The prideful guy I was with let me leave, I never looked back even though he tried to reach out twice after 6 months "poorly" might I add but I gave him very short answers and told him to take care. His weak actions after our breakup solidified that he is not my husband and motivated me to keep pushing, my friends knew how much I loved him so they were shocked at how heartless and unbothered I seemed even though in my bed I would cry myself to sleep for three months and we broke up in the pandemic which made it even harder but one thing I know is my worth! Never looked back and living my best single life and working on me...best feeling ever!!!
@@FarahY1991 I hear you, it sure does and we tend to remember only the good things which is a fantasy story. I wrote down everything in my notes as soon as we broke up and if I started to fantasize about the relationship, I would look back and read my notes which brought me back to reality. The UK went into strict lockdown when we broke up so I couldn't see an friends or go anywhere besides the park but I just learned to love my own company again, I went on long walks with music on, watched netflix series and called friends to speak and also went jogging and it helped! Time is a big factor and things do get better. wishing you all the best xx
My thoughts exactly! 💯 I understand why some women may want to know the why. Especially if they didn't receive the clouser they were looking for. But for the most part, if he let's you leave....that's all the confirmation you need.
These days, women who've picked the wrong men are leaving in coffins. We cannot allow ourselves to be too vulnerable too soon with these predators. We need to fortify ourselves first & foremost. 🙏🏽🌹♥
1-his ego. he gotta big egooooooooooo (in my beyoncé voice) ☺️ 2-he knows he could get you back at anytime...sends a message that you have no backbone 3-it's actually over ❤️ thank you sooo so so so much for sharing your wisdom. your advice and knowledge is life changing.
Sounds like grown boy behavior to me and we as women who want a real relationship should be glad to be rid of these jokers. Ladies don’t ever, ever go backwards to get played. Hold your head up high and learn from your mistakes.
Ego and pride can take you to the grave! This video is on point. The more unbothered you act, the crazier a man with a big will act. It can be scary. Stay safe ladies and know your worth 🥰
I called him a Narcissist, insulted him for having no character, said I don't trust him, included a 😂 emoji & told him he was blocked...after he came back w/ ego & gaslighting. I'm done & need him to not want to try again. He shouldn't want to after I said all that.
@Courtney P Sis, if he's a true NARC, he WILL BE BACK if "YOU" let him COME BACK. It's up to "YOU" to put an END TO THE RELATIONSHIP once and for all ‼️
Yes! I left my husband of 29 years. He is that man...lol. He prides himself on his stubbornness. There is no doubt in my mind that he wants me back. I'm actually thankful that he isn't the kind who would try to make his way back. His return time is over....I'd never accept him now. I've realize the love I deserve now.
He probably didn't return cause he's up in Sally bed now.🛌 Mens can replace another woman fast as hell. But we as women's go on 4 yrs being single hoping, and thinking, wat if I'll did it this way, or that way could hve it saved our relationship,or marriage. Nah!🤷 I dnt hve room dating anyone right now anyway! My life is 2 occupied wit family👪 and my short term goals,long term goals..💃🙌🤗
@@ms.angieb.1597 shaking my head. Praying brothers will treat sisters better we shouldn’t have to go through this stuff and I’m not going to. I’m curious to know if others cultures experience the same things black women do.
The biggest lesson I took from this is to keep moving forward because a man’s ego has an unknown depth. I cried for the first time in 3 weeks not to him, but while I watched your videos. Ive prayed about it and I feel better now. Mahalo
😂😂😂😂 C-O-M-M-U-N-ICATE….I CANNOT EVEN!!! Ahhhh good lesson! I sometimes wish I would have found TG at a younger age. Would have saved myself so much heartache…Glory be to God for allowing me to feed myself my soul this knowledge now. It’s changing my life!!
My hat goes off to the lady who inspired this video because I had the same question. I thought it was ego as well. This was confirmation. Tony broke it down from a man’s perspective.
