She still has the presence of a 12yr old, probably the main reason why she's able to forgive in the purest way... There's definitely more to the story that she doesn't know herself... So glad she made something of herself,.. Such a pure soul
It’s all bcoz of this horrible honour and shame culture!! In this kind of culture if one fails, he brings shame on the whole family! So she can’t even say something wrong about her father, by doing this in they’re culture she automatically brings shame on herself! They don’t really are individuals, everyone is responsible for everyone else!
There's definitely a level of love and forgiveness I have yet to tap into because hearing Alicia say, "I still love my father.." made me really dizzy. And not in a judgemental way at all. I'm simply in awe. I struggle to fully digest and accept these kind of tragedies. Wow.
Damn! I remember this story very clearly, I'm from chatsworth. Poor soul, look at you now! Grown and beautiful. Overcoming all life has thrown at you. Stay strong my girl. Proud of you. God bless you.
This story is so traumatic... I hope she finds out what led her father to such a heinous act. I feel like the family knows. Shes so brave. I can't imagine going through that
"If we can forgive, and heal, why not?". This right here, spoke to me. Thank you for sharing your story Alicia. It's a painful one. I wish I can give her the warmest and tightest hug.
I am puzzled why she speaks so highly about her Dad and yet he was responsible for robbing her of her mum and siblings. I cannot understand why she was blamed. I am very impressed with this brilliant interviewer.
Definitely resonate with having items/things from family that has passed. I lost my mother when I was 15 and I really wished that I was more involved in making decisions on things I wanted to keep. You are strong Alicia and thank you for sharing your story. xx
She is unable to explain it but it is because she was still a child and was using the forgiveness of childhood. Children's forgiveness is the standard that everyone should aim for. It is illogical and automatic, you cannot reason it out because they are still in youthful spiritual immunity. They forgive those who do them evil at the drop of a hat and without reason. She never once thought evil of her Dad because she knew him, and she knew that the guy who had killed her family was not the person she knew, something had gone wrong with him and so you cannot blame him for that. This is the standard God wants us to get to in forgiveness.
My parents were shot in the car with us all four kids in the back. Adults dont do enough to protect us kids after the trauma. I dont remember even a day of counselling or anyone talking to us about what we saw and us almost getting killed.
You are such an amazing inspiring young lady. Your tragedy didn't define who you are.Instead your story made you stronger and wow the strenght and courage that allows you to be so forgiving through it all.. You are A Brave strong amazing inspiring and an incredible young lady. I pray that God will continue to bless you and keep you and always. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏💐❤️
This is a powerful story with a lot of life lessons. Not very easy to forgive but Alicia has taught us that to have peace in our hearts and to live peacefully, we should forgive. Thank you Lebo for also teaching us to be able to listen, however hard the situation is. I also cried so much, putting myself in Alicia's shoes, but am grateful that I managed to listen to the end. All the best to Alicia and her family.
Her family members in the comments section are not very pleased with this interview. I wish for this family to heal and move forward. Strength to her. She lost Soo much but she is still standing and strong 💪❣️💪❣️💪❣️
The adults were projecting their trauma onto her because they themselves couldn't cope or accept the reality around them, they made this young girl the scapegoat for the pain because she was defenseless.
There was no such thing she was never abused by her maternal side if the family she lost a mother brother sister dad so did we lose my sister neice and nephew the pain she went through we still ho through the same pain
Alicia. I like it when you say the whole thing happened so that you can help the us who went through such tragedies. God put us in situations that will make us be useful to His children. You are really an ambassador of life to the hopeless. Keep up the good work.
This second part just triggered me😭😭😭💔💔. The part where she speaks about her family, how she was treated and all the things that were said to her sound so familiar to me💔. Having losing my parents I know how it feels to be raised by family members, the love is just not the same. I have also moved away from my family and don’t want any sort of relationship with them. At this point I am just trying to build my own life. This really broke my but I’m so glad she turned out to be this amazing person she is today🤗♥️.
