Just watching this back now. I can totally relate to your boredom when cleaning up. I too have been listening to interesting podcasts so I’m always adding value to my chores. I’m literally cleaning my kitchen whilst listening to you both right now! Thank you for bringing such big added value to my mundane chores! ❤️
Hi mark hi Nadia I hope you don’t mind me saying - I felt uncomfortable for mark - he looks stressed and anxious worried maybe sad ! Be nice to hear mark get a word in Nadia !
I sometimes forget that Mark is predominantly around females, and just thought how if I might feel in his position. I really like him and can tell he always is open to listen and be authentic and one thing is for sure that his daughters will value a man that's willing to listen. That's a credit to him.
A really interesting and crucial discussion re-communication in all relationships, I think. So much food for thought and such a clear example of how healthy openness and dialogue as well as really listening to the other without impulsively jumping in can take place. I'm a bit impulsive too, jumping into and interrupting conversations because I feel so passionately and can't hold it in or am scared I'll forget to say sth. But that can cut off the other person and sabotage the di-alogue significantly! Thank you so much, Mark and Nadya, for sharing what you learned from Couples Counselling and for putting yourselves out there. I really feel you guys are like family and learn sth from every podcast or vlog you do. Really love and respect you both ❤
As always very interesting. Watching your faces & expressions is fascinating I often wonder what you do straight after recording, do you ever feel hurt by each others comments? I'm a widow now but can relate back to some of these points. The power of conversation is so important, the things I used to say inside my head but not out loud in case it started a row still stays with me....
I have watched all your podcast and your other videos over the yrs. I am Nadia's age,a Nurse,a mother,Married. I marvel at how much you 2 live in your heads. I always feel like I need a drink( don't drink) and a Nap after listening to you 2.
This was so helpful. Always love watching the bond between you two. Get about the ear phones. I sometimes don't realise if Ian has got them in so now he let's me know.!!
Hope you guys gave each other a big hug after this video. I guess for Mark it's hard especially, when he is not feeling great, which I sensed in this video that he wasn't the happy Mark we see. We all have our down days. Take care of each other you are a lovely couple. Sonia Silvanian
Mark you listen and hear Nadia so well without interrupting, when it must be so hard not to! We can all talk a lot but listening is a real skill that’s learned. Also its a practical and one of the most powerful, outward displays of love we can show our partner.
I really love your chats I am a Scorpio and my late husband was a Leo so completely different temperament ect we had a long marriage up to his death of 40 yes and it was sink or swim but we worked at it always Xx
Feel sorry for you mark, think nadia thinks she is the counselor. Ie pointing out all your fault when she talks over you, and you can see she's seathing when you started. Brave to do. But all i can say is poor Mark. And you deserve a medal.
Wow I’m in awe of you two as a couple to be able to take a step back and see the bigger picture. I am in a relationship of 16 years and we just row over the same thing about once a month. 🤦🏻♀️
At the end of the day men and women think very differently and I think say what they think in different ways . I think we just have to explain more what we are saying. ( says me who is single and has fearful avoidant attachment thingy) 😅😅😅😅😅😅 But I am 51 and happy - sort of. 😀
Really enjoyed this. I'm not in a relationship but when you talked about being sensitive etc it really did help Nads as my social worker (for my bipolar and PTSD) said I'm too sensitive last week so thank you,made me feel differently about being sensitive. Have a good evening both,sending love from Wales 💜
I can have these sorts of conversations with my husband but it rarely changes anything. Do you think having a couples councillor as mediator makes a big difference? Would you guys consider ever going again?
Hi, enjoy this podcast, but wow, so glad I am divorced been single now for 10 years and don’t have to go through these conflicts, please, listen to your selves are you really benefiting from being in the couple.
Aww guys I loved this chat you've done everytime you do these chats there's always find myself saying wow that's me lol 😆,im am a sensitive person,like may be a person will have a opinions about me and I just take it my huppy goes nuts course I let them get to me or upset me,lol when you was on about when chatting like shit 😅 my huppy can really talk and sometimes im like fuck sake lol 😆 aww guys love you both you so real 💖 💗 xx
Always give each other an equal amount of time to say everything you feel without interruption and without any comeback at the end - this allows you to hear and think - rather than fight and defend or justify …
What happens if you do bring something up that really upsets you and they say to you that it's always a problem and that your always getting at them about it.
