How To Keep Women Interest High In Relationships & Long Courtships

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  • @alpha_male_s
    @alpha_male_s  5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

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    • @user-il2st5nf1f
      @user-il2st5nf1f 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aight..

    • @jaymani2521
      @jaymani2521 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@user-il2st5nf1f nobody asked for you to say something

    • @torincody8378
      @torincody8378 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      instablaster.

  • @livinginspiration7326
    @livinginspiration7326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2945

    Speaking as a married man for 10yrs..Always keep your woman feeling insecure. A secure woman is no good to any man.

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  6 ปีที่แล้ว +494

      man black 💯

    • @iceburg_jones9887
      @iceburg_jones9887 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

      BIG FAX 💯✅

    • @TheWithdrawl
      @TheWithdrawl 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Truth.

    • @BilalKhan-uh3rk
      @BilalKhan-uh3rk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Alpha Male Strategies - AMS Insecure in terms of what... looks? money? lol...

    • @davida8446
      @davida8446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +235

      @@BilalKhan-uh3rk About you can get other bitches any time.

  • @keithmorgan4883
    @keithmorgan4883 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1868

    You literally have to play mind games to get most woman to love you. When you sit back and think about it its truly depressing.

    • @beanwill8271
      @beanwill8271 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      keith Morgan shit crazy bro, it’s pointless and too much of a headache to try to keep up with all that shit mentally lol

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +307

      Nah it’s not depressing it’s just what they respond to, that’s what they are attracted to! Deal with it!
      1. Stay on purpose
      2. Keep her guessing
      3 disappear from time to time
      4. Never give her all your available time
      5. Never validate her
      6. Keep her chasing your time
      7. Stir up some conflict from time to time, by staying on your purpose, and not giving her all your time!
      8. Don’t give her certainty
      9. Don’t be easy basically be a fucking CHALLENGE
      10. Keep her chasing your time, your validation, keep her totally unsure, this will get them deeply attached
      11. All this will keep them submissive= better sex.

    • @RaspyStarks
      @RaspyStarks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michael H sounds about right b

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      keith Morgan unless you date a girl who actually likes you

    • @EnterTheSoundscape
      @EnterTheSoundscape 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      When you realise the whole thing is a big fucking game, you stop giving a shit. When you honestly don’t care about the outcome whenever you talk to women, they like you more.

  • @PittsensX
    @PittsensX 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1312

    I'm not into pump and dump. I'm more of a relationship guy but I still watch AMS. Because I can still apply some of the strategy in a relationship also

    • @hemeothunder
      @hemeothunder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      eventually you will become pump and dump....

    • @PittsensX
      @PittsensX 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@coreybetamalewayne1169 I thought it was the real Corey wayne for a second then I read the name again hahahaha

    • @jasminealexia
      @jasminealexia 6 ปีที่แล้ว +328

      PittsensX you’re not a simp just because you want something more meaningful and reducing your chances of catching STD’s. You don’t need all this game if you have a true connection with the right woman

    • @donnyhandson1296
      @donnyhandson1296 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@jasminealexia 💯

    • @ClassicMan33
      @ClassicMan33 6 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      JustJasmine Spoken like a true woman. HILARIOUS!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @ContrastWithSepiaPrince
    @ContrastWithSepiaPrince 6 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    The drama, that women create and oddly crave for, is DESIGNED to keep us men sharp. That keeps 'em highly interested.

    • @Iammikeyrivers
      @Iammikeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hey i was wondering if you could check me out please i make R&B/pop music with trap influences and if you dont mind can you subscribe as well please
      th-cam.com/video/BMxm_c8-Rhs/w-d-xo.html

    • @gbereggie
      @gbereggie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Mikey Rivers your on your purpose

    • @Iammikeyrivers
      @Iammikeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wokafeller thanks wolafeller 😊

    • @_greaterpoint_3729
      @_greaterpoint_3729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ConceptsBySP True As Fuck Brother

    • @cowboydoggo2112
      @cowboydoggo2112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ConceptsBySP this shit just made me close my eyes and nod my head backwards, this comment is the fucking truth

  • @RandiOW
    @RandiOW 6 ปีที่แล้ว +358

    He's mastered the logic. Holy shit.

