Pain of bereavement husbands endure after losing their wives

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    Pain of bereavement husbands endure after losing their wives

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  • @evidenceestellestar7996
    @evidenceestellestar7996 4 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    If both of your parents are still alive , thank God and appreciate them

    • @ntfombiyenkhosidlamini8230
      @ntfombiyenkhosidlamini8230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That is one loving dad. God will help you overcome all struggles and He has already. Awesome God!

    • @millicentsamapundo2241
      @millicentsamapundo2241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      amen to that

    • @ruthachayo8038
      @ruthachayo8038 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know the struggle when all of them are not there , we've gone through it ....let God see His people.

  • @marymwangi3090
    @marymwangi3090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    These stories remind me of how my dad single handedly brought us up. , he choose never to remarry, being girls, it was nit easy for him . I have this strong rapport with him. He is my first love and the man who has taught me soo much . He is my hero..I had just turned 12 when mum passed on.Long live my dad and these great dads who work so hard to fill the gap.

    • @ruthkamwi_youtube
      @ruthkamwi_youtube 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can relate too🙏🏾

    • @beckyr2805
      @beckyr2805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      God bless him abundantly 💜
      may the soul of your mum keep resting in Peace
      and you stay blessed too

    • @shaniquepaul
      @shaniquepaul 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry dear 💗

    • @mercymuso8304
      @mercymuso8304 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry dear.

  • @pragz100
    @pragz100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Real men who never abandoned their kids and still keeping strong. My hat out to you gentlemen

  • @caroandayi7461
    @caroandayi7461 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    The group that is always forgotten "widowers " God continue to see you through.

    • @irenewangeci4046
      @irenewangeci4046 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very true.we are the lost tribe in Kenya

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    These men are real and full of wisdom. May the Lord give them peace.

    • @jackyw1910
      @jackyw1910 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These men have been good dads may God bless them 🙏..I am a widow my husband Left me with two young kids who are adults now it's never easy in the beginning that's why I thumb up to all widow and widowers.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackyw1910 May the Lord be with you

    • @abbygael1330
      @abbygael1330 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soo amazing

  • @barbarabunya7579
    @barbarabunya7579 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for creating a platform where people who have lost their loved ones can share their experiences

  • @susanwanjiru8053
    @susanwanjiru8053 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I absolutely honour these men for their selfless sacrifices. May the Lord bless you immensely and watch over your children. You are great men!!!

  • @sheechege4084
    @sheechege4084 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    So sorry for them, I was raised by a single dad and it wasnt easy but the grace of God is sufficient. Now we are all grown and he is out there ,no longer around like he used to,emotionally detached and maybe broken but God knows I love and respect that man.

  • @annemutua7469
    @annemutua7469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I appreciate my mum for taking care of my sister and I single-handedly since my dad passed away in 1993.

  • @linetotieno2163
    @linetotieno2163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Dear God
    Pls bless me with a long life.. I dont wana die young and leave my future husband and kids 😢😢
    Amen 🙏
    I am so sorry
    You are strong men, keep going on,
    May God be with you all.

    • @Mafa__B
      @Mafa__B 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s always my prayer.. Let’s it be in Jesus mighty Name.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @TheJakamburi
      @TheJakamburi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am the future husband just call me. You won't die and leave me just know that

    • @TheJakamburi
      @TheJakamburi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wonderful men here

    • @linetotieno2163
      @linetotieno2163 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheJakamburi hehe

    • @SM-mh1kq
      @SM-mh1kq 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen you will have a long life ....

  • @violetnanjala1999
    @violetnanjala1999 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I extend my heartfelt condolences for the loss of your wife's. I am a widow too. With four children. I lost my husband 23yrs ago. My children were very young and now they are at university

  • @lynelee5846
    @lynelee5846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Women play a big role in the family i feel these fathers may God strengthen you guys 😱😱😱😱

  • @mariacindie8262
    @mariacindie8262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I lost my mum at the age of 1 and my dad remarried shortly after that.... gladly God gave me an aunt who neva made me feel the loss n actually discovered I didn't have a mum at the age of 17....and now 22 n very Happy with life.... though it hasn't been easy knowing that deep down am different from my siblings

    • @leledladla1637
      @leledladla1637 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I feel you n may you find peace n closure of knowing that you cannot keep on having a heavy heart of knowing that you are different. For the fact that your aunt never made you feelnthe void that enough. Big ups to her may she be blessed.

