I’ve been married for 19 years but I throughly enjoy your videos. I still try even though I have been married for so long to show my husband everyday how attractive I find him and how blessed I am to have him in my life. Whenever he walks through the door after work I always stop whatever I am doing is walk over to him, throw my arms around him and give him a kiss and tell him how happy I am to see him. I want our home to be a peaceful and loving place for him to come home to. Thank you for all your advice. ❤️
One time this man passed by me at a party and said, "You smell so good;" my boyfriend at the time said "she always smells good." Meanwhile I had been with this man for 6 years and not once did he ever tell me that I smelled good.
About two months before I got married every time I went to a department store I would ask them if they had any samples of perfumes that they could give me. Each time I would put it on before I saw my fiancé. When he finally told me “You smell so good!” I went out and purchased that perfume and wore it on our wedding day.
1. Ask him "What's your favorite color on a woman?" 2. Smelling good. 3. Find ways to create physical touch. 4. Be fun, feminine & positive. 5. Compliment him. 6. Be true to yourself. 7. Express a desire to see him again. "I would love to see you again" :)
I've had proof of the power of touch recently. I went on a date with a guy. Before the movie started, we were chatting and he made me laugh, as I laughed I briefly and softly touched his arm. I wasn't even aware at the time that I did it. Then when I got home he phoned me and said thank you for a wonderful night and just before the call ended he said and by the way when you touched me on the arm tonight, it drove me wild. It was really nice to hear, but it did surprise me, as he was a perfect gentleman on the date.
Physical touch is so important. I went on a date and the guy confessed my gently touching his hand drove him wild. He said that he felt so calm and safe.
Speaking of compliments, that shirt looks great on you! Doesn’t it ladies? Thank you for this great advice. I realized that I usually leave it up to the guy to reach out again after a date. 😮
When i started dating again i had a red wrap dress that men actually requested i wear after seeing me in it on my dating profile. From this I started 'The Red Dress Diary' for fun as i journaled some of tje experiences!
I agree with the perfume you have to try it on you and let it mix with your skin oils because some smells can smell amazing on someone else and not on you!! So you have to try it and figure out what works best for you!!
I got a subscription to Scentbird, so I could try a bunch of different perfumes and find ones to keep in my “go to” stash. I’ve really enjoyed it. I don’t ask my boyfriend if he likes something. I try different things and wait for him to say, “You smell good, honey.” Then I add that perfume to the stash. That way I know he actually really likes it and isn’t just being nice. Or maybe he likes the others, but the ones he comments on I know he REALLY likes.
I like all of these tips! Another one I think I major, is eye contact! Give him eye contact and if he is not giving you the best eye contact, bring it to his attention. From my experience, it makes them really lock in and they like it 😊
No! Don't "bring that to his attention", if he didn't intend on giving it to you. You're now in the territory of asking him for something he clearly doesn't want to give. Let things come naturally, if it's to be.
I love your idea about praying beforehand. This man is going to drive an hour to me bc I told him already driving to the city is stressing and messes up my peace. It's a red flag if they don't come to me but it's still very appreciated and I express that.
This channel helps me develop myself on a very deep level. Stephan shines a light on the value of showing gratitude, which is one of the beautiful feminine traits. I don’t know about other kinds of physical touch, but I guarantee that physical touch that comes naturally from your appreciation for the guy you date really ignites something. Lol. I am lucky that I found a respectful guy who knows what he wants. So even though he initiated a romantic gesture and I was not ready yet, he still respected that and affirmed that what made him want more was when I noticed and appreciated the very little things he did for me. Even though we grew apart after that date, he was not like other guys who always ghosted me when they didn’t get me to bed; he communicated clearly, and we have kept in touch since. I feel hopeful. Haha ❤ thank you Stephan.
I found your channel today and find it' so amazing! You are great and it's so amusing when you laugh with the things you talk about. Thank you for your awesomeness and beautiful soul❤ Lots of love from Sweden
Thanks for your help... after several dates with men I met online, I'm starting to feel tired and disillusioned already... I'm reminded it's important to focus on having fun on every date, instead of focusing on the goal of getting into a serious relationship. Basically it's about the journey, not the ending, otherwise it will be a frustrating experience.
