this video and some of your earlier videos resonate with me deeply. I cannot speak on what is going on with my DF because i do not know. since the start of the month it's been feeling like god is pushing me to work on my relationship with her, but from a logical stand point it does not seem like the right move. I've felt this deep love for her since the time we met. It was not always noticeable, but when it was i was running away from it most of the time. It pains me to know how much I've hurt her and been unfair to her. I really do want this, but I don't want to hurt her again. It's scary to feel this kind of love for someone when your someone who always chooses to ignore their emotions. If i was her i would have walked away from me a long time ago. This Cancer woman is slowly melting this cold hearted scorpio man. we are friends and also business partners who are helping each other build our own companies, but my business has been stuck since our separation. It's just so overwhelming to be in her presence. Because of all that has happen I do not see anyone being happy about us being together and i would totally understand why. I really appreciate your videos, they validated what I'm feeling on the inside, positives and negatives. At least I feel less like a crazy person.
Thank you for sharing your own experience and being honest. It's nice for the DF's to get a DM's perspective on what's going on with them. This helps us understand you guys better.
This resonates so much... Thanks for sharing I'm a DF, yeah man with DF energy and this is a wild journey with out that twist alone. I have got to a point it does not hurt as much when the DM leaves, it always hurts but I own my part. I have to remember I'm the one who does the spiritual work and I am to fix me only. By doing this I end up fixing the DM. A while back, I heard the DM is able to literally learn or download just like the sound of click made on a switch . Literally it will click when I have done my work of loving myself so much that I dont care what my DM does. I am close but I worry for her so much I love her and I know she said we will never speak again even though we got to fiance level of relationship and union. I know the truth and I no longer hurt like before. I share with you in Hopes it helps you to "click". Be brave and go for it DM. Your the first DM I see on these sights which means your literally about to click the switch of love and get with your DF and love her with such passion all those you worry about will be so jealous and say wow what a F'n real man. Go follow your heart space it's where you truly reside. I tell this to my DM but it's like DM repellent because it comes from me so I have faith Universe has my back. I am and have learned to stay in my heart with my DM. I wish us both luck and again thank you for giving me faith that I'm not wasting my time. For at times we the DF get weak and fall in our headspace too. God I hope you go to her! your so ready.
Jay Smith like Allyn said... follow your heart!! If she’s your true DF then she’ll be happy that you did and no one else matters. We all just want our healed and ready DM’s to come home.
People, the shift is here. Can you feel it ? Like everything and everyone tries to mess with you. But you're in a Zen state of mind and you just sit back and smile.
This is absolutely dead on 100%. It feels like a personal reading. And you have NO IDEA how much this message was needed. I mean a couple hours ago my heart was bleeding to death. Im so glad I didn’t send my goodbye text. Thank you. So much.
you're welcome Amanda! I can't tell you how many of my clients have been right where you were, literally composing that very same text to him, only to have a notification pop up on their screen about a new video on this channel - and then they are grateful they didn't. Divine intervention, and an example of how spirit works to intervene when needed. Much love to you.
Erika Elmuts I almost sent it again today but something is stopping me. I just don’t get it. Two weeks ago I was in his bed, then he ghosted again for the second time. I was positive we were close to union. Whatever is going on this week most of the DF collective are feeling it. It needs to pass already 😤😑
Erika Elmuts Funny how I stumble onto this reading today. And how, looking back at the date, it mirrors exactly an important triggering towermoment with the one that I have come to consider my DM. I recently made an important discovery on my own beliefs, which made this moment into such an important and revealing trigger of a deep and very limiting belief about myself. I would not have been able to understand your message back then. I now get it. It is proving to be true. My DM is married, he admitted feeling our deep connection which brought tears to his eyes. My core belief at the time being that I make the people I love unhappy...was such a strong trigger I just closed off completely. Felt very confused. It is only 3 weeks ago, I realized I have this belief. So now the message is in a different light. I do go my own way, might even have to let go completely due to our life’s circumstances. And trust that we’ll be together if we’re ment to. And feel gratitude for what our encounter is teaching me. Even if we don’t make it together in this lifetime. I know we have been together before. I feel it. Have seen it. But the importance to not put my life on hold, not to stay in the waiting.....is very important. Trust....is so important. Everything is like it is ment to be. And everything happens in Divine Timing.... Thank you Erika. I felt so marveled when I found this reading! Quite incredible. Thank you🙏🏻
I watched this video when you published it March 14, 2019.. It didn’t resonate completely then, but now I’ve come across it again, August 24, 2019 & it completely resonates with where my Divine Masculine & myself are in our journey. Thanks so much. 💙
A perfect video for true understanding of the great mystery of ghosting. And oh how beautiful is the reaching out phase…i think i'm in love!! So grateful for your work, Erika!
You know me Erika, when it resonates I have to comment 😁. 25 min in Last weekend my twin opened up a lot to me about so many things. We even spoke briefly briefly about the fact that I have no question that he's my twin. He isn't as spiritual at this point where he's comfortable using those terms lol. But at one point he said I love you and I don't think he realized he did. I wanted to mention it, but both times I tried to acknowledge hearing it, spirit stopped me from saying it. I felt him kind of step back since. At first I started to spiral a little over it, considering he had just opened up more than ever and then I checked myself.... Any progress is progress. This is HUGE in his reality. He's been closed for 36 years and is now finally seeing and feeling things he never has before. I'm going to continue to send him love and healing energy and cheer him on. The reality is, I'm not ready yet myself so why would I want him rushing in before it's time 🙏🏼❤🌻🦋 love you Erika and thank you for what you do.
I'm so glad that the messages supported you through this little "hiccup" in the communication - it's a big stage, and many masculines have commented here as well how important this is for them, and how this is part of their shoring up their intuition and knowing their truth. Another video is being uploaded as we speak, and you might be interested to watch it. ;) Thanks for all your support of this channel and sharing your experiences as it helps the other people here as well. Blessings to you! xo
@@ErikaElmuts I love and adore you to bits. Even the fact that you said hiccup lol that's what I say "I never have a bad day, I simply have a hiccup and then back to glee 😁" you're amazing. I'm going to check it out. I might be seeing my twin again tonight. We shall see lol Blessings ALWAYS 🙏🏼🌻❤
Erika, You are f'ing awesome. Your reading made me cry. You described my DM and I perfectly. I'm sure many others will appreciate this reading as much as I. Thank you so much!
Thank you so much❤️ Sprit knew I needed to hear this. Been such an emotional rollercoaster this week. This helps me have some insight, eases my doubt and fear, and also reaffirms my trust in this journey🙏🏻
I have watched several videos today and I'm amazed on how much they resonate. It has given me insight with my own thoughts, as well as,,my DF. The last 3 weeks have been confusing and I have been feeling so emotional in the aftermath of our conversation. Then the disappearing...again. He knows we have to approach things differently. It's like he starts to do so, then repeats the behavior that stalls us. When do I start to look foolish believing him when he's living a life with a karmic? I won't be in that situation. Thanks🌟 Glad I found you.
Thank you so much for this reading!! I’m crying so hard rn cause this is exactly where we’re at and I picked up on him “gathering” info on where I’m at. It’s cute because I know what he’s doing.
