True, I've never seen a short movie about a man going through Ana or bulimia, I've watched most of the short movies, and they are all girls, which isn't bad because of 🎉 representation 🎉 but I would like to see more for are young boys or just boy audience too as a girl ik many girls with eds but I know boys who don't even know they have eds.
well why should we CARE about men with eating disorders when its mainly men giving girls eds. i dont get why we shld represent them , they shld represent theirself
this is the video I want to show someone when they want to try and understand what it´s really like to have an eating disorder. This is so well presented!❤ ” you don’t choose between skinny and fat. You choose between life and death.” ” It’s about ME!” ” It’s not about thin enough. There is no thin enough. ” It is about emotions. It makes you forget everything else going on around you.
TW!! I love how they included all body shapes and sizes. Movies and shows make the characters make them way too skinny trying to “scare” them and it would never work because you would think “if I just skip one meal, it won’t get that bad” and you think you have control but you don’t. I love this. It is the example of how it feels. It’s just a voice in your head. It’s important for people to understand that we can’t “just eat”. It’s this overwhelmingly numb feeling. The voice gets starts to yell if you eat. It’s nearly impossible to live with. I hadn’t eaten for days and started to get terribly dizzy so I had no choice but to tell my partner. They just said “they predicted it” and “okay”. It made feel as if they didn’t care. And gave me fuel to not eat. Started working out more and i stayed THE SAME SIZE. No matter the size, it can still be happening.
I keep watching these to make myself get better, but it only makes me see how unworthy I am. Like I am not nearly as sick as anyone here. I mean, I will never be sick enough. I will never be skinny enough. But at the same time, maybe I'm just not trying hard enough? I don't know what to do.
1) These are Hollywood movies and TV shows. They take what they know of EDs and exaggerate it to make it marketable. Most people with EDs don't look and/or act like this to this extent. 2) No one is "unworthy" of treatment/diagnosis for an ED. If you think you have one, that's enough of a reason to seek treatment and/or a diagnosis. Just because you don't seem as sick as these characters doesn't mean you aren't hurting yourself. For example: an obese person can starve themselves to death and still be obese. Symptoms don't always show themselves on the surface. When it comes to mental health problems, it's even possible to have symptoms and not know that you are experiencing them since you may not be conscious of them. Also, even if you don't have a serious or life-threatening case of an ED, it's better to nip it in the bud before it becomes an absolute demon of a problem. Not only will it (most likely) take less time to heal, but believe it or not, you are also more likely to willingly seek treatment before it becomes life-threatening. There's a certain point where you can get so caught up in your way of thinking that you believe therapy won't be effective because you either can't see yourself escaping that way of thinking or you think that the therapist won't take it seriously due to it not being bad enough (even though it clearly is). Malnutrition can have a huge impact on your mental capacity so it's easy to get stuck in a way of thinking when you have a severe ED simply because you don't have the energy to think yourself out of it. 3) Definitely, don't make yourself worse. See if you can join a support group or look up steps online on how to treat yourself. If you are comfortable and able to see a therapist and/or nutritionist, do so. Lastly, you need to know that "skinny enough" never existed. It's an impossible goal that you will never reach. A "healthy weight" however is an attainable goal. Start setting goals that you know you can achieve.
@@fuzzydo6911 Well, thanks! That was nice. I think I'm waaayy past the point where I can take myself out of this easily and/or quickly, but I'll see what I can do. Thank you :)
@@chris_freaky305 If you are mentally suffering, no matter what that looks like physically, you are so, so worthy of help and support. I hope that you find the healing you need. Wishing you well
@@carolynpenny2654 Aw, thank you. Asking for help is hard, but I will try my best. Thank you so much! This kinda does help making me feel a little more worth it, I guess.
@@chris_freaky305 The expression "choose your hard" helps me get past that. I know it's SO HARD to ask for help...but the thing is, these things (EDs & any other addiction/destructive behavior) are also SO HARD to live with. At least when we make the hard choice to ask for help, we can start the recovery process and work toward something better. Trust me, I still struggle, too but the hard moment of asking for help far outweighs the lifetime of suffering without it.