    • @Dawa202
      @Dawa202 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Its crazy, its like he found the manual 3000 pages thick font size 12 px

    • @blunder2128
      @blunder2128 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Logic is the enemy and truth is a menace

    • @angelostanojevic304
      @angelostanojevic304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not fully. He talks about replacing bad bitches. He only talks about looks. What if you have a woman that is the perfect chick personality wise. She thinks as chilled as a dude and looks good and still is submissive and feminine and from your same culture, cooks, cleans and and just everything fits. You're lying to yourself if you say that nowadays It's easy to replace her..
      Or if you already have a child with the women. How can you not have a litte bit of a scarcity mindset then?

    • @yalelop428
      @yalelop428 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelostanojevic304 throw her away bad bitty only

    • @JihadBunnydick
      @JihadBunnydick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelostanojevic304 So true

  • @anthippo91
    @anthippo91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    working hard ,hitting the gym and self improvement through podcast and AMS vids, just left home and got my own place that is my purpose.

    • @Lavon8338
      @Lavon8338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Boom. Same thing. 70 pounds later my own place and ex wife has a simp over there lol. I'm good

  • @newsentertainment1550
    @newsentertainment1550 6 ปีที่แล้ว +873

    Maan i got too comfortable and became a simp ... now i gotta start all over again

    • @GreatApeChristopher
      @GreatApeChristopher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      NewsEntertainment same

    • @CarlosIbarra-mm3dt
      @CarlosIbarra-mm3dt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      @@GreatApeChristopher me too, ah shit here we go again

    • @veil2612
      @veil2612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Smh me too. 7 months in this relationship broke down everything i worked for

    • @Jukeboxster
      @Jukeboxster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Same here, but at least we're learning now.

    • @jkphilosophy101
      @jkphilosophy101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@veil2612 I have a very hard time spending money on a woman. I present myself as a cheapskate from the get go

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 6 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    I agree with you 100%. When a woman is emotionally into you you basically own her. Sad but true. I never knew what it was and how it felt but I understand it now

    • @Ashtonishing1812
      @Ashtonishing1812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      True but it’s more like a lease in reality. You gotta keep paying rent every day

    • @user-bu9ne7ef3q
      @user-bu9ne7ef3q 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is why they are obsessed with their ex

    • @chriswoods5843
      @chriswoods5843 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ashtonishing1812💯

  • @jozasfrogas2915
    @jozasfrogas2915 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    "you might not believe it guys, but I used to be in relationships" 😂 love from Ireland

  • @LINKGT23
    @LINKGT23 6 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    AMS line of the week “ validation leads to masturbation” 🙌🏽 classic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @acegamingdm8153
    @acegamingdm8153 6 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    Society has made men blind to the truth on how to act with women but this guy is speaking the truth on how to act with women but not only that he tells us the importance of self value which should be priority

    • @empress2423
      @empress2423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do u think that he is a man with value? mmm which kind of women he dates, in your estimation?

    • @venicec3310
      @venicec3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ACEGAMING Dm absolutely right

    • @tashandjosh
      @tashandjosh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@empress2423 girl he single🤣🤣 these men eating up this nasty shit when he can’t even prove he can keep a woman🤣🤣🤣He can’t stop calling a females “bitch.” Like how all these modern men buying this garbage. He setting a lot of them up for fail it’s sad🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @alwayssmacked7186
      @alwayssmacked7186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tashandjosh Lmaoo Women are the main ones who talk without showing proof. How many chicks on YT, Twitter and FB trynna give relationship advice when they ain’t in a relationship and can’t even keep a man or get one 😂😂

  • @pnice3666
    @pnice3666 6 ปีที่แล้ว +565

    Once the hand rub happens that’s when the jewels drop

  • @monkeycamdaykid8543
    @monkeycamdaykid8543 6 ปีที่แล้ว +849

    Its sad that females have become this complicated...

