Thank you! Recently belittled and scorned in my prayer group and then tattled on to pastor. Never been spoken to so arrogantly or with such hostility and ive been in the church for 30 years. I took several nights to be able to sleep again and stop churning
Thank you for that message it was surely meaningful for especially me my son doesn't talk to me I feel like a fool always letting him know I love him when he refuses to speak to me I guess I'll have to be the one that loves the most
Thank you for sharing, Connie. Please know that you and your son are in our prayers. If you'd like to pray along with a caring staff member about this situation, don't hesitate to call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
This was so timely for me to hear and practice TODAY!! I would like to hear more about the how-to/examples/etc of the 'whoever pays the debt' practice, please.
It's been particularly out there since covid. Impatience, rudeness, self-absorbed, and just plain nasty! I have felt that there are clicks in churches especially if someone has been a member since day one of the church. Some old members just don't embrace new people like you think they should.
It's important for parents to "discuss" things they may have differences of opinions in at least earshot of choldren. My parents were separated around 7 yrs total when I was young. I never saw them argue or even discuss anything. I grew up never to this day without the tools to speak to any of my 4 husbands. I couldn't get any of them to stop beating me each time when I left they couldn't understand why. I couldn't explain that either. 😪
Precious Woman I pray that the healing love of Jesus Christ minister to your broken heart and spirit and that you will realize that His love for you makes you the most worthy being ever! Much love - Sisters in pain
i watch the chanel often recently, many of great themes but really hope to have subtitle so could be enjoy by all countries including my country Indonesia
One of my sisters has been extremely toxic, to the extent that every single member of our family has cut off communication with her. I do not feel the least bit guilty because she has hurled false accusations at all of us and has burned all of her bridges. She continues to lie about me on Facebook. I know this because my youngest daughter is still “friends” with her and has told me. I have tried several times to reconcile with her, but she loves sewing discord and spewing hateful rhetoric at me. The last email we had was about salvation. Even though we had godly parents who raised us up in Church in the fear and admonition of the Lord, she has chosen to be bitter and leave her Christian faith. When I shared with her how to get saved and that Jesus is the only way, she blew up at me and quit emailing me, but continued to lie about me publicly. This is not about irreconcilable differences, because I have an unsaved brother that I communicate with on a regular basis. It’s about me being verbally abused at every turn and deciding that I don’t need to subject myself to It anymore.
LIVING AT PEACE! Pilgrims walking towards Spiritual Sites can just aim at getting there, travelling, or can associate walking with journeying as in Stations of the Cross or other Spiritual mental or physical interactions. It is a mistake then to match, for example, a Religion with the type of walk. Since Sacred Psychology considers paths towards one's truth or Faith, it may not be fair to dump the baby and the bath water. It is fantastic to reach a point where we can very much relate to views and feelings that deeply touch our buttons and it requires openness to appreciate a variety of both lateral (stopping on the way at given opportunities) and vertical activities aiming more directly at a goal. A tree cannot be fully determined by the trunk alone. Each of us has been given, more than in the past, a wider vision of the world that can allow us to fully use, enjoy and sustain the Gratitude associated with a feeling of Oneness to the fuller potential that is made available to us!
What do you do when a Father is constantly provoking their Child? The Child is trying their best to avoid conflict but the Father keeps pushing them to Sin.
Maybe speak to the parent about this with love and respect and the Word, but don't expect change in the short-term. The Holy Ghost has to do His work. And care for yourself, talk to Christian counsellor/supportive and trustworthy church member. And keep giving thanks no matter what, speak over yourself, confuse the enemy, we are a peculiar people.
Thank you! Recently belittled and scorned in my prayer group and then tattled on to pastor. Never been spoken to so arrogantly or with such hostility and ive been in the church for 30 years. I took several nights to be able to sleep again and stop churning
Sorry that happened to you. I know how you feel.
You, sadly, are not alone.
I left my church...I was there 5 yrs. I discovered there was clicks I was blinded to...I was very naive!!!! rather walk with Jesus alone 😔
I’m so sorry you’ve experienced such a horrible expierience my prayers are with you 🥺❤️ Take heart, Jesus knows how you feel and is with you ❤️😊
So sorry 🙏
Much needed in this day and age. 🙏🙏🙏
Thank You
Thank you for this message! How true your words ring in my ears! Love and forgiveness is a choice we can make in Christ!! Blessings in abundance!!
So difficult dealing with mentally ill/narcissist and in a family business deal. I pray every day. Thank you for your help.
