Elder thank you very much for your program, its very informative and educative. It is very true that most of us are now living a life of sacrifice because we neglected doing the right and correct things. The Bible says its better to obey than sacrifice. Thank you our panelist or moderators, good questions and nice probing, you are blessed to have such an elder with vast knowledge and wisdom. The Bible says "train your child in the way he should go, even when he is old he won't depart from it. It's powerful teaching!!
we live in a society which has certain expectations which affect decision making. A guy at 26 trying to set up his business is respected. A lady at the same age anenge avakunzi nhaiwe unoda kuzoroorwa nani wachembera. Even the guys who seem to be enlightened also think i should get a lady earning less than me. Our society is kinda rotten in that matter.
Zivaiwo zvamuri. Be yourself. If you know and respect yourself, you make the right choices for yourself. You don't just follow everything happening around you.
It is our duty as parents to instil values and teach you right from wrong. But when you leave home you begin making personal choices. It is at point that most youth fail.
Ko madii mango shandisa same language ne guest motaura mese ne Shona? Cultural context yema discussions is Zimbabwe. Kana paine desire yekuti mamwe ma cultures vanzwe maigona kungoita ma subtitles. We should respect and embrace our languages. Apa it's clearly not lack of education kusa taura chirungu, asi it's cultural identity
But brother Munyoro your questions were not coming out nicely you were expressing them well. Wanga usinganyatsobaya Dede nemumukanwa , but I get you, it was making sense to me. Otherwise thank you
Elder i have a question which come out side thare as man ok issue yekt murume anofanira kuchengeta vabereki vake 50 50 nevabereki vemukadzi like if i send 2kg sugar to my parents wife say u must do the same her parents ?as guys we see like its not fair coz my parents they are look for support 100% kumwana komana musikana havanyanyi tarisa support from coz ave nemusha wake and vabereki its seem like they understand that kt musikana kana aroorwa avakuita nezvmusha wake but problem vakadzi vedu isu vana they don't understand that they say u must share 50 50 .(am not say vakwasha we must not help our parents in law no but am trying to say i must help here and thare coz they have vanakomana vavo vari responsible for )so i dont knw what is actually ryt to do ?
how are you Shadreck, nyaya yekuchengeta haisi yetsika nemagariro asi kuti murairo wajehovha,unfortunately jehovha vakapa instruction kumunhu wese kwete kumurume kana mukadzi,therefore mukadzi akabva kumusha kwavo akasachengeta vabereki ane mhosva pamberi pamwari the same kumukoman.Saka mumwe nemumwe unofanira kuchengeta vabereki without considering what others are doing.uye zvinorwadza mukadzi kuziva kuti vabereki vemurume vari kudya vake vasingadyi.ini ndinoti chengetai vabereki both sides as though ndimi mega muripo.
How old are these kids. They display a shocking level of lack of self-awareness. My challenge to them is google how to be self aware. The types of questions just show they go with the wind. Life is not about a manual or learning how to ACT in situations or asking how do I live. It’s about discovering yourself and why you like certain things and instructions serve as a foundation from which you build your OWN individuality. If ppl say buy flowers for girls that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a fact. You still need to ask yourself why YOU are buying flowers. Is it because society says do so or is it because your girl enjoys flowers and you enjoy giving them to her because you enjoy seeing her happy etc. when you know your OWN reasons why you do things you will be in a better position to 1-explain it to ppl who may say “you are getting lost”. 2-understand why others do what they do Eg if someone says I don’t give flowers because it reminds me of funerals you will get where they are coming from. But if you are stuck at “to give or not to give flowers” and you are looking at someone to tell you which one to do then stick with that and shame those who don’t mmmmm that’s a shocking level of lack of self awareness. Same as dressing. Do you dress like South Africans just because they dress a certain way or do you ask yourself given how SAs and Zimbos dress how do YOU/I want to dress and why? Such that if someone makes a comment about it based on their own values you will be able to confidently say I wear this eg because I developed a like for it or it suits me better or I need to blend in instead of be the center of attention or that’s the only way to get opportunities etc. You know exactly why you are doing it and communicate it to someone else in a way that they too can see where you are coming from. Same with cohabitation. You can make your marriage more like dating or cohabitation if you understand what’s marriage and what’s cohabiting and how you will navigate both. And you pick someone who is on the same page as you who shares the same vision of marriage. But if you can’t make your own decisions or have no clue as to the differences or have no clue if your partner shares the vision then the marriage will be a mess. You can’t be asking for guidance from outside yourself, you have to have your own plan then use guidance as information or tools to build your own thing. You won’t be asking if ppl change after marriage if you understand yourself and know how to understand others too. Ppl don’t change after marriage the pressures of marriage just reveal what’s been already there. And if you have no eye to see what’s there before marriage because you are shockingly unaware of yourself and your surroundings then it may look like someone changed. As I said the answer to all this is self discovery and self awareness.