You don't choose between skinny and fat. You choose between life a death Well i choose death People see me and think i am fine because i can smile and say the right things i must be fine.
they’re right… its kinda like a coping mechanism. it start as a distraction, then a ritual, then some type of numbness. so much so it’s like you think nothing about it but everything about it at the same time. you can’t remember the last time you cared about anything more than the calories you consumed or how youre going to burn them off. it’s a feeling of everything and nothing all at the same time and it’s so damn confusing
I am anorexic and have lost more than 20 pounds. I want to recover but it's just... hard. Last month, i was admitted into hospital due to severe anemia. I was told that i HAVE to eat but everytime i eat i feel the urge to just scream. I just can't handle the guilt that goes does my throat with the food. I have purged 3 times since the last one month and i hate myself about it. I REALLY REALLY want a good relationship with food. Everyone says I've changed a lot and i am not that old girl everyone liked. I really want to recover and become the old happy girl who didn't care about eating more or less food. I want to love myself more and want to be confident in my own skin. I really wish i could love myself...
oh my god, i just GENUINELY hope everything gets better and im sending all my love and wishes 🥹 i hope you get the relationship you want with food, and i hope for your speedy recovery love.... I don't really know what it is like to have ED, but i just TRULY wish that it gets better for whoever struggles w it. i hope you can try your best for fight this. YOU GOT THIS!! (hope im not unintentionally putting you down with any of my words, and im totally not saying its easy, but sending you hope :>)
I’m 14 and I’ve nearly fully recovered and I can tell you I wouldn’t trade the ed for a single one of the memories I’ve made, relationships I’ve built with my friends and the things I’ve been able to do ❤ Anyone reading you are beautiful and make this world way better, take care of ur health and the environment! There’s just so many things to do, people to meet also, reach ur inner child’s dreams❤❤:) Recovery is the best choice for everyone, you too 💞
U sound so sweet But darling it's not as easy as u thing Especially when everyone around u sees nothing wrong with u Not me crying while writing this 🤧🥺
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, okay?
im so mad i watched this. i had an ed for a rlly long time and i started to recover in december but now that its summer, ive started to restrict a little and now i think its gonna relapse
You’re beautiful Grace. You can find a balance- a healthy balance. I know it’s easy to say, hard to execute. A year after I recovered I met my husband. I still catch myself-just like you are catching yourself. Remember life is bigger. We miss so many happy things when we obsessively restrict. You can do it. I believe in you. ❤
to the bone, skins (Cassie, Emily) , insatiable, the other ones I don't know about. But some I know is never have I ever season 2 episode 5, and some ballet movies, and everything now.
Idk all but the once that the other person said and starving in suburbia, sharing the secret and may I recommend my skinney sister even tho it's not in this movie you can find all these on TH-cam
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
After losing my dad and grandma i wanted something that i could control so i got a ed. This august i lost my other grandma 4 small animals and my dads dog all in 2 weeks and all i can think abt is not eating again.
Does anyone know what shows there are in this? I know: the red band society To the bone Starving in suburbia Glee Skins Insatiable Ginny and Georgia Feed The edge of 17 Sharing the secret Anyone know the other shows/movies
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
@@Fella. Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
I ate today and wanted to throw it all up I am so big even my cousin says she big but her body is so beautiful but I can never think that mine is I just want to die
"that cant be healthy."
"who cares?"
this.
I really like how there is a guy character too. People need to understand that ED’s happen to all genders unfortunately.
♥️
True, I've never seen a short movie about a man going through Ana or bulimia, I've watched most of the short movies, and they are all girls, which isn't bad because of 🎉 representation 🎉 but I would like to see more for are young boys or just boy audience too as a girl ik many girls with eds but I know boys who don't even know they have eds.
