Goodbye by Secondhand Serenade

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  • @JaseyMaria
    @JaseyMaria 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can't let him go, i'm crying like a child here. He is everything, my everything. I would give him everything.

  • @roddy1988
    @roddy1988 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    tears fell down even as to the first lines upon watching this.. thanks to thiis, i really am letting go and movin' on.. super like it..

  • @glittergal881
    @glittergal881 13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this song reminds me of this guy i was in love with, he even met my parents and came to my house, i was so happy with him. people started saying he had a thing with another girl and i asked him about it twice and he said it wasnt true when it was. i was crushed, i cried everynight for over a week, he never even said sorry for lieing, cheating, and leading me on. and a few days ago i burnt all the pictures of me and him and i am so much happier with out him because i found someone else

  • @X3moCrushX
    @X3moCrushX 16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the part where it says "everything we've been through and everything about you, seemed to be a lie, a guiltless twisted lie, which made me learn to hate you, or hate myself for letting it pass by." Because its actually true...

  • @Lewz3r
    @Lewz3r 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome song.. awesome singer... perfect combination...

  • @Connie4everyStar
    @Connie4everyStar 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    You put that feeling into words a lot better than I could have. To fisher1467 to be suicidal is horrible, the feeling of loneness but you can't feel and nothing can help you for long and nothing works twice, I wouldn't and couldn't wish it on anybody it is the worst feeling, the feeling that you have to die to find happiness and peace.

  • @GianaLuna
    @GianaLuna 17 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Secondhand Serenade's music is AMAZING.

  • @tweedin7837
    @tweedin7837 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ayear ago it felt like I was dying... today I feel like saying goodbye was the best thing I could have done... not only for me but for him as well. He has his new love and seems happy and I have learned that being alone is not only ok but it is great!! I have finally learned to make myself happy instead of looking for happiness through a mans love... I will keep the memories of our good times and move forward with a smile on my face!!!

  • @emma3girl
    @emma3girl 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This makes me cry every time i listen to it. Dont you love/hate it when a song describes the situation your in perfectly

  • @Dree12334
    @Dree12334 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    we can see this song in many ways .. that's why i like it that much ...

  • @WaterLily607
    @WaterLily607 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    You explained that feeling much better than I did, it's the worst feeling... I hope you never feel that again

  • @classof11shay
    @classof11shay 16 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh wow...all I can say is that this is some amazing work! I love John and you utilized his song perfectly! This song described how i felt a year ago and this made me cry! thx for puttong my feelings into this vid, even thopugh they were originally yours.
    Amazing =]

  • @donkeylam77
    @donkeylam77 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was very touch my the video.. I felt the same way... Thank you for the video!!

  • @thatsmisssexy2u
    @thatsmisssexy2u 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for making this video and sharing your experience with us. It must have taken a lot of courage and strength and in doing so you've shown others how to be strong.

  • @Taeonyx
    @Taeonyx 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    There must be a way to overcome a hopeless situation..I've been heartbroken for too long, made mistakes I regret more than any other..Broken my promises..Threw away my life, took it for granted..There are no second chances...

  • @amazingemokitty
    @amazingemokitty 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    that was absolutely amazing. i feel the sme about someone...

  • @beebz15
    @beebz15 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    We were together for 8 months, it was our anniversary he lived so far away but being able to see his face on cam made me smile. That night when we were talking he said "Do you think we have anything in common" i said "Yes why?" and he said "Well my mom thinks we have nothing in common" and i asked him "Well you love me enough to not care about anyone elses opinion, right?" Then he broke up with me and dissapeared, have not talked to him since but i still love him so much....

