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I wud like to narrate my story too, How do I go
Ossam topic. V v nicely conveyed
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This is why joint family system is always a blessing...in so many other ways too
Hii...im a doctor and also a mother of a toddler...have to work in night shifts also...... being a doctor and mother at the same time means you have to feel a guilt all the time...because if you focus 100% on job then u ll certainly cant do justice with your kid and vice versa......and last 2 years of pandemic was the most difficult time of my life...means leaving my kid behind and be in quarantine many of times and also be in a fear of passing your kid the infection.....i mean....i think only a mother can understand all this....i think its a high time that government hospitals must have a small nursery .....afterall doctors have same emotions too..... infact every workplace must have a little nurery.....
So true. I also faced same
More than a doctor, you are mother, world can get many doctors but for child you are the only one. Don't give priority to your job, being mother is the most important job
@@spuritualwonderradhamadhav5326 yes u r right somewhere.....when I'm with my child I think the same way.... But when a doctor is on his duty... I don't know what but something happens.... And I think every doctor has the same story... Something happens and u only thinks about ur patients when u r on ur duty.....sometimes Chahte hue b u jst can't compromise with ur patients..... If u do so then ur soul kills u....
Exactly same with my senior. She too have twin daughters 1 n a half year ago, and she has been dealing with the same problem
True
It's high time Corporate Officies should have their own Toddler Room.. where the Parents can leave their babies with care and safety...
It's time to make parenting easy for working couples
Yes you are right 👍
true…atleast we can start working again without any tension of our lil kids
Such a great idea!!
Yes, this needs to be done. A few international companies provide this facility like Google.
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Eye opening for those working parents who have to depend on caretakers. Yes verification is most important and CCTV helps too. Liked the content
I have grown up with my caretaker. But she treated me very nicely 😌
In a video it was shown that a woman who was working mother and her mother in law came to her house and she advised her for verification of maid but the woman was not taking this seriously and then she got to know that her child's care taker was a criminal kidnapper.
Maid kabhi maa nahi ban sakti
@@arushialphonsa2125 -lucky but i do not understand this concept of being raised by nannies/maids i understand olden time kings/queens royal nanny was like a mother to their kids and sometimes even incharge of the household affairs with full authority with number of people working under them being nanny it used to be a privilige for them but present world is different either be DINK or both hus/wife take out time between them for the kids else some kids feel left out nowadays have seen in our neighbourhood and also elsewhere
CCTV camera and police verification bahut Imp h...yaha p
We as working parents were very fortunate to get a lady who used to look after my daughter with care, love and devotion. She never used to take meal without feeding my daughter. She got shifted to some other city but always used to wish her on her birthdays and reminded us to vaccinate her from time to time (till the age of 10 years) We are grateful to her.
Jo dhyan maa rakh sakti hai vo koi nahi rakh sakta
That's why joint family is more important ...no need of caretaker... grandmother grand father other family member are God gift 🎁🧧🎁🧧
Outstanding topic.. I m also a working mother and can relate this very good.. Thank you for bring this topic in this platform.
Me too
I made a career shift after I had my child.I was never convinced of keeping my own kid with a caretaker or daycare centre no matter how trustworthy they seem to be.I am self employed,I work from home and able to look at my child 24/7.There should be at least one responsible person in the family at home to take care of your own child because nothing is worth more than your little and priceless bundle of joy.
how do u work from home? can u pls say
No one can replace, even mother of mother. What she can sense, feel and care is unique. Take care, be safe.
I can truly relate... my child's caretaker also used to eat from my kid's portion, even though I used to be at home but busy with my other child. luckily due to lockdown I got stuck with her at my parents place and that's when we came to know about the truth.
After that I never dared to have a caretaker for my child. I do all of their work by myself.
Thank God your child is safe. Do not trust these type of people. Better is to keep take care of child yourself
Ma to ma hi hoti hai mam....even my mother in law used to. This whenever I cooked anything for my son....
@neha aggarwal- then please give extra food so caretaker will not eat from kids food give the same food to them what you would eat so they will take good care
@@arpanmadrecha3013 it's not about extra food. We used to give her food same as ours. But it was Her tendency to steal... she used to steal my elder daughter's hairclips and my fancy hairbands too. Then, should I start giving her new clips every time. We used to pay her a fairly good amount and I asked her father to give some amount to her from the salary as well. So that she can buy something for herself and could stop her urge but he never gave her a penny.
Not all are same but yes there are few who can't be trusted, on the other hand I have few helpers whom I trust and they always live upto that trust.