  • @JessicaAfricaOfficialke
    @JessicaAfricaOfficialke 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Women are taken for granted if you are reading this mad at your spouse for some reason, just forgive, embrace and appreciate each other

  • @ashcablee7669
    @ashcablee7669 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I feel them,we lost both parents wen we're little kids we used to look at they're bed n we cry 😭😭the pain is permanent 😥😭

    • @rtsoca5560
      @rtsoca5560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. I can understand. It is never easy losing loved ones.

    • @adongofaith7374
      @adongofaith7374 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @priscillamunjita8316
      @priscillamunjita8316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭😭😭

    • @princesssophievicsophievic744
      @princesssophievicsophievic744 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bambi sry swtie

    • @juliethhouseofdesigns147
      @juliethhouseofdesigns147 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I understand you I lost my parent between 9 -16 I remember going to their room and there was no one and till now am married but still that memory roaming in my mind

  • @machariajoanne1595
    @machariajoanne1595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i like how they are honest about their experiences

  • @carolinemakezi5926
    @carolinemakezi5926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Death is such a cruel master, when it happens we are almost left at its mercy. For Christians we have the hope of seeing our loved ones again and find comfort in our God with whom we can converse and share our grief and pain. May God be your ever present helper in your time of need.

    • @rtsoca5560
      @rtsoca5560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. We will see our loved ones in heaven

  • @a.muchemi4360
    @a.muchemi4360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Poleni for sure it was beautiful to see men who stoond with their vows. My Big brother After 20yrs he is remarried, but all his kids from my later sister in law are aldults. I see him happy and we are all for him.

  • @naturerazzi7shi495
    @naturerazzi7shi495 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Its disgusts me that 2020 children are been punished for a curriculum that is so rigid and so insensitive to the ever-changing circumstances of child. Curriculum should be fitted to accommodate all sexes. Dad can cook too ! Its sexist and out-dated! Needs an overhaul asp! Great dads u are a gem!!!

  • @agnesndumia1713
    @agnesndumia1713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    These guys are true heroes, Mutahi your kids will still grow.

  • @lilyfrankkiambu8935
    @lilyfrankkiambu8935 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Am very sorry for dat...am widow from 2012 .,..my hubby die on road accident ..my kids was 8yrs & 9mnths..am always strong for them

  • @favouredblessed2631
    @favouredblessed2631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am so sorry i lost my dad 11yrs ago i was 15yrs, our last born was 6months,but i thank God for my mom she is amazing strong and prayerful the journey of mourning is still hard, my sister who at the time was 9 she is into alcohol we dont what to do, am way from kenya am studying my mim is really stressed Please pray us and everyone who is mourning God have mercy on all single parents❤️😭😭

  • @wahufrashia222
    @wahufrashia222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know the pain of losing a loved one 😭😭😭 am a widow for 11yrs now i hv two boys 23yrs old ad 13yrs old ad it has not been easy bt i thnk God for everything

  • @twosugars966
    @twosugars966 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was a beautiful segment of honoring dads,wives and their children.Not easy but God has a way of hugging us through the toughest times.Trust in him even through such times when it doesn't make sense.I wish there are support groups for families going through loss.God bless you all.

  • @julietboachieyiadom1178
    @julietboachieyiadom1178 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so much my dad. I lost my mum at age 12 to a car accident, it's been 23yrs now & the pain never goes away. It's been God & my sweet, kind & loving dad who has seen us to this time. And now that I have my own kid, I miss her more. I see my dad still cry & asking her why she left him with us this way as if she could hear whenever he bows to pray. He's been everything & anything to me & my 3 other sisters & my only brother. I pray God bless us to be a blessing to him. He has done so much for us & still worries abt how we're doing with marriage & our kids. You are great dads, my hugs!

  • @stefwambui8439
    @stefwambui8439 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Pole Chesaina! One of the greatest Zain distributors who really invested in his team's welfare and training.

  • @LeshaoL
    @LeshaoL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    For men watching this stories especially the unmarried one I hope it’ll help you see the roles a wife plays in the family . A lot is taken for granted. Hope their sad stories will help you treat and love your future wives unconditionally...😁

  • @davidkimani3784
    @davidkimani3784 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great courage to open up, share such painful experiences. May God continue to uphold you gentlemen and your families.

