What Rochelle’s mom was saying to her sounds controlling. The clause “I own you” implies slavery. Telling your child that you own them and their feelings don’t matter is verbal abuse. They might as well say “This house is a prison to you.” When it comes to parenting, there’s a fine line between love and control.
@@paraskep5080 her mom is an idiot I dislike idiots with no brains that older girl knew to much control would brake her these pepole should by in prison.
The mother was waaaay out of line, especially when she told her daughter,I OWN YOU!,what parent says that to her child? It's as if she's telling her daughter that she's nothing but a slave,she"ll regret saying that when her daughter is no longer around
If I were Rochelle, I would’ve cussed her out. I like when she made that lasagna comment. My mom was strict with me when I was 16, but she never stated that she owned me or refused to make my favorite food
First of all, what kind of parent tells a child that their opinions don't matter? Of course that'll cause the child to lie to them. Second, how screwed up can someone be to bring a gun to a house party and shoot an innocent girl? Third, why didn't the guy with Rochelle try to protect her?
I feel like Rochelle's parents were WAY worse than the other girl's mom. She was totally right to call them out on controlling Rochelle so much that she felt she had to sneak behind their backs.
I don't agree with the mom saying "I own you". That sounds like something my mom would say. Also it sounds like verbal abuse. I'm sorry but that's seriously messed up!
OMG this one put me THROUGH it! I finally lost it at the end when the dad was “like get up baby.” And then he pulled the sheet down and finally realized that it was real and started bawling his eyes out. I totally lost it then.
While there is times where you have to be a strict parent you should also consider your child’s feelings but not let them do bad things and hang with the wrong crowd.
I think that if a child has reached the mid term teens, a controlling parent will drive that child away to a secret world. What happened in this story I place the most blame on the parents. She knew what she wanted, it was that she should have felt comfortable in going to her parents for anything on her mind. She would have been stronger to resist the wrong path, but the parents never let her, so the problem goes a lot deeper than just going to a party. Sad ending, but I can't blame her entirely when the parents are more at fault long before it came to going to a party.
Her parents were way, way too controlling! Especially when her father accused her of talking back to him when she just said that it was four o clock and there wasn't school tomorrow. How is that talking back at all?
Very honest question! Just like, how is it a wife nagging when asking husband to not throw clothes anywhere when she just organizing when it is a case of he didn't like what was being said. ( And if don't like an unorganized house, the put his clothes up proper. She is not maid ).
There’s a difference between the two parents but give your children a bit of exposure enlighten them the wrong from the right. Children don’t lie to your parents, very inspiring ❤️
I'm a devout Christian, but I'm not averse to having fun or going to parties. And I wouldn't forbid my kids from doing so, either. As long as they do it smartly and don't get themselves hurt.
I wouldn't allow parties like that unless it were a birthday party. Typically parties involve illegal substance abuse and opens children of yours to intaking substance even with teaching as often times rebellion is in order within these. Which is demonstrated in this video as an example as well. Allowing them to go when they aren't adults is enabling them to be users of substances. You can't tell what they do once they are at a party if you aren't there. If they choose to do so at their college settings, etc. They are an adult at which point. It all depends on the "party" you allow. Just be careful what party types you are allowing.
@Nicholas Johnson I agree with the fact that all kids and teens need rules and boundaries. But being over controlling and refusing to give them room to grow doesn't help the child in the long run. In fact, that sets them up for failure, as kids get older they eventfully have to learn to do things on their own and make their choices. That way, they can learn to take care of themselves as adults in the real world.
Moral: You can still be like a friend to your child but set some boundaries, don't allow them to do anything they please, say "No!" Whatever you do for them do it out of love. When raising a child, always let love lead the way.
I love the way Sharday's mom stood up to Rochelles parents and the fact that Rochelles mom talked shit about sharday in front of her mom is way too far and uncalled for, she should've got a slap
Screw the controling parents they don't own you and you deserve to have freedom and a loving relationship with them filled with respect age doesn't matter for your rights
Although that mom of the other girl needed to take ownership in lying to that girl's parents and not be that girl's friend, but be her parent. She does make a really good point about not being so strict that the kid is to scared to go to you. Both parents went to far in their parenting. One parent let their child do whatever she wanted, and the other were helicopter parents. Both can be very dangerous to the kids.
This was a heartbreaking video, but such an important message! Being a parent is hard, especially with teenagers. But it's important to keep an honest, open line of communication & trust, so that your children don't feel they have to lie to you about where they go, what they do, and whom they keep company with. I can completely understand where Rochelle's parents were coming from being so overprotective, but at the same time, I can also get why her friend's Mama lied about the "slumber party" to try to allow her daughter's friend to have some fun & freedom, nobody knew this would happen! The message here is that you should always be honest with your parents, but you shouldn't be so strict that your children feel they must keep secrets & lie to you.
as a growing teen, i’ve never been to a sleepover, the mall with friends, and i only recently just went to a friend’s house for the first time in several years. i’ve found myself lying to talk to them online whenever i get the chance (even if it means at night), or even very few times sneaking out to see them. i know what i’m doing is wrong, but there’s a reason i’m doing this. my parents have done nothing but good in teaching me, but i feel i deserve a bit of freedom as well.
@@victjsofjsmdngor we are here for you as a community I still think it's a little bit of abuse when parents don't let their children have a little bit of freedom not letting your child go out and have summer parties go to her friend's house and how some fun all the parents have to do is make sure it's a good house to go to good friends I'm sorry this is what you have to do to have fun but please be very careful when you're doing this I'm not condoning it because you could get yourself hurt like this little girl please be very careful and take it for me please do not accept any drugs or alcohol from people nowadays you never know not only that there's Fentanyl and everything that is killing people has killed a lot of my friends the last year-and-a-half I'm so thankful that I'm in recovery but I start using drugs at your guys's age I was in my teens and going out and getting in trouble so please be careful don't use drugs you wouldn't want to end up like me I had a very very very hard life I also became a mother at 16 two twins so just be careful
@@kristahathaway9308 don’t worry, i know i’m not going to go there. when i sneak out, it’s to meet a friend and walk at the beach or get ice cream (in the summer). alcohol and drugs are the last things i want to touch, although i’ve been working on asserting myself more to my parents so they realize that i am capable of going out on my own and hanging out.