Hi guys ! Very interesting. Mark you say having to repeat yourself to Nadia when Nadia’s deep in thought listening to her pod cast ...... Just a thought , I’m completely deaf in one ear and only have partial hearing in the other ...many times I appear to be ignoring my partner ( he’s sympathetic luckily ) Maybe turn your thoughts around when feeling stressed with Nadia and be thankful she can hear the podcast ?? Not sue I’m making sense here ? Nadia you could also tie your hair back so everyone in the house is also aware of your ear pods ? You both make so much sense ! Your chats are a wholesome watch into the realisation that even famous humans face the very same toils of life 💝
I always feel sorry for Mark on these, as he gets trampled when he makes a point. He is correct that it is Nadia's way or the highway. I also agree that not everyone wants to talk about ADHD every minute of the day, it consumes you. Hopefully, with the ADHD meds it will gradually change. Great Podcast all the same
Love your complete honest and completely relate in every way x As I’m watching I’m thinking this could be me 😂 I bet 75% of subs thought the same. but really felt I was intruding in this conversation 😂
Mark looks terrified at the beginning of this haha.. think hes wondering what nadz is gonna bring up? Haha Edit: after watching i think it mightve been… “ive got a really long list here….😬” its great to hear you both bc it give sme an insite how to handle my own relationship ‘discussions’ - i think youre right a lot of us have the sae issues in our realtionsips
Just watching this back now. I can totally relate to your boredom when cleaning up. I too have been listening to interesting podcasts so I’m always adding value to my chores. I’m literally cleaning my kitchen whilst listening to you both right now! Thank you for bringing such big added value to my mundane chores! ❤️
Mark, you listen very intently without rushing in and it’s a skill that’s very valuable and one your daughters in particular will really benefit from.
Hi mark hi Nadia
I hope you don’t mind me saying -
I felt uncomfortable for mark - he looks stressed and anxious worried maybe sad ! Be nice to hear mark get a word in Nadia !
I sometimes forget that Mark is predominantly around females, and just thought how if I might feel in his position. I really like him and can tell he always is open to listen and be authentic and one thing is for sure that his daughters will value a man that's willing to listen. That's a credit to him.
I admire your honesty and how you listen to each other. It’s tough taking feedback and you can tell how much you care xx
A really interesting and crucial discussion re-communication in all relationships, I think. So much food for thought and such a clear example of how healthy openness and dialogue as well as really listening to the other without impulsively jumping in can take place. I'm a bit impulsive too, jumping into and interrupting conversations because I feel so passionately and can't hold it in or am scared I'll forget to say sth. But that can cut off the other person and sabotage the di-alogue significantly! Thank you so much, Mark and Nadya, for sharing what you learned from Couples Counselling and for putting yourselves out there. I really feel you guys are like family and learn sth from every podcast or vlog you do. Really love and respect you both ❤
As always very interesting. Watching your faces & expressions is fascinating I often wonder what you do straight after recording, do you ever feel hurt by each others comments?
I'm a widow now but can relate back to some of these points. The power of conversation is so important, the things I used to say inside my head but not out loud in case it started a row still stays with me....
😃😅 well!!I'm actually worn out after all that 😂🤣.. Adh has got a lot to answer for 🙈... Think I'm going to make a cup of tea ☕... 🥰
I have watched all your podcast and your other videos over the yrs. I am Nadia's age,a Nurse,a mother,Married. I marvel at how much you 2 live in your heads. I always feel like I need a drink( don't drink) and a Nap after listening to you 2.
I don’t think they live in their heads at all, they are exploring and dissecting things for the purpose of the podcast!
They bring this intensity for the purpose of these Podcasts. I’m so grateful they do. It’s been incredibly helpful
This has really helped me and my hubby-I too have recently had a add diagnosis. Thanks you two. You’re making us feel normal ❤
This has really helped me and my hubby-I too have recently had a add diagnosis. Thanks you two. You’re making us feel normal ❤ 40:15 40:15
This was so helpful. Always love watching the bond between you two. Get about the ear phones. I sometimes don't realise if Ian has got them in so now he let's me know.!!
Nadia sounds exactly like the mum on BLESS THIS HOUSE with Syd James 😁
Social media in all aspects has a lot to answer for - the way we live now. Maybe do an experiment and live like in the 1950’s for 2 weeks …. 😊
Like the “love you” at the end . ❤🌈
Hope you guys gave each other a big hug after this video. I guess for Mark it's hard especially, when he is not feeling great, which I sensed in this video that he wasn't the happy Mark we see. We all have our down days. Take care of each other you are a lovely couple. Sonia Silvanian
Thankyou! So relatable 😮
Really interesting and can relate to quite a-lot of what was being discussed.
Mark you listen and hear Nadia so well without interrupting, when it must be so hard not to! We can all talk a lot but listening is a real skill that’s learned. Also its a practical and one of the most powerful, outward displays of love we can show our partner.
This is good to listen to. Very informative. So maybe count to 5 before you answer…. 😊
I really love your chats I am a Scorpio and my late husband was a Leo so completely different temperament ect we had a long marriage up to his death of 40 yes and it was sink or swim but we worked at it always Xx
Feel sorry for you mark, think nadia thinks she is the counselor. Ie pointing out all your fault when she talks over you, and you can see she's seathing when you started. Brave to do. But all i can say is poor Mark. And you deserve a medal.
