You deserve to be celebrated. You are highly favored and deserve appreciation. Your content is always relatable. I’m 70 year old woman and has been following you for several years. I’m plus size and love fashion. Glad you’re having fun at Fashion Week. I enjoyed seeing the ladies meeting & collaborating. Thanks for sharing.
I applaud you for knowing your worth. If you allow anyone to treat you less than, they will. Your feelings are very valid. Remember this feeling so when they reach out at a later date, (and they will) you know how to proceed.
You are not complaining. It's a share it is an ins and out of the business. Gurl! Keep your head up. Keep God first. Everything you set your hands to will prosper❤❤❤
Nita! Dry up those tears, keep your head up and keep God first! If those people don't understand the opportunity that they are passing up to work with such a beautiful God fearing woman then that's their fault! God is always going to put the right people in your life sweetie. Blessings 💖
Nita, I have been following you for years. I am not one to comment, but I had to chime in on this one. I hate that black women are often made to feel like we need to apologize for expecting what is RIGHTFULLY ours. Your body of work and what you have accomplished over the years affords you the right to feel "entitled" to receive your just do. As a fellow Christian, and 52 year old internet elder Auntie, nothing about your "rant" read ungrateful. You have always displayed a spirit of gratitude. You deserve a seat at the table, beautiful. Entitlement is not ungratefulness when one is only asking for what they have earned. Just my opinion... BTW, I Love the black hair.
Nita, you have every right to feel this way. Especially because you work hard for your content which is amazing. A workmen is worthy of their hire and you deserve to be PAID!! Period!
I experience mom guilt ALL the time...but our daughters benefit immensely from seeing us go out and pursue our dreams! So proud of you for pushing through! You EARNED this moment! Bravo!!!
I appreciate your transparency. I really enjoy your content. And yes, you should be compensated for your content if they want to use it, it's gross that they are only interested in using you, not work with you.
You look beautiful either way. You are amazing. Jada has to eat; Mommy has to work. You are giving other people a chance to love her. You are raising an amazing little girl. Be grateful that she is so well mannered that people don’t mind taking her. She will have plenty of firsts. Keep up the good work.
I’m so thankful that Justine was there to speak on behalf of those that agree, You have a right to feel how you feel. Any brand not smart enough to snatch you up as a brand ambassador is losing! You are appreciated, Nita. You deserve ALL the things! And… OKAY blue dress 🫰🏾
You are 100% ENTITLED to feel how you feel and share it .. that does not make you entitled because you aren't asking for anything you don't deserve and aren't worth. Love the black hair, very pretty as we transition into fall 😍
You are not complaining you are being a good steward over your business. You are entitled to be paid for your work. The brand will make money from sales from the use of your content, and they can definitely afford to pay you. I like the black hair especially with the black outfit, gold lens on the shades, and the red lips. 💕
Your feelings were valid! I think it wouldn’t be as hurtful if they didn’t keep asking for your free content. That clearly says we like you but not enough to pay you. Great video! Your outfits were cute ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. No, you're not complaining. You're just letting us know how these brands can be disrespectful. That's how they try to take advantage of us. Keep pushing and sharing your story. Everything will work out the way it should.
Hey boo! You are looking even more fabulous and I’m actually here for the black hair! Thank you for sharing the valleys that you are going through with the brands. Your feelings are valid and I am proud of you for advocating for yourself. You know your worth and value. Remember closed doors are also a blessing. Be encouraged and keep going💖💖💖
As a single mom we have our moments we need me time, but that is not just from our babies but from work and life itself. I've realized when my babies became a certain age i noticed how time was flying by and I began to miss my time with them. I think we start to notice how fast they are growing and take into account all the fleeting moments of growth. I miss their transition moments. So I make sure now every moment I have with them I ask questions about their day and try to get their outlook on their little lives. I learn who irritates them at school, who they have fun with, what they like as little people. They're our babies; moments of guilt happens but I promise you they appreciate all we pour into them. Your work ethic teaches her integrity, character and how she should view life amongst other things. God will guide you and you continue being a great mom; because you are a great mom!
I think your feelings are 100% valid. If they are asking to use your photos they should automatically invite you to the events. It’s their loss. Your content is always top notch. Another brand will offer you more than you expected in Jesus name!!!!