Word
And ages, not just young people , older people in50’s and 60’s develop eating disorders as well
well why should we CARE about men with eating disorders when its mainly men giving girls eds. i dont get why we shld represent them , they shld represent theirself
this is the video I want to show someone when they want to try and understand what it´s really like to have an eating disorder. This is so well presented!❤
” you don’t choose between skinny and fat. You choose between life and death.”
” It’s about ME!”
” It’s not about thin enough. There is no thin enough. ”
It is about emotions. It makes you forget everything else going on around you.
TW!!
I love how they included all body shapes and sizes. Movies and shows make the characters make them way too skinny trying to “scare” them and it would never work because you would think “if I just skip one meal, it won’t get that bad” and you think you have control but you don’t. I love this. It is the example of how it feels. It’s just a voice in your head. It’s important for people to understand that we can’t “just eat”. It’s this overwhelmingly numb feeling. The voice gets starts to yell if you eat. It’s nearly impossible to live with. I hadn’t eaten for days and started to get terribly dizzy so I had no choice but to tell my partner. They just said “they predicted it” and “okay”. It made feel as if they didn’t care. And gave me fuel to not eat. Started working out more and i stayed THE SAME SIZE. No matter the size, it can still be happening.
"Its just food its not like I'm hurting anyone!"
"You're hurting yourself"
Damn, I said that to my friend today...
“You are not choosing between fat and skinny, you are choosing between life and death.”
Me: well then I choose death☺
😢
I know this might be a joke but That is so sad 😭, please don't choose death over life and true happiness ❣️
@@mgicllmgn6402 I’m not joking
@@iBeBlizzard Omg twins!! 😭
@@Nightbloom101 lmao💀
Best one of these I’ve seen. Emotionally powerful and just beautiful
The way I’m able to relate to them so much ❤️🩹
I keep watching these to make myself get better, but it only makes me see how unworthy I am. Like I am not nearly as sick as anyone here. I mean, I will never be sick enough. I will never be skinny enough. But at the same time, maybe I'm just not trying hard enough? I don't know what to do.
1) These are Hollywood movies and TV shows. They take what they know of EDs and exaggerate it to make it marketable. Most people with EDs don't look and/or act like this to this extent.
2) No one is "unworthy" of treatment/diagnosis for an ED. If you think you have one, that's enough of a reason to seek treatment and/or a diagnosis. Just because you don't seem as sick as these characters doesn't mean you aren't hurting yourself. For example: an obese person can starve themselves to death and still be obese. Symptoms don't always show themselves on the surface. When it comes to mental health problems, it's even possible to have symptoms and not know that you are experiencing them since you may not be conscious of them.
Also, even if you don't have a serious or life-threatening case of an ED, it's better to nip it in the bud before it becomes an absolute demon of a problem. Not only will it (most likely) take less time to heal, but believe it or not, you are also more likely to willingly seek treatment before it becomes life-threatening. There's a certain point where you can get so caught up in your way of thinking that you believe therapy won't be effective because you either can't see yourself escaping that way of thinking or you think that the therapist won't take it seriously due to it not being bad enough (even though it clearly is). Malnutrition can have a huge impact on your mental capacity so it's easy to get stuck in a way of thinking when you have a severe ED simply because you don't have the energy to think yourself out of it.
3) Definitely, don't make yourself worse. See if you can join a support group or look up steps online on how to treat yourself. If you are comfortable and able to see a therapist and/or nutritionist, do so.
Lastly, you need to know that "skinny enough" never existed. It's an impossible goal that you will never reach. A "healthy weight" however is an attainable goal. Start setting goals that you know you can achieve.
@@fuzzydo6911 Well, thanks! That was nice. I think I'm waaayy past the point where I can take myself out of this easily and/or quickly, but I'll see what I can do. Thank you :)
@@chris_freaky305 If you are mentally suffering, no matter what that looks like physically, you are so, so worthy of help and support. I hope that you find the healing you need. Wishing you well
@@carolynpenny2654 Aw, thank you. Asking for help is hard, but I will try my best. Thank you so much! This kinda does help making me feel a little more worth it, I guess.
