Thank you for your great videos Kristin! My relationship is going through a rocky moment and your tips are great and I can totally say they have been working for us.
I got my help from someone, he was the only one who was able to help me bring back my ex husband back to me and he save and solve my relationship problem >>>!!!
How do i overcome my insecurities in a way thats not toxic towards the person i love she is amazing to me but i worry all the time cuz communication shuts down when we argue i always feel like im standing on the edge and i feel random jealousy i think counseling migjt be the smartest way to keep going
Think I've fallen out of love and I don't know if I should tell her or not. Might hurt the relationship More then help. Any advice would be great thanks 🙂
Hi Garret, I'm so sorry to hear that. I do think there is a way to address your concerns without necessarily being harsh about it, and there are some things you can try doing now to help bring the spark back. Check out my other videos on building/rebuilding intimacy. I think those will be helpful for you.
Going through a break. My partner explained he quotes wants a “normal” girl. He explained he wants me to be more feminine. Dressing like a “woman” not sure if he’s unreasonable? He’s freaks out over my hygiene. Idk just at a loss...feeling like I given up but yet still want to fight for the relationship
I felt i am under her punishment. Why? It really breaks my heart when i feel humiliation for myself. She didn't even pull me up when i cried almost kneeled on her. I feel like I'm a totally stranger.
Good morning Kristin I really messed up my relationship with my finance we been together for 2 years now I do really love her what can I do to make things right between us again
My wife has been a staying home mum for 15 years raising our 4 children.. she’s a great person and mother.. my partner started working five months ago and the day she started she completely changed. Q:can work colleagues influence her mind set .? Cause she now has moved out and no interest in our children.. When I ask she gets defensive and then we argue .!
I came on here to watch videos for help! I been with my girlfriend for 3 years and social media is ruining our relationship because of guys messaging her and I secretly logged in into her Instagram and seen a message with a guy and he said if she was still with me and she said he’s there at the moment I think it sounds like she doesn’t care? & and he responded with I can believe your still together it’s been a while & she responded with it’s okay & he said congratulations and she responded with a thank with smiling face emoji😭this one is this bad? Because I know he liked her and she didn’t tell me about it and deleted that message but hasn’t texted him since and my anxiety is killing me because it telling me maybe on snap chat she is but she always tells me that she wants to be with me and would never do anything like that and she wants to be happy us together I’m just SOOO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ps love your video’s🙏🏼
Thank you for reaching out. If I can be completely honest with you, your relationship is struggling with major trust issues, and it's having a huge impact. The fact that you secretly logged into her instagram is a huge sign of trust issues, and when trust is lacking, anxiety goes through the roof. And that is what's happening. You both really need to talk and figure out what's going on. Trust has been broken most likely because there isn't enough honestly happening, enough transparency happening, and enough communication. So that needs to be addressed and worked on, and both of you need to recognize what is currently going on here is a problem for you relationship. When you both are ready to work on your goals, I have a ton of videos that will help in those categories.
Kristin Coaching she hasn’t took off our pictures down on Instagram the only thing she took off was my name on the bio on Instagram and I’m just so confused I told her then we should take a break because she didn’t want to be with me anymore and after that message she hasn’t texted me since and I hope just a break would reconnect us stronger and we haven’t texted since Friday
Hi kristin, this video struck a nerve with me because I'm the one who has a hard time being honest about how I feel and what I need to be happy. For ex, part of me feels sad because my need for closeness and connection with my partner is not being fully met and the thing that would make me happy is to have daily phone conversations with my partner throughout the day but that's not the case. For ex, he used to call me during his lunch break at work when the weather was nice since he would go out to talk but now that it's cold he doesn't call me anymore since he stays in the lunchroom and says that everyone in the lunchroom can hear his conversation with me so I only get to talk with my partner after work on his way home and that's it then on the weekends I don't really hear from him either so I haven't been honest with my partner about how I feel and what I need and am not sure how to tell him either
Hi there, thank you so much for sharing. Yes, it's very important to be honest and express your needs to him. I wonder if text messages during lunch might be a good compromise during the poor weather days? But this is something you both need to work on together, and I'm confident you will once you take the time to talk about it. :)
@@KristinCoaching thanks for your quick response and yes texting might be a good option but my main concern is that I have a hard time asking for what I need since my partner says that during the wk he's tired when he gets home from work and on the weekends he visits his mom at the nursing home and does errands so am wondering how can I ask that I need more connection by talkin to ea other more throughout the day at least on the weekends without sounding like I'm not understanding of things my partner has going on in his own life?
I think you say exactly just that. Acknowledge that he has a lot on his plate and does a great job at managing his responsibilities. I think validating that is really, really important. And then mention that him contacting you is something you really need in order to feel better and more secure in the relationship, and ask him if you think he would be willing to do that. Own that this is a need you have and that he's not doing anything wrong, but you just need him to put more energy into this particular arena. I think it's all about being gentle with it, validating his situation, and stating your needs in a respectful way.
@@KristinCoaching thanks for your quick response. I think I need to work on validating my partner's situation like you said because when I try to express a need I have my partner then feels like I don't understand what he goes through and tends to get frustrated that I don't seem to understand his situation and think in part that's why our conversations don't go very well so thanks for emphasizing that. I also like the idea of asking my partner if it's something he can do because I never ask him and instead I'm just wondering if he'll do it or not and it makes me a bit anxious just wondering so thanks for your advice. Really liked this video and look forward to seeing more. Am thinking maybe another good video would be what to do when we take something that our spouse/partner did or said personal. I think that's something very common that happens often in relationships and think it would be a good video
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Thank you for your great videos Kristin! My relationship is going through a rocky moment and your tips are great and I can totally say they have been working for us.
