🌼🌿✨Timestamps 🌼🌿 ~ 00:01 - 04:39 ✨Lana Del Rey - Salvatore ~ 04:40 - 09:14 ✨ Mitski - First Love / Late Spring ~ 09:15 - 13:05 ✨ Lana Del Rey - Young and Beautiful ~ 13:06 - 16:20 ✨ Pomme - Grandiose ~ 16:21 - 20:28 ✨Lana Del Rey - Ultraviolence ~ 20:30 - 22:37 ✨ Mitski - Washing Machine Heart ~ 22:38 - 25:50 ✨ Mitski - Stay Soft ~ 25:51 - 28:13 ✨ Pomme - Je sais pas danser ~ 28:14 - 31:12 ✨ Lana Del Rey - The Other Woman ~ 31:13 - 34:24 ✨ Mitski - Nobody ~ 34:25 - 37:55 ✨ Pomme - à perte de vue ~ 37:56 - 40:19 ✨ Mitski - Francis Forever ~ 40:20 - 42:36 ✨ Mitski - Me and My Husband . . (Maybe later I will fix anything, but oof, thank for the playlist!! I'm happy I did this, I met Pomme through here so win-win lol)
He matched with another girl. He smiled with another girl. He laughed with another girl. He called with another girl. He texted the other girl gn and gm. He called another girl pretty when all I get is “you look okay”. He loves another girl.
Don't let stupid boys get to you, if he can't see you for the treasure for you are then forget about him cause' he's flat out dumb and definitely not worth it. There's definitely millions of people who like you because you're beautiful, smart, interesting, and so much more. If he isn't one of those millions then his loss because you are one of a kind hun. Love ya
The worst part for me is that I AM that other girl... He just doesn't ask me out at all. Even asked another girl to our school dance when I've heard from a few of my friends that he's told about his love for me... Either side is difficult no matter who he picks
@@Simply1AzaleaSmith if he goes low go lower queen. ❤ Act like he don’t even exist. It’s better and funnier that way. Go glow up and enjoy your youth. Men ain’t worth it unless they are the right one.
He literally asked out my best friend while we were still dating; they both knew and she said yes. The first girl i ever dated would always tell my best friend that she hated me, she would constantly insult me and my appearance.
That is awful ☹️, but know that things get better ❤️🩹 they were not a friend, and know that there are always better people who are still searching for you!
@@NoemyMenchaca Its okay, I forgive him and i agree- we were better off as friends.And he told me not long after, he was being pretty nice about it. But the first girl i dated is talking about others behind their backs, calling them slvts and wh0res. So i dodged a bullet, hah.
He said he loved me more, said i was prettier, said i was more mature, said i deserved better, said i was smarter, said i was the most important person to him. And he still refused to leave her
I feel sad about all the women who were treated that way, but I'm just imagining some random guy from the wilderness, accidentally here, reading some comments, thinking of how he's got not even one person, meanwhile other guys got too many options to stay true to.
Not gonna lie, I did actually accidently stumble onto this after I listened to ''Cinnamon Girl'' by Lana - that song means a lot to me because my ex told me that she cried herself to sleep listening to it after she broke up with me BUT what I'm really thinking of is just how much hardship so many of y'all are enduring. Stay strong.
i have a guy bsf. We started talking from october ( i texted him first and he was kind enough to not be dry). I still remember how much we talked the first day of knowing eachother. We talked for hours and hours. Even though we didnt know eachother at all till that day, we talked as if we’ve known each other for a long time. There was no awkwardness between us which was strange considering we both are introverts who doesnt get comfortable with others that easily. The next day, we texted each other the whole day. There was not a single time where both of us were left on delivered for more than 10mins that day. From that day on, we texted each other everyday. We would talk about so many things which made us develop a close friendship in a short period of time. Except, i started to develop feelings that were more than a platonic feeling. I started to look forward to him talking about his passions (astrophysics, bikes), i started to look forward to hear his laughters in our phone calls ( which always lasted for more than 3hrs btw) i started to feel joyful and calm at the same time whenever i talked to him. School started to be a little bit more bearable as i would get to see his face.I dont know what made me start liking him, his humor? his laughter? his creativitiness? his ability to make me feel as if the world has stopped spinning and its just him and i?. We have so many things in common (music taste, moral values, animals, sense of humor etc) honestly sometimes i would think that him and i had similar personalities. He is such a nice person which made me like him even more. i even told my friends about him. Everything was fine until i started to sense something. I started to feel that he liked my other close friend a lot (she also knew that i liked him). He would always mention her to me. They started texting each other too. I dont know why, i started to feel jealous. Jealousy was a new thing for me and it started to take over my mind a lot. Although i was jealous, i wouldn’t show it (at all). Whenever he talked about her, i engaged in those convos (even though deepdown it bothered me). i even asked her if she liked him or not. She would always say no or i dont know but deep down i knew she liked him as much as he liked her. So i would always tell her, if anything happens between you guys, you should just go for it dont think about me, because love is not something that we cannot control, if two hearts beat for each other nothing can stop them. It was obvious how much they liked each other and i didnt want to be the thing that gets in between them. As days started to pass by, my feelings for him started to grow stronger, but at the same time his feelings for my friend started to grow stronger. There have been days where ive cried a lot cuz of him. Ive cried so many times cuz i knew that my heart beats for someone who doesn’t beat for me. Ive cried so much thinking he will never see me the way i see him. i started to get frustrated, why cannot he not see me?, what does she have that i dont?. i knew that i deserved better than this, but for some reason i just couldn’t move on. I hated the fact that i couldn’t control my own heart. Fast forward to now, they’re in a relationship with eachother🥲. The way that i cried so much on the day he told me that they’re dating now🌝. It’s pathetic that i still haven’t moved on. I still love him. I keep reminiscing about my favorite moments with him and keep thinking to myself about the what if’s. i can’t believe i experienced my first love and first heartbreak with someone i didnt even date. Being the other woman sucks so bad, u have so much love for someone who will never see you in the same way. What hurts me more is that him and his gf/my friend are such nice people and they both deserve each other. i know how much they both love each other, its very genuine. im happy for both of them but at the same time, my hurt aches a lot. i wonder if he knows how much i loved him…
This is bad (the feeling), I'm sorry about that. There's no way to "move on" just by thinking, "Oh, I don't want it anymore," but could you fill your mind with something else, maybe paintings, drawings, poems? It may even be indirectly related to them. I hope this comment helps you! I'm sorry if this seemed a bit unrealistic and difficult to do, we've felt this at some point in our lives and I think practically all of these people listening to this playlist are going through something similar, we know it's not good.
