THINGS YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT?! | EP 427

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  • @ItsNumberJuan
    @ItsNumberJuan หลายเดือนก่อน +3390

    I ain’t gon lie fellas, we are all humans and we make mistakes, I get that. Idk if it’s because I’m a black American, but to me…it’s our unspoken job to protect the way black people are received/perceived. No one was asking you to crashout. But no matter how uncomfortable it was to be in that room, yall chose to be there! Stuff like this matters, black women get shitted on by everyone. Don’t allow that narrative to be spread.

  • @ishplussix
    @ishplussix หลายเดือนก่อน +3112

    they sitting us down like parents boutta divorce or someth this must be serious

    • @sophiasebadduka1135
      @sophiasebadduka1135 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      I was a LIKKLE nervy but they handled it so well ❤

    • @Uncleruckuzz
      @Uncleruckuzz หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      reminds me of how my parents sat down me and siblings when they split up

    • @amybeelicious
      @amybeelicious หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Ikr the way they kept taking deep breaths I thought someone was sick or quitting. I was so scared 😨😳

    • @jascenthe.7351
      @jascenthe.7351 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😂😂😂 right!

    • @ellehopkins4326
      @ellehopkins4326 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Oh, it was serious… There were tons of people all over socials trying to cancel them 😮‍💨

  • @alexisg5561
    @alexisg5561 หลายเดือนก่อน +828

    the best part about this whole thing is that Andrew went back on his podcast and laughed them out for their “apology”😂

    • @vk_lyriks8035
      @vk_lyriks8035 หลายเดือนก่อน

      as they should its pathetic bunch of snowflakes andrew goes for everyone its fair game 😂

    • @shaiiholden5497
      @shaiiholden5497 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      I mean laughing his a** off

    • @Totally_Not_Franci
      @Totally_Not_Franci หลายเดือนก่อน +164

      And that’s where the problem is. People are attacking the boys forgetting that the problem didn’t start with them. It’s not right and it’s no excuse. I think Andrew should be held accountable for that he said as well. Imagine cutting weed and not ripping it from the root. It’ll grow back. That’s what y’all are out here doing here as well, ignoring the root and focusing on the part that shows

    • @antasiaward1036
      @antasiaward1036 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      ​@Remarkable_Mess If they would've done their research then they would know what to expect. Just because the show has a lot of viewers doesn't mean that it's quality content. We know how Andrew is and know that comment is calm compared to other things that he says

    • @JaTheBigKid
      @JaTheBigKid หลายเดือนก่อน

      They acknowledged that they made a mistske, your literally saying they shouldve gone back in time and not done it. You have to forgive and move on, its your choice wether you choose to keep watching or not ​@antasiaward1036

  • @music1made
    @music1made หลายเดือนก่อน +374

    SNG has been a breath of fresh air for me for a while. In a space where all there seems to be is negativity and divide between men and women, especially on pods, here you fellas come with the laughs. I found in you two genuine black boy joy, bromance, and a really safe space. So much love and laughter. I recommended you to every one of my homegirls so you could be a relief to them as well. Your videos brought me so much happiness and relief from the repetitive and unoriginal hate speech and slander of women more specifically black women. Unfortunately something we have to deal with on a consistent basis is supporting and uplifting people who have to be reminded to stick up for us. Abuse of black women is such a natural state of being. It was specifically stated that black women were the butt of the joke (per usual), but the apology was for “the community” not black women. I watch the podcast only because you two were on it and I love you. I couldn’t finish it. I was sore about your so called unwilling participation in the whole bit. For me the apology was mid therefore I really hope that in the future you find it a lot more natural to protect black women who find it so natural to keep you supported. Y’all hurt my feelings. Love y’all. But damn…

    • @kimengtracy6222
      @kimengtracy6222 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      U can't be mad at the listeners and let the speaker off the hook. U have to recognize that people come from different parts of the world and will not exactly understand or react to situations in your society the same way.
      Now they apologised and u guys still want to dictate how the apology should be. What about who made the comment, what about when Fuhad spoke for Meghan, or is she not black woman enough.
      No one is without mistake and we can't dictate people's apology to suit our feelings especially if they come from a different society with different perspectives.

    • @kickingitwithrah3806
      @kickingitwithrah3806 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Nah i felt this one. Their apology was kinda ehh for me & it makes me so sad cause i really love and enjoy them. They bring me so much joy and laughter. I feel like in the moment they thought it was funny “just jokes” but that YT man wasnt joking I MIGHT TELL YOU A JOKE BUT I WONT TELL YOU A LIE. And they allowed it because it was funny in the moment and now theyve realized after it being brought to attention that woah that was f’d. I appreciate them acknowledging they f’d up fr but they gotta come a bit better with an apology. Also i do think that man set them up for failure they are his competition how do you knock out competition in these podcast you remove their supporters. He set the bate they bit it. It’s unfortunate i really hope they make it right. 😢

    • @kimengtracy6222
      @kimengtracy6222 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@kickingitwithrah3806 we all get to make mistakes and only realize and apologize later. It's human, as black people we also make serious jokes about white stereotypes and laugh about it. People should be able to voice their stereotypes without fear of bullying and its our responsibility to correct them.
      If someone apologize for their actions it means they see reasons with u, but if u try to dictate how they should sound or speak or what they should say then we as black women are not being reasonable.

    • @kickingitwithrah3806
      @kickingitwithrah3806 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kimengtracy6222 listen you can feel how you would like. All im saying is this was an acknowledgement with an explanation.

    • @crystalthompson6553
      @crystalthompson6553 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@kimengtracy6222 I see what you are saying but what bothers me is they requested other parts removed from their time on that podcast but saw no issue with leaving that part in. To me, it means they lied and only coming forward because they are scared of the repercussions. If they didn't find an issue, they could have said that they weren't aware until it was brought up to them. Simple. With other videos and such that came forward, it states they don't like us. I'm good

  • @CP3JORIKA
    @CP3JORIKA หลายเดือนก่อน +416

    I'm happy both of you ACKNOWLEDGED IT and is APOLOGIZING...
    I'm going to be super HONEST in this comment section.
    Yall did hurt those who helped build your platform up and honestly... I wasn't surprised by it. Black women are often used as a "joke" and the way yall laughed with so much JOY and GLEE hearing his words... Hearing YALL SAY anything about "support/protection" when it comes to Black women... I can't and don't believe you BUT I DO HOPE that these apologies are GENUINE because your supporters deserve better.
    I've said what I wanted to say... Stay blessed.

    • @maryj1249
      @maryj1249 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      I agree 💯 with you. I feel like they have shown us who they are and we need to believe them. Fuhad really shocked me to be honest 🤦🏾‍♀️. They should have never gone on that show to begin with, they should have done the research and realized the type of jokes Andrew does. Also it’s about integrity, they claim they went on this tour because they love their community but then goes on Andrew’s show? A show where a white man continuously makes joke about black women and black people in general.
      They apologized because why not? PR probably told them to .I don’t feel like it’s genuine and I hope it doesn’t happen again. But for now I’m checking out .
      And no they laughed because that’s what they wanted to do . Yes there are other videos of them verbally saying slick stuff them self on this podcast. This videos has been up for a while and they didn’t see anything wrong with it. They even posted it on their platform . This apology came only because of all the backlash it has now received. They meant to laugh and this apology is not genuine.

    • @CP3JORIKA
      @CP3JORIKA หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      @@maryj1249 Maya Angelou told ME/US a long time ago..."WHEN SOMEONE SHOWS YOU WHO THEY ARE, BELIEVE THEM THE FIRST TIME." Truth be told... I feel bad for their supporters BECAUSE the SAME Black women they've BLATANTLY DISRESPECTED... Are going to EASILY forgive them. It WASN'T a MISTAKE. IT WAS A CHOICE.
      SN YOU SAID THAT Fuhad surprised you? No comment... 😂.

    • @tamara99one
      @tamara99one หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly!!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @professlch6347
      @professlch6347 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@maryj1249 EXACTLY. They showed who they are. Now? BELIEVE THEM.

    • @professlch6347
      @professlch6347 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@CP3JORIKA EXACTLY.

  • @leratoemeldahkgwedi2042
    @leratoemeldahkgwedi2042 หลายเดือนก่อน +1048

    "You got Calvin deKlined" LOL Ellis has BEEN a menace🤣🤣🤣

    • @Passion84GodAlways
      @Passion84GodAlways หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😆😂🤣

    • @FloWoodEnT123
      @FloWoodEnT123 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Bro really is a lyricist 😂😂😂

    • @Zaiye-Raushan
      @Zaiye-Raushan หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I was screaming😂😂😂

  • @iikhalaii8784
    @iikhalaii8784 หลายเดือนก่อน +1330

    Did he really say he had fight or flight for a racist joke. You are grown men.

    • @og.ashcatchem3969
      @og.ashcatchem3969 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Truss 😂😂

    • @Trackstar8589
      @Trackstar8589 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

      They were definitely uncomfortable from like right after the intro. I think they’re interviewe with KevOnStage is a better representation of the guys

    • @kristienwhitney-johns5863
      @kristienwhitney-johns5863 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

      Yeah and eventually you'll be grown too. The immaturity of this comment is actually insane.

    • @IReITaN
      @IReITaN หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      why do you get to dictate how someone else feels around hurtful comments and racism? that is vile, get tf out of here with your cancel culture bs, people with nothing going for them jumping at the chance to take others down with them. James & Fuhad have done so much incredible work and put so much good into the world get tf out of here

    • @filmadcamp1512
      @filmadcamp1512 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      @@Trackstar8589 How much you wanna bet if the jokes were outright directed at them as BM their response would have been different. And they would not have been sitting there laughing.

  • @PersephoesLibrary
    @PersephoesLibrary หลายเดือนก่อน +408

    And now the white man is LAUGHING at y’all 😂

    • @LoveMyNinaa
      @LoveMyNinaa หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rightfully so… Spineless 🥷🏾’s the only race of men to allow shxt like this to go unchecked 😂😂😂 .

