I had two children. They are grown now and have children of their own and so glad I had them. I was blessed enough to be able to stay home with them until they hit kindergarten and then I worked part time or I work second or third shift so that I could be with them or my husband could be with them. You’re right having children is not easy it changes your perspective about all things. Sadly I also terminated a pregnancy before I had my children and that was the worst mistake of my life. Tammy, I must tell you that I am enjoying your podcasts immensely. I find your voice very comforting and your point of you as well. I also listen to your husband’s Podcasts, but they have a different perspective and a different vibe.❤ Keep up the good work and keep tackling those hard to tackle subjects. The world needs kind hearted people like you. God bless!
Tammy, your and your husband gave me the umph I needed to speak my desire to leave the 9-5 hustle to stay home with our children. Best decision for our family!
Here in the Northeastern US, choosing to be a stay at home mom is seen as laughably backwards. I’m the only mom I know that doesn’t work outside the home (besides those with infants), and I was only ‘able’ to do that because I became physically disabled. This affects so much more than people realize. Kids almost never just play outside in the yard or with neighbor kids, they’re shuttled from thing to thing to keep them busy and the exhausted parents trying to earn income with every scrap of their time - until they’re so burnt out they can’t handle a few minutes of free time together and just watch tv or look at TikTok on their separate screens. The ramifications of losing the prioritization of family have yet to come to full fruition, and it’s not going to be good.
I had an abortion almost 14 years ago, and I regret it every single day. It was a medical abortion (I took a pill at home). It was perhaps the worst experience I’ve ever had, and I’ve been through some pretty terrible and traumatic things. I truly wish it was never an option. Thank you so much for this conversation and for equipping us with information and data to support a pro life (and pro family) position. ❤️
Hi I’m 77 raised in the Northeast USA living in south east now. Back in the day my mom stayed home with me my dad worked and then when I got married I stayed home with my kids and my husband worked. Because mothers duty and best thing she could ever do was be around the children, and raise them in the manner in which she believed. The problem with the world obviously is everything has gotten too expensive first of all. And then we have infiltration of communists… And then we have absentee fathers. and then we have feminist, craziness, and frankly, we need to all go back to the earlier days when nothing was perfect but mom stayed with their kids. Dad‘s worked. If mom’s wanted to work that’s fine but they still stayed with their kids. Of course there were people that had death in the family and things like that but generally speaking family unit was very important and still is and we have ruined the way it is here in USA and it’s pretty disgusting. My kids are working. They also are with their children they work it out. It’s just so ridiculous. In my opinion that we’ve come so far to the wrong way. Thank you for this Tammy…It’s a very nice video. God bless you.
So this is my last comment difficult? Having a baby is difficult I find that a lot of the comments are saying is completely opposite from my own experience. I think it’s awesome to have a baby. It’s a new life if you look at nature and you were very aware of all that it’s not difficult it’s part of the way it is. I never thought it was difficult. I loved it even though everything wasn’t perfect. I loved it because babies must be looked at like little angels and gems.
By the way. We never even thought of not having mom stay home with your kids never even thought about it-- because that was just what you did. Plus, my grandmother lived with us part time as well and families were extended in homes. It was just expected. There was no thinking of anything else. And most people with an unwanted pregnancy just had the baby anyway. This was a very different era and it was beautiful and wonderful and that went on for quite a while and. I think part of it is that I was raised a very strong Catholic Christian, who loves the Lord, and had the morals that he wanted us to have from the Bible. It was not even a question, so this is very interesting to me. So it must be my age you guys are younger than me obviously, but I’m very happy I was in that era where family stuff together stay together pray together, hung out together most of the time.
This is beautiful Tammy, young women like myself need these conversations❤️. I would love for you to look into Dr. Stuart James Fischbein, MD. And his incredible movement for empowering women to take back birth! I’m 26 and have 5 wonderful children, the smallest we will be experiencing her birth soon. God has given us women a powerful gift to birth life. It comes with so much burdens and responsibilities that aren’t being understood and willingly put into the hands of a medical professional that unfortunately doesn’t have our best interest at heart. If women could take back our responsibility to our bodies nature we may find hope in ending abortion. When one gardens to be fruitful, they expect the hardships that come along with the process and are grateful for the fruit. I’ve been planning a home birth there’s truly so much to be explored and understood of this hard yet fruitful process.