I'm a single mom of 3. They're all grown now, but I had mom guilt A LOT! It's ok. That's a drawback of being a superhero/mom 💪🏽🙏🏽🫶🏽. Congratulations in advance on 100k. You're a blink away🙏🏽 🎉🥂 and your feelings about the brands are VALID, and you're not complaining. You're standing on business!!!!
Yesssss Nita putting in the work your photos look gorgeous and please dont feel guilty because tou dont leave alot or for a long period of time also you are given her a great life
Keep pushing forward, no one can stop you when you are doing you but you, so keep moving forward because you are a star in your own right and fabulous!!!
Danielle, you are a good mother. As a good mom, you feel guilty about leaving your baby because of work. I say, stay focused. We have to make our coins, Sis. You put out great content for the full/plus-size ladies. I love your channel!!! Thank you for taking us along to see Fashion Week.
Nita, you are so amazing! You should not feel bad for the way you feel. I appreciate you always being transparent with sharing how this industry works. Remember, your gift will always make room for you 😘
Beautiful Nita Danielle, you have every right to feel the way do. Your content is absolutely amazing. I’ve learned so much about makeup/styling from you/your channel. I look forward to your content every week.🥰🥰🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
Hey Nita. I love your content and I love the fact that when you see a good buy you don't try to gatekeep and show it two or three months later when clearly its out of stock or off sale like some other plus size so called luxury TH-camrs do! That being said you will go far. Don't worry about those who don't want to work with you now, count it as a blessing from God! But in the end they will be begging to work with you and you can then name Your price and they will have no choice but to accept it! Gods got your back don't feel like your missing out on any thing because they are the real losers. Hold your head high and sha shay on by! Love ya!!❤❤❤❤
You know your worth, sis! There is nothing wrong with that at all. We love you.. and love your content. We can tell the time and effort you put into this..they will be begging to work with you soon. Mark my words!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Nita this one touched my soul. Always remember that your HIGHLY FAVORED BY THE ALMIGHTY. Sometimes things my hurt us but rejection is ALWAYS GODS PROTECTION. Stay focused and continue to walk in God's blessing and never lower your standards. BIGGER BLESSING are on the way🤗❤️🤗
Hey love I saw your video on NY fashion week. I just wanted to tell you. When man say no God says yes. You did the right thing saying no. You definitely know your worth. You just wait something big is gonna happen for you. I love your content and I think you are so beautiful. You have a blessed day now 💕
Awesome vlog! Thanks so much for doing such a comprehensive Fashion week vlog. It felt like you took us there with you! As someone who has been in marketing for over 20 years, I can confidently say you are right not to allow your pictures to be used. Brands have dollars allocated for specific campaigns, launches, or evergreen marketing. Therefore they have the money and if they want you or your likeness they need to pay…I would never say you are complaining but I do want to encourage you to keep your chin up. What God has for you is for you and if he has to search every heart on earth to get a blessing to you he will!❤️
Thank you for being transparent about the highs and lows. You are absolutely right for standing on principals. The brand could have paid you for your hard work or at least try to create a relationship for future collabs
I don't think you're complaining. Just like in a 9-5 when you're overlooked for all of the hard work you do. Yes, it's a blessing to be where you are, however as a viewer we are seeing you in your element at work! Proud of you! ❤
I experience it all the time, but I also recognized my life as an individual is not over just because I am a mom. I have learned I need to live my life too and do things that fill my heart so that I can be the best mom I can be. Also, a brand wanting to you use your content for free but not willing to make the investment in you shows their lack of integrity.
This was a great vlog. 1 you have the right to feel how you felt. You can’t let brands or people walk over you. 2 did ya’ll catch the Walmart fashion show 😮😮 I can’t wait they had some gorgeous pieces ❤❤
I love to see you Rochelle and Alisa(please forgive me for any incorrect spelling). Y’all are my favorites and have played a role a role in seeing my body in a more positive light. Love to you all💖💖💖
You have every right to feel that way - 100%. If there is value in what you post (for them to request using your content), then there should be equal value to treating you professionally. Btw…you looked so pretty in all the looks! Can’t wait to see what’s in store for you!