  • @asandasam7893
    @asandasam7893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    We that God for making these father's strong and to be able to handle everything by not getting married again. much love ❤❤ from SA

  • @tettmoh
    @tettmoh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How i wish my dad was there for us when mum died, though in my case they had separated since i was 2 years old but still he should have put some effort to know how we are coping without mum, the issues was between them not us, life could have been better if all men are like this dads. Watching this brought me tears cz i had to look for him last year April but couldn't even cry my pain out 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 the pain we went through, left me with depression, I was only 13 and the last born in a family of 3 💔💔💔, i just pray to God to please allow me to bring up my kids cz can't imagine them going through what we went through. It's been 22 years and i really miss my mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Big up all this dads and the one's out there who really cares for their kids. May God bless you and sustain you with good health, prosperity and above all happiness.

  • @gracekyale4395
    @gracekyale4395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This as really brought tears in my heart,I'm happy to see strong men like you guys,may the lord bless you

  • @annanjoroge1890
    @annanjoroge1890 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Teachers should know why children give some answers before punishing the child 👶

    • @connie7192
      @connie7192 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      They shouldn't even beat up children

    • @fridahbirungi6883
      @fridahbirungi6883 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      This made me cry sooo painfully

  • @risperoseko6297
    @risperoseko6297 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Daddy for everything you did since mommy passed away even myself I never knew her but u took Care of us since 1999 now that I have opportunity to do anything for you Daddy I promise you I will never let you down.Salute to all single daddies love you y' all so much kisses

  • @abatetsiangela4523
    @abatetsiangela4523 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So touching stories my God! I couldn't hold my tears back! To all the widows and widowers out there, Jesus is your strength, Holyspirit is your conformforter. Am married for 30yrs now, my husband was hit with a stroke 5years now. He is bedridden but I thank God I still have him. Life isn't easy but every day I can see a smile on his face because he sees me. Thank you for this programme my dear brothers. Angela Baguma from Uganda.

  • @Sunshine_Amy
    @Sunshine_Amy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    May God give you more strength....Mr. Chessaina as well as the other men who went through a lot and still played good roles to their kids

  • @christinewangari1598
    @christinewangari1598 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I was raised by a single Dad I know it was not easy during the first year . I love you dad

  • @annsitymakena2382
    @annsitymakena2382 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Its sad Kenyan men seem to miss the wife due to wife duties she did mainly.

    • @pa798
      @pa798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Love is a verb. Its the role they played as a wife. A woman is a helper

  • @vickyk.m9596
    @vickyk.m9596 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gentlemen, the best gift you can ever give your kids is being present in their lives and allowing them to express how they feel. You all are gentle giants and it speaks volumes. I love how you engage your children in cooking meals and doing chores and that is how it should be. You are raising well rounded children so kuddos to you. I pray that God continues to Bless you and sees you through it all. It shall be well🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @drkatendifwalanga410
    @drkatendifwalanga410 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How is wish Dad would feature on this program....
    It has been 5yrs since Mum answered the Lord's call.
    He doesn't want to remarry... His only focused on us the children. I thank God for giving him the strength.... rising 3 girls who are goal oriented ain't a joke... it is by the Grace of God

  • @beckybundi4546
    @beckybundi4546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I cried about the second dad and the daughter it reminded me of my own life I miss mom , sometimes I wish she were around to see what I have become

  • @jackiekabute6159
    @jackiekabute6159 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ave been a single mother of one daughter for 19yrs now.....the far we have come, I got nothing to boast about. She is a 2nd year university student as for now....but all this, to God be the glory!! May the Lord give them strength!

  • @bettyelizabeth4389
    @bettyelizabeth4389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my dead in 1999 wen I was 6 months but I thank my the almighty lord for where we are now, am now 21 years happy and grateful

  • @swaphiyyahumwali8310
    @swaphiyyahumwali8310 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I felt his pain when he said "sometimes i het out my phone "it has happened to me verymany times when i want to call my dad but then i remember he is no more😭😭😭😭😭😭😭my Allah forgive the soul of all our beloved ones who passed away

  • @mariancruz1261
    @mariancruz1261 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i salute every parent especially fathers , after loosing my mother on April 2nd . My world has never been the same again ,, may all our mums watch over us IJN. May they rest in peace as well

  • @Mafa__B
    @Mafa__B 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People always say when you lose someone that the pain goes away with time,I can assure you it’s doesn’t go you will just be heal and make peace with it and cope.. God bless all the widowers and give them strengths.