The last 2mins of this video gave me the closure I needed for understanding what happened with my last relationship. He completely pushed me away, switched up and treated me the opposite of how he did before and I ended up making the decision to communicate that I was removing myself. Really left me with no choice, but it was what he wanted. He just didnt want to be the one to do it.
yes, that's the thing - they want to make you be the one who walks out and cuts it all while they can sit back and wash their hands in assumed innocence because it's you who put an end to it! Ego all over!
First of all, I don't recommend women staying with men that's not treating them right and being disrespectful. If I was in relationship like this, I would talk to him and tell him how I feel but, if he keeps doing it then I will leave.
I don't tell them how I feel. If I have to do that as if he's my child. A grown man knows what his doing. There's no talking. I'm leaving he know what he did.
MY EX HUSBAND LET ME FILE THE DIVORCE AN GOT THE COURT DATE....THEN THE FOOL STARTED BEGGING....HE SAID HE WAS TRYING TO BE HARDER THAN ME....I LEFT ANYWAY....I HOPE HIS PRIDE WAS WORTH IT....!
@@blueseptember2174 Well....that was 13yrs ago....Im doing wonderful....I ended up gettn the divorce, moving to another state....it was the best decision I ever made.....I didnt have any contact wit him since the divorce.....he went on to still do wrong(I heard)....now he in jail for murder....facing 45yrs....u can't treat ppl bad and think u won't face the karma one day....smh 🙏
Love this. Strong women with standards are great for everyone period. Especially their spouses. Love the wisdom of God pouring out on this channel! Glory!
This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you :) I think he’s a narcissist and I have cut ties fully- he is blocked and no going back- not putting up with his crappy breadcrumbs and silent treatments anymore. Fully done! My husband is waiting to find me and now I’m ready to find him✨
This is the best video by far Tony, my male friends said these 3 examples are spot on!!! AND THEEEE TRUTH!!! If he let's you leave never ever return!!!! Forgive yourself and keep it pushing, pray and love on you❤
You sure know how to help someone not to go back and make a fool of themselves after hearing such painful truth 🙌🏾 thank you for the candid talk, I got it🤦🏾♀️
Your wife only calls twice because she's secure with herself, and she's secure in y'all's marriage. She knows she's out, if she gets any kind of inkling that you moving funny! Also.. She speaks my silent language.. I also will ignore the mess outta of, not just my man but anyone.. I don't be caring nothing about nobody's fake attitude. Bc I know.. You may be quiet for a little while.. But you'll be talking again! Ima gone head and let you have yo Lil moment.. That's it and that's all! 😂😂
I hacked my guys phone of 10 years because the holy spirit alerted me to his cheating. It turned out to be true. I screen shot everything. So I confronted him. He played dumb even though I had screen shots of all of his cheating. I told him I'm not playing your games and ended it.
So why does he ask you to marry him, if he's going to LET you leave!!??? So why come back in your life, if he's going to LET you leave? Everything is going well and he's undecisive. Then has the nerve to show up with someone new a month later. Boy bye....Single life is peaceful. Thanks Tony.
I went through the exact same story in order!! When I found peace is was the best thing I'd ever received!! 2 years later he tried again but I was stronger to resist!
Moral of the story: don’t let anything slide with a man. We know, we are just too afraid to be abandoned. Just go get counseling and get closer to God.
Currently going through everything you mentioned. Hes been sleeping on the couch for 2wks now because he don't wanna apologize lmao.. Male ego is serious !!!
C 👀this the main thing Tony be teaching y'all women's and young girls about those corrupt soul of mens. "What y'all allow a man 2 do, that's how he's gonna treat u." Put ur rules dwn girl," Let him knw, either slp in the bed 🛌like a mature grown adult, or remove ur entire body frm my home." And say it wit a straight face..😉
Sleeping on that couch and texting his side lady or ladies enjoying it too! He ain’t worried about apologizing to you sis! I know this was a year ago but knowing these bullshitting ass men y’all probably done broke up by now.