OMG! I had mom guilt about everything when I was a young mother. I’m 48 and I Thank GOD my kids are grown now 32, 26 and 24. In 2000 I was working full time, in college full time and a 24 year old mom of three kids dropping the two youngest off at daycare broke me down so bad that in 2001 I said I feel like I’m missing everything and so I quit my job and became a stay at home mom. Financially it was hard but I don’t regret it when I look at my children now. Those are my best friends and they’re just all around great humans! You’re a great mom and she’ll be just fine! Enjoy all the opportunities you receive and it benefits her as well! She sees her mom making moves and being happy and it shows in her bcuz she’s really happy and bubbly!
I don't think you are complaining. I appreciate you being transparent. Disappointment is Disappointment I'm not in this line of business however I get it and respect your feelings. Sorry you had to experience that ❤
You just know you're one beautiful, classy woman! I love the black dress with the hot pink blazer... 🔥 serving bodyyyy... the shoe and earrings were the cherry on top! I agree with you...stand on business...you know your worth ...nope they can't use your photo for their brand. I pray baby girl is feeling better.
You are the influencer n brands don’t understand we buy because of you …. No don’t blame you how you feel n if they are not gonna compensate you … move on you’re so right …. You are gorgeous we see you representing the real women …. 🥂🥰🥰🥰💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
I’m just watching you this evening for the first time…..I’ve been a chunky girl my whole life and in a time there were no plus sizes for girls my age. Mom had to have a lot of clothes made for me and we shopped in the maternity section and have things altered. I’m on board with you. Feel your feels, and you work at your content so no one should have free use of it!!!
Hey Nita! I understand where you are coming from. I don’t think you’re complaining or feeling entitled. You definitely had every right to feel the way you did. You may never know the reason behind why the brand handled things that way. But you do know that what’s for you is for you! Hang in there and don’t take it personal! You’re doing amazing!!! Keep shining!!! ❤
You are NEVER complaining.. everything you have said is understandable. And yes I have mom guilt and my kids are 22 & 18.. you have the right to feel how and for the little bit you said, it’s messed up.
Yes but it’s okay you was just trying to talk yourself out of it, but you’re doing what you were called to do. Breathe and enjoy our calling because you’re truly a blessing to us girls.
Your feelings are valid!! I’m so sorry you had to experience that, but know that God has you on an assignment, so the enemy is waiting at every point to try and break you down!! But continue to stand and know that when God say YES no man will be able to say NO!! God’s word will never come back void!! FYI: You slayed that black wig for NYFW!!!
I thought they sounded similar also the first time I watched one of Brittany’s vlogs…that she sounded a little like Nita. Maybe because they are both in the south?
So good to see you at a fashion show out there networking!🎉😊 Surprised it's your first as you've been around for a while sis😮 Not trying to get anyone fired but somebody needs to wake up ok😂😂 To your point about businesses trying to use your content without reimbursement or collabs, tottally agree with your stand.👍🏾
Every "good" working Mom feels guilty when we cant make everything. My Baby has Graduated from college and she's working on her Masters now. She's 22 years old. She only remembers that i was always there. She doesn't even remember the times i couldn't make it. Dont allow the enemy to make you feel bad. God gave you a Wonderful village to support your Baby. Use your village and enjoy the times you are there. Love you Girl!!❤❤❤❤
Nita I don't think that you feel entitled at all. They must feel entitled by asking to use your hard work without even giving you the chance to say hi my name is Nita and I'm happy to meet you. I enjoy your channel and your content and so do they that's how they know your work ethic. Keep on Keeping on!!! Your content is awesome for us plus sized ladies.
