He was alone for decades, moves to the Philippines and everything changed

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  • @ChadFosterExplores
    @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว +13

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    • @xavierkoolat6926
      @xavierkoolat6926 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      WOW !
      I'm the same age as Jerry. I guess I better start talking to you, Chad.

  • @MrBoatman46
    @MrBoatman46 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad is a natural interviewer.

  • @jamesalan1354
    @jamesalan1354 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video, my dad passed in July @ 80. Big props to this gentleman and showing age is just a number. Stay healthy and enjoy your life.

  • @mauibuilder1239
    @mauibuilder1239 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This man is an inspiration! I wish him the best of luck 🙏🏻.

  • @anavpicker
    @anavpicker 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Boy I love this guy Jerry. At 81 pulling the trigger on this great adventure. I just got back home from the Philippines after spending 30 days from 12 January to 13 February 2024. My first time and boy did I have a great time. So I know how Jerry feels and right now i’m very jealous. Jerry have a great life and a wonderful future. God Bless

  • @davidparker2173
    @davidparker2173 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am 72 now, and this man is an inspiration to me. I wish him well. Live long, and prosper. I am wondering if I could make the jump myself. I have to cease being so comfortable, and get out of my comfort zone. I wonder if there is a good book on the subject, as to what to do, and every hoop you have to jump through to do it.

  • @appleromas694
    @appleromas694 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    He's 81 but very strong and determined to live in Phil. hahaha but i thank you Sir because you like our country. Mabuhay!

    • @WilliamFluery
      @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s wonderful people like you who make your country so desirable to visit or retire.

  • @midlifewanderings
    @midlifewanderings ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Wow! Brave 81 year old to venture to some unfamiliar place and culture, but then again, you're in the Philippines where everyone treats you nice and welcome you with open arms.

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m so amazed this 81 year old left his home in N. America and flew all the way to the Philippines 🇵🇭!

    • @garrylafferty100
      @garrylafferty100 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Jerry be careful that friendly smiley face will scam a older man she will see a gold mine dont let any one know income or money in bank good luck you only live once

    • @ShikokuFoodForest
      @ShikokuFoodForest 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@garrylafferty100 My worry exactly! Jerry sure better be on guard for scammers. I’m afraid he could be targeted. He seems smart and hopefully not naive. He said he watched many TH-cam videos, so surely he is aware of the risks of being scammed. Wishing him safe travels.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The average life expectancy of Filipinos is like 71. So to be 80 here that's very old!

  • @QTEPYE
    @QTEPYE 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It is amazing that a first time long distance traveler to a developing country will go to a location that is far from _expat alley_ .
    I think the key to making the transition (physically and emotionally) is time.

  • @mikem3789
    @mikem3789 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nice man! May he stay healthy and enjoy his time in the Philippines 🙏

  • @darkroast66
    @darkroast66 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I really enjoy your interview style Chad.

  • @kitkatz9984
    @kitkatz9984 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Can't wait to watch his channel 😊

  • @MARINE-c1r
    @MARINE-c1r ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Chad I am impressed, Seems like a nice gentleman, and thanks

  • @carletto_au
    @carletto_au ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great brave gentleman ❤

  • @Aard-Vark
    @Aard-Vark 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad, enjoying your channel. Jerry, good on you.
    I had to chuckle a bit about the lady volunteering to help you find a place. The same thing happened to me when I had my ex-pat adventure 25 years ago. I met her through a friend of a friend. Out of the blue, she offered to help me find a place. A couple weeks later we become an item, which led to the most fulfilling and heartbreaking relationship of my life. I mean, no regrets; that which does not kill us makes us stronger.

  • @warrpedd
    @warrpedd 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He seems more alive than many people 20 or 30 years younger.

  • @WilliamFluery
    @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “After 9 hours into the flight, it dawned on me, he hasn’t stopped for gas.” 😂😂😂 Priceless!