    • @Kwamedogg50
      @Kwamedogg50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +170

      It’s not even complicated. Stop giving women so much of your energy and time, instead put that energy in yourself

    • @dtbredhalf5823
      @dtbredhalf5823 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ????

    • @Just.navarro
      @Just.navarro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yup but u gotta play the game

    • @gavinturner6069
      @gavinturner6069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      They’ve always been that complicated

    • @sajjbrown2357
      @sajjbrown2357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's natural

  • @dexterforrester
    @dexterforrester 6 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Self improving combats the females hypergamy.

  • @thefuclrim6299
    @thefuclrim6299 6 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    That's so true bro, Women need to chase. I disabled my Instagram because I was using it to give off too much validation.
    Now I'm focused a lot more on self improvement. I'm doing this for myself. From here on it's about me, if she wants to tag along, that's great let's work it out.
    But I still watch your videos because I need to keep my mind SHARP. The notion of the Abundance Mindset, is by far one of the most beneficial pieces of advice that I've heard.

    • @walterfoxx278
      @walterfoxx278 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The Fuclrim you right about that bro. My girl broke up with me I start chase her and she kept play games I disable my Instagram Facebook all my social media stop contact her. Now she wonders what I am up to.

    • @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485
      @dr.vonslifeinvesting6485 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yep I got off all social media, working on me been learning about dividend investing and working out.

    • @panama1942
      @panama1942 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Walter foxx I still have my media up but I never post anymore. I know every once in a while they check my profile thinking what is he doing. Give it time and she'll be messaging u again

    • @JonathanSHoover
      @JonathanSHoover 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Men have given the power to women via social media. It’s instant free validation for some of these girls in the millions. It has everyday very average looking women think they are the shit lol

  • @kiingkoldd1152
    @kiingkoldd1152 6 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    AMS is actually a genius.
    absolute genius.

  • @retentio.buntos
    @retentio.buntos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    +be on your purpose so she fights for your time
    +women want drama
    +they loose interest if u are too available, too complimentary, if she has nothing to worry about

  • @dhawwk
    @dhawwk 6 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    "Do it for yourself" spot on about that AMS!

  • @nicholasr5146
    @nicholasr5146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I can relate. I bent over backwards for my ex. I made her my focus. And that turned her off. And I didn’t respect her distance, instead I kept simping. Being the perfect, reasonable, empathetic, listening, boyfriend to figure out what’s wrong. If I waited maybe a month, or made my time rare she would’ve been all over me, because suddenly, all that validation and attention is gone. Women do not like stable relationships, they prefer the roller coaster. High and lows. After her, and half a year of reflective solitude, I learned my lesson. I won’t repeat the same mistake. Im making money, working out, learning skills, setting up my future career, making more friends, and now I’m going to look for a new partner. Hopefully more long term.

    • @shayanandibra2840
      @shayanandibra2840 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      My nigga

    • @dwadeisajerk
      @dwadeisajerk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Maaaaannn this was me fr and I can’t explain how I needed this video then but now it makes perfect sense

    • @thebridge5483
      @thebridge5483 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s fact my guy

    • @renaldsunset
      @renaldsunset 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Straight from the book of truths 🙌🏽💯💥

    • @zellyzell1993
      @zellyzell1993 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯💯💯

  • @johnnylee6921
    @johnnylee6921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Genesis 3:16
    “I will make your pains in childbearing very severe;
    with painful labor you will give birth to children.
    Your desire will be for your husband,
    and he will rule over you.” - God

    • @KatrinaDancer
      @KatrinaDancer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I never had kids & never wanted any anyway so what is your god gonna do about it 🤣

    • @chrismofo1
      @chrismofo1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      katrinadancer you will eventually watch

    • @OriginalKingRichTv
      @OriginalKingRichTv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      AUX _ no leave her be. She’s one of THOSE girls