When ppl call that many times they have anxious attachment and it's also manipulation Tony Gaskins I can tell has extensive experience in mental health based in this and his other content/ videos Blessings to him and his wife and family
you’re notorious for making me laugh and keeping a smile on my face while catching the lesson! it hurts to hear at times the reality I was in but I always feel better hearing the truth from you. tryna heal 1 day at a time ❤️ thank you! 🙏🏾
Occupy ur day go walking🚶watch sum horror movies only during the day,😅 video a dish u cooking, om go zoom hve girl talk wit all ur BBF friends, watch a lot of males videos like Tony dealing a emotional break up! Girl, I do it all, jus got out of that situationship.😂
I really needed to hear this. Thanks. My ex sabotaged our relationship of 5 years and I just didn't quite understand why. It's been hard being the one that left. Guilt has been the struggle. But this really helped me to contextualize it. Thanks
What about when a man ignores you for hours even a day or 2, over a miscommunication or misunderstanding or doesn’t even want to understand you, whenever I first met him he was the 1# communicator and listened and was so understanding. I don’t understand how this is love or even healthy?!? It makes me question my worth, who I am and it hurts whether the issue was my fault or his it shouldn’t be handled by being ignored. 😞 I’m ready to bounce because this isn’t helping me prosper mentally, spiritually.
Thank you! This video was for me!! My last situation was with the very guy described here. The guy that every girl wanted to be with and every guy wanted to be. I left him because I found out about another woman and when I asked him about it, he lied up and down. Not too long after that, I found out about yet another woman! Again, he lied and lied and lied! I had enough and blocked him. Four days later, I saw him out with yet another woman! It's been 5 months since I blocked him and I haven't seen or heard from him since day one. He did not care about me! He had 3 others! So when I left it was no big deal. The whole time we dated he really made me feel like we had something special. I cried myself to sleep for a long time. I still miss him sometimes but then I just tell myself no, you miss his representative
Thank you brother tony for your great messages and taking your time to help us sisters survive these streets lol it’s tough out here but for real thank you! God bless you and your beautiful wife and kids
Tony, I just 💯 LOVE videos. Especially because they are 100% accurate and on point!!!! I never doubt when I see a video pop up it was meant for me to see it. Thank you!!!
His Ego!!!! Very very very True. I are such a mind reader or will I say you're truly called to you what you do. I completely agree with you. You said it all. GOD BLESS YOU TOO MUCH!!!
So true! I walked away, and yes i was to blamed, but like you said, it's like he sabatoged it and knew it! Makes 💯sense now. Thank you for the honesty and accountability. I wasn't given. At least I get this as closer and not gaslight anymore.
amen!! I totally get to, going it through that stuff as we speak. Hope that 7 months later you are in a better place mentally and have your smile back! God bless you 💛
This is priceless information. All men better watch out for Tony. He's blocking all the players game. Thank you Tony. You saved me from so much confusion and heartache 😇😇
Tony I LOVE the way you explain stuff in so much detail and specificity! I also love when you explain how your wife does this and that. It really brings real life examples to your teachings, especially pertaining to her its perfect to hear because like you said.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU !) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW ! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT 2021
Thank you for giving a really good example. I love that your living with Queen Esther praise God. I have more understanding about my exhusband, how he sabotaged it.
Took me to long to find this man- A friend recommended me his videos after a recent break-up I went through. The wisdom this man has. THANK YOU TONY for enlightening women on how men behave and what to do and not to do. AMAZING WORK. On behalf on women we appreciate you immensely. 🙌🙌❤❤👏👏
If he can not love you more than his ego he is not the one!
EXACTLY!
Amen
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I agree, not the one!!
Some men will go out of their way to hurt you and then call you emotionally immature when you start acting out and try to leave.
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Classic case of gaslighting.
Whew! This
The weaker the man, the stronger his pride. Ego and love can not coexist. Outstanding video, thank you very much.
This is deep
So wise.
❤️
Yep
Very true!!
The prideful guy I was with let me leave, I never looked back even though he tried to reach out twice after 6 months "poorly" might I add but I gave him very short answers and told him to take care. His weak actions after our breakup solidified that he is not my husband and motivated me to keep pushing, my friends knew how much I loved him so they were shocked at how heartless and unbothered I seemed even though in my bed I would cry myself to sleep for three months and we broke up in the pandemic which made it even harder but one thing I know is my worth! Never looked back and living my best single life and working on me...best feeling ever!!!