  • @familyoffive5212
    @familyoffive5212 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Go Jer! Have fun in the Philippines! You may consider Boracay, you can find places there walking distance to the beach while still have pretty much everything you need and have airport that can take you to major cities if you need to

  • @PapayBmet
    @PapayBmet ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let’s embrace our fears with compassion and do what we love and enjoy to do in life !

  • @rumpestillskin4671
    @rumpestillskin4671 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I enjoyed your video. Thank you for posting.

  • @gkschick6804
    @gkschick6804 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Be good to ask him if he's thought about his plans are for long term care once the inevitable decline starts to occur. Will it mean returning to the US or will he be in a position to trust someone there with his affairs, assuming he doesn't have a 'significant other' by then. Yes, it is easy and cheap enough to hire a local to be your nurse maid, but you also have to have someone you trust with your money once you get to the point you aren't able to manage on your own. He's in great shape for 81 but he obviously realizes that won't last forever. Hopefully for him, he won't have to worry about this for a long time, but there are no guarantees!

  • @MRBIGSLICK66
    @MRBIGSLICK66 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video Chad glad to hear Gerry is doing well! I know he would and that makes me more hopeful for my move in 2024 as well. Keep the dream alive, Mabuhay ✌🏻

  • @ArielEnriquez-u3m
    @ArielEnriquez-u3m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Enjoy" Living" in the Philippines" friends!!'.😊...

  • @PhilippinesFriend
    @PhilippinesFriend ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very interesting interview, I want to be as alive as Jerry (I was going to say at his age, but honestly at any age.)

  • @antonioperezosorio7647
    @antonioperezosorio7647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good video. Thanks for the inspiration. Good bless you.

  • @YooToobMonkey
    @YooToobMonkey 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad, you are a good interviewer and have a nice onscreen presence. If you don't mind me saying so, I would ease up on your speaking over your guests, especially the older ones. I saw you steamroll this gentleman and Monty a bit as well. Just a helpful hint to assist you in becoming even better at this. Keep up the great work.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the advice I appreciate it!

  • @Scotts_Story
    @Scotts_Story ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Chad 😊 Gerry is showing how to deage yourself with fun 😊

  • @ArielEnriquez-u3m
    @ArielEnriquez-u3m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    More Video's and more" Power!!'...

  • @Travelguy-re9qz
    @Travelguy-re9qz ปีที่แล้ว

    Great interview here!

  • @gettingoffthecouchnow
    @gettingoffthecouchnow ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video. I look forward to Jerry’s channel

  • @tomhunter2623
    @tomhunter2623 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Chad enjoyed the interview. Happy to see someone older than me haha that just decided to live in the Philippines. I like Dumaguete but I am like Gerry need to be closer to the beach. I just arrived in New York back for Christmas and spend time with my kids and grandkids. I do miss Dumaguete be back January 25th. I wish Gerry well.

  • @dwaynekeith156
    @dwaynekeith156 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good for you 👍🏾

  • @britgerus1956Glenn
    @britgerus1956Glenn ปีที่แล้ว

    Fantastic
    Thx Chad

  • @kathiemathias212
    @kathiemathias212 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Communication helps with your mental health which is a plus as you get older. Good all round.

  • @key39762
    @key39762 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Chad thanks for this video . I hope to meet you and Jerry when I come to the philippines sometime in feb. Jerry is truely and inspiration to all those who are dreaming to come. hopefully he has inspired at least 2 people to get off the couch and go to the philippines. Tell jerry to talk to everybody who has a house on the beach and inquire about rentals. I know Sunshine Shoulders had a beach front rental for 360. per month in siquijor. he can live his dream with no problem. if he can't get a good price now tell him to wait to low season then prices will come down. also ask him about health care and if he is paying for insurance from that 1200 he budget for.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for that message and I'll definitely talk to Jerry about it! Yeah he's craving getting his toes in the sand and I know it'll happen soon I'm going to help him check out a few different spots and he'll pick his favorite… Another follow-up video to come people are inspired by him I love it!

    • @fortybelow1973
      @fortybelow1973 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If a retiree has Medicare (pay for the part B) Guam is fairly close if you need more than a doctor office visit. I've lived on Guam 38 yrs and plan to visit SE Asia after back surgery.

