The Truth About Women: They Don’t Care, So Be Authentic
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 ก.พ. 2025
- Trying to impress women? Here’s the truth: they don’t care about your efforts to act a certain way.
Being real and authentic works better than any act or strategy.
🌟 In this video, you’ll discover:
The truth about why women don’t care about your efforts to impress.
The power of authenticity in attraction.
Practical tips to stop overthinking and just be yourself.
💬 Share your thoughts: Have you experienced this in your life? Let me know in the comments!
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Staying present in the conversation. paying attention instead of trying to make plans to impress someone which will probably mean you are too busy planning to be present in the moment
actually I believe is the opposite of what you just said. if i understood it correctly, you are worried and you care of what women think and say or might be thinking and might say. if we are constantly worried in anxiety or caring a lot about what they are saying i think I will loose most of the time. especially when they ultimately are not interested in me then i would have waisted time instead of focusing on what i want desire what i am trying to get and trying to convey that in the most direct manner.
As a man you should always keep a Stoic State of Mind : stay on the best course for YOUR life, what others think or do is none of your concern. You will only attract people who are on the same track, the other ones are people who are playing mindless games and are not who you want to be close to. Stay strong !
@@TarpeianRock yee these stoic quotes and videos, I don't know about that, they can only help so far, you need methods, no amount of quotes or motivations can really help they can only entertain.
@ start with reading Marcus Aurelius, no Method needed, read, absorb and practice.
A woman who knows herself will see your best traits. Everything else is ego. When you have an ego death, you won't try to impress another human ever again.
Nobody alive ever experiences ego death bro
And stop being deceived that a younger more physically attractive woman will be better. It's just an illusion.
@@LocustaVampa Ever heard of Enlightenment, bro? Spiritual Enlightenment doesnt mean your body explodes or disappears, your body will still run its natural course and end when it is meant to. The egoless state doesnt mean you lose the ability to feed yourself or perform tasks that ensure and support your continued existence. So for your information, it is absolutely possible to be in a permanently egoless State while still bodily existing.
Where did you get the idea that "Nobody alive ever experiences ego death bro"? It simply isnt true.
Bro....bro......bro, bro, bro, bro, bro, br, br, br, broooooooo. Bro. Bruh. Wassup bra? Oh Brother.
@ You misunderstand it. Good luck tho
Your english is quite fine and free flowing actually.
that's true about TRYING to impress women. i've experienced too many times how, when im just being myself not trying to impress, not having expectations, just having fun for myself or with friends that i don't try to impress-- there will be plenty of positive interactions with the ladies, even flirt and attraction. however,as soon as i flip into the "heyy" mode to push an agenda, i shoot myself in the leg.
I appreciate your feedback. I have several concepts and opinions about what you just described, and I could make videos about it.
Back in uni the first thing I would say to a native English speaker is "My English sucks" so she knows from the start that I make a lot of mistakes. Actually I never studied grammar, almost everything I know came from interaction with English speaking people.
Subscribed! But only for 4 months because "my videos are crap, my videos are shit". Lol... you're funny, man! Seriously, loved the video. You provide very good content and advise - I found the analysis very insightful! Looking forward to watching more of your videos!
ahha, alright, thanks.
Back in uni when i was a woman in a male dominated major, i interacted with a lot of men whether i wanted to or not, and honestly everything you said was very true.
I could smell if a guy was trying to impress me and it was such a turn off every time. It also got really annoying when they would try to take over pair programming assignments, and they werent even good at it.
The few people i found really attractive were the people passionate about what they liked and you could hear their excitement about the topic at hand rather than being able to talk to me. They didnt have to be smart or talented, they just needed to not be conscious of themselves.
