@@shakshimi don't see any men crying they are strong and independent and those shit. These words got famous because many butt hurt women say those quite often. If she really is, good for her and more better for her husband.
@@vaishnavibali6219 don't waste your time explaining him..... For that he requires brain.... But when God was distributing brain he was eating samosa... So he forgot to take it
I think laws were passed in 1950s when women were not allowed to work Now the rules have changed, but they won't change laws because National women council will make a fuss and politicans can loose vote
Paying dowry is illegal but paying maintenance is cool. What if wife is earning and husband is jobless,? Will the wife pay maintenance to her husband? Where is equality over here?
@@lisadsouza5061She will not be paying. In most cases it is dismissed by court by saying the 'husband will get lazy and should look for job to live his life'. Thats how hiprocritic Indian justice system is.
@@junegreen3593 Why should someone not marry. Just find a good girl. No need to marry any girl who is from police, lawyer, judge, IT and politician background....mostly they are bad choices for marriage. Any other work going or non-working girl is fine, if her character is good.
@@Sol-ps8ox cause men will complain either way. What gives the guarantee a non working women will not go for divorce. Truth is Typical Indian men don't want a wife they want a slave for his parents, abuse make her carry his kids and make sure she's so dumb that she doesn't even know her rights. That's why laws like this exists. Go do your research and then bark.
My sister in law claims that she is strong and independent women. And she always used to say me that i am not dependent on my husband. After separtion demanding half of his salary income and showing that she is jobless. She so conveniently turned or switched into strong independent women to abla nari. Sometimes i feel like i am witnessing some psychological disorder.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 historical it has affected women so the consequences are like this. Thanks to feminism mEn can have the taste of their patriarchy of dominance.
@@junegreen3593 so what consequences can you foresee for the historical oppression and suffering of men which has been denied and kept in the dark? What would happen when a lot of men feel discriminated beyond limits and start organising? Historical discrimination of women is a lie because men were discriminated historically much more than women. And men were forced to protect and provide women, lay down their lives to protect women against animals and wild, vagaries of nature. And then you feminists and women have the audacity to blame men for your so called oppression. It is we men who should blame women for oppressing us and forcing us with chivalry.
just because we don't have gender neutral marriage laws in the country and women take advantage of it/misuse it to take money from their husbands doesn't mean women shouldn't get equal pay and equal rights. Those are basic rights that the feminist movement stands for and an anomaly of the justice system cannot undermine its importance. Please understand these are two very separate issues, just because they both relate to women and finances doesn't make them similar. Making such a statement is not very different from the logic that since parents don't give their children freedom of speech and expression in the house, they shouldn't ask for the right to freedom of speech and expression from the court. Try to think about it. The lack of stringent gender neutral marriage laws leads to women taking advantage of it, correct; but does this mean women don't deserve rights and payment for the work they do? Its like taking rights away from citizens because one of them committed murder. I hope I could make my point.
@@vaishnavibali6219 If women have the right to receive everything equal. why woman don't pay alimony to her husband? Why husband will not get equal shares of her inherited properties?
@@vaishnavibali6219 3rd wave feminism want to destroy the institution of marriage.🤣 But, indian feminists have NO problem with Burkha/Hijab, Nikah Halala, Nikah Mutah, pedophilia in islam, islamic polygamy, Islamic Female genital mutilation, wife beating mentioned in the Quran, Sex Slavery (r@pe of kafir women) mentioned in Quran and islamic hadiths, extreme misogyny in Quran and islamic hadiths, etc. etc.
These laws are there to protect uneducated , unemployed , dependant housewifes who gets abused by their in laws.... Which is a big majority in this country... Its just that educated , earning women also take advantage of this... Law should take Wife's earning and socio-economic status into consideration while asking husband to pay maintenance....
@@kishorevenugopal6191 why will husband has to pay for her standard of living ahe has to work thats it. Law by itself is encouraging women to stay and sit in home watching tele series.
@@rohi1255 In a culture where Women are considered 'Paraya Dhan' , its obvious why Husband is expected to pay in case of a divorce till she re-marries.... As I said, the laws are there to support unprivileged women - But the privileged ones also take advantage of it since there is no provision for it...
@@yaduvarma9854 I don't know which world you are living in this is not applicable anywhere in India, we cannot make a law consider the life of a generations back and few affected people
Court should ban 498a and dv till atleast 5 years of marriage or till child is not there.if a women complains of harassment during this period divorce should be granted with no alimony.
if there is a proposal to pass a certain law that have no loopholes and cannot be bend by the lawyers, then that law will never be implemented. imperfect laws = money
Some shameless women are even defending this, in the comments section. Tells a lot about why feminist organizations in Delhi didn't want rape laws to be gender neutral.
@@mmmm...098is there a reason why women are still housewives in this day and age? I would never marry someone who can't even make a living for herself.
Actually our laws are made to support only and only criminals and not innocent. This is a classical example. I am ashamed to have such an impotent judiciary.
Supreme Court has all Accepted Being R@ndi (prostitute) as Legal Work These people don't want strong independent woman They are allowing them to become r@ndi and do this shitty job Idk what is going on This is what happens when a Woke person studied from outside India 🇮🇳 get to sit on the Supreme Court because his Uncle or Dad was also Advocate (Colosium or whatever system is that) Once a legend said "Everything Woke turns into shit"
@@hajimeisayama9842 i read it on newspaper. one man Paid 10 lakh to shooters to k!II his wife. Later shooters were caught and named the man.(husband). wife asked 1 crore for divorce settlement.
I m happily single at 32 now. I work, pay taxes to Indian govt. Getting married has never been in my mind. Finding a gf is easy than getting married and fall in their trap.
@@manikyum By the time I will be 60, AI would be doing 90% of household works. It is far better than so many who are suffering and visiting the court and police station. Having said that I would marry only If certain conditions are fulfilled at first before marriage.
@@a_nayakthat's a bold assumption to make. It's not necessary future will be like a sci fi movie. There is no guarantee we will have AI driven home robots doing everything for us. And what about social isolation? At older age you won't have friends and family left.
That's not fair. If any maintenance is involved it should be on the kids' name (if any). Wives who earn should not be liable for a maintenance or alimony
Even if wives don't earn, it can be termed "JUSTICE" only if both wife and husband have to pay equal money towards childs expenses or else it is not justice. The indian judicial system has failed the nation. Also husbands and wives should not have to pay anything to each other no matter what.
What system? The system is different in Australia compared to India. In Australia, the wife can get 50% of all property brought by couple during the marriage. So let's say the man bought a house when married. When divorce occurs then the house value must be split and given to wife. Obviously in reality the house can't be physically spilt so it's sold and half of the money goes to the ex wife. Technically, if the wife bought the house and divorce occurs then 50% will have to go to the ex husband. In India, the cap is ⅓ of salary. There is no house selling. Which is better? Paying ⅕-⅓ of salary - which would go to supporting your children if any or selling off house?
@@AdvImranAsgar In that case she will leave her job to show the court that she needs maintenance and when the court approves she will again get a job. If the girl is smart she will win either ways, the law is biased towards women however smart women misuse it frequently.