@@chris_freaky305 The expression "choose your hard" helps me get past that. I know it's SO HARD to ask for help...but the thing is, these things (EDs & any other addiction/destructive behavior) are also SO HARD to live with. At least when we make the hard choice to ask for help, we can start the recovery process and work toward something better. Trust me, I still struggle, too but the hard moment of asking for help far outweighs the lifetime of suffering without it.
You don't choose between skinny and fat. You choose between life a death
Well i choose death
People see me and think i am fine because i can smile and say the right things i must be fine.
Are you okay?
they’re right… its kinda like a coping mechanism. it start as a distraction, then a ritual, then some type of numbness. so much so it’s like you think nothing about it but everything about it at the same time. you can’t remember the last time you cared about anything more than the calories you consumed or how youre going to burn them off. it’s a feeling of everything and nothing all at the same time and it’s so damn confusing
Whenever I eat I feel guilty for eating like I'm letting myself down, I lost 11kg in 2 months and they told me it wasn't healthy but I can't stop
Hey are you ok? I just hope you are doing fine now
Hope you're okay. Are you okay?
I love this so much!!! you're incredibly talented editor
Best one I´ve seen too far
I had a eating disorder before I have put on so much weight two medication now I think am going to relapse back into my old ways
Don’t
Damn. Relate to this so much it hurts. Recognizing the amount of pain I've put my mind and body through in this lifetime is devastating
I am anorexic and have lost more than 20 pounds. I want to recover but it's just... hard.
Last month, i was admitted into hospital due to severe anemia. I was told that i HAVE to eat but everytime i eat i feel the urge to just scream. I just can't handle the guilt that goes does my throat with the food. I have purged 3 times since the last one month and i hate myself about it.
I REALLY REALLY want a good relationship with food. Everyone says I've changed a lot and i am not that old girl everyone liked. I really want to recover and become the old happy girl who didn't care about eating more or less food.
I want to love myself more and want to be confident in my own skin.
I really wish i could love myself...
oh my god, i just GENUINELY hope everything gets better and im sending all my love and wishes 🥹 i hope you get the relationship you want with food, and i hope for your speedy recovery love....
I don't really know what it is like to have ED, but i just TRULY wish that it gets better for whoever struggles w it. i hope you can try your best for fight this. YOU GOT THIS!! (hope im not unintentionally putting you down with any of my words, and im totally not saying its easy, but sending you hope :>)
No matter what I eat I need to purge it other wise i start to freak out and cry and I would rather be skinny anyways
I really love that there's a boy
I’m 14 and I’ve nearly fully recovered and I can tell you I wouldn’t trade the ed for a single one of the memories I’ve made, relationships I’ve built with my friends and the things I’ve been able to do ❤ Anyone reading you are beautiful and make this world way better, take care of ur health and the environment! There’s just so many things to do, people to meet also, reach ur inner child’s dreams❤❤:) Recovery is the best choice for everyone, you too 💞
U sound so sweet
But darling it's not as easy as u thing
Especially when everyone around u sees nothing wrong with u
Not me crying while writing this 🤧🥺
such a sad video and it so good
im not Okay. here from the EU
😢😢😢
I hope you get better 🙏❤
Hi! I don't want to bother you or something, but I saw your comment and I wanted you to know that you're not alone in this. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here for you, okay?
this is literally so sad
im so mad i watched this. i had an ed for a rlly long time and i started to recover in december but now that its summer, ive started to restrict a little and now i think its gonna relapse
Don’t
@@Oliver_the_treeeasier said than done
You’re beautiful Grace. You can find a balance- a healthy balance. I know it’s easy to say, hard to execute. A year after I recovered I met my husband. I still catch myself-just like you are catching yourself. Remember life is bigger. We miss so many happy things when we obsessively restrict. You can do it. I believe in you. ❤
Heart stopper should be in this
AHHHHHHHH ALISON LOHMAN IS SO PRETTYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
i really thought Charlie Spring would be here tbh. I love this though
Dose anyone know 0:22 this show/movie???