@@nehaaggarwal8962 Oow! Do you live in Delhi, Noida or any such Big Metro city? Btw what's your profession due to which you can't give time to kids !
Living in joint families is blessing after watching this
There are some in laws who do the same with their grandchildren.. shocking but it's the truth. Never feed child on time leaving child unsupervised. Believe me I seen that happening
@@dailydoseofmotivation3114 yes you are right, some grandparents are not willing to take care of grandchildren. It takes all kind to make the world 😊
@@dailydoseofmotivation3114 Yes I agree with you.
Not always lucky to be in joint family
I feel it is not right to burden grand parents with yr child responsibility
As always, on point. How much abuse goes on with sitters. Blessings to those that are genuine at heart.
True . I had a very genuine baby sitter. My baby loved her so much .
Very heart touching..... I am also working and has a small child. Due to this types of people I can't trust except me and my husband....
That's why keep your parents with you so that your child and and your old parents both will feel secured and safe
@Aryan-and then listen whole time that they took care of you and also your kids because you did not give time to them
Nobody can replace parents especially mother when kids are too young.Taking a short break from work (if possible)/working from home would be better during the initial growing years if a child.many companies are encouraging and hiring mother's who wants to comeback to work after a break.
Why only mother needs to take a break the father cab also do that
It's very important till 4years atleast till 3yrs parents take care of the child because they are more precious than anything else...., choose your job accordingly
Very important issue. Not only for children but senior citizens too. What I mean is - older parents too don't tell us if caretakers are misbehaving with them. After trying with few caretakers to look after my father, I finally had to give up my job to be there for my father.
Difficult decision and financial implications too but then parents sacrifice so much more for us.
No regrets for my decision. I am lucky that my brother is taking care of major finances and I am trying out different things that I can do from home. Let's see what happens 😀
But one thing for sure - now I may not be able to trust any caretaker; some are good but rarely so!
May God bless you ❤
Oow! Nice 🙂 thought! Are you from Punjab? What was your job?
आपकी short film बहुत ज्ञान देती है । बेटा को आया के पास रखकर मैं भी आफिस जाती थी, मेरे साथ भी ऐसा ही हुआ है
I am a working mother and I have experienced same years back when my mother inlaw expired .Topic is important
This exactly happened with me. And I had to leave my job now my son is 11 years and after 8 n half years of sabbatical I resumed my job. I have taught and still teaching my son to be independent.
I can totally relate to this as I also started going to work when my kid was just 1 yr old.Luckily I had the best caretaker 'Didi' who took care of my son very patiently.Although for our peace of mind we have also installed cctv in our home which I think is the first basic thing parents should consider while keeping caretakers.In a way it creates a sense of fear to the caretakers that they are constantly being watched which reduces any kind of misbehavior.
Thats why i opt to take care of my child ..and quit my work for few years..
I hve seen so many such cases in my society
Mee too,iam a doctor,i feel every child takes their own time to be capable of expressing discomfort,pain, anything regarding abuse, etc till that time, parents should take care of kids, roughly 3 years for most of kids.
Such a difficult decision for parents work for a better future or not to work n protect their child but with less income security 😔
This is so true!
I once read a news about a baby sitter yelling at a 4 months old baby. She yelled so hard that the baby temporarily lost her hearing.
I am a teacher also a mother of two childs, my mother and sister took care of them so I was free from worry and I was satisfied.
Nice vedio. Mjhe meri beti ka dhyan rkhne k lie jo caretaker mili h wo meri absent me uska meri tarah khyal rkhti h. Shukr hai🤲
I joined my office recently. I know its really difficult to manage office and baby.Work from home atleast gives us little relief.Thanks for bringing this topic.
What's the point... it's not like you or your husband will give up the office jobs to care for your kids!
Maybe be senior citizens will be exploited to handle the situation.
God..I can co relate to this I have kept 2 nannies for my kid and both were like this...it's very difficult to trust someone
May be some nanny's are like that. I have amazing nanny who is second mom to my kid.
So let's not be judgemental towards all!
She even shares her tiffin at times with my elder daughter since she likes her spicy food.
We offer her whatever we eat to during the day. If someone is with you the entire day - they are your family..
Aap ne to meri aankhe khol di thank you
Very heart touching vidio.dekh kr hi aankh me aansou aa gaye.service krne wale parents aur bachchou ko bahot si batou ko face krna padta h.very nice topic.
It's a bitter truth that how high u paid but no one will take care like a mom...
No one even can care like a dad too & it 's proved madam...Father can also take care na🙄
Mum and dad both lets appreciate both.