@@devilback8871 And you fool don't know that there are judgement where court have rejected maintenance to such woman who leaves job deliberately to claim alimony. In such case, husband's lawyer cross examined her and asked her what was reason of leaving job. She said she wanted to take of his kids. Then Husband simply showed resignation letter of wife as evidence which exposed her lies. She quit her job before maintenance case because the date of resignation is mentioned on that letter. I can give you that judgement.
@@tribikramdas2181 I just thought of the most simplest of loopholes that can be used, the complexities can be added to make the case for the women, the law is biased for women for good reason but smart women misuse it frequently and their are many such cases were the women accuses the husbands family of harassment(mental/physical). So dont act like numbnuts here, I support women rights however talking about these loopholes and improving them will only make the system better but the problem is people like you dont even want to acknowledge that the problem is there. Thank you.
@@devilback8871 Bro I am aware about loopholes of judiciary, and I am a law student which knows laws in depth. Yes, there are loopholes no doubt but that doesn't mean that husband should fighting false cases of 498a/DV merely because the law is biased for woman. Loopholes are there no doubt, but it is the victim which expose those loopholes through evidence. Like I said in my previous comments.
@@pickachu3739 In western countries, divorce rate is 50%, does 50% people die in swimming? I think there is more likelihood to come back alive in swimming than marriage. In India, it is said that divorce rate is 1% but many people don’t get divorced for society, kids and many other reasons, doesn’t mean they are happy. Divorce rate is still higher in urban areas in India, especially metro cities.
Seriously serious question brother - if wives are compensated with money after separation (husband's job is to earn in the eyes of law), husbands must be compensated too with food and sex? What else was the women's job. Ofcourse love and compassion is obviously out of the window. What type of hell is this on earth?
No bcz, the girl leaves her parents house and comes to stay with you. The moment you are getting married your wife is half the owner of your property as you forced her to leave her parents. So now after divorce the court says give the wife 'her' share of property. If you want to change the rules then change it from the beginning where the girl will not leave her parents house.
@@sutanukaadhya1401 law doesn't ask women to "leave" thier parents house, court won't do anything even kf she went for liv-in with her bf. "You forced her to leave her parents" No, she did that to herself.
So you want a housewife then how will she survive without money?? I am against giving alimony to working woman but in India once the girl is married her parents won't accept her and the husband divorced her..... How do you think she will live penny less?
And then there are many women who try to exploit these loopholes. I’m married to a lady who cheated about her job and now she acts like she left the job for me, she’s trying to claim money from me (she doesn’t want to live with me, so divorce is the only way) such is the level of misuse in our country.
Indian court says Marriage is not a contract according to Hinduism and is a 7 janmo ka bandhan and not hold prenuptials valid but grants divorces with supersonic speed ordering men for alimony... Why... You are the one who said marrige is not a contract... Now why are tou granting a divorce and then also granting making alimony. Either then agree that marrige is a contract and start acknowledging Prenuptials. Milodu ki hypocrisy ki koi seema nahi he.
Women's lobby, women's commission, western educated liberal feminist judges and fathers of girls that are in the position of power, pass these biased laws.
@@mridstaid414 no one has been punished for false accusations even man ( I know the number of woman are more because the laws favour them) ..... But what's your point?
@@sutanukaadhya1401 This is modern world Most of the husband apna ghar chod ke city mein rehte hai Kayi baar toh durr jaate hai kaam karne ke liye Aur Maa Baap Gaon mein
@@harshsingh-aug26 yes that is true but then too not all men live in the city...and if situation arises that the man has the opportunity to live with his parents then the wife is expected to live there...also..why should the child get the father's surname in this "modern world"
There is a law but no implementation. Marriage is a one way road. It is legal terrorism for men. Marriage is a socio-economic-legal trap for men. Men should avoid marriage
Why should guys even pay. Whole world has gone mad. Actually it's men's fault, why are you idiots even getting married and then something happens then cry. Stop marriages #marriageisascam
As a woman(LAW STUDENT).. the concept of giving maintenance to a well educated woman is beyond my understanding and core values exceptions are there if the woman is having a child then maintenance is required 'ONLY for raising THE CHILD' and not for the woman,she should be earning for herself.. feminism was introduced to protect the 'under privileged' and 'oppressed' women but at present time it is misused by the 'women of privileged class' and because of a few women a lot of men suffer.. just for a few women innocent women are suspected and judged and the actual victim do not get justice .. This Needs To Stop!! we need to create a safe society where anyone irrespective of their sex can live freely without the fear of being accused of anything as it's not about a man or a woman it's about 'humainty' and 'morals'. This bullshit in the name of feminism needs to stop!!
I think, it's high time that men realize that there is no need to follow the crooked path(trap) recommended by society. Marriage is not mandatory to live a happy and balanced life. The same thing also applies to women. Choose Life, not marriage.
If the wife is not earning and/or have children's custody then she should get maintenance but if she has a job and no kids or she decided to remarry someone else then she definitely is not entitled for any maintenance.
According to maintenance law if she remarried you don't need to pay alimony....... But I think only in case of housewife alimony should be given.......
@@agnimitram340 yes this is the biggest flaw...... The maintenance will stop only after another marriage so if she doesn't marry and have affairs that may not be stop the Continuance of maintenance
No need to pay maintenance to wife.. girls can earn money , they have right to work, laws should be changed as girls needs respect as some feminists says so give them equality please 🙏 have some mercy on girls by not giving maintainance
@@sutanukaadhya1401 tu shadi hi mat karna bahen itna problem hai to girls ko haar jagah parr concession hota hai law mein bhi ishi vajahse jake kabhi court mein dekhna kitne jhute cases krti hai ladkiyan abhi tak pending pade hai aur bechare ache ladkon ki life spoil hua hai
As a woman, I totally agree with gentlemen here. They should only be liable for their kids' expenses, and it should be split half and half between them. If guys you bought property together during marriage/relationship while women worked and/or raised kids and stayed home mum etc. She'll get half of that house but not ongoing financial support. Guys, you should sign a petition to change your constitutional law and/or family law. Otherwise, women will take men for a ride.
Because u forced her to leave her parents and her surname for you. If you have guts after marriage leave everything behind and stay with the parents of your wife, the wife will not demand alimony.
Because you married a housewife and so she can't leave without money........ Her parents won't accept her how will she survive? I am against alimony to working woman but incase of depended woman it is a requirement......
@@mmmm...098 if she is well educated. Like mBA. Btech.. Does she need alimony. Can't she get a job.. I prefer after divorce alimony for one year. So she can find a job.
@@Yourfriend100-ns1 work force containing woman is 45% I think....... Woman leave their job after having kids or after marriage by their wish or demand of the husband family....... Now in India getting employment is very difficult..... Idealistically I think one should be able to get job with mba degree but reality is that leaving job ( out of workforce) for more than 2 years reduce your value in the market.... Company will not accept you with more than 2 years of break......... So it is difficult for housewife to get job after marriage....
why do we need to pay maintainence at all ...when world says we are equal. Laws should be equal too ..dont you agree? If great lawers like you dont put this question forth the whole world..how will the world change. Give men equality..give us equal law
Feminist se puri duniya darta hain. Ye laws Feminist ke pressure se hi Banta hain. India main more 20 govt funded women organizations hain. Lekin bhi male right ki nhi hain. Ek banaya tha. Feminist logo ne court main appeal kiya aab woh bhi disbanded ho gaya
I don't understand how dowry is bad but alimony is apparently a good thing. Ironic how feminist speakup about dowry but turn a blind eye on alimony just such a shame.