I had to pause the vlog to comment. You are absolutely NOT acting entitled…matter of fact I find you to be one of the creators I follow who is more down to earth! No shade but some of these girls get a few big IG or TT collabs & start making money and completely stop doing their YT vlogs altogether! After stating for years that they owe everything to their YT followers for getting them up to that level. You don’t do that….you are very humble. And that brand is so WRONG for not making room for you at the event after making it clear they love your content enough to want to use it in their marketing! Sounds like whoever it was that you were speaking to is a little salty that you wouldn’t just let them use it for free. People are strange. But your feelings are completely valid. 🥰
Maybe we the plus size community need to protest these brands like Eloquin Torrid etc etc. No u not complaining honey please pay me than. Great vlog loving it n you much RESPECT!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Niece.... Forget then peeps that don't wanna do right by you ... Cause until they do right by you ....(In my Color Purple voice) Congrats on the 100k... I'm claiming it in advance for you... For US!! Blessings ALWAYS ❤❤❤
You have every right to feel how you feel even if you had never supported the brand…what gives someone the right to want to take your likeness, image and hard work for FREE for them to turn around and get paid for it! That’s a F&ck you pay me moment if I ever saw it! That’s okay Nita a better opportunity is right around the corner! So grateful you know your worth! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
I have heard of influencers of every colour getting these kinds of treatment from branda. Just dust your shoes off and work with those who appreciate you. I agree that for plus-size people, at times, there are slim pickings., but I have found some good brands and stick to them. I pray Psalm 90:17 for you and your business Nita. If you keep your heart right, the Lord will reward you greatly. Love your content, keep on trucking girl.
All your no's are just not right now dont give up we love you forever and always and you have every right to feel the way you feel their lost again love you down❤❤❤
Hey Girl Hey - we love the black hair!!! Is Justine a friend/Family or is she the New Jordan? I probably missed her introduction if there was one. You are as always - SUCH a inspiration... 🤩 You are not wrong at all... Your feelings are valid...
It's a shame how people are today. users never prosper, I wish you would have said the brand because I don't want to shop or buy from a brand that doesn't support you. I'm on team Nita
U look so beautiful in whatever u wear, hair , makeup & all! What color & brand lipstick, the candy apple red color u were wearing in the video? It’s hard to find a red that particular color.
You are beautiful, do not pay attention to to negativity. People these days are just CRUEL. Can I ask were is the wig from. I love the black hair looks beautiful on you❤️
Hi Nita!! Totally understand what you are saying and I’m sorry to hear that! Nope you have a right to feel the way you feel!! It’s hurtful!! And disappointing!! I know you are a Woman of God and sometimes it can be God is protecting you from being associated with that brand! God has amazing opportunities in store for you and it is those BRANDS LOST!! You are awesome and your content is always on point!! Keep shining brightly and brace yourself for what GOD has in store for you!! ❤🙏🏾
You are not complaining. You are absolutely correct. They should not be asking to use your photo which they will absolutely profit off because obviously you look amazing in the products. but they don’t want to work with you. 🤦♀️
Just want to let you know that you have a right to feel the emotions and hurt that you feel. You are human. And if they can pay everyone else for their content they can pay you. Never feel like you have to explain or get validation from anyone. God has a purpose and plan for you life and when one door closes he got 14 others . Keep your head up.
You deserve to be celebrated. You are highly favored and deserve appreciation. Your content is always relatable. I’m 70 year old woman and has been following you for several years. I’m plus size and love fashion. Glad you’re having fun at Fashion Week. I enjoyed seeing the ladies meeting & collaborating. Thanks for sharing.
I applaud you for knowing your worth. If you allow anyone to treat you less than, they will. Your feelings are very valid. Remember this feeling so when they reach out at a later date, (and they will) you know how to proceed.
Some of these brands stay disrespecting Black influencers. I'm glad you stood on business.
You are not complaining. It's a share it is an ins and out of the business. Gurl! Keep your head up. Keep God first. Everything you set your hands to will prosper❤❤❤
Nita! Dry up those tears, keep your head up and keep God first! If those people don't understand the opportunity that they are passing up to work with such a beautiful God fearing woman then that's their fault! God is always going to put the right people in your life sweetie. Blessings 💖
Nita,
I have been following you for years. I am not one to comment, but I had to chime in on this one.
I hate that black women are often made to feel like we need to apologize for expecting what is RIGHTFULLY ours.
Your body of work and what you have accomplished over the years affords you the right to feel "entitled" to receive your just do.
As a fellow Christian, and 52 year old internet elder Auntie, nothing about your "rant" read ungrateful. You have always displayed a spirit of gratitude.
You deserve a seat at the table, beautiful.
Entitlement is not ungratefulness when one is only asking for what they have earned.