thank u smm🫶🫶 i thought i was doing well but no… they went on their first date today and as u can see, im not fine. I keep thinking how that shudve been me and i still dont get how he liked her but never saw me… we have sm in common then wat they have with eachother…
I hope you’re ok now but ofc you cant do well . I mean you feel like the other woman and you still stay with them being best friends with them. You re important than your relationships your emotions most important thing about your life and sometimes we just don’t see the people the way they want it .he’s probably not gonna see you unless you make it clear with him bc he doesnt have an idea which you cant rn if they’re in a relationship i hope i explained myself English in not my first language so comment me back
I was in love with a boy, but all he could see was my best friend, she was quite pretty and I am a guy too so I always knew he would chose her yet I blinded myself and at the end I was there watching them be happy cuz i loved them both i wanted them to be happy even without me. I feel a bit weird to be "the other woman" bc im a man but i'm sorry for all the girls suffering for idiots This playlist is perfect btw!!
You might be happy now. But it'll never last. The guilt will always eat you slowly at night. While you say the things you've told me before her. When you do the things we've done before her. You'll never be ever happy.
The day that I finally get my confidence to confess to her. this is it. I can do it. The park we always hung out, shes sitting there. My heart is racing, the anxiety and nerves to go up to her. I've been waiting years to be able to do this. The closer to the park I get, the more anxious I feel. My heart stops when I see another figure sit next to her. She never mentioned anything of a brother before. She leans into him and I see him wrap an arm around her. I watch as she snuggle into his arms as my heart sinks. As I watch the sight unfold before my eyes, I drop the bouquet that I was safely holding. I give myself the courage to go up to them, hoping the reality isn't what it is. "You're here! i wanted to introduce you to my boyfriend." Boyfriend. Boyfriend. Boyfriend. That word echoes in my mind as I replay it over and over again. Boyfriend. She's not yours. She's his.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this horrible feeling fr... I hope you find the right person loves you as much as you love them one day and belong with each other💗
This playlist reminded me of the day I had the brilliant idea of declaring myself to a boy I had liked for a long time. I had put on my best outfit, did my makeup, did my hair and finally went to school. I arrived at school and was praised several times by people I knew and I increasingly had hope that he would accept my feelings. I saw him with a girl... a girl I didn't know, but of course I thought they were friends, when he saw me he opened his eyes wide and then praised me and I was shy about his compliments And the girl he was with... Well, she just stared at me with a look I couldn't understand. I waited and waited for the class to end and I got more and more nervous, when the class finally ended I saw him talking to the girl, I was a little jealous of how he looked at the girl but I just left it aside after all I thought they were just friends. I told him I wanted to tell him something, but he immediately said "I'm sorry to interrupt you, but I wanted you to meet my girlfriend" *Girlfriend?...* Oh... Everything seemed to have stopped at that moment, he had never told me he had a girlfriend.. that day I thought he would accept my feelings but I was wrong... (a book idea I had, if anything is wrong I'm sorry! I used the translator)
No matter how bad she looks or how badly she does her makeup, even if she treats others badly and then acts like a angel, even if she bullies me, She still appears innocent and beautiful to him, She gets his calls, his texts, his compliments, his protection, his smiles, While all I get is a hateful look for talking to other boys, A up and down checkout when I get ready, A yelling and shouting, A tantrum because I said something about her, An insult, Humiliation, While she gets all the happiness, So I have always been the other woman, Even when I didn't want to be, Even when I tried to leave, Even when I tried to run away and move on.
I listened to it so many times it's no longer a playlist for when I feel hurt. It's a playlist for when I want to remember playing Salem with my parents.
We were best friends for over three years. We fell into a situationship the last few months of knowing each other and never knew you had to push through and ask about these sorts of things (i mean if you two are actually dating or not!) so I just left it alone. Such a big red flag tbh, he never mentioned it, but he's been in a lot of relationships before me, so I should've known thinking about it from where I'm at now. One day he just stopped talking to me and I worried that whole time, terrified his parents had his phone or he was ignoring me. And get this, he texted me again after about a week, after blocking me pretty much everywhere except like two places, telling me everything but I thought it was someone else. His tone was cold, distant, and like we were only acquaintances instead of saying "I love you" every night before we went to bed. Its was off and strange and I was suspicious. I told him multiple times thinking he was his parents, and believed that he was just a victim, that he was suffering and alone without his phone and I hurt for him. After that encounter I sat with myself and my feelings for him, slowly realizing over the next few weeks that this was so abnormal of him to do this. That he might actually be gone. I could feel it, a few days before it happened, that it was over already. I didn't mean to talk the way I did towards him those weeks ago, I genuinely thought he was someone else and believed everything would be okay. This isn't an apology either, I told him multiple times I didn't believe it was him. Looking back at it now he must've gotten so frustrated and began to say horrible things to me, but I still didn't care because I didn't believe it was him. He had a girlfriend. Months of talking and tiptoeing around the subject, the last time I talked to him I was going to ask him that next day if we were a thing or not. I was hopeful, I was excited, and I dreamt of him every night. When I got another message from him.... he was snarky and cold. I only got to tell him that he hurt me, badly. I never got to explain anything, I never got an explanation besides the fact that he had a girlfriend. He told me that he was both sorry and that he loved me in the exact same text, he knew he hurt me and that's all he had to say. The day he promised we would talk, it was late and I was going to bed. I knew he wouldn't say anything, I could feel i wouldn't get an explanation. I wanted to at least explain what I went through. I expected him to be genuine and I trusted him, and to be courageous and face it. I checked our chat... and I was one minute late. He left the chat, left me in the dark without anything at all. I know I didn't deserve that. I still don't want to let him go, but I know that its time to say goodbye. Years of friendship flushed down the drain. We are just kids though, what can I expect? I just wish he didn't take the cowards way out and talked to me more than just a "i'm sorry, ily". I was made into a fool and I'm probably am never going to online date ever again. I don't like it. I thought I was worth more in his eyes than low effort and ignoring me. I'll never know what happened, and I blocked him too. I'm kind of glad I never will. But, that doesn't mean I won't treasure what it was like before our relationship as a whole went to shit. Its hard being mature about things. Especially to a friend and someone, you probably realized, led on for months on end. You made this much worse for probably both of us. I feel like it was probably good that this happened though.... glad to know it would've never worked out for you. Never again will I be turned into a fool by people I love.