What is the definition of simple girl? How will one know if the girl is simple or not and that she is not pretending to be simple and what is the guarentee and who takes the guarentee that she will not get divorce even if she is "simple"? Even khichid which is said to be simple has many variation, forget about girl or any human...we are all complex, even our carbohydrates 😂 n btw modern ka opposite ancient hota hai, simple nahi, woh toh complex ka opposite hota hai.
@@sush9595 too much modern women are those who are cunning in their behaviour, they have array of ex boyfriends, goes to clubs, drinks alcohol, smokes, has rocky relation with father.
Everyone knows why convertion is high in Karnataka. Hindu men are getting converted to enjoy benifits that other religions have. Like in Islam, a man can marry 4 😅
So 1/3 will be given to wife, 1/3 will be given to govt, and you will end up with 1/3. Its a fucked up situation, there should atleast be a income tax rebates for this
Why women can't earn by herself? Agar hum aurton ko kmm dikhayenge toh phir wo kmm hi rhengi. Baccho ke khrache pr equal bill aana chahiye dono parent ko , sirf baap ki responsibility kyun ?
Actually feminists yhi hai ki .... Hme esa banna hai par pta nhi kab bnegi abi tak to ladkiya job hi nhi karti to equal pay kya karegi... Ek pase bo kmae nhi phir bhi unki sadi ho jati hai kisi ameer ladke se kyuki she is girl and she is beautiful... Beautiful..... Bas.. .
Discrimination against men is present in our constitution..why do men only pay alumni to wife?men and women are equal so why only men pay?oh recently the supreme court gave a verdict that equals pay for women also then why don't men get alimony.
Men:-Job karenge aur retirement ke bad pension milega. Women:-Chalo shaadi karte hein pension milega😎😎.Aur retirement tak wait karne ki bhi jarurat nahi
There is need to change the laws like this in every 25 years or so. Be specific in terms of the liability. Eg. Those who marry between 2025- 2030 this will be the law, and 2030- 2035 this will be law etc. It has to be progressive manner. Responsibility should be there on both husband and wife. Social councilors should be there to make the ladies to have their own life. Ladies should not sacrifice their professional life for the sake of family, and later complaint that they did not get proper world exposure. Even the law makers did not think in progressive way. They made laws according to their mindset.
Prenuptials don't hold in India as courts don't acknowledge marriage as a contract according to Hinduism (as oppose to in the western countries where it is). But they also grant divorce and alimony contradicting themselves considering there is no procedure of divorce in Hinduism, not even a name for it in Hindi. Milodus ki hypocrisy ki koi seema nahi he
To all people commenting in the comments section against women, here is the reality check from a woman who is undergoing divorce. My husband beat me up and sent me to my parents house. He purposefully did it to get rid of me and our 5 month old baby and get remarried again. He filed for divorce 3 months later. I objected and was not willing to get divorce because I was not willing to give up and was scared to raise my daughter alone. It took me a fortune to fight against divorce. Just to get me agreed to divorce my husband and his lawyer slut shame me and the legitimacy of my daughter in front of the court in every single hearing. I'm too poor to run a maintenance case. I have to provide for myself and my daughter and take leave from work every time there is a court hearing. It's already difficult to raise a baby alone as you might need leaves if baby is sick, etc. it's not easy to run a maintenance case. You have to spend lakhs for getting thousands. Law mat be helpful for women who can afford to run cases against cheating men. But women like me, it's too costly and I might or might not win anything if I file a maintenance case.
They should modify . Husband should pay for child maintenance for lifetime .. wife maintenance should be period of time like 3 yrs or 5 yrs max. After that its not responsibility of ex husband to maintain ex wife .. they are nowhere related to each other why he should take care of her .. laws should be properly set not biasis to one specific gender ...
For all the crybabies here complaining about the divorce laws, remember the laws are made this way specifically so that u don’t marry. No better way to keep population in check.
From 2011 - 2015 I was fighting divorce. I am from Kolkata she filed from her native place North Bengal. There were 9+ cases. I had to either take leave travel with laptop overnight on diff dates. This went on for few yrs. I was jailed under 498A, lost job, awarded 60%+ of salary as maintenance. Finally, out of court settlement. She took my son when he was 4yrs back in 2011.
Yeah, its your turn to face the heat. For centuries and even now the thought of marriage gave chills to girls bcz they are forced to leave their parents and home and come to live with the boys parents and adjust in a new home.
@@sutanukaadhya1401 hmm u say as if all women are saints i understand what u mean but its not fair that even honest and good men need to suffer bcoz of this
First: don't marry for the sake of lust and partner . Sec: use some sense . Third: include lawyer during registration of marriage that husband and wife is not liable for any maintenance in future use law in ur favour
If a divorce happened Bcz of husbands fault - adultery, cruelty, hid some serious medical condition etc then this is 100% justified. Otherwise if wife did something wrong or it’s simply a no-fault divorce then it’s not ok.
Indian law is stupid. When women is treated as equals, why anyone should pay anything to anyone. Go get a job girl. If not accepting Dowry should be made legal. For entertaining such nonsense.
Even if it is not legal, it is there in every marriage. And it was made illegal after centuries, for centuries there was no dowry law, women suffered, now it is the other gender to suffer...the cycle of karma of our ancestors.
@@sush9595 kuch bhi lol. Pehle Kuch centuries pehle kya kya nai hota tah iska matlab ye todhi ki abhi jo galt ho rha woh past mistakes ke vajah se valid hai. Todha toh soche karo.
@@Dreams-sk1jv pheli baat toh yeh 3 months phela ka comment hai, i forgot in what mindset i wrote, secondly i hv not mentioned it that anything is valid or not valid, no where in my comment i have said that neither do i say it is correct.
@@sush9595 aapne bola "now it is for the other gender to suffer'. Meaning you agree with this bullshit law, that is so damn biased towards women. Kher chodo Bina mtlb random logo ko ladai nai karna chahiye. Hope you have good day.
On paper women should be equal to men, but in practice it isnt (you can see this in the real world around you). Women still need more support in society.
@Cruiser-j9d please stop the BS - women are thriving in cities - atleast cities is out of question! And when it comes to issues in court, women always given benefit
@@redemptionneeded Even in cities women are not at par with men. In court women are given benefit of a doubt because most men treat them poorly. Women are not a piece of thrash that the guy can throw them out of the house whenever they feel like it.
@@priyankabhendarkar4863I would put all my inherent property into a trust that would have my parents as beneficiary. Then quit my job. So in the eyes of law im a unemployed man with no property. And your ex would be forced to pay you maintenance.
@@uwu63786jfyou will still be recieving money from some source, even if it's from the trust or parents as long as YOU receive it court will see it as your income and you will have to pay her maintenance. Only way out of this is if your wife earns nearly as much as you.
When you dont earn during this time there is a lot of advantage actually 😮.. I hope people understand what I am saying and well I have gone through this and I know I dint pay a DIME or a cent to her and actually I GOT FROM HER.. that too without asking .. her jewellery gold etc she took but I dint lose anything
They want this for Hindu men to reduce our population by making such laws. These judges are all woke liberal/communist Hindus or follow an Abrahamic religion who do not give a damn fck about Hindu men.