Lord they are not my child but yours 💗 game changer
Great point about delaying attention to problems only delays God's assistance to Fix the temporal aka carnal difficulties
Thank you, Pastor Nobel!
background resentment - that underlying, unresolved conflict, crossing of boundaries
I needed to hear this today. TY
Thank you.❤
Thank you for that message it was surely meaningful for especially me my son doesn't talk to me I feel like a fool always letting him know I love him when he refuses to speak to me I guess I'll have to be the one that loves the most
Thank you for sharing, Connie. Please know that you and your son are in our prayers. If you'd like to pray along with a caring staff member about this situation, don't hesitate to call 1-800-A-FAMILY.
What a timely message! Thank you for this. I will definitely be adding this to my library.
Facts 👏❤️✝️🙏
Yes me too😔🙏🏻❤
Same here
Very interesting,⛺ deep stuff here... THANK YOU.
well, Jesus knew how to deal with conflicts because HE has all authority in
This was so timely for me to hear and practice TODAY!! I would like to hear more about the how-to/examples/etc of the 'whoever pays the debt' practice, please.
Jesus was the master of "loving truth"
"...this life is like a tent, not a nuclear safe bunker" great analogy
It's been particularly out there since covid. Impatience, rudeness, self-absorbed, and just plain nasty! I have felt that there are clicks in churches especially if someone has been a member since day one of the church. Some old members just don't embrace new people like you think they should.
It's important for parents to "discuss" things they may have differences of opinions in at least earshot of choldren. My parents were separated around 7 yrs total when I was young. I never saw them argue or even discuss anything. I grew up never to this day without the tools to speak to any of my 4 husbands. I couldn't get any of them to stop beating me each time when I left they couldn't understand why. I couldn't explain that either. 😪
Precious Woman I pray that the healing love of Jesus Christ minister to your broken heart and spirit and that you will realize that His love for you makes you the most worthy being ever! Much love - Sisters in pain
i watch the chanel often recently, many of great themes but really hope to have subtitle so could be enjoy by all countries including my country Indonesia
Forgive them Father, for they know not what they do
❤❤❤
One of my sisters has been extremely toxic, to the extent that every single member of our family has cut off communication with her. I do not feel the least bit guilty because she has hurled false accusations at all of us and has burned all of her bridges. She continues to lie about me on Facebook. I know this because my youngest daughter is still “friends” with her and has told me. I have tried several times to reconcile with her, but she loves sewing discord and spewing hateful rhetoric at me. The last email we had was about salvation. Even though we had godly parents who raised us up in Church in the fear and admonition of the Lord, she has chosen to be bitter and leave her Christian faith. When I shared with her how to get saved and that Jesus is the only way, she blew up at me and quit emailing me, but continued to lie about me publicly. This is not about irreconcilable differences, because I have an unsaved brother that I communicate with on a regular basis. It’s about me being verbally abused at every turn and deciding that I don’t need to subject myself to It anymore.
It's a spiritual battle
LIVING AT PEACE! Pilgrims walking towards Spiritual Sites can just aim at getting there, travelling, or can associate walking with journeying as in Stations of the Cross or other Spiritual mental or physical interactions. It is a mistake then to match, for example, a Religion with the type of walk. Since Sacred Psychology considers paths towards one's truth or Faith, it may not be fair to dump the baby and the bath water. It is fantastic to reach a point where we can very much relate to views and feelings that deeply touch our buttons and it requires openness to appreciate a variety of both lateral (stopping on the way at given opportunities) and vertical activities aiming more directly at a goal. A tree cannot be fully determined by the trunk alone. Each of us has been given, more than in the past, a wider vision of the world that can allow us to fully use, enjoy and sustain the Gratitude associated with a feeling of Oneness to the fuller potential that is made available to us!
What do you do when a Father is constantly provoking their Child? The Child is trying their best to avoid conflict but the Father keeps pushing them to Sin.
Choose to love them… it is always a choice… our nature is to repay unkind with unkind, specially our family, but choose to love!
Maybe speak to the parent about this with love and respect and the Word, but don't expect change in the short-term. The Holy Ghost has to do His work. And care for yourself, talk to Christian counsellor/supportive and trustworthy church member. And keep giving thanks no matter what, speak over yourself, confuse the enemy, we are a peculiar people.
This is abuse. Leave or avoid such cruel people.
So sad I can totally relate my dad provoked me to not want anything to do w him. Teach them strong boundaries. The gray rock method helped me .
Too often adults look like overgrown 10 year olds
That's generous. I was gonna say 2 year old
This told me nothing I was hoping for some practical advice not just phrases that didn’t really mean anything in layman’s terms.
I spoke a response and texted it. I saw it once written out but now I don't see it
Living with a narcisist
🙏
I need that die to self. I sure have failed there. 😥
Keep getting up and moving forward with the Lord!
Tammy, I feel the same way about myself.
Me too! Sometimes I feel that being a Christian is very hard. It’s so easy to fail!.
We all have
Just stay away from ppl trust no one I don't like ppl scary
Trust Jesus.