    • @Cook1e00
      @Cook1e00 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Well Black women still down so... take the L the joke was funny and Andrew shultz is the goat 😂😪

    • @PersephoesLibrary
      @PersephoesLibrary หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Cook1e00 black women are UP. Don’t let this social media shit ruin your mind 💅

    • @renialatrice
      @renialatrice หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ​@@Cook1e00 middle school humor

    • @Cook1e00
      @Cook1e00 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@renialatrice 👈👈 found the black woman who's upset lmao did Andrew hurt you? 😂💀 don't cry

  • @MarnelGarcon
    @MarnelGarcon หลายเดือนก่อน +1864

    I'm glad you guys addressed this. Flagrant has been going down hill for a while and Andrew just took the whole interview over and really ruined what I thought could have been such a great hang. It's been an ongoing problem with him and his podcasts. You're good in my book.

    • @jackjohnson2309
      @jackjohnson2309 หลายเดือนก่อน +106

      Those dudes are hard to watch. Sometimes funny, sometimes interesting, but all the time obnoxious.

    • @DrTinyToff
      @DrTinyToff หลายเดือนก่อน +93

      I cant stand him. He takes great guests and brings them down to his level.

    • @staceyd8765
      @staceyd8765 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      I could not watch the entire podcast with flagrant. But I still love you guys!

    • @Kuro-02
      @Kuro-02 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Flagrant used to be so good and genuinely funny, feels like Andrew just got way too edgey over the past couple of years. Episodes when he’s not on and it’s just the rest of guys are typically better

    • @droge410
      @droge410 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

      Andrew was SO out of line! He was being racist towards Fuhad and James and you could tell they were so uncomfortable.

  • @Gigi-jl1rq
    @Gigi-jl1rq หลายเดือนก่อน +601

    Not gonna hold you, the apology was weak lmaoo
    it was STRONG AS F*CK from a PR perspective but from a personal one, you can tell you guys just wanted to get through it, you didn't really dive into what was messed up about the situation fr just sorry, please don't stop our bag.

    • @shdw_co
      @shdw_co หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      What is the messed up situation? Can you explain (not asking in a dickhead but in a curious way), I watched the Flagrant clip, and I don't get what the issue is. They want on a podcast with a guy thats comedy is based around ripping into cultures, of course he is going to bring up some cultural shit. You can see they look uncomfortable and they addressed that. But what is the issue actually? Or is it people just being upset like usual and complaining over someone make jokes, on a comedy podcast.

    • @professlch6347
      @professlch6347 หลายเดือนก่อน +66

      "Please don't stop our bag." YUP!

    • @shania991
      @shania991 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shdw_cono he uses mainly BLACK culture to makes his “jokes” and wanted them to join in on the disrespect if you don’t see the issue then maybe don’t comment on it keep it as a question don’t try and give excuses to his fcked up behavior once you make somebody uncomfortable it’s not longer comedy y’all need to learn the difference between jokes and just being offensive but I understand most of y’all don’t care black people much less black woman are constantly being used as a punch line.

    • @ionnapeterson2846
      @ionnapeterson2846 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The craziest part is……. I love them just as much as the next viewer… but we KNOW they don’t fuck with black women! Anytime they talk about a woman that’s a TEN OUT OF TEN she’s always white or a different race!!! And it’s also the fact that if they spoke against women in general they’d be up in arms… but let it be black women that they don’t value and they let it slide!!! They’ll stick up for their ANIME before they stick up for their OWN WOMEN… it’s pathetic!!! And it’s blatant!!

    • @kevinanderson168
      @kevinanderson168 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jusr stfu 😂 yall literally find a problem with everything

  • @Shes_amixture
    @Shes_amixture หลายเดือนก่อน +265

    He literally set you all up, competition is real and the game is the game. Do your research before going on someone else’s podcast plus it’s okay to say no.

    • @preciousemakonese
      @preciousemakonese หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      True they were set up real bad...i watched him laughing at their apology with another black guy on that couch..the guy hates black people..am sure they have learnt their lesson..next time they should do their research and respectfully decline

    • @jadedstargazer
      @jadedstargazer หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Only someone who is fake would have been set up here. Do people really think laughing at a stupid joke means that's what you really believe? That is a very childish and smooth brained way to view the world. It's still pretty funny though lol

    • @unknown4957
      @unknown4957 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@jadedstargazer It’s not that they just laughed but they also have made other comments about black women that just tasteless and insulting. No laughing at a joke doesn’t mean it’s what you believe, but actions often times speak louder than words. Real question, did you think the joke was funny?

    • @michaelhxhdhdjdj
      @michaelhxhdhdjdj หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I dont think ur apology is enough, as a black man.. and i know ur black too but when i SEEN YOU LAUGH! At a fucking joke like that!! It deeply affected me and you should have protected me! As ur fan u should have protected me! An apology is not enough. But if you will pay reporations for not protecting me and ive seen u laugh in 0.5x it was harrowing i can not get over it. Reporations may help tho plz reply too this and ill pass u my details too help the pain❤😭

    • @mewhzy1501
      @mewhzy1501 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are you actually this delusional?😂 YOURE NOT A VICTIM. What you call culture. I call stereotyping an agenda.

  • @ocean4172
    @ocean4172 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    That's it for me. I wouldn't accept this from a yt person so it's hypocritical of me to accept this from them.
    "They only apologized because they got caught"! Had 2 MONTHS to address this but CHOSE not.

  • @Darlingg94
    @Darlingg94 หลายเดือนก่อน +1195

    Firstly, the Flagrant episode in question was uploaded in July, they are issuing an apology now, not because they are remorseful, but because this could negatively impact their brand! They were called out about the comments when it aired, but not by enough of us, for them to care!
    Secondly, ladies, are we watching the same Flagrant episode? When Andrew made that joke, James threw his head back and even doubled over in laughter. All of Fuhads teeth and gums were on full display. They found what Andrew said genuinely funny. James even said “that’s hilarious”, when Andrew made the second comment.
    Yes, there were moments where they were clearly uncomfortable, but that wasn’t one.
    Also, Andrew is known for hiding his racism in his “jokes”. He makes disparaging “jokes” about Black people all of the time. Either James and Fuhad didn’t do their homework, which is hard to believe, or they just (newsflash) didn’t care!
    Black women, seriously, how many times do we have to allow men to degrade us and show a clear lack of respect/protection??
    Go where you are celebrated, appreciated, loved, and respected! I want so much better for us, ugh!

    • @amaniiexxchnge
      @amaniiexxchnge หลายเดือนก่อน

      Speakkkkk. They even seem like they trying to hold in their laugh. It seems so fake. As a black woman who grew up in very racist white towns the "shock" excuse is not it it's a cop out sorry idc as a black woman unprotected I always spoke up even for the black men who clearly hated me just cause I was black. They are black men they hold a lot more power than they think so them being complicit in misogynoir not once but three separate times was sad but expected. They will use their past of children bullying eachother with racism and colourism is insane. Ur a grown man. Grow up. I never once kept those harsh feelings to black men when I grew up I had to let my hurt go. But they wanna seem cool and get on with those who think horribly of them for clout. I'm so over it. And it's also not lost on me that they collabed with Noel and he hasn't said shi about the Tana situation..... this my last episode tuning in and I'm sure they don't care the black ppl who file out will be replaced with them edgy white ppl who hate BLK ppl to replace us. Oh well

    • @luwilliams1059
      @luwilliams1059 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Is this channel still being monetized @darlingg94? If so, there's work to be done. This is unacceptable.

    • @MrzTeria
      @MrzTeria หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right! At this point F THEM!!!

    • @kaew3167
      @kaew3167 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      Hey pretty lady, I am also a longtime supporter and I’m so deeply hurt by this. I don’t know if it was the flagrant episode but honestly speaking looking at some of the old episodes and even some of the more recent episodes it never really gave that they like black women.
      I feel so naïve to think otherwise. I went to one of their shows full of BEAUTIFUL black women and it’s like don’t panhandle us if it’s going to bring you the bag because we all know daddy’s like the bag BUT not off the back of us!
      Going to the flagrant podcast already was outlandish to me being that I am in the USA. I know how Andrew gets down. If you have time to find USA videos to react to then there most certainly needs to be time for you to get information on certain USA podcast. And let’s not forget they are just now saying something to us when that episode was back in July I believe.
      It’s also now makes sense why they both said that there were zero baddies in ATL. And we all know here in the US that Atlanta Georgia is the Mecca of beautiful Black people and beautiful black wealth. That was such an insult!
      I think I might be signing off as a former cult, baby.

    • @Trinilove2283
      @Trinilove2283 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Yes it's the one place I thought we could come together without the diaspora wars but atp they need a better apology with action then I'll believe then

  • @sharonsantana7583
    @sharonsantana7583 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    Correct the behavior and keep it going. We can only learn from our mistakes

  • @EurediceZending
    @EurediceZending หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    The thing that does not sit right with me is: The segment of the show was recorded weeks ago, you and your team should have been in front of this! It feels ingenuine, looking at your feet, being "shocked" weeks after the fact... and during the backlash. You need a apology tour do-over. X from The Netherlands.

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Maybe contract was signed

    • @EurediceZending
      @EurediceZending หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      That contract didnt stop the apology tour...

    • @Dizzy_d0nuts
      @Dizzy_d0nuts หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black women want to ruin these guys careers for laughing at a joke? Should've stayed out of America the cancel culture is absolutely insane

  • @buu9174
    @buu9174 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    ohh the irony…. the joke was black women can be stressful and i guarantee james and fuhad have never been more stressed than in the past week

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      😅🤣🤣🤣

    • @Jeff-yz5jc
      @Jeff-yz5jc หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      this 🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Tomate06082
      @Tomate06082 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Tomate06082
      @Tomate06082 หลายเดือนก่อน

      At least they didn’t got smacked 😂😂

    • @Mebeshe
      @Mebeshe หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a black woman, 😂😂😂.

  • @montodd24
    @montodd24 หลายเดือนก่อน +315

    Flagrant podcast with them drop July 17th… it’s September 16th… the only reason this is being issued, is cause it was brought to light because of their comments about ATL women

    • @dmeechhh
      @dmeechhh หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Exactly there’s baddies everywhere personal preference not that deep

    • @Rizegirl
      @Rizegirl หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thats what Im wondering. Its the same as someone for example going to Berlin and saying they dont like the men there🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @joshuaalfonsowood2165
      @joshuaalfonsowood2165 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dmeechhh indeed

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      @@montodd24 I pray people never make a mistake in their life that is televised publicly. If they actually watched the whole podcast, they’d realise how nervous and out of depth they were in an American podcast. They were nervously laughing, if you were a real fan you’d know how socially awkward they are. Or did you watch a clip and came to a conclusion like most of the brain dead people on here who apparently are perfect. My guess is the latter.