I do love and want my DM, but this time it has to be different, I cannot keep going through this, it isn't fair. Maybe he needs to do more work on himself before we can be together. I know we will be together again, one day, but not until things are different. 🌟
LMB saw these videos last month pop up he showed up moved in and then a week later moved out and left me in ny to North Carolina now these messages are coming back on my feed. The energy is all around
2 weekends ago my DM and I saw each other for the first time in 4 months. We spent all day together and he even invited me to visit his new house he just bought. We had such a wonderful day and he opened up to me about so much. Last Tuesday was the last time I heard from him. I was heartbroken and had such a tower/3 of swords moment. My heart HURT. I was so confused how he could just ghost like that after he made it seem like he wanted to make this work. The wishy washiness is so hard to deal with but in my heart I know he’s the one. Since then I have seen so many signs from the universe. This whole journey has taught me to have so much patience. More then I ever thought I could have! The day will come...
Yaass, ty for this reading! It is exactly what I'm dealing with my DM, lol! The DF in this reading which is me is so damn on point too. How is he ever going to get over the overwhelming fear of rejection if he doesn't take action 🤷♀️🤔
These initial stages of union playlist series is sooooon helpful Erika, thank you. I feel like it’s the most informative twin flame info I’ve seen in a long time because it’s preparing me for when these dynamics show up and not taking it personally. It’s all about the journey not the destination! 🤍
Wow thank you for your view on things....I’m so questioning everything about him and his wrong doings, rather then accept it and let it go with compassion and appreciation...thank you...I really needed to hear the message. His just a player and I’m his game board, which it hurts that he doesn’t show me respect and appreciation, so I respond in the same way. Which now I know I shouldn’t respond or react to his crap
This reading was posted on 3/14/19 NEARLY a year ago... I learned about this journey around August of 2019, 2 months after meeting my twin. I have been moving along my path crazy up, debilitating lows and everything in between. I believe we have come to cusp of union, BUT it always seems just out of reach and that's ok. I don't want it if it isn't right or ready. I had a bad night last night, very down and defeated, ready to just quit...AND this read popped into my feed this morning... well OF COURSE IT DID! Haha... I know people all over the world resonate with your readings but for whatever reason THIS is the one I needed to hear. The extended is also amazing and JUST as spot on to my own situation that it begins to feel like a personal reading. Thank you so much for posting them, making them so down to earth and relevant, and basically, for helping me smack my own cheek and say get a grip... you are RIGHT THERE... have peace, chill out, trust, and speak when guided to do so... well then... I have my game plan until directed differently. Thanks so much!
I just love you so much...you have no idea how in-tune you are with my energy, it’s surreal and amazing. I really needed to hear this today...and you are the only channel I watch extensions 😇🙏🏼😇
Just listened to this old reading. WOW, WOW, WOW! 100% spot on! That was exactly what has happened a week ago! Thank you so much for the information that confirmed my intuitive knowing! 👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
Resonated so much, not only on my side but what I believe he is feeling, too. I know he's scared and I know he can't figure out how to put it right. Currently fighting my ego - it makes me feel disrespected when he runs off.
I have definitely been in a mode of appreciation and gratitude since day one (heartbreak)....even more the last few months since I am aware of what’s going on behind the scenes. I get nervous at times before I even answer the phone then happy once I hear her voice. Other times I am just happy to hear from her at all. I used to get mad at the fact she didn’t called me for days when she first started ghosting but still happy to hear from her in whatever form of communication. But since I have healed, grown and rid myself of toxic habits I no longer get angry. This whole video resonates from beginning to end months and months later for me. I have gotten so much better at staying grounded. Nothing but love,compassion and a lot more patience.
Wow from the 9-10 min mark I needed to hear that! I am guilty of denying ppl the acknowledgement that their intuition is on point not only With lovers but everyone. 😔
Funny how I stumble onto this reading today. And how, looking back at the date, it mirrors exactly an important triggering towermoment with the one that I have come to consider my DM. I recently made an important discovery on my own beliefs, which made this moment into such an important and revealing trigger of a deep and very limiting belief about myself. I would not have been able to understand your message back then. I now get it. It is proving to be true. My DM is married, he admitted feeling our deep connection which brought tears to his eyes. My core belief at the time being that I make the people I love unhappy...was such a strong trigger I just closed off completely. Felt very confused. It is only 3 weeks ago, I realized I have this belief. So now the message is in a different light. I do go my own way, might even have to let go completely due to our life’s circumstances. And trust that we’ll be together if we’re ment to. And feel gratitude for what our encounter is teaching me. Even if we don’t make it together in this lifetime. I know we have been together before. I feel it. Have seen it. But the importance to not put my life on hold, not to stay in the waiting.....is very important. Trust....is so important. Everything is like it is ment to be. And everything happens in Divine Timing.... Thank you Erika. I felt so marveled when I found this reading! Quite incredible. Thank you🙏🏻
I very much resonate with this reading. I do need to get rid of my fears when I don’t hear from him. In my heart I know how he feels, but fear brings in doubt of my knowing of our relationship. Thank you for the reading 💗💗💗💗
Oh my world Erika! This reading pop up in my feed late last night but I waited today to view it because today March 10, 2020 marks the 1 year since my DM text me for the first time after 2 year void from when we dated for a few months back in 2017. You are so on point on this reading and it’s Amazing for me to hear it now how it unfolds for us. A few months ago, I signed up on your incredible soul growth accelerator and it’s really helping me and guiding me through this journey with him. We are doing very well and I thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! I’m still on your soul growth and loving every insightful video you are giving us! Much love and light to you Erika! ❤️❤️❤️🌹 Big Hug too 😊!
Beautiful reading, thank you! Very much in that place of surrender and self care. I feel like it’s a real place of testing that emotional mastery I’ve been working so hard on. Totally resonate with needing to get outside and away from EMFs! ✨💗✨
I blocked my partner since Friday and have been binge watching tarots readings since Friday. Was deep in your video Erica when I heard my door buzz... he showed up at my house and now wants to hear what I have to say. 😄🤦🏾♀️
This is my current situation and I’m learning to relinquish control, I cannot control anyone other than me. Trust has been a hard thing for me to have, but the fates are teaching me to trust divine timing.
I saw this come up in my suggested videos and I felt compelled to watch as this has been happening in my connection with my DM (communication and then ghosting). I thought it was a new video but realized it came out in March. Talk about the universe speaking to you! LOL. This resonated with me and it almost felt like a personal reading! Thank you Erika!
So I wait 2 long and lonely years to hear from my DM. Finally there is contact.......and he basically gives me a progress report on his career moves. To say I am gutted in an understatement. No apology. No offer. Even made a comment that implies he is still married. I honestly feel like I want to lay down and die. His utter lack of humility and empathy has left me in tears for days now
I realized, I careless for his attention. I put the focus on my self to be a better person. It is easier now to see the DMs ghosting is just nonsense because you grow wiser to see that, your growing into the person your meant to be. I careless if he is with someone less that is his business and his problem. Sometimes, it's best to just let the DM go period. That is how cycles breaks in my perspective. Do not depend on him for your happiness. Only you can make yourself happy and be in control of you. If your want a healthy, relationship with yourself and to have a man to love you in all the right ways. Let go of the DM. This gives you the opportunity to allow the right guy to walk into your life. DM or not choose to let go when a guy sees you care less, they care more.
Overwhelming feeling that you are speaking to me directly about what i am going through in my present relationship with whom i believe is my twin flame. Weve been going through this for the past 9 mos. After a 2 yr break that i initiated and learning to focus and love myself unconditionally during that break. He had quite the journey himself!