Just my opinion...
BTW, I Love the black hair.
From a 72 year old,I agree with whole hardly,you deserve everything that God has blessed you with ❤❤❤❤
Nita, you have every right to feel this way. Especially because you work hard for your content which is amazing. A workmen is worthy of their hire and you deserve to be PAID!! Period!
I agree.
I experience mom guilt ALL the time...but our daughters benefit immensely from seeing us go out and pursue our dreams! So proud of you for pushing through! You EARNED this moment! Bravo!!!
I appreciate your transparency. I really enjoy your content. And yes, you should be compensated for your content if they want to use it, it's gross that they are only interested in using you, not work with you.
You look beautiful either way. You are amazing. Jada has to eat; Mommy has to work. You are giving other people a chance to love her. You are raising an amazing little girl. Be grateful that she is so well mannered that people don’t mind taking her. She will have plenty of firsts. Keep up the good work.
I’m so thankful that Justine was there to speak on behalf of those that agree, You have a right to feel how you feel. Any brand not smart enough to snatch you up as a brand ambassador is losing! You are appreciated, Nita. You deserve ALL the things! And… OKAY blue dress 🫰🏾
You are 100% ENTITLED to feel how you feel and share it .. that does not make you entitled because you aren't asking for anything you don't deserve and aren't worth. Love the black hair, very pretty as we transition into fall 😍
Mom guilt never ends lol My children are grown, and I still have moments
So true sis 💪🏽
Same here! Mine are grown and I still have moments..so good to know it’s not just me
You are not complaining you are being a good steward over your business. You are entitled to be paid for your work. The brand will make money from sales from the use of your content, and they can definitely afford to pay you. I like the black hair especially with the black outfit, gold lens on the shades, and the red lips. 💕
Your feelings were valid! I think it wouldn’t be as hurtful if they didn’t keep asking for your free content. That clearly says we like you but not enough to pay you. Great video! Your outfits were cute ❤
KNOW. YOUR. WORTH Nita!! Don’t let ANYONE take advantage of you. You’re not complaining and have every right to feel the way that you do!!
Thank you for sharing your story. No, you're not complaining. You're just letting us know how these brands can be disrespectful. That's how they try to take advantage of us. Keep pushing and sharing your story. Everything will work out the way it should.
Hey boo! You are looking even more fabulous and I’m actually here for the black hair! Thank you for sharing the valleys that you are going through with the brands. Your feelings are valid and I am proud of you for advocating for yourself. You know your worth and value. Remember closed doors are also a blessing. Be encouraged and keep going💖💖💖
As a single mom we have our moments we need me time, but that is not just from our babies but from work and life itself. I've realized when my babies became a certain age i noticed how time was flying by and I began to miss my time with them. I think we start to notice how fast they are growing and take into account all the fleeting moments of growth. I miss their transition moments. So I make sure now every moment I have with them I ask questions about their day and try to get their outlook on their little lives. I learn who irritates them at school, who they have fun with, what they like as little people. They're our babies; moments of guilt happens but I promise you they appreciate all we pour into them. Your work ethic teaches her integrity, character and how she should view life amongst other things. God will guide you and you continue being a great mom; because you are a great mom!
Loving the black hair with the red lips!!! 🔥🔥
YOU ARE A GREAT MOM!!!! Don’t worry Jay is fine. Grandma got it❤❤❤
I think your feelings are 100% valid. If they are asking to use your photos they should automatically invite you to the events. It’s their loss. Your content is always top notch. Another brand will offer you more than you expected in Jesus name!!!!
I'm a single mom of 3. They're all grown now, but I had mom guilt A LOT! It's ok. That's a drawback of being a superhero/mom 💪🏽🙏🏽🫶🏽. Congratulations in advance on 100k. You're a blink away🙏🏽 🎉🥂 and your feelings about the brands are VALID, and you're not complaining. You're standing on business!!!!
Yesssss Nita putting in the work your photos look gorgeous and please dont feel guilty because tou dont leave alot or for a long period of time also you are given her a great life
Keep pushing forward, no one can stop you when you are doing you but you, so keep moving forward because you are a star in your own right and fabulous!!!