    • @dmeechhh
      @dmeechhh หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@LaliladaAnamina exactly easy watching from you’re sofa or bedroom, but when you’re in them awkward positions trying to be professional it’s long! Been there

  • @TainaNixon
    @TainaNixon หลายเดือนก่อน +1003

    And for all the black women jumping to accept their apology, please take a moment and ask yourself why they waited to return to their studio, waited until the other podcast dropped the clip, until they noticed the outrage and THEN apologized if they knew how bad it was when it happened… We have to stop accepting scraps from men and hold them to a higher standard. Stand up.

    • @rosa61217
      @rosa61217 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

      I saw the Andrew video when it dropped and the Atlanta video when it dropped and I didn't feel like they needed to apologize at all. It was clear how uncomfortable they were, they pushed back on some things and I frankly do not care if this two guys prefer white and ambiguous women - what does that have to do with me?
      This is not like Fresh and Fit and the others that are spreading actual disrespect and hate for black women

    • @julianiferreira5995
      @julianiferreira5995 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      They did nothing wrong besides not defend. And to say it like men are the only issue is the orher problem. We hsve to hold anyone accountable even women because they can be problem also

    • @makedathomasrn7122
      @makedathomasrn7122 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      Also why did the apology not get it's own space? It's just attached on to another video. Its giving how sorry are you really?? To your point waiting makes it seem like you were hoping no one took it the way it seemed.

    • @jayvhearses6090
      @jayvhearses6090 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Crazy how you have nothing good to say about it and you only hope that your comment gets seen by somebody that gives a fuck. Go be a useful member of society

    • @hootsaidtheowl
      @hootsaidtheowl หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@julianiferreira5995right everyone should be held accountable so under there vid is the place to comment about their part. No one is talking terrible to them just expressing an opinion

  • @fudge2967
    @fudge2967 หลายเดือนก่อน +1041

    James asking Ellis if it's "socky" is a level of comfortability I have never seen in friendship 😂

    • @user-s4g11
      @user-s4g11 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      james always kills me man 😂😂

    • @nameunknown1519
      @nameunknown1519 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      The way they have no boundaries 😂😂😂

    • @Selloutsatirist
      @Selloutsatirist หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Ellis likes puns so much, I wish he would have said, "Yeah, it's socky-socky."

    • @Zaiye-Raushan
      @Zaiye-Raushan หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You know James will ask the question!!😂😂😂

    • @temiomowa7971
      @temiomowa7971 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Literally and they forgot to ask Rem

  • @PhionahBrown
    @PhionahBrown หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    They will never make me hate you guys.

  • @Secret413
    @Secret413 หลายเดือนก่อน +392

    This is an explanation, not an apology.

    • @parisnelson2451
      @parisnelson2451 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      THIS!!!

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Secret413 UK APOLOGIES ARE CUR AND DRY. Take it from a Brit, it’s legit. It’s giving fake outrage 🥱 WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, DONT BE LAZY BECAUSE YOU MISSED CRUCIAL CONTEXT. They actually try to get him to change the topic, They are real life introverts…they don’t really speak up and were uncomfortable, I can tell because I am one, you should know this if you are a regular viewer. Also this comedian makes fun of ALL RACES EVERY WEEK, are we adults here or kids?? Seriously…

    • @AMYP6
      @AMYP6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      BINGOOOOOOO

    • @putamadre1771
      @putamadre1771 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      nah it’s an apology. Move on.

    • @777ynk
      @777ynk หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What would be the difference (genuine question)

  • @adamajobe7337
    @adamajobe7337 หลายเดือนก่อน +554

    “Quick PSA, Quick acknowledgment” lol
    That’s one way you start an apology!

    • @t.j.m7131
      @t.j.m7131 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

      It was lazy. It was dismissive. It was like oh well I have to say something or else these women will notice but the guys get it

    • @noitall93
      @noitall93 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      What did you want them to do ? Cry ? Beg for forgiveness? Get on their knees ? Get over it 😅😅 it's not that big a deal

    • @tisha6935
      @tisha6935 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Where is the apology 😂

    • @busisiwemadia4682
      @busisiwemadia4682 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      It just shows how much they don't care, and how much they don't realize the magnitude of the damage they have done. Condoning harmful cultural stereotypes isn't something you QUICKLY go over.

    • @adamajobe7337
      @adamajobe7337 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@t.j.m7131thank you!! This exactly

  • @ladonte.X.O
    @ladonte.X.O หลายเดือนก่อน +244

    That podcast was over a month ago. Stand on what you did don’t apologize now. You didn’t think it was an issue for a month y’all laughed with chest there was no discomfort with that joke.

    • @anthonywoodard3802
      @anthonywoodard3802 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      FACTSSSSSS

    • @jenniesmythe8188
      @jenniesmythe8188 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      trueeeeeeee.. if they regretted it they would have apologized right after. made. statement before folks saw it..

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@ladonte.X.O It’s giving fake outrage 🥱 WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, DONT BE LAZY BECAUSE YOU MISSED CRUCIAL CONTEXT. They actually try to get him to change the topic, They are real life introverts…they don’t really speak up and were uncomfortable, I can tell because I am one, you should know this if you are a regular viewer. Also this comedian makes fun of ALL RACES EVERY WEEK, are we adults here or kids?? Seriously…

    • @MrzTeria
      @MrzTeria หลายเดือนก่อน

      Rigghhhhhttt!

    • @ladonte.X.O
      @ladonte.X.O หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@LaliladaAnamina I’ve been watching for years and this isn’t surprising to me. I just don’t need them lying to me like I’m some child. Introvert or not speak up like a man if something bothers you. And I’m familiar with Andrew

  • @anisadlamini6385
    @anisadlamini6385 หลายเดือนก่อน +77

    That wasn't an apology to your black women supporters...you just explained your actions

  • @laurynd4339
    @laurynd4339 หลายเดือนก่อน +272

    While this is nice that this was addressed, assuming that BW would have wanted you to “stand up and kick the cameras down” kind of takes away what you could have simply done that did not need any aggressive response. Yall laughed. Were literally cracking up 😭 I’m just curious as to what about a “that’s not cool,” “that’s not funny,” “please don’t talk about BW that way” felt like too much to yall. I wonder how much this had to do with your willingness and abilities to check another (white) man. Yall chose your own comfort in a room with another (white) man than to stand up for BW. Fine apology, but so telling.

    • @TheStephanieCatherine
      @TheStephanieCatherine หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Honestly that apology wasn't good enough. We helped to get them where they are. We at least deserve a stand alone, sincere, unmonetized video where they look us in the face and not only apologize for the racist shultz stuff but the Atlanta is clapped comments asl well. I'm not even from Atl and I felt a way listening to that. Not to mention all the comments made about nigerians and their different tribes. They needed to completely denounce their association with Shultz and call out his disrespect, especially Fuhad. These guys have a responsibilty to respect the platform they've worked on building and need to be more careful with their audience no matter where they are and who's platform they're on especially when the cameras are on. This episode was hard to get through not going to lie, As a former fan I'm hurt. I had hoped ya'll wouldn't be the victims of a fast rise and hard fall.

    • @EmpressOfExile206
      @EmpressOfExile206 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      And yall showing what losers you are and revealing yourselves as secret haters instead of fans is telling 👏🏾
      1. It was a JOKE not an opinion piece lmao
      2. They laughed because that's their natural coping response... There are people that will literally laugh at death not because "they find it funny" but because it's their only coping mechanism... That doesn't detract from their character *at all* 💯
      3. Tbh they ain't owe nobody 💩 lmao
      If _anyone_ should be "apologizing" it's Andrew

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Black women are their own worst enemy. They only apologised because of their bag. Black women are the reason these two buck broken males are where they are today. Then they go on Andrew Shulz Flagrant interview and couldn't even defend the women who built up their brand. If Black women stay subscribed after seeing that, they are complacent in their own abuse.

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@TheStephanieCatherine💯💯💯

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@EmpressOfExile206Oh look, a loser and enabler. You probably feel 10feet taller when other women are being degraded.

  • @siobhanmcfadden3434
    @siobhanmcfadden3434 หลายเดือนก่อน +204

    Delighted to see Ellis and this amount of interaction with him. 🥰

    • @capri91
      @capri91 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I was thinking the same. 😊 It's probably just because Rem isn't there, but I'll take it! Lol

  • @tai8811
    @tai8811 หลายเดือนก่อน +270

    That wasn't an apology .. that was excuses and justifications.

    • @ItuKapeng
      @ItuKapeng หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Disagree watching it they laughed out uncomfortability

    • @Winedineandrhyme
      @Winedineandrhyme หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Good cus they shouldn't apologize for laughing at jokes.

    • @mansamussa1552
      @mansamussa1552 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Who cares 🤣😑 unless u are from atl too

    • @isaacthethird3007
      @isaacthethird3007 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Then leave ,stop watching them then😂😂

    • @sydoneyseaton2255
      @sydoneyseaton2255 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Move on....go and try cancel someone else.

  • @starsaligned8440
    @starsaligned8440 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I was having a really shitty day today and I watched this video and I feel so much better. Thank you so much ❤ I know you guys are in a lot of controversy right now and I did watch that podcast but I literally felt like that guy was baiting and had racial undertones either how he told those “jokes”. While I understand the points people in the fanbase have been making I also think that we should try to not forget about all the good times over one mistake. People please remember the joy and enjoyment these guys bring. Comedians push the boundaries all the time with races jokes and we laugh but it’s because they aren’t actually racist. That other podcaster was a weirdo and racist. Let’s agree to not hang out with weirdos or support them but y’all it’s been obvious this whole time that SNG love black women. That never changed.

  • @tariamitchell1323
    @tariamitchell1323 หลายเดือนก่อน +355

    Andrew was able to successfully bait y’all into looking bad in order to eliminate some of the podcast competition and sadly it worked. As a Black woman, someone who has been a loyal listener, Patreon subscriber, and someone who attended the Philly show on tour this truly hurts and idk if this “acknowledgement” is doing it for me.😕

    • @eseoghene27ighorae59
      @eseoghene27ighorae59 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts like call him out properly do a live getting him to apologise cos that dickhead knew what he was doing and turned your fan base against you.