You such a brave and courageous woman. Forgiveness is not an easy thing, I've learn so much from about Forgiveness from your story. Thank you for being yourself beautiful self even when you've went through so much hardship but you were able to be victorious. I appreciate you sharing your story and your family is definitely so proud of you from heaven. Sending love and big hugs ❤❤❤
Bless you Alicia. Bless your healing journey. And thank you for sharing your strong. And Mrs. Relebogile. I love the platform you have created for such stories and all stories that come through. Keep it up 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Courageous and strong young woman. God has a purpose with your life, I'm glad out of this tragedy a support group was founded. I pray your foundation reaches adults so they develop coping mechanism and shy away from suicide . God's richest blessings upon your life and generations to come 🙏
I feel sorry for Relebogile who wants to understand the psyche of a daddy's girl. No matter how evil their acts are, once a daddy's girl, always a daddy's girl! I emplore Alicia's strength, I could never recover from something like this. Strength to you girl 💞
This is such a sad story, more sad the the adults could not help the poor child to get closure and healing. This is where I see the power of God, through Him, she was able to forgive and pick herself up... What a brave yet humble soul❤️🙌
I cried as though I knew her and her family....... a daughters love for her father in its highest form.... apart of me can almost understand why her moms sisters behaved in such a hurtful way. Maybe what they wanted was for Alicia to hate him as much as they probably did...... but she is his daughter how can she...... What a strong and beautiful woman. Much love Alicia. Xox
@@ItsOnlyJunie just trying to find their reasoning to have to resort to such hurtful words. I could be very far from the mark. Either way their words can not be justified. She was an innocent child.
i am soo proud of u Elisha that u moved on to be this independent strong woman even though u havent healed inteenally but believe me meeting n trying Jesus who can only soothe n heal u n give u inner peace n HIS unconcondiontal love which no man will give u...stay strong as u are beautiful
One of the hardest stories I've had to listen to, I cannot even imagine the pain she went through. I think also the adults in her life failed her dismally
This was definitely so painful to hear and watch. My heart goes out to her. The adults in her life definitely handled this terribly. The way they treated her marn. Deciding things for her without at least talking to her like moving from Durban to JHB amongst other things. What upsets me the most was how they didn't involve her in the planning of the funeral as well as how she didn't get a chance to even get any sentimental items for herself. It's almost as if her loss+ grief didn't matter to them only theirs. It's like she was treated like a burden. I definitely feel like there's more to what happened than she knows and is/has been told. I truly hope she one day finds the closure she needs.
Thank you so much Alicia for your bravery to share your unimaginably sad reality, and what led to that. You are one strong, and resilient young lady trust me. Not many would be still standing to tell such a horrific experience. Just because someone is your "relative" does not mean that they will love you, Support you etc especially during the battles and struggles of our lives. However, because we grew up programmed to think that, we find it extremely difficult to understand or accept this fact. Infact many times, it's the non relatives that will genuinely love you, support you etc. I wish and pray for you Alicia, that you get nothing but the best that life has to give. You deserve all of it my love 💓❤😘🙏
Thank you so much Primrose. And I agree 200%with you on your comment. Just because we are blood does not mean that we will be loved, supported etc by them. I can tell you today the love, prayers and support that have come forth are friends and total strangers. A few people messaged me to say " just look at how much you are loved and prayed for". That for me is enough ❤. I thank you for your well wishes 🙏 🌻🤗
Alicia's story is so heartbreaking her family failed her at the time she needed them the most. I hope she is doing well with each day that passes and I hope somehow in her dreams she got the answer and closure from her dad as to why he did what he did etc❤❤
They did fail her. That being said, I think they too didn't know how to cope. How does anyone deal with and heal from a murder suicide, especially when your culture and religion are so conservative? Also the fear and stigma that comes with a relative doing something this heinous is a lot for anyone. Her father put everyone in a traumatic position. I think her relatives were functioning in autopilot. They all have PTSD
The family is alive and well there is 2 sides to a story don't let the tears fool you im one of the maternal aunts ask rebogile to give us the platform to tell the story and the truth
I never hear the involvement of her paternal family in her life after the death of her family. Her extended family might know the cause of the accident. They need of open up to her so that she can heal completely.
yup, she probably was not her father's daughter and the paternal side cut ties since they knew the truth. like she didn't even mention that the paternal side was alive or passed on. zero mention.