  • @wenyma5349
    @wenyma5349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mr.Rodger Ogolla,my teacher.Such an amazing man.You ain't aging,good to see you strong..God bless you and continue to strengthen you.

  • @relaxverse3986
    @relaxverse3986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I see you're not wearing your capes today but I know heroes when I see them. I salute you gentlemen. May blessings and good health be your potions.

  • @alajmialajm8794
    @alajmialajm8794 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Na kuna wanaume wanatia wasichana mimba alafu wanawakataa..waje waona wanaume wenzao hpo vile wako humbled.. may God continue to give these men strength to take care of their children 🙏🙏🙏 your my hero's

  • @loismuiru1647
    @loismuiru1647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Waa i salute u Dad's my God give u strength to big up the ,I understand how painful it is,I a widow for 24yrs now my husband left me with 2yrs boy & I thanks God this for, but too hard to be single, but mungu ni mueza yote,

  • @kemigishajesicca8332
    @kemigishajesicca8332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so touching ♥️♥️Single fathers are the true unsung heros. I salute them👏👏👏👏.They sacrifice so many things to raise their children right. They are often judged by society wrongly regardless of the effort they put in to raise their children.There is that obvious option that society thinks is a solution to widowhood.... re-marrying. People forget that re-marrying is first of all, a choice and it doesn't necessarily fill the void. Secondly, the truth is that your deceased wife is in every way irreplaceable. I was raised by a single father and the older I get I appreciate him for all that he has done for Us. May God bless all Single fathers. You are special ♥️

  • @akinyiomollo-musau3276
    @akinyiomollo-musau3276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    @Roger, (10.10)
    Nice seeing you here and sharing your experience.
    It's always nice to talk and share coz others get encouraged by such and realize they are not alone in these things.
    I went through this too...
    But I've managed to keep my head up and move on with the kids.
    Blessings Kwenu, all who are in this.

  • @devothaniyukuri5619
    @devothaniyukuri5619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thank god everyday when I remember that me and my husband are still around for our children.

  • @ekakhumalointombi5286
    @ekakhumalointombi5286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sorry for your loss sir...May God comfort you...

  • @kitakaflora3948
    @kitakaflora3948 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been widowed for a year now, but its is taking a toll on me. Some one help.

    • @alicec6589
      @alicec6589 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Flora, The Lord is your refuge and your strength. HE HOLDS YOU AT THE PALMS OF HIS HANDS. You are in my prayers 🙏

    • @Zen-cx5tc
      @Zen-cx5tc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @catherinesumner9708
    @catherinesumner9708 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Godbless you all ,I never knew we still have good men in Africa.

  • @goodmemory5893
    @goodmemory5893 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t know why but I’m crying 😭single parents are heroes ❤️🙏

  • @eunnymbugua10
    @eunnymbugua10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sorry for these wonderful and strong men for their loss of their wives si kawaida mwanamme kuongea uchungu wake bt i salute them all 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @glorialouiise
    @glorialouiise 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My Dad could cook clean iron bless him.✊🏿 Black men do not appreciate their Empress neither their children.

  • @genovevashitsama3831
    @genovevashitsama3831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Am a widow my husband died in 2017 it has never been easy ...experience you can not even wish your worsed enemy to go through.

    • @wambui185
      @wambui185 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hugs dear

    • @felliesweetie
      @felliesweetie 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pole mami. Mungu akupe nguvu

  • @edykirimi3320
    @edykirimi3320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My mum left us when our last born was below 2yrs. I was in form 2. As we continued if our last born felt hurt would go to 'report at my mum's grave' it's never easy to loose your mum. Myself didn't know how to peel even potatoes and my dad could not sleep at night.
    But we have seen God.

  • @akinyiomollo-musau3276
    @akinyiomollo-musau3276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    You mean there is such a group?
    Would like to join.
    Been widowed 19years now and had to learn on the job (totally new to me then)
    Left with 2 daughters.