There’re times to be strict and there’re times to chill. You have to find that little balance in your life, bc otherwise you’re child will have even harder times opening up to you.
Finally someone else putting out the message.... Be a PARENT not a friend! Kids have friends, they NEED parents! You can be a strict parent, with love and encouragement. There is nothing wrong with telling your child "NO!"
You need to be a friend with your kid because being strict doesn’t mean the parents need to treat her like their treat her. She felt stuck and she never have opinion or a say… She was a “child” but she could think by her on. I don’t blame her because her parents have some fault to.
@@joselopes2269 No, a parent is a PARENT. You can be strict, but you do it with love. Yes, your child should have a voice, and a parent should listen. But also, sorry to say this, but adults do know more...they don't want their children to make the same mistakes they did. Yes, the parents in this story were hard on their daughter, and they should have listened to her, but not letting her go out to wild parties... my parents wouldn't have let me either....and my time of youth, was a lot wilder time in the US... the 70's.
@@LadyDragonsblood I agreed. But when I say the parent need to be a friend is in the way like… The children when have some problems and instead talk with a friend or someone else goes and talk with their mother or father. Be open with is issue. Not just parenting but be part of that. This new generation is to complicated and is not like in yours on 70s or 80s like mine… we need to more clever with this kids because they have everything with this technologies. We need to be more eyes open
Never ever ever treat your children like they are just property to be controlled by you. This will loose you their trust and they will go behind your back to live their life on their terms.
I just re saw the end sure there sorry they are only sorry for braking her not sorry for she gone god knows this you push someone to far you can't take it back. Now she's gone and has to live with the punishment wcy did the police just arrest them for child abuse?
@@JustinMacri007 It isn’t technically child abuse I don’t think but it isn’t right. It won’t keep that child in your arms. It will only push them far away and make them take unnecessary risks.
When I was 15 I lied to my parents about staying at a friends house to go drinking. I ended up not drinking- my gf got into a fight with her bf and we needed to leave- I was in a bad accident that night and I was the only 1 that didn’t drink but I had no way to get home so I had to get in the car. I have some body scarring that I have to look at everyday so I never forget! Be open with communication it goes along way!
@@angelamartin7535 Yes, like you said! I'm from the '70s, so I know. A female calling her friend, girlfriend, was never meant in any way shape or form romantic.
@jasonericktjioenanta9046 Exactly what I said. They should be going to Prison, not jail. People often say jail, but jail and prison are not the same. Jail is where you go for a year or less, and it is much softer than prison. Prison is where you go long-term. The murderer should go to prison, not jail.
What a silly statement. Rochelle is responsible for this. Many people have had over protective parents and didn't put themselves in harms way. she chose to lie and she put herself in that predictment. Plus the mother didn't give the guy a gun to shoot her daughter. What a ridiculous statement.
Parents need to practise being strict without being controlling. My parents were strict too but they let my sisters and I go places we wanted to go as long as they were good places with wholesome activities. They wanted us to have fun, but according to the values with which they were raising us, it needed to be the right kind of fun.
Yes! I had a friend in that situation. Even during her early 20s her parents will tried to control and baby her. Eventually she began making poor decisions and becoming a rebel out of frustration.
Omg this why I cannot stand parents that are like too damn strict for their beliefs and taking too far I thought my dad was bad but this one takes the cake
And honestly, I blame the parents for what happened there, huddling her up at home, hiding her from the world, not letting her go anywhere now. That's just abuse if you ask me, so if you don't want that answer, go ask someone else if you know me.
Exactly, letting them have a little freedom isn't about parities and boys. It's about learning how to make responsible choices and take care of themselves in the real world as adults. Keeping your kid locked in the house and controlling their every move is setting them up for failure. Yes! There has to be rules and cerfews, but too much of anything isn't good.
Finally Someone Else Putting Out The Greatest Messages Of All Time...Be A Parent Not A Friend For Quite Out Loud! Kids Have Friends, They All Need Parents! You Can Be A Strict Parent, With Live, And Encouragement And There is Nothing Wrong With Telling Your Child , "NO" And Besides All Children Needs Love, Support, Guideness, Recsept, Kindness And Patience With An Guiding Hand Which Matters The Most in The Entire World And Man I Feel Those Tears Coming At The End And Besides There's No Perfect Parents in That Matter And Besides it Totally Broke My Heart For Both Of The Parents For Their Loss Of Their Beloved Child And Every Parents Do Makes Mistakes Now & Then And it's Never Too Late To Make it Up Which Matters The Most in The Entire World And My Foremost Sympathetic Condolences For The Family With All Of My Deepest Thoughts And Prayers And Besides it's Very Unbearable To Lose A Loving Child Who's Have A Bright Future Ahead Of Her in Life?
My parents were strict but they continued to let me live and be a teenager, yes I had rules and boundaries! But they never not once treated me like they owned me !
I cried at the end too, because who wants to see their child killed and Buried? The child is supposed to buried their parents not the child, my father was very protective over me too, because he wanted it to know where I was going, who I was seeing, and such on and on. I get what the parents are saying, because if I was them I will wanna know where you at too. People are crazy these days
Just because he was way over protective don't shield from the world there will always be good and bad sides but don't block the world from kids just explain it to them.
no no. the parents are part to blame. fully emotionally abusive and went about protecting her the wrong way. which is why she did what she did, they weren’t protecting her
My parent was strict and we lived through it. Nothing wrong with rules. Young people aren't as smart as they think. Congratulations to this storyline. Partying has changed over the years. Get new friends.