I think to a parent who's living it up and wants nothing to do with you is the worst feeling, you can make peace with the fact that they're dead but to go through life struggling knowing that your father refuse to support or even acknowledge you will give you psychological issues.
This story is sad and horrific for a twelve years ago child. It has a lot of missing pieces, she could not understand why her dad did what he did. Her aunt's kept telling her she killed her parents. They knew what transpired between her and her dad, when her mom found out eventually and maybe threaten to exposure. Him being a teacher that works with children took this drastic action. I had my experience. No one just don't do what he did for no reason.
Family secrets while a young soul is in pain.having worked with staff death benefits,the kind of things one discovers in some families is shocking.theres more to this than it meets than eye/ear.but the truth has a way of coming out
She was left with her maternity side, her father decided to murder everyone he loves but her, and they kept on blaming her for her family's death. I'm not a detective but I think maybe her father found out in the family gathering that she's not her biological daughter. I'm glad that she managed to pull through out of her suicidal thoughts cause I think it also gets to her that maybe she is not his biological daughter.
I was thinking the opposite that maybe the father found out that her brother and sister were not his so he said this one must be left behind as his the only biological daughter
This is painful for anyone to go through but there's grey areas in her story, why would the family blame her for what her father did? Did the father find out that she's not his child and than decided to take his own life together with his bloodline?
But how could she want to make his late father proud after he murdered her family? I'm sorry he sounds evil to me. He's the reason why she's had a hard life.
I understand your point of view. Just as any child will make their parent proud. It was my dream too while they lived. Yes my dad did the unacceptable and I suffered tremendously. But I chose to look at my life differently. My hardships were my lifes lessons. My failure a stepping stone. My family's death taught me to live, love and appreciate life.
It sounds like he was a really good father, just mentally ill. Is she supposed to hate him or something? it’s always the most Christian people telling people NOT to forgive. WWJD?
This is no shade to anyone but the harshness her family showed her seems to be something typical of Indian families judging from my observations of the Indians I've known in my life. I believe that the father was suffering from depression and my heart really aches for what she went through 💔
Aunties must stop being mean bathong. Sorry Alicia that you had to go through this by yourself. God kept you safe for a reason. You're in a healing process dear. It shall be well with you my dear
The family knew what transpired hence they mistreated her I was thinking that the father probably found out that the brother and sister weren't his only Alicia was the biological daughter and decided to leave her behind also remember he was still wearing Alicia's ring and still kept it when he took his last breathe the aunt was so evil to say you killed your parents argh
iam soo sorry Elisha that u had to go thru all that trauma n no support..typical indian culture n why do they have to blame u n yr dad being a professional person...soo sad
People can be very mean. Why can one blame a 12 yr old child for the deaths of her family??? Oh GOD have mercy. There was a reason the father left her with the aunty.He must have known all along that he would kill the rest of the family members and he had made a decision to save her life. And i believe some relatives know exactly why the murders were committed,but have decided to keep it a secret Come to think of it, could it be that she had said something that was very sensitive or what???? Why did the aunty say Alicia had been left behind bcoz she had a big mouth ???? Why would the aunty later say that she was to be blamed for the deaths? Those who know something about this murder should help Alicia find closure by TELLING HER THE TRUTH.THEY MUST CONFESS FOR THE SAKE OF ETERNITY. Alicia may GOD bless and preserve your life.
She still has the presence of a 12yr old, probably the main reason why she's able to forgive in the purest way... There's definitely more to the story that she doesn't know herself... So glad she made something of herself,.. Such a pure soul
Interesting you mentioned that they say that sometimes people can get stuck on their age of trauma💔
So true
I agree because things just don't happen
I feel like giving this interview a thumbs up is not enough. I need to give it a hug or a heart.
No one deserves to go through all of this.
Agreed 💔💔💔
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She is idealising her father a lot, I think there is so much that is underlying this idealisation.