  • @Ang3lgutz
    @Ang3lgutz 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    yes it does...it's like hell it burns bad i've been depressed and people are noticeing i've been happy now i can't smile i loved him so much

  • @sophiabravo8674
    @sophiabravo8674 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song made me cry....i always think of him...although im with someone else i still love Tony the same way or maybe even more...When we broke up he told me it wasnt a goodbye he kept saying he WILL give us another chance...he was my highschool sweet heart if i dont know what love is than what about this feeling its not erasing. we see light at the end of the tunnel.. i love you. 10/3/11

  • @MsPanther204
    @MsPanther204 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Reminds me of my best friend who is like my sister, I have hurt her so much... I still am holding on to the good memories we had... And I'm wiling to erase the bad ones, if she is willing as well. But until she is ready to forgive me... I will say this. "I love you and this isn't goodbye forever. I hope its not goodbye forever." One day the sun will shine for us again, and we'll be back to the way we were. I love you so much Heather. you're my best friend. My sister.

  • @BashAshSmash
    @BashAshSmash 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song makes me wonder, I feel like this is the first time i've been in love, like, finishing your loves' sentences or, liking some of the same things, knowing what the person likes, wants to do, feels, when you're around, because you feel the same, but then when he/she has given you so many chances, it's finally goodbye, and you wished to your god that, you would never have to hear that.

  • @DinoDari
    @DinoDari 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    makes me cry till i have no tears left,......never....

  • @Kuhns3058
    @Kuhns3058 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Killer emotion.. Im in tears...

  • @jessicarussell2391
    @jessicarussell2391 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing... Can hurt me more then what I'm going through. I'm not crying over him, I'm crying that he would do that after he has tried to help me with all that I've gone through. It's been a lot more then just him. I think I find a great guy, but then they end up hurting me.

  • @norjemmatahil3059
    @norjemmatahil3059 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    i will miss you....need to move on....i love u and thnks for evrything...

  • @SharpRazor69
    @SharpRazor69 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    my heart is torn and my bones are broken. u said that you would be there forever but forever wasnt long enough for me to love u and now i sit here bleeding out my sorrow and hoping that when i fall asleep you will be there when i wake up.

  • @Leladancer18
    @Leladancer18 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    sorry to hear that. i know i went through that a couple of months ago and to be honest it hurt like hell. you will be fine eventually. i hope you cheer up.

  • @Sherbertwoody
    @Sherbertwoody 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ill never say goodbye..one year and seven months since i fell in love with you and the love is still as strong today as it was the day i told you i love you :(

  • @BlisteredBones
    @BlisteredBones 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    this song is what im feeling right now cause my gf of 10 months said she wanted to be single cause of our long distance relationship an the stress shes goin through...it's a pree sad song for the moment but i think it's great that musicians can write such heartfelt songs everyone can relate to

  • @SiameseCath
    @SiameseCath 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow!! the video is just so awesome!! 100 thumbs up haha

  • @MissNeko92
    @MissNeko92 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    there's a man that I loved so much before..the way he treating me, supporting me, taking me out (only BOTH of us) and he even said he loves me..people around me thought that we had that special relationship and one day he ended up telling me that he's in love with my FRIEND. It's hurt damn much, cause he's giving me too many hopes, and I thought we will end up being together..It takes me months to pull myself together..and now here I am, happy without him anymore :')

  • @WaterLily607
    @WaterLily607 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to think that, but then I started to feel suicidal; When you're suicidal you don't want to. You feel like there is no hope in the world. It's giving up, there's no longer a point to life. They want it all to end.

  • @noa28897
    @noa28897 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    all the good memories and the bad no matter what it is we have to say goodbye to the ones we love and always have

  • @IWannaBeAMentalist
    @IWannaBeAMentalist 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    heard this song by accident and im now spending the night obsessively downloading all their songs :):)

  • @Insecuritiesdontend
    @Insecuritiesdontend 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its hard for me to say goodbye. Even though we never dated he was the first person I loved and he loved me back. He told me he loved me one night and it took me months to finally say it back and he had a committed gf by then. He always sent me secondhand serenade song. He sent me fall for you and stranger the night he said BTWITIAILWY. I knew that night, as I couldn't stop shaking, that I loved him with all my heart. If I had just had the strength to say it back, wed be happily together

  • @landioeck
    @landioeck 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    god i needed this video

  • @snapkid1991
    @snapkid1991 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    it takes a second to say hello.. but it takes forever to say goodbye..