We are not in those days anymore,you can't raise kids like that today especially with social media and all these other things,be firm,strict but flexible,know when it's time to punish them and when it's time to talk,if you raise them with a "military general"mentality,they'll find ways to u sneak about and you'll end up in such a situation.
@@martinmwenda3551 yess you should know how to parent but also how to connect with your kid emotionally so that they grow up knowing they are cared for and led by a good role model
Rules yes saying you own your child and not wanting to let them have a say in thier own life and thinking it’s okay to not care what they feel HECK NO and I’ll say it again for the people in the back
Raise a child with discipline and openness as the kid grows older give them the freedom to grow as well as the responsibility to look after themselves teach them the dangers and wonders of the world let them take responsibility for their own actions. And tell them that you'll always be there for each other what I'm saying is raise them to be good people balance the strict with the freedom then they would know how to look after themselves one day treat them like how you want to be treated
I don’t care that my parents are strict because they still let me go to parties, the park, to hang wit friends anything just have to make sure to call them and stuff
@@Princessj613 that was the same with me my dad is strict and my mom was a bit more relaxed I came from a hispanic household we were allowed to go anywhere as long as we tell them who what where and time we had to call them if we were running late
"AS I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO, I WANTED TO SHARE THIS WITH YOU GUYS!!" TRUE STORY. Woke up this morning crying and thinking about my oldest child Lil’ Larry, who was KILLED by a classmate; so, as I was thinking about my child, it was laid upon my heart to share with you to Please take the time out to see who your children are associating with. The person you think means well, could be your worst enemy! Everything looks good, in a lot of cases is not good! I never thought that I would bury my child at the age of 17, but, unfortunately I had to do just that! I would never wish this grief that I am experiencing on anyone. Therefore, parents I beg you to please take the time out to see who your child has befriended; this could very well save his/her life! #LLLT3💔💔💔💔
The girl who played Rochelle, Caitlin DeMoss is pretty & a great actress 😊❤️!! The parents were a bit too strict plus she’s almost an adult & that was unexpected at the end 😢!! REMEMBER TO ALWAYS LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY ❤️🌹💕💯🔥🕊🙏
As a fellow mom of 4 girls, one being a soon to be teenager, I just feel horrible that THOSE were her last words to her daughter! 💔 I know she not only grieves, but to grieve with a guilty conscience is the absolute worst!!!
@@lordybelance3410 For parents of adults kids to respect privacy and not expect answers that they don't really have to have, because that sets up for lying as well.
Not that any of them is crying wolf, I just wanted to reiterate the wolf story because it’s important. I felt it flowed well with the other morals. Let me know what you think I love feedback!
How old are these girls to want to go to a party? There are always consequences for your actions! And the one friend,SHOULD HAVE NOT talked her friend into going to a party that could have caused trouble,you CAN"T get back someone's life,once they're gone, they're gone
Parents don’t own their children. My opinion, the moment your parent says crap like that to you, you better get away from them and not look back. Chances are, they could do worse
This definitely brought tears 😭 to my eyes it was so sad but we’re right we’re not there friends we are there parents and their is nothing wrong about telling ur child “NO” But let them know that they can tell you anything ok where they want to go let them be ur child . But don’t let them be afraid to talk to you ok. Thank you VID CHRONICLES for sharing this video with us
LORD FORGIVE ME FOR LAUGHTING AT THE END BUT THE FATHERS CRY WAS TOO TOOO MUCH FOR ME TO BEAR IM SORY JESUS PLEASE FORGIVE ME NICE VID KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK
The Gospel about Jesus Christ: God so lo\/ed the world that he gave his only begotten son for whoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life John 3:16 God did not send his son to condemned but to call people to repentance John 3:17 Christ said I am the way the truth and the life no one can come to the Father except through me John 14:6 Christ is the only way. We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.The Bible says in Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is DEATH but the free gift is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. We must turn away from our sins and repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, we must become born again meaning brand new to see the Kingdom of Heaven. Satans mission is to only steal,kill and destroy John 10:10.
That's why you need to always pray over your children before they leave the house no telling what's going to happen to your kids during this time and generation
Take the time to listen to your children peer pressure is on the rise have balance in your life God word is clear just because you are a Pastor don't lose sight on family feelings and needs sometimes saying no is not easy
@WhiskyHd it was mainly the other woman's fault. She said it was a slumber party and she would be watching, not a full blown party and see was nowhere in sight. Yeah the dead girl's parents were too strict but it wasn't their fault she got killed.
@Nezby Odella They're both at fault but in different ways. I agree, that the other girl's mom should have done a better job at supervision and firmly setting rules as her daughter is still a minor. However, Rochelle's parents treating her like a 3-year-old and without listening to her isn't good either. Kids need some form of independency for their development and learning to stand on their own two feet. Kids who are denied this will do anything and everything to rebel and push away from their parents. Even if it means making poor decisions.
@WhiskyHd . True but her parents we're just trying to keep her safe and the one time they actually let her go alone, look what happened. Like I said, I know her parents we're too strict but in this case, strictness would have definitely saved her life
Wow such a touching it happened plenty of time with teens when attending parties. This got me emotional as a mother myself I would never want to bury one of my daughters, my heart will be forever broken💔
Always be a leader not a follower parents may be harsh sometimes but its for your own safety a lot of things are happening out there . Thank you Vid Chronicles for sharing and always let love lead the way ❤
Yeah but in this case they weren't harsh sometimes they were toxic they were overbearing and they were imprisoning that girl. They wouldn't let her have a life they wouldn't let her be a teenager and they were shutting her out being selfish thinking about what they want to do what's cooking food they want to cook instead of asking her what she wanted. You see she starting to resent them because of it
A parent must always look out for their child. But when they get old enough to understand what the world is, they need to learn and live. Also a child doesn’t always have to follow their parents footsteps, they can always live their lives how every they see fit. And always come up with an emergency plan to protect them.