My husband loves the color gray. We have a lot of clothing, linen, and home decor that is in gray and black. I don’t look good in red, but maroon is the color for my skin tone. It’s just a darker shade. ❤😁
Ask him the color then get your colors done! Your personal palette varies based on your season. For example, Springs wear a warmer, brighter shade of red than a Summer. Makes a difference!
I hope you’re right. I just texted the guy who we’ve both had to put off meeting, said “ Hey when do I get to see your handsome face IRL?” I’ve been holding off complimenting him because he was coming on to me but then I heard you say that he wants that and it will help. I don’t want to get played but I haven’t felt like this in years. (I’m not telling him that yet!!! Wish me luck!! 😅
I would not wear his favorite color, unless that color looked well on me. Color is very important for enhancing a person's look. Ps you wear lavender well!
Aroma therapy is a real thing for sure. I'm all about some good smells, myself, my house, my man...hygiene is no small thing. As someone who's spent over 20 years in various customer service positions; I can tell you that people who don't smell nice are usually grumpy, angry, depressed, and have something deeper going on. It not only affects those around you, but your own mood too.
I don't think most people know what color looks good on someone until they see them in that color. For example, I think I look good in olive green. No one would guess that specific color.
Okayyyy!!.. I absolutely loved this video, such great advice that I will consider as needed in the process… Thank You so much, God Bless you Stephan, this was awesome 🙏🏾❤️🥰
Stephan, you look really classy in that lavender fitted t. Also, thank you for using the word "hesitation" instead of "hesitancy" which seems to be a new type of made up adverb people are using as well as others of the like. 😂
Ohhh handsome, i can drive men wild all on my own, no assistance needed lol, but i will be watching this anyway once i can get away for a few. I do love love to learn, so we'll see what you've got! 🤪👅💪🏾😁
To men in this chat Can men be attracted to women who are tomboys and dont want to change.. They have great personalities and are very fun just boyish not feminine?.. Thanks in advance ☺️
It probably depends on the man. I can definitely be as long as her definition of "boyishness" doesn't include things that go against my convictions, like cussing and drinking alcohol, but I don't even date a more girly woman who does those. In fact, even though I can hold my own with traditional male work, my passion tends to lean more toward more domestic things like cooking and cleaning bathrooms, so, if the woman is better at and more passionate about the traditional male stuff, more power to her. My mom has a better brain for landscaping than I do and was even better at it physically when she was younger. Now, she plans and I do the physical implementation. Also, I am seldom attracted to women wearing dresses. I tend to prefer women in pants, especially jeans.
@@JStig12Thank you for answering I just always felt men like women who are more feminine.. I respect the Male values and what they bring.. I just like to wear hoodies and stuff lol.. My personality draws them to me but i always say how can a man be attracted to me if i dress like this 😂😂😂.. 😊
What about woman that like to wear musk scents as opposed to more floral is that a turn off to men? Just started back wearing perfume and trying new scents(sample or smallest size) to see which I like but that I get the most compliments on as well. What are your thoughts on a scent that catches a mans attention because I love ti compliment women and men when they smell good and even ask what perfume or cologne they are wearing.
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I’ve been married for 19 years but I throughly enjoy your videos. I still try even though I have been married for so long to show my husband everyday how attractive I find him and how blessed I am to have him in my life. Whenever he walks through the door after work I always stop whatever I am doing is walk over to him, throw my arms around him and give him a kiss and tell him how happy I am to see him. I want our home to be a peaceful and loving place for him to come home to. Thank you for all your advice. ❤️
Wow how inspiring!!! ❤🎉😅😊
My guy told me he loves the way. I smell
Awww this is so cute!
Bless you for wanting to keep your husband engaged
You must be a Dr. Laura listener, or read her book "Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands".
One time this man passed by me at a party and said, "You smell so good;" my boyfriend at the time said "she always smells good." Meanwhile I had been with this man for 6 years and not once did he ever tell me that I smelled good.
Hopefully y'all not still bf/gf after 6 years
Thank you.🙂♥️
@@Heyu7her3 😵💫Noooooo😄
That is sad
Red flag 🚩 sis
About two months before I got married every time I went to a department store I would ask them if they had any samples of perfumes that they could give me. Each time I would put it on before I saw my fiancé. When he finally told me “You smell so good!” I went out and purchased that perfume and wore it on our wedding day.
NICE!
That's awesome
So what was the perfume?