  • @SuperdanR1
    @SuperdanR1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    almost had me in tears man :'/

  • @mclc831
    @mclc831 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    i know guys. its really depressing to see the one you love go away . it hurts so much and it feels like impossible to get over. i cry too.and i didnt even break up with him nor go out! we meet and fell in love but he lives across the country . i have his number but whats the point because i will probably never see him in my life . upsetting. and im sorry to all of you guys. and im sorry to the guy i like and goodbye . .

  • @raho0of1
    @raho0of1 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    love it

  • @mttrul7
    @mttrul7 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    thumbs up if u lost someone and it was your fault but after losing them you realized that you just made the biggest mistake of ur life and you'll never forgive yourself.... "When love isn't forever... the pain always is"

  • @shilovesjwale
    @shilovesjwale 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this song.. A lot. It reminds me that even though I have to say goodbye.. I love him forever & he doesn't even know how much I care about him... I know it was probably all one big lie.. And I can't hate him.. But I hate myself for letting it pass by..

  • @itzAcutie
    @itzAcutie 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    At this point of how ur thinking. U don't need to believe in urself but give urself that chance's because u deserve that chance's and i promise you It will come. You won't realize it but It will come. I just hope when that day come's I don't see you skipping through a flower field out of happiness . But forreals we only live once we all deserve a chance even if we don't feel that we do, but we do.

  • @harleylinquinn
    @harleylinquinn 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is exactly what I'm going through. I missed my ex so much and I couldn't bear to say goodbye. But after seeing the way he treated me recently, I'm trying to force myself to say goodbye. It's gonna be hard because I still love him...

  • @bvbsoldeir
    @bvbsoldeir 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think of this video everytime I hear this song.

  • @wishinyouwherehere
    @wishinyouwherehere 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This explains it perfectly this is exactly how i feel

  • @starshivastar
    @starshivastar 17 ปีที่แล้ว

    ....love it!!!

  • @sunnivalysfjord7416
    @sunnivalysfjord7416 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    This reminds me of a guy i used to know... We had so many moments together

  • @xXxJaDeNNxXx
    @xXxJaDeNNxXx 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    me and the love of my life broke up last summer and i still cant get over her but shes doing fine but i just cant stop thinkin about her everyday everytime i here this song its just so hard not to cry

  • @youmasenchi
    @youmasenchi 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    In love there is rarely advice one can give to another... I'm going true the same myself. We've broken up more then a year ago and it still hurts like it was yesterday after 10 years of relationship.
    I find it difficult to move on myself I live a day at the time. Some good some bad...
    Spent time with friends is the best you can do for now I guess...

  • @geoffbarton3110
    @geoffbarton3110 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes it does when you lose love you thought you both shared and wanted to keep it hurts like hell

  • @jessicarussell2391
    @jessicarussell2391 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so tired of getting hurt. I understand. Everyone gets hurt. I'm sick of it but it does make you stronger.

  • @shojo95
    @shojo95 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow, I admire you. To have to guts to pour your heart and soul out on the internet. That takes a lot of guts and it must have been hard for you.

  • @Mranu89
    @Mranu89 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    ..love it!!Is Amazing

  • @isurfanddrum101
    @isurfanddrum101 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    that is an amazing video!!!!

  • @chrisnian925
    @chrisnian925 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Going to sleep now

  • @vlada76329
    @vlada76329 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    love this song!

  • @STATOXICATION
    @STATOXICATION 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing like this has happened to me. But it must be hard to live without the person you love. Whether your love has moved away or passed away. Or whether you love them but they don't know or if you broke up and they won't accept you still love them. Just know that they're always in your heart and they'd want you to be strong. Sta x

  • @jessicarussell2391
    @jessicarussell2391 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never seems like it. I have a picture on the piano of us together and wheneveer I play I look at it and it really hurts me to think that he did that to me.

  • @FreeshMusic
    @FreeshMusic 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello is the easiest to say, but Goodbye is always the hardest.