It’s all bcoz of this horrible honour and shame culture!! In this kind of culture if one fails, he brings shame on the whole family! So she can’t even say something wrong about her father, by doing this in they’re culture she automatically brings shame on herself! They don’t really are individuals, everyone is responsible for everyone else!
There's definitely a level of love and forgiveness I have yet to tap into because hearing Alicia say, "I still love my father.." made me really dizzy. And not in a judgemental way at all. I'm simply in awe. I struggle to fully digest and accept these kind of tragedies. Wow.
Damn! I remember this story very clearly, I'm from chatsworth. Poor soul, look at you now! Grown and beautiful. Overcoming all life has thrown at you. Stay strong my girl. Proud of you. God bless you.
Thank you Zee
What did they say hapoened?
This story is so traumatic... I hope she finds out what led her father to such a heinous act. I feel like the family knows. Shes so brave. I can't imagine going through that
Be nice to everybody. You never know what people are going through. This beautiful young lady went through a lot. I'm happy she turned out good.
"If we can forgive, and heal, why not?". This right here, spoke to me. Thank you for sharing your story Alicia. It's a painful one. I wish I can give her the warmest and tightest hug.
I am glad I could share a part of my life with you. Hopefully some day I can get that hug 🤗🌻. Thank you so much
Lebo is so warm and motherly. You’re a born therapist wena nje as a presenter ❤️
I agree
Lebo is very strong as well... I would be crying not be able to ask those questions.
My thoughts exactly before I saw your comment
Despite what she went through she came out with such a calm and humble soul I've learned so much h from the way she has handled all this
Her process of healing has given me strength to forgive anyone for whatever they do to me... such a strong pure woman... God bless you 🙏 ❤
I am puzzled why she speaks so highly about her Dad and yet he was responsible for robbing her of her mum and siblings. I cannot understand why she was blamed. I am very impressed with this brilliant interviewer.
This is so sad to not know what transpired, to have so many missing puzzles is to much for a 12 year old even a grown up of any age, wishing you peace
Thank you Sekela
This is such a painful story, being blamed for the death of family members… Strengths to you Alicia
I like how you decided to be independent and move out I'm so proud of her she's so strong and there's also no method of healing I love you Alicia❤️
What a great space to be in, Lebo! You are a blessing. Alicia is so strong! May God continue to strengthen her ❤❤
Definitely resonate with having items/things from family that has passed. I lost my mother when I was 15 and I really wished that I was more involved in making decisions on things I wanted to keep. You are strong Alicia and thank you for sharing your story. xx
She is unable to explain it but it is because she was still a child and was using the forgiveness of childhood. Children's forgiveness is the standard that everyone should aim for. It is illogical and automatic, you cannot reason it out because they are still in youthful spiritual immunity. They forgive those who do them evil at the drop of a hat and without reason. She never once thought evil of her Dad because she knew him, and she knew that the guy who had killed her family was not the person she knew, something had gone wrong with him and so you cannot blame him for that. This is the standard God wants us to get to in forgiveness.
Stay blessedy dear gal
This is painful, hugs and kisses. I think she needs to forgive herself for various reasons. Her trauma is still so real.
Listening to her story is so painful but why. Her extended family knows something they did not tell her 🙏🏿
Lebo is actually brave for sitting down and listening to these different sad stories everyday 😭.
If we can forgive and that makes us heal then why not 😭💔that takes a strong woman to say that sending love and strength to you 🥺
My parents were shot in the car with us all four kids in the back. Adults dont do enough to protect us kids after the trauma. I dont remember even a day of counselling or anyone talking to us about what we saw and us almost getting killed.
My sincere condolences to you and your siblings. May God keep you all safe. Blessings from Aotearoa ❤❤❤❤
You are such an amazing inspiring young lady. Your tragedy didn't define who you are.Instead your story made you stronger and wow the strenght and courage that allows you to be so forgiving through it all.. You are A Brave strong amazing inspiring and an incredible young lady. I pray that God will continue to bless you and keep you and always. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏💐❤️
This is a powerful story with a lot of life lessons. Not very easy to forgive but Alicia has taught us that to have peace in our hearts and to live peacefully, we should forgive.