I wouldn’t bother with that one, he sounds like a user, a person that will keep their options open, secrets close and will do what they can to feel secure and happy. Ignore him, don’t speak to him again, he will bring nothing good to your life but momentary bits of happiness, it’s nothing that he can keep up, only when he’s trying to get what he wants. Idk what age you are but I recommend getting invested in your hobbies, go chill in a library, go chill in a coffee shop, take yourself on a date and imagine how you would like to be treated, go for walks, and remind yourself how you should be treated. If you focus on yourself and start living a happier life he will crawl back cause he won’t be able to stand you being more successful. Never take him back cause he is a parasite he feeds off of others to make himself feel better.
I was perfectly fine with him having his little girl best friend circle, but when he started behaving like I was just a nobody in his life, I cut it off right before Valentine’s Day. His friends are doing too much trying to chase me down every day all for his sake and their insecurities. Never let anyone do you wrong♥️
"Seeing him smiling, laughing, having fun with her, as if I didn't matter nor exist to him. Yet here I was dumbfound, thinking I was the only one for him and him the only one for me, but now I see how he wasn't my only one he was someone else and never mine. I was merely just the other woman even when he said I was the world to him"
This has honestly become my go to playlist for when I need to cram to get assignments done for college, so thank you so much, you have no idea how many late nights this sucker has gotten me through😭❤
Studies show married men live longer and happier lives while married women live shorter lives, do more housework, have poorer health, make less money, and overall sadder lives. If you’re wanting a relationship that is something he is gonna be needing to make up for, don’t settle for someone who’s putting in 50% they need to be putting in 100% cause they are the ones who will be at an advantage in a relationship, not you so don’t date anyone you aren’t willing to die sooner for or who’s worth dying sooner for
I was the other woman, even though no other women wanted him.. I still was his other woman by his choice. Which hurts because he was mine. I adored him I loved him I cared for him Yet to him I was still the other woman.
My toxic trait is thinking my boyfriend hates me when theyre the person who treats me the best. I really wish i could trust more but fuck its hard when youve been heartbroken my boyfriends and friends.
I love the playlist. I have realised that i am better alone , i find comfort in my own company - even though I don't do anything just laying on my bed gives peace . I may have the need of company sometimes but it just a temporary thinking . But i love myself and my own company snd I won't like to share it to people .
He told me he loved me, he promised to never leave for anyone else, he made me feel so loved, and then it all changed, he started being so cold to me, He stopped telling me he loved me, he stopped answering my texts, I didn't understand at the time, but now I know...there was another.
Love this playlist!!! Here are some more songs to fit this vibe for anyone who wants more Pretty When I Cry by Lana Del Rey Heavenly by CAS High Infidelity by Taylor Swift I Want You by Mitski I Know by Fiona Apple Watercolor Eyes by Lana Del Rey Libality by Lorde Tolerate It by Taylor Swift Cinnamon Girl by Lana Del Rey Writer In The Dark by Lorde Motion Sickness by Phoebe Bridgers Back To Black by Amy Whinehouse
"Because I was born to be the other woman Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone Who had nothing, who wanted everything With a fire for every experience And an obsession for freedom” ― Lana del Rey
I love this playlist! I've been coming back to this video regularly whenever I need some downtime to chill or when I'm busy painting! Thank you for the awesome playlist!
One day my ex came by my house and said we had to talk, I was kinda confused but listened to what he had to say. He confessed that when we started dating he had another girlfriend from before, but that he broke up with her literally that day to be with me. It was so disgusting that I immediately kicked him out of my house and cut off all kind of communication. He always comes back saying we should get together and that he loves me, every time he does that he has a new girlfriend.
@@sorii. (don't worry about it, everything is fine ^v^) now I will follow you because I really like what songs you pick up *put put* keep up the good work, asterisk!
If you're being the other woman, Read this... Please don't make anyone sad or cry because of you. Don't ruin their relationship. There are many people in this world. Please don't ignore someone who loves you so much because of someone you love. I've been on that situation. I ignored someone who loves me because of someone I love even though i was being the other woman❤.
"I love you." Her voice was soft, filled with warmth, but it went unheard. His gaze was fixed on another woman-their neighbor-through the very window they had once carefully placed in the house they built together. "Can you hear me? See me?" Her voice trembled with a hint of sorrow. "Do you still love me?"
I'm not really sad about being the other woman, I just lived through this too many times, I guess? He already has a kid with some other woman. I don't want to go through the experience and feelings again.
I wouldn't give in so he would spoil me with designer bags, he would give me everything I'd ask for, he would deposit money into my bank account. The whole time I thought he was seeing other girls but instead, it was another guy. when we broke up he went straight to a guy the later I found out he tried again with a girl. I don't know if he's still with her.
I found out he had a girlfriend after he took my innocence. And i know i love him, i cant say it as i know i its unrequited, because he loves her. He makes no mistake expressing that. Ive never felt so helpless. So mitski coded
as a girl who's in the relationship and the guy has a gbff it made me insecure and an overthinker if he's cheating on me or not since they hang out a lot
{{vent !!}} i liked him so much i told him i did. he said he needed time. a new girl came to school. we got close and i told her abt him and how i liked him since 4th grade. then. i found out they were dating. i was heartbroken and he still kept me on wait?..i confronted them abt it and they said they were sorry and it was only one day they dated. i forgave them. and then , he was flirting with me. always touching my hair and tapping my shoulder just to smile at me. i..fell for him again. i asked him to be my valentine. then. they were dating this WHOLE time. i was just the second choice.
@@notxiao Oh God, this feels so good! I really don't know if he was playing with your feelings (bro, doing that while dating?!) or just thinks it's normal. Regardless, I think you're very... uh... brave? For deciding to forget and all :)
Wow.. you know, at my high school I constantly hang out with many playboys that go around breaking hearts and never thought much of it but after reading this comment section I am rather bewildered. It is currently 12 AM and I wonder if I should give them a small lecture tomorrow or something about these stuff though I am not really sure if they'll listen lol.