There is a huge potential in India. Majority of Indian house wives are dissatisfied with their marriage given most of the marriages are arranged. A divorce lawyer could earn in billions per year just from fees. He just need to pipeline the court proceedings.
I am a girl and find this extremely inappropriate. I understand this law might have been made years ago when ladies didn't use to work. However, this must be changed now. Nobody should give maintenance to other person Exception - if there is a kid involved, then both can share kids expenses to be fair.
"I am a strong independent, happily divorced woman* "
* Leaching off ex-husband's hard earned money
*I am an alpha abuser, cheater and a happily violent man.
*Beat my wife inside and have affair outside.
But still they say they are oppressed 😂
😂😂😂
Well said
@@shakshimi don't see any men crying they are strong and independent and those shit. These words got famous because many butt hurt women say those quite often. If she really is, good for her and more better for her husband.
Feminist hate Dowry,
But they love Proporty &money after divorce.
Think again.
@@vaishnavibali6219 I don't know nothing, I know only one thing feminist are Bit©hes ☕☕☕
@@vaishnavibali6219 if u want to debate with me on facts about feminist is good or bad. But on call not in comment section
@@vaishnavibali6219 don't waste your time explaining him..... For that he requires brain.... But when God was distributing brain he was eating samosa... So he forgot to take it
@@mmmm...098 feminism now changed to man hating ideology.. Instead of upliftment of womenhood..
@@vaishnavibali6219so should man also start to cry for equal rights like women cry?
1/3rd goes to government 1/3rd goes to wife, a man is left with peanuts.
No peanuts, only his nuts.
@@defaulltmake damn even the pea is taken and nuts are left 💀
@@bois6969 no pea pea, only his nuts.
Pee and nuts
Only nuts.
And they say Equal rights in eyes of laws!! 😂😂😂
Yet they are getting killed equal law
Men's do not have any rights in India
Don't get married
Exactly
Well Indian law is little biased towards women’s and children as per constitution
If a women needs maintenance dose that mean they are worthless and can’t do anything for themselves…lol
I think laws were passed in 1950s when women were not allowed to work
Now the rules have changed, but they won't change laws because National women council will make a fuss and politicans can loose vote
Well, those worthless ones nowadays go by names such as strong independent, stunning and dont need men. ☕🤣
Dont speak truth like that
It may hurt people
Why you marry those women then you chose to marry one who can basically be your slave now you want to push that on her think before taking mota dahej
The law says so
Paying dowry is illegal but paying maintenance is cool.
What if wife is earning and husband is jobless,?
Will the wife pay maintenance to her husband?
Where is equality over here?
Yes if she the breadwinner than she will be the one paying alimony
@@lisadsouza5061She will not be paying.
In most cases it is dismissed by court by saying the 'husband will get lazy and should look for job to live his life'.
Thats how hiprocritic Indian justice system is.
@@Sol-ps8ox then let women work, don't ask them to get married and carry your children. Problem solved. Apna apna dekho
@@junegreen3593 Why should someone not marry.
Just find a good girl.
No need to marry any girl who is from police, lawyer, judge, IT and politician background....mostly they are bad choices for marriage.
Any other work going or non-working girl is fine, if her character is good.
@@Sol-ps8ox cause men will complain either way. What gives the guarantee a non working women will not go for divorce. Truth is Typical Indian men don't want a wife they want a slave for his parents, abuse make her carry his kids and make sure she's so dumb that she doesn't even know her rights. That's why laws like this exists. Go do your research and then bark.
My sister in law claims that she is strong and independent women.
And she always used to say me that i am not dependent on my husband.
After separtion demanding half of his salary income and showing that she is jobless.
She so conveniently turned or switched into strong independent women to abla nari.
Sometimes i feel like i am witnessing some psychological disorder.
Believe me. Women generally have no atma respect. they don't keep their promises or words and are like chameleon.
I had this same feeling with my mother and father relationship. My mom is a chameleon 😂
Some laws are totally cruel for Husband, someone files criminal cases against you and your family and you have to pay money .
Its an industry of blackmail and extortion. Its called feminism
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 still waiting for lrenup to arrive officially in id
Ndia
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 historical it has affected women so the consequences are like this. Thanks to feminism mEn can have the taste of their patriarchy of dominance.
@@dazai974 is that some kind of official announcement of male slavery and female domination
@@junegreen3593 so what consequences can you foresee for the historical oppression and suffering of men which has been denied and kept in the dark? What would happen when a lot of men feel discriminated beyond limits and start organising? Historical discrimination of women is a lie because men were discriminated historically much more than women. And men were forced to protect and provide women, lay down their lives to protect women against animals and wild, vagaries of nature. And then you feminists and women have the audacity to blame men for your so called oppression. It is we men who should blame women for oppressing us and forcing us with chivalry.
Marriage is the most expensive form of prostitution
You better marry a Russian!
Girls father is the mama/broker here 😂😂
Note: strictly talking about toxic woman/in laws and not about angels.
From which brothel yout Mom Belongs?
Rightly said 👍
@@अर्थात्-छ1ष the one your mom came from
I never heard wife is paying maintenance to her husband despite they want equal pay and equal rights 😂
Shaddi naa karo bhai. Zindegi jhand ho jayega
just because we don't have gender neutral marriage laws in the country and women take advantage of it/misuse it to take money from their husbands doesn't mean women shouldn't get equal pay and equal rights.
Those are basic rights that the feminist movement stands for and an anomaly of the justice system cannot undermine its importance.
Please understand these are two very separate issues, just because they both relate to women and finances doesn't make them similar.
Making such a statement is not very different from the logic that since parents don't give their children freedom of speech and expression in the house, they shouldn't ask for the right to freedom of speech and expression from the court. Try to think about it.
The lack of stringent gender neutral marriage laws leads to women taking advantage of it, correct; but does this mean women don't deserve rights and payment for the work they do?
Its like taking rights away from citizens because one of them committed murder.
I hope I could make my point.
@@vaishnavibali6219 If women have the right to receive everything equal. why woman don't pay alimony to her husband? Why husband will not get equal shares of her inherited properties?
Don't marry, lol. You might end up with fake cases.
@@vaishnavibali6219 3rd wave feminism want to destroy the institution of marriage.🤣 But, indian feminists have NO problem with Burkha/Hijab, Nikah Halala, Nikah Mutah, pedophilia in islam, islamic polygamy, Islamic Female genital mutilation, wife beating mentioned in the Quran, Sex Slavery (r@pe of kafir women) mentioned in Quran and islamic hadiths, extreme misogyny in Quran and islamic hadiths, etc. etc.
These laws are there to protect uneducated , unemployed , dependant housewifes who gets abused by their in laws.... Which is a big majority in this country...
Its just that educated , earning women also take advantage of this...
Law should take Wife's earning and socio-economic status into consideration while asking husband to pay maintenance....
@@kishorevenugopal6191 why will husband has to pay for her standard of living ahe has to work thats it. Law by itself is encouraging women to stay and sit in home watching tele series.
If she is not educated and is dependent than let her father take care of her why the inlaws always have to provide?
@@rohi1255 In a culture where Women are considered 'Paraya Dhan' , its obvious why Husband is expected to pay in case of a divorce till she re-marries....
As I said, the laws are there to support unprivileged women - But the privileged ones also take advantage of it since there is no provision for it...