    • @OneLove-vn2yo
      @OneLove-vn2yo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      THERE IS NO GOD

    • @isaiahlabadie6397
      @isaiahlabadie6397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@KatrinaDancer shut the fuck up you atheistic daughter of a bitch

  • @phantom4489
    @phantom4489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This makes so much sense👍 when you stop validating her , she starts thinking like does he even like me ?😂 keeps her thinking about you 😂

  • @thivyanrajarjoon3544
    @thivyanrajarjoon3544 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This man over here is not helping us to attact women better... he is helping us to make ourselves better... hats off to you man

  • @germansanchez278
    @germansanchez278 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    AN ALPHA MALE HAS BETA EXPERIENCES.
    IT TAKES KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM TO UNDERSTAND ONESELF AND OVERCOME WOMEN.
    STAY ON YOUR PURPOSE.
    THE KING STAYS KING.

  • @devonlove9095
    @devonlove9095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I have been going to gym five days a week and working on promotions at work. Plus reading a books on improving my quality of life. My relationship with my Woman has turned around 360 degrees.

    • @jayweber5371
      @jayweber5371 6 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      180degrees. U don't wanna face the same direction my guy

    • @devonlove9095
      @devonlove9095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jayweber5371 the point is, the concept has change. Thank you for the minute observation.

    • @Jjaquinooficial
      @Jjaquinooficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jayweber5371 😂😂😂

    • @echox000
      @echox000 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jayweber5371 lol

  • @warriorj8658
    @warriorj8658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I agree 100%. For me meeting multiple women has been key. It helps me resist the temptation of giving any one woman too much of my attention. Abundance mindset. If one annoys me on on to the next. Keeps me on my toes and with low tolerance for bullshit in my life.

    • @Rellyrell2xs
      @Rellyrell2xs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Textin em becomes so easy because u know to keep every text short n impactful with everyone.

  • @MegaBISP
    @MegaBISP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Puffy is the perfect example of Alpha Male Strategies. Kept Cassie chasing until he found a replacement.

    • @Iammikeyrivers
      @Iammikeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      hey i was wondering if you could check me out please i make R&B/pop music with trap influences and if you dont mind can you subscribe as well please
      th-cam.com/video/BMxm_c8-Rhs/w-d-xo.html

    • @regardles1783
      @regardles1783 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who's the replacement?

    • @MegaBISP
      @MegaBISP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      younger, hotter, better

    • @MegaBISP
      @MegaBISP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@candykane5442 triggered lol

    • @johnnybandit5141
      @johnnybandit5141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      He gay

  • @dinky19810
    @dinky19810 6 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    What we need to understand is that a woman will never stay still. This is why they cannot be kept. They just get bored easily. I don't even find them entertaining anymore. Focus on your purpose first.

    • @thegoldenrules9370
      @thegoldenrules9370 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And then find a woman? If they never can be kept why let one into your life? You're only setting yourself up for heartbreak

    • @indiaxlovee
      @indiaxlovee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dinky19810 just date a girl that actually likes you

    • @Don-pk2uy
      @Don-pk2uy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lots of dudes get bored quicker than girls, it's not universal

    • @kayochambers9418
      @kayochambers9418 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fax

  • @NothingHere287
    @NothingHere287 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    First time watching his videos and this is the realist shit I’ve heard. This is the only reason why my parents still together, the amount of times I heard my mom bitch about my dad not spending enough time with her. Shits true man

  • @smokerx6291
    @smokerx6291 6 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Ams can u define sweet talking without giving validation. I wanna be a drug

    • @untizah1096
      @untizah1096 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      llxoyd's Hip i would like to know that too.

    • @kj3887
      @kj3887 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      👍Please make a vid on this.

    • @chevytheplayer
      @chevytheplayer 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ams did a video on this called "Alpha males don't do romance" th-cam.com/video/j0E6utzubnk/w-d-xo.html

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  6 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Go watch my video “how to keep a conversation from losing energy”

    • @lovetaps248
      @lovetaps248 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lukaku's First Touch wouldn't that be validation though?