Tanya: How old are these kids. They display a shocking level of lack of self-awareness. Answer: As a panelist in a setup like this, you are representing everyone, you even ask questions you have answers to. You have to play dump and sophisticated to balance the discussion.
@@vinemediazw9986 oh that’s a relief if that’s the case. Cz that guys questions were particularly concerning and I was worried we have youths who think like that.
Interesting debate, but got confused by the questions from the guy. I feel he was trying to simulate/ invent scenarios that are not practical and realistic. We living in a world of correct speech and gender bais rethoric.
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Elder thank you very much for your program, its very informative and educative. It is very true that most of us are now living a life of sacrifice because we neglected doing the right and correct things. The Bible says its better to obey than sacrifice.
Thank you our panelist or moderators, good questions and nice probing, you are blessed to have such an elder with vast knowledge and wisdom.
The Bible says "train your child in the way he should go, even when he is old he won't depart from it.
It's powerful teaching!!
Marriage is not boring. It really good and enjoyable. Trust me. As long u put God 1st and as long u start a relationship with good mind
Elder munondiitira 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 your answers are wiser than anything I've ever heard 🤞🏼
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thank you Pastor as youth we really need to own up to our choices,mistakes etc and not to always put blame on others.
Mibvunzo yevapfanha inondirwadza shuwa Mr Machando is saying the truth
Elder 😍mandigonera vaskana hatifanire kubika nkuwachir vakomana ava mhani #b value
Amen tambira kure nezvausingagone kuramba
Elder Machando. Sanyati SDA!
Mukaenda musango morumwa nemago Dont blame us as parents kuti taifanirwa kuno kubvisirai mago musati maenda musango kkk.
keep up with the good work👍
we live in a society which has certain expectations which affect decision making. A guy at 26 trying to set up his business is respected. A lady at the same age anenge avakunzi nhaiwe unoda kuzoroorwa nani wachembera. Even the guys who seem to be enlightened also think i should get a lady earning less than me. Our society is kinda rotten in that matter.
Reality!
This should end with our generation
Sad reality sak todii
Forget about the society life ndeyako iyi saka zvimwe azvid pressure kubva kuvanhu ini mdakazviramba kare izvozvo
We want to have you visit Ireland.
Please add this as a podcast 👏
Zivaiwo zvamuri. Be yourself. If you know and respect yourself, you make the right choices for yourself. You don't just follow everything happening around you.
Mukomana uyu maquestions ake are worrying. We dont have to have women give up their dreams to make up for men who feel insecure.
But its happening a lot of women out there vakasiya chikoro ma degrees avo vachienda kuvarume
Vakadzi ndovakapusa varikuda marriage and vari desperate ndosaka vakusiiswa chikoro or kusashanda
Kwanzi usabira vamwe vanhu vakadzi vavo nevasikana vavo. VeHalf-half voroorawo neveHalf-half, usatora pfambi kana tsotsi revanhu woda kuriita muKristu. Haa Elder makanyanya!
Thnk you very much pa submission apo
It is our duty as parents to instil values and teach you right from wrong. But when you leave home you begin making personal choices. It is at point that most youth fail.
Am here already
Ko madii mango shandisa same language ne guest motaura mese ne Shona? Cultural context yema discussions is Zimbabwe. Kana paine desire yekuti mamwe ma cultures vanzwe maigona kungoita ma subtitles. We should respect and embrace our languages. Apa it's clearly not lack of education kusa taura chirungu, asi it's cultural identity
Nhai nhai ....
Hm iwe
Matsotsi ari kuuya kuChurch kuzotsvaga madzimai. Vanonyepera kuita vanhu kwavo.
Varikuwanawo matsotsi avo arimo muchrch imomo
And me too
Good questions y’all
That's deep
I have seen the worst from foreign students in UK universities very sad indeed.
Elder say it again
These vamfanha are not listening to understand Elder or vaita shallow?
😂😂😂😂😂my fada my elder😂😂😂😂yoooh
Elder takarumwa ne mosquito ne tsetse fly. Nanhasi tichipo!
Guys your questions yooh .teererai vakuru vachitaura.
Good
Diaspora hakuna chozikanwa
Our children suffer from identity crisis
heated discussion
Red flags , mukoma avo ummm!