The best caretaker and pre school of your children is your parents... Apne parents ke saath rhne ki aadat daal ho... Isse best solution kuch bhi nh hai...
No one is caring like mom because home is not home without mom
A very eye opening video for working couples with young children or elderly parents.
Babies and elderlies are vulnerable and both need TLC.
The reason my husband and I worked different shifts, so we didn't have to hire a baby sitter. I was aftaid to trust anyone with my children.
Many parents doesn't have those opportunity to work different shifts, so they really need to verify the credentials of these caregivers. My friend is with elderly parents and suffer a lot. She was in the office one day, and saw on CC tv footage that the home health aide took her mom out with slippers and a thin blanked wrapped around her on a freezing cold day to the supermarket despite of my friend telling her not to take her mum out. The aide, turned her phone off so my friend couldn't contact her and scold her.
My friends mom caught pneumonia. She's 92 years old.
Such things are always happening. It makes me think it was better when we all lived in joint families truth be told.
Loved the video.
This is the problem of new society where money , freedom n identity for women are important but at same time so many things are needed to change..acceptance of older people,acceptance of daughter in law n taking care of staff as a human being n being elert as you have shown..if relations are good children will get very good secure atmosphere around grandparents ( not necessary they should be paternal grand father only)
If girls parents are taking care of her children,they should be respected by son in law...thank you for creating this cause
@Neelima- not entirely possible in current world and new india
This is a very important topic that you have bought to the forefront, it is a real dilemma for the working parents, as they also stay away from their families in search of new opportunities. Kudos once again guys🙏🙏🙏❤️❣️
It's only a delima if salaried job is more important than own kid's care.
IDK why people have kids when it is so for them.
My parents are also working ,...we had caretaker for my siblings at different times... except one all were nice....I used to call one dadi and other one didi...really nice people...I am 22 now but still having good memories in my mind ....
I am blessed I was having a mother like caretaker when my daughter was small now she is 15 year old
But true my so many friends have a similar experience like what have shown in your video
Being a working mom myself I know the importance of caretakers. .. and at the sametime I am strictly against the fact of leaving a small helpless baby with an unknown person!!! Caretakers are fine only if an elderly or someone from the family is present at home!!! Otherwise a good daycare is always a better option!!!
Also, when my Granny, my lifeline was hospitalized my Nanni ji's left their families in the middle of the night and stayed with us for days together for our security only because Granny ji used to treat them as family till their retirement time, thank you so much Life tak for sharing the important tips with us for sure it will help alot of nuclear families. Grand parents👵👴 experience will like God's love and support, hope this helps ☺
A very relevant topic! Many young parents have to face this dilemma of leaving their children behind, when they go out to work.It is necessary to be alert and check the caretakers
@Anupama-that's why DINK trend nowadays
Same story mere 1 known ki h unko bhi daughter down lagti thi ki jaise thik khana nhi mil rha growth proper nhi thi....issliye maine bache ko jb parents ki zarurat hoti h unke liye raho career bnta theta h aaj nhi kuch saal baad but jb bache ko parents ki zarurat hoti tb aage rahena chahiye warna bacha bhi parents k close nhi ho pta ....first priority first responsibility child hona chahiye...
This happens even with old age parents...some so called caretakers are real danger and always we should opt for cctv coverage in every room where the child or parents under the care of such caretakers are left to ensure their proper care and safety
इसी तरह की पटकथा पर विकास दिव्यकिर्ती सर ने बड़ी अच्छी बात कही थी।
अमीर लोग अपने बच्चों की देखरेख के लिए गरीब बच्चों से उनके माँ बाप तक छीन लेते हैं। एक गरीबमां अपने 1 साल के बच्चे को छोड़कर अमीर के 7 साल के बच्चे को अपना पूरा दिन दे देती है और वह गरीब का बच्चा तमाम अभावों में और अधिकतर समय बिना माँ बाप के ही व्यतीत करता है लिहाजा वह जिंदगी में पीछे ही रह जाता है।
Superb!!! An important issue tackled so well: as always.
Yea CCTV is a must when kids are with caretakers. Thanks to technology we can now keep an eye on our kids even when they are not with us
People have become selfish now a days ....an excellent topic taken up in this materialistic so called world.. good job team 👏👌❤
I was blessed to have the best nanni ji's for us, I was handed over to my Dad in front of my Granny as they didn't recognized him at my school, neither did they shared her address with him. Hat's off to security levels they maintained. Thank you for this awareness Life tak.