Thank you Lebo for also teaching us to be able to listen, however hard the situation is. I also cried so much, putting myself in Alicia's shoes, but am grateful that I managed to listen to the end.
All the best to Alicia and her family.
Parents should learn not to make selfish decisions that can traumatise those who they live behind. Love is caring and protective
Absolutely true
Her family members in the comments section are not very pleased with this interview. I wish for this family to heal and move forward. Strength to her. She lost Soo much but she is still standing and strong 💪❣️💪❣️💪❣️
May God heal your heart, Alicia. May you be surrounded by love and always have a soft place to fall❤️❤️.
Thank you Relebogile❤️❤️
The adults were projecting their trauma onto her because they themselves couldn't cope or accept the reality around them, they made this young girl the scapegoat for the pain because she was defenseless.
There was no such thing she was never abused by her maternal side if the family she lost a mother brother sister dad so did we lose my sister neice and nephew the pain she went through we still ho through the same pain
I agree 😭😭😭
These are life shattering experiences for anyone to go through
Thank you Relebogile for this show. And thank you Alisha for sharing your sad experience, may God keep you strong and give you comfort.
Thank you so much TJ
@@aliciasewdass1804 your beautiful and strong God bless you
Alicia. I like it when you say the whole thing happened so that you can help the us who went through such tragedies. God put us in situations that will make us be useful to His children. You are really an ambassador of life to the hopeless. Keep up the good work.
She truly is 🤍
This comment spoke to my Soul 🤗🌻. Thank you Tshidi. 🙏
This second part just triggered me😭😭😭💔💔. The part where she speaks about her family, how she was treated and all the things that were said to her sound so familiar to me💔. Having losing my parents I know how it feels to be raised by family members, the love is just not the same. I have also moved away from my family and don’t want any sort of relationship with them. At this point I am just trying to build my own life. This really broke my but I’m so glad she turned out to be this amazing person she is today🤗♥️.
You such a brave and courageous woman. Forgiveness is not an easy thing, I've learn so much from about Forgiveness from your story. Thank you for being yourself beautiful self even when you've went through so much hardship but you were able to be victorious. I appreciate you sharing your story and your family is definitely so proud of you from heaven. Sending love and big hugs ❤❤❤
Thank you so much Sizakele
The truth is that even your aunties and uncles were deeply hurt and puzzled, they also need counselling
Bless you Alicia. Bless your healing journey. And thank you for sharing your strong.
And Mrs. Relebogile. I love the platform you have created for such stories and all stories that come through. Keep it up 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Aahhh marn😭😭sending hugs and love to you Alicia❤️no one deserves what you went through even worse a 12 year old😭
Thank you so much Amanda
Courageous and strong young woman. God has a purpose with your life, I'm glad out of this tragedy a support group was founded. I pray your foundation reaches adults so they develop coping mechanism and shy away from suicide . God's richest blessings upon your life and generations to come 🙏
Thank you 🙏
Right here on time.Love from Kenya...So sorry for her,😥
Thank you for watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
I feel sorry for Relebogile who wants to understand the psyche of a daddy's girl. No matter how evil their acts are, once a daddy's girl, always a daddy's girl! I emplore Alicia's strength, I could never recover from something like this. Strength to you girl 💞
That's what I was thinking also, that she's a daddy's girl. A part of her being able to forgive him
So difficult listening to this story, my heart breaks each time as the she tells of what happened. So so sad. May God always be with her all the time.
Sorry Alicia for your sad story ! but from my own experiences "each dark cloud has a SILVER LINING " God is already healing you 💕
You such a strong women. Thank you for sharing with us your story Alicia. Much love and light.♥️♥️ 🇳🇦🇳🇦
I am wondering if dad left a note to explain why. Family can be toxic, to tell a teenager that she killed her parents, that's witchcraft.