  • @shib853
    @shib853 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I learned that you need to cause drama in relationship if you want it to work in your favor back when I was in 9th grade. She implicitly me that she was use to drama and that our relationship was boring

    • @eddyalonsomoramorales6069
      @eddyalonsomoramorales6069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      9th grade🤣🤣🤣this shit would work in insecure narcisist girls
      the sad thing is...
      theres a lot of them out there

  • @SonyCamry
    @SonyCamry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love you so much man. I started seieng a girl and she lost attraction to me. I realised i became so beta nad lost my purpose. Now i started seeing her again and realised that i am so much better than her and it comes out in my behaviour and she is attracted to me again. thank you so muchbrother.

  • @Valentino92dd
    @Valentino92dd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Believe me or not.. I am working 45hrs Monday to Friday day time job in car company. After watching all this videos past 2 weeks now.. I applied for weekend job night shift Saturday and Sunday. Improving yourself is the key.... I believe. Thanks for the video man.

  • @dinnahenna4163
    @dinnahenna4163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    “Women like to see a man constantly improving himself”
    As a woman I can vouch for this; my bf doesn’t and absolutely refuses to learn to drive and it grates on me

    • @02pilot
      @02pilot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bf update

    • @dinnahenna4163
      @dinnahenna4163 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@02pilot still together and he still has no intentions to learn to drive

    • @CREATEKDUB
      @CREATEKDUB 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dinnahenna4163 maybe show him this vid

    • @renaldsunset
      @renaldsunset 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dinnahenna4163 You’re with a bum

    • @_MoneyMike_
      @_MoneyMike_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Kinda gotta blame urself for choosing a man that doesn’t drive lol

  • @mbb1849
    @mbb1849 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hidden gem right here. Idk why I’m just now seeing this video after 4 years of watching ams

  • @guitarforfree
    @guitarforfree 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Bro you have motivated me to lose 50 LBS and start my own business. Your motivational skills are top shelf brotha Thank you man.

  • @AccidentalH3ro
    @AccidentalH3ro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Got to run a tight ship. If you got a woman, she best be working to put wind in your sails (chasing your validation), this isn't a Disney cruise, her meals and drinks don't come for free with a ticket purchase.

  • @darrenleejones3516
    @darrenleejones3516 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve watched many red pill creators and ams is one of the best , don’t always agree and sometimes a bit over the top but the content is by far the most accurate when it comes to female nature

  • @mrjboyd45
    @mrjboyd45 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Good advice, I'm going through the test now by being too available and validating her. That's ends today.

  • @lilaah7
    @lilaah7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    As a woman, I can confirm everything he says is true... But I would add: watch out if you artificially start to NEVER give compliments, when she knows you think her beautiful. It will come off as you just playing games. The point is not to never validate or to never give compliments: that just makes you an asshole. The point is to not give it all the time, and to provide the woman times when she gets is insecure - in the long run, this always increases the love.

    • @felldoh9271
      @felldoh9271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      vey much appreciate the honest perspective from a woman

    • @Sinful_Survivor
      @Sinful_Survivor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So, im sure there's no hidden rule here but how often would be too much validation? Like once a day? Once every few days? Once a week? Lately I've been doing it once a day and that's probably too much lol but then again the girl I'm dating has low self esteem so I think I'm okay

    • @onekzay2681
      @onekzay2681 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Sinful_Survivor lol do it once a month

  • @David-ej1ps
    @David-ej1ps 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this video is right on time, i am starting a courtship and i know the long game requires patience but female interests isn't something to count on ... so thanks a lot AMS

  • @lancecryor3332
    @lancecryor3332 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    6:00 - 6:15 Do it for yourself. Absolute truth right here.

  • @spencer2518
    @spencer2518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    God Damn Alpha. You like the father I never had. Buying your book tonight. Never stop brother!

