she tried to go private and gather info and recording on him but he caught her multiple times and took cell phones from her and generally didnt allow her to go public so honestly this was a good way for her to show this abuse.
I was in a very similar abusive marriage and got out last year if you'd like a victim's perspective. Them using terms like "too sensitive" are ways of invalidating their victim and it's a way to belittle their emotions to an obviously abusive situation. It's a way to gaslight and confuse their partner.
The possibility of being killed by someone like this is high in domestic issues. If she had only recorded it, we may have only seen headlines of her body and footage being found. At least this way he backed off. She is obviously having trouble deciding what to do based on her pacing the room. She’s scared. This way she has witnesses and a reason for him to not attack her.
“Um, 5 years is a long time…At your age, you should know within a year whether or not someone is marriage material” HAHAHA wtf, this dude’s takes are whack 😂😂
That one is true though, 5 years is a long time and you should be able to tell if you're going to marry that person in the first year. If you aren't going to marry them, call it off, no point in dragging something on that isn't going to lead anywhere. If you are going to marry them, then propose already, no point in delaying the inevitable. If you haven't made up your mind about your partner after a year of dating, what have you been doing the whole time?
@@britterzzz8744 Jews, especially Orthodox Jews, report some of the happiest marriages and lowest divorce rates in the country, and they are very well known for having extremely short dating/engagement phases. Moving on to Christianity, Christians who hold the traditional views of the church tend to have a semi long dating period and a short engagement period and also report happier marriages and lower divorce rates then the secular world. The answer you'll hear from many pastors is "date for 8-14 months, be engaged for 2-4 months and then get married" and that you shouldn't move in together before marriage. Only in very recent history did it become the norm to have multiple sexual partners and date for extremely long periods of time, and people on average are more depressed now than ever. The industrial revolution and the sexual revolution have proven to be 2 of the worst things for humans when it comes to mental health.
The laugh thing kinda doesn't make sense because I think as human beings we pick up things without realizing it. Like I remember a period in my life where my laugh became similar to a guy in my class. Then more recently I recognized that my laughed kinda sounded like somebody that I watched on yt. So imo i don't think she's faking it or anything but who knows🤷🏾♀️
I absolutely love Drew Aufoulo. i’ve been watching her for a very long time, and I’ve only ever seen her clap back at men who genuinely deserve it. These are guys that have been absolutely misogynistic, super sexist and degrading. Every once in a while I run into a video like this, where it’s men policing how they think Drew, a woman, should respond to toxic masculinity, essentially. And this is sad, but it’s to be expected. I’m sure that some men don’t like her videos, and generally the men who don’t like her videos either just think she’s a bit too loud, which is fine, or have some internalized misogyny and spat out about her not dealing with the massage near the correct way. Policing her. I’ve been watching this video for about 10 minutes. I may have to comment a second time after the section on Drew is complete. I’m watching this nervously, because I just found and love PapaGut, and his way of handling Drew will probably sway my favor in his channel or not.
even though I don’t know this guy, I know this guy. And in the next few days, he’s going to come to her and apologize and be super sweet and love bomb and be super flattering and bring her a present and try to get her back. And if she takes him back in a week or two they’re going to be right back to the situation, and it will be as bad or worse. Narcissists are always pretty reliable in their antics and patterns.
what's the argument for why she should have to keep her abuse private? lol....that's so messed up. Shout it to the rooftops girl if its going to help you. put everyone in your business. It doesn't need to stay "private". I just can't imagine saying to someone who is being abused "shhh, don't tell everyone, you know you should just keep that between yourself and your abuser and sort it out quietly without bothering me. thanks".