Get DOWN😁.....u bad grl....u gone be fine plus u stronger now 👍
@@beefaye6861 haha Thanks girl..I shudder to think what I could have settled for! x
This is what I'm going through now! The pandemic is making harder because I'm stuck at home. Being stuck at home keeps me stuck in my head
@@FarahY1991 I hear you, it sure does and we tend to remember only the good things which is a fantasy story. I wrote down everything in my notes as soon as we broke up and if I started to fantasize about the relationship, I would look back and read my notes which brought me back to reality. The UK went into strict lockdown when we broke up so I couldn't see an friends or go anywhere besides the park but I just learned to love my own company again, I went on long walks with music on, watched netflix series and called friends to speak and also went jogging and it helped! Time is a big factor and things do get better. wishing you all the best xx
@@1991STARSKY thanks lovely 😘
If he lets you leave then he's not your man.
That's right! Stay blessed
No cap
That’s right. He don’t want ya.
My thoughts exactly! 💯
I understand why some women may want to know the why. Especially if they didn't receive the clouser they were looking for. But for the most part, if he let's you leave....that's all the confirmation you need.
Period!
These days, women who've picked the wrong men are leaving in coffins. We cannot allow ourselves to be too vulnerable too soon with these predators. We need to fortify ourselves first & foremost. 🙏🏽🌹♥
Like that one white girl found dead who is a famous TH-camr smh. And now her boyfriend, who is no doubt the abuser, is missing.
@@j-tenn226 Sadly, one of many many tragic stories.😞🙏🏽
@ Jewel…. I agree.❤️
@@teyuana8756 My condolences to you. May God watch over you & the children.🙏🏽💐
@@jewelsafire6844 Thank you I really appreciate that.
Ladies let’s not lack emotional intelligence …..Just …LEAVE DONOT …LOOK BACK!😎
Dang, if I wanted to get treated that way, I might as well have kissed the ass of my enemy!
If he '''lets'' you leave, run dont ever look back ladys, he ain't never going to change
1-his ego. he gotta big egooooooooooo (in my beyoncé voice) ☺️
2-he knows he could get you back at anytime...sends a message that you have no backbone
3-it's actually over
❤️ thank you sooo so so so much for sharing your wisdom. your advice and knowledge is life changing.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I love when someone post them! Some need to read it to get it! Thank you Queen! 😊❤
I’m experiencing 1&2, but he’s gonna quickly find out it’s actually 3. 🤷♀️
Sounds like grown boy behavior to me and we as women who want a real relationship should be glad to be rid of these jokers. Ladies don’t ever, ever go backwards to get played. Hold your head up high and learn from your mistakes.
Ego and pride can take you to the grave! This video is on point. The more unbothered you act, the crazier a man with a big will act. It can be scary. Stay safe ladies and know your worth 🥰
I called him a Narcissist, insulted him for having no character, said I don't trust him, included a 😂 emoji & told him he was blocked...after he came back w/ ego & gaslighting. I'm done & need him to not want to try again. He shouldn't want to after I said all that.
Ohhhhh I wish I could like your comment 1000 times 😂🙌🏽
@Courtney P Sis, if he's a true NARC, he WILL BE BACK if "YOU" let him COME BACK. It's up to "YOU" to put an END TO THE RELATIONSHIP once and for all ‼️
@@ysmithriley definitely true. He will stay blocked. He's either a Narc or has the traits. Don't know, don't care. I'm done
Right....no rollercoaster for me
@@Cpre1111 that part
...🤣🤣🤦🏾♀️"C-O-M-M-U-N..icate!"...
Why is he LIKE DIS!!! 🤣🤣🤣💀
🤣🤣 Tony be on point with the reenactments!!
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Yes! I left my husband of 29 years. He is that man...lol. He prides himself on his stubbornness.
There is no doubt in my mind that he wants me back. I'm actually thankful that he isn't the kind who would try to make his way back.