He said he loves me but I don't see the spark on his eyes when he looks at me which was always visible when he looked at her across the room. You said you moved on last year, I trusted you and I still do. So please reassure me that I am the only one you love. Please.
I knew I've been the other woman the whole time but for some reason...it's starting to hurt but I don't wanna leave them Update: it still hurts but a lot less i think im getting over them :)
POV: you just found out ur the other women…. I did find out I was the other women a long time ago without notice that he had another girl I was completely fine with it but me and her keep fighting because some times she says mean stuff to him and I only say stuff back because I try to protect him and keep him happy and calm cause he has anger issues (he is not my bf btw he is my bsf) when she keeps saying mean stuff (not that mean) but I don’t know if she means it for not but he doesn’t seem to like it so I try to stand up for him just to figure out I’m the other women….? We still hang out ofc but I don’t really like her and nor does he.
Found out a week ago that i was the other woman. He called me saying it's something important. Another person was on call with us, his 2 year long girlfriend, his friend of 10 years. He did not even apologize all i heard was her explaining that he is hers. I left with just 'sure'. I cannot function properly. No matter how much i try to forget its him who shows up in my mind every day every night. I lose to love. I wish him and I never came across each other.
He carried her bag, leaned onto her, they walked together while I sat along and watched; they got closer everyday, claiming they're friends but are friends supposed to be that close, making love gestures while taking photos? He touched me, caressed my cheek and played with my ears. He lead me on knowing she was the only one in his heart, guess I was the other woman.
" i was his rose. adored, loved, but deep down i knew he would choose the smell of lilies. the thornless delicate flower inside his suit pocket. i was on his mind when i didnt sting him with my thorn, my only flaw. that i wasnt her." " i knew he prefered roses, the sweet and seductive smell, that he carried it deep down in his hearth, indeed i knew i was not enough. i wasnt as adventerous as rose, i wasnt talkative as her. to my luck he didnt know how to crush the delicate petals of lilies"
Said we had to stop talking because of his girlfriend, didn’t even know he had one. I just feel sorry for her hope she gets better. Love getting played.
🌼🌿✨Timestamps 🌼🌿
~ 00:01 - 04:39 ✨Lana Del Rey - Salvatore
~ 04:40 - 09:14 ✨ Mitski - First Love / Late Spring
~ 09:15 - 13:05 ✨ Lana Del Rey - Young and Beautiful
~ 13:06 - 16:20 ✨ Pomme - Grandiose
~ 16:21 - 20:28 ✨Lana Del Rey - Ultraviolence
~ 20:30 - 22:37 ✨ Mitski - Washing Machine Heart
~ 22:38 - 25:50 ✨ Mitski - Stay Soft
~ 25:51 - 28:13 ✨ Pomme - Je sais pas danser
~ 28:14 - 31:12 ✨ Lana Del Rey - The Other Woman
~ 31:13 - 34:24 ✨ Mitski - Nobody
~ 34:25 - 37:55 ✨ Pomme - à perte de vue
~ 37:56 - 40:19 ✨ Mitski - Francis Forever
~ 40:20 - 42:36 ✨ Mitski - Me and My Husband
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(Maybe later I will fix anything, but oof, thank for the playlist!! I'm happy I did this, I met Pomme through here so win-win lol)
Thank you so much for the timestamps!
Also, I'm happy that more people can know Pomme, she has very good songs >
@@sorii.The Blackest Day, old money and Terrence loves You deserve honorary mentions, lol!! 💯😉😉💚💚👑
hey, i think it's ultraviolence instead black beauty
For the black beauty timestamp, the song actually played is ultraviolence
That's true!! At the time I don't know what got in me 🤡@@BerryBoo0
“She’s the other women! You’re married to me!”
I’m sorry, I couldn’t resist.
@@sofy-ot8ge " the other womaaaaaaaan, will always cry herself to sleepp "
"No Emily, can't you see? your the other women"
Sorry, but where is this line from?
@@mary_58460 Corpse Bride by Tim Burton. It's a great great Movie I recommend really.
@@mary_58460 the first minions movie
"Always the bridesmaid, never the bride..."
Ah, yes, the Corpse Bride lines hit like a bullet.
27 dresses
"And a toast to Emily! Always the bridesmaid...never the bride"
I wanna watch the corpse bride because I wanna hear that line
@@mennard5689 Yeah, there are a lot of TikTok audios which are popular that came from corpse bride
@@mennard5689 samee so many iconic lines came out of that movie!
“Tell me my dear, can a heart still break once it’s stopped beating?~”
@ *incoherent sad screeching*
His loss ✨🤝🏻
IKRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR YOUR SUCH A DEAL AND I DONT EVEN KNOW YOUUU
@@EstrellaBright 💅🏻💗
honestly yes
He matched with another girl. He smiled with another girl. He laughed with another girl. He called with another girl. He texted the other girl gn and gm. He called another girl pretty when all I get is “you look okay”. He loves another girl.
Don't let stupid boys get to you, if he can't see you for the treasure for you are then forget about him cause' he's flat out dumb and definitely not worth it. There's definitely millions of people who like you because you're beautiful, smart, interesting, and so much more. If he isn't one of those millions then his loss because you are one of a kind hun. Love ya
I don’t know why is this so relatable 😂
The worst part for me is that I AM that other girl... He just doesn't ask me out at all. Even asked another girl to our school dance when I've heard from a few of my friends that he's told about his love for me... Either side is difficult no matter who he picks
@@Simply1AzaleaSmith if he goes low go lower queen. ❤ Act like he don’t even exist. It’s better and funnier that way. Go glow up and enjoy your youth. Men ain’t worth it unless they are the right one.
relatable
Knowing he'll never love you the way you love him hurts the most 😞💔
Sorry for you sweetheart
that happened to me and i found love after him, it hurts but i promise it gets better
I know this feeling.. :'(
I was born to be the other woman, who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone.
Oof.......
Want an onion? 🧅
Or a cookie? 🍪
Or both? 🧅 🍪
@miyukiish 😨
Is this lana's burner account
For the streets
@@ephiuhravenusikr
He literally asked out my best friend while we were still dating; they both knew and she said yes. The first girl i ever dated would always tell my best friend that she hated me, she would constantly insult me and my appearance.
change friends:(
That is awful ☹️, but know that things get better ❤️🩹 they were not a friend, and know that there are always better people who are still searching for you!