This was a very tragic event 16 years old dead at a house party. This happens for real the mother should have monitored who was coming into her house but sometimes this backfire. I learned one thing about house parties back in the day other people will invite their other friends which are toxic sometimes. Rochelle death was a tragic shame. I never trusted outside people even family sometimes around my kids.
My mother was extremely strict and quite controlling but she never said that she would only cook what my father liked or wanted . She went out to try and please my father , brother and me as best as she could , on a limited budget . I know that she preferred my brother being an Indian woman , but she always tried to cater to my needs also while fulfilling his as best as she could .
Dont look at your child as a slave also not your best friend. Look at your child as a child that can come out to you and speak to you comfortably not being scared of what you going to do.
@WhiskyHd they werent rude or abusive. they are parents, adults. 16 years old is still a kid, you do what your parents tell you to, you belong to them.
Don't act like Regina George's "cool mom". But don't be controlling and make them feel like prisoners either. Allow them some independency but sit them down and talk to them about right vs wrong, set boundaries and allow your child to ask any questions and communicate stuff to you.
@@Sand-witch05 what I'm trying to say is that if you have the need to treat your child as a slave then you are no real parent just a coward just to make yourself to feel big and powerful. What happens if your kid copies these abusive actions in school this could lead to bullying dont you understand that.
This storyline can go on and on. Well said be the parent to your child. As they get older you can be the friend. Found out the going on, when it doubt check it out.
You're absolutely right. If anything seems suspicious or you ever suspect your child isn't telling you the entire truth, it's better to look into it & risk embarrassing your child than having an accident or tragedy take place!
im so sorry for your loss and I love theses videos they are amazing and they teach us good life lessons now I don't go to parties alone unless my parents are with me
And if she didn't die, as soon she turns 18, she'll dissapear in thin air and the parents never hear from her again, we humans want freedom, you can't just take it away
My parents were very Christian and strict and I couldn’t tell them anything bc they were so strict and always got mad but when I told them once how I felt they listened and yes they let me do what I want but there’s still boundaries
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What Rochelle’s mom was saying to her sounds controlling. The clause “I own you” implies slavery. Telling your child that you own them and their feelings don’t matter is verbal abuse. They might as well say “This house is a prison to you.” When it comes to parenting, there’s a fine line between love and control.
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i googled that, parent don't don't own their children.
@@paraskep5080 her mom is an idiot I dislike idiots with no brains that older girl knew to much control would brake her these pepole should by in prison.
We need frank castle
She is the definition of "Why don't my children want to see me anymore?".
The mother was waaaay out of line, especially when she told her daughter,I OWN YOU!,what parent says that to her child? It's as if she's telling her daughter that she's nothing but a slave,she"ll regret saying that when her daughter is no longer around
Literally
If I were Rochelle, I would’ve cussed her out. I like when she made that lasagna comment. My mom was strict with me when I was 16, but she never stated that she owned me or refused to make my favorite food
Facts
I dont blame the mum...she is still a child
Tbh she wont regret it because she knows her reasons.
First of all, what kind of parent tells a child that their opinions don't matter? Of course that'll cause the child to lie to them.
Second, how screwed up can someone be to bring a gun to a house party and shoot an innocent girl?
Third, why didn't the guy with Rochelle try to protect her?
The parents need to go to therapy
And if I was Rochelle, I would’ve run away a long time ago
@@lordybelance3410 Same
I feel like Rochelle's parents were WAY worse than the other girl's mom. She was totally right to call them out on controlling Rochelle so much that she felt she had to sneak behind their backs.
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I don't agree with the mom saying "I own you". That sounds like something my mom would say. Also it sounds like verbal abuse. I'm sorry but that's seriously messed up!
OMG this one put me THROUGH it! I finally lost it at the end when the dad was “like get up baby.” And then he pulled the sheet down and finally realized that it was real and started bawling his eyes out. I totally lost it then.
You and me both
While there is times where you have to be a strict parent you should also consider your child’s feelings but not let them do bad things and hang with the wrong crowd.
I agree
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I do agree
@@nicoleobrien8630which one is it do you or do you not because this says do not the other one says do
I think that if a child has reached the mid term teens, a controlling parent will drive that child away to a secret world. What happened in this story I place the most blame on the parents. She knew what she wanted, it was that she should have felt comfortable in going to her parents for anything on her mind. She would have been stronger to resist the wrong path, but the parents never let her, so the problem goes a lot deeper than just going to a party. Sad ending, but I can't blame her entirely when the parents are more at fault long before it came to going to a party.
The older u get the more u would want to go against ur parents will
@@Princessj613 yes, but many kids never had that issue when their parents restricted them from doing bad things but not from having fun
Me too. They also have themselves to blame
@@Princessj613 Your Right
@@victjsofjsmdngor Exactly
Her parents were way, way too controlling! Especially when her father accused her of talking back to him when she just said that it was four o clock and there wasn't school tomorrow. How is that talking back at all?
Very honest question!
Just like, how is it a wife nagging when asking husband to not throw clothes anywhere when she just organizing when it is a case of he didn't like what was being said. ( And if don't like an unorganized house, the put his clothes up proper. She is not maid ).
You never know how important someone is until you lose them
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There’s a difference between the two parents but give your children a bit of exposure enlighten them the wrong from the right. Children don’t lie to your parents, very inspiring ❤️
Shut up
I'm a devout Christian, but I'm not averse to having fun or going to parties. And I wouldn't forbid my kids from doing so, either. As long as they do it smartly and don't get themselves hurt.