    • @MaxineShaw_84
      @MaxineShaw_84 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      Unfortunately, it's the first sentence that may actually get through to them. 💯 Tactical on Andrew's part and I have little sympathy since a lot of Black folks bailed on that dude a while ago. Them even going on the podcast mirrors this delayed apology; money first.

    • @msmagicity_
      @msmagicity_ หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      I've heard James talk about being a fan of flagrant, they knew what they were walking into. I only watched that episode for them and it was uncomfortable to get through tbh

    • @tehrealnapstar
      @tehrealnapstar หลายเดือนก่อน

      It hurts? 😂😂😂 Jesus why are you so fragile, go and watch Sesame Street if you so easily offended. And Schulz didn’t do anything on purpose, he’s a comedian that made a joke and people laughed, always a victim mentality 😂

    • @bibar7
      @bibar7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Yes. He has always been very racist and he baited them into undermining themselves. Sad to see, but seeing them laugh so hard like that… I can’t forget it.

  • @cocorose16
    @cocorose16 หลายเดือนก่อน +238

    I could see how uncomfortable y’all were. I laugh when I’m nervous when I should probably do something different. I’m still going to watch and be a CB etc. Thanks for addressing it. Hopefully other podcasters in America don’t put you in a position like that in the future. Met you guys at a meet and greet in Charlotte and you were nothing but kind and awesome. Sending love and support.

    • @MissSunshine_xo
      @MissSunshine_xo หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Only apologised cause there was backlash but this aint the first time

    • @LB-xw5ks
      @LB-xw5ks หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@MissSunshine_xoshouldn’t of been backlash in the first place

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes keep lining their pockets 😊

    • @Blullaby
      @Blullaby หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@mariabrown6926
      But why are YOU here? Your views and engagement in the comments help line their pockets too. Don't you know that ? Or did you know but still clicked on that video without knowing what they'd talk about to find something to b!tch about ? Is your life that boring? You have no moral high ground. If you can't stand content creators, don't watch their content. You're not held hostage and you're neither wanted nor needed here (:

    • @piperlewis5533
      @piperlewis5533 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you know they use your black pound or dollar to take their non black or white girlfriends on dates? Carry on, they don’t even find women who look like you attractive, but go on CoCo

  • @sheree_bb3950
    @sheree_bb3950 หลายเดือนก่อน +241

    This is so true, I watched and even when he kept going on about Nigerians and Africans. ..incredibly hard situation to be in. Learning curve is all

    • @TheAnnej73
      @TheAnnej73 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      Learning curve is the truth. I think it would help them to do more research on the podcasts they go on in the future.

    • @pedrosernagiotto2577
      @pedrosernagiotto2577 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      I started watching it, and that first part about Nigerians and the jokes Andrew was making were physically uncomfortable for me. I skipped a a couple of times, but still couldn’t get past the first few minutes and had to charge it.

    • @TheAnnej73
      @TheAnnej73 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@pedrosernagiotto2577 I can relate. I watch a lot of the collabs they do...I like to support and I couldn't get through that one at all. It hurt my feelings.

    • @pedrosernagiotto2577
      @pedrosernagiotto2577 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@TheAnnej73 Same for me. I watched most of the collabs they did, and they usually bang. From the ones in the US, the Kevonstage one is probably my favorite. But this time, i just couldn’t get through, especially seeing how visibly uncomfortable James and Fuhad were. Made me remember the Shane Gills episode on their podcast, which they kept making fun of Down syndrome people by comparing them to Shane and laughing about it, thinking he would go along because he has a lot of jokes involving Down syndrome, but he stood up for them and said that shit wasn’t funny, and that making jokes involving Down syndrome and making fun of people with Down syndrome isn’t the same, but Andrew and the guys doubled down. I was like “yeah, this is probably going from bad to worse so I’ll stop here”.

    • @SapphireJann
      @SapphireJann หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Even me I couldn’t finish the episode at all

  • @FirstLast-lw5wh
    @FirstLast-lw5wh หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Andrew already threw y’all under the bus and made a reaction laughing at y’all

  • @ericaberner3426
    @ericaberner3426 หลายเดือนก่อน +659

    My Caucasian husband saw it and clocked the blatant disrespect Andrew had towards black women. I could also see from the clip you all are not empowered enough to make a stand in the moment. Some phrases to consider using next time this happens around you:
    “What an odd thing to say, to me”
    “I thought you were a comedian… 🤨?”
    “ 😐”
    .. or just simply stand up and excuse yourself

    • @professlch6347
      @professlch6347 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      They are absolute powerless. It's a horrifying sight to see: adult males so OWNED.

    • @anthonywoodard3802
      @anthonywoodard3802 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      they didn’t mind it when being on a large American podcast platform promoted their show. now that people are pointing at the episode they are trying to save face.

    • @nadiasharnelle
      @nadiasharnelle หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@anthonywoodard3802 that part, that part, that part, THAT PART 💯

    • @woodcrest4655
      @woodcrest4655 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      save it bed"wrench"

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@ericaberner3426 What is insincere is the fake outrage from people who don’t even know their names but ran here from a 20 second clip on social media, it’s so fake and corny and fake. This is how us Brits talk, we don’t cry when we apologise like Americans. Any regular viewer would realise these guys are real life INTROVERTS, I know a nervous laugh when I see it. If you watched the POD you’d have seen that they tried to make the best of a terrible American host. Most people didn’t even watch the whole thing it’s boring now.

  • @djji15dj
    @djji15dj หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    It literally made me cry. 😢it was hard to watch. Honestly glad you said something but it sucks I hope this is a lesson learned for you. All money ain’t good money. Black women really stand 10 toes down in this world with no protection.

    • @ThatGirlDai
      @ThatGirlDai หลายเดือนก่อน

      What was the video on i havent seen it

    • @KaeMaiden
      @KaeMaiden หลายเดือนก่อน

      Black women are the reason these two buck broken males are where they are today. Then they go on Andrew Shulz Flagrant interview and couldn't even defend the women who built up their brand. If Black women stay subscribed after seeing that, you are complacent in your own abuse.

    • @e.blue37
      @e.blue37 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ThatGirlDai Basically they were clowning black women, letting two men outside of our race dog us, while they laughed. And then they went to Atlanta and said they didn't find any of the women there attractive.

    • @noitall93
      @noitall93 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      You cried ? Dam your sensitive, this world is going to chew you up and spit you out boo, you need to toughen up

    • @Girthqueen
      @Girthqueen หลายเดือนก่อน

      You cried? lol get over it

  • @TainaNixon
    @TainaNixon หลายเดือนก่อน +196

    The problem I have with this is that I’ve previously heard you guys talk about admiring/liking Andrew Schulz. You knew exactly what he was like when you went on that show (going in the first place was a wildly questionable choice). And still you were “unprepared” to stand up to him when he made awful “jokes” about the largest demographic represented in your audience. Make better choices.

    • @peds8345
      @peds8345 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How was it questionable?

    • @cornpop7176
      @cornpop7176 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Andrew makes jokes about every demographic. Why should black women be excluded?

    • @michaelhxhdhdjdj
      @michaelhxhdhdjdj หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I dont think ur apology is enough, as a black man.. and i know ur black too but when i SEEN YOU LAUGH! At a fucking joke like that!! It deeply affected me and you should have protected me! As ur fan u should have protected me! An apology is not enough. But if you will pay reporations for not protecting me and ive seen u laugh in 0.5x it was harrowing i can not get over it. Reporations may help tho plz reply too this and ill pass u my details too help the pain❤😭

    • @Emotionaldamage999
      @Emotionaldamage999 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Muuufuka is you a man or a female? Change your picture 🥷

    • @JulianY2K12
      @JulianY2K12 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@cornpop7176ironically, being around adults who can't even take a joke would be quite stressful 😅

  • @Randomzerog123
    @Randomzerog123 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Apologizing to people on the internet is like throwing stones in a bottomless well, only answer is to always ignore the well cause it well never be enough, the apology will never be good enough . .
    U men ya didnt make the joke, and keep doing your thing

    • @Abdullah_92
      @Abdullah_92 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Finally, a reasonable comment 👏

    • @sheashea3979
      @sheashea3979 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      They're just jokes and if you can't laugh at yourself then life is way too serious for that individual.

  • @eunicelartey3383
    @eunicelartey3383 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    4:08 watched the entire flagrant video and it was obvious James and Fuhad where uncomfortable throughout. They even mentioned at the end that they have discussed alot of thing they have no business talking about.
    That being said Black women deserve a better apology than the one given in this video.

    • @poerava
      @poerava หลายเดือนก่อน

      FOH man. These two need to grow a spine.

  • @tiffyglasgow8104
    @tiffyglasgow8104 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    I didn't immediately jump on the hate train simply because I as a black woman myself have made similar mistakes due to being in an uncomfortable position and regretted while and after doing it. IF they never acknowledged it then I would feel different but unlearning behaviors that are ingrained into us from young is difficult

    • @kumikor3392
      @kumikor3392 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Yeah, I have been in a similar situation being surrounded by European Americans that say the MOST uncomfortable things, and I would feel so alone and -a bit -scared to stand up for myself.
      I think that happened mostly when I was a teenager. After I graduated, I really had to grow up and be the voice I wish I had as a child. I realized that my inability to speak up would only put the next black woman at a disadvantage.

    • @bertholdboye8293
      @bertholdboye8293 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes. Thank you

    • @mariabrown6926
      @mariabrown6926 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Have you laughed along when someone was mocking and disparaging bw? Because that's what they did.

    • @Madddarma
      @Madddarma หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@mariabrown6926let people live and grow, you should mention something you did that we should cancel you for if you're feeling brave

    • @rosa61217
      @rosa61217 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes, I have had uncomfortable laughter. Fight or flight is real. You Are in shock, you don't agree, you don't want to cause a seen. There is a lot to calculate in those situations.
      Why are you acting like Andrew wasn't disrespectful to black men as well, they dealt with that the same way. They honestly had more push back for Andrew's *multiple* attempts to disparrage black women.
      Why aren't y'all cancelling Andrew???

  • @bibar7
    @bibar7 หลายเดือนก่อน +304

    I’m sorry. There are yall were laughing SO hard at. No awkward chuckles, but full out guffaws. It was honestly hurtful. Y’all are going to need to do a lot better before this apology means anything.