  • @manofthehour1983
    @manofthehour1983 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ive watched all of your videos more than once... some i keep on repeat as a reminder and to keep me in check... i have to say this one may be top 2 videos ranked in importance.

  • @Mindset5360
    @Mindset5360 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A purpose of a man is to build and woman is to nurture what a man has built.
    Women come and go , men have to remain true to their purpose.
    Bro , thank you for sharing your knowledge

  • @mckenzieproductions5364
    @mckenzieproductions5364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    one of the best dating videos on youtube hands down

  • @Itsabet422
    @Itsabet422 6 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I’m similar age to you. I was curious if u can do an “age series” where u discuss how to get four different categories of girls: 18-21, twenties, thirties and fourties. I find that these 4 age categories are different- and just discuss the differences needed generally for each one

  • @joelercoaster
    @joelercoaster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    He was speaking straight FACTS in this video!

    • @Iammikeyrivers
      @Iammikeyrivers 6 ปีที่แล้ว

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  • @kyoungmin2lee
    @kyoungmin2lee 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "Validation Leads To Masturbation" wise words by professor AMS

    • @empress2423
      @empress2423 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      validation leads to better women, which broke his heart (he is the emotional person) many times, as soon as they discovered that he is... not a valuable man

    • @venicec3310
      @venicec3310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Empress 24 ams has three successful businesses and is probably worth over a million dollars and most importantly carries himself like a man hes as high value as you can get

  • @rubeenayad7283
    @rubeenayad7283 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    holy man , new found respect for you . I applied these and INSTANTLY saw results , the tables have turned and now she wondering if I like her and she is CHASING.

  • @JerseyQ
    @JerseyQ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I really appreciate your videos brother... I realize I fell off my game hard, but I found your page about 3 weeks ago and been listening & studying sense... keep the videos coming bro, & thanks

  • @ThorMaximus
    @ThorMaximus หลายเดือนก่อน

    7:49-I’m here. I don’t think I can find one equal to the one I got now.
    Looks yes; rest of qualities-no.
    But check in with me in 1 year. Surpassed 2024 milestones; and hit 2025 goals will separate me to another level

  • @SamuelHallEngland
    @SamuelHallEngland 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So much truth here! Excessive validation always kills attraction. Glad I know this now

  • @tommybarnes3511
    @tommybarnes3511 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The best analogy you gave is the superman movie..... When General Zod was looking for the president and the "decoy" came out and bowed immediately and General Zod said (paraphrasing) YOU CAN'T BE THE PRESIDENT BECAUSE NO MAN WHO RULES SO MANY WOULD BOW SO EASILY! Validation is essential bowing to the woman (I know because I've don't this sh*t all my life) and tell the woman that she is the prize but no man of high value would bow so easily..... And in our case WE DONT BOW AT ALL!!!

  • @KaysianReigns
    @KaysianReigns 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That's where I'm at with my girl, she keeps bitching that she only get to spend time with me 2 times a week and she has to stay awake til I get there after work lol

  • @spiritrealmstudios1889
    @spiritrealmstudios1889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This man be preaching on all his videos...

  • @aheazzy28
    @aheazzy28 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Today was a productive day. AMS with the education

  • @waynewilliams1116
    @waynewilliams1116 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Wow dude u open my eye
    Now i find out what i was doing wrong
    Dude thank u!!
    U r right.
    God bless u and keeping helping u so can continue to help us..

    • @zavengrigoryan7784
      @zavengrigoryan7784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wayne Williams is it better now ? Be honest

  • @flspeid
    @flspeid 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It is very applicable, not from a player perspective but for long term relationships. Thank you.

  • @nautiiboyz
    @nautiiboyz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    13:35 i died when u moaned AMS 😭😭💀💀💀

  • @markoj963
    @markoj963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Through out the video he's right. Plus to add on to improving yourself. The reason you do it for yourself is to keep yourself fresh and tuned. When you keep that up it creates attraction.