His return time is over....I'd never accept him now. I've realize the love I deserve now.
He probably didn't return cause he's up in Sally bed now.🛌 Mens can replace another woman fast as hell. But we as women's go on 4 yrs being single hoping, and thinking, wat if I'll did it this way, or that way could hve it saved our relationship,or marriage. Nah!🤷 I dnt hve room dating anyone right now anyway! My life is 2 occupied wit family👪 and my short term goals,long term goals..💃🙌🤗
@@innocentlife2346 lol
Wow 29 years??! Damn that's TOO long to stick it out with a man boy!
This is actually a sad reality that men go this far and play games like this lol. It’s beyond me .
Communicate lol
@lu…. Really sad… grown boys and narcissists… even men in their 50s and 60s… still playing games at their age.
@@ms.angieb.1597 shaking my head. Praying brothers will treat sisters better we shouldn’t have to go through this stuff and I’m not going to. I’m curious to know if others cultures experience the same things black women do.
@@luwilliams1059 prolly not
All three sounds narcissistic, forget walking, “run”
TRUTH!
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Sweetie yes sounds like my ex narcissistic
The biggest lesson I took from this is to keep moving forward because a man’s ego has an unknown depth. I cried for the first time in 3 weeks not to him, but while I watched your videos. Ive prayed about it and I feel better now. Mahalo
His stomach is hurting, his head is hurting, he is stressed out. 😂😂😂😂😂 These men down bad. 🗑
😅😅😅
the renting a car and tenting windows is giving me crazy stalker vibes
But I Love It
Yup, cause i been through that.
I’ve been the girl that’s done that.
lolll yup
Going through this now, he better not lol
Calling 3,4,5,6,10 times doesn't make a difference all it shows is that you are deranged 🤣🤣🤣 I felt that.
Not deranged 😂
I'll have to admit, I dun been deranged before😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 C-O-M-M-U-N-ICATE….I CANNOT EVEN!!! Ahhhh good lesson! I sometimes wish I would have found TG at a younger age. Would have saved myself so much heartache…Glory be to God for allowing me to feed myself my soul this knowledge now. It’s changing my life!!
Same Sis, Same!!
Who u telln.....I needed him in my 20's......Lawd of mercy
@@beefaye6861 me too!! I’m in my 50s….
I laughed so hard hahhahahahha
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The whole rant he went on about the word “let” 😩😩😩 he’s sick of it 😂😂
😅🤣🤣😂😂
lol he stop me before I started lol
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That ego has the man missing out.
My hat goes off to the lady who inspired this video because I had the same question. I thought it was ego as well. This was confirmation. Tony broke it down from a man’s perspective.
The last 2mins of this video gave me the closure I needed for understanding what happened with my last relationship. He completely pushed me away, switched up and treated me the opposite of how he did before and I ended up making the decision to communicate that I was removing myself. Really left me with no choice, but it was what he wanted. He just didnt want to be the one to do it.
Pathetic man. However would rather be the dumper than the dumpee. Rejection breeds obsession. End it on your terms, regardless of the games.
Me Too 😔
Samee 😕
yes, that's the thing - they want to make you be the one who walks out and cuts it all while they can sit back and wash their hands in assumed innocence because it's you who put an end to it! Ego all over!
First of all, I don't recommend women staying with men that's not treating them right and being disrespectful. If I was in relationship like this, I would talk to him and tell him how I feel but, if he keeps doing it then I will leave.
Amen
No talking, Jus get up! And leave.."That Narcissist knws whats weak in u."👍
Easier said than done
I don't tell them how I feel. If I have to do that as if he's my child. A grown man knows what his doing. There's no talking. I'm leaving he know what he did.
I was looking for this comment.
Let all say it together guys….WE LOVE YOU TONY, keep speaking the truth! 🙏🏾👑💖
“He will go get those windows tinted, for $160” 😂😂🤣 I’m dead
I almost screamed. Too funny
Lmbo 😂😂😂
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This is so true
Lmao 🤣
Sounds like a Grown Boy not a Real Man. Go on now, git!