@@NoemyMenchaca Its okay, I forgive him and i agree- we were better off as friends.And he told me not long after, he was being pretty nice about it. But the first girl i dated is talking about others behind their backs, calling them slvts and wh0res. So i dodged a bullet, hah.
@@susuucre6220 lol we're chill now
@@Mushroom-kid I understand but, for me, if that happen it's not a good relationship to continue. You can find better people, I'm sure
He said he loved me more, said i was prettier, said i was more mature, said i deserved better, said i was smarter, said i was the most important person to him. And he still refused to leave her
@EleanorTriayeah, that mature line set off my ick-meter
Don’t wait for cheaters; if they do it for you, they’ll do it to you.
he neved leave her and never fall in love wtih you
You suck
its just words girl xx
Just found out I’m the other woman lol
no cuz same but it was today
Don't say that because im sure you will fini the right boy who will make you Live the life better and not feel you like the other women 💗
You don’t need him ❤❤
fuck him for making you feel that way
hugs
I'm always the lover, but I'm never enough to keep them
Trust that you’re more than enough, your values don’t lie in another’s hands doll
Always the lover never the loved
I’m not the other woman, I was one of his many
I was his girlfriend, he had others and because they were his best friends treated them much better. Never let anyone do you that way.
The other woman? Man, I wasn't even a option on his list
Same..
same
I feel sad about all the women who were treated that way, but I'm just imagining some random guy from the wilderness, accidentally here, reading some comments, thinking of how he's got not even one person, meanwhile other guys got too many options to stay true to.
Not gonna lie, I did actually accidently stumble onto this after I listened to ''Cinnamon Girl'' by Lana - that song means a lot to me because my ex told me that she cried herself to sleep listening to it after she broke up with me BUT what I'm really thinking of is just how much hardship so many of y'all are enduring. Stay strong.
help reading the comments especially while listening to this is making me tear up ,, i hope everyone is at least starting their healing journey :C
He said he hated her and yet he still made me feel like the other woman
My real gym motivation
i have a guy bsf. We started talking from october ( i texted him first and he was kind enough to not be dry). I still remember how much we talked the first day of knowing eachother. We talked for hours and hours. Even though we didnt know eachother at all till that day, we talked as if we’ve known each other for a long time. There was no awkwardness between us which was strange considering we both are introverts who doesnt get comfortable with others that easily. The next day, we texted each other the whole day. There was not a single time where both of us were left on delivered for more than 10mins that day. From that day on, we texted each other everyday. We would talk about so many things which made us develop a close friendship in a short period of time. Except, i started to develop feelings that were more than a platonic feeling. I started to look forward to him talking about his passions (astrophysics, bikes), i started to look forward to hear his laughters in our phone calls ( which always lasted for more than 3hrs btw) i started to feel joyful and calm at the same time whenever i talked to him. School started to be a little bit more bearable as i would get to see his face.I dont know what made me start liking him, his humor? his laughter? his creativitiness? his ability to make me feel as if the world has stopped spinning and its just him and i?. We have so many things in common (music taste, moral values, animals, sense of humor etc) honestly sometimes i would think that him and i had similar personalities. He is such a nice person which made me like him even more. i even told my friends about him. Everything was fine until i started to sense something. I started to feel that he liked my other close friend a lot (she also knew that i liked him). He would always mention her to me. They started texting each other too. I dont know why, i started to feel jealous. Jealousy was a new thing for me and it started to take over my mind a lot. Although i was jealous, i wouldn’t show it (at all). Whenever he talked about her, i engaged in those convos (even though deepdown it bothered me). i even asked her if she liked him or not. She would always say no or i dont know but deep down i knew she liked him as much as he liked her. So i would always tell her, if anything happens between you guys, you should just go for it dont think about me, because love is not something that we cannot control, if two hearts beat for each other nothing can stop them. It was obvious how much they liked each other and i didnt want to be the thing that gets in between them. As days started to pass by, my feelings for him started to grow stronger, but at the same time his feelings for my friend started to grow stronger. There have been days where ive cried a lot cuz of him. Ive cried so many times cuz i knew that my heart beats for someone who doesn’t beat for me. Ive cried so much thinking he will never see me the way i see him. i started to get frustrated, why cannot he not see me?, what does she have that i dont?. i knew that i deserved better than this, but for some reason i just couldn’t move on. I hated the fact that i couldn’t control my own heart. Fast forward to now, they’re in a relationship with eachother🥲. The way that i cried so much on the day he told me that they’re dating now🌝. It’s pathetic that i still haven’t moved on. I still love him. I keep reminiscing about my favorite moments with him and keep thinking to myself about the what if’s. i can’t believe i experienced my first love and first heartbreak with someone i didnt even date. Being the other woman sucks so bad, u have so much love for someone who will never see you in the same way. What hurts me more is that him and his gf/my friend are such nice people and they both deserve each other. i know how much they both love each other, its very genuine. im happy for both of them but at the same time, my hurt aches a lot.
i wonder if he knows how much i loved him…
I hope youre having a good day love.
This is bad (the feeling), I'm sorry about that. There's no way to "move on" just by thinking, "Oh, I don't want it anymore," but could you fill your mind with something else, maybe paintings, drawings, poems? It may even be indirectly related to them. I hope this comment helps you! I'm sorry if this seemed a bit unrealistic and difficult to do, we've felt this at some point in our lives and I think practically all of these people listening to this playlist are going through something similar, we know it's not good.
thank u smm🫶🫶 i thought i was doing well but no… they went on their first date today and as u can see, im not fine. I keep thinking how that shudve been me and i still dont get how he liked her but never saw me… we have sm in common then wat they have with eachother…
I hope you’re ok now but ofc you cant do well . I mean you feel like the other woman and you still stay with them being best friends with them. You re important than your relationships your emotions most important thing about your life and sometimes we just don’t see the people the way they want it .he’s probably not gonna see you unless you make it clear with him bc he doesnt have an idea which you cant rn if they’re in a relationship i hope i explained myself English in not my first language so comment me back
dam bro i aint readin allat 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥(I indeed read all of it.)
I was in love with a boy, but all he could see was my best friend, she was quite pretty and I am a guy too so I always knew he would chose her yet I blinded myself and at the end I was there watching them be happy cuz i loved them both i wanted them to be happy even without me. I feel a bit weird to be "the other woman" bc im a man but i'm sorry for all the girls suffering for idiots
This playlist is perfect btw!!