I wouldn't allow parties like that unless it were a birthday party. Typically parties involve illegal substance abuse and opens children of yours to intaking substance even with teaching as often times rebellion is in order within these. Which is demonstrated in this video as an example as well. Allowing them to go when they aren't adults is enabling them to be users of substances. You can't tell what they do once they are at a party if you aren't there. If they choose to do so at their college settings, etc. They are an adult at which point. It all depends on the "party" you allow. Just be careful what party types you are allowing.
@Nicholas Johnson
I agree with the fact that all kids and teens need rules and boundaries.
But being over controlling and refusing to give them room to grow doesn't help the child in the long run. In fact, that sets them up for failure, as kids get older they eventfully have to learn to do things on their own and make their choices. That way, they can learn to take care of themselves as adults in the real world.
These parents were idiots
Only a controlling or narcissistic parent would forbid their kids from having fun or going to parties.
@@davidhill8565 I must agree they should be jailed
Moral: You can still be like a friend to your child but set some boundaries, don't allow them to do anything they please, say "No!" Whatever you do for them do it out of love. When raising a child, always let love lead the way.
Agreed
Telling a child you own them and telling how to live their life is going too far
That's Right because the child have feeling 😂
That's Right the child have feelings 😂🎉😢😅
So very heartbreaking a parent should never bury a child 💔
That’s very sad I could never do that
Which parent @mimavargas
I love the way Sharday's mom stood up to Rochelles parents and the fact that Rochelles mom talked shit about sharday in front of her mom is way too far and uncalled for, she should've got a slap
Screw the controling parents they don't own you and you deserve to have freedom and a loving relationship with them filled with respect age doesn't matter for your rights
Although that mom of the other girl needed to take ownership in lying to that girl's parents and not be that girl's friend, but be her parent. She does make a really good point about not being so strict that the kid is to scared to go to you. Both parents went to far in their parenting. One parent let their child do whatever she wanted, and the other were helicopter parents. Both can be very dangerous to the kids.
This was a heartbreaking video, but such an important message! Being a parent is hard, especially with teenagers. But it's important to keep an honest, open line of communication & trust, so that your children don't feel they have to lie to you about where they go, what they do, and whom they keep company with. I can completely understand where Rochelle's parents were coming from being so overprotective, but at the same time, I can also get why her friend's Mama lied about the "slumber party" to try to allow her daughter's friend to have some fun & freedom, nobody knew this would happen! The message here is that you should always be honest with your parents, but you shouldn't be so strict that your children feel they must keep secrets & lie to you.
as a growing teen, i’ve never been to a sleepover, the mall with friends, and i only recently just went to a friend’s house for the first time in several years. i’ve found myself lying to talk to them online whenever i get the chance (even if it means at night), or even very few times sneaking out to see them. i know what i’m doing is wrong, but there’s a reason i’m doing this. my parents have done nothing but good in teaching me, but i feel i deserve a bit of freedom as well.
Yea
@@victjsofjsmdngor we are here for you as a community I still think it's a little bit of abuse when parents don't let their children have a little bit of freedom not letting your child go out and have summer parties go to her friend's house and how some fun all the parents have to do is make sure it's a good house to go to good friends I'm sorry this is what you have to do to have fun but please be very careful when you're doing this I'm not condoning it because you could get yourself hurt like this little girl please be very careful and take it for me please do not accept any drugs or alcohol from people nowadays you never know not only that there's Fentanyl and everything that is killing people has killed a lot of my friends the last year-and-a-half I'm so thankful that I'm in recovery but I start using drugs at your guys's age I was in my teens and going out and getting in trouble so please be careful don't use drugs you wouldn't want to end up like me I had a very very very hard life I also became a mother at 16 two twins so just be careful
@@kristahathaway9308 don’t worry, i know i’m not going to go there. when i sneak out, it’s to meet a friend and walk at the beach or get ice cream (in the summer). alcohol and drugs are the last things i want to touch, although i’ve been working on asserting myself more to my parents so they realize that i am capable of going out on my own and hanging out.
Ok bro but who asked
There’re times to be strict and there’re times to chill. You have to find that little balance in your life, bc otherwise you’re child will have even harder times opening up to you.
Finally someone else putting out the message.... Be a PARENT not a friend! Kids have friends, they NEED parents! You can be a strict parent, with love and encouragement. There is nothing wrong with telling your child "NO!"
But don't be too strict. It only causes a child to rebel.
You need to be a friend with your kid because being strict doesn’t mean the parents need to treat her like their treat her. She felt stuck and she never have opinion or a say… She was a “child” but she could think by her on. I don’t blame her because her parents have some fault to.
@@joselopes2269 No, a parent is a PARENT. You can be strict, but you do it with love. Yes, your child should have a voice, and a parent should listen. But also, sorry to say this, but adults do know more...they don't want their children to make the same mistakes they did. Yes, the parents in this story were hard on their daughter, and they should have listened to her, but not letting her go out to wild parties... my parents wouldn't have let me either....and my time of youth, was a lot wilder time in the US... the 70's.
@@LadyDragonsblood I agreed. But when I say the parent need to be a friend is in the way like… The children when have some problems and instead talk with a friend or someone else goes and talk with their mother or father. Be open with is issue. Not just parenting but be part of that. This new generation is to complicated and is not like in yours on 70s or 80s like mine… we need to more clever with this kids because they have everything with this technologies. We need to be more eyes open
@@christygruber2283 Oh I agree, they made a lot of bad mistakes. I was commenting on the fact that Parents should be parents, not friends.
Never ever ever treat your children like they are just property to be controlled by you. This will loose you their trust and they will go behind your back to live their life on their terms.
I just re saw the end sure there sorry they are only sorry for braking her not sorry for she gone god knows this you push someone to far you can't take it back. Now she's gone and has to live with the punishment wcy did the police just arrest them for child abuse?