From a DF possibly DM (Because i have been feeling my DM energy too) From the core of my soul DM's, THERE'S NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF. WE LOVE YOU! IN A VERY DEEPLY SOUL LEVEL BEYOND THE 3D ILLUSION OF ROMANCE. This journey is more soulful and more of self growth. We understand you, we feel you, we want to help you and norture you. We really mean it. We understand the fears. All is mirroring. But, we can make this work together. We're a team of flames! We are the DF and the DM and we need to gain our power back and bring awareness. We might not be a perfect match but more like perfect mirror, but to me is perfect. Because we can heal each others inner child and work on ourselves. ♡ Again, don't be scared. Don't have doubts, there's been love since many lifetimes already, unconditional love. Again, 3D is an illusion. Talk to us on the 5D if you guys are too scared. Send us signs. We will notice it and we might reach out. Don't run. We love you deeply like we love ourselves. Same soul, 2 bodies. 🦋
I purchased your extended and want to give a big thank you.... absolutely resonated and exacting the reinforcements I needed here. He has actually said some of things you say about him like that he doesn't know how to set healthy boundaries or what exactly he needs. And I have been working on trust and serenity myself. He's battled the unworthiness and fear of rejection and then I started absorbing/mirroring that, so I've distanced to focus on myself. I obviously had triggers I had no idea were still there that I am working deeper on. And we both had codependency in our pasts (his more recent) that are a worry factor. I've definitely been the one setting the example of centeredness and optimism, and I've been cutting out relationships and my own unhealthy behaviors over the past year since before me met last spring. I know we will reunite yet I am torn with how to handle things when we do, so I really appreciate the reassurance to trust. And to trust that he will not repeat his past behaviors towards me. And if I am wrong and that is not my intuition speaking that he will return, then I trust he will just stay away:)
You're so welcome! I love that you are trusting your intuition #1 first and foremost. Spirit will always provide you the guidance when you ask, and listen. I'm so glad the extended helped you get more clarity on some more of the healing that comes from the awareness of the triggers you thought you had cleared. Much love to you!
This is exactly what I needed to hear. The DM side resonates strongly with my DF and me with the DF side. It helped me understand the way I was acting when they cut communication. I didn't realize I was learning and now I know I can begin to heal and release. Thank you for these videos, you have helped me more than you know! ❤
ERIKA! You've done it again! This will be my 3rd extended I've purchased from you. Your readings resonate SO much so, that I have eliminated most of the other readers I was following. The only one that didn't resonate was a few videos back regarding the DM starting a new relationship. I started panicking just from reading the title. Maybe that was meant for me to release another trigger/fear. BUT, the last several readings have been spot on. I purchased them all (and about to purchase this one). Interesting because my DM reached out just a few hours before I watched this. Just out of the blue- though all day I was seeing tons of syncs, so I wasn't really surprised to see a message from him :) It was very trivial. Just a snapchat video of a boxing match he attended with his father earlier today. I sent him one back saying that I was at dinner with my parents and that I ordered a particular beer (one I chose out of 100 random craft beer choices). He replied back with "Omg. I ordered the same one. I shit you not." HA!!!! Now if that isn't an indication to him that we're connected, I dont know what is! Also, he acknowledged that he knew I was thinking of him and reached out. 😳♒️ He may be putting the pieces together. He is a very spiritually mature person, so I'm guessing he has somewhat of a clue. The analogy you said about the mouse. Made me laugh. Thats spot on with him these days. And it seems to be that what causes him to ghost (from what I observed) is when he notices something that catches his attention (and then does introspection to maybe confirm his intuition) ...its like he thinks "omg this is weird" and then ghosts to process what is happening and why. And my response (as u also mentioned) is somewhat of fear and feeling like I'm mistaken about this TF connection and its all made up in my head. However, I am able to gather myself quite quickly, realize that these are my own issues, and Im able to release them fast and go back inwards to my inner knowing/intuition. SUCH a wonderfully done reading. Never ceases to amaze me with your talents and gifts. xo ***PS- I often wonder (many times throughout my journey) if he is possibly more aware of this TF thing than I think. Just by the way he says things and almost implies the fact that hes an empath and "knows a lot" (his exact quote) and is currently learning how to ground and said he wants to teach me. He has literally said he sensed that my heart chakra is opening because he was feeling some anxiety and palpitations recently and he was picking up on my own "symptoms". Is this possible?? This just blew me away. And confused me even more!!! Now I'm wondering who the awakened one is here!!?? Him or me?! Total curveball. I truly think he is either psychic or an empath- just by things hes said ever since the beginning of our journey. In retrospect, its almost eerie. As if hes prophesied some things. Is this possible?
I'm so glad that these have supported you! And the mouse analogy was perfect wasn't it? I'm uploading a new video as we speak and it's in there as well. The DMs are super intuitive, more than they let on. ;)
Your video brought me to tears. So much of the content I’ve watched of yours resonates deeply but this video really touched some tender parts that I wasn’t necessarily consciously aware of. I’m so grateful to have found you and I appreciate you so much.
I'm watching this 2/10/2020...Our TOTAL journey right now...strangely enough I'm not triggered right now.. I've healed a little more.. I'm so use to it now...omg🔮❤🎭🧡
The weekend following this video was the first time I reached out to her and seeing this now (I discovered the video yet) is like reviving the memory of what happened at this time and afterwards. Much love! ✌🏼
He's definitely my twin. But, it's been 13 years. I just can't. I keep trying to release but he keeps coming back and nothing ever changes. I know there's love and the chemistry is unreal and there's a true friendship but I can't keep being left. Not at our ages. We're in our 50s. Last time I saw him 13 years of hurt came out. I'd be surprised if he returned again. He declares love and tells of plans he wants for us and then I don't hear from him for 3 months
I purchased the extended version for the first time, because I was in AWE at how completely accurate your reading was for me and my masculine. Thank you thank you!!! Wow!!!
Wow. Okay I bypassed this video at first because we are not in communication, no reaching out whatsoever, HOWER after a recent in person encounter and hearing you mention this video again today I knew I had to watch it. This played out exactly like this, him holding back because of his overwhelming emotion and me deeply triggered. My mind is completely blown. Thank you SO MUCH for this. 💖🙌🏻
This has been quite accurate especially for me as the DF. After sharing ourselves for the first time, I asked him a lot of questions and told him thoughts would come up to eat me, but surprisingly I remained calm. I felt my old fears about men and sex come up, like thinking I was the only one emotionally invested or that if I give in, I will lose, to which I'm thankful now that I'm aware of them. He told me he is as emotionally invested and that he also did it out of love, but a major part of why he was holding back was bec he still hasn't moved on from his recently concluded 8-year relationship.. He said he is still in love with her, although he confessed that he loves me, too. I remained understanding and calm despite this. Although thoughts came up, I felt calmer and was able to manage my emotions and observe what is happening. I love him so much, I told him I am concerned for his welfare.
Thank you so much for this Link Erika....It helped me to better understand what's going on & why he is going back & forth....Much Love & Light....I really Love your Readings & how you explain it & the Journey we both go through & we each feel in our Head/Heart Space...Wish I could go to extended Reading...to find out the rest of the Reading but it's all good
Wow it’s been 2 years now and this is 150% . My mind is wandering and I’m waiting for him to open up. Thank you for this, need to ground myself and let the manifesting and the Universe set the path. Dm Capricorn ♑️ Df ♎️
Tx, much appreciated as always. My Journey has included my being almost incapacitated for the last couple years, (which fortunately is finally improving.) With little else I could do, I’ve been listening to literally thousands of hours of TH-cam readers. You are one of the most solid, among my top 10 & right up there with Esther / Abe Hicks. Also, re: this read specifically... It is resonant and very confirmable via my now 3.5 year on again / off again “3D” relationship with my “DM.” She, (yes my “DM” is an “Earthly Female), has had a ridiculously challenging life, (we’re both 51), and has not only survived, but thrived... for herself and for just about everyone she’s encountered. It took A LOT of “bulling” thru & sucking up emotions for the greater good. An extreme fear of Love is definitely a byproduct, that while no longer needed, takes time & compassion, both toward myself and her, to undo. I am in awe of the magnitude of our respective 3D & 5D strengths and downright honored to be her Counterpart. Tx again Erika, for “keepin’ the light on” for all of us. Keep On Truckin’ & Let Love Rule
I'm so glad to hear that your situation is improving, and I appreciate your kind words about my work. Thank you for sharing your story and I send you much love!