@@ravennoises8345i mean... she could just not be gay
You might be happy now. But it'll never last. The guilt will always eat you slowly at night. While you say the things you've told me before her. When you do the things we've done before her. You'll never be ever happy.
when they have nobody on the playlist you instantly know its a good one
The day that I finally get my confidence to confess to her. this is it. I can do it.
The park we always hung out, shes sitting there. My heart is racing, the anxiety and nerves to go up to her. I've been waiting years to be able to do this. The closer to the park I get, the more anxious I feel.
My heart stops when I see another figure sit next to her. She never mentioned anything of a brother before. She leans into him and I see him wrap an arm around her. I watch as she snuggle into his arms as my heart sinks.
As I watch the sight unfold before my eyes, I drop the bouquet that I was safely holding. I give myself the courage to go up to them, hoping the reality isn't what it is.
"You're here! i wanted to introduce you to my boyfriend."
Boyfriend.
Boyfriend.
Boyfriend.
That word echoes in my mind as I replay it over and over again.
Boyfriend.
She's not yours. She's his.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this horrible feeling fr... I hope you find the right person loves you as much as you love them one day and belong with each other💗
@@minnamiin thank you but its a story I made up from the playlist music 😭😭
LITERALLY THOUGHT IT'S REAL😭😭😭
@@Robin_SumiI MEAN THAT'S GREAT TO NOT BE REAL I GUESS LMFAO
OH MY- I BELIEVED IT WAS REAL TOO LMAOO.
But I must say...you have talent 🤧
This playlist reminded me of the day I had the brilliant idea of declaring myself to a boy I had liked for a long time. I had put on my best outfit, did my makeup, did my hair and finally went to school. I arrived at school and was praised several times by people I knew and I increasingly had hope that he would accept my feelings. I saw him with a girl... a girl I didn't know, but of course I thought they were friends, when he saw me he opened his eyes wide and then praised me and I was shy about his compliments And the girl he was with... Well, she just stared at me with a look I couldn't understand.
I waited and waited for the class to end and I got more and more nervous, when the class finally ended I saw him talking to the girl, I was a little jealous of how he looked at the girl but I just left it aside after all I thought they were just friends.
I told him I wanted to tell him something, but he immediately said "I'm sorry to interrupt you, but I wanted you to meet my girlfriend"
*Girlfriend?...* Oh...
Everything seemed to have stopped at that moment, he had never told me he had a girlfriend.. that day I thought he would accept my feelings but I was wrong...
(a book idea I had, if anything is wrong I'm sorry! I used the translator)
The Renaissance painting as the cover of this is perfect I love those paintings so freaking much
No matter what I somehow always end up being the one crying myself to sleep.
WHEN I HEARD SALVATORE FOR THE FIRST SONG I KNEW IT WAS GONNA BE GOOD
No matter how bad she looks or how badly she does her makeup, even if she treats others badly and then acts like a angel, even if she bullies me,
She still appears innocent and beautiful to him,
She gets his calls, his texts, his compliments, his protection, his smiles,
While all I get is a hateful look for talking to other boys,
A up and down checkout when I get ready,
A yelling and shouting,
A tantrum because I said something about her,
An insult,
Humiliation,
While she gets all the happiness,
So I have always been the other woman,
Even when I didn't want to be,
Even when I tried to leave,
Even when I tried to run away and move on.
i love how some r not even the other woman songs but they just fit the vibe 😭
i love how mitski is literally the majority of this playlist
I couldn't help, I mean he suits the theme of the playlist 🤧
I listened to it so many times it's no longer a playlist for when I feel hurt.
It's a playlist for when I want to remember playing Salem with my parents.
Очень приятный, нежный и чувственный плейлист. Спасибо 🖤
Большое спасибо! Именно это я и хотел донести.
(Я использую переводчик, извините, если есть ошибки, хе-хе)
@@sorii. its very nice of u to use a translator to answer me. Im glad to listen to your playlist👉👈
We were best friends for over three years. We fell into a situationship the last few months of knowing each other and never knew you had to push through and ask about these sorts of things (i mean if you two are actually dating or not!) so I just left it alone. Such a big red flag tbh, he never mentioned it, but he's been in a lot of relationships before me, so I should've known thinking about it from where I'm at now. One day he just stopped talking to me and I worried that whole time, terrified his parents had his phone or he was ignoring me. And get this, he texted me again after about a week, after blocking me pretty much everywhere except like two places, telling me everything but I thought it was someone else. His tone was cold, distant, and like we were only acquaintances instead of saying "I love you" every night before we went to bed. Its was off and strange and I was suspicious.
I told him multiple times thinking he was his parents, and believed that he was just a victim, that he was suffering and alone without his phone and I hurt for him. After that encounter I sat with myself and my feelings for him, slowly realizing over the next few weeks that this was so abnormal of him to do this. That he might actually be gone. I could feel it, a few days before it happened, that it was over already. I didn't mean to talk the way I did towards him those weeks ago, I genuinely thought he was someone else and believed everything would be okay. This isn't an apology either, I told him multiple times I didn't believe it was him. Looking back at it now he must've gotten so frustrated and began to say horrible things to me, but I still didn't care because I didn't believe it was him.
He had a girlfriend. Months of talking and tiptoeing around the subject, the last time I talked to him I was going to ask him that next day if we were a thing or not. I was hopeful, I was excited, and I dreamt of him every night. When I got another message from him.... he was snarky and cold. I only got to tell him that he hurt me, badly. I never got to explain anything, I never got an explanation besides the fact that he had a girlfriend. He told me that he was both sorry and that he loved me in the exact same text, he knew he hurt me and that's all he had to say. The day he promised we would talk, it was late and I was going to bed. I knew he wouldn't say anything, I could feel i wouldn't get an explanation. I wanted to at least explain what I went through. I expected him to be genuine and I trusted him, and to be courageous and face it. I checked our chat... and I was one minute late. He left the chat, left me in the dark without anything at all.
I know I didn't deserve that. I still don't want to let him go, but I know that its time to say goodbye. Years of friendship flushed down the drain. We are just kids though, what can I expect? I just wish he didn't take the cowards way out and talked to me more than just a "i'm sorry, ily". I was made into a fool and I'm probably am never going to online date ever again. I don't like it. I thought I was worth more in his eyes than low effort and ignoring me. I'll never know what happened, and I blocked him too. I'm kind of glad I never will. But, that doesn't mean I won't treasure what it was like before our relationship as a whole went to shit.