Hopefully someday there is an explanation to all this. But for now I'm at peace
@@aliciasewdass1804 sending you love. Stay blessed
@@aliciasewdass1804 ❤❤
@@aliciasewdass1804 sending you ❤ ♥ from Namibia
Dear Alicia,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God keep you safe in His arms. Precious hugs and much love to you from Aotearoa. ❤❤❤❤
This is such a sad story, more sad the the adults could not help the poor child to get closure and healing. This is where I see the power of God, through Him, she was able to forgive and pick herself up... What a brave yet humble soul❤️🙌
I cried as though I knew her and her family....... a daughters love for her father in its highest form.... apart of me can almost understand why her moms sisters behaved in such a hurtful way. Maybe what they wanted was for Alicia to hate him as much as they probably did...... but she is his daughter how can she......
What a strong and beautiful woman.
Much love Alicia.
Xox
I didn’t see it that way Nisa but, you’ve made a valid point 😢
Or maybe the parents got together or stayed together because of her the first born
@@candyc5736 another reason....
It's so much for a child to have to carry.
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@@ItsOnlyJunie just trying to find their reasoning to have to resort to such hurtful words. I could be very far from the mark. Either way their words can not be justified. She was an innocent child.
This story is so sad😥...hope you find strength, happiness n love in your life. wishing you success...
Thank you Priya
i am soo proud of u Elisha that u moved on to be this independent strong woman even though u havent healed inteenally but believe me meeting n trying Jesus who can only soothe n heal u n give u inner peace n HIS unconcondiontal love which no man will give u...stay strong as u are beautiful
The family should just tell her the events that led to her father taking that decision, so that she gets some kind of closure
Yes, because there is something.
She Is A Troubled Child. I Believe That She Knows. She May Not Want To Exposed His Father. The Father Purposely Plan The Killing But Left Her Behind.
One of the hardest stories I've had to listen to, I cannot even imagine the pain she went through. I think also the adults in her life failed her dismally
This was definitely so painful to hear and watch. My heart goes out to her. The adults in her life definitely handled this terribly. The way they treated her marn. Deciding things for her without at least talking to her like moving from Durban to JHB amongst other things. What upsets me the most was how they didn't involve her in the planning of the funeral as well as how she didn't get a chance to even get any sentimental items for herself. It's almost as if her loss+ grief didn't matter to them only theirs. It's like she was treated like a burden. I definitely feel like there's more to what happened than she knows and is/has been told. I truly hope she one day finds the closure she needs.
I have so many questions, I can imagine how many questions she had. Sorry baby girl. We love you so much
Thank you so much Alicia for your bravery to share your unimaginably sad reality, and what led to that. You are one strong, and resilient young lady trust me. Not many would be still standing to tell such a horrific experience.
Just because someone is your "relative" does not mean that they will love you, Support you etc especially during the battles and struggles of our lives. However, because we grew up programmed to think that, we find it extremely difficult to understand or accept this fact. Infact many times, it's the non relatives that will genuinely love you, support you etc.
I wish and pray for you Alicia, that you get nothing but the best that life has to give. You deserve all of it my love 💓❤😘🙏
Thank you so much Primrose. And I agree 200%with you on your comment. Just because we are blood does not mean that we will be loved, supported etc by them. I can tell you today the love, prayers and support that have come forth are friends and total strangers. A few people messaged me to say " just look at how much you are loved and prayed for". That for me is enough ❤. I thank you for your well wishes 🙏 🌻🤗
Very brave young lady! 😭 big hugs 🫂
I'm so sorry Alicia sending you love and strength....
Being an orphan can be so painful. No matter what you achieve, you would always want your parents particularly mom to be there.
To witness her being proud of you
You are strong dear,may God be with you ALWAYS
Listening to her talking about her dad it showed that she really loved him, sad story 😢
I could not hold back the tears 💔.
Alicia's story is so heartbreaking her family failed her at the time she needed them the most. I hope she is doing well with each day that passes and I hope somehow in her dreams she got the answer and closure from her dad as to why he did what he did etc❤❤
They did fail her. That being said, I think they too didn't know how to cope. How does anyone deal with and heal from a murder suicide, especially when your culture and religion are so conservative? Also the fear and stigma that comes with a relative doing something this heinous is a lot for anyone. Her father put everyone in a traumatic position. I think her relatives were functioning in autopilot. They all have PTSD
I am Stronger each day. Hopefully one day I will get all the answers to my unanswered questions.