This is totally crazy. I fell over this reading and this is exactly what is happening in our lives right now. I needed to get this reading. I've been going crazy. Together for 5 years never ever said anything if Isaid I loved him. He leaves then he emails and says "if the truth be told I love you very much, the kind of love I feel for you is the kind where I'd give my life for yours" Then he's gone again. I feel a bit better listening to this reading. I know how I feel but I`m not sure if I should give him space, which I have been doing or reach out by text from time to time. My heart tells me give him all the time he needs. I can`t sit and do nothing. I am keeping myself busy and doing my thing but at the same time I love him and not looking for anyone else.
I continue to be astounded by this journey. Lol sych a blessed path yet confusing and blissful and painful and just Everything. Lol. I am so resonating with this. My dm and I came into contact recently after 5 years of not speaking and let me just say wow.... Now it's silent night haha thank you so much for the video it really helps! So grateful. Absolutely amazing reading. So on point! 👍🙏💕✨♥️💯🔥🔥✨😇✨
Thank you for this...your readings are such a great help. You channel simple but concrete messages that resonates. Me and my DF is in this process already - we are both aligned and manifesting right now it's amazing how u describe it - mirroring, compassion, all the downloads and lessons - its all here now! Thanks i am happy that i got to listen. light and love💕✨
Thank you wow I am so at peace when you are reading. He came back but left and came and yes at first I was a bit sad but I feel his energy different and more in tune with his feminine side so I am resonating so much ahhhh this ride is amazing
🤗 thank you for the reading.. every word resonates for both DF and DM. He is really working hard to defeat his ego/fears... Expressed in music: "shake the disease" by Depeche Mode... I am really proud of him 💕💕 And I am working too, hard, to release my fears
Wow... I am in this phase right now. Fighting the reactive emotions I've been having and wondering if I'm crazy! We saw each other on 3/3 and he was so excited about spending time together, talking of the future and expressing certain emotions... then back to the hot and cold. It is SO hard to not be effected by what sometimes feel like minimum effort/investment. This video came to me at EXACTLY the right time. Been having nightmares and in and out of feeling connected. I did see him astrally last night. Whenever I meditate on it I feel the love, but lately I've had so much chaotic energy it's been so hard to navigate! Thank you so much for all you do.
Mine broke up with me 4 months ago and 18 days later gets into a relationship. I have not moved on. I tried and just cant. I dont even know how he could. But he has messaged ms the last week asking how I'm doing and so on. Some minor flirting but he is still with her. So I told him we cant talk anymore.
Oh my goodness 😳 it was his birthday and we started to reconnect after a period of a month separation 😊 6/11/2019, again separation after a BIG TOWER moment... I get finally the confirmation, as i am an intuitive healer myself, about this process. Finally!! Thank you 💜
The perfect video. This is exactly what’s happening to me right now. I truly appreciate the help and support by giving us some clarity to this madness. Would you be so kind to follow up with this topic? We definitely need it. Thank you so much. ❤️🙏🏼
I love..your style.I..mean the way You base..your analysis..of course in the meaning and interaction of the Cards..but also..You ad a very intuitive part..that let You step..with mindfulness (iguess..I'm trying..to find the right words..to express..why I feel so confortable..when..I listen to You..😊..Sorry..but Yes I..learn a lot when I listen to ..You as well as when I listen to others..that are applying..this mindfulness thinking)into a real observation..where..reality unfolds..naturally as "IT IS".."Thank You"👌👩🌠🌲🌷🐕🌾🐝🌿🐈🌳🐦.
Nice message and I’m walking away until he comes forward in the right way. I truly believed he is my TF- but he doesn’t get the message- maybe I’ve been delusional? He’s gone back to his old karmic girlfriend. Crazy, that’s been over for almost a year. I’m not putting myself in this position anymore.
Shivani Grail please don’t wait on him. I am sure he is your TF but doesn’t mean we give them a pass to act hot and cold. Indecisive, lower our worth only so he could go back to another woman who he’s comfortable with.
I hope Spirit reaches out and gives you a message for those of us who are finally back in the same atmospheres as our DM after many years of separation but where the DM refuses to make a move! Although there are so many vids & extended readings that resonate. I should have book a private session when I had the chance :(
I am actually watching this video to know why I act in ways I am familiar but never know why and make things work out. I almost feels the confusion on the boys’ mind but I am confused about myself too 😂
i just found ur channel ...luv it! it says 1wk ago. exactly one week ago he contacted me and says he wants to meet up....then nothing. this is perfect timing and when it exactly happened. i know he will contact again.
Thank you, thank you, this reading was on point!! I felt like it was a personal reading & it the message couldn't have come to me @ a better time!!! I could resonate to everything you were saying about the feminine & masculine!!! Thank you so much❤
this video and some of your earlier videos resonate with me deeply. I cannot speak on what is going on with my DF because i do not know. since the start of the month it's been feeling like god is pushing me to work on my relationship with her, but from a logical stand point it does not seem like the right move. I've felt this deep love for her since the time we met. It was not always noticeable, but when it was i was running away from it most of the time. It pains me to know how much I've hurt her and been unfair to her. I really do want this, but I don't want to hurt her again. It's scary to feel this kind of love for someone when your someone who always chooses to ignore their emotions. If i was her i would have walked away from me a long time ago. This Cancer woman is slowly melting this cold hearted scorpio man. we are friends and also business partners who are helping each other build our own companies, but my business has been stuck since our separation. It's just so overwhelming to be in her presence. Because of all that has happen I do not see anyone being happy about us being together and i would totally understand why. I really appreciate your videos, they validated what I'm feeling on the inside, positives and negatives. At least I feel less like a crazy person.
Thank you for sharing your own experience and being honest. It's nice for the DF's to get a DM's perspective on what's going on with them. This helps us understand you guys better.
This resonates so much...
Thanks for sharing I'm a DF, yeah man with DF energy and this is a wild journey with out that twist alone.
I have got to a point it does not hurt as much when the DM leaves, it always hurts but I own my part. I have to remember I'm the one who does the spiritual work and I am to fix me only. By doing this I end up fixing the DM.
A while back, I heard the DM is able to literally learn or download just like the sound of click made on a switch . Literally it will click when I have done my work of loving myself so much that I dont care what my DM does. I am close but I worry for her so much I love her and I know she said we will never speak again even though we got to fiance level of relationship and union.
I know the truth and I no longer hurt like before. I share with you in Hopes it helps you to "click".
Be brave and go for it DM.
Your the first DM I see on these sights which means your literally about to click the switch of love and get with your DF and love her with such passion all those you worry about will be so jealous and say wow what a F'n real man.
Go follow your heart space it's where you truly reside. I tell this to my DM but it's like DM repellent because it comes from me so I have faith Universe has my back. I am and have learned to stay in my heart with my DM. I wish us both luck and again thank you for giving me faith that I'm not wasting my time. For at times we the DF get weak and fall in our headspace too. God I hope you go to her! your so ready.
Jay Smith follow your heart !!