  • @papalolo3769
    @papalolo3769 ปีที่แล้ว

    My hero, brave man

  • @spincube5734
    @spincube5734 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you the best, Jerry !!

  • @joeknight3269
    @joeknight3269 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    enjoyed the interview chad would've liked to see more of his condo and the price.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah I'll likely do a follow up showing that, but I can tell you the price is a little under 600 US per month for a three bedroom 2 bath two-story very nice townhouse all in

    • @mikem3789
      @mikem3789 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ChadFosterExploresit seems if you are budgeting $1,200/month….your housing costs has to be closer to $300-$400/month?

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mikem3789 this is very true, the place he is in now was not at all what he was going for, but he really doesn't spend much money outside of that so it still stays within his budget

  • @britgerus1956Glenn
    @britgerus1956Glenn ปีที่แล้ว

    Chad and Jerry (Gerry)
    Many thanks…
    Cheers
    Glenn

  • @donpino4381
    @donpino4381 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very inspiring

  • @myrnamorales5683
    @myrnamorales5683 ปีที่แล้ว

    Senior & handicap & pregnant are always priority in ang stablisment😊😊😊

  • @kimonharamis7812
    @kimonharamis7812 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love this guy Midwestern accent and all. Doesn’t have a hint of phoniness or pretension.

  • @WilliamFluery
    @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As I consider retiring to the Philippines or Thailand, one thought I have is to hire a live in caregiver verses looking for a partner or spouse. A paid caregiver has an incentive to ensure you live as long as possible…thoughts?

    • @sting114
      @sting114 ปีที่แล้ว

      100 % care givers will turn into your spouse and mother of your newborn . They want half of your social security when you dies.

    • @samueldavis2327
      @samueldavis2327 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thailand, just imposed a 35% tax on all money received by foreigners.

    • @WilliamFluery
      @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samueldavis2327 tax on earned income but not interests or earnings on savings/investments

    • @WilliamFluery
      @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samueldavis2327 and there’s also dispute about double taxation treaties with the US

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why only these two places? Go all over South East Asia and explore. Get boots on the ground. Thailand is overrated now anyway.

  • @rogsolaris7411
    @rogsolaris7411 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The only challenge with retiring in Asia is the distance. You can't just pop on back to the US like if you were in Mexico. But being worlds away, I'll bet it feels good. Hope he finds peace and happiness in his golden years. Life in the US is getting more difficult every year.

  • @johnmascardo7047
    @johnmascardo7047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May your beach dream come true. Mabuhay.

  • @norrisbethke7770
    @norrisbethke7770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good vid…so different from western countries where you become invisible in later years..first the stress dissipates, then people actually pay attention to you and you feel like a viable human again..forget about the Jones’s there’s nobody you have to keep up with here (or Thailand)..best of luck and Happy Christmas 🙏🏻🎄🎄🎄

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You only become invisible to younger people. They may look at you for half a second then move on. It's why it's best to find a community of similar aged people. Then again being not seen by others can be a good thing too if you hate people.

  • @kennethdufour7919
    @kennethdufour7919 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope and pray you stay healthy. Going to a hospital there is no fun! They do not let you in unless you make payments!

  • @timotearochford9886
    @timotearochford9886 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well Jerry is very fearless in going here in the Philipines. Hope you enjoy much over here. . I can relate being adventurous to other countries. Just like when I went to USA last March. I dared to travel up to new Jersey alone to stay with my cousin and I did another trip to Washington state to attend the birthday of my friend inPuyallop. Right now my next adventure will be on next year or the next year, maybe in 2025. I miss living in USA, but I guess I will be more happier to stay more in the Philippines my home country.

  • @David53D
    @David53D ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope he can adjust especially the health challenges the environment imposes.