I am so happy for you to have attended your first fashion show. Loved seeing your fits.❤
you have ever right to feel that way about that brand
Danielle, you are a good mother. As a good mom, you feel guilty about leaving your baby because of work. I say, stay focused. We have to make our coins, Sis. You put out great content for the full/plus-size ladies. I love your channel!!! Thank you for taking us along to see Fashion Week.
Nita, you are so amazing! You should not feel bad for the way you feel. I appreciate you always being transparent with sharing how this industry works. Remember, your gift will always make room for you 😘
Your black hair is BEAUTIFUL!!!😊
Omg!! It was a joy to see you in New York for fashion week. ❤
Beautiful Nita Danielle, you have every right to feel the way do. Your content is absolutely amazing. I’ve learned so much about makeup/styling from you/your channel. I look forward to your content every week.🥰🥰🙏🏾🙌🏾❤️
I love the black hair, Nita! So fresh and youthful!!
Hey Nita. I love your content and I love the fact that when you see a good buy you don't try to gatekeep and show it two or three months later when clearly its out of stock or off sale like some other plus size so called luxury TH-camrs do! That being said you will go far. Don't worry about those who don't want to work with you now, count it as a blessing from God! But in the end they will be begging to work with you and you can then name Your price and they will have no choice but to accept it! Gods got your back don't feel like your missing out on any thing because they are the real losers. Hold your head high and sha shay on by! Love ya!!❤❤❤❤
I love your content. You are so deserving ❤ I truly enjoyed this vlog... every outfit was a hit! I was smiling throughout ❤
You are a class act!!! I adore your vlogs. You could wear a bag & make it look design! Do not doubt yourself! Keep your lazer focus! We love you.❤❤
You stand firm and don’t let it get you down. You know your worth bd that’s a good thing 😊
I’m so glad I found your channel-and no I have no complaints-I subscribed!
You know your worth, sis! There is nothing wrong with that at all. We love you.. and love your content. We can tell the time and effort you put into this..they will be begging to work with you soon. Mark my words!🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Nita this one touched my soul. Always remember that your HIGHLY FAVORED BY THE ALMIGHTY. Sometimes things my hurt us but rejection is ALWAYS GODS PROTECTION. Stay focused and continue to walk in God's blessing and never lower your standards. BIGGER BLESSING are on the way🤗❤️🤗
Hey love I saw your video on NY fashion week. I just wanted to tell you. When man say no God says yes. You did the right thing saying no. You definitely know your worth. You just wait something big is gonna happen for you. I love your content and I think you are so beautiful. You have a blessed day now 💕
Most mom feel that way when we have do or go somewhere without our babies but we know you're a great mom and Jada knows that so have fun ❤
Awesome vlog! Thanks so much for doing such a comprehensive Fashion week vlog. It felt like you took us there with you!
As someone who has been in marketing for over 20 years, I can confidently say you are right not to allow your pictures to be used. Brands have dollars allocated for specific campaigns, launches, or evergreen marketing. Therefore they have the money and if they want you or your likeness they need to pay…I would never say you are complaining but I do want to encourage you to keep your chin up. What God has for you is for you and if he has to search every heart on earth to get a blessing to you he will!❤️
A lot of no's is ok because girl that big YES is coming. Stay humble.
I love how you added the names of the other influencers. ❤
Thank you for being transparent about the highs and lows. You are absolutely right for standing on principals. The brand could have paid you for your hard work or at least try to create a relationship for future collabs
BTW; that red lip 💋 with the black hair !!!! Well done 👍🏾
Your doing a good job. Love the vlog. 100,000 celebration right around the corner.
I don't think you're complaining. Just like in a 9-5 when you're overlooked for all of the hard work you do. Yes, it's a blessing to be where you are, however as a viewer we are seeing you in your element at work! Proud of you! ❤
I experience it all the time, but I also recognized my life as an individual is not over just because I am a mom. I have learned I need to live my life too and do things that fill my heart so that I can be the best mom I can be. Also, a brand wanting to you use your content for free but not willing to make the investment in you shows their lack of integrity.