But brother Munyoro your questions were not coming out nicely you were expressing them well. Wanga usinganyatsobaya Dede nemumukanwa , but I get you, it was making sense to me. Otherwise thank you
Elder i have a question which come out side thare as man ok issue yekt murume anofanira kuchengeta vabereki vake 50 50 nevabereki vemukadzi like if i send 2kg sugar to my parents wife say u must do the same her parents ?as guys we see like its not fair coz my parents they are look for support 100% kumwana komana musikana havanyanyi tarisa support from coz ave nemusha wake and vabereki its seem like they understand that kt musikana kana aroorwa avakuita nezvmusha wake but problem vakadzi vedu isu vana they don't understand that they say u must share 50 50 .(am not say vakwasha we must not help our parents in law no but am trying to say i must help here and thare coz they have vanakomana vavo vari responsible for )so i dont knw what is actually ryt to do ?
Ummmm vanasikana ndivo vanotpchengeta vabereki kudarika hombarume idzi
how are you Shadreck, nyaya yekuchengeta haisi yetsika nemagariro asi kuti murairo wajehovha,unfortunately jehovha vakapa instruction kumunhu wese kwete kumurume kana mukadzi,therefore mukadzi akabva kumusha kwavo akasachengeta vabereki ane mhosva pamberi pamwari the same kumukoman.Saka mumwe nemumwe unofanira kuchengeta vabereki without considering what others are doing.uye zvinorwadza mukadzi kuziva kuti vabereki vemurume vari kudya vake vasingadyi.ini ndinoti chengetai vabereki both sides as though ndimi mega muripo.
Ngatidananei not kuwachirana nkubikiran
😂😂😂haa ipapo mapabata shuwa
Hahaha ...u rilly against kuwachirana nekubikirana
Hanzi kudzidza hakupedzi kupusa blaz avo ka haaaaa maone
kufunda hakupedzi kupusa chaaaiiiiiiii ndohwa sendotsva kkkkkkkkkkk unogona kuita masters but wakapusa lo
kudzidza hakusi kungwara mibvunzo yacho so
How old are these kids. They display a shocking level of lack of self-awareness. My challenge to them is google how to be self aware. The types of questions just show they go with the wind. Life is not about a manual or learning how to ACT in situations or asking how do I live. It’s about discovering yourself and why you like certain things and instructions serve as a foundation from which you build your OWN individuality. If ppl say buy flowers for girls that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a fact. You still need to ask yourself why YOU are buying flowers. Is it because society says do so or is it because your girl enjoys flowers and you enjoy giving them to her because you enjoy seeing her happy etc. when you know your OWN reasons why you do things you will be in a better position to 1-explain it to ppl who may say “you are getting lost”. 2-understand why others do what they do Eg if someone says I don’t give flowers because it reminds me of funerals you will get where they are coming from. But if you are stuck at “to give or not to give flowers” and you are looking at someone to tell you which one to do then stick with that and shame those who don’t mmmmm that’s a shocking level of lack of self awareness.
Same as dressing. Do you dress like South Africans just because they dress a certain way or do you ask yourself given how SAs and Zimbos dress how do YOU/I want to dress and why? Such that if someone makes a comment about it based on their own values you will be able to confidently say I wear this eg because I developed a like for it or it suits me better or I need to blend in instead of be the center of attention or that’s the only way to get opportunities etc. You know exactly why you are doing it and communicate it to someone else in a way that they too can see where you are coming from.
Same with cohabitation. You can make your marriage more like dating or cohabitation if you understand what’s marriage and what’s cohabiting and how you will navigate both. And you pick someone who is on the same page as you who shares the same vision of marriage. But if you can’t make your own decisions or have no clue as to the differences or have no clue if your partner shares the vision then the marriage will be a mess. You can’t be asking for guidance from outside yourself, you have to have your own plan then use guidance as information or tools to build your own thing. You won’t be asking if ppl change after marriage if you understand yourself and know how to understand others too. Ppl don’t change after marriage the pressures of marriage just reveal what’s been already there. And if you have no eye to see what’s there before marriage because you are shockingly unaware of yourself and your surroundings then it may look like someone changed.
As I said the answer to all this is self discovery and self awareness.
Tanya: How old are these kids. They display a shocking level of lack of self-awareness.
Answer:
As a panelist in a setup like this, you are representing everyone, you even ask questions you have answers to. You have to play dump and sophisticated to balance the discussion.
@@vinemediazw9986 oh that’s a relief if that’s the case. Cz that guys questions were particularly concerning and I was worried we have youths who think like that.
Did he really just say women become useless 🙄 very shallow minded
Interesting debate, but got confused by the questions from the guy. I feel he was trying to simulate/ invent scenarios that are not practical and realistic.
We living in a world of correct speech and gender bais rethoric.
usatora tsotsi revanhu woda kuriita mukristu
Wrong perception. Submission is not slavery!
Mukomana uyu anemakore mangani? Because ummm some of these questions 🙄🙄
Apa arikuzviti lawyer, haa ndozvimiririra hangu
@@altimuz hahahaha
Thats wrong insteady yekudzidza mave busy ku attacker munhu aftr all imi hamuna mibvunzo yacho