  • @pricetagalphamets3479
    @pricetagalphamets3479 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Welcome to the pinas. You’ll find out soon that pilipino hospitality 🎉🎊👏😎

  • @bobbywalters9768
    @bobbywalters9768 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How Cool!
    I admire hJerry's courage.
    Unload everything and get on a plane for the first time! What a story!
    Chad I am in a very similar situation. For over 3 years or so, I have had my attention focussed on Dumaguete.
    I bought a GoPro 8, tripod, and few items to document life. I work until I drop. No effort applied toward you tube.
    Maybe you can show me the ropes. I have questions. I have seen videos that are helpful but I wasn't taking notes, yaa know?
    I guess thats why I can So Relate to Jerry. I have picked out a plane last night. I didn't hit the buy button.
    I got to come check it out and then I'll know.
    Cheers Buddy!

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I definitely think you're doing the right thing coming to check it out first if you're not ready to fully commit which is the smart way to do it. Some people will just go for it like Jerry but you have to have a back up plan if you want to go back. Best thing is to come out here and experience it!

    • @bobbywalters9768
      @bobbywalters9768 ปีที่แล้ว

      I tried to send you an email but it bounces back. It is probably on my end but I wanted to let you know, I willl be in touch soon.
      Thank You!
      Bobby
      cheers@@ChadFosterExplores

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bobbywalters9768 ChadFosterexplorers@gmail.com

  • @ShikokuFoodForest
    @ShikokuFoodForest ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Chad. Forgive me for saying, but at this guy’s age, he’s almost like an instant walking, winning lottery ticket! I really wish this guy finds a sincere, kind Filipina that will respect and love him and take good care of him in his senior years. Jerry seems smart, energetic and quick on his feet. I wish him the best.

    • @sylviacarino3449
      @sylviacarino3449 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What he needs is a caregiver..

  • @marvindockery-lo9cw
    @marvindockery-lo9cw ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Old men die quicker, get everything. I am joking but the
    Girls know this from about age 14 in Philippines.
    I arrived in 2018,on Leyte, and I am still alive today at age 82.
    Best is to rent, do not buy.
    Both house and wife.

    • @monkeylupi1922
      @monkeylupi1922 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you are an arsehole, you'll attract these kind of people. Grow up!

    • @WilliamFluery
      @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “Best to rent…house and wife.” 😂😂😂😂 touché

  • @MrBoatman46
    @MrBoatman46 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jerry is a legend.

  • @RayH-
    @RayH- 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are there whirlpools and hot tubs in the PHP?

  • @garydavis9887
    @garydavis9887 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thx !!

  • @johnmascardo7047
    @johnmascardo7047 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    81!? He looks much younger. Wow

  • @robertbritz257
    @robertbritz257 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Here is my question and criteria. I'm in need of a beach life, looking for a GF, need a good food market(s) to grab food, and I need to rent a house with some land (acre at most) so I can grow fruit trees. Which of the islands should I focus on?

    • @budolbes1317
      @budolbes1317 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Go towns south of Dumaguete with coastal residences or Siquijor and Bohol islands as well as Pagsama beach in Moalboal, Cebu where a lot of expats live also. Google it.

  • @tedlaurvik3765
    @tedlaurvik3765 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chad, did you run into the fellow, Paul (World Zoom)? Is he still in or around duma?

  • @rosebrown2267
    @rosebrown2267 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He can rent a condo at new coast boracay by the beach. Boracay is a very libely island he will enjoy there

  • @007thematrix007
    @007thematrix007 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    JERRY! ... JERRY! ... JERRY! .....
    livin' the life in the isles p.i. 🏝

  • @SALFXEF
    @SALFXEF 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The reason why he is feeling physically better is the food andwater. We are being poisoned by all the extra crap that gets added. Maybe the climate too.

  • @RB-mr6cr
    @RB-mr6cr ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I bet he will get a beautiful 16 year old Filipina as usual.

    • @prairiemark4084
      @prairiemark4084 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think he will end up with a 60 year old. When I went to the Philippines I wanted a woman and not a girl.

  • @walkaboutcoz1538
    @walkaboutcoz1538 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chad this is John ...Gregs good friend from Australia. If you come back to Cebu i would like to catch up with you.??