@@JustinMacri007 It isn’t technically child abuse I don’t think but it isn’t right. It won’t keep that child in your arms. It will only push them far away and make them take unnecessary risks.
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When I was 15 I lied to my parents about staying at a friends house to go drinking. I ended up not drinking- my gf got into a fight with her bf and we needed to leave- I was in a bad accident that night and I was the only 1 that didn’t drink but I had no way to get home so I had to get in the car. I have some body scarring that I have to look at everyday so I never forget! Be open with communication it goes along way!
wait your girlfriend was cheating on you?
@@olilondonisabum7170 no it was my friend who was a girl who had a boyfriend. Back in the day gf- just meant girl friend.
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Yes, like you said! I'm from the '70s, so I know. A female calling her friend, girlfriend, was never meant in any way shape or form romantic.
Whoever killed that girl should be going to jail for this!!! Those parents should have called the cops on the culprit!!!
Prison not jail.
@@Think1stMedia WDYM?
@jasonericktjioenanta9046 Exactly what I said. They should be going to Prison, not jail. People often say jail, but jail and prison are not the same. Jail is where you go for a year or less, and it is much softer than prison. Prison is where you go long-term. The murderer should go to prison, not jail.
@@Think1stMedia Oook. I remember.
I am 16 and i still have parents like this. I hate that the fact you tell them you own them. they will never learn if you treat them like that.
Keep strong as someone 8 years ahead I can tell you it gets better
Rochelle `s mother is solely responsible for this. You cant treat your child like trash and say YOU OWN THEM. Alas what a terrible thing to happen
What a silly statement. Rochelle is responsible for this. Many people have had over protective parents and didn't put themselves in harms way. she chose to lie and she put herself in that predictment. Plus the mother didn't give the guy a gun to shoot her daughter. What a ridiculous statement.
You sound like an overbearing parent @@Think1stMedia
@@sekani9761 and you sound like an overbearing idiot.
@@sekani9761 I only stated facts while you are showing your emotional immaturity by making assumptions about me.
@@Think1stMedia sure
None like this should ever happen to anyone young. Keep the bad ones away from your good kids. At least try hard
This shouldn’t happen to anyone in general
Parents need to practise being strict without being controlling. My parents were strict too but they let my sisters and I go places we wanted to go as long as they were good places with wholesome activities. They wanted us to have fun, but according to the values with which they were raising us, it needed to be the right kind of fun.
Right my parents are strict but not that strict to where I can’t go no where and be sitting in the house
me too
Over Strict parents create over sneaky kids I have seen it happen
Yes! I had a friend in that situation. Even during her early 20s her parents will tried to control and baby her. Eventually she began making poor decisions and becoming a rebel out of frustration.
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Omg this why I cannot stand parents that are like too damn strict for their beliefs and taking too far I thought my dad was bad but this one takes the cake
And honestly, I blame the parents for what happened there, huddling her up at home, hiding her from the world, not letting her go anywhere now. That's just abuse if you ask me, so if you don't want that answer, go ask someone else if you know me.
Exactly, letting them have a little freedom isn't about parities and boys. It's about learning how to make responsible choices and take care of themselves in the real world as adults. Keeping your kid locked in the house and controlling their every move is setting them up for failure.
Yes! There has to be rules and cerfews, but too much of anything isn't good.
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There's a way that seems right,but in the end leads to destruction.
What feels very right now will feel very wrong later.
Finally Someone Else Putting Out The Greatest Messages Of All Time...Be A Parent Not A Friend For Quite Out Loud! Kids Have Friends, They All Need Parents! You Can Be A Strict Parent, With Live, And Encouragement And There is Nothing Wrong With Telling Your Child , "NO" And Besides All Children Needs Love, Support, Guideness, Recsept, Kindness And Patience With An Guiding Hand Which Matters The Most in The Entire World And Man I Feel Those Tears Coming At The End And Besides There's No Perfect Parents in That Matter And Besides it Totally Broke My Heart For Both Of The Parents For Their Loss Of Their Beloved Child And Every Parents Do Makes Mistakes Now & Then And it's Never Too Late To Make it Up Which Matters The Most in The Entire World And My Foremost Sympathetic Condolences For The Family With All Of My Deepest Thoughts And Prayers And Besides it's Very Unbearable To Lose A Loving Child Who's Have A Bright Future Ahead Of Her in Life?
there’s nothing wrong with saying no but there is something wrong with parents who think they OWN someone.
the parents are part to blame because of the way they said no. they could’ve helped in so much ways
This was one of the saddest I’ve seen. I’m in tears.
You’re right! Never be your child’s friend.
What is wrong with you, the child needs the parent not to control them @Keleigh brimley.
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My parents were strict but they continued to let me live and be a teenager, yes I had rules and boundaries! But they never not once treated me like they owned me !
To be honest I think all the people like abusive or like the bullies they need to learn to be Kinder to make a world a better place
I cried at the end too, because who wants to see their child killed and Buried? The child is supposed to buried their parents not the child, my father was very protective over me too, because he wanted it to know where I was going, who I was seeing, and such on and on. I get what the parents are saying, because if I was them I will wanna know where you at too. People are crazy these days
Just because he was way over protective don't shield from the world there will always be good and bad sides but don't block the world from kids just explain it to them.
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no no. the parents are part to blame. fully emotionally abusive and went about protecting her the wrong way. which is why she did what she did, they weren’t protecting her
Can we just appreciate how they post everyday just to make these messages to everyone you guys deserve much more subscribers 🥰
I love how you put real stories into videos for people to understand! Keep up the good work. God Bless
The part where the dad said “wake up princess” and finds her dead just straight up gives me chills but my question is why did she get shot?
I know right?
My parent was strict and we lived through it. Nothing wrong with rules. Young people aren't as smart as they think. Congratulations to this storyline. Partying has changed over the years. Get new friends.