Exactly.
I love how Tony makes me laugh while helping me learn and heal😂👏🏾
MY EX HUSBAND LET ME FILE THE DIVORCE AN GOT THE COURT DATE....THEN THE FOOL STARTED BEGGING....HE SAID HE WAS TRYING TO BE HARDER THAN ME....I LEFT ANYWAY....I HOPE HIS PRIDE WAS WORTH IT....!
U did the right thing, If u took him bck, he'll started that same bs over again.
Almost sounds passive aggressive.
@@a.d.b535 IKR....so glad I went thru with it 👏
@@blueseptember2174 Well....that was 13yrs ago....Im doing wonderful....I ended up gettn the divorce, moving to another state....it was the best decision I ever made.....I didnt have any contact wit him since the divorce.....he went on to still do wrong(I heard)....now he in jail for murder....facing 45yrs....u can't treat ppl bad and think u won't face the karma one day....smh 🙏
@@blueseptember2174 thank you....same you 🙏
I had water in my mouth and almost choked when he said, should you go back? “NO!!” Just straight up NO 😂❤💯💯
“She’s spineless” KILLLLLT ME 😂😂😂😂
💯 EGO AND PRIDE
Lets not get caught up in semantics 🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😭 Tony is hilarious
Love this. Strong women with standards are great for everyone period. Especially their spouses. Love the wisdom of God pouring out on this channel! Glory!
@Jam. Amen 🙏
This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you :) I think he’s a narcissist and I have cut ties fully- he is blocked and no going back- not putting up with his crappy breadcrumbs and silent treatments anymore. Fully done!
My husband is waiting to find me and now I’m ready to find him✨
@@MsCia007 We have got this lovely! Xx
Me too
This is the best video by far Tony, my male friends said these 3 examples are spot on!!! AND THEEEE TRUTH!!! If he let's you leave never ever return!!!! Forgive yourself and keep it pushing, pray and love on you❤
Male ego is so true. It sounds like a miserable life to live with it. 🤷🏻♀️✌🏼
You sure know how to help someone not to go back and make a fool of themselves after hearing such painful truth 🙌🏾 thank you for the candid talk, I got it🤦🏾♀️
In my case this guy was sabotaging the relationship because I was getting serious and he still wanted to play the field.
🤣🤣🤣. Wow that ego is a joke. Nope, don't look back & don't go back. You can't fit in the room with that ego. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Love the way that’s worded 🔥
Your wife only calls twice because she's secure with herself, and she's secure in y'all's marriage. She knows she's out, if she gets any kind of inkling that you moving funny! Also.. She speaks my silent language.. I also will ignore the mess outta of, not just my man but anyone.. I don't be caring nothing about nobody's fake attitude. Bc I know.. You may be quiet for a little while.. But you'll be talking again! Ima gone head and let you have yo Lil moment.. That's it and that's all! 😂😂
@@wonderfullyrenee Exactly! Could be something as simple as them needing to ask a question on how to do something. But they will talk! 😂
A man with a big ego If you come back he will show his a narcissistic traits and he will control you and run your life
Wow I wasn’t expecting that first answer to be Ego. But that makes sense. Thanks for sharing.
I hacked my guys phone of 10 years because the holy spirit alerted me to his cheating. It turned out to be true. I screen shot everything. So I confronted him. He played dumb even though I had screen shots of all of his cheating. I told him I'm not playing your games and ended it.
I can’t wait to meet a man with your mindset
So why does he ask you to marry him, if he's going to LET you leave!!??? So why come back in your life, if he's going to LET you leave? Everything is going well and he's undecisive. Then has the nerve to show up with someone new a month later. Boy bye....Single life is peaceful. Thanks Tony.
He liked the idea of it but was never going to act on it. No different than someone saying hey let’s meet up for drinks but never calls to set it up.
Boy, BYE..!!
Grown boy ... ✌
I went through the exact same story in order!! When I found peace is was the best thing I'd ever received!! 2 years later he tried again but I was stronger to resist!