Congratulations 🥂 on your fashion show walk. The black hair looks great on you. It's definitely different but pretty 😍
This was a great vlog. 1 you have the right to feel how you felt. You can’t let brands or people walk over you. 2 did ya’ll catch the Walmart fashion show 😮😮 I can’t wait they had some gorgeous pieces ❤❤
I love to see you Rochelle and Alisa(please forgive me for any incorrect spelling). Y’all are my favorites and have played a role a role in seeing my body in a more positive light. Love to you all💖💖💖
I know, I was a single Mom...As once mentioned, you and Jada's relationship, remind me of my daughter's and my relationship, when I was raising her.
THATS GREAT ... I follow all three of you ladies 🎉
You have every right to feel that way - 100%. If there is value in what you post (for them to request using your content), then there should be equal value to treating you professionally. Btw…you looked so pretty in all the looks! Can’t wait to see what’s in store for you!
It’s okay to share your feelings. Keep going. Better times are ahead.
OMG! I had mom guilt about everything when I was a young mother. I’m 48 and I Thank GOD my kids are grown now 32, 26 and 24. In 2000 I was working full time, in college full time and a 24 year old mom of three kids dropping the two youngest off at daycare broke me down so bad that in 2001 I said I feel like I’m missing everything and so I quit my job and became a stay at home mom. Financially it was hard but I don’t regret it when I look at my children now. Those are my best friends and they’re just all around great humans! You’re a great mom and she’ll be just fine! Enjoy all the opportunities you receive and it benefits her as well! She sees her mom making moves and being happy and it shows in her bcuz she’s really happy and bubbly!
I don't think you are complaining. I appreciate you being transparent. Disappointment is Disappointment I'm not in this line of business however I get it and respect your feelings. Sorry you had to experience that ❤
I ❤this vlog of fashion week keep grinding🥰
give yourself grace, every good mom goes thru those feelings
Your feelings are valid... if thats how you feel so be it . Don't shed another tear.. you are going to make me cry
My girl hit 100K 🎉🎉🎉🎉
You just know you're one beautiful, classy woman! I love the black dress with the hot pink blazer... 🔥 serving bodyyyy... the shoe and earrings were the cherry on top! I agree with you...stand on business...you know your worth ...nope they can't use your photo for their brand. I pray baby girl is feeling better.
You are the influencer n brands don’t understand we buy because of you …. No don’t blame you how you feel n if they are not gonna compensate you … move on you’re so right …. You are gorgeous we see you representing the real women …. 🥂🥰🥰🥰💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐
You have a right to feel the way you feel don’t discount your feelings. 😊
I’m just watching you this evening for the first time…..I’ve been a chunky girl my whole life and in a time there were no plus sizes for girls my age. Mom had to have a lot of clothes made for me and we shopped in the maternity section and have things altered. I’m on board with you. Feel your feels, and you work at your content so no one should have free use of it!!!
I loved every outfit…😊
Hey Nita! I understand where you are coming from. I don’t think you’re complaining or feeling entitled. You definitely had every right to feel the way you did. You may never know the reason behind why the brand handled things that way. But you do know that what’s for you is for you! Hang in there and don’t take it personal! You’re doing amazing!!! Keep shining!!! ❤
You are NEVER complaining.. everything you have said is understandable. And yes I have mom guilt and my kids are 22 & 18.. you have the right to feel how and for the little bit you said, it’s messed up.
Yes but it’s okay you was just trying to talk yourself out of it, but you’re doing what you were called to do. Breathe and enjoy our calling because you’re truly a blessing to us girls.
Your feelings are valid!! I’m so sorry you had to experience that, but know that God has you on an assignment, so the enemy is waiting at every point to try and break you down!! But continue to stand and know that when God say YES no man will be able to say NO!! God’s word will never come back void!!
FYI: You slayed that black wig for NYFW!!!
I don’t feel mom guilt anymore 😩😂 but graduations and birthdays I am absolutely stern about.
Glad you met Pockets and Bows the cadence and tone of your voices are so similar to me.
I thought they sounded similar also the first time I watched one of Brittany’s vlogs…that she sounded a little like Nita. Maybe because they are both in the south?