I agree with you. I feel like he needs to public humiliation. He needs everyone who thinks “oh, he’s a good guy,“ to know the truth. His friends should know, her friends should know, the more quiet you keep it, the more he can deny it and get away with it.
imagine like it was in a movie. We don’t know the full backstory, but I’m assuming he’s been treating her like this for quite a while. She’s had to silently suffer with somebody who is so illogically angry with her all the time, makes empty threats, screams while she’s whimpering in a puddle of tears. After a while, she’s going to break. And she decided to expose him for the abuser that he is! Now his friends, his community will see how he treats her. The world will see how she was treated. I absolutely think it was his just desserts. Most narcissistic abusers want their partners to stay quiet, to stay afraid, to let them get away with the abuse. I could tell in that video she just had a moment where she said “I’m going to unmute“ and let everybody see what she’s going through. And this is after an hour and a half of her being on the phone with her husband, an hour and a half I’m assuming of yelling and fighting. it would be kind of like if a woman was physically abused by a guy, who always gives her black eyes and she always covers it up with make up, but one day she decides to go make up free and let the world see what’s been happening to her. Same vibe. I just hope she’s OK, I hope she got help somehow for this. I hope she’s free of him, and I hope she’s working on healing I think this just hit those of us who have been through a relationship like this extra hard.
@@noodlepoodlegirl even if that was true, which most of the time it’s not as 90% of the people she makes fun of on the internet using her huge platform are dumb teenage boys who said something stupid. she’s also the biggest hypocrite in the world considering she was throwing around the F slur. but even if she did only hate farm against “hateful people” two wrongs will never make a right and she is honestly just making more and more men sexist 😭
I live for drew, she only pisses off the guys that actually do the shit she talks about. Don’t be an ass and say your unwanted opinions that are insulting and hurtful and she wouldn’t have to make those videos lol pretty simple. She’s just giving back the same energy and it’s not very cool being on the other side of things is it fellas 🤷🏻♀️ just be a decent person, it really isn’t that hard.
absolutely. I love her, and she only dishes shit back to guys who truly deserve it. She’s one of my favorite creators and I usually won’t follow people who don’t like her or talk bad about her. She’s really, really special to me.
@@noodlepoodlegirl she don’t just make weird content on its own for no reasoning for hating men like most of the men are doing about women, she’s making fun because their sitting there criticizing hard on women or other men when nobody asked their opinion lol so she gives it back and they can’t handle it. Typical really. It don’t surprise me papa guy don’t like her either. He likes to pretend he’s a moral compass but he just had to make a video about cheating on his wife 😂 and turned the comments off. He says constantly how much he “loves his wife” but is being a down right dog to her. Red flag much. That’s the kind of stuff drew will call the shit out of lol so no you can tell what kind of men usually they are if they can’t stand her lol it’s usually cause what she’s saying is hittin a little close to home. It wouldn’t bother someone that didn’t do those things or think that way.
Fat people can absolutely have preferences. However being in a physical position of societys least desirable everyone has a right to dunk on them. Its the same as if a short man made public of his preferences of what he prefers in a women to be skinny or tall or thick. Its ok to have a preference but if y r in the wrong side of preferences then u become an easier target. Its not sexist or misogynist. It is wat it is
well, she’s the opposite of him. For instance he’s a villain, and she’s a superhero. She’s the one getting justice for women who are wronged. She’s the amazing reactionary step to the misogynistic and hurtful action. She lifts women up, and she also lifts up guys who believe that women deserve better treatment than they often get online.
she tried to go private and gather info and recording on him but he caught her multiple times and took cell phones from her and generally didnt allow her to go public so honestly this was a good way for her to show this abuse.
I was in a very similar abusive marriage and got out last year if you'd like a victim's perspective. Them using terms like "too sensitive" are ways of invalidating their victim and it's a way to belittle their emotions to an obviously abusive situation. It's a way to gaslight and confuse their partner.
Sounds like she loves him... Losing a marriage is really hard, even if there is abuse. It's pretty close to a death
The possibility of being killed by someone like this is high in domestic issues. If she had only recorded it, we may have only seen headlines of her body and footage being found.
At least this way he backed off. She is obviously having trouble deciding what to do based on her pacing the room. She’s scared. This way she has witnesses and a reason for him to not attack her.
@Nick He got physical with her, did you even watch the video?
I think you went from zero to 100 very quickly.
@@twinmama16 Never underestimate the destructive abilities of a narcissistic man in a rage.