  • @blossombenter5608
    @blossombenter5608 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Moving on is hard especially where the kids are involved coz getting a woman who can take care and love ur children is hard I feel for these guys

    • @rayray8137
      @rayray8137 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know but I would think that if the person is loaded it helps ,coz let's face it if am childless am not using my money to raise Your kids,am just stepping in to help raise them so you have to continue providing for them

    • @roseshiombo9607
      @roseshiombo9607 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree 💯

  • @melthrinas9060
    @melthrinas9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow! May God bless all these strong men. 👏🙏

  • @hisgracesuffient6046
    @hisgracesuffient6046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos to all this Fathers. May the Lord heal your broken hearts. And strengthen you in all ways. Your children and call you blessed.

  • @janewakariti4273
    @janewakariti4273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It is sad he says he had to learn the price of groceries and how to be home to make sure everyone is fed and safe......it shouldn't take lose of a wife to do these things!

  • @triciakaranja911
    @triciakaranja911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s really sad when you lose your life partner. You men have done well really proud of all of you. It is well

  • @monicahnjoroge8168
    @monicahnjoroge8168 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The death of a loved one can disorient you properly. Life is never the same again, it's like learning to live with an amputation😢😢😢. I lost my mum 23 years ago when I was 13 and my dad about 5 years ago. The hardest things I ever faced

  • @krisboyfavour8603
    @krisboyfavour8603 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    No, the teacher should be blamed for punishing the child without finding out why he said his father cooks at home.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think you can't blame the teacher. These are some of the issues that arise when we have a government that does not prioritize education. We need to review our education system.

    • @mumbi-maina
      @mumbi-maina 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was soo sad 🥺

    • @ntombindaba806
      @ntombindaba806 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      No need for the teacher to be punished, bcs he really didn't understand obviously he thought the child is confused.

    • @krisboyfavour8603
      @krisboyfavour8603 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ntombindaba806 You are wrong.

    • @ntombindaba806
      @ntombindaba806 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kap849 true dat

  • @doriswangari2048
    @doriswangari2048 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This really makes us appreciate the role that mothers and women play in a family set up. So important.

  • @amo2743
    @amo2743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It is Very true men breakdown in tears but on their private rooms

  • @phyllisplays3811
    @phyllisplays3811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The children should understand that their fathers need some in their lives and its healthy, they deserve to be happy, step mum will never replace their mothers but will help their father to cope with life a little bit, i lost my mum at the age of 3yrs and my dad took care of us for 10 years alone, but later we all agree dad need someone..., and we all needed mum to come home to...

    • @kentosh120
      @kentosh120 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some step mother's ate evil, and control the man,I went through it but luckily i moved out.

  • @nardasimpson3333
    @nardasimpson3333 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    My heart bleeds for every single one of these men. Such honour, such respect, such love in the way they speak about their decreased wives. Much healing and strength to all of them and their respective children.

  • @roselyneandeka2078
    @roselyneandeka2078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My sincere condolences to you strong men and your family's! I'm praying for you all. I didn't know some men never remarried. My own dad remarried after 4 years! I respect you all even more!

  • @awuorwenwa5651
    @awuorwenwa5651 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow such a beautiful feature. I am glad the fathers are soldiering on. All glory be to God.

  • @savanna3985
    @savanna3985 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's great to give men/fathers a platform to open up and talk about challenges and emotions in their life, not the old day mentality of "men are meant to be tough and stomach everything" a good old cry is also therapeutic for them. Kudos to these fathers and others in the world going through challenges!

  • @agathakphiri1384
    @agathakphiri1384 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May the good Lord bless all men who is there for their children after the passing of their wives, your in my prayers always ❤️💕

  • @naomif6774
    @naomif6774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What a programme! I know Ches (Bartonjo) Lovely selfless guy, never knew about your loss. My condolences to all you dads who are keeping it real!

  • @iamaggie
    @iamaggie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kenyan men, please respect your wives.God bless you.

  • @annefranciselizabeth3840
    @annefranciselizabeth3840 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kenya is my favorite nation in Africa. The average Kenyan has got so much love. Just look at these struggling fathers.

    • @keepondreaming1240
      @keepondreaming1240 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are you from if I may ask

    • @rtsoca5560
      @rtsoca5560 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I must say that I like Kenya n's. I like their peaceful and calm nature

  • @rosedidi235
    @rosedidi235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless these Men. And give them strength.Amen

  • @modest8917
    @modest8917 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's not an easy thing,I can relate when my mum died in 1999.Things were never the same

  • @geemaswali3846
    @geemaswali3846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Where is Tedd Josiah...that guy is a man and a half

    • @joshmenawe
      @joshmenawe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Aiii. He is just using social media nothing much. There are so many widowers

    • @leticialukibia5177
      @leticialukibia5177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@joshmenawe still he's a great dad

    • @leticialukibia5177
      @leticialukibia5177 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same question here

    • @serahzsirama3368
      @serahzsirama3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yap I salute that man.