@@kishorevenugopal6191 ha bskd tu ja ek gow meh standard of living smjhane teko gand meh dengey teri bskdigiri
@@yaduvarma9854 I don't know which world you are living in this is not applicable anywhere in India, we cannot make a law consider the life of a generations back and few affected people
Nope, I won't pay a single penny, put me in jail.
And gvt will pay for your maintenance, kya dhimaag lagaya bhai aapne..😂😂😂
Manna padega kya soch hai teri
Your o will turn into O !😂😂
@@myvu-mv5ix true jail food not to bad .there are inmates zindagi chal jayega .
@@rajibdattaroy9105 and on top of that you will have a satisfaction of not paying...😂
I will never pay a single paisa and the day the judgement of alimony / maintenance comes that will be the day I get arrested for 302.
Sab se sahi india hi chor do divorce ke baad
😂
swag
😂😂super
..
Court should ban 498a and dv till atleast 5 years of marriage or till child is not there.if a women complains of harassment during this period divorce should be granted with no alimony.
Need to revive the law, but these spineless lawmakers are busy with something else
if there is a proposal to pass a certain law that have no loopholes and cannot be bend by the lawyers, then that law will never be implemented.
imperfect laws = money
@@waynebro7828sad but true!
As a woman I feel this law is regressive. I have seen women misuse this law. A man is financially destroyed after a divorce.
Where have you seen
Some shameless women are even defending this, in the comments section. Tells a lot about why feminist organizations in Delhi didn't want rape laws to be gender neutral.
@@yourhighness007woman defending alimony ONLY for housewife.......
@@mmmm...098bs
@@mmmm...098is there a reason why women are still housewives in this day and age? I would never marry someone who can't even make a living for herself.
Actually our laws are made to support only and only criminals and not innocent. This is a classical example. I am ashamed to have such an impotent judiciary.
Don't marry. Even now supreme court recognize maritial rape as rape.
Aab proof karo ki shaddi ke baad rape nhi kiya hain
@@trueword4971 true
Supreme Court has all Accepted Being R@ndi (prostitute) as Legal Work
These people don't want strong independent woman
They are allowing them to become r@ndi and do this shitty job
Idk what is going on
This is what happens when a Woke person studied from outside India 🇮🇳 get to sit on the Supreme Court because his Uncle or Dad was also Advocate (Colosium or whatever system is that)
Once a legend said
"Everything Woke turns into shit"
Muslims can marry four and populate India. Hindu men will die single, or suicide or pay huge amount of money to escape the matrix.
Hire a hitman 😂
Problem solved
Best
Don't forget the other party can also hire
@@manikyum but still they would not get our money....and then we will hire it for their whole family...🗿
@@hajimeisayama9842 i read it on newspaper. one man Paid 10 lakh to shooters to k!II his wife. Later shooters were caught and named the man.(husband). wife asked 1 crore for divorce settlement.
@@mogleesh-22 you name one case where shooter was caught...i can name 1000s where he wasn't...so you can still take chance
Nice message on women’s Day😂 , All wives should exercise this business in court on women’s day.
I m happily single at 32 now. I work, pay taxes to Indian govt.
Getting married has never been in my mind. Finding a gf is easy than getting married and fall in their trap.
Fast forward to 75 , would you say the same?
@@manikyum By the time I will be 60, AI would be doing 90% of household works.
It is far better than so many who are suffering and visiting the court and police station.
Having said that I would marry only If certain conditions are fulfilled at first before marriage.
@@a_nayak List out those conditions
@@manikyum personal
@@a_nayakthat's a bold assumption to make. It's not necessary future will be like a sci fi movie. There is no guarantee we will have AI driven home robots doing everything for us. And what about social isolation? At older age you won't have friends and family left.
Moral of The story :
*transfer your property to your mum and dad 😂😂
You don't own any, they don't get any.😂
not applicable in India, you still have to pay maintenance of whatever amount you get from your parents to eat, shelter, etc
Ye bahar ke chochle India me nai kaam aatey.. maa ke muh se property cheen legi court
They even ask the in-laws to pay the wife.
They even force the in-laws to allow the wife to stay in their house.
Thats how Indian 'justice' system is.
You still have a job , you can't change that thing unless u leave the job !
@@Sol-ps8ox They will sell the house and buy gold bonds
That's not fair. If any maintenance is involved it should be on the kids' name (if any). Wives who earn should not be liable for a maintenance or alimony
Even if wives don't earn, it can be termed "JUSTICE" only if both wife and husband have to pay equal money towards childs expenses or else it is not justice.
The indian judicial system has failed the nation.
Also husbands and wives should not have to pay anything to each other no matter what.
Marry a religious lower class girl, she will never break the relation. This western culture is destroying our Indian culture
Become Muslim. Problem solved.
@@bilalbaig8586 no !
@@Mugiwara350 😂😂😂
Ur thinking the opposite
@@KIA36900 western puppy started mocking
I have heard that in western countries like Australia .Young women find pocket money through this system.😮😮😮
What system? The system is different in Australia compared to India. In Australia, the wife can get 50% of all property brought by couple during the marriage.
So let's say the man bought a house when married. When divorce occurs then the house value must be split and given to wife. Obviously in reality the house can't be physically spilt so it's sold and half of the money goes to the ex wife.
Technically, if the wife bought the house and divorce occurs then 50% will have to go to the ex husband.
In India, the cap is ⅓ of salary. There is no house selling.
Which is better? Paying ⅕-⅓ of salary - which would go to supporting your children if any or selling off house?
@@RMatt2016Child support is different and men should get default Custody
@Egg-wt1pk the topic of the video is maintainence. Not child custody. Which is different
Western countries like Australia 😅
what if your wife is already earning?
If she is earning in which she can sustain herself in a better way court may not grant maintenance provided you don't earn huge
@@AdvImranAsgar In that case she will leave her job to show the court that she needs maintenance and when the court approves she will again get a job. If the girl is smart she will win either ways, the law is biased towards women however smart women misuse it frequently.
@@devilback8871 And you fool don't know that there are judgement where court have rejected maintenance to such woman who leaves job deliberately to claim alimony. In such case, husband's lawyer cross examined her and asked her what was reason of leaving job. She said she wanted to take of his kids. Then Husband simply showed resignation letter of wife as evidence which exposed her lies. She quit her job before maintenance case because the date of resignation is mentioned on that letter. I can give you that judgement.
@@tribikramdas2181 I just thought of the most simplest of loopholes that can be used, the complexities can be added to make the case for the women, the law is biased for women for good reason but smart women misuse it frequently and their are many such cases were the women accuses the husbands family of harassment(mental/physical).
So dont act like numbnuts here, I support women rights however talking about these loopholes and improving them will only make the system better but the problem is people like you dont even want to acknowledge that the problem is there.
Thank you.
@@devilback8871 Bro I am aware about loopholes of judiciary, and I am a law student which knows laws in depth. Yes, there are loopholes no doubt but that doesn't mean that husband should fighting false cases of 498a/DV merely because the law is biased for woman. Loopholes are there no doubt, but it is the victim which expose those loopholes through evidence. Like I said in my previous comments.
Moral: Never get married
Dnt get in the trap of this broker
agreed 💯
Many people die in oceans while swimming.
This guy : Never swim.