The husband sounds like basherverse when he had the mental breakdown
Dude. I was trying to figure out why those screams sounded familiar.
Her laugh is worse than nails on a chalkboard... Why is it so ANGER INDUCING???🤣🤣🤣
i love it. i associate it with validation.
“Um, 5 years is a long time…At your age, you should know within a year whether or not someone is marriage material” HAHAHA wtf, this dude’s takes are whack 😂😂
That one is true though, 5 years is a long time and you should be able to tell if you're going to marry that person in the first year. If you aren't going to marry them, call it off, no point in dragging something on that isn't going to lead anywhere. If you are going to marry them, then propose already, no point in delaying the inevitable. If you haven't made up your mind about your partner after a year of dating, what have you been doing the whole time?
I find it mad to get married before 2 years at least. Especially in your 20s and even 30s.
@@britterzzz8744 Jews, especially Orthodox Jews, report some of the happiest marriages and lowest divorce rates in the country, and they are very well known for having extremely short dating/engagement phases. Moving on to Christianity, Christians who hold the traditional views of the church tend to have a semi long dating period and a short engagement period and also report happier marriages and lower divorce rates then the secular world. The answer you'll hear from many pastors is "date for 8-14 months, be engaged for 2-4 months and then get married" and that you shouldn't move in together before marriage. Only in very recent history did it become the norm to have multiple sexual partners and date for extremely long periods of time, and people on average are more depressed now than ever. The industrial revolution and the sexual revolution have proven to be 2 of the worst things for humans when it comes to mental health.
@@andrewmayhew9746 I'd rather be depressed than a Christian.
Glad you corrected yourself papa on the Amourath stuff. Proud of you ❤
The laugh thing kinda doesn't make sense because I think as human beings we pick up things without realizing it. Like I remember a period in my life where my laugh became similar to a guy in my class. Then more recently I recognized that my laughed kinda sounded like somebody that I watched on yt. So imo i don't think she's faking it or anything but who knows🤷🏾♀️
I love the way you upload content, I just let the content build up on all your channels then bing watch all of it like watching tv
I absolutely love Drew Aufoulo. i’ve been watching her for a very long time, and I’ve only ever seen her clap back at men who genuinely deserve it. These are guys that have been absolutely misogynistic, super sexist and degrading. Every once in a while I run into a video like this, where it’s men policing how they think Drew, a woman, should respond to toxic masculinity, essentially. And this is sad, but it’s to be expected. I’m sure that some men don’t like her videos, and generally the men who don’t like her videos either just think she’s a bit too loud, which is fine, or have some internalized misogyny and spat out about her not dealing with the massage near the correct way. Policing her.
I’ve been watching this video for about 10 minutes. I may have to comment a second time after the section on Drew is complete. I’m watching this nervously, because I just found and love PapaGut, and his way of handling Drew will probably sway my favor in his channel or not.
Reminds me of a dumber Mr.Girl.
even though I don’t know this guy, I know this guy. And in the next few days, he’s going to come to her and apologize and be super sweet and love bomb and be super flattering and bring her a present and try to get her back. And if she takes him back in a week or two they’re going to be right back to the situation, and it will be as bad or worse. Narcissists are always pretty reliable in their antics and patterns.
The way he keeps saying PrObLeMs around 1:56 area is just killing me😭😭
I keep missing every stream I’m so upset 😭😭
what's the argument for why she should have to keep her abuse private? lol....that's so messed up. Shout it to the rooftops girl if its going to help you. put everyone in your business. It doesn't need to stay "private". I just can't imagine saying to someone who is being abused "shhh, don't tell everyone, you know you should just keep that between yourself and your abuser and sort it out quietly without bothering me. thanks".
I agree with you. I feel like he needs to public humiliation. He needs everyone who thinks “oh, he’s a good guy,“ to know the truth. His friends should know, her friends should know, the more quiet you keep it, the more he can deny it and get away with it.