I love your comment! Are you hoping for your first homebirth!? How exciting and special ❤ I have been grateful for all of mine! I will look up the Dr you mentioned, it's a huge issue here in the UK and something needs to change.
@@susieare It’s incredibly important and being completely over looked! Your reply fills my heart with so much joy, and thank you for your kind support! Yes, this will be my first home birth 🥳🥰! I’m practicing trusting God and being patient in his timing. I have a closer relationship to God through this process and giving all my fears in prayer. “Let go let God” I’m more in toon to my instincts and nature more than I’ve ever been. I want more women to experience owning this feminine experience and fall in love with their bodies abilities. God gave us so much to be grateful for💚.
This is making me think because I think a big problem is that the government anywhere wants to control. We had families lived our lives, and the government protected the country from in theaters and oversaw things like the founding fathers expected. Once they stepped into the control of private lives. That’s where things went wrong.
Unfortunately, in the US marriage has become a class distinction. Often couples will not friend a single mother. Thus my second marriage has led me to being alone and isolated because my family is scattered geographically. I do not think I'm alone in this. Although, i have sisters i stay close to via technology! Still haven't figured out how to be socially successful 🙃 at all. Thank God for prayer, for dogs, for gardening.
My wife and I had 8 children. I was in the main a postman, and, my wife stayed at home. The last child is still in school, but the rest have persued qualifications mainly at tertiary level. The usual lefty scenario would have had us in misery, but I always thought abortion and children denied, even contraception would be faithless in a Christian perspetive. But having 8 children doesn't suit everyone due to medical aspects, and, I'm sensible about this.
As I keep listening to this, I keep having some thing else to say. I don’t understand the whole concept of being afraid to have a baby. It depends on how you raised. It depends on how you are having a child like living like the good Lord said to be like a child. If you have a problem with babies, give me a break and honestly back in those days people helped each other, and I don’t understand this whole afraid to have a baby thing. I have no idea where that comes from except the lack of faith, and the lack of Jesus and the lack of family, unity and the devil I guess.
21:07 Hungary should have instituted a rule where families only get the tax credit if the woman stays home for 3 years after the birth of each child. It’s cruel to take children away from mothers that young and institutionalize them.
I admire and love you all great conversation. Just a little annoying that the video is not dated correctly. It makes me think it's very current but by what at least what Lois said it seems like it's 2 or 3 months old? Still love it thank you.
@TammyPetersonPodcast no, you don't record enough. I need to understand what real feminism is and more importantly help my daughter's to understand it. They are formed by the culture and it seems militant feminism is to the fore which somehow seems an oxy-moron.?
It's false that ONLY the mother's offspring lives on in perpetuity. It is also the father's offspring and his legacy as well. This brings up an issue that is almost entirely ignored: the father's right to his child. A woman can legally kill a man's child, and he has no legal right to protect it. A child is also 4 peoples grandchild. It is a sibling. Etc. It's so much more complicated than a woman's right to choose.
Calum is wrong about fathers. In the U.S. the DHHS Child Maltreatment Reports show that mothers abuse and murder children almost three times more than fathers every year without fail since they started keeping record, yet they almost always receive custody. Men are held legally responsible for deciding to have sex if it produces a child for 18 years while being exposed to extremely high workplace fatality rates, but you don't hear them complaining about my body my choice. Men know it's financial suicide to divorce the mother of his children, and women often initiate divorce more than men. Somehow women are always the victim and men the villain and this needs to change. Of course women should be helped when needed, but blaming men for their bad choices won't solve anything.
Agree. I don’t know why this is so difficult for people to understand. Sex is consent to pregnancy. It’s the very purpose of the act and the nature of sex is procreation. That’s why marriage first has always been a hard & fast RULE. In literally all societies around the world, since the beginning of time.
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I had two children. They are grown now and have children of their own and so glad I had them. I was blessed enough to be able to stay home with them until they hit kindergarten and then I worked part time or I work second or third shift so that I could be with them or my husband could be with them. You’re right having children is not easy it changes your perspective about all things. Sadly I also terminated a pregnancy before I had my children and that was the worst mistake of my life. Tammy, I must tell you that I am enjoying your podcasts immensely. I find your voice very comforting and your point of you as well. I also listen to your husband’s Podcasts, but they have a different perspective and a different vibe.❤ Keep up the good work and keep tackling those hard to tackle subjects. The world needs kind hearted people like you. God bless!