@@pickachu3739 In western countries, divorce rate is 50%, does 50% people die in swimming? I think there is more likelihood to come back alive in swimming than marriage.
In India, it is said that divorce rate is 1% but many people don’t get divorced for society, kids and many other reasons, doesn’t mean they are happy. Divorce rate is still higher in urban areas in India, especially metro cities.
@@pickachu3739 when you don’t know anything don’t comment…
Marriage is worst mistake indian men can do
dont get married, end of case
Why don't we go berserk, like if I'm going down I'll take you with me
@@omegatronousgalacticus7750 Its my perspective I am sharing, I am not imposing my thoughts on anyone.
Thank you.
@@omegatronousgalacticus7750 true if even 10% guys do that 90% of fewhales will get scared
I remember somewhere I heard or read that even if person is in relationship (live-in 🤔) court may direct u to pay
@@Odin_Borson Indian law doesn't recognise Live-In relationship. So you don't need to pay unless the partner is pregnant I think.
Seriously serious question brother - if wives are compensated with money after separation (husband's job is to earn in the eyes of law), husbands must be compensated too with food and sex? What else was the women's job. Ofcourse love and compassion is obviously out of the window. What type of hell is this on earth?
No bcz, the girl leaves her parents house and comes to stay with you. The moment you are getting married your wife is half the owner of your property as you forced her to leave her parents. So now after divorce the court says give the wife 'her' share of property. If you want to change the rules then change it from the beginning where the girl will not leave her parents house.
@@sutanukaadhya1401 law doesn't ask women to "leave" thier parents house, court won't do anything even kf she went for liv-in with her bf. "You forced her to leave her parents" No, she did that to herself.
Laws in most countries, including developed ones like USA, Canada, UK, Australia favour women. Only solution is to remain single.
So you want a housewife then how will she survive without money?? I am against giving alimony to working woman but in India once the girl is married her parents won't accept her and the husband divorced her..... How do you think she will live penny less?
@@mmmm...098 Alimony also goes to the girl's parents. The lawyer also gets a huge amount as fees.
And then there are many women who try to exploit these loopholes.
I’m married to a lady who cheated about her job and now she acts like she left the job for me, she’s trying to claim money from me (she doesn’t want to live with me, so divorce is the only way) such is the level of misuse in our country.
Indian court says Marriage is not a contract according to Hinduism and is a 7 janmo ka bandhan and not hold prenuptials valid but grants divorces with supersonic speed ordering men for alimony...
Why... You are the one who said marrige is not a contract... Now why are tou granting a divorce and then also granting making alimony.
Either then agree that marrige is a contract and start acknowledging Prenuptials.
Milodu ki hypocrisy ki koi seema nahi he.
I will better go to Jail😂😂😂...now whos the boss ?? Even Govt. Will take care of me😂
Proud of you bro
The law itself is biased... How can we even blame the women
May be it's because of simps like u women become like this
I think we should blame woman who misuse it..... I think those woman who are working ans still taking money from their husband........
Women's lobby, women's commission, western educated liberal feminist judges and fathers of girls that are in the position of power, pass these biased laws.
@@mmmm...098give me one example where the false accusers were ever punished
@@mridstaid414 no one has been punished for false accusations even man ( I know the number of woman are more because the laws favour them) ..... But what's your point?
In this age of equality why the f should we "maintain" our ex wife!
In the age of equality why should a girl leave her parents and home and come to the sasural?
@@sutanukaadhya1401then stay at your parents home and do the dishes there instead
@@sutanukaadhya1401
This is modern world
Most of the husband apna ghar chod ke city mein rehte hai
Kayi baar toh durr jaate hai kaam karne ke liye
Aur Maa Baap Gaon mein
@@harshsingh-aug26 yes that is true but then too not all men live in the city...and if situation arises that the man has the opportunity to live with his parents then the wife is expected to live there...also..why should the child get the father's surname in this "modern world"
@@sutanukaadhya1401khud ka ghar banao..
For Murder you will 7 years jail, and in matrimonial dispute you get lifetern...
This is exactly how law works...
Don't marry spend money for ur own and be happy , be an individual
On today's India, Urban divorce should not be considered for maintenence payments.. Equality should be established.. They can save themselves..
Do we have any situation where wife needs to pay maintenence to husband?
There is a law but no implementation. Marriage is a one way road. It is legal terrorism for men. Marriage is a socio-economic-legal trap for men. Men should avoid marriage
i wanna know the same
Yes
joke of the century
yes
Why should guys even pay. Whole world has gone mad. Actually it's men's fault, why are you idiots even getting married and then something happens then cry.
Stop marriages
#marriageisascam
As a woman(LAW STUDENT).. the concept of giving maintenance to a well educated woman is beyond my understanding and core values exceptions are there if the woman is having a child then maintenance is required 'ONLY for raising THE CHILD' and not for the woman,she should be earning for herself.. feminism was introduced to protect the 'under privileged' and 'oppressed' women but at present time it is misused by the 'women of privileged class' and because of a few women a lot of men suffer.. just for a few women innocent women are suspected and judged and the actual victim do not get justice .. This Needs To Stop!! we need to create a safe society where anyone irrespective of their sex can live freely without the fear of being accused of anything as it's not about a man or a woman it's about 'humainty' and 'morals'. This bullshit in the name of feminism needs to stop!!
I think, it's high time that men realize that there is no need to follow the crooked path(trap) recommended by society. Marriage is not mandatory to live a happy and balanced life. The same thing also applies to women. Choose Life, not marriage.
If the wife is not earning and/or have children's custody then she should get maintenance but if she has a job and no kids or she decided to remarry someone else then she definitely is not entitled for any maintenance.
According to maintenance law if she remarried you don't need to pay alimony....... But I think only in case of housewife alimony should be given.......
@@mmmm...098 exactly only housewife should be entitled to alimony
@@mmmm...098I know someone who is leaching on ex husband money and having multiple affairs. So win win for her.
@@agnimitram340 yes this is the biggest flaw...... The maintenance will stop only after another marriage so if she doesn't marry and have affairs that may not be stop the Continuance of maintenance
@@nya9134not even housewife. Why should men pay the concequence of women choice to be housewife
No need to pay maintenance to wife.. girls can earn money , they have right to work, laws should be changed as girls needs respect as some feminists says so give them equality please 🙏 have some mercy on girls by not giving maintainance
Don't marry its a trap.
Law are made like this because they want to control population
Then the girl should not leave her parents house after marriage...you come and live with the girls parents
@@sutanukaadhya1401 tu shadi hi mat karna bahen itna problem hai to girls ko haar jagah parr concession hota hai law mein bhi ishi vajahse jake kabhi court mein dekhna kitne jhute cases krti hai ladkiyan abhi tak pending pade hai aur bechare ache ladkon ki life spoil hua hai
@@ashishnagpure5328she just pointed out equality...
@@rijfd but her parents house must be owned by her dad. again inequality.
As a woman, I totally agree with gentlemen here. They should only be liable for their kids' expenses, and it should be split half and half between them. If guys you bought property together during marriage/relationship while women worked and/or raised kids and stayed home mum etc. She'll get half of that house but not ongoing financial support.
Guys, you should sign a petition to change your constitutional law and/or family law. Otherwise, women will take men for a ride.
Wonder why femenists dont talk about equality here???