Jay Smith like Allyn said... follow your heart!! If she’s your true DF then she’ll be happy that you did and no one else matters. We all just want our healed and ready DM’s to come home.
Thanks for the support guys, I’ve decided I’m going to follow God’s lead on this one and let him show what he wants me to do.
People, the shift is here. Can you feel it ? Like everything and everyone tries to mess with you. But you're in a Zen state of mind and you just sit back and smile.
This is absolutely dead on 100%. It feels like a personal reading. And you have NO IDEA how much this message was needed. I mean a couple hours ago my heart was bleeding to death. Im so glad I didn’t send my goodbye text. Thank you. So much.
you're welcome Amanda! I can't tell you how many of my clients have been right where you were, literally composing that very same text to him, only to have a notification pop up on their screen about a new video on this channel - and then they are grateful they didn't. Divine intervention, and an example of how spirit works to intervene when needed. Much love to you.
Erika Elmuts I almost sent it again today but something is stopping me. I just don’t get it. Two weeks ago I was in his bed, then he ghosted again for the second time. I was positive we were close to union. Whatever is going on this week most of the DF collective are feeling it. It needs to pass already 😤😑
Erika Elmuts Funny how I stumble onto this reading today. And how, looking back at the date, it mirrors exactly an important triggering towermoment with the one that I have come to consider my DM. I recently made an important discovery on my own beliefs, which made this moment into such an important and revealing trigger of a deep and very limiting belief about myself. I would not have been able to understand your message back then. I now get it. It is proving to be true. My DM is married, he admitted feeling our deep connection which brought tears to his eyes. My core belief at the time being that I make the people I love unhappy...was such a strong trigger I just closed off completely. Felt very confused. It is only 3 weeks ago, I realized I have this belief. So now the message is in a different light. I do go my own way, might even have to let go completely due to our life’s circumstances. And trust that we’ll be together if we’re ment to. And feel gratitude for what our encounter is teaching me. Even if we don’t make it together in this lifetime. I know we have been together before. I feel it. Have seen it. But the importance to not put my life on hold, not to stay in the waiting.....is very important. Trust....is so important. Everything is like it is ment to be. And everything happens in Divine Timing.... Thank you Erika. I felt so marveled when I found this reading! Quite incredible. Thank you🙏🏻
I watched this video when you published it March 14, 2019.. It didn’t resonate completely then, but now I’ve come across it again, August 24, 2019 & it completely resonates with where my Divine Masculine & myself are in our journey. Thanks so much. 💙
A perfect video for true understanding of the great mystery of ghosting. And oh how beautiful is the reaching out phase…i think i'm in love!! So grateful for your work, Erika!
You know me Erika, when it resonates I have to comment 😁. 25 min in Last weekend my twin opened up a lot to me about so many things. We even spoke briefly briefly about the fact that I have no question that he's my twin. He isn't as spiritual at this point where he's comfortable using those terms lol. But at one point he said I love you and I don't think he realized he did. I wanted to mention it, but both times I tried to acknowledge hearing it, spirit stopped me from saying it.
I felt him kind of step back since. At first I started to spiral a little over it, considering he had just opened up more than ever and then I checked myself.... Any progress is progress. This is HUGE in his reality. He's been closed for 36 years and is now finally seeing and feeling things he never has before. I'm going to continue to send him love and healing energy and cheer him on. The reality is, I'm not ready yet myself so why would I want him rushing in before it's time 🙏🏼❤🌻🦋 love you Erika and thank you for what you do.
I'm so glad that the messages supported you through this little "hiccup" in the communication - it's a big stage, and many masculines have commented here as well how important this is for them, and how this is part of their shoring up their intuition and knowing their truth. Another video is being uploaded as we speak, and you might be interested to watch it. ;) Thanks for all your support of this channel and sharing your experiences as it helps the other people here as well. Blessings to you! xo
@@ErikaElmuts I love and adore you to bits. Even the fact that you said hiccup lol that's what I say "I never have a bad day, I simply have a hiccup and then back to glee 😁" you're amazing. I'm going to check it out. I might be seeing my twin again tonight. We shall see lol
Blessings ALWAYS 🙏🏼🌻❤
Erika, You are f'ing awesome. Your reading made me cry. You described my DM and I perfectly. I'm sure many others will appreciate this reading as much as I. Thank you so much!
You're welcome...I am so happy to hear it touched your heart.
Love ur reading is so good and I have tears in my eyes watching god bless u u are the best
Thank you so much❤️ Sprit knew I needed to hear this. Been such an emotional rollercoaster this week. This helps me have some insight, eases my doubt and fear, and also reaffirms my trust in this journey🙏🏻
I have watched several videos today and I'm amazed on how much they resonate. It has given me insight with my own thoughts, as well as,,my DF. The last 3 weeks have been confusing and I have been feeling so emotional in the aftermath of our conversation. Then the disappearing...again. He knows we have to approach things differently. It's like he starts to do so, then repeats the behavior that stalls us. When do I start to look foolish believing him when he's living a life with a karmic? I won't be in that situation.
Thanks🌟
Glad I found you.
Oh wow, same and three weeks as well
Whoa. The feels... Every rose has its thorn is the song I dedicate to my DM.. That devil card... we are passion and pain..
Thank you so much for this reading!! I’m crying so hard rn cause this is exactly where we’re at and I picked up on him “gathering” info on where I’m at. It’s cute because I know what he’s doing.
That's GREAT...HE'S opening UP❤🔥💙
I do love and want my DM, but this time it has to be different, I cannot keep going through this, it isn't fair. Maybe he needs to do more work on himself before we can be together. I know we will be together again, one day, but not until things are different. 🌟
These older videos of yours that keep popping up on my feed are quite interesting! I could write pages about this one lol.
LMB saw these videos last month pop up he showed up moved in and then a week later moved out and left me in ny to North Carolina now these messages are coming back on my feed. The energy is all around
2 weekends ago my DM and I saw each other for the first time in 4 months. We spent all day together and he even invited me to visit his new house he just bought. We had such a wonderful day and he opened up to me about so much. Last Tuesday was the last time I heard from him. I was heartbroken and had such a tower/3 of swords moment. My heart HURT. I was so confused how he could just ghost like that after he made it seem like he wanted to make this work. The wishy washiness is so hard to deal with but in my heart I know he’s the one. Since then I have seen so many signs from the universe. This whole journey has taught me to have so much patience. More then I ever thought I could have! The day will come...
Thank you. It resonates totally. And I also knew this would happen, but still going in and out of the fears.
Yaass, ty for this reading! It is exactly what I'm dealing with my DM, lol! The DF in this reading which is me is so damn on point too. How is he ever going to get over the overwhelming fear of rejection if he doesn't take action 🤷♀️🤔
These initial stages of union playlist series is sooooon helpful Erika, thank you. I feel like it’s the most informative twin flame info I’ve seen in a long time because it’s preparing me for when these dynamics show up and not taking it personally. It’s all about the journey not the destination! 🤍
Wow thank you for your view on things....I’m so questioning everything about him and his wrong doings, rather then accept it and let it go with compassion and appreciation...thank you...I really needed to hear the message.