  • @MoonShySkira
    @MoonShySkira 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    That happend to me but were slowly trusting echother again! But I have lost a lot of friends that way, I'm just glad I'm getting this one back! And this time I wont mess up!! :)

  • @victorkam715
    @victorkam715 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    i already said goodbye, but i just can't stand it, everytime i think about it....just feels like i am just running away.... :/

  • @Bubblefur
    @Bubblefur 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know how you feel girl! i had a boyfriend a best friend and my life seemed perfect.. then one night my parents told me that i was moving over seas... i cried so much that night...i miss them all so much

  • @Orros
    @Orros 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    im going to miss her soooo much...

  • @wowpvpful
    @wowpvpful 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    have you ever felt alone or dead inside?have you ever had your love say goodbye?
    have your screams not ben heard? have your dreams misled your words?
    has your heart ben torn apart has your soul needed a new start? if so just say goodbye to your fears and let downs and i promise happyness will come with it. trust me :)

  • @zozo4ever99
    @zozo4ever99 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same here ): i just lost a Friend who exactly like
    This & it's hard for me sometimes to accept the fact
    That this friendship is over ... cause it meant the whole
    World for me . & the problem is that im ending this friendship
    Cause i know it's for the best ):

  • @hayleysings22
    @hayleysings22 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I miss Tanner but being apart is the best today we said goodbye for the last time and when I listen to this song I cry but remeber it's going to be ok

  • @Rainpool258
    @Rainpool258 15 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @itzAcutie
    @itzAcutie 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    There are second chances but only if u want it. Ppls will give u a second chance but really it's up to u if u want it. There's no such thing as a hopeless situation. I have a brokenheart, made mistakes, broke promise, threw my life away with alcohol. So what, u an't the only one. Give urself that second chance,because ur worth it and because with all that experiences ur going to make it better. The only way to learn from life is from ur own mistake.

  • @kristineS0510
    @kristineS0510 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can't say good bye cause ur still here in my Innocent heart...

  • @MsTFMSangel71691
    @MsTFMSangel71691 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its been, a month since my ex broke up with me and he said he wasnt feeling it anymore, and i do care for him and i still love him but there are some things that never go away, some feelings never go away. and i thought i was over him but im not.

  • @vanice6692
    @vanice6692 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    im touched.

  • @yumipie3279
    @yumipie3279 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    i sang this song in quietly as i said goodbye to my best friend, knowing that i wont see him again... he didnt know why is was crying and smiling when i hugged him i just whispered , im alive but im losing all my drive cause everything when been through and everything about you is going with you

  • @horsegirllove
    @horsegirllove 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    this made me almost cry

  • @kbienek
    @kbienek 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is hard no matter what it is, I'm young but I've felt for a guy, i'd do ANYTHING for.i just can't let go, i still can't after 5 months. we were together for a year and two months.it's one of the hardest things you go through in life words can't describe what my feelings are.it seems impossible for anyone to understand.But i fell for the wrong guy.Hes not the romantic type, be hes my type.Love is powerful,unpredictable,&uncontrollable

  • @MellowMoodPH
    @MellowMoodPH 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    na inlove ako sa kakalase ko non 4th year high school pa kmi,,my gf ako ngaun,pero sya padin hinahanap ko :( ikakasal nalng sya etong kanta nlng na to siguro ang magiging alaala ko sa kanya..i miss you pauline,sana ako nlng pakasalan mo :(

  • @musicaltomboy
    @musicaltomboy 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    my heart aches,my soul breaks.
    I regret never saying what I felt.
    Watching you,so close,so near.
    But I was afraid,for us,my dear.
    Afraid that we would never be the same,
    afraid u'd think my love is lame.
    Now you are gone,and I'm free to say
    But will it matter?Without you...this day?

  • @Trinityluv76
    @Trinityluv76 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    you deserve better...plain and simple. Love does NOT hurt.

  • @Ms_Sylveon
    @Ms_Sylveon 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never say good bye.... I just say hello... until we meet again this is hello...