Why we have to give maintenance to some one who is not working for you.
Because u forced her to leave her parents and her surname for you. If you have guts after marriage leave everything behind and stay with the parents of your wife, the wife will not demand alimony.
@@sutanukaadhya1401 this is the biggest joke I ever heard.. There are illarikapu allullu already.. Still they ask alimony.. Hypocite.. Sutanukaadhya
Because you married a housewife and so she can't leave without money........ Her parents won't accept her how will she survive? I am against alimony to working woman but incase of depended woman it is a requirement......
@@mmmm...098 if she is well educated. Like mBA. Btech.. Does she need alimony. Can't she get a job.. I prefer after divorce alimony for one year. So she can find a job.
@@Yourfriend100-ns1 work force containing woman is 45% I think....... Woman leave their job after having kids or after marriage by their wish or demand of the husband family....... Now in India getting employment is very difficult..... Idealistically I think one should be able to get job with mba degree but reality is that leaving job ( out of workforce) for more than 2 years reduce your value in the market.... Company will not accept you with more than 2 years of break......... So it is difficult for housewife to get job after marriage....
We need these laws changed asap
These reels are my daily reminder to not get involved with women in any capacity lol
Paying to a young, healthy, grown human being just because she is a woman makes nothing more mind-boggling than this.
The rules should change soon...many ppl are suffering bcoz of this....
imperfect laws with loopholes = money for lawyers and law makers
Yes these laws should change, but first change the system of girls leaving their home and parents after marriage
@@sutanukaadhya1401 tumehe nahi chorna hai to mat choro kisi ghar jamai ko dhundo ko usse sadi kar lo 🤣
@@_Anurag_Thakur_ yup much better option can live in my own house peacefully
@@sutanukaadhya1401most girls are unable to buy a new house
why do we need to pay maintainence at all ...when world says we are equal. Laws should be equal too ..dont you agree? If great lawers like you dont put this question forth the whole world..how will the world change. Give men equality..give us equal law
Feminist se puri duniya darta hain. Ye laws Feminist ke pressure se hi Banta hain. India main more 20 govt funded women organizations hain. Lekin bhi male right ki nhi hain. Ek banaya tha. Feminist logo ne court main appeal kiya aab woh bhi disbanded ho gaya
I don't understand how dowry is bad but alimony is apparently a good thing. Ironic how feminist speakup about dowry but turn a blind eye on alimony just such a shame.
Although in govt jobs 33% seats are reserved for women
Alimony should be ban 🙏🙏🙏⚖️⚖️ It is harrasment
Best choice is don't marry too modern woman, marry a simple girl.
What happens if she is too modern
@@manikyum
©hutiya banake ke thug legi
There is no simple girl
Best option is don't marry
What is the definition of simple girl? How will one know if the girl is simple or not and that she is not pretending to be simple and what is the guarentee and who takes the guarentee that she will not get divorce even if she is "simple"? Even khichid which is said to be simple has many variation, forget about girl or any human...we are all complex, even our carbohydrates 😂 n btw modern ka opposite ancient hota hai, simple nahi, woh toh complex ka opposite hota hai.
@@sush9595 too much modern women are those who are cunning in their behaviour, they have array of ex boyfriends, goes to clubs, drinks alcohol, smokes, has rocky relation with father.
A husband must remember that ‘it is better to wear out than rust out’: Karnataka HC, 24th Jan, 2023.
Everyone knows why convertion is high in Karnataka. Hindu men are getting converted to enjoy benifits that other religions have. Like in Islam, a man can marry 4 😅
Eat beef and breed as many babies you want, a Muslim wife can't deny your desire. You can divorce them easily
So 1/3 will be given to wife, 1/3 will be given to govt, and you will end up with 1/3.
Its a fucked up situation, there should atleast be a income tax rebates for this
Do what Hakimi did.. He earns millions but his wife didnt got a dime after divorce...😂
Doesn't work in India
@@ravenclaw8590it does work if you have given everything to your mum's name before marriage
That is outrageous. What is the rationale of an unemployed to pay a wife, especially if she is educated to basic levels and can also find a job
Why women can't earn by herself? Agar hum aurton ko kmm dikhayenge toh phir wo kmm hi rhengi. Baccho ke khrache pr equal bill aana chahiye dono parent ko , sirf baap ki responsibility kyun ?
Antakshari didi aap jaisi soch wali aurte bahut Kam hai
Behen tu kuch jada smart hai ye feminist log ke liye.😂.
Aapki jaise aur aurot sahiye
Actually feminists yhi hai ki ....
Hme esa banna hai par pta nhi kab bnegi abi tak to ladkiya job hi nhi karti to equal pay kya karegi...
Ek pase bo kmae nhi phir bhi unki sadi ho jati hai kisi ameer ladke se kyuki she is girl and she is beautiful... Beautiful..... Bas..
.
So basically divorced wife is a job with a equivalent salary of a it fresher
Discrimination against men is present in our constitution..why do men only pay alumni to wife?men and women are equal so why only men pay?oh recently the supreme court gave a verdict that equals pay for women also then why don't men get alimony.
Alimony not alumni.
Men:-Job karenge aur retirement ke bad pension milega.
Women:-Chalo shaadi karte hein pension milega😎😎.Aur retirement tak wait karne ki bhi jarurat nahi
There is need to change the laws like this in every 25 years or so. Be specific in terms of the liability. Eg. Those who marry between 2025- 2030 this will be the law, and 2030- 2035 this will be law etc. It has to be progressive manner. Responsibility should be there on both husband and wife. Social councilors should be there to make the ladies to have their own life. Ladies should not sacrifice their professional life for the sake of family, and later complaint that they did not get proper world exposure. Even the law makers did not think in progressive way. They made laws according to their mindset.
can we just add a clause in the registry paper before marriage that none of us will ask for anything or money if we get a divorce in future
Prenuptials don't hold in India as courts don't acknowledge marriage as a contract according to Hinduism (as oppose to in the western countries where it is).
But they also grant divorce and alimony contradicting themselves considering there is no procedure of divorce in Hinduism, not even a name for it in Hindi.
Milodus ki hypocrisy ki koi seema nahi he
@@abirnigam8816 to phir kya kare
@@manikyum
UCC aajeyga toh ye prblm ho khatam jayega
Because then Every law will be equal for any religion
@@manikyumkuch nahi kar sakte. Prenup is only legal in west. If your wife isn't earning after divorce you will have to give maintenance.
Bruh, our judiciary 🗿
To all people commenting in the comments section against women, here is the reality check from a woman who is undergoing divorce. My husband beat me up and sent me to my parents house. He purposefully did it to get rid of me and our 5 month old baby and get remarried again. He filed for divorce 3 months later. I objected and was not willing to get divorce because I was not willing to give up and was scared to raise my daughter alone. It took me a fortune to fight against divorce. Just to get me agreed to divorce my husband and his lawyer slut shame me and the legitimacy of my daughter in front of the court in every single hearing. I'm too poor to run a maintenance case. I have to provide for myself and my daughter and take leave from work every time there is a court hearing. It's already difficult to raise a baby alone as you might need leaves if baby is sick, etc. it's not easy to run a maintenance case. You have to spend lakhs for getting thousands. Law mat be helpful for women who can afford to run cases against cheating men. But women like me, it's too costly and I might or might not win anything if I file a maintenance case.