1. Ask him "What's your favorite color on a woman?"
2. Smelling good.
3. Find ways to create physical touch.
4. Be fun, feminine & positive.
5. Compliment him.
6. Be true to yourself.
7. Express a desire to see him again. "I would love to see you again" :)
Thank you 😂😂
I've had proof of the power of touch recently. I went on a date with a guy. Before the movie started, we were chatting and he made me laugh, as I laughed I briefly and softly touched his arm. I wasn't even aware at the time that I did it. Then when I got home he phoned me and said thank you for a wonderful night and just before the call ended he said and by the way when you touched me on the arm tonight, it drove me wild. It was really nice to hear, but it did surprise me, as he was a perfect gentleman on the date.
Men dead ass hold on to their compliments like it's gold or something knowing damn well you look amazing
He said happy and healthy is his favorite color on a woman.
🙌❤️
He's a keeper ❤
Physical touch is so important. I went on a date and the guy confessed my gently touching his hand drove him wild. He said that he felt so calm and safe.
Speaking of compliments, that shirt looks great on you! Doesn’t it ladies? Thank you for this great advice. I realized that I usually leave it up to the guy to reach out again after a date. 😮
Yes, he looks good in that color. 😍
YES! Thats the first thing I noticed about him from the start of the video!
HOT!!! 🔥🔥🔥
🥳😊😊
@B😊😊allroomLilliesandHydrangeas
It should do. He has great insights.
It does look good on him, I had to rewind the video because I couldn't hear what he was saying, admiring the color of his shirt ❤️🔥
When i started dating again i had a red wrap dress that men actually requested i wear after seeing me in it on my dating profile. From this I started 'The Red Dress Diary' for fun as i journaled some of tje experiences!
Somwtimes it is the little things like that.
What a fun idea!
Write that book - fashion ganre…dating and fashion !
Being a good conversationalist works every time, you don’t need to know everything but you know enough to hold his attention and draw him in 😊
Ooohhh lavender on a man!! Wiiith sparkly man jewelry!??? 💜 You're totally rockin it 🌬
😊 thank you very much
@@MeetStephanSpeaksaww he likes it
@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome. Genuine compliments should always be shared 🙏🦋🌬
@@MeetStephanSpeaksaha 😂 stephen being a man falling for compliments
It caught our magpie eyes, pretty and shiny 💜💜
I agree with the perfume you have to try it on you and let it mix with your skin oils because some smells can smell amazing on someone else and not on you!! So you have to try it and figure out what works best for you!!
I got a subscription to Scentbird, so I could try a bunch of different perfumes and find ones to keep in my “go to” stash. I’ve really enjoyed it. I don’t ask my boyfriend if he likes something. I try different things and wait for him to say, “You smell good, honey.” Then I add that perfume to the stash. That way I know he actually really likes it and isn’t just being nice. Or maybe he likes the others, but the ones he comments on I know he REALLY likes.
Thanks for that info. Going to try this.
I like all of these tips! Another one I think I major, is eye contact! Give him eye contact and if he is not giving you the best eye contact, bring it to his attention. From my experience, it makes them really lock in and they like it 😊
No! Don't "bring that to his attention", if he didn't intend on giving it to you.
You're now in the territory of asking him for something he clearly doesn't want to give.
Let things come naturally, if it's to be.
I second chlorophyll and cutting out processed foods. You will NEVER smell bad.
🙌💯
I thought chlorophyll was for knocking someone out? Well, I guess if you're attracted to him, uh...🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for your suggestions Stephan. You are a great teacher and communicator.
Ha! Thank you
Dang Stephan...the lavender and the bling tho...I'm trying to concentrate on these tips you givin us...lol
These things seem like little things but are so powerful and will definitely make relationships work out. Thanks so much for sharing, Sir.
I love your idea about praying beforehand. This man is going to drive an hour to me bc I told him already driving to the city is stressing and messes up my peace. It's a red flag if they don't come to me but it's still very appreciated and I express that.
Thanks
Every single word you said is TRUTH! These suggestions really do make for a wholesome and loving connection; no doubt about it, Stephan.
This channel helps me develop myself on a very deep level. Stephan shines a light on the value of showing gratitude, which is one of the beautiful feminine traits. I don’t know about other kinds of physical touch, but I guarantee that physical touch that comes naturally from your appreciation for the guy you date really ignites something. Lol. I am lucky that I found a respectful guy who knows what he wants. So even though he initiated a romantic gesture and I was not ready yet, he still respected that and affirmed that what made him want more was when I noticed and appreciated the very little things he did for me. Even though we grew apart after that date, he was not like other guys who always ghosted me when they didn’t get me to bed; he communicated clearly, and we have kept in touch since. I feel hopeful. Haha ❤ thank you Stephan.