Very strong young lady. Thank you for sharing....
Alicia is a phenomenal woman. Thank you for sharing your brave story
Thank you so much
I can't believe an adult will blame a 12 year old for the death of her family 💔 ,if any of them are still alive they should apologize to her.
The family is alive and well there is 2 sides to a story don't let the tears fool you im one of the maternal aunts ask rebogile to give us the platform to tell the story and the truth
@@sharonsingh4037 are you saying she is lying?
@@sharonsingh4037 "don't let the tears fool you" ? Your niece suffered so much and that's all you have to say ? Sies man 💩💩💩
@@sharonsingh4037She was 12 for crying out loud
You are talking bullishit.she was just 12 for God's sake😢@@sharonsingh4037
I just want to give her a hug 🫂 😢 she has been through a lot.
Funny I still see a 12 year old...her demeanor is of a 12 year old.
Forgivness is the key. It sets you free!
Sending u strength and love dear, this was too much to watch.
Alicia you are such a sweet girl and I wish you well.thank you for sharing your story.May God shower you with love
Thank you so much Thembisa
I never hear the involvement of her paternal family in her life after the death of her family. Her extended family might know the cause of the accident. They need of open up to her so that she can heal completely.
yup, she probably was not her father's daughter and the paternal side cut ties since they knew the truth. like she didn't even mention that the paternal side was alive or passed on. zero mention.
This is very sad 😭😭😭...but you are strong
Sending you love and light Alicia ❤️🥰
Its how i feel she loved the father so much
such a beautiful strong woman,thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you Suzan, its a pleasure 🙏
Being an orphan is the greatest insult that life can give someone. I can relate
I think to a parent who's living it up and wants nothing to do with you is the worst feeling, you can make peace with the fact that they're dead but to go through life struggling knowing that your father refuse to support or even acknowledge you will give you psychological issues.
What a beautiful and brave lady.Sending love and light to her💝
Thank you so much Wewe
Sorry my sweetheart u went thur a lot I pray God be with you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thank you Premilla
This story is sad and horrific for a twelve years ago child.
It has a lot of missing pieces, she could not understand why her dad did what he did. Her aunt's kept telling her she killed her parents. They knew what transpired between her and her dad, when her mom found out eventually and maybe threaten to exposure. Him being a teacher that works with children took this drastic action. I had my experience. No one just don't do what he did for no reason.
please xvcvvghggfu u
I concur. Lots of missing pieces.
I Believe That She Knows What Lead To The Killing. She Didn't Want To Exposed It
I guess it wasn’t listening closely. What happened between her and her dad???
a powerful story of forgiveness.
This is such a sad story, she's so brave. Lebo, again, you handled this with so much care. All the best to this young lady.
Dear lord more grace Alicia
am sorry the adults around you failed you😥i need to give you a hug 🥺it is well alicias
Thank you Emmah I could do with a huge hug. 🤗🌻🤗🌻🤗🌻
@@aliciasewdass1804 Hi Sis where do we get your book?
Someone knows something, they just chose not to tell her.
Sorry Alicia, God guide you and heal your pain❤❤❤. All the love and strength
Thank you so much Mildred
Family secrets while a young soul is in pain.having worked with staff death benefits,the kind of things one discovers in some families is shocking.theres more to this than it meets than eye/ear.but the truth has a way of coming out
It’s weird how she never spoke about her mom.
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She was left with her maternity side, her father decided to murder everyone he loves but her, and they kept on blaming her for her family's death. I'm not a detective but I think maybe her father found out in the family gathering that she's not her biological daughter. I'm glad that she managed to pull through out of her suicidal thoughts cause I think it also gets to her that maybe she is not his biological daughter.
Stop with the investigation. We can just choose be sad at this senseless thing that was done without adding extra drama
Makes no sense
I was thinking the opposite that maybe the father found out that her brother and sister were not his so he said this one must be left behind as his the only biological daughter
That’s a valid point, initially I was thinking the opposite.