    • @EmilyTony87
      @EmilyTony87 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I can't speak for these guys, but I know when I'm really uncomfortable I laugh, like belly laugh and it becomes uncontrollable. I don't know if that was the case here but I mean I ha e watched a fair bit if the episode they are speaking on now and they did look uncomfortable and like they didn't really know what to say. It was a bad move going on that podcast x

    • @luvandi715
      @luvandi715 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@EmilyTony87no babes they were laughing with their chest like it was not a nervous laugh. But these men literally stated they don’t laugh when something isn’t funny. So they are full of shi

    • @cynthiabii6106
      @cynthiabii6106 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@luvandi715faaacts they've said that a lot of times

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@EmilyTony87 agreed, as an introvert, I could see it from the first 10 seconds, introverts don’t speak up!! People are so weird, they didn’t even watch the full video for full context

    • @SHRTBSS
      @SHRTBSS หลายเดือนก่อน

      They not begging forgiveness for a cardinal sin. You mf should’ve just a “sorry you bxtxhes feel a way”

  • @ryanmcknight9999
    @ryanmcknight9999 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey guys, I support you and there is accountability here. They’re being vulnerable here and explaining what happened. If anyone can’t see an apology here, then imagine you’re talking to them face to face, with cameras on, and see how you react while you demand more of them

  • @MissSunshine_xo
    @MissSunshine_xo หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    That interview was a month ago and only an apology when it is on shadeborough, u didnt just laugh but fuhad even said it was hilarious

    • @noitall93
      @noitall93 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fuhad is black though , what dies it matter if he laughed at a black joke, that's like an Asian being offended when another asian makes a ching chong joke ... so ?

    • @aleshasinclair8529
      @aleshasinclair8529 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Precisely

    • @headieonetwo
      @headieonetwo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ngl he just be saying hilarious for everything, its like bro got a soundboard of things to regurgitate when someone intends to say something funny. not defending him at all tho, they shouldn't have collabed with that guy in the first place

    • @tehrealnapstar
      @tehrealnapstar หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Because it was funny…… and they shouldn’t apologise

    • @MissSunshine_xo
      @MissSunshine_xo หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@tehrealnapstar ok Edward 🙄

  • @pryncesscleo
    @pryncesscleo หลายเดือนก่อน +309

    The way I literally stopped watching the podcast with Andrew because I felt like something was off, but NOT because of you guys. Either way You guys are learning, you’re acknowledging and that’s all that that matters.

    • @2elmofan
      @2elmofan หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I also had the same reaction I love watching them on other videos but something felt off and I had to turn it off

    • @vanyaallen9080
      @vanyaallen9080 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Exactly this… never finished watching it, just felt like they weren’t themselves and the interview was baiting them.. wished they had just said.. thanks but no thanks and left!!

    • @2elmofan
      @2elmofan หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@vanyaallen9080 yess and not to defend them but I did notice they were uncomfortable and they did continue to try to change to the next topic

    • @megankillough6293
      @megankillough6293 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same! You could tell they were uncomfortable multiple times and I was uncomfortable for them.

    • @Sly13hawk
      @Sly13hawk หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      This was the comment I was looking for. Glad I wasn’t alone in feeling that the vibes were off

  • @jdg7515
    @jdg7515 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    As a Black American man, I don't play about my people! Sadly, I might have to put this podcast on timeout until things are actually made right.
    This is by no means an irredeemable situation but y'all have so many eyes on you right now watching your next moves so the ball is in your court. Best of luck!

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It’s giving fake outrage 🥱 WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, DONT BE LAZY BECAUSE YOU MISSED CRUCIAL CONTEXT. They actually try to get him to change the topic, They are real life introverts…they don’t really speak up and were uncomfortable, I can tell because I am one, you should know this if you are a regular viewer. Also this comedian makes fun of ALL RACES EVERY WEEK, are we adults here or kids?? Seriously…

    • @jdg7515
      @jdg7515 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@LaliladaAnamina My bad I didn't realize this podcast was putting food on your table and you knew them personally because that's the only reason you should have this much to say about my comment. I expressed my opinion. The podcast isn't ending and you can still enjoy it as much as you want. I said IIIII am taking a break. Didn't tell anyone else what to do and I hope to come back sometime but I need some reassurances. ✌🏿

    • @Bblauu
      @Bblauu หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@LaliladaAnaminastop - there is no ‘crucial context’ missing, I watched the whole episode. Entire podcast was wierd.
      Both boys have made similar comments themselves in the past, and Andrew has been known to act out of pocket so they also shouldn’t act surprised..

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jdg7515 and I expressed mine. Simple :)

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Bblauu Either way, it might not apply to you but for me What is insincere is the fake outrage from people who don’t even know their names but ran here from a 20 second clip on social media, it’s so fake and corny and fake. This is how us Brits talk, we don’t cry when we apologise like Americans. Any regular viewer would realise these guys are real life INTROVERTS, I know a nervous laugh when I see it. If you watched the POD you’d have seen that they tried to make the best of a terrible American host. Most people didn’t even watch the whole thing it’s boring now.

  • @yikesjmill7599
    @yikesjmill7599 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    That apology can't be real lmaoooo. If so that's pretty weak 🤣🤣

  • @mcaug07
    @mcaug07 หลายเดือนก่อน +479

    To know that you sat comfortably perpendicular to a white man who jokingly disrespected black women-black women that looks like your mother, grandmother, aunties, sisters, cousins, and friends. And not say a word but laugh in harmony with another black man is everything we needed to see. People are upset but people like myself are relived that the truest of colors were exposed. I hope the feedback you both receive are transformative but I’m not expecting much. This apology is saving face, from the body language to the lack of eye contact to the camera.

    • @BrendaOjunga
      @BrendaOjunga หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I agree with a lot you have said. There is a power you take when you walk away from a situation. I'm a great fan of both gents...even attended their tour but this was extremely disappointing. Andrew kept going with multiple insults and they sat there laughing along. It makes you wonder a lot about their character. Black women are the most unprotected group in America, and when you see 2 talented black men with such a platform make a mockery of them, it's heartbreaking. This is it for me. It was a good run. In hindsight.....I guess we shouldn't be too surprised. " All skin folk ain't kin folk."

    • @eyanandaahmed308
      @eyanandaahmed308 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      i’m shocked at the comments that are eating this up. but then again they must also be black men who don’t see anything wrong with what they said, or non black people not really caring.

    • @Queenie104
      @Queenie104 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Right. These comments eating this up makes me sick.

    • @JurgenFlop
      @JurgenFlop หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      You are going way over the top, it’s simply comedy if you take it and are easily offended don’t watch it

    • @10TomMead
      @10TomMead หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They’re literally both black?

  • @brittany_geneva
    @brittany_geneva หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Appreciate yall addressing things at the top still left a lot to be desired. As a Black woman, and knowing how many Black women support you as evidenced by how we showed up to your DC shows, the apology could’ve been a lot more forceful and sincere. It sort of just checked the minimum boxes. And didn’t mention us specifically despite us being the most hurt in the situation.

    • @lisam7203
      @lisam7203 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That part. And then ending it with “anyway”
      This should have been a separate video, not sandwiched within a monetized video. Shows you how sincere they really are.

  • @AmazonianMorgan
    @AmazonianMorgan หลายเดือนก่อน +346

    Thank you for addressing. We have to love, protect and support black women, always, even when it is difficult. In the states we don’t get much support in various rooms. We look for communities that have our back.
    ❤ thank you James & Fuhad for the apology.

    • @EndevourMan-gz8nl
      @EndevourMan-gz8nl หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      They handled it well… there’s literally nothing for them to apologise for. They never agreed with Shultz on the things he was saying and considering Shultz is a comedian… they just laughed and kept it pushing. What were people expecting them to do? Get mad & start throwing hands? Shultz said what he said but James and Fuhad handled it as well as they possibly could. Many black women and men saying that they’re ’disappointed’ in them is just ridiculous.

    • @greyscalesx
      @greyscalesx หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      ​@EndevourMan-gz8nl We can be disappointed all we want, keep your toxic dismissiveness to yourself. They are ppl & if they felt like they messed up, it's normal they adress it.
      Disappointed is legit & pretty light criticism in the first place.
      Don't act like we rioted & tried to cancel them.

    • @Mehj-r9e
      @Mehj-r9e หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@EndevourMan-gz8nl So your white man opinion is that we shouldn’t be insulted that people are laughing at jokes about us

    • @Black-Moustache
      @Black-Moustache หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Mehj-r9e He has to be white for not agreeing with you? 🤡

    • @EndevourMan-gz8nl
      @EndevourMan-gz8nl หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@greyscalesx If anything… you’re dismissing everything I said. I explained why they didn’t do anything wrong, and welcome any counter argument to what I said. James & Fuhad were shamed into making a response. I’ve seen many comments and videos about Shxts&Gigs saying ‘UNSUBSCRIBED’, I just saw the Shultz podcast clips and I can’t believe you guys. I’m unsubscribing’, etc. If they felt they did anything wrong, they would have addressed it instantly. The podcast was released over month ago. The truth is, black viewers went after them and kept attacking them over it, to the point where they HAD to address it, and apologies for doing nothing wrong. It was all Shultz… James & Fuhad didn’t support anything he said. So now… from here into the future, every time black women are brought up in any way to these guys… it’s going to be an uncomfortable topic… where it never had to be that way. That’s on you and all the people who attacked them for doing something unforgivable even though they didn’t do anything. Congrats. Way to make black women an uncomfortable subject of conversation to even be involved in… because even the slightest slip-up or mistake results in an attack and ‘unsubscribe’ or ‘betrayal’ comments.

  • @jarrodtollison3530
    @jarrodtollison3530 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    An apology ain’t an apology if you won’t outline what you’re apologising for.

  • @moonchildtrendz
    @moonchildtrendz หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I literally NEVER comment, but I loved hearing Ellis in this pod. Idk if I’ve heard him talk as much. Love you ellsss 💗💗💗

  • @blending_in
    @blending_in หลายเดือนก่อน +1458

    I didn't even know about the controversy but I'm glad they're taking accountability

    • @EndevourMan-gz8nl
      @EndevourMan-gz8nl หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      @@blending_in What did they do wrong? They didn’t support anything Shultz said.