  • @neiradp
    @neiradp 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    sometimes I am confused wheather I really loved her, but now that I have lost her. I know that I really did, and as much as I pushed her away and everything I put her through, I know she derserves better, and I have finally pushed her far enough, that shes not coming back, goodbye....

  • @Rainfelkins
    @Rainfelkins 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even if it may seem like it won''t move forward, it will. Some people don't deserve what they have, others lose what they think they want. Most people believe that the actions of a person can change everything in one moment. Your one person has not come yet. As people get older they realize why they did stupid things, and what the consequences really were. You will some day meet someone that you will be with, and when that day comes, you will feel pity for those who could not see sooner.

  • @itzAcutie
    @itzAcutie 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's just one dude. Don't give up. We all had experiences of hurt, u going to have to expect hurt some where in ur life. Because it's part of life. Live ur life and save urself for that special someone. If he cheated on u because of that then he would of leave u anyways after u give it to him, and that will hurt much much more then wat ur going through. A men needs a women, ur were dealing with a little boy.

  • @lillyfrost7375
    @lillyfrost7375 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    actually, it does hurt, many dont realize that. it hurts like hell.

  • @jca6982
    @jca6982 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    always hard to look back,

  • @M3lzRoxSugaPLum
    @M3lzRoxSugaPLum 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    This song gives me the tingles..
    Actually reminds me of someone :[

  • @Xxbl00dyxangelxX
    @Xxbl00dyxangelxX 16 ปีที่แล้ว

    You just do what I did, take your time, don't rush it. Let yourself wallow in self pity for a while, but don't get too down on yourself. The time will come for you to get over them. that's the way it was with me. It just happened out of nowhere.

  • @loveisagift1
    @loveisagift1 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video because on my darkest nights when I remember my fiance leaving me I keep thinking we really are better off this way

  • @brigittedegraaf7252
    @brigittedegraaf7252 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    this makes me think of me and a friend....

  • @Kdanz022
    @Kdanz022 14 ปีที่แล้ว

    @redswolf its true........just sweet memories that never fades

  • @Mukke4You
    @Mukke4You 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    it makes me cry .

  • @carrieip9
    @carrieip9 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    i've been used a lot and i actualy thought that those ppl were my friends. i go to school everyday, thinkin that nothin would happen while im always beenin teased and i get my feelings hurt but i dont do anyythin about it so they pretty much tease me everyday. :( idk wat to do. if i tell on them, they wont b y friends anymore and i barely have any cuz i ditched them for ppl that i thought were my friends, but i think their usin me 2.

  • @GreenSaffy
    @GreenSaffy 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg. im going through this and it hurts so much :( out of a 5 yrs r/s. :'(

  • @livefortoday28
    @livefortoday28 15 ปีที่แล้ว

    this one got my crying

  • @TheCST1012
    @TheCST1012 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    nice song man .

  • @jauntyjackie367
    @jauntyjackie367 13 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ryan Colin Hedley. you meant everything to me. i know that this is how it has to be if i ever want to get on with life but that will never stop the pain. every morning i wake up in hope that we will talk. its been more then a month now... and the pain still feels like just yesterday you ended are love. i dont blame you, i blame yourself i should have been more understanding, a better girlfriend, and im sorry. i love you and i fear i always will. ill never find someone better then you.Good bye

  • @rebekahjackson7198
    @rebekahjackson7198 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I guess this is it... Goodbye Anthony.. I thought after our daughter was born you'd change, but you didn't. You got worse and you get mad at her for crying when she's so little and helpless. I'm sorry I even thought she'd change you and make you realize what you have but I guess you'll never see how much we love you. So this is it, goodbye.

  • @glittergal881
    @glittergal881 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    dont worry you will find someone better :) i know it sucks shit when this happens, and beieve me it wsnt easy for me to let him go and find someone better, but now i did and im so much happier, you just gotta give it some time (:

  • @differentgirl377
    @differentgirl377 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel the same way.

  • @sharalennforthewin
    @sharalennforthewin 13 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @BiggieWallace1
    @BiggieWallace1 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    thumps up if haven´t had any of these problems, but just obsessed with his voice!