Physical touch = I reach for his arm/hand & pull myself in closer to him or he pulls me in bc he senses I wanna be close lol
I found your channel today and find it' so amazing! You are great and it's so amusing when you laugh with the things you talk about. Thank you for your awesomeness and beautiful soul❤ Lots of love from Sweden
Welcome to the family Sis ❤❤
Thank you so much ❤️ I truly appreciate that
Right timing 😉for this advice
Thanks for your help... after several dates with men I met online, I'm starting to feel tired and disillusioned already... I'm reminded it's important to focus on having fun on every date, instead of focusing on the goal of getting into a serious relationship. Basically it's about the journey, not the ending, otherwise it will be a frustrating experience.
I love your new video! 💓
I love your advice on the topics you shared on! 👏🏼
Excellent job! 💯
Good advice I'm going to try these things
My husband loves the color gray. We have a lot of clothing, linen, and home decor that is in gray and black. I don’t look good in red, but maroon is the color for my skin tone. It’s just a darker shade. ❤😁
❤️😁
I always say “ feeding two birds with one apple”. 😂 thanks for the video!
lol that’s a good one
Thank you Stephan for your powerful advice on relationships ❤
Great points! Got my VIP ticket for ATL! Looking forward to another impactful event!
🙌 awesome! I look forward to seeing you there
Ask him the color then get your colors done! Your personal palette varies based on your season. For example, Springs wear a warmer, brighter shade of red than a Summer. Makes a difference!
Absolutely not for a 1st date/ before monogamous commitment
I laughed quite a bit throughout this video. It was good. 😅 I enjoy the authenticity of your reactions.
Love it! ❤
I love the lilac on you!!!❤
😊 thank you very much
So good! , also that color looks good on you
Thank you Stephan! What a great video! I will try these tips!
Be yourself! That is key.
Very insightful video with practical actions to implement immediately. Thank you for sharing these helpful tips!
I hope you’re right. I just texted the guy who we’ve both had to put off meeting, said “ Hey when do I get to see your handsome face IRL?” I’ve been holding off complimenting him because he was coming on to me but then I heard you say that he wants that and it will help. I don’t want to get played but I haven’t felt like this in years. (I’m not telling him that yet!!!
Wish me luck!! 😅
Omgns, this lavender sweater-shirt is doing something impressive.😊
My favorite color is purple and here you are wearing my favorite color..😊. I guess it can go both ways..😅
😂 shoot yo shot sis !
@@Christ-Made😂😂😂
Thank you Mr Stephan for this wonderful suggestions. The purple T shirt looks good on you with the silver necklace sir🙏
Whenever you say “this is hitting my spirit” I start laughing because I know it’s gonna be SO crucial 😂 “RESPECTFULLY”
Very true being positive being yourself ❤
Burberry Her and Pink Himalayan Hempz lotion is what works for me 💕
I appreciate you sharing that
Great tips Stephan!!! Im still waiting on you come to Illinois ❤️🙏
This color looks very nice on you.
😊 thank you very much
Great teaching Stephen!
Thank you very much 🙂
I think you should share your beauty secrets. And share your favorites scents both male / female.
That’s a great video to do, I’ll work on that
I agree!!
Love your Video and sharing this 💯
💯🙌🏾
Thanks, Stephan. Great tips. 😊
Thank you so much. I bet you're an amazing life coach.❤
Very true, smiling good is key , I get so many compliments when I go on a date .
as a woman, we can definitely smell ourselves.
You can’t just eat pineapples and think that’s gonna cure your smell
Asking him the color he likes then wearing it, he won't think I'm being a brown nose? 🤭
Sounds very wierd!
Love the purple shirt it's my favorite color. Looks good on u love listening to all videos God Bless
Great topic
Love his help. The best ❤
Awe, @meetstephanspeaks you’re really out here taking care of us 🤗 This was great. Thank you.
Yes physical touch is vital in dating...
Love the above the waist touch comment. Very good.
I would not wear his favorite color, unless that color looked well on me. Color is very important for enhancing a person's look. Ps you wear lavender well!