You are very welcome Paula. So happy the video helped :)
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You're welcome :)
How do i overcome my insecurities in a way thats not toxic towards the person i love she is amazing to me but i worry all the time cuz communication shuts down when we argue i always feel like im standing on the edge and i feel random jealousy i think counseling migjt be the smartest way to keep going
Excellent Video!
So happy you liked it :)
Think I've fallen out of love and I don't know if I should tell her or not. Might hurt the relationship More then help. Any advice would be great thanks 🙂
Hi Garret, I'm so sorry to hear that. I do think there is a way to address your concerns without necessarily being harsh about it, and there are some things you can try doing now to help bring the spark back. Check out my other videos on building/rebuilding intimacy. I think those will be helpful for you.
Going through a break. My partner explained he quotes wants a “normal” girl. He explained he wants me to be more feminine. Dressing like a “woman” not sure if he’s unreasonable? He’s freaks out over my hygiene. Idk just at a loss...feeling like I given up but yet still want to fight for the relationship
Excellent video
hmmm, that sounds almost superficial, and interesting that he's focusing on that being an issue.
Kristin Coaching yea seems like it so I’m not even sure if it’s a fixable issue
I felt i am under her punishment. Why? It really breaks my heart when i feel humiliation for myself. She didn't even pull me up when i cried almost kneeled on her. I feel like I'm a totally stranger.
Good morning Kristin I really messed up my relationship with my finance we been together for 2 years now I do really love her what can I do to make things right between us again
My wife has been a staying home mum for 15 years raising our 4 children.. she’s a great person and mother.. my partner started working five months ago and the day she started she completely changed.
Q:can work colleagues influence her mind set .? Cause she now has moved out and no interest in our children.. When I ask she gets defensive and then we argue .!
I came on here to watch videos for help! I been with my girlfriend for 3 years and social media is ruining our relationship because of guys messaging her and I secretly logged in into her Instagram and seen a message with a guy and he said if she was still with me and she said he’s there at the moment I think it sounds like she doesn’t care? & and he responded with I can believe your still together it’s been a while & she responded with it’s okay & he said congratulations and she responded with a thank with smiling face emoji😭this one is this bad? Because I know he liked her and she didn’t tell me about it and deleted that message but hasn’t texted him since and my anxiety is killing me because it telling me maybe on snap chat she is but she always tells me that she wants to be with me and would never do anything like that and she wants to be happy us together I’m just SOOO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ps love your video’s🙏🏼
Thank you for reaching out. If I can be completely honest with you, your relationship is struggling with major trust issues, and it's having a huge impact. The fact that you secretly logged into her instagram is a huge sign of trust issues, and when trust is lacking, anxiety goes through the roof. And that is what's happening. You both really need to talk and figure out what's going on. Trust has been broken most likely because there isn't enough honestly happening, enough transparency happening, and enough communication. So that needs to be addressed and worked on, and both of you need to recognize what is currently going on here is a problem for you relationship. When you both are ready to work on your goals, I have a ton of videos that will help in those categories.
Kristin Coaching she wants to break up with me do you think this time off would be better for us ?
I can't say yes or no to that because I'm not in your relationship. That's why I always tell my viewers to trust their instincts.
Kristin Coaching she hasn’t took off our pictures down on Instagram the only thing she took off was my name on the bio on Instagram and I’m just so confused I told her then we should take a break because she didn’t want to be with me anymore and after that message she hasn’t texted me since and I hope just a break would reconnect us stronger and we haven’t texted since Friday
Hi kristin, this video struck a nerve with me because I'm the one who has a hard time being honest about how I feel and what I need to be happy. For ex, part of me feels sad because my need for closeness and connection with my partner is not being fully met and the thing that would make me happy is to have daily phone conversations with my partner throughout the day but that's not the case. For ex, he used to call me during his lunch break at work when the weather was nice since he would go out to talk but now that it's cold he doesn't call me anymore since he stays in the lunchroom and says that everyone in the lunchroom can hear his conversation with me so I only get to talk with my partner after work on his way home and that's it then on the weekends I don't really hear from him either so I haven't been honest with my partner about how I feel and what I need and am not sure how to tell him either
Hi there, thank you so much for sharing. Yes, it's very important to be honest and express your needs to him. I wonder if text messages during lunch might be a good compromise during the poor weather days? But this is something you both need to work on together, and I'm confident you will once you take the time to talk about it. :)
@@KristinCoaching thanks for your quick response and yes texting might be a good option but my main concern is that I have a hard time asking for what I need since my partner says that during the wk he's tired when he gets home from work and on the weekends he visits his mom at the nursing home and does errands so am wondering how can I ask that I need more connection by talkin to ea other more throughout the day at least on the weekends without sounding like I'm not understanding of things my partner has going on in his own life?
I think you say exactly just that. Acknowledge that he has a lot on his plate and does a great job at managing his responsibilities. I think validating that is really, really important. And then mention that him contacting you is something you really need in order to feel better and more secure in the relationship, and ask him if you think he would be willing to do that. Own that this is a need you have and that he's not doing anything wrong, but you just need him to put more energy into this particular arena. I think it's all about being gentle with it, validating his situation, and stating your needs in a respectful way.
@@KristinCoaching thanks for your quick response. I think I need to work on validating my partner's situation like you said because when I try to express a need I have my partner then feels like I don't understand what he goes through and tends to get frustrated that I don't seem to understand his situation and think in part that's why our conversations don't go very well so thanks for emphasizing that. I also like the idea of asking my partner if it's something he can do because I never ask him and instead I'm just wondering if he'll do it or not and it makes me a bit anxious just wondering so thanks for your advice. Really liked this video and look forward to seeing more. Am thinking maybe another good video would be what to do when we take something that our spouse/partner did or said personal. I think that's something very common that happens often in relationships and think it would be a good video