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey John I would love to catch up with you as well I'm still in Dumaguete message me on my email ChadFosterexplorer@gmail.com

  • @dennymorgan4905
    @dennymorgan4905 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m glad you got to interview him instead of Mark Thornton.You do a much better job than him .

  • @emilywilliams5362
    @emilywilliams5362 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Our medium of instruction in the Philippines is English that is why almost everybody speaks english.

  • @youngandfree93
    @youngandfree93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You need to change up your shirts a bit 😅. All plaid?

  • @walkerskii
    @walkerskii ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't find the first video with this guy

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/4PvA0Amkly0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=jVDvAd49WaUe9-P1

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks for watching, here's the link to the original video with him!

  • @walkaboutcoz1538
    @walkaboutcoz1538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chad it wont let me email you.

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh really? Someone else said that
      did you email ChadFosterexplores@gmail.com

    • @walkaboutcoz1538
      @walkaboutcoz1538 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      YES.
      @@ChadFosterExplores

  • @keonesilva3646
    @keonesilva3646 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    First word to learn in Tagalog is. "Salamat'. Thank you. ! ❤

  • @chadr4013
    @chadr4013 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Invisible and alone doesn’t change with borders. I’m still invisible and alone.
    Only thing that guarantees that will change is money. Women of all countries love money.
    No money=no honey

  • @johntoscano2342
    @johntoscano2342 ปีที่แล้ว

    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @jaynelavallee2433
    @jaynelavallee2433 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi Mr Chad i am one of your subscriber and i have watch your vlog with the 81 yrs old guy who moved here in the Philippines. i would like to ask you if he is interested for a lifetime partner. My sister is seriously searching for a partner in life. she is 65 yrs old widow have 2 children both are married. let me know if he is looking too. Thanks Jayne

    • @rosebrown2267
      @rosebrown2267 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, I think he really needs a companion, someone who can take care of him, it is not easy to live alone, somebody should take care of him.

    • @kathiemathias212
      @kathiemathias212 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosebrown2267he’s better off hiring a caregiver and not tied down to a family.

  • @kevinwelsh7490
    @kevinwelsh7490 ปีที่แล้ว

    $5

  • @steveaustin1984
    @steveaustin1984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for sharing.
    It’s hard to relate to someone who has made it to 80+ without ever having a desire to travel when much younger and able.
    His approach sounds kind of backwards.
    Hard to understand not wanting to spend what little precious time remains with loved ones back home.
    I realize this upload was meant to be “positive” and “uplifting”, but it actually lands quite differently.
    🤯

    • @steveaustin1984
      @steveaustin1984 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@REDD_NECKERSONHuh?
      Not sure what you think you read.
      A “scratch of the head” isn’t negative by any stretch.
      So many ❄️ ❄️ ❄️ ❄️ these days…you’re like the pot calling the kettle…
      Let’s recap: I thank Chad and comment on my bewilderment and you reply stating your lack of understanding of people…sounds like an echo!

    • @WilliamFluery
      @WilliamFluery ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very sound advice, Steve……………….for people who think like you. You may have missed the first video but there are three family members who shared comments about how proud they are of Jerry.

    • @steveaustin1984
      @steveaustin1984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@WilliamFluery 👍🏻 Another person’s life choices don’t have to “make sense” to the rest of society.
      Perhaps when Chad helps Jerry launch his own channel, he will take the time to tell the story of his life’s journey.

  • @cliffrussell4281
    @cliffrussell4281 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its great place to retire to but dont get involved with the women they are looking for someone to support there extended family so dont go there i speak from experience

  • @novak4594
    @novak4594 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Let the bloke talk lols

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for the advice I appreciate it!

    • @novak4594
      @novak4594 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChadFosterExplores awesome interview anyways. Cool content

    • @ChadFosterExplores
      @ChadFosterExplores  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@novak4594 thank you I appreciate that

  • @listerine414
    @listerine414 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How is the air pollution in Dumeguete