His just a player and I’m his game board, which it hurts that he doesn’t show me respect and appreciation, so I respond in the same way. Which now I know I shouldn’t respond or react to his crap
This reading was posted on 3/14/19 NEARLY a year ago... I learned about this journey around August of 2019, 2 months after meeting my twin. I have been moving along my path crazy up, debilitating lows and everything in between. I believe we have come to cusp of union, BUT it always seems just out of reach and that's ok. I don't want it if it isn't right or ready. I had a bad night last night, very down and defeated, ready to just quit...AND this read popped into my feed this morning... well OF COURSE IT DID! Haha... I know people all over the world resonate with your readings but for whatever reason THIS is the one I needed to hear. The extended is also amazing and JUST as spot on to my own situation that it begins to feel like a personal reading. Thank you so much for posting them, making them so down to earth and relevant, and basically, for helping me smack my own cheek and say get a grip... you are RIGHT THERE... have peace, chill out, trust, and speak when guided to do so... well then... I have my game plan until directed differently. Thanks so much!
This reading has brought more clarity regarding my parter & reinforced me to keep my self balanced & keep moving ahead positively
I just love you so much...you have no idea how in-tune you are with my energy, it’s surreal and amazing. I really needed to hear this today...and you are the only channel I watch extensions 😇🙏🏼😇
I'm so happy to hear that these videos have supported you on your journey....so glad you are here!
Just listened to this old reading. WOW, WOW, WOW! 100% spot on! That was exactly what has happened a week ago! Thank you so much for the information that confirmed my intuitive knowing! 👍👍👍🙏🙏🙏🙏
What beautiful decorations on the table.
A lovely😄reading.
Thank you!
Resonated so much, not only on my side but what I believe he is feeling, too. I know he's scared and I know he can't figure out how to put it right. Currently fighting my ego - it makes me feel disrespected when he runs off.
This happened to me today he reached out after 4 days of silence! He reached out! I am grateful that I had the chance to speak with him!
I have definitely been in a mode of appreciation and gratitude since day one (heartbreak)....even more the last few months since I am aware of what’s going on behind the scenes. I get nervous at times before I even answer the phone then happy once I hear her voice. Other times I am just happy to hear from her at all. I used to get mad at the fact she didn’t called me for days when she first started ghosting but still happy to hear from her in whatever form of communication. But since I have healed, grown and rid myself of toxic habits I no longer get angry.
This whole video resonates from beginning to end months and months later for me. I have gotten so much better at staying grounded. Nothing but love,compassion and a lot more patience.
Wow from the 9-10 min mark I needed to hear that! I am guilty of denying ppl the acknowledgement that their intuition is on point not only With lovers but everyone. 😔
Funny how I stumble onto this reading today. And how, looking back at the date, it mirrors exactly an important triggering towermoment with the one that I have come to consider my DM. I recently made an important discovery on my own beliefs, which made this moment into such an important and revealing trigger of a deep and very limiting belief about myself. I would not have been able to understand your message back then. I now get it. It is proving to be true. My DM is married, he admitted feeling our deep connection which brought tears to his eyes. My core belief at the time being that I make the people I love unhappy...was such a strong trigger I just closed off completely. Felt very confused. It is only 3 weeks ago, I realized I have this belief. So now the message is in a different light. I do go my own way, might even have to let go completely due to our life’s circumstances. And trust that we’ll be together if we’re ment to. And feel gratitude for what our encounter is teaching me. Even if we don’t make it together in this lifetime. I know we have been together before. I feel it. Have seen it. But the importance to not put my life on hold, not to stay in the waiting.....is very important. Trust....is so important. Everything is like it is ment to be. And everything happens in Divine Timing.... Thank you Erika. I felt so marveled when I found this reading! Quite incredible. Thank you🙏🏻
This reading is very interesting, especially when you asked what they’re surrending, sooo resonate, i got some clarity, thank you!!
I very much resonate with this reading. I do need to get rid of my fears when I don’t hear from him. In my heart I know how he feels, but fear brings in doubt of my knowing of our relationship. Thank you for the reading 💗💗💗💗
I don't know if anyone has heard this song, but I wanted to share as it really moves me in the current situation. 🙏🏼💙🌻 "Flux" by Ellie Goulding
Oh my world Erika! This reading pop up in my feed late last night but I waited today to view it because today March 10, 2020 marks the 1 year since my DM text me for the first time after 2 year void from when we dated for a few months back in 2017. You are so on point on this reading and it’s Amazing for me to hear it now how it unfolds for us. A few months ago, I signed up on your incredible soul growth accelerator and it’s really helping me and guiding me through this journey with him. We are doing very well and I thank you so much from the bottom of my heart! I’m still on your soul growth and loving every insightful video you are giving us! Much love and light to you Erika! ❤️❤️❤️🌹 Big Hug too 😊!
Thankyou for helping us mama!!! I love recieving it. So grateful xo
Beautiful reading, thank you! Very much in that place of surrender and self care. I feel like it’s a real place of testing that emotional mastery I’ve been working so hard on. Totally resonate with needing to get outside and away from EMFs! ✨💗✨
I blocked my partner since Friday and have been binge watching tarots readings since Friday. Was deep in your video Erica when I heard my door buzz... he showed up at my house and now wants to hear what I have to say. 😄🤦🏾♀️
Watched this a year after you posted it and it was exactly what I needed to hear.
I kid you not, your videos lately are so accurate as if my Angel's are giving you my situation to read Haha!
This is my current situation and I’m learning to relinquish control, I cannot control anyone other than me. Trust has been a hard thing for me to have, but the fates are teaching me to trust divine timing.
OMGOSH!!! This WAS a year ago!!! You are so Incredibly Right on!!!! WOW
Thanks 🙏🏼
I saw this come up in my suggested videos and I felt compelled to watch as this has been happening in my connection with my DM (communication and then ghosting). I thought it was a new video but realized it came out in March. Talk about the universe speaking to you! LOL. This resonated with me and it almost felt like a personal reading! Thank you Erika!
So I wait 2 long and lonely years to hear from my DM. Finally there is contact.......and he basically gives me a progress report on his career moves. To say I am gutted in an understatement. No apology. No offer. Even made a comment that implies he is still married. I honestly feel like I want to lay down and die. His utter lack of humility and empathy has left me in tears for days now
This resonated with me completely 🙏🏿 love your videos Erika ❤️
Spirit brought me to this message at the right time. Thank you Erika 💜💜💖
I realized, I careless for his attention. I put the focus on my self to be a better person. It is easier now to see the DMs ghosting is just nonsense because you grow wiser to see that, your growing into the person your meant to be. I careless if he is with someone less that is his business and his problem. Sometimes, it's best to just let the DM go period. That is how cycles breaks in my perspective. Do not depend on him for your happiness. Only you can make yourself happy and be in control of you. If your want a healthy, relationship with yourself and to have a man to love you in all the right ways. Let go of the DM. This gives you the opportunity to allow the right guy to walk into your life. DM or not choose to let go when a guy sees you care less, they care more.
Overwhelming feeling that you are speaking to me directly about what i am going through in my present relationship with whom i believe is my twin flame. Weve been going through this for the past 9 mos. After a 2 yr break that i initiated and learning to focus and love myself unconditionally during that break. He had quite the journey himself!
From a DF possibly DM (Because i have been feeling my DM energy too)
From the core of my soul DM's,
THERE'S NOTHING TO BE AFRAID OF. WE LOVE YOU! IN A VERY DEEPLY SOUL LEVEL BEYOND THE 3D ILLUSION OF ROMANCE. This journey is more soulful and more of self growth. We understand you, we feel you, we want to help you and norture you. We really mean it. We understand the fears. All is mirroring. But, we can make this work together. We're a team of flames! We are the DF and the DM and we need to gain our power back and bring awareness. We might not be a perfect match but more like perfect mirror, but to me is perfect. Because we can heal each others inner child and work on ourselves. ♡ Again, don't be scared. Don't have doubts, there's been love since many lifetimes already, unconditional love. Again, 3D is an illusion. Talk to us on the 5D if you guys are too scared. Send us signs. We will notice it and we might reach out. Don't run.