Nice meid kabhi bhrose ke layak nahi hoti bacce ke liye sirf apnon ka hona jaruri he ❤️
Really awesome & true. This happens in many time. Can't trust on anybody now a days.
That's commendable! How your team always read the mind n heart of viewers and come up with the current creative ideas 👍 I think child care with other community kids will be safer n enjoyable for them. I got goosebumps to see how that child got neglected.
Very good topic for today's generation n it makes us realise the importance of grandparents.
Photos of these people should be taken and shared on every platform possible so they don’t get job in the same industry
I must say a big thank you to my husband who was totally opposed for me working.
It was difficult but we managed.
I was able to watch my kids myself
To say we are houewife but we manage a lot more work than people say.
Whether its construction of the house.
Children's tuition.
Parents illness.
Or any other things that needed to be done for the betterment of the family.
Thanks to god, m also a working mother but living with in laws, but I hired a caretaker she is trustworthy as well as my in laws are there to look after also
If we love our parents and children both..... problem may solv easily.. 🙏👍 very connected topic to this era..acting level is so high that we can't say word "acting" it's reality.... congratulations 🎊
If you leave your child with a maid, CCTV is must!
This is so heart wrenching.....all working parents should somehow keep their kid with mother or mother in law.....or atleast should make mother in law or mother's should stay with us. Thanks to covid, it proved that everyone can work from home without any issues. Working mothers and fathers should choose work from home alternate weeks to look after their kid well :)
@Renuka K- you will have to listen for whole life that they took care of you and also your kids because the parents did not have time hence follow DINK trend nowadays
Ye bahot sensetive issue hai,,,hum sona chandi kisi ke bharose nahi rakhte par hamare bachhe kisi ko bhi sop dete hai😟
I am also a working mother but my in laws are very supportive
V lucky.....
@Babita- hope they do not complain afterwards
Both natural acting. Live in their roles.
This things happened 33 years back with me. That time there was no cctv our neighbours informed my parents. Later my mother took two years leave without pay till my school
I am a mother of twin daughters and before them had an amazing work career in the mnc sector for over 15yrs. However once my daughters were born I left my job n though I am in a joint family, my point is that a mother can understand the spoken n most important unspoken needs of a child n that cannot be fulfilled by anybody else. Also considering the kind of people we have around us, I rather be with my girls. To each to his/her own. I have worked a lot, been there done it all n maybe hence I don't mind being a full time mom.
Same thoughts. But true
Have an amazing nanny for my daughter. She is second mom to my kid. So it depends...
Good to have a choice. But everyone doesn't.
Yes.. child is more important than job or carrier.. I think woman can take a break for 2/3 years and take care of the child as little baby needs a mom in this most important crucial period of there life.. woman can also enjoy the motherhood.. afterall job is always there but the happiness you will miss of these times will not come back again whereas carrier and job is always there..
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I have never left my kid with any caretaker. Luckily my extended family helped me to continue my work..but if they won't be there I would happily quit the job unless until any proper arrangements were made for the kid. I can't even think trusting on anyone with my kid.
My heart shattered watching this... Can't imagine this with any child
Verification can only say this person has an aadhaar card and has not been to jail. But cctv camera footage is vital. Do not tell the caretaker that there is a cctv footage. And also keep making surprise visits.
You're absolutely right. And CCTV should also be installed. Some caretakers can sedate the children and can use them for begging too
Absolutely all office should have a small nursery for the babies
No need! Mother should take leave ! Bad western culture !
@@satyampandey890father can also take leave
WFH was / is a facility given to only private company people... Think about those employees working in government sector who didn't even have a single day WFH in full pandemic... How they managed with their little ones when no daycare was working as per ministry guidelines and seniors were not permitting to bring their kids to bring to workplace.... Life is not easy.... Need is to be empathetic...
Sabbatical is d answer or parents support
@@nurseryrhymesnmore... Sabbaticals as far as I know is unpaid and not everyone has options of parents due to their health condition.
Sabbatical is not allowed in many jobs and parents in pandemic have to travel in pandemic to reach you which obviously nobody wants as they are age old...
Leave it... This discussion is endless.. Life tak always show those families who have option of WFH.. they never thought about issues of working young ladies in government sector who have small kids and since they are in transferable job, they can't stay with their in laws or parents...some how they manage with daycare and when pandemic hit, all schools and daycare stopped but office didn't... Not for small time period, almost 2 years... It's easy to speak but hard to empathize
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Why don't you make videos on climate change and pollution especially in Delhi? It's our responsibility to save our planet.Please do make some videos 🙏
Yes very true same thing happened with me in my childhood that too for so many months.