Men today want to waste your time love and energy and come in a out of your life like a revolving door,
“Yeen got it, yeen fresh azimiz” 😂😂😂Tony cracks me up everytime
Cracking up at the “Translate to English” 😭😭
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Moral of the story: don’t let anything slide with a man. We know, we are just too afraid to be abandoned. Just go get counseling and get closer to God.
Minute 2: that argument free life 🙌!
Not tinted windows on a rental car..I fell out laughing..🤣🤣😆😆
Loooooooooool his breakdown 😂😂😂😂😂 this has made my morning. Thanks TG 😂😂😂😢😢
the way you paused while cry-spelling out communicate had me FLAT OUT 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That used to be me 😂😂😂
Dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@fatimadierro2379 lol ...u silly 😂😂😂😂😂
@@beefaye6861 Omg girl it was bad 😂😂😂😂😂Now I know better
@@blueseptember2174 Don’t feel dumb sis. It’s a part of the process. God is going to bless us with someone who deserves us and it will be effortless.
Currently going through everything you mentioned. Hes been sleeping on the couch for 2wks now because he don't wanna apologize lmao.. Male ego is serious !!!
Naaa, never live with a man who's not your husband even though you think you call the shots naaa you don't
Smh....dont crack give him extra pillows.....boy gro up ✌
Not on the couch 🤣🤣🤣
C 👀this the main thing Tony be teaching y'all women's and young girls about those corrupt soul of mens. "What y'all allow a man 2 do, that's how he's gonna treat u." Put ur rules dwn girl," Let him knw, either slp in the bed 🛌like a mature grown adult, or remove ur entire body frm my home." And say it wit a straight face..😉
Sleeping on that couch and texting his side lady or ladies enjoying it too! He ain’t worried about apologizing to you sis! I know this was a year ago but knowing these bullshitting ass men y’all probably done broke up by now.
When ppl call that many times they have anxious attachment and it's also manipulation
Tony Gaskins I can tell has extensive experience in mental health based in this and his other content/ videos
Blessings to him and his wife and family
you’re notorious for making me laugh and keeping a smile on my face while catching the lesson! it hurts to hear at times the reality I was in but I always feel better hearing the truth from you. tryna heal 1 day at a time ❤️ thank you! 🙏🏾
You will just keep going!
One day at a time…. You’ll get there. Praying for you🙏
Occupy ur day go walking🚶watch sum horror movies only during the day,😅 video a dish u cooking, om go zoom hve girl talk wit all ur BBF friends, watch a lot of males videos like Tony dealing a emotional break up! Girl, I do it all, jus got out of that situationship.😂
I agree Tony. My last 2 relationships ended & they let me go due to their ego.
You deserve better 😔
Thank you
@Tyisha… my last relationship ended the same way…. Huge ego
You mean you left your last 2 relationships
THE WAY I Just HOLLARD 😂😂😂he will rent a car 🚗 I had this happen to me lol that ego !!!
That male ego is something to contend with. Thanks for your continued insight
The reason why you shouldn't push it because it might not be ment to be
Can you do a video on letting husbands go? Affairs,disrespectful words, financial abuse, family members ,spiritual or etc?
I really needed to hear this. Thanks. My ex sabotaged our relationship of 5 years and I just didn't quite understand why. It's been hard being the one that left. Guilt has been the struggle. But this really helped me to contextualize it. Thanks
What about when a man ignores you for hours even a day or 2, over a miscommunication or misunderstanding or doesn’t even want to understand you, whenever I first met him he was the 1# communicator and listened and was so understanding. I don’t understand how this is love or even healthy?!? It makes me question my worth, who I am and it hurts whether the issue was my fault or his it shouldn’t be handled by being ignored. 😞 I’m ready to bounce because this isn’t helping me prosper mentally, spiritually.
Wow. Glad to have that confirmed for me. Thanks so much for sharing this 💖
Thank you Tony. I needed this 🙏🏾🙏🏾.