Tammy, your and your husband gave me the umph I needed to speak my desire to leave the 9-5 hustle to stay home with our children. Best decision for our family!
Here in the Northeastern US, choosing to be a stay at home mom is seen as laughably backwards. I’m the only mom I know that doesn’t work outside the home (besides those with infants), and I was only ‘able’ to do that because I became physically disabled. This affects so much more than people realize. Kids almost never just play outside in the yard or with neighbor kids, they’re shuttled from thing to thing to keep them busy and the exhausted parents trying to earn income with every scrap of their time - until they’re so burnt out they can’t handle a few minutes of free time together and just watch tv or look at TikTok on their separate screens. The ramifications of losing the prioritization of family have yet to come to full fruition, and it’s not going to be good.
Thank you, Ms. Tammy! I can't wait to listen to this conversation with my husband! Peace be with you all! 💕🙏🏼😇
Thank you for bringing up the Poland case!
Beautiful talk. Thank you.
I had an abortion almost 14 years ago, and I regret it every single day. It was a medical abortion (I took a pill at home). It was perhaps the worst experience I’ve ever had, and I’ve been through some pretty terrible and traumatic things. I truly wish it was never an option. Thank you so much for this conversation and for equipping us with information and data to support a pro life (and pro family) position. ❤️
Hi I’m 77 raised in the Northeast USA living in south east now.
Back in the day my mom stayed home with me my dad worked and then when I got married I stayed home with my kids and my husband worked.
Because mothers duty and best thing she could ever do was be around the children, and raise them in the manner in which she believed.
The problem with the world obviously is everything has gotten too expensive first of all.
And then we have infiltration of communists… And then we have absentee fathers. and then we have feminist, craziness, and frankly, we need to all go back to the earlier days when nothing was perfect but mom stayed with their kids.
Dad‘s worked. If mom’s wanted to work that’s fine but they still stayed with their kids.
Of course there were people that had death in the family and things like that but generally speaking family unit was very important and still is and we have ruined the way it is here in USA and it’s pretty disgusting.
My kids are working.
They also are with their children they work it out.
It’s just so ridiculous. In my opinion that we’ve come so far to the wrong way.
Thank you for this Tammy…It’s a very nice video. God bless you.
So this is my last comment difficult? Having a baby is difficult I find that a lot of the comments are saying is completely opposite from my own experience. I think it’s awesome to have a baby. It’s a new life if you look at nature and you were very aware of all that it’s not difficult it’s part of the way it is. I never thought it was difficult. I loved it even though everything wasn’t perfect. I loved it because babies must be looked at like little angels and gems.
By the way. We never even thought of not having mom stay home with your kids never even thought about it--
because that was just what you did.
Plus, my grandmother lived with us part time as well and families were extended in homes.
It was just expected. There was no thinking of anything else.
And most people with an unwanted pregnancy just had the baby anyway.
This was a very different era and it was beautiful and wonderful and that went on for quite a while and.
I think part of it is that I was raised a very strong Catholic Christian, who loves the Lord, and had the morals that he wanted us to have from the Bible.
It was not even a question, so this is very interesting to me.
So it must be my age you guys are younger than me obviously, but I’m very happy I was in that era where family stuff together stay together pray together, hung out together most of the time.
I had the same experience though we weren't very religious. It was just how families behaved.
Thank you ❤️🕊
This is beautiful Tammy, young women like myself need these conversations❤️.
I would love for you to look into Dr. Stuart James Fischbein, MD.
And his incredible movement for empowering women to take back birth!
I’m 26 and have 5 wonderful children, the smallest we will be experiencing her birth soon.
God has given us women a powerful gift to birth life. It comes with so much burdens and responsibilities that aren’t being understood and willingly put into the hands of a medical professional that unfortunately doesn’t have our best interest at heart. If women could take back our responsibility to our bodies nature we may find hope in ending abortion.
When one gardens to be fruitful, they expect the hardships that come along with the process and are grateful for the fruit.
I’ve been planning a home birth there’s truly so much to be explored and understood of this hard yet fruitful process.
I love your comment! Are you hoping for your first homebirth!? How exciting and special ❤ I have been grateful for all of mine! I will look up the Dr you mentioned, it's a huge issue here in the UK and something needs to change.
@@susieare It’s incredibly important and being completely over looked! Your reply fills my heart with so much joy, and thank you for your kind support!