My thoughts exactly she is probably not his child or maybe siblings are not his children 😢
This is such a sad story, sending love and light to my sister 🙏❤
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Thank you Minenhle
Forgiving her dad is acceptable. But glorifying him is not acceptable.
I Believe That She Knows What Lead To The Killing
Such a sad story.
This is painful for anyone to go through but there's grey areas in her story, why would the family blame her for what her father did? Did the father find out that she's not his child and than decided to take his own life together with his bloodline?
Probably it might be dat
I think so as well,if she was his he would have said good bye to her
It can be.
wow
I thought that but the other way around because she was saved. Her being his. But I don't want to speculate for her to read it n cause more hurt 😔
But how could she want to make his late father proud after he murdered her family? I'm sorry he sounds evil to me. He's the reason why she's had a hard life.
I understand your point of view. Just as any child will make their parent proud. It was my dream too while they lived. Yes my dad did the unacceptable and I suffered tremendously. But I chose to look at my life differently. My hardships were my lifes lessons. My failure a stepping stone. My family's death taught me to live, love and appreciate life.
It sounds like he was a really good father, just mentally ill. Is she supposed to hate him or something? it’s always the most Christian people telling people NOT to forgive. WWJD?
This is no shade to anyone but the harshness her family showed her seems to be something typical of Indian families judging from my observations of the Indians I've known in my life. I believe that the father was suffering from depression and my heart really aches for what she went through 💔
Labuhlungu nalibali😢😢😢😢This is painful God mhmmmmm😢😢😢😢
Aunties must stop being mean bathong. Sorry Alicia that you had to go through this by yourself. God kept you safe for a reason. You're in a healing process dear. It shall be well with you my dear
It's all hear say
Where and how can I get the book? Is there a website maybe where I can go and read it
Something's fishy, why the rush?
Maybe she's not her father's biological daughter
yes something is up
I also think about that... Eish but people need to communicate and learn to forgive mxm so sad
Exactly what I thought. Maybe they blamed her because the father found out about it, iyooh!🤦♀️
My thoughts too, strength to her
The family knew what transpired hence they mistreated her I was thinking that the father probably found out that the brother and sister weren't his only Alicia was the biological daughter and decided to leave her behind also remember he was still wearing Alicia's ring and still kept it when he took his last breathe the aunt was so evil to say you killed your parents argh
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My goodness the abuse she endured!!! From family nogal! 😭😭😭😭💔❤️🩹
If only u know the trauma and abuse she and her spouses family threw at us, I'm her adopted dad, do not be fooled by those dry tears 🙄
@@krishnaappanna2115 it not because she said "you guys mistreated her after the adoption shem y'all need healing guys you've been through so much
@@krishnaappanna2115you are going to hell nonsense
iam soo sorry Elisha that u had to go thru all that trauma n no support..typical indian culture n why do they have to blame u n yr dad being a professional person...soo sad
Nobody deserves to go through such tromour.
It's so sad that there are people who have had such gruesome and painful experiences
People can be very mean. Why can one blame a 12 yr old child for the deaths of her family??? Oh GOD have mercy.
There was a reason the father left her with the aunty.He must have known all along that he would kill the rest of the family members and he had made a decision to save her life.
And i believe some relatives know exactly why the murders were committed,but have decided to keep it a secret
Come to think of it, could it be that she had said something that was very sensitive or what???? Why did the aunty say Alicia had been left behind bcoz she had a big mouth ???? Why would the aunty later say that she was to be blamed for the deaths?
Those who know something about this murder should help Alicia find closure by TELLING HER THE TRUTH.THEY MUST CONFESS FOR THE SAKE OF ETERNITY.
Alicia may GOD bless and preserve your life.
She may know the reason but trying not to reveal it
Adults fail is dismally so rey that you were put in this position
Eish so sad, feels like the father knew a deep family secret that involved her aunt and mom that he could not handle... just an assumption
I think the other two kids were not his or Alisha was not his
@@SJ_KingMthembu I also think so 😓
Yeah she's not her father's daughter, because the father had no reason to kill her siblings and leave her.
Queens of conspiracy theories
You guys are going to end up believing your own lies