Run (short film) 2015
which movies are this??
to the bone, skins (Cassie, Emily) , insatiable, the other ones I don't know about. But some I know is never have I ever season 2 episode 5, and some ballet movies, and everything now.
Idk all but the once that the other person said and starving in suburbia, sharing the secret and may I recommend my skinney sister even tho it's not in this movie you can find all these on TH-cam
@xoheartzwonyz oh and glee it's a show on Disney
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
Does anyone know the names of the series/movies please?
who’s that boy? 1:08
i think it’s from the ‘run’ ed short film
Does anybody know what movie/ show the one at 3:40 is?
it's dying in plain sight
Dying in plain sight
@@Anastasiaarias_ thank you Hun appreciate you
Red band sosiety
@@vilakrup5724no
What Serie/Film are this? (Mean the girl with the blond hair In particular)
Can someone pls tell me the names of all these ?
can someone tell me where the scene at 1:21 is from
Glee
After losing my dad and grandma i wanted something that i could control so i got a ed. This august i lost my other grandma 4 small animals and my dads dog all in 2 weeks and all i can think abt is not eating again.
what shows are these clips from?
Sharing the secret; to the bone; insatiable;Gilmore girls; gossip girls;Skins;Ginny&Georgia;Feed….
@@lqvandes3202do u know what show the girl from the cover is?
@@lqvandes3202do u know which show is the clip when the girl said its isn’t about her mother?
Sharing the Secret
@@stella8823 thanks🫶
anyone know the name of the song playing behind the videos?
I'ts Not Over (Motivation) by AndrewSpeech
@@Maple-06_. Thank you do you know where I can listen to it because im not finding it on youtube?
0:49 anyone know where this guy is from?
Run (short film)
What's the show at 0:04 and 0:20
What show/movie is the male character from?
Does anyone know what shows there are in this?
I know:
the red band society
To the bone
Starving in suburbia
Glee
Skins
Insatiable
Ginny and Georgia
Feed
The edge of 17
Sharing the secret
Anyone know the other shows/movies
What are these movies?
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
@@Justme670-w7j thank you
but i wanna be skinny so bad, because im not skinny but im also not fat so i look terrible in everything and it just feels so bad
What movies are used in this edit?
what are the names of these shows?
What is the name of the show at 1:25
Name of the show with the boy?
Run Short Film
What movie or show is 2:25?? I might wanna watch it
red band society
0:22 name please
Run (Short film)2015
I spend 20 minuts everyday puking. Nobody knows, im fat. And i wanna die because at least i wont be able to eat in my coffin and ill just be bones
You are beautiful
At 2.26 what show or movie is this?
Red band Society
It was better for 4 days but im again here because it got...bad.
God i hate having an ed....
Can I know all of these movie names?
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
2:42 what show/ movie is this
😭
0:50 movie name? X
Run short film
Name of these movies/shows pls
Ya I wonder too
Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
@@Fella. Idk the First one but Here the Rest Sarving in suburbia, to the Bone, Sharing the secret, run (Short Film), dying in Plan sight, glee, Dance Academy, Skins, instabile, ginny and georgia, the edge of seventeen, red Band Society, Feed, when frendship kills, empty (Short Film)
@@Justme670-w7j thanks.
Name of the song?
who knows what
1:49 is.
Nvm I found out it’s a film Called feed
anyone wanna vent
Me
@@whos_sha-tg1hz u got discord?
1:27 ???
glee
does anyone know what 00:54 is?
Glee
@@Justme670-w7j ty ! :)
What show/movie is 1:30
Insatiable and it has debby Ryan in it ✨✨
What is 0:29
And 1:24
1.24 is a Show called glee
I ate today and wanted to throw it all up I am so big even my cousin says she big but her body is so beautiful but I can never think that mine is I just want to die
Clip from 0:44?
Starving in Suburbia/Thinspiration (it’s on Tubi)
@@c4mera.thankyou!!!
Hii, what show is 1:21 from?
Glee
It’s getting bad again.. 🥲
all of these characters are so real