Its hard being mature about things. Especially to a friend and someone, you probably realized, led on for months on end. You made this much worse for probably both of us. I feel like it was probably good that this happened though.... glad to know it would've never worked out for you. Never again will I be turned into a fool by people I love.
I wouldn’t bother with that one, he sounds like a user, a person that will keep their options open, secrets close and will do what they can to feel secure and happy. Ignore him, don’t speak to him again, he will bring nothing good to your life but momentary bits of happiness, it’s nothing that he can keep up, only when he’s trying to get what he wants. Idk what age you are but I recommend getting invested in your hobbies, go chill in a library, go chill in a coffee shop, take yourself on a date and imagine how you would like to be treated, go for walks, and remind yourself how you should be treated. If you focus on yourself and start living a happier life he will crawl back cause he won’t be able to stand you being more successful. Never take him back cause he is a parasite he feeds off of others to make himself feel better.
I was perfectly fine with him having his little girl best friend circle, but when he started behaving like I was just a nobody in his life, I cut it off right before Valentine’s Day. His friends are doing too much trying to chase me down every day all for his sake and their insecurities. Never let anyone do you wrong♥️
I WAS WAITING TO APPEAR "THE OTHER WOMAN" OMG THANKS FOR THIS PLAYLIST EVEN IF IM NOT A GIRL
Welcome to the gang !
Me cause every time I like a boy he likes my best friend and depending on the friend they date sometimes.
Stoppppp what are you doing with friends like that gurl. I hope you get nice friends and a good boyfriend too ❤❤❤
"Seeing him smiling, laughing, having fun with her, as if I didn't matter nor exist to him. Yet here I was dumbfound, thinking I was the only one for him and him the only one for me, but now I see how he wasn't my only one he was someone else and never mine. I was merely just the other woman even when he said I was the world to him"
mitski is just crushing my soul
This has honestly become my go to playlist for when I need to cram to get assignments done for college, so thank you so much, you have no idea how many late nights this sucker has gotten me through😭❤
@@cee_zoe7942 Thank you too for listening. I'm glad you liked the playlist! 🩷🩷
Studies show married men live longer and happier lives while married women live shorter lives, do more housework, have poorer health, make less money, and overall sadder lives. If you’re wanting a relationship that is something he is gonna be needing to make up for, don’t settle for someone who’s putting in 50% they need to be putting in 100% cause they are the ones who will be at an advantage in a relationship, not you so don’t date anyone you aren’t willing to die sooner for or who’s worth dying sooner for
I was the other woman, even though no other women wanted him.. I still was his other woman by his choice.
Which hurts because he was mine.
I adored him
I loved him
I cared for him
Yet to him I was still the other woman.
Thank you for adding Pomme, the French girl in me is very happy 🥹🫶🏻🤎 amazing playlist between
My toxic trait is thinking my boyfriend hates me when theyre the person who treats me the best. I really wish i could trust more but fuck its hard when youve been heartbroken my boyfriends and friends.
Me with anyone who even shows me support and love, you're not alone sister ❤
I love the playlist. I have realised that i am better alone , i find comfort in my own company - even though I don't do anything just laying on my bed gives peace . I may have the need of company sometimes but it just a temporary thinking . But i love myself and my own company snd I won't like to share it to people .
He told me he loved me, he promised to never leave for anyone else, he made me feel so loved, and then it all changed, he started being so cold to me, He stopped telling me he loved me, he stopped answering my texts, I didn't understand at the time, but now I know...there was another.
i might as well be the other woman in every relationship i’m in, whether that be romantic or platonic
“She’s the other woman! You’re supposed to be married me!”
Love this playlist!!! Here are some more songs to fit this vibe for anyone who wants more
Pretty When I Cry by Lana Del Rey
Heavenly by CAS
High Infidelity by Taylor Swift
I Want You by Mitski
I Know by Fiona Apple
Watercolor Eyes by Lana Del Rey
Libality by Lorde
Tolerate It by Taylor Swift
Cinnamon Girl by Lana Del Rey
Writer In The Dark by Lorde
Motion Sickness by Phoebe Bridgers
Back To Black by Amy Whinehouse
"Because I was born to be the other woman
Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone
Who had nothing, who wanted everything
With a fire for every experience
And an obsession for freedom”
― Lana del Rey
The way you choose all the right songssssssss
I love this playlist! I've been coming back to this video regularly whenever I need some downtime to chill or when I'm busy painting!
Thank you for the awesome playlist!
@@Punfeit thanks you too! I'm glad you liked the playlist 🩷💐
I'm not in love with anyone but still love to listen to this playlist, lol...
One day my ex came by my house and said we had to talk, I was kinda confused but listened to what he had to say.
He confessed that when we started dating he had another girlfriend from before, but that he broke up with her literally that day to be with me.
It was so disgusting that I immediately kicked him out of my house and cut off all kind of communication.
He always comes back saying we should get together and that he loves me, every time he does that he has a new girlfriend.
Oh to be a writer, shaking my head and crying
guys if someone doesnt like you, that's their loss. Love yourself and your perfect match will find you :)
making lore for my story not currently in feelings. but yeah hey you guys all deserve to be loved. take care.
Starting with salvatore is just everything pleasseee 😩😩
Прекрасный и атмосферный плейлист. Спасибо за подборку
вау, я так благодарен за ваши слова! ❤ (извините, если есть грамматическая ошибка, я использую переводчик, ха-ха)
@@sorii. (don't worry about it, everything is fine ^v^)
now I will follow you
because I really like what songs you pick
up *put put*
keep up the good work, asterisk!
Salvatore is my favorite song :) this has cheered me up tremendously thank you ;3💗
Ikr, Salvatore is very addictive to listen
Thx you too for watching and commenting! 🩵
If you're being the other woman, Read this...
Please don't make anyone sad or cry because of you. Don't ruin their relationship.
There are many people in this world.
Please don't ignore someone who loves you so much because of someone you love.
I've been on that situation. I ignored someone who loves me because of someone I love even though i was being the other woman❤.
"I love you." Her voice was soft, filled with warmth, but it went unheard. His gaze was fixed on another woman-their neighbor-through the very window they had once carefully placed in the house they built together. "Can you hear me? See me?" Her voice trembled with a hint of sorrow. "Do you still love me?"