  • @FamilatheG
    @FamilatheG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Replace it with purpose"
    Thasss on a whole other level n shit.

  • @oscartan1906
    @oscartan1906 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    AMS JUNIOR IS MY PURPOSE.

  • @ColloCream
    @ColloCream 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love watchin yo videos, my confidence always come back 💯

  • @OS-yf3ko
    @OS-yf3ko 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think back to a time when an ex of mine was crying in my car telling me how much she wanted more of my time. And I was like bitch, where am I gonna get more time? And I thought it was an issue…. When I should have been thinkin “perfect”

  • @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220
    @fortuneeeeeeeeeee5220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is straight facts ..too much validation..just leads to more tests (shit tests) ..keep preaching AMS 👍🏽

  • @lilgreen9087
    @lilgreen9087 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a simple man, I see an AMS video, I click thumbs up.

  • @1werewolf
    @1werewolf 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    All you have to be is someone that does not exist!....he is right... focus on your purpose....you know you have the right one for you when you cannot see the end of the relationship...until this happens, going mgtow is the way to go...

  • @Jabbsole
    @Jabbsole 6 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    Man you gotta do all that for a relationship.. im good 😂😂 sleez ball for life

    • @Kickzsince86
      @Kickzsince86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We sleezeball brothers then!

    • @Officialkingz1
      @Officialkingz1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Triplets..

    • @Kickzsince86
      @Kickzsince86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @TGMac Sanchez always room for another sleezeball. Come on brother!

  • @EDawg_32
    @EDawg_32 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Also AMS u are greatly appreciated thanks for your content, u helped me finally understand females

  • @jasonwilliams5494
    @jasonwilliams5494 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Relationships are about power. Physical,mental, financial and sexual. When your finance and sexual is right you can do wtf you want let alone appearance and swag. When you lack in one area make up in another. This shit is a game of winners n losers. Let's win! And keep your value high.

  • @tonyferrara4011
    @tonyferrara4011 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You are the realest man I have ever encountered. Keep it up brother 💪👊👊

  • @iceburg_jones9887
    @iceburg_jones9887 6 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Go back to the vertical videos bro they seem to speak to the sleezball soul

    • @NoMoreLockedDoorz
      @NoMoreLockedDoorz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Lmao Facts bruh

    • @MrGuano11
      @MrGuano11 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I dont want to see only his forehead when watching on my phone

    • @iceburg_jones9887
      @iceburg_jones9887 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Big Boi all facts. That ugly ass tree in the room takes away from the message lol

    • @isaiahlabadie6397
      @isaiahlabadie6397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lovemamahouse true, I see no problem with it

  • @Zavantica
    @Zavantica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this at the right time. Met wifey material and I don't want mess up like in the past.

  • @oscargonzalez5933
    @oscargonzalez5933 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yo AMS these videos are getting better and better. Great video!

  • @nothingbutthebest135
    @nothingbutthebest135 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video, its good that you also give advice for guys who are in relationships. I currently live with a 10 and from time to time she needs to get checked. Its true about not giving too much validation and keeping emotions high.

  • @longfeet14
    @longfeet14 6 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Y’all do y’all homework? Professor AMS bout to call roll.

    • @BigDryda
      @BigDryda 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Sleezeball checking in 😎

    • @evanramrooop3718
      @evanramrooop3718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂🙌

    • @itsHoodStar
      @itsHoodStar 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Eric Foreskin Well, Calling Roll will take years cause man, there a lot of Beta niggas in here!

  • @MrShazza1999
    @MrShazza1999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One of your best video’s by far, helped me heaps

  • @cardiganlindsey7979
    @cardiganlindsey7979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    AMS can you make a video on how to improve male body language? like how a man should walk, make eye contact, sit? etc

    • @abcxyz-py6uw
      @abcxyz-py6uw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      stand tall and confident, chest out, keep strong eye contact

    • @emirb860
      @emirb860 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cardigan Lindsey that would make a good video.