We are not in those days anymore,you can't raise kids like that today especially with social media and all these other things,be firm,strict but flexible,know when it's time to punish them and when it's time to talk,if you raise them with a "military general"mentality,they'll find ways to u sneak about and you'll end up in such a situation.
You are correct with social media. Each his own.
@@martinmwenda3551 yess you should know how to parent but also how to connect with your kid emotionally so that they grow up knowing they are cared for and led by a good role model
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Rules yes saying you own your child and not wanting to let them have a say in thier own life and thinking it’s okay to not care what they feel HECK NO and I’ll say it again for the people in the back
Raise a child with discipline and openness as the kid grows older give them the freedom to grow as well as the responsibility to look after themselves teach them the dangers and wonders of the world let them take responsibility for their own actions. And tell them that you'll always be there for each other what I'm saying is raise them to be good people balance the strict with the freedom then they would know how to look after themselves one day treat them like how you want to be treated
I don’t care that my parents are strict because they still let me go to parties, the park, to hang wit friends anything just have to make sure to call them and stuff
@@Princessj613 that was the same with me my dad is strict and my mom was a bit more relaxed I came from a hispanic household we were allowed to go anywhere as long as we tell them who what where and time we had to call them if we were running late
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Open door policy! Always LISTEN ALWAYS be HONEST! Don't LIE or sneak around behind your parents back
Congrats on the 18 min video and on how far you've come over the years
I don't go to house parties people don't know how to have a good time no more unless someone gets hurt or killed.
true man
If not thay, then high or drunk, or maybe in some weird cases, end up in intimate situations.
"AS I WAS WATCHING THIS VIDEO, I WANTED TO SHARE THIS WITH YOU GUYS!!"
TRUE STORY. Woke up this morning crying and thinking about my oldest child Lil’ Larry, who was KILLED by a classmate; so, as I was thinking about my child, it was laid upon my heart to share with you to Please take the time out to see who your children are associating with. The person you think means well, could be your worst enemy! Everything looks good, in a lot of cases is not good! I never thought that I would bury my child at the age of 17, but, unfortunately I had to do just that! I would never wish this grief that I am experiencing on anyone. Therefore, parents I beg you to please take the time out to see who your child has befriended; this could very well save his/her life!
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So sorry for your loss ❤️
Show your child love before it’s too late. They might be gone forever. 💙
The ending made me cry so bad that I felt like if that was my kid laying there .
Thank you for so an emotional video
The girl who played Rochelle, Caitlin DeMoss is pretty & a great actress 😊❤️!! The parents were a bit too strict plus she’s almost an adult & that was unexpected at the end 😢!! REMEMBER TO ALWAYS LET LOVE LEAD THE WAY ❤️🌹💕💯🔥🕊🙏
Yes, she is! Go Caiti!!
As a fellow mom of 4 girls, one being a soon to be teenager, I just feel horrible that THOSE were her last words to her daughter! 💔 I know she not only grieves, but to grieve with a guilty conscience is the absolute worst!!!
A parent must not turn a hostile ear when a child is stating a fact or concern. That’s control, not love. That causes a child to tell lies.
“Never lie to your parents”
Me: Except for when they are very strict and unreasonable
If you are controlling towards your children and then they lie to you, it's your fault, not theirs.
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For parents of adults kids to respect privacy and not expect answers that they don't really have to have, because that sets up for lying as well.
That mother is the definition of a possessive tyrant! I hate her!
"The boy who cried wolf never got what he need" top line👌👌
Who is the one crying "wolf" here?
@@editname2959 I wondered the same thing.
Not that any of them is crying wolf, I just wanted to reiterate the wolf story because it’s important. I felt it flowed well with the other morals. Let me know what you think I love feedback!
This was the saddest story I have ever heard in my life I was almost about to cry
How old are these girls to want to go to a party?
There are always consequences for your actions!
And the one friend,SHOULD HAVE NOT talked her friend into going to a party that could have caused trouble,you CAN"T get back someone's life,once they're gone, they're gone
This is the most emotional story ever.
WHAT A POSITIVE MESSAGE 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤
We got to be extra careful going out to these house parties because any thing can happen to you its not safe any more
Parents don’t own their children. My opinion, the moment your parent says crap like that to you, you better get away from them and not look back. Chances are, they could do worse
This is exactly what Vid Chronicles is for and why we need all of you actors
The saddest part was when the father sobbed
DAMN😢 ROCHELLE'S FATHER IS A GREAT ACTOR..HE ACTUALLY LOOKED LIKE HE WAS REALLY CRYING WHEN ROCHELLE DIED.
He looked more like he was laughing to me then crying lol
That's how kids does get themselves into trouble, serious, serious , serious trouble, following pear pressure from friends.
This definitely brought tears 😭 to my eyes it was so sad but we’re right we’re not there friends we are there parents and their is nothing wrong about telling ur child “NO” But let them know that they can tell you anything ok where they want to go let them be ur child . But don’t let them be afraid to talk to you ok. Thank you VID CHRONICLES for sharing this video with us
Weird Mom sometimes the words you say end up being the last words you spoke to your Child
I'll never treat my child like that. Not ever. Romario Facey, You're the best!!
That's the kind of family, where when the child becomes an adult, the parents end up barely seeing there kids after they move out.
LORD FORGIVE ME FOR LAUGHTING AT THE END BUT THE FATHERS CRY WAS TOO TOOO MUCH FOR ME TO BEAR IM SORY JESUS PLEASE FORGIVE ME NICE VID KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK
At least you're honest😅👍🏽💯
The Gospel about Jesus Christ: God so lo\/ed the world that he gave his only begotten son for whoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life John 3:16 God did not send his son to condemned but to call people to repentance John 3:17 Christ said I am the way the truth and the life no one can come to the Father except through me John 14:6 Christ is the only way. We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.The Bible says in Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is DEATH but the free gift is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. We must turn away from our sins and repent and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ, we must become born again meaning brand new to see the Kingdom of Heaven. Satans mission is to only steal,kill and destroy John 10:10.