Thank you! This video was for me!! My last situation was with the very guy described here. The guy that every girl wanted to be with and every guy wanted to be. I left him because I found out about another woman and when I asked him about it, he lied up and down. Not too long after that, I found out about yet another woman! Again, he lied and lied and lied! I had enough and blocked him. Four days later, I saw him out with yet another woman! It's been 5 months since I blocked him and I haven't seen or heard from him since day one. He did not care about me! He had 3 others! So when I left it was no big deal. The whole time we dated he really made me feel like we had something special. I cried myself to sleep for a long time. I still miss him sometimes but then I just tell myself no, you miss his representative
I just love the extreme clarity. lol absolutely amazing!!! like...truely!
his pride, ego, and his shortcomings !!!
Thank you brother tony for your great messages and taking your time to help us sisters survive these streets lol it’s tough out here but for real thank you! God bless you and your beautiful wife and kids
Tony, I just 💯 LOVE videos. Especially because they are 100% accurate and on point!!!! I never doubt when I see a video pop up it was meant for me to see it. Thank you!!!
"No. No you should not." I love the way you said this. Just straight up, NO. 😂
Nothing but cold hard facts, as usual.
WOW....SPEAK THAT TRUTH TONY!!! THANK YOU......FOR THE CLARITY!!!! IT IS TRULY APPRECIATED!!!!💯💯💞💓💗💕💖❤
Thank you for this! I really am naive & have always been! I got it! Lord comes through all the time!
This is probably why men who have been left party so hard and become extremely promiscuous because they are trying to cope with the pain ….
Yeeeeepppppp
It’s pathetic
Effects of porn on the male brain with parental wounds
@Maisha… I agree… I’ve also see them turn to drugs to deal with the pain
I agree, it's a bandaid.
Thank you! I needed this Tony.
His Ego!!!! Very very very True. I are such a mind reader or will I say you're truly called to you what you do. I completely agree with you. You said it all. GOD BLESS YOU TOO MUCH!!!
Dang. 2 years later and it’s still triggering. I haven’t met another man since nor been on a new date! I so badly want to move on.
I agree. Absolutely Tony is Saving Us. Blessing to this Man🙏🏽
So true! I walked away, and yes i was to blamed, but like you said, it's like he sabatoged it and knew it! Makes 💯sense now. Thank you for the honesty and accountability. I wasn't given. At least I get this as closer and not gaslight anymore.
amen!! I totally get to, going it through that stuff as we speak. Hope that 7 months later you are in a better place mentally and have your smile back! God bless you 💛
You're the best TG! May you and yours remain continuously blessed!
Great insight on the way men think! Thanks!
This is the exact video I needed! Thank you
This is priceless information. All men better watch out for Tony. He's blocking all the players game. Thank you Tony. You saved me from so much confusion and heartache 😇😇
Love your videos watch them daily🙌🏾 Thank you!
Real talk! Thank you and really appreciate.
I love the way you explain all of this thank you
Thanks Tony. Needed to hear this.
Tony I LOVE the way you explain stuff in so much detail and specificity! I also love when you explain how your wife does this and that. It really brings real life examples to your teachings, especially pertaining to her its perfect to hear because like you said.
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS ( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU !) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW ! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT 2021
Thank you Tony, great summary
It’s the “YEEN FRESH AS IM IS” for me 😂
Lmbo!!!! I had a good laugh at that myself
😂😂😂
Windows tinted for $160.00 🤣👏 truth Tony!!
Omg these videos are saving my life!!! ❤grateful to yooooouuuuu.
Thank you for giving a really good example. I love that your living with Queen Esther praise God. I have more understanding about my exhusband, how he sabotaged it.
Finally a topic that relates to my life all this sounds very familiar this is literally what I just went through this is crazy!!!!
Took me to long to find this man- A friend recommended me his videos after a recent break-up I went through. The wisdom this man has. THANK YOU TONY for enlightening women on how men behave and what to do and not to do. AMAZING WORK. On behalf on women we appreciate you immensely. 🙌🙌❤❤👏👏
Yes, Tony you are so right.
You hit the nail on the head!
Love this so much! Tony is one of my favs plus the accent keeps me coming!
Thank you for sharing. 💎💎💎