @EveVette-jp6gy 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m sorry you’re so sad, it’s going to be okay. 2024!!!
    New you!!
    New goals!!
    It seems like the breakup hit you hard. We’ve all been there. Just keep grinding.

  • @ZaneibH
    @ZaneibH 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Erica, I'm actually going through the same thing as u rn, and I understand how u feel and everything u said. I felt validated. And a tip of advice that helped me, don't romanticize the past but look forward to what the future holds :) cry all u want, it can help u feel better. Also, spend time with your friends and specially family, it helps trust. And try to remove things that reminds u of him. U can do it, ure not alone, ill be here with ur progress

  • @Rkie_0
    @Rkie_0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    ERICA THAT HAIR COLOR WAS MADE FOR YOU!!! But other than that you don’t need a glow up u r already gorgeous and ur so brave to post at a time like that. Love u ❤❤

  • @uwu13501
    @uwu13501 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    THIS IS SO RELATABLE, im going thru the exact same thing!!!! This helped me so muchhh i love youu, pls more healing/post break up content i love youuuuu

  • @anghelinafavv
    @anghelinafavv 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I love how realistic she is, I love your videos so much❤️‍🩹

  • @Abby.hassan
    @Abby.hassan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Literally an amazing glow up, stay strong girl life is not always perfect ❤

  • @babychakma388
    @babychakma388 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The satisfaction of changing yourself after breakup…ig colouring hair and cutting hair after breakup is more satisfying

  • @casseymiravalles7241
    @casseymiravalles7241 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    can we all agree that erica doesnt need a glowup shes beatiful as she is and just love love it when erica posts