Its a fine line between being strict and letting go
what is video almost had me in tears, thanks for putting out the amazing content
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The parent's acting was ✨️ON POINT✨️
That's why you need to always pray over your children before they leave the house no telling what's going to happen to your kids during this time and generation
Or just be a good parent
And when she turns 18 she'll be outta there like a flash of lightning. Way too overbearing.
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Take the time to listen to your children peer pressure is on the rise have balance in your life God word is clear just because you are a Pastor don't lose sight on family feelings and needs sometimes saying no is not easy
The Dad's cry tore me apart 😢💔😭
I don't know any mother who wouldn't have punched Tasha in the mouth for blaming the mom for her own daughter's death
@WhiskyHd it was mainly the other woman's fault. She said it was a slumber party and she would be watching, not a full blown party and see was nowhere in sight. Yeah the dead girl's parents were too strict but it wasn't their fault she got killed.
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They're both at fault but in different ways. I agree, that the other girl's mom should have done a better job at supervision and firmly setting rules as her daughter is still a minor.
However, Rochelle's parents treating her like a 3-year-old and without listening to her isn't good either. Kids need some form of independency for their development and learning to stand on their own two feet. Kids who are denied this will do anything and everything to rebel and push away from their parents. Even if it means making poor decisions.
@WhiskyHd . True but her parents we're just trying to keep her safe and the one time they actually let her go alone, look what happened. Like I said, I know her parents we're too strict but in this case, strictness would have definitely saved her life
Wow such a touching it happened plenty of time with teens when attending parties. This got me emotional as a mother myself I would never want to bury one of my daughters, my heart will be forever broken💔
My oldest brother died he was shot to death so sad I miss him so much is bin a month with out him this video made me cry 😭😭😭😭
*Warning to good people:* ⚠️ "Always let your parents know where your going before leaving. Watch your surroundings as well!”
Even if the parents were kinda mean to the child they didn’t deserve to lose their child
Even kids have feelings and have favorites too no children should have suffered like that
I wish it was a part two to this ,this situation and episode is sad no parent have to lose their child to gun violence.
It don't need a part 2
The government should ban guns. No guns, no gun violence.
Always be a leader not a follower parents may be harsh sometimes but its for your own safety a lot of things are happening out there .
Thank you Vid Chronicles for sharing and always let love lead the way ❤
Perfectly Said... I Couldn't Have Said It Better! ♥️🙂
Yeah but in this case they weren't harsh sometimes they were toxic they were overbearing and they were imprisoning that girl. They wouldn't let her have a life they wouldn't let her be a teenager and they were shutting her out being selfish thinking about what they want to do what's cooking food they want to cook instead of asking her what she wanted. You see she starting to resent them because of it
poor Rochelle is not abletodo anything
A parent must always look out for their child. But when they get old enough to understand what the world is, they need to learn and live. Also a child doesn’t always have to follow their parents footsteps, they can always live their lives how every they see fit. And always come up with an emergency plan to protect them.
Her parents are too strict
Agreed! Those parents are too strict but the other mother is too lose and irresponsible.
This was a very tragic event 16 years old dead at a house party. This happens for real the mother should have monitored who was coming into her house but sometimes this backfire. I learned one thing about house parties back in the day other people will invite their other friends which are toxic sometimes. Rochelle death was a tragic shame. I never trusted outside people even family sometimes around my kids.
Owning a child that is wrong and show her more love and be there for her with conversation.Sad that there are parents like this
My mother was extremely strict and quite controlling but she never said that she would only cook what my father liked or wanted . She went out to try and please my father , brother and me as best as she could , on a limited budget . I know that she preferred my brother being an Indian woman , but she always tried to cater to my needs also while fulfilling his as best as she could .
Dont look at your child as a slave also not your best friend. Look at your child as a child that can come out to you and speak to you comfortably not being scared of what you going to do.
Let people raise their kids however they feel like
@WhiskyHd they werent rude or abusive.
they are parents, adults. 16 years old is still a kid, you do what your parents tell you to, you belong to them.
Don't act like Regina George's "cool mom". But don't be controlling and make them feel like prisoners either.
Allow them some independency but sit them down and talk to them about right vs wrong, set boundaries and allow your child to ask any questions and communicate stuff to you.
@@Sand-witch05 sound so narcissistic right now.
@@Sand-witch05 what I'm trying to say is that if you have the need to treat your child as a slave then you are no real parent just a coward just to make yourself to feel big and powerful. What happens if your kid copies these abusive actions in school this could lead to bullying dont you understand that.
This storyline can go on and on. Well said be the parent to your child. As they get older you can be the friend. Found out the going on, when it doubt check it out.
You're absolutely right. If anything seems suspicious or you ever suspect your child isn't telling you the entire truth, it's better to look into it & risk embarrassing your child than having an accident or tragedy take place!
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16 IS STILL A CHILD THANK YOU VERY MUCH
im so sorry for your loss and I love theses videos they are amazing and they teach us good life lessons now I don't go to parties alone unless my parents are with me
Sadly this stuff happens a lot but very important lessonnlearned here
Let’s hope that they learn their lessons and not to treat their child like that
Her parents treat her like she don't exist, that sometimes push your kids away and to do things that they don't normally do
And if she didn't die, as soon she turns 18, she'll dissapear in thin air and the parents never hear from her again, we humans want freedom, you can't just take it away
My parents were very Christian and strict and I couldn’t tell them anything bc they were so strict and always got mad but when I told them once how I felt they listened and yes they let me do what I want but there’s still boundaries