I noticed how all comments are about men. we should just all be gay
THIS. THIS IS THE SOLUTION YALL
This was just my solution and funny enough when you’re not interested in men they all of a sudden are super interested in you, it’s crazy.
oh my god you are so right they for some strange reason suddenly think your some goddess@@carlamcgath7528
This but I'm not a woman
@@jounossupervisionYou can be one of the girls if you’d like!
I'm not really sad about being the other woman, I just lived through this too many times, I guess? He already has a kid with some other woman. I don't want to go through the experience and feelings again.
A KID ? So this doesn’t even stop when they get old too right ? Ugh
I love this playlist so much ❤ I listen to it so many times it's crazyyyyy
this made me think of Emily halp
from corpse bride ?
@@elisa7790 YAS
SAME!
WHEN I WAS EDITING THE VIDEO I WAS THINKING ABOUT PUTTING HER ON THE COVER OF THE PLAYLIST 🤧🤧
@@sorii. WHY DIDNT YOU???
i liked him first and he asked me out and THEN he left just as fast 😂
I love you so much for including Pomme!!
Thx! Y'know it makes me happy that there's more people asking for her
She deserves it totally 🤧
The photo 😭🤚
lana del rey, pomme, and mitski are my FAV ARTISTS EVER.
I wouldn't give in so he would spoil me with designer bags, he would give me everything I'd ask for, he would deposit money into my bank account. The whole time I thought he was seeing other girls but instead, it was another guy. when we broke up he went straight to a guy the later I found out he tried again with a girl. I don't know if he's still with her.
just found out im the other women the whole time he gives me attention like im the only one but he had a gf this whole time lol
I hope you told his gf ????
she knows
I know how you feel:)
Same
deeply thankful you started with salvatore
That feeling when a guy you liked only pretended to be friends with you just to get with your best friend 😃
I found out he had a girlfriend after he took my innocence. And i know i love him, i cant say it as i know i its unrequited, because he loves her. He makes no mistake expressing that. Ive never felt so helpless. So mitski coded
When your legitimately the other woman with everything, everyone, just a backup ☹️☹️ (this is very hurtful, I would like to feel fully loved too)
as a girl who's in the relationship and the guy has a gbff it made me insecure and an overthinker if he's cheating on me or not since they hang out a lot
{{vent !!}}
i liked him so much i told him i did. he said he needed time. a new girl came to school. we got close and i told her abt him and how i liked him since 4th grade. then. i found out they were dating. i was heartbroken and he still kept me on wait?..i confronted them abt it and they said they were sorry and it was only one day they dated. i forgave them. and then , he was flirting with me. always touching my hair and tapping my shoulder just to smile at me. i..fell for him again. i asked him to be my valentine. then. they were dating this WHOLE time. i was just the second choice.
@@sofy-ot8ge ill try my best to forget abt him ! and thank you for giving me advice , ur comment fr lightened up my day..hppy valentines
@@notxiao Oh God, this feels so good! I really don't know if he was playing with your feelings (bro, doing that while dating?!) or just thinks it's normal. Regardless, I think you're very... uh... brave? For deciding to forget and all :)
@@indiotav tyty ! i dont like him anymore btw -
I understand your pain, congratulations on overcoming it!
Other man in my case. But oh well. I can survive, surely.
No one has kept on loving the same throughout, they always lose the feelings slowly..Me? I keep loving more as time goes on, until they leave.
I’m not the other woman or crushing on a real person but i love drama way too much
i love this
The other woman? No, you're the other man, darling
All I ever am is the other woman.
Wow.. you know, at my high school I constantly hang out with many playboys that go around breaking hearts and never thought much of it but after reading this comment section I am rather bewildered. It is currently 12 AM and I wonder if I should give them a small lecture tomorrow or something about these stuff though I am not really sure if they'll listen lol.
He said he loves me but I don't see the spark on his eyes when he looks at me which was always visible when he looked at her across the room.
You said you moved on last year, I trusted you and I still do.
So please reassure me that I am the only one you love. Please.
I knew I've been the other woman the whole time but for some reason...it's starting to hurt but I don't wanna leave them
Update: it still hurts but a lot less i think im getting over them :)
POV: you just found out ur the other women….
I did find out I was the other women a long time ago without notice that he had another girl I was completely fine with it but me and her keep fighting because some times she says mean stuff to him and I only say stuff back because I try to protect him and keep him happy and calm cause he has anger issues (he is not my bf btw he is my bsf) when she keeps saying mean stuff (not that mean) but I don’t know if she means it for not but he doesn’t seem to like it so I try to stand up for him just to figure out I’m the other women….? We still hang out ofc but I don’t really like her and nor does he.
You know if it starts with Lana it’ll be a good playlist ❤
Found out a week ago that i was the other woman. He called me saying it's something important. Another person was on call with us, his 2 year long girlfriend, his friend of 10 years. He did not even apologize all i heard was her explaining that he is hers. I left with just 'sure'. I cannot function properly. No matter how much i try to forget its him who shows up in my mind every day every night. I lose to love. I wish him and I never came across each other.
Im not the other women (single :’)) but this playlist is amazing, so i listen to it 24/7
Love this playlist!
Found out I was the other woman 6 months ago :)) Never again am I trusting the words of another man
Прекрасно...
He carried her bag, leaned onto her, they walked together while I sat along and watched; they got closer everyday, claiming they're friends but are friends supposed to be that close, making love gestures while taking photos? He touched me, caressed my cheek and played with my ears. He lead me on knowing she was the only one in his heart, guess I was the other woman.
Me listening to this knowing I’m in a happy relationship
" i was his rose. adored, loved, but deep down i knew he would choose the smell of lilies. the thornless delicate flower inside his suit pocket. i was on his mind when i didnt sting him with my thorn, my only flaw. that i wasnt her."
" i knew he prefered roses, the sweet and seductive smell, that he carried it deep down in his hearth, indeed i knew i was not enough. i wasnt as adventerous as rose, i wasnt talkative as her. to my luck he didnt know how to crush the delicate petals of lilies"
guys im not the other woman but i enjoy this playlist
Hopping that i'm nit the other women🤞but still ear this playlist because is a banger ❤
Said we had to stop talking because of his girlfriend, didn’t even know he had one. I just feel sorry for her hope she gets better. Love getting played.