I've always struggled with putting to words why i was instantly attracted to my husband before but this video explores it well. He never once brought up he was rich, it wasn't until i met his parents that i realized he was. He never brought up his intelligence unless i went out of my way to ask how classes were going (3.99 gpa in electrical engineering)
He was and still is just an honest, humble, and spontaneous guy. Always ready to talk about his favorite anime, video game, or anything else he liked. (we met in an anime club so this was the opposite of a turnoff for me 😂)
I really appreciate your feedback, your story is very interesting, thanks.
Hmm I wonder how it would have turned out if you had met his parents and found that they were poor.
@@User-jr7vf depends on what kind of poor? I grew up in poverty so it wouldnt have been a minus for me if they were hard working nice people, but if his parents were like debtmaxers and he defended and wanted to pay for their mistakes, then it would have probably been a deal breaker.
@@shuu4869so your a decent woman I bet u are naturally pretty
They dont care because they only care about themselves.
Your accent is kool.. - subscribed - - good subconscious language ism..
if u are avarage man they dont care, if they like u they will care
I agree. If you want to attract a user or a gold digger then go and impress them with the material stuff. You will appear desparate and arrogant anyway. But a genuine woman will like you for the care and kindness you will show them and show them shes priority and not stare at other women when your are with them
Stay authentic and you stay alone. Men do not care too.
great point, that s also true
What do you value more ? Beint content and fulfilled by living with integrity and honor or never feeling happy always chasing that "thing" by putting masks all the time and trying to appeal to people ?
One path will require alot of pain and sacrifice but ultimately it will be for the better the other will give you quick hits of "pleasure" but in the end will leave you miserable and the walking death.
First time I see a guy saying something intelligent on youtube, thanks!
I'm a woman, considered beautiful according to the western standards, I see all these men trying hard to impress. Pathetic and sadly repulsive.
I love humans, with brain, simplicity, authentic, natural, emotional. It's so gorgeous:-)
You understood it all, thank you!
A guy that is natural, does not try to impress, makes me feel he is with me, not that he is looking at me. He enjoys me. This is a gift. This is YES. This makes me want to be even more beautiful for him.
These guys who sadly want to impress are fake. I can't trust them.
great comment, i really want to see comments like this from women, I feel that most women would actually agree with most of my concepts and communication style. thanks.
I have a fast car.
"First time I see a guy say something intelligent on TH-cam" Are you a toxic feminist? Do you realize how insulting and sexist this statement is?
Either you are a toxic feminist or you have only just started using TH-cam, or only use it very little. Its one or the other.
And you talk about "pathetic and sadly repulsive"?
Imagine I say the stupid thing you say "First time I see a woman saying something intelligent on TH-cam, thanks!"
Good grief, as a man, if I saw a guy write this statement about women, I would think he is a chauvinistic pig for saying it. So you will understand why I call you out on saying what you have said about men on TH-cam.
I hope you can self-reflect enough to understand how wrong it is to say, and it is simply not true at all, so dont even try to defend or justify it.
@@authenticanddirect First time I see a guy saying something intelligent on youtube, thanks! "Great comment"
You must be joking?
Yeah the trick is to be authentically not bad, and love yourself and your life and others. And to have belief many future strangers will tend to like you, and belly will be full.
These are all reasonable and good goals. I think in that case, with these basics covered, if one is also goodwilled and feeling kind and friendly... then being authentic is the best.
It could be argued if the basics are not covered then there is work to do besides from meeting companion anyway.
Authentic though also requires trust. Trust from wisdom to avoid dangers, strength to abide them, or naivete.
Authentic display is best in a transcendental and self-care way for all, but also there are consequences in the natural world:
Authentically favored persons or situations, or those traits most useful or fortuitous with good omen will be approved, but those disfavored aspects will be scolded and the bearers shunned: thus is shame and praise used to make statues and roles to fit and be measured.
But then better to be aware of to address problems authentically, rather than inauthentically maladapt to unaddressed problems!
Your English is extremely good and your accent makes you fun to listen to. ❤ (new Zealander)
thanks, wow someone from New Zealand, cant believe it, I often mention Auckland, one of my favorite cities in the world to practice approaches and I had some very good experiences there.