    • @turkaslan2075
      @turkaslan2075 6 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bro one advice watch American Gangster. Warch the Club scene where Frank meet his future wife. How he aproache her. Best male move ever.
      Or wacht also The Movie Heat. Robert de Niro in the Bookstore and right after this scene the Cafe scene where the Bitch aproaches him. Look exactly how these guys move and talk.
      Peace. ✌️

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  6 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Cardigan Lindsey got it coming

    • @cardiganlindsey7979
      @cardiganlindsey7979 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Alpha Male Strategies - AMS good look !

  • @tsmooth9646
    @tsmooth9646 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Always keep them guessing

  • @lowkey87685
    @lowkey87685 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What you said is on point. This is true for life as well: employees, friends, family, fans ect

  • @ricksantiago5846
    @ricksantiago5846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Take a shot every time AMS says “ight”

  • @lawrenceboatright3035
    @lawrenceboatright3035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That was bomb brother! Keeps me motivated not to slip

  • @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan
    @DanTrustsTheFathersPlan 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Most well explained video on game period!

  • @gambittopic3002
    @gambittopic3002 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love listening to your videos because it gives me self awareness as an alpha Male thanks AMS

  • @amagst4033
    @amagst4033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He said Validation leads to Masturbation. I swear this Uncle is Exeprienced and knowledgable 😂🤞

  • @berrislaing5113
    @berrislaing5113 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U genius ams trust me. When u can agreee to what’s being said u know u on point 👊🏽

  • @HansGruber_777
    @HansGruber_777 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I agree with most that is said on this channel and most of it revolves around focusing on your purpose which leads to many positives, however what if you truly can't find your purpose? When you have tried many things in life and nothing gets your blood pumping? I know the answer would be to keep searching and exploring and meeting people and it would eventually surface, but it is surely a long road....

    • @alpha_male_s
      @alpha_male_s  6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      D G I have that coming

    • @Qjemuse
      @Qjemuse 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Easy. Make money first
      Go do a sales job. acquire people skill

    • @jamesmorell1758
      @jamesmorell1758 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You find what you're good at and become better at it. When you get better you become motivated about the conquest you're undertaking

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well what are u good at & what annoys u most in this world..? 💭

  • @adrianaddison248
    @adrianaddison248 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The content keeps getting better!

  • @jeremiahjohnson3047
    @jeremiahjohnson3047 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another great Alpha video..... coach said he’s a genius

  • @mailman248
    @mailman248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Whats crazy is that my wife came from a narcissist family household. They have no emotions. I can tell that in their house they were shamed for having an emotion. It's like they're afraid to show their feeling.

  • @dillonjobe9375
    @dillonjobe9375 6 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Alpha is that real gyalis no joke real recognise real

    • @JAZZYboy277
      @JAZZYboy277 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes bredda

    • @kemarricketts9835
      @kemarricketts9835 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Done know di ting set me boss. A it dat.

    • @absoluteauto1064
      @absoluteauto1064 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Real talk bredda!

    • @acharich
      @acharich 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kemarricketts9835 😤😂😤

  • @mrluny6452
    @mrluny6452 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I subscribed bro you gave me so much confidence just by you teaching us thank you so much.

  • @KingCarl36
    @KingCarl36 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I like the light shade shirt, AMS always keeping people guessisng

  • @tarotntoke
    @tarotntoke 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good stuff man thank you, its so counterintuitive, its hard to see how it would work,but i definitely see the logic

  • @yayowickd3826
    @yayowickd3826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Did she meet that baller tonight?” 😂

  • @meowmeow1733
    @meowmeow1733 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I went into this not expecting much.
    He did a good job.

  • @abduljabbar8999
    @abduljabbar8999 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    god bless this man 👏🏽👏🏽
    from france

  • @sajjbrown2357
    @sajjbrown2357 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dude always knows what the fuck he's talking about. Love this guy.

  • @budgetrebelgoals
    @budgetrebelgoals 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nothing wrong with a healthy balance of purpose and passion ..make No man or woman your whole life