We love you deeply like we love ourselves. Same soul, 2 bodies. 🦋
wow! strongly resonating & with the extended reading even more! touching and healing...🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕🌈🌈🌈🦄🦄 love&light
Ow wow...that mouse analogy is soooo connected to a thing between me and my twin. I really appreciate this reading and the specific focus, thank you!
I purchased your extended and want to give a big thank you.... absolutely resonated and exacting the reinforcements I needed here. He has actually said some of things you say about him like that he doesn't know how to set healthy boundaries or what exactly he needs. And I have been working on trust and serenity myself. He's battled the unworthiness and fear of rejection and then I started absorbing/mirroring that, so I've distanced to focus on myself. I obviously had triggers I had no idea were still there that I am working deeper on. And we both had codependency in our pasts (his more recent) that are a worry factor. I've definitely been the one setting the example of centeredness and optimism, and I've been cutting out relationships and my own unhealthy behaviors over the past year since before me met last spring. I know we will reunite yet I am torn with how to handle things when we do, so I really appreciate the reassurance to trust. And to trust that he will not repeat his past behaviors towards me. And if I am wrong and that is not my intuition speaking that he will return, then I trust he will just stay away:)
You're so welcome! I love that you are trusting your intuition #1 first and foremost. Spirit will always provide you the guidance when you ask, and listen. I'm so glad the extended helped you get more clarity on some more of the healing that comes from the awareness of the triggers you thought you had cleared. Much love to you!
He is damn frustrating. Seriously. Taking your advice to have faith. Hopefully he uses his intuition right. I’m really running out of patience.
I ma channeling spirit to Heal myself and others
Love the way u explain this so beautifully. The way u laugh. Awww. Much much Gratitude for this 🙏💖💖
This is exactly what I needed to hear. The DM side resonates strongly with my DF and me with the DF side. It helped me understand the way I was acting when they cut communication. I didn't realize I was learning and now I know I can begin to heal and release. Thank you for these videos, you have helped me more than you know! ❤
ERIKA! You've done it again! This will be my 3rd extended I've purchased from you. Your readings resonate SO much so, that I have eliminated most of the other readers I was following. The only one that didn't resonate was a few videos back regarding the DM starting a new relationship. I started panicking just from reading the title. Maybe that was meant for me to release another trigger/fear. BUT, the last several readings have been spot on. I purchased them all (and about to purchase this one). Interesting because my DM reached out just a few hours before I watched this. Just out of the blue- though all day I was seeing tons of syncs, so I wasn't really surprised to see a message from him :) It was very trivial. Just a snapchat video of a boxing match he attended with his father earlier today. I sent him one back saying that I was at dinner with my parents and that I ordered a particular beer (one I chose out of 100 random craft beer choices). He replied back with "Omg. I ordered the same one. I shit you not." HA!!!! Now if that isn't an indication to him that we're connected, I dont know what is! Also, he acknowledged that he knew I was thinking of him and reached out. 😳♒️ He may be putting the pieces together. He is a very spiritually mature person, so I'm guessing he has somewhat of a clue. The analogy you said about the mouse. Made me laugh. Thats spot on with him these days. And it seems to be that what causes him to ghost (from what I observed) is when he notices something that catches his attention (and then does introspection to maybe confirm his intuition) ...its like he thinks "omg this is weird" and then ghosts to process what is happening and why. And my response (as u also mentioned) is somewhat of fear and feeling like I'm mistaken about this TF connection and its all made up in my head. However, I am able to gather myself quite quickly, realize that these are my own issues, and Im able to release them fast and go back inwards to my inner knowing/intuition. SUCH a wonderfully done reading. Never ceases to amaze me with your talents and gifts. xo ***PS- I often wonder (many times throughout my journey) if he is possibly more aware of this TF thing than I think. Just by the way he says things and almost implies the fact that hes an empath and "knows a lot" (his exact quote) and is currently learning how to ground and said he wants to teach me. He has literally said he sensed that my heart chakra is opening because he was feeling some anxiety and palpitations recently and he was picking up on my own "symptoms". Is this possible?? This just blew me away. And confused me even more!!! Now I'm wondering who the awakened one is here!!?? Him or me?! Total curveball. I truly think he is either psychic or an empath- just by things hes said ever since the beginning of our journey. In retrospect, its almost eerie. As if hes prophesied some things. Is this possible?
I'm so glad that these have supported you! And the mouse analogy was perfect wasn't it? I'm uploading a new video as we speak and it's in there as well. The DMs are super intuitive, more than they let on. ;)
Your video brought me to tears. So much of the content I’ve watched of yours resonates deeply but this video really touched some tender parts that I wasn’t necessarily consciously aware of. I’m so grateful to have found you and I appreciate you so much.
Observe the in and out... If it's TF you know how they really feel and they know you know and it freaks them out. 🤔
I'm watching this 2/10/2020...Our TOTAL journey right now...strangely enough I'm not triggered right now.. I've healed a little more.. I'm so use to it now...omg🔮❤🎭🧡
The weekend following this video was the first time I reached out to her and seeing this now (I discovered the video yet) is like reviving the memory of what happened at this time and afterwards. Much love! ✌🏼
He's definitely my twin. But, it's been 13 years. I just can't. I keep trying to release but he keeps coming back and nothing ever changes. I know there's love and the chemistry is unreal and there's a true friendship but I can't keep being left. Not at our ages. We're in our 50s. Last time I saw him 13 years of hurt came out. I'd be surprised if he returned again. He declares love and tells of plans he wants for us and then I don't hear from him for 3 months
I"m glad that I am not the only one DF who feels that's way.THANK YOU ERICA for so great reading❤
I purchased the extended version for the first time, because I was in AWE at how completely accurate your reading was for me and my masculine. Thank you thank you!!! Wow!!!
I'm so glad that the extended supported you!! Thanks for your kind words!
All this behind ego....its okay this DF has made her choice....beautiful reading....blessings and good vibes...
Wow. Okay I bypassed this video at first because we are not in communication, no reaching out whatsoever, HOWER after a recent in person encounter and hearing you mention this video again today I knew I had to watch it. This played out exactly like this, him holding back because of his overwhelming emotion and me deeply triggered. My mind is completely blown. Thank you SO MUCH for this. 💖🙌🏻
This was so immensely important and helpful. Thank you. Really been struggling.
This has been quite accurate especially for me as the DF. After sharing ourselves for the first time, I asked him a lot of questions and told him thoughts would come up to eat me, but surprisingly I remained calm. I felt my old fears about men and sex come up, like thinking I was the only one emotionally invested or that if I give in, I will lose, to which I'm thankful now that I'm aware of them. He told me he is as emotionally invested and that he also did it out of love, but a major part of why he was holding back was bec he still hasn't moved on from his recently concluded 8-year relationship.. He said he is still in love with her, although he confessed that he loves me, too. I remained understanding and calm despite this. Although thoughts came up, I felt calmer and was able to manage my emotions and observe what is happening. I love him so much, I told him I am concerned for his welfare.
Thank you so much for this Link Erika....It helped me to better understand what's going on & why he is going back & forth....Much Love & Light....I really Love your Readings & how you explain it & the Journey we both go through & we each feel in our Head/Heart Space...Wish I could go to extended Reading...to find out the rest of the Reading but it's all good
Wow it’s been 2 years now and this is 150% . My mind is wandering and I’m waiting for him to open up. Thank you for this, need to ground myself and let the manifesting and the Universe set the path. Dm Capricorn ♑️ Df ♎️
Tx, much appreciated as always.