And money was never mentioned, for whatever reason.
absolutely, i am rewatching the videos and noticed a lot of mistakes, missing elements, things i could ve said better. i did mention though about being wealthy or rich, i should next time mention specifically money, i will try make better videos.
Yeaa but guess who took out the time and effort to make the video?
All of these subconscious/conscious animalistic attraction triggers, the status game, the entire complicated mess of a womans decision-making process when selecting a partner is why I stay single. I dont want a bar of it. My decision-making process is as simple as is the woman attractive and have a good heart with a genuine personality. Thats it.
A good woman will only have those simple criteria in mind also. The rest are the insane ones, the toxic ones.
Your English is extremely good...
Thanks. I try to improve every day.
Very good video 🙏🏻 please keep uploading :)
thank you for your support, I really hope you found these videos valuable.
*very knowledgeable useful channel.*
Thanks. I want that to be the purpose of my channel. I'm committed to making 1 video per week with all my knowledge acquired over the years.
Really sometimes when I’m authentic and moody it scares them of not to surprised but disappointed but could be worse as some block or complete cut me of because of it
i really didnt understand much of what you wrote here in this comment. try to rephrase it. i still appreciate it
I think I got it:
"Really, sometimes when I'm authentic and moody it scares them off. I'm not too surprised, but disappointed. It could be worse, as some cut me off or block me because of it."
@@prism223not being open emotionally, but rather staying true to who you are and not trying to put on an act to impress
I am impressed by your video ;)
"Don't ever get up."
get up or do you mean give up?
It's an infamous quote from the community which has taken a pill that is black, my friend. 😊
Jeremy Meeks
I can tell you're trying to impress us with the Barcelona story
@@dakilla3228 no you' r wrong 100%. People like you are the example of those who lack intelligence to see feel and perceive when someone is real genuine telling truth. When you see a bullshitter then you think he is telling the truth.
@authenticanddirect lmaooo. You sound hurt because why do you have to insult my intelligence. And by the way, it's not about telling the truth or not but about whether you had to say it. All the details of how you were 'opening sets' were unnecessary.
@@dakilla3228 shtfkup. you prefer people who are full of sh just probably like yourself..i don't even now what you are referring to in the video. but trust me I'm not trying to impress, i advocate not to do that. u sn f bth
Yup
Is true. When you are an authentic woman, a cocky behavior is such a turn off. Only fake people buy that game. We can sense when somebody is genuine and when someone is not. The truth is that the ones who want to be use, would always based interest in material or physical appearance only the superficial level. Your would never be truly seen for who you are. But not everyone care about real Intimacy connections.
Let them puesue you. You can never make a women happy
Sometimes being wanted in a sweet straightforward way is positively impressive. Yes it should entail some effort
what's your first language?
Albanian
Italian.
I thought he was a frenchie like jacques cousteau.
@@aleksandarstojceski3139 many people tell me I look from one of those countries, Balkans etc.
@@Armored_Saint i just google who this jacques custoea is.
As a women what am i doing here
would you agree with my beliefs, mindsets, opinions, and concepts?
attention
@@robotmechanicalwhizkid2521 what you mean, what are you referring to?
u are handsome
@@pojdrr777 I've been told I'm handsome, some said not so bad looking, when younger I was told I was ugly a lot which developed a lot of insecurities keeping me stuck for decades. Sometimes I look at myself I say yeah I'm ok looking and other times I see myself ugly which I really am acthaually at the end of the day. Thanks.
wtf is this bro lol
just watch at x1.75 speed, a couple more times from beginning to end, watch it a few times and tell me if you don't get it.
Keep away from them they are toxic and over entitled.
that is true but, we need to learn to love them and desire them, so they notice, at the same time be safe and dont listen or care too much about what they say. always respect them and respect their boundaries at all time.