Yes, this will be my first home birth 🥳🥰! I’m practicing trusting God and being patient in his timing. I have a closer relationship to God through this process and giving all my fears in prayer. “Let go let God” I’m more in toon to my instincts and nature more than I’ve ever been. I want more women to experience owning this feminine experience and fall in love with their bodies abilities. God gave us so much to be grateful for💚.
Call upon the angels of God, our Help! They bring people like you folks into our lives that give hope to important questions for living a better life.
This is making me think because I think a big problem is that the government anywhere wants to control. We had families lived our lives, and the government protected the country from in theaters and oversaw things like the founding fathers expected. Once they stepped into the control of private lives. That’s where things went wrong.
They want us in pods, eating ze bugs, and depopulated.
That’s exactly the point of breaking the family unit down. Because then people trust in and depend on the government. Instead of God and Family.
Unfortunately, in the US marriage has become a class distinction. Often couples will not friend a single mother. Thus my second marriage has led me to being alone and isolated because my family is scattered geographically. I do not think I'm alone in this. Although, i have sisters i stay close to via technology! Still haven't figured out how to be socially successful 🙃 at all. Thank God for prayer, for dogs, for gardening.
I haven't seen that happen in Australia.
Spend time at the playground and meet other moms with similar age kids…
Ok but I didn't have 5 abortions and it got crazy for me as well, I just now have a ton of blessings.
My wife and I had 8 children. I was in the main a postman, and, my wife stayed at home. The last child is still in school, but the rest have persued qualifications mainly at tertiary level. The usual lefty scenario would have had us in misery, but I always thought abortion and children denied, even contraception would be faithless in a Christian perspetive. But having 8 children doesn't suit everyone due to medical aspects, and, I'm sensible about this.
As I keep listening to this, I keep having some thing else to say. I don’t understand the whole concept of being afraid to have a baby. It depends on how you raised. It depends on how you are having a child like living like the good Lord said to be like a child. If you have a problem with babies, give me a break and honestly back in those days people helped each other, and I don’t understand this whole afraid to have a baby thing. I have no idea where that comes from except the lack of faith, and the lack of Jesus and the lack of family, unity and the devil I guess.
In Roe versus Wade the baby at the centre was not aborted, which is ironic.
The abortion movement used that poor uneducated woman to advance their propaganda agenda. She put her daughter up for adoption.
21:07 Hungary should have instituted a rule where families only get the tax credit if the woman stays home for 3 years after the birth of each child. It’s cruel to take children away from mothers that young and institutionalize them.
I admire and love you all great conversation. Just a little annoying that the video is not dated correctly. It makes me think it's very current but by what at least what Lois said it seems like it's 2 or 3 months old? Still love it thank you.
Often, youtubers schedule things out months in advance.
Thank you for the comment. I record too many podcasts
@TammyPetersonPodcast no, you don't record enough. I need to understand what real feminism is and more importantly help my daughter's to understand it. They are formed by the culture and it seems militant feminism is to the fore which somehow seems an oxy-moron.?
It's false that ONLY the mother's offspring lives on in perpetuity. It is also the father's offspring and his legacy as well. This brings up an issue that is almost entirely ignored: the father's right to his child. A woman can legally kill a man's child, and he has no legal right to protect it. A child is also 4 peoples grandchild. It is a sibling. Etc. It's so much more complicated than a woman's right to choose.
Calum is wrong about fathers.
In the U.S. the DHHS Child Maltreatment Reports show that mothers abuse and murder children almost three times more than fathers every year without fail since they started keeping record, yet they almost always receive custody.
Men are held legally responsible for deciding to have sex if it produces a child for 18 years while being exposed to extremely high workplace fatality rates, but you don't hear them complaining about my body my choice.
Men know it's financial suicide to divorce the mother of his children, and women often initiate divorce more than men.
Somehow women are always the victim and men the villain and this needs to change. Of course women should be helped when needed, but blaming men for their bad choices won't solve anything.
Don't have kids. Don't do what it takes to get pregnant. If you refuse, you forfeit the right to abort...imo.
I agree. If you consent to sex you consent to the possibility of a baby. That should be the end of the story.
Agree. I don’t know why this is so difficult for people to understand. Sex is consent to pregnancy. It’s the very purpose of the act and the nature of sex is procreation. That’s why marriage first has always been a hard & fast RULE. In literally all societies around the world, since the beginning of time.
@@Foxie770 I agree as I said less eloquently above.