🙄 WHY do this on A LIVE?? Makes it so unbelievable. Sorry I don't get it.
imagine like it was in a movie. We don’t know the full backstory, but I’m assuming he’s been treating her like this for quite a while. She’s had to silently suffer with somebody who is so illogically angry with her all the time, makes empty threats, screams while she’s whimpering in a puddle of tears. After a while, she’s going to break. And she decided to expose him for the abuser that he is! Now his friends, his community will see how he treats her. The world will see how she was treated. I absolutely think it was his just desserts. Most narcissistic abusers want their partners to stay quiet, to stay afraid, to let them get away with the abuse. I could tell in that video she just had a moment where she said “I’m going to unmute“ and let everybody see what she’s going through. And this is after an hour and a half of her being on the phone with her husband, an hour and a half I’m assuming of yelling and fighting. it would be kind of like if a woman was physically abused by a guy, who always gives her black eyes and she always covers it up with make up, but one day she decides to go make up free and let the world see what’s been happening to her. Same vibe. I just hope she’s OK, I hope she got help somehow for this. I hope she’s free of him, and I hope she’s working on healing I think this just hit those of us who have been through a relationship like this extra hard.
It's a Kamala laugh, that's what it is.
My personal favorite is the leftover channel
Love ur content papa 🙏
18:30 papa, ALL of her content is hate farming
against hateful people.
@@noodlepoodlegirl even if that was true, which most of the time it’s not as 90% of the people she makes fun of on the internet using her huge platform are dumb teenage boys who said something stupid. she’s also the biggest hypocrite in the world considering she was throwing around the F slur. but even if she did only hate farm against “hateful people” two wrongs will never make a right and she is honestly just making more and more men sexist 😭
I don't know why but at two different moments of the video, i felt like i was hearing Nikocado Avocado speak. Anyone else hear it?
My god dudes like this give us good men bad names. It’s so damn sad. She actually liked him too, unfortunately he is just crazy. That’s the truth.
bruh in Greece we have a store only for fat men- there's no way that doesn't exist anywhere else c'mon
22:19
I live for drew, she only pisses off the guys that actually do the shit she talks about. Don’t be an ass and say your unwanted opinions that are insulting and hurtful and she wouldn’t have to make those videos lol pretty simple. She’s just giving back the same energy and it’s not very cool being on the other side of things is it fellas 🤷🏻♀️ just be a decent person, it really isn’t that hard.
absolutely. I love her, and she only dishes shit back to guys who truly deserve it. She’s one of my favorite creators and I usually won’t follow people who don’t like her or talk bad about her. She’s really, really special to me.
@@noodlepoodlegirl she don’t just make weird content on its own for no reasoning for hating men like most of the men are doing about women, she’s making fun because their sitting there criticizing hard on women or other men when nobody asked their opinion lol so she gives it back and they can’t handle it. Typical really. It don’t surprise me papa guy don’t like her either. He likes to pretend he’s a moral compass but he just had to make a video about cheating on his wife 😂 and turned the comments off. He says constantly how much he “loves his wife” but is being a down right dog to her. Red flag much. That’s the kind of stuff drew will call the shit out of lol so no you can tell what kind of men usually they are if they can’t stand her lol it’s usually cause what she’s saying is hittin a little close to home. It wouldn’t bother someone that didn’t do those things or think that way.
So you lost subs over the only fans thing? 🙄
Good thing those weren't my only fans.
@@PapaGutArchive got em
@@PapaGutArchive love the puns
Fat people can absolutely have preferences. However being in a physical position of societys least desirable everyone has a right to dunk on them. Its the same as if a short man made public of his preferences of what he prefers in a women to be skinny or tall or thick. Its ok to have a preference but if y r in the wrong side of preferences then u become an easier target. Its not sexist or misogynist. It is wat it is
E?
Isn’t she Half white? Lol
No.
@@noodlepoodlegirl cool
This is basically the female Tate
Tate just means the toxic females, not all. Im a female myself
she's not a human trafficker at least
Not exactly
well, she’s the opposite of him. For instance he’s a villain, and she’s a superhero. She’s the one getting justice for women who are wronged. She’s the amazing reactionary step to the misogynistic and hurtful action. She lifts women up, and she also lifts up guys who believe that women deserve better treatment than they often get online.