    • @billwooten5263
      @billwooten5263 หลายเดือนก่อน +71

      You didnt know about the controversy because there wasnt one lol.

    • @BethAnn-ti2pk
      @BethAnn-ti2pk หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      ​@EndevourMan-gz8nl, and they didn't say anything that was the problem

    • @tajmacameron1693
      @tajmacameron1693 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me neither 😔

    • @Envlo
      @Envlo หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I didn’t know about any controversy but I did see someone make a whole long video discussing whether SNG like black women.

  • @ashlinelson6085
    @ashlinelson6085 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    You’re not sorry for why you did. You’re sorry we had a problem with it. Y’all said before y’all don’t laugh unless the shits funny to you and y’all were CACKLING. Don’t give fake halfass apologies just because you got caught. The lack of eye contact is VERY telling. Y’all did and said exactly what y’all meant, don’t back track now.

    • @jonin4857
      @jonin4857 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup. Fuhad.

  • @jwbuckley
    @jwbuckley หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Daddy is shook at potentially losing that bag! It’s jarrin’! Say less, literally. Raaaaah!

  • @chitchatwithtrice2191
    @chitchatwithtrice2191 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    We as a people have to learn how to stand on business and not appease disrespectful behavior. They thought it was ok. By laughing, yall affirmed it. When entering these shared spaces we have to be mindful we aren't always on the same time

    • @scovyaporsha
      @scovyaporsha หลายเดือนก่อน

      Excuse me Everyone.. How do we get this Channel Demonitised....Let's see These idiots laugh at blaq women then ..💔

  • @JuniorUziogon.Uz23
    @JuniorUziogon.Uz23 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    I saw that thy were uncomfortable on that podcast

    • @G254611
      @G254611 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hear! Hear!❤
      I saw that too😢

    • @pacificaharlem4137
      @pacificaharlem4137 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      They still laughed their hearts out.

    • @peterparker_78
      @peterparker_78 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@pacificaharlem4137people make mistakes. Stop trying to cancel people

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@JuniorUziogon.Uz23 exactly. It’s giving fake outrage 🥱 I’m telling people, WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, DONT BE LAZY BECAUSE YOU MISSED CRUCIAL CONTEXT. They actually try to get him to change the topic, They are real life introverts…they don’t really speak up and were uncomfortable, I can tell because I am one, you should know this if you are a regular viewer. Also this comedian makes fun of ALL RACES EVERY WEEK, are we adults here or kids?? Seriously…

    • @chidiebereadagba5372
      @chidiebereadagba5372 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@LaliladaAnamina, thank you. Everyone keeps saying i couldn't watch it, I clicked off. If you watch till the end, James was passive aggressive to Andrew. Aakash tried to get them comfortable. I suppose its SnG's turn to get cancelled.

  • @tstreet0225
    @tstreet0225 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’m very glad that you guys addressed this because I was hurt. It felt like a breakup so thank you for this ❤

  • @Morelove2424
    @Morelove2424 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To be a black woman is so hard. Each day you wake up you have to choose to love the color of your skin. I am 27 years old and it took me years to love my skin. My blackness is not a joke but this “apology” certainly was.

  • @KeekeOuttaDere
    @KeekeOuttaDere หลายเดือนก่อน +429

    Coming from a black woman I didn’t even get that from yall. it was cringey on his part. i could tell they were visually uncomfortable and trying to guide him to a different topic and he kept brining it back to race. i didn’t finish his podcast.. i went to y’all patreon page and i watched the content on there. We know our zaddys! LOVE LOVE LOVE!

    • @Elle_Lowe
      @Elle_Lowe หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Same. I hated that guy and did not find it funny at all

    • @Kuro-02
      @Kuro-02 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Same, tbh I’ve been watching Flagrant for a long time and it used to be much better, hadn’t watched it for a while until SNG came on and I personally couldn’t make it through the episode. It just wasn’t really funny and the boys seemed uncomfortable. Andrew kept bringing it back to race stuff, the typical one off joke here or there used to be funny but he was overdoing it on that episode.

    • @angelafletcher8316
      @angelafletcher8316 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      I watched the entire Flagrant interview. There was a point when James actually called Andrew out for being racist. Andrew asked James & Fuhad who was their top 5 celebrity crush or something like that. James said Meg Thee Stallion and Andrew seemed so offended that he named her. And Andrew kept trying to get James to change his answer. James and Fuhad doubled down and called him out. I wish that clip was going viral

    • @diddy033
      @diddy033 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@angelafletcher8316 its literally a comedian, performing a bit, Schulz does and says shit like that to make people like you think he means it and he is promoting it. You "woke" offended culture people are really s naive and gullible. Schulz is a genius, you keyboard warriors ALWAYS comment, post, and try and put him on blast every time... CLICKS FOR YA BOY and thats why he sells out ARENAS hahah youre all oblivious

    • @TheFaro2011
      @TheFaro2011 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same. (Not black girl though) But I couldn't watch the podcast. So awks.

  • @adrnicole
    @adrnicole หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    I feel like your PR executive could’ve directed you better on this one

    • @scovyaporsha
      @scovyaporsha หลายเดือนก่อน

      Their PR Person must be a White Woman. This Apology wasn't it . Community? TF?

  • @zxhra.13
    @zxhra.13 หลายเดือนก่อน +191

    19:45 that subtle look down at Ellis had me on the floor, the VAR 😭😭💀

  • @msj3031
    @msj3031 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    People, including the folks criticizing the guys find themselves in situations where in the moment, they don't know how to react to a situation. There's a reason they say that hindsight is 20/20.
    A lot of the criticism has been excessively harsh with people making unfair assumptions because their hurt.
    You acknowledged, apologized and leaned from the incident. For some that's not enough because nothing is ever enough for some folks. Keep it pushing.

  • @afizatadams4059
    @afizatadams4059 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    Ngl you could tell they wasn’t feeling that whole podcast with Andrew

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@afizatadams4059 he real ones can, the fake outrage attention seekers don’t.

    • @pagesofDawn
      @pagesofDawn หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yet they still went through with it, knew it was coming out, didn't prepare anything like a statement, etc, before coming out.
      They are all talk, maybe people will wake up and not listen now.

    • @cindy_love_
      @cindy_love_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@pagesofDawn its so easy to say what they couldve done. *Sigh*..

  • @maggie8572
    @maggie8572 หลายเดือนก่อน +375

    As Black Brit men, you know how overt the racism in the US is. The first few minutes of Flagrant were unbearable to watch. I understand not everyone handles uncomfortable situations the same, but you have a very large platform made up mostly of a large African diaspora. While an apology was made to the community, an apology should have also been made to Black women, as they are seen as the butt of all jokes. I can only hope that this experience has given you an understanding of who you are, who supports you and what you tolerate and allow. Hopefully next time, you can call out racism immediately and remove yourself from spaces that in turn, make jokes about you, as you are also affected by them.

    • @maddamqueen4051
      @maddamqueen4051 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      That's what I thought at first until I saw the rest of the interview " Which Africans are the lazy ones" , that was an actually conversation they took part of, they owe everyone an apology. smh

    • @vawnr6435
      @vawnr6435 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And black women. The pour minds interview in Atlanta had sprinkles aswel..

    • @LaliladaAnamina
      @LaliladaAnamina หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@maggie8572 It’s giving fake outrage 🥱 I’m telling people to WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO, DONT BE LAZY BECAUSE YOU MISSED CRUCIAL CONTEXT. They actually try to get him to change the topic, They are real life introverts…they don’t really speak up and were uncomfortable, I can tell because I am one, you should know this if you are a regular viewer. Also this comedian makes fun of ALL RACES EVERY WEEK, are we adults here or kids?? Seriously…

    • @Chibbykins
      @Chibbykins หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@LaliladaAnamina they knew what he was about before they went on his show. They wanted views at the expense of their many black female fans and now they're getting pushback. If other races want to protest they can

    • @maggie8572
      @maggie8572 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      ​@@LaliladaAnamina You assumed that I didn't watch the whole video. Right now you are missing the context of my comment which includes knowing and understanding who they are and when to remove themselves from situations that could affect them as this one. Constructive criticism and fake outrage are two different scopes. I am not going to pretend like I know them irl. I am an introvert as well, & as their age mates, we have been conditioned for time to allow certain comments to fly in the name of "jokes" but having a platform like theirs that is made up, especially of Black & African women in 2024, is damaging. Your comment is translating as minimising Black experiences just because Andrew makes jokes at the expense of others. Oh and been a regular viewer of jump.

  • @RedHeadWithAhSmile
    @RedHeadWithAhSmile หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    I couldn't really see them in ANY situation saying ANYTHiNG that would disagree/combat/stop the joke. I honestly don't think they would, no matter who said it. Even before the ATL comments, before flagrant, they have the vibe of "we don't really mess with black women," and this just brought a little more attention to it.

  • @JackieRaeTV
    @JackieRaeTV หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    These fake apologies HAVE TO STOP. Time to make these subscriber numbers DROP!!

  • @CaritheEntertainer
    @CaritheEntertainer หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    there is going to be a core fan base that accepts the apology that you guys give no matter what because they’re your core fan base. And then they’re gonna be black women like me that are fans of you guys, but aren’t your core fan base that’s going to acknowledge that you guys ignored several things in that apology. it wasn’t just about you guys laughing it wasn’t just about you guys knocking the cameras down. It was about you guys at no point telling him to stop. It’s about James having clips of himself, talking bad about black women that seems to line up with the way Andrew thinks. There is a large conversation that black men need to have about how they get around white men and do not care about protecting the name of black women. saying it won’t happen again doesn’t mean anything because you guys can’t even plainly say exactly what you did wrong which means you still don’t know.

    • @Fonzworth000
      @Fonzworth000 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What did James say in the clips where he’s talking bad about black women?

    • @siphokazim525
      @siphokazim525 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      talking bad???ive never seen those clips

    • @FilleminYoung
      @FilleminYoung หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Idk about the James clips, but I agree with everything else you said!

    • @XsweetstarliteX
      @XsweetstarliteX หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Valid points

    • @blackstarlet1223
      @blackstarlet1223 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      James hasn’t spoken bad about black women he’s only Spoken about the ones that bullied him… they also said in the apology that they told him behind scenes to stop and move on but Andrew of course edit that out…

  • @Couturah647
    @Couturah647 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Y’all saying y’all saw how uncomfortable they was… I didn’t peep it. Not saying y’all gotta get violent xyz, but the same way y’all was laughing … y’all could’ve set a clear boundary with your words.