    • @geemaswali3846
      @geemaswali3846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@joshmenawe i know there are lots of them but i was talking about the one i personally know. you can as well mention your own bro.

  • @leahdan8594
    @leahdan8594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is quite sad, we lost our mum in 2010 but God has seen us through and my dad has really done his best to bring us up, though we weren't that young.
    God bless and strengthen all the widows and widowers.

  • @emmakikundwa885
    @emmakikundwa885 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow! I am glad to hear these very courageous men share. My uncle lost a wife 20 years ago, my mum lost her husband (not my father) around the same time too, I could not understand why they didn't remarry. I always supported anyone talking about match making for them, I now have a better appreciation of their decision.

  • @B4BESS
    @B4BESS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is a very good topic. How do men who loses their wives cope?

  • @jacqueypatrick4090
    @jacqueypatrick4090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am a widow too a mother of two so I can understand some of things everyone in my shoe's goes through

    • @elvishhudson2402
      @elvishhudson2402 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your lost. I hope you are coping well. Stay strong.

    • @user-lc4ld6is2y
      @user-lc4ld6is2y 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am widow too

  • @lilmatui_lovesrunning
    @lilmatui_lovesrunning 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I basically salute and respect this mens.It takes courage and determination to accept what happened and make a decision to take care of their kids.How I wish these other men's who have kids and are not helping them in other way to learn from this them .

  • @bettyndwiga5940
    @bettyndwiga5940 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I salute my Dad ..thanks for taking care of us after losing our mum....It's also painful to loose a Husband the questions asked by kids sometimes make one shed tears.......and especially when they see complete families.....

  • @hopeinHisgrace_official
    @hopeinHisgrace_official 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God give all of you strength to press on. I lost my sister to cervical cancer April this year. She left her husband three young kids. The youngest, 2 year old girl keeps on asking when her mum is coming back from 'school' . Death is so cruel

  • @beam-biblicalencouragement8812
    @beam-biblicalencouragement8812 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    May God give all of them strength and comfort. May God grant them long life and health to care for their children.

  • @salomekituku974
    @salomekituku974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So sad but God's grace is sufficient, thank you brave men for being open with your experiences, you are giving hope to so many other suffering the same fate.

  • @mmantwathakadu2982
    @mmantwathakadu2982 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    painful yet beautiful to watch, grateful of all fathers doing their best for their families.

  • @fatoubadjie5816
    @fatoubadjie5816 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry brother for your loss. May her gentle soul Rest In Peace. May guide and protect give long life and happiness so u will be to help your children and know very well she is looking at from above. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @janewaiganjo3799
    @janewaiganjo3799 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Salute to this men,playing a role of a mother especially to girls....wowwwwwwwww!!!Its true women are strong ..

  • @faithchebor9698
    @faithchebor9698 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are all amazing and trying your best, may God give you enough grace and strength to soldier on

  • @lordaries5498
    @lordaries5498 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do such a program with orphans too. Sharing these experiences help a lot.

  • @priscillamunjita8316
    @priscillamunjita8316 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am praying for these great men! God's love & comfort abound in your lives.I personally have so much respect for you especially on the stance of not remarrying. Not remarrying is always the best option to consider when you have children.
    I wish you all God's peace, love & comfort

  • @sifisosithole7656
    @sifisosithole7656 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sad stories but information very helpful. Well done dads for persevering 👏👏!

  • @shalom3522
    @shalom3522 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waooow, this is a group of people who are so forgotten. Thanks for getting into this very sensitive topic. I never ever knew my father was a smoker until my mother died. Then my father became a chimney. He would follow her after 5 years. I really pray that widowers can be reached in their grieving process. It is always not easy for them. They are usually seen as the rock of the family and society just takes it for granted that they can go through grief and come out strong, but they need to have people around them who understand the grieving process to stay close to them and help them through.

  • @Dianaemanuel888
    @Dianaemanuel888 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    That group is awesome.amen.may God be your strength always.