They should modify . Husband should pay for child maintenance for lifetime .. wife maintenance should be period of time like 3 yrs or 5 yrs max. After that its not responsibility of ex husband to maintain ex wife .. they are nowhere related to each other why he should take care of her .. laws should be properly set not biasis to one specific gender ...
@@GateStriker Also, as the coi**s is enjoyed by both partners, the wife should also pay equally towards the child expenses.
I am never marrying
For all the crybabies here complaining about the divorce laws, remember the laws are made this way specifically so that u don’t marry. No better way to keep population in check.
These laws will only check the middle class population, the lower and upper aren't concerned with these laws
@@jkuhedeas per indian standard of living, as soon as you are able to buy a bread, you fall under middle class
I'd choose to go gail rather than paying my agressive , violent , low moral wife
You'll destroy your own life to destroy her's as well?
Well said bro better go jail instead of paying
@@EdwinTylerso beautiful it would be.
Men really need justice..some men get harrasment from their wife n get divorce and even after that he should pay her wt is this fk..
From 2011 - 2015 I was fighting divorce. I am from Kolkata she filed from her native place North Bengal. There were 9+ cases. I had to either take leave travel with laptop overnight on diff dates. This went on for few yrs. I was jailed under 498A, lost job, awarded 60%+ of salary as maintenance. Finally, out of court settlement. She took my son when he was 4yrs back in 2011.
Things like are precisely why the thought of marriage give me chills🥶
Yeah, its your turn to face the heat. For centuries and even now the thought of marriage gave chills to girls bcz they are forced to leave their parents and home and come to live with the boys parents and adjust in a new home.
@@sutanukaadhya1401 hmm u say as if all women are saints i understand what u mean but its not fair that even honest and good men need to suffer bcoz of this
@@sutanukaadhya1401is this generational trauma that mother's pass on to their daughters? This is the biggest crock of shit I've heard.
@@sutanukaadhya1401women should boycott everything made by men and live on inhabited islands
Karma will be working on you as well don't forget that@@sutanukaadhya1401
Its not maintenance : its bheek
First: don't marry for the sake of lust and partner .
Sec: use some sense .
Third: include lawyer during registration of marriage that husband and wife is not liable for any maintenance in future use law in ur favour
Third doesn't work in India.
if you are working lower court will award her money no matter what; Judges are sacred of feminist lobby; better to leave job and not pay anything
Even you don't have job, you have to pay your wife. Law is like that I think. Please check it once.
If a divorce happened Bcz of husbands fault - adultery, cruelty, hid some serious medical condition etc then this is 100% justified. Otherwise if wife did something wrong or it’s simply a no-fault divorce then it’s not ok.
Definition of maintenance - Maintenance is a legal dowry recognized by law payable to the wife by husband.
Don't get married. It's a racket against men and it's bad contract for men.
Indian law is stupid. When women is treated as equals, why anyone should pay anything to anyone. Go get a job girl.
If not accepting Dowry should be made legal. For entertaining such nonsense.
Even if it is not legal, it is there in every marriage. And it was made illegal after centuries, for centuries there was no dowry law, women suffered, now it is the other gender to suffer...the cycle of karma of our ancestors.
@@sush9595 kuch bhi lol. Pehle Kuch centuries pehle kya kya nai hota tah iska matlab ye todhi ki abhi jo galt ho rha woh past mistakes ke vajah se valid hai. Todha toh soche karo.
@@Dreams-sk1jv pheli baat toh yeh 3 months phela ka comment hai, i forgot in what mindset i wrote, secondly i hv not mentioned it that anything is valid or not valid, no where in my comment i have said that neither do i say it is correct.
@@sush9595 aapne bola "now it is for the other gender to suffer'. Meaning you agree with this bullshit law, that is so damn biased towards women. Kher chodo Bina mtlb random logo ko ladai nai karna chahiye. Hope you have good day.
@@sush9595LoL women ☕ eating up own words😂 not unusual
What if before marriage we make paper saying in the case of divorce either of us don't have to give single penny to each other.
Court will not accept it.
don't marry legally but take her as a wife without legal or traditional marriage and so there won't be any problems for a man.
@@tinkuroopa2754 still it would be considered marriage by court
no marriage license. Problem solved
prenups are not valid in india
Absolutely correct proper Advice👍
Why is it that only husband has to pay - how is it fair in today's world - the system just doesn't keep up with the times
On paper women should be equal to men, but in practice it isnt (you can see this in the real world around you). Women still need more support in society.
@Cruiser-j9d please stop the BS - women are thriving in cities - atleast cities is out of question! And when it comes to issues in court, women always given benefit
@@redemptionneeded Even in cities women are not at par with men. In court women are given benefit of a doubt because most men treat them poorly. Women are not a piece of thrash that the guy can throw them out of the house whenever they feel like it.
I'll rather quit my 1 lakh rs job than to pay anything to such parasites.
What if one indentify themselves as "women"?😂
😂😂abhi India me LGBT itna aaya nai hai. Kuch 10 sal baad. Aapka plan bahut Sai hai.
😅
What if a husband file a case while she pay him anything?
@@priyankabhendarkar4863I would put all my inherent property into a trust that would have my parents as beneficiary. Then quit my job. So in the eyes of law im a unemployed man with no property. And your ex would be forced to pay you maintenance.
@@uwu63786jfyou will still be recieving money from some source, even if it's from the trust or parents as long as YOU receive it court will see it as your income and you will have to pay her maintenance. Only way out of this is if your wife earns nearly as much as you.
This is precisely the reason I have decided not to marry anyone
If there is equality and equal pay for equal work why will men pay.
Bheekmangi women ☕
So if i dont have a job and court tell me to pay
That means i have to rob a bank 😂
Donate organs
Thanks now I will remain single. Easy!
@@quietkid7688 bro dont get manipulated by anyone, stay single.
When you dont earn during this time there is a lot of advantage actually 😮.. I hope people understand what I am saying and well I have gone through this and I know I dint pay a DIME or a cent to her and actually I GOT FROM HER.. that too without asking .. her jewellery gold etc she took but I dint lose anything
Darling, a man challenged the MP High Court that he won't give divorce or alimony even at the cost of his head.
😅😅😅😂😂
don't marry and you need not pay anything 😊
They want this for Hindu men to reduce our population by making such laws. These judges are all woke liberal/communist Hindus or follow an Abrahamic religion who do not give a damn fck about Hindu men.
That's equality?
Equality biased to women yes
@@m.abhishekvarma3655 still they fight for equality. Are they dumb
@@vlogdude4866 Even a street dog living outside my house knows that it is not justice, but who will open the eyes of our judicial system.
Equality☕☕☕☕
There is a huge potential in India. Majority of Indian house wives are dissatisfied with their marriage given most of the marriages are arranged. A divorce lawyer could earn in billions per year just from fees. He just need to pipeline the court proceedings.
I am a girl and find this extremely inappropriate.
I understand this law might have been made years ago when ladies didn't use to work.
However, this must be changed now. Nobody should give maintenance to other person
Exception - if there is a kid involved, then both can share kids expenses to be fair.
@@ST-jk1dw you are somehow the first girl talking sense so far.. dont change.
Ghootan hoti hai sun kar hi ..... Aisi baate..
Our laws are just ridiculous
It's best not to get married