  • @012ghost
    @012ghost หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    I was confused seeing them in the reacts spot😭😭

  • @hbo5175
    @hbo5175 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    James can narrate 🔥 The fact that I watched love is blind UK but I could never remember everything like that. It was like watching the show all over again 😍

  • @anele.nsithole5593
    @anele.nsithole5593 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I have not seen the recent cotroversy, but I remember the episode and the comments under the episode. I couldn't even finish it. Glad the gents took ownership. Accountability is the first step, but corrected behaviour is what matters most 💛.

  • @Damianizhim
    @Damianizhim หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    I figured they were uncomfortable in that episode on flagrant, the flagrant gees were quite of sync. We live and learn boys❤

    • @JammmingJammm
      @JammmingJammm หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      i was uncomfortable with them, i dont think i finished the episode cause andrew kept making me feel weird

    • @lateefahgreen5745
      @lateefahgreen5745 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      The whole episode was cringe.

    • @Zia_theLibra
      @Zia_theLibra หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right? I couldnt finish it...​@@JammmingJammm

    • @Damianizhim
      @Damianizhim หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lateefahgreen5745 faaacts

    • @Damianizhim
      @Damianizhim หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JammmingJammm I crawled to the end of the episode gee, one to forget really

  • @dianam.N
    @dianam.N หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Damn I don’t know how I feel about James and Fuhad RN

  • @nairobi_girl5808
    @nairobi_girl5808 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Initially accepted the apology, then I realized that they should apologize to themselves. It is perfectly ok prefer certain physical attributes in a partner even if those attributes are not found within your own race but to let someone speak ill of your people is actually disrespecting yourself. We have a saying here, Mwacha mila ni mtumwa. Loosely translates, "He/ she who abandons his/ her culture/ people is a slave". Dating outside your race is ok, but forgetting who you are is not. Andrew would not let any light shine on black people, he talked about Nigerians with Fuhad sitting right there, they brought up the black wife effect and he would not have it. I'll say to them what they once said to someone "You don't respect yourselves so how can I respect you".

  • @ladylevell5915
    @ladylevell5915 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    Actions speak louder than words. Notice they say our community and nothing about blk wm, who were the targets. The actions show we are again an afterthought. 💔

    • @asyaseraphin
      @asyaseraphin หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They did @ 0:36 and they said community bc majority of their community is black/black women

    • @ladylevell5915
      @ladylevell5915 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @asyaseraphin They apologized like children that got caught. A real apology would have been specific. It was blk women they let a white man disparage. So look at the camera and say blk wmn we are sorry. Let us prove we support you. Instead we got a half as apology. One to remind us of the smiles they had to hide when that white man said they preferred white women while putting us down. In 2024 these men don't know when to stand up and walk out. Apparently not when blk wm are being trashed. We are tired, we want a safe space to rest.

    • @ladylevell5915
      @ladylevell5915 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They apologized like children who got caught . They needed to be specific. Look at the camera and say blk wm we are sorry. Let us prove we support you. Instead, we received a half ass apology. One to remind us of the smiles they tried to hide when a white man said they preferred white women, right after letting him trash us. In 2024, those men don't know how to stand up and walk out. Apparently not, when it comes to blk women. We are tired, and we want a safe space to rest.

    • @tehrealnapstar
      @tehrealnapstar หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares, go cry somewhere else if you so easily offended

  • @werid386
    @werid386 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I love seeing more Ellis n i hope Rems okay

  • @r_mudiwa
    @r_mudiwa หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    19:25 "Roll of socks" 🤣🤣🤣 thats next level description😂😂😂

    • @althompson3451
      @althompson3451 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I literally watched this bit as I read your comment 😂😂

  • @ChenCat-su2tw
    @ChenCat-su2tw หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    They probably won't read this but just in case:
    As a man, I have a ton of things I said and did that hurt women. Some out of bro-police pressure and some for not caring at the time.
    Acknowledging you messed up is not enough, you need to show the women you hurt that you know exactly what was wrong with what you did. You need to show that you see and understand what was the harm that was caused.
    And, in my opinion, the most important thing - YOU NEED TO DO BETTER, SHOW OTHER MEN THAT IT'S NOT OK TO TALK SH*T ABOUT WOMEN.
    If you want to fix the backlash so much, own it, do the work to be better and show it to us.
    The only reason I'm still subscribed is to see if you did anything to be better men. If this gets swiped under the rug I won't stay here for long.

  • @URAQT46
    @URAQT46 หลายเดือนก่อน +163

    I love Ellis’s innocence 😊 he said 100 mil. The boys said 🗣️YOURE WRONG! 😂

  • @xyz_cs
    @xyz_cs หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    The Crack, The Pipe & The Flame had me on the fucking floor, what a generational quote LMFAOO

  • @Haveahollyjollylife
    @Haveahollyjollylife หลายเดือนก่อน +518

    First few mins of this episode are why I keep coming back to this show. You both described how black women feel in America near constantly. Thank you for vocalizing how weird and polarizing it can get over here. You are both truly two of the best podcasters in the game ✊🏾

    • @XsweetstarliteX
      @XsweetstarliteX หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      black women in england feel the same

    • @lovemachinko8573
      @lovemachinko8573 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Yep, it’s a fucken land mine for us every time we come outside

    • @jessicacartier1841
      @jessicacartier1841 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      They can save that fake ahh apololie. They don't want to lose the black women viewership.

    • @taylormae4605
      @taylormae4605 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jessicacartier1841cause everybody knows we’re gonna show up

    • @jayrod1340
      @jayrod1340 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They do the same thing but because they’re black it’s funny but because Andrew is white it’s hurtful, and racist

  • @brannongarrison8536
    @brannongarrison8536 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Haters gunna hate...they have their part to play like everyone else... KEEP YALLS HEADS UP AND KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO YALL ARE AWESOME!!

  • @GMS-oo1qv
    @GMS-oo1qv หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Nice seeing Ellis getting involved in convo like this. 16:03 Ellis confidence is clearly on the rise

  • @naturallyrandom413
    @naturallyrandom413 หลายเดือนก่อน +63

    A lot of people wasn’t even a fan. They don’t even watch and made response videos. I feel like real fans knew what it was. My loyalty never wavered. Love my daddies.

    • @juanitagrey5610
      @juanitagrey5610 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I’ve been a fan and been to a live show. That man didn’t only speak on black women while everyone laughed… He became their DADDY and made them his sons. It was sad. Mockery everywhere. He felt way to comfy talking to them like that

    • @luna8411
      @luna8411 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      did we watch the same video? they literally laughed with their chest and this is not the only time they've "joked" about black women. y'all please stand up and stop paying into these people who don't like you!! parasocial relationships are weird

    • @naturallyrandom413
      @naturallyrandom413 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It’s not that serious to me. It all tickles me. None of this stuff defines me or how I see myself. I really don’t care about what was said. Leave me da fuq alone. I love James and Fuhad, not for them. I don’t know them. I love the shits and gigs podcast. I love their banter, the jokes, the dark humor. What the fuq is parasocial about that. If it hurt you so much why are you over here commenting?

    • @luna8411
      @luna8411 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@naturallyrandom413 “I love James and Fuhad” let’s step back and look at how sad this sounds honestly. I’m not saying you shouldn’t love them, I’m just pointing out how clear the blatant self hatred is here. This is quite literally one of the main reasons why black women will never gain any respect anywhere. You see the disrespect and you take it, Why? Seriously, why are you choosing to stand for two men who ridicules and uses you as the butt of jokes? Lmk 🙏

    • @naturallyrandom413
      @naturallyrandom413 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@luna8411 self hate???? You have no idea who I am. You don’t know me. You so called woke people annoy the crap outta me. What was said on that show does not affect me mentally, emotionally or otherwise. So who are you to tell me about me. Shut up man. I love James and Fuhad.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @CRose777
    @CRose777 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yall in the comments can believe this bs apology if yall want to🤦🏽‍♀️.

  • @Peachpocket415
    @Peachpocket415 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If Andrew feels that way about black women, imagine how he feels about the man. People need to learn, not everyone is your friend.

  • @ridhoyemiah
    @ridhoyemiah หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    I swear i watch these guys so much that my thoughts sound like them

    • @Niamhmariephelan
      @Niamhmariephelan หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same 😂

    • @omphile23
      @omphile23 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ohh, oh my lord i thought i was the only one

    • @jonnymayson
      @jonnymayson หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      "Faaaacts"😂😂😂

    • @tailorgill747
      @tailorgill747 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Faaaacts! 🤣

    • @rebbecakpekpena8047
      @rebbecakpekpena8047 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😊😊😊​@@Niamhmariephelan

  • @mekalashay7111
    @mekalashay7111 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    SAVE IT! BW STOP supporting BM who don’t support you! BM don’t have to date you to care and speak up!

    • @j-xc1717
      @j-xc1717 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Boooooooo 🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅🍅 stop it stop it

    • @mekalashay7111
      @mekalashay7111 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@j-xc1717 if you as a BW want to keep supporting that’s you!

    • @cornpop7176
      @cornpop7176 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man you all are soft af. "Oh no someone made a joke about my identity". Meanwhile I bet you laugh at all the jokes about other races. Melanin must make the skin extra thin bc you folks cry about EVERYTHING

    • @michaelhxhdhdjdj
      @michaelhxhdhdjdj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dont think ur apology is enough, as a black man.. and i know ur black too but when i SEEN YOU LAUGH! At a fucking joke like that!! It deeply affected me and you should have protected me! As ur fan u should have protected me! An apology is not enough. But if you will pay reporations for not protecting me and ive seen u laugh in 0.5x it was harrowing i can not get over it. Reporations may help tho plz reply too this and ill pass u my details too help the pain❤😭

    • @mekalashay7111
      @mekalashay7111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@michaelhxhdhdjdj I’m speaking to BW and here you are. You should direct your energy towards Andrew hitler, he baited two blk men and they fell for it.

  • @Czipporah
    @Czipporah หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    An apology over 2 months later... so sincere.... and half these black women will play themselves falling for this rubbish...

    • @RS-vy9qv
      @RS-vy9qv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh the irony. Whooooosh.