Really interesting conversation! 💓💓💓
Wow I’m in awe of you two as a couple to be able to take a step back and see the bigger picture. I am in a relationship of 16 years and we just row over the same thing about once a month. 🤦🏻♀️
Nadia you do boss Mark around 😂
Love you two 💚
Crikey i thoguht id just gained a dog. What a fright through the air pods 🤣🤣🤣
At the end of the day men and women think very differently and I think say what they think in different ways . I think we just have to explain more what we are saying. ( says me who is single and has fearful avoidant attachment thingy) 😅😅😅😅😅😅 But I am 51 and happy - sort of. 😀
Really enjoyed this. I'm not in a relationship but when you talked about being sensitive etc it really did help Nads as my social worker (for my bipolar and PTSD) said I'm too sensitive last week so thank you,made me feel differently about being sensitive. Have a good evening both,sending love from Wales 💜
"Too sensitive"!!?? Your sensitivity is your strength. It is your superpower in an insensitive world!
I can have these sorts of conversations with my husband but it rarely changes anything. Do you think having a couples councillor as mediator makes a big difference? Would you guys consider ever going again?
I really want to get into podcasts but need recommendations please?!!
An insightful exchange. Really authentic guys. Hitting so many buttons for me. Thank you so much for sharing with such passion and truth. ☘️🌿🌱
Omg this is so like me and my husband lol very good listening xx
You two are just real and relatable and so cute together 😍 thanks for being yourselves
Hi, enjoy this podcast, but wow, so glad I am divorced been single now for 10 years and don’t have to go through these conflicts, please, listen to your selves are you really benefiting from being in the couple.
Aww guys I loved this chat you've done everytime you do these chats there's always find myself saying wow that's me lol 😆,im am a sensitive person,like may be a person will have a opinions about me and I just take it my huppy goes nuts course I let them get to me or upset me,lol when you was on about when chatting like shit 😅 my huppy can really talk and sometimes im like fuck sake lol 😆 aww guys love you both you so real 💖 💗 xx
What would you say is the most insightful thing you learned in counseling?
Always give each other an equal amount of time to say everything you feel without interruption and without any comeback at the end - this allows you to hear and think - rather than fight and defend or justify …
Absolutely fascinating guys, I’m not married nor in a relationship but I can totally relate to you both. Great episode x
Love you guys. Never attack the person hey.... Say how you feel
Mark your eyebrows looks fantastic
I think your a great couple and i really mean that.
You’re both looking well!
This was so good& it's hard not going into attack.
What happens if you do bring something up that really upsets you and they say to you that it's always a problem and that your always getting at them about it.
Hi guys ! Very interesting. Mark you say having to repeat yourself to Nadia when Nadia’s deep in thought listening to her pod cast ...... Just a thought , I’m completely deaf in one ear and only have partial hearing in the other ...many times I appear to be ignoring my partner ( he’s sympathetic luckily ) Maybe turn your thoughts around when feeling stressed with Nadia and be thankful she can hear the podcast ?? Not sue I’m making sense here ? Nadia you could also tie your hair back so everyone in the house is also aware of your ear pods ? You both make so much sense ! Your chats are a wholesome watch into the realisation that even famous humans face the very same toils of life 💝
I always feel sorry for Mark on these, as he gets trampled when he makes a point. He is correct that it is Nadia's way or the highway. I also agree that not everyone wants to talk about ADHD every minute of the day, it consumes you. Hopefully, with the ADHD meds it will gradually change. Great Podcast all the same
Well done both of you, this is very relatable and insightful!
Thank you.
Love your complete honest and completely relate in every way x
As I’m watching I’m thinking this could be me 😂 I bet 75% of subs thought the same.
but really felt I was intruding in this conversation 😂
Mark you look fed up .
Sorry - I’m not I assure you
@@sawalhaadderleys Don't overthink that, Mark (coming from another overthinker)
Love you Nadia but let mark talk
Mark Nadia sweetie ♥️😮mark your hair is lovely 😮♥️😮
What is "mangry"?
A man hungry getting angry I think 🤔
Why not just say hangry like we all do!? Women get hungry angry too but don’t use Wangry!!
You are good nadia
Yes mark
Get a shed
down the bottom of the garden... Great escape place... 👍👌@Nadia,,, all men are stupid around simple home stuff... 🤣
Mark looks terrified at the beginning of this haha.. think hes wondering what nadz is gonna bring up? Haha
Edit: after watching i think it mightve been… “ive got a really long list here….😬”
its great to hear you both bc it give sme an insite how to handle my own relationship ‘discussions’ - i think youre right a lot of us have the sae issues in our realtionsips
You are such a lovely couple guys❤😊 so lucky to have came across the channel xxx
I absolutely love these podcasts marks face is so funny hes so lovely thank you for this xx
Mark, you look tired, hope you're ok
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