It is better to keep your child or baby in professional daycare they take good care.
Yesssss sisters. Nice video. .aapki hr video nice hoti h. ......
That's why we need joint family
Exactly
Really this is big problem
Bharosa wala bahut muskil se milte hai
Again a video with a real life concept. Thankfully I have been lucky enough with the care takers for my kids. 🙏
That's why we have the concept of joint family, atleast we lived with grand parents. And now... uff... In nuclear family this type of problem is very usual.
Nowadays even non working mothers leave children in the custody of caretakers.Some caretakers are really good but few bad ones create a bad name for the caretaker community.
I feel same as this episode...i hv my twins n hire someone for their care.but so many days after I found something wrong.....n I fire her.
career kuch time baad bhi bana sakte h i know prblm hogi but we can manage.....but baby we can't.
babies r God gifts to us.
Now i takecare my self of both kids. n m happy.
By profession m an Advocate but my first job is motherhood...👶👶
Yes, every workplace must have a little nursery.
Surbhi Mam haar Role mai Perfect h. Inkho shoona n chayie. Ur Na hi Jhoot bholna chayie 😯😭
Oh my , this is my story.. 15 years back i also used to leave my 6 months old daughter with a care taker lady who had previously been working with my in-laws for 20 odd years, so kind of trustworthy.. One day when suddenly I came back from work v early and found the house locked from inside. I rang door bell repeatedly for ten minutes,but she didn't come to open the door. I panicked, those were no mobile days.. no CCTVs .. i started shouting, crying , trying to smell for gas leak, looking for some clues for burgers' entry / some mishap desperately. but nothing, nothing I could smell ,see and no response from inside. In panick, don't know from where I got the strength , i broke open the door in one kick , and then found the lady sleeping on bed after having some kind of desi nasha and my child was also sleeping with her as she gave that drug to her too. ..
Is it true?? Oh my God. Giving narcotics to a baby is more than a crime.
@@friendshiprocks8673 yeah, absolutely true. Don't even want to imagine if the dose of that drug would have been a bit more....
Oh my goodness
Going through the same phase. All offices are opened. They want employees at office. Have 8 month baby girl . So difficult to leave at some other person. want to leave job but that is also tough . No one can mom's care which is absolutely true. But atleast the expectation is treat a child like a child .
Thank you for showing this . Definitely gonna be double sure.
how are u doing now?
This is happening with working parents but society ,our older don't understand if husband stay at Home still bad comments
Acting is superb.. You guyz simply rock.
Again a wonder ful topic acted out which is the most common problem in 21st century..
Really we can't depend on anyone for child taking care. Verification is important for keeping maid. Sensitive topic s many working women and men faces. Nice concept 👍
You people are so awesome.actually it's too difficult to handle this type of situation
Never leave your child alone with a nanny without a camera set up . There are so many options available in the market and they are not expensive at all. You just need a wifi connection and install the app on your phone. You can see your child and talk to him through the camera . If you find a good nanny its great but always have a camera and make sure the nanny knows you are watching all the time. Little ones can't speak for themselves and it's the parents responsibility
Once you are out of job..no earning..and a comeback is the toughest challenge till date ladies are facing..
It's not just giving ur baby food,clothes in time but it's something called love & affection which only u can give to your child which no caretaker can give....
So sad. I left my work just to give full care to my baby
Same thing also happened to our daughter. We, the working parents face the same situation who don't have grand parents.
A nanny cam or cctv is a working moms best friend. I places cameras in my entire home including all bedrooms so that we could see what is happening.
very important topic. 💯👍👍
Companies and Offices should alllow the women to join work after a break of 3 or 4 yrs, in the same organisation.
To look after the baby for 3 yrs, she sacrifices her career of 35 years.
To take care of baby is more important than job
@@spuritualwonderradhamadhav5326 oh really why then not fathers leave their job
@@qurratulaineproteety4321 as per nature father is designed to earn to take responsibility of feeding family, mother is designed soft to take care of child with love. Father cannot take care of family what mother can do that's why mother's position is highest
@@spuritualwonderradhamadhav5326 that is pure misogyny
@@qurratulaineproteety4321 that's your misperception
Need of the hour....absolutely verification must be done...very nice content and video
You two partner is fantastic,
I request all those who see to subscribe.. They are too good and we need more videos like they regulary create.
Nobody will take care of our children more then parents.one should sacrifice raither father or mother care of there kids future .
Your video can wake everyone up, thank you.