    • @j-xc1717
      @j-xc1717 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So are they cancelled to you now or

    • @FirstLast-lw5wh
      @FirstLast-lw5wh หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@j-xc1717not cancelled because that doesn’t actually exist
      But a person is allowed to decide whether or not they wish to support from this point onward

    • @realmaureenoyakhilome
      @realmaureenoyakhilome หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@j-xc1717I won’t ever. I’m sorry . 😊

    • @Czipporah
      @Czipporah หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@j-xc1717 No need to cancel, I never paid them enough attention to give them enough viewership to worry enough about them to cancel... I saw them on another podcast and knew immediately what they were about, they've made comments about black women for a while and I am careful about the men I support on these podcast due to them engaging and collecting support and funds from black women but hating or having a deep disdain from them privately... not much different from other racist who are forced to hide who they are to collect their coins... some fools are just forgiving because they are the type to feel they are a better type of black women... to someone that doesn't care for you due to your race, that isn't a thing, screaming for men to PICK YOU when they openly and happily sit on a couch with a racist to down you is sad and pathetic... they don't see you because they have chosen not to and will never see you, but thanks for the coin.

  • @emmaganta2545
    @emmaganta2545 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Let's be real. Women watch for JAMES due to the colourism in our community and that's why they are successful. They will continue to be successful because our community is OBSESSED with being entertained and we cannot function without a screen in front of us. READ A BOOK! Go for a HIKE! CHANGE THE BATTERIES IN YOUR SMOKE ALARM. LISTEN TO GOSPEL MUSIC OR THE QU'RAN OR WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE IN. NO podcast of men chatting rubbish should have 1.93 million subs. I've probably watched a couple of their clips since I discovered them, but there's a deeper problem here.

    • @tonysmith6166
      @tonysmith6166 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everything you said is spot on 👍🏾

  • @SincerelyYahmina
    @SincerelyYahmina หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I’m glad yall addressed this I was like damn especially going to the show and 75% of us were black woman im just glad yall didn’t ignore this

    • @mickael8163
      @mickael8163 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      I’m sorry but I don’t buy this apology! They were literally laughing along with that guy! Don’t be so naive!

    • @gbm8432
      @gbm8432 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@mickael8163the way they laughed bro u can tell they didn’t give shit

    • @sebastiany7138
      @sebastiany7138 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Also James: STOP.DRINKING.MONSTER !!! You’re kill in your kidneys

    • @miaprice9652
      @miaprice9652 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@mickael8163 and they didn’t even look at the camera so it definitely wasn’t sincere

    • @roseallen2253
      @roseallen2253 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@mickael8163Exactly, and the sad thing is that I still see black women in the comments supporting them. I don't know what it's going to take black women to know that black male entertainers and most black men DON'T LIKE THEM!

  • @anon316
    @anon316 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Didn’t that Flagrant come out like late July? It’s almost the end of September..kinda sounds like damage control to me if that’s the case. “There’s no excuse”- proceeds to give excuse, explanation vs excuse cause yall were hoopin’, hollerin’, and cacklin’.

  • @noeltimberlake165
    @noeltimberlake165 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Who's really surprised; it's a cute little pr apology.

  • @Andrea-jd5uj
    @Andrea-jd5uj หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I didn’t think this was necessary. They joke about women in general ALL the time and we ALL laugh. These are still my guys

  • @dlmarch1886
    @dlmarch1886 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Im glad this was you guys response to this incident. It felt genuine. Im glad you all didn’t try and sweep this under the rug. Thank you for your love & support for those who want you guys to win. ❤❤❤

  • @shontelleforsberg2198
    @shontelleforsberg2198 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    While it's commendable that James and Fuhad acknowledged their wrongdoing in the aftermath of the Flagrant podcast controversy, their apology fails to directly center the people most affected by the incident-Black women. The jokes they laughed at perpetuated harmful racial and misogynistic stereotypes, and yet, in their apology, they primarily focused on their own discomfort and shock rather than addressing the harm caused to the Black women who have been instrumental in supporting their podcast’s growth.
    Black women, who have significantly contributed to the success of the ShxtsNGigs podcast, deserve an apology that prioritizes their feelings and acknowledges the hurt caused specifically to them. It is important to remember that these women have been vocal supporters, often sharing and promoting their content, pushing the podcast into the spotlight.
    Additionally, this issue isn’t about personal preferences regarding who someone finds attractive. The problem lies in how they allowed a narrative to take shape that erases or diminishes the beauty and diversity of Black women. The comment made during the podcast about Atlanta not having any "baddies" is especially problematic. Atlanta is one of the most diverse Black communities in the United States, with rich representation from not only African Americans, but from across the African diaspora. For them to make a statement like that suggests an erasure of this vibrant diversity, implying a blanket disinterest in Black women. This kind of rhetoric is harmful because it implicitly reinforces the idea that Black women are less desirable, a stereotype that Black women have had to fight against for generations.
    Here are five key elements that make an apology meaningful, and how James and Fuhad's response falls short in addressing them:
    1. Acknowledgment of Harm: An apology should clearly acknowledge the specific harm done. While James and Fuhad admitted to laughing at inappropriate jokes, they did not explicitly address how those jokes reinforced racist and sexist stereotypes targeting Black women. They apologized broadly, but the lack of focus on the impact on Black women weakens the sincerity of their apology.
    2. Taking Responsibility: A genuine apology requires taking full responsibility for one's actions. While they acknowledged their passivity, they framed their actions as being a result of shock or discomfort, thus partially excusing themselves. There was no unequivocal ownership of their failure to stand up against the racist jokes.
    3. Expressing Regret: Although regret was expressed, it was overshadowed by their emphasis on how uncomfortable they felt during the interview. A proper apology would have emphasized how deeply they regret letting down their Black listeners, rather than centering their own experience.
    4. Commitment to Change: While they did state that they "won't let this happen again," they failed to articulate specific actions they will take to prevent similar situations in the future. A meaningful apology should include a clear plan for growth, such as educating themselves on the impact of racial and gender-based stereotypes or refusing to engage with individuals who perpetuate such harmful rhetoric.
    5. Restitution: In a proper apology, there is often an element of making amends. James and Fuhad should have addressed what they will do to repair the trust they have broken with their Black female audience. This could involve highlighting and supporting content creators or causes that uplift Black women.
    Moreover, James and Fuhad should have been prepared for this type of situation when appearing on Flagrant. Andrew Schulz is known for his racially charged and misogynistic humor, particularly towards Black women​(theJasmineBRAND)​. His history of making offensive jokes should have signaled to them that such behavior could arise during the interview. By not being ready to challenge these remarks, they tacitly allowed harmful stereotypes to be perpetuated. In essence, the duo’s passive response enabled Schulz’s offensive remarks, and their apology failed to adequately address the damage caused.
    To truly make amends, James and Fuhad must do more than just acknowledge their discomfort-they must directly engage with and uplift the community they’ve hurt. Without centering Black women in their apology, their words remain incomplete.

    • @elizabethd-woode6397
      @elizabethd-woode6397 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Time on your hands.😟

    • @Seoul.A
      @Seoul.A หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Who’s reading all this? 😢

    • @piperlewis5533
      @piperlewis5533 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I read it and very articulate. 👏🏾

    • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
      @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Thank you for eloquently commenting. There will be those that will try to dismiss the issue as “ it not being that deep” and honestly I’m willing to bet that their PR person or those around them didn’t explain how and why they should’ve handled the situation the way that you did.

    • @kristinthomas925
      @kristinthomas925 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      All of this. I was coming to make this exact statement. You don't center the community in your apology. Andrew was specific to name black women in his commentary. The apology should specifically address black women.

  • @TheShyboogie97
    @TheShyboogie97 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    I thought I was gonna have to work my whole shift without the boys 😭

    • @nathanbatten9553
      @nathanbatten9553 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same i have 1hr 40 left cutting it close 😂

    • @KeekeOuttaDere
      @KeekeOuttaDere หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I ONLY COME TO WORK FOR THEM!!

    • @Yesitztydye._
      @Yesitztydye._ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me to I was waiting 😂😂

    • @scamyou2731
      @scamyou2731 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Frfr

    • @nathanbatten9553
      @nathanbatten9553 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My day got better after seeing them upload 🎉

  • @waleolaogun1832
    @waleolaogun1832 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Episode 148 timestamp 57:07 “I’m waiting for my bad week…” - James

  • @SupanovaB
    @SupanovaB หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    I knew there was something up with that feature you guys did ... I couldn't even continue watching it, and I've watched every single feature you guys have done. Im glad I wasn't the only one who noticed and im glad the daddies addressed it.

    • @michellefrancois1647
      @michellefrancois1647 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same could not finish watching that episode

    • @farrinlandmesser
      @farrinlandmesser หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i kinda think they got set up cause he wouldn't let it go

    • @racqi7430
      @racqi7430 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same. I watch everything they're on, but I had to turn that off.

    • @akosuawitmann5520
      @akosuawitmann5520 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thought i was the only one. something was soo off and it was cringe so had to turn it off.

    • @gabriellahassan4261
      @gabriellahassan4261 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same!

  • @luvandi715
    @luvandi715 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    If you are not a black woman it is not ur position to accept that apology.

    • @AliaGillespie
      @AliaGillespie หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      EXACTLY

    • @RS-vy9qv
      @RS-vy9qv หลายเดือนก่อน

      Racist

    • @RS-vy9qv
      @RS-vy9qv หลายเดือนก่อน

      Victim

    • @luvandi715
      @luvandi715 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@RS-vy9qv okayyy?? Lmao thanks for being completely useless to this topic

    • @ashleysmith3187
      @ashleysmith3187 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's crazy to me a white man is the one who disrespected you and double down on the disrespect and y'all ain't on his ass but the black men who wasn't raised to recognize racism in the United States

  • @bsunnyy2k
    @bsunnyy2k หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This apology, whilst appreciated was weak af. I appreciate this platform because it is light hearted and positive. But ya’ll are grown. Grown men no less. If you stand for nothing, you fall for everything. And you have to practice discernment, not all opportunities are good opportunities. The best apology is changed behaviour. Do better. And say it with your chest.

  • @serayavancooten775
    @serayavancooten775 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    When will this end? At the end of the day, we're all human. Sending love from Suriname to you Daddies. Still my all time favorite podcast. ❤😘🇸🇷🇸🇷