My Journey has included my being almost incapacitated for the last couple years, (which fortunately is finally improving.) With little else I could do, I’ve been listening to literally thousands of hours of TH-cam readers. You are one of the most solid, among my top 10 & right up there with Esther / Abe Hicks.
Also, re: this read specifically...
It is resonant and very confirmable via my now 3.5 year on again / off again “3D” relationship with my “DM.” She, (yes my “DM” is an “Earthly Female), has had a ridiculously challenging life, (we’re both 51), and has not only survived, but thrived... for herself and for just about everyone she’s encountered. It took A LOT of “bulling” thru & sucking up emotions for the greater good. An extreme fear of Love is definitely a byproduct, that while no longer needed, takes time & compassion, both toward myself and her, to undo. I am in awe of the magnitude of our respective 3D & 5D strengths and downright honored to be her Counterpart.
Tx again Erika, for “keepin’ the light on” for all of us.
Keep On Truckin’
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Let Love Rule
I'm so glad to hear that your situation is improving, and I appreciate your kind words about my work. Thank you for sharing your story and I send you much love!
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This is totally crazy. I fell over this reading and this is exactly what is happening in our lives right now. I needed to get this reading. I've been going crazy. Together for 5 years never ever said anything if Isaid I loved him. He leaves then he emails and says "if the truth be told I love you very much, the kind of love I feel for you is the kind where I'd give my life for yours" Then he's gone again. I feel a bit better listening to this reading. I know how I feel but I`m not sure if I should give him space, which I have been doing or reach out by text from time to time. My heart tells me give him all the time he needs. I can`t sit and do nothing. I am keeping myself busy and doing my thing but at the same time I love him and not looking for anyone else.
Gratitude for the little things... I had an epiphany... I have to wait for the declaration ...❤️❤️❤️still watching ...
I continue to be astounded by this journey. Lol sych a blessed path yet confusing and blissful and painful and just Everything. Lol. I am so resonating with this. My dm and I came into contact recently after 5 years of not speaking and let me just say wow.... Now it's silent night haha thank you so much for the video it really helps! So grateful. Absolutely amazing reading. So on point! 👍🙏💕✨♥️💯🔥🔥✨😇✨
Thank you for this...your readings are such a great help. You channel simple but concrete messages that resonates. Me and my DF is in this process already - we are both aligned and manifesting right now it's amazing how u describe it - mirroring, compassion, all the downloads and lessons - its all here now! Thanks i am happy that i got to listen. light and love💕✨
Thank you wow I am so at peace when you are reading. He came back but left and came and yes at first I was a bit sad but I feel his energy different and more in tune with his feminine side so I am resonating so much ahhhh this ride is amazing
thank you so much for this reading.. very calming for me ❤🙏
🤗 thank you for the reading.. every word resonates for both DF and DM.
He is really working hard to defeat his ego/fears... Expressed in music: "shake the disease" by Depeche Mode... I am really proud of him 💕💕
And I am working too, hard, to release my fears
Important video, thank you Erika.
Wow!! So glad i landed here. I feel so much better now xxx
It is amazing that my energy shifted during your video.
Isn't that awesome! They are like a tuning fork for the resonance of union...it happens real time. :)
@@ErikaElmuts It's really incredible. Thank you. I am grateful. ☀️
Completely resonating with my union thank you
Thank you Erica I love you ring nothing but love and light to you darling
I have been in that gratitude mode for months now. he mailed me a sweet Valentine's card saying how lucky he was to still have me in his life 😍
Awesome reading very helpful information Sending love peace and many blessing to you all. 💖💝❤🧡💙💘💕💞😃
Wow... I am in this phase right now. Fighting the reactive emotions I've been having and wondering if I'm crazy! We saw each other on 3/3 and he was so excited about spending time together, talking of the future and expressing certain emotions... then back to the hot and cold. It is SO hard to not be effected by what sometimes feel like minimum effort/investment.
This video came to me at EXACTLY the right time.
Been having nightmares and in and out of feeling connected. I did see him astrally last night.
Whenever I meditate on it I feel the love, but lately I've had so much chaotic energy it's been so hard to navigate! Thank you so much for all you do.
When he drops off I think he found another karmic. And I think it's not gonna happen between us.
Mine broke up with me 4 months ago and 18 days later gets into a relationship. I have not moved on. I tried and just cant. I dont even know how he could. But he has messaged ms the last week asking how I'm doing and so on. Some minor flirting but he is still with her. So I told him we cant talk anymore.
💯 resonates! Can’t wait to hear the extended. Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️ you have a gift!!
This is definitely what I'm going through the last few weeks.
Male brain and female brain is so different
So true
Oh my goodness 😳 it was his birthday and we started to reconnect after a period of a month separation 😊
6/11/2019, again separation after a BIG TOWER moment...
I get finally the confirmation, as i am an intuitive healer myself, about this process. Finally!!
Thank you 💜
This is so on point...thank you🙏
The perfect video. This is exactly what’s happening to me right now. I truly appreciate the help and support by giving us some clarity to this madness. Would you be so kind to follow up with this topic? We definitely need it. Thank you so much. ❤️🙏🏼
I love..your style.I..mean the way You base..your analysis..of course in the meaning and interaction of the Cards..but also..You ad a very intuitive part..that let You step..with mindfulness (iguess..I'm trying..to find the right words..to express..why I feel so confortable..when..I listen to You..😊..Sorry..but Yes I..learn a lot when I listen to ..You as well as when I listen to others..that are applying..this mindfulness thinking)into a real observation..where..reality unfolds..naturally as "IT IS".."Thank You"👌👩🌠🌲🌷🐕🌾🐝🌿🐈🌳🐦.
OMG, this is spot on......I hope 😱😍!!
You are so spot on. Thank you. Very much appreciated 🙏🏾
Nice message and I’m walking away until he comes forward in the right way.
I truly believed he is my TF- but he doesn’t get the message- maybe I’ve been delusional?
He’s gone back to his old karmic girlfriend. Crazy, that’s been over for almost a year.
I’m not putting myself in this position anymore.
Shivani Grail please don’t wait on him. I am sure he is your TF but doesn’t mean we give them a pass to act hot and cold. Indecisive, lower our worth only so he could go back to another woman who he’s comfortable with.
A www . Blessings 🕯 🌹. 🐚🔔
I hope Spirit reaches out and gives you a message for those of us who are finally back in the same atmospheres as our DM after many years of separation but where the DM refuses to make a move! Although there are so many vids & extended readings that resonate. I should have book a private session when I had the chance :(
Ahhh I just saw the stalemate vid! There it is lol
I'm so glad you saw that! xo I may open up to private readings again, so just stay tuned here if/when that happens. Sending you much love!
@@ErikaElmuts Me too :) It was so accurate. And I always stay tuned, love your readings
I aint messing up my karma after clearly the family karma on my side of the family and hope my mother finally awaken
I am actually watching this video to know why I act in ways I am familiar but never know why and make things work out. I almost feels the confusion on the boys’ mind but I am confused about myself too 😂
i just found ur channel ...luv it! it says 1wk ago. exactly one week ago he contacted me and says he wants to meet up....then nothing. this is perfect timing and when it exactly happened. i know he will contact again.
c_c 7 did he?
You are the # One reader love your reading so on Point!!
Thank you, thank you, this reading was on point!! I felt like it was a personal reading & it the message couldn't have come to me @ a better time!!! I could resonate to everything you were saying about the feminine & masculine!!! Thank you so much❤