Aroma therapy is a real thing for sure. I'm all about some good smells, myself, my house, my man...hygiene is no small thing. As someone who's spent over 20 years in various customer service positions; I can tell you that people who don't smell nice are usually grumpy, angry, depressed, and have something deeper going on. It not only affects those around you, but your own mood too.
Oh the color one is so good
He said he liked dresses so I keep wearing these fun super feminine looking dresses and he loves them.
I don't think most people know what color looks good on someone until they see them in that color. For example, I think I look good in olive green. No one would guess that specific color.
Watering 2 birds with one bowl? Thanks for the advice. Always solid.
🙏❤️ my pleasure
A friend of mine used to say,
"hatching two birds in one sitting" ☺️
Love ❤your advice
Great video thank you for all you do blessings and love Stephan ❤🙏🏽🥰💯
😂 yes ndeed I love it umma try this # good nugget 👍🏽
Okayyyy!!.. I absolutely loved this video, such great advice that I will consider as needed in the process… Thank You so much, God Bless you Stephan, this was awesome 🙏🏾❤️🥰
Being kind, positive and lighthearted definitely gets a man’s attention.
Attraction to me is important, I leàrned not to talk to long on the phone wthout meeting him sooner!
Great video with some interesting tips and insights that should work for anyone who'll use it sincerely. 🙏
Stephen be seeing me liking his videos today - I feel like he knows I’m going on a first date lol 😅
Stephan Blessings & Love thank you for all you do.........❤️🙏🏽🥰📲💕
I love lavender on man!
Facts🎉
Question..when creating a touch that shows interest but nonsexual, would placing a hand on his wrists be appropriate?
I think that would be fine
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you
You be on it thank you! What color would you like to see me in I will ask this in the future.
Stephan, you look really classy in that lavender fitted t. Also, thank you for using the word "hesitation" instead of "hesitancy" which seems to be a new type of made up adverb people are using as well as others of the like. 😂
Ohhh handsome, i can drive men wild all on my own, no assistance needed lol, but i will be watching this anyway once i can get away for a few. I do love love to learn, so we'll see what you've got! 🤪👅💪🏾😁
Thank you ❤️ I appreciate you watching
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m sorry but funky 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦🏽♀️… Keep telling the truth Stephan. 💯😂🤣
I love a man that smells good! Citrus fruits are great, I love pineapples! You are what you eat!
🙂❤️
another great video
To men in this chat Can men be attracted to women who are tomboys and dont want to change.. They have great personalities and are very fun just boyish not feminine?.. Thanks in advance ☺️
It probably depends on the man. I can definitely be as long as her definition of "boyishness" doesn't include things that go against my convictions, like cussing and drinking alcohol, but I don't even date a more girly woman who does those. In fact, even though I can hold my own with traditional male work, my passion tends to lean more toward more domestic things like cooking and cleaning bathrooms, so, if the woman is better at and more passionate about the traditional male stuff, more power to her. My mom has a better brain for landscaping than I do and was even better at it physically when she was younger. Now, she plans and I do the physical implementation. Also, I am seldom attracted to women wearing dresses. I tend to prefer women in pants, especially jeans.
@@JStig12Thank you for answering I just always felt men like women who are more feminine.. I respect the Male values and what they bring.. I just like to wear hoodies and stuff lol.. My personality draws them to me but i always say how can a man be attracted to me if i dress like this 😂😂😂.. 😊
@@raven-wolf9252they do because im tomboyish and men love me its the personality ❤
@@-blessing16. Thank you
@@raven-wolf9252 you welcome boo
Okkayyy Stephan, looking all swolled👏👏👏🙌👏👏👏🙌🙌💪💪👏👏👏
Yeeeeeeees, Stephan! Diet makes it or breaks it!
Absolutely 💯
Love the long hair too
Touching is important not only dating but while we're married.
What about woman that like to wear musk scents as opposed to more floral is that a turn off to men? Just started back wearing perfume and trying new scents(sample or smallest size) to see which I like but that I get the most compliments on as well. What are your thoughts on a scent that catches a mans attention because I love ti compliment women and men when they smell good and even ask what perfume or cologne they are wearing.
When I was dating….I made sure to wear the SAME perfume so that my husband thought of me every time he smelled it…even not on me. ❤
Believe that.
I love you ❤