So good to see you at a fashion show out there networking!🎉😊 Surprised it's your first as you've been around for a while sis😮 Not trying to get anyone fired but somebody needs to wake up ok😂😂 To your point about businesses trying to use your content without reimbursement or collabs, tottally agree with your stand.👍🏾
Every "good" working Mom feels guilty when we cant make everything. My Baby has Graduated from college and she's working on her Masters now. She's 22 years old. She only remembers that i was always there. She doesn't even remember the times i couldn't make it. Dont allow the enemy to make you feel bad. God gave you a Wonderful village to support your Baby. Use your village and enjoy the times you are there. Love you Girl!!❤❤❤❤
I always feel guilt but my kids grown ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Nita I don't think that you feel entitled at all. They must feel entitled by asking to use your hard work without even giving you the chance to say hi my name is Nita and I'm happy to meet you. I enjoy your channel and your content and so do they that's how they know your work ethic. Keep on Keeping on!!! Your content is awesome for us plus sized ladies.
Now you have me thinking about chunky monkey🤔 😂 it's one of my favorite ice creams
These no' s are leading to a big yesssss ❤
I had to pause the vlog to comment. You are absolutely NOT acting entitled…matter of fact I find you to be one of the creators I follow who is more down to earth! No shade but some of these girls get a few big IG or TT collabs & start making money and completely stop doing their YT vlogs altogether! After stating for years that they owe everything to their YT followers for getting them up to that level. You don’t do that….you are very humble. And that brand is so WRONG for not making room for you at the event after making it clear they love your content enough to want to use it in their marketing! Sounds like whoever it was that you were speaking to is a little salty that you wouldn’t just let them use it for free. People are strange. But your feelings are completely valid. 🥰
Maybe we the plus size community need to protest these brands like Eloquin Torrid etc etc. No u not complaining honey please pay me than. Great vlog loving it n you much RESPECT!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
Niece.... Forget then peeps that don't wanna do right by you ... Cause until they do right by you ....(In my Color Purple voice) Congrats on the 100k... I'm claiming it in advance for you... For US!!
Blessings ALWAYS ❤❤❤
I love your hair color. You look much younger.
Nita whomever this company is BOYCOTT❤❤❤
Your feelings are valid.
You have every right to feel how you feel even if you had never supported the brand…what gives someone the right to want to take your likeness, image and hard work for FREE for them to turn around and get paid for it! That’s a F&ck you pay me moment if I ever saw it! That’s okay Nita a better opportunity is right around the corner! So grateful you know your worth! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
I have heard of influencers of every colour getting these kinds of treatment from branda. Just dust your shoes off and work with those who appreciate you.
I agree that for plus-size people, at times, there are slim pickings., but I have found some good brands and stick to them. I pray Psalm 90:17 for you and your business Nita. If you keep your heart right, the Lord will reward you greatly. Love your content, keep on trucking girl.
All your no's are just not right now dont give up we love you forever and always and you have every right to feel the way you feel their lost again love you down❤❤❤
Hey Girl Hey - we love the black hair!!! Is Justine a friend/Family or is she the New Jordan? I probably missed her introduction if there was one. You are as always - SUCH a inspiration... 🤩
You are not wrong at all... Your feelings are valid...
It's a shame how people are today. users never prosper, I wish you would have said the brand because I don't want to shop or buy from a brand that doesn't support you. I'm on team Nita
U look so beautiful in whatever u wear, hair , makeup & all! What color & brand lipstick, the candy apple red color u were wearing in the video? It’s hard to find a red that particular color.
Thank you so much! Its “bawse lady” by the lip bar.
@@NitaDanielle thanks!
TFS! 😊
Thank you for sharing.
Beautiful ❤
Yes people be doing too much, I ❤ both hair colors on you
You are beautiful, do not pay attention to to negativity. People these days are just CRUEL.
Can I ask were is the wig from. I love the black hair looks beautiful on you❤️
Hi Nita!! Totally understand what you are saying and I’m sorry to hear that! Nope you have a right to feel the way you feel!! It’s hurtful!! And disappointing!! I know you are a Woman of God and sometimes it can be God is protecting you from being associated with that brand! God has amazing opportunities in store for you and it is those BRANDS LOST!! You are awesome and your content is always on point!! Keep shining brightly and brace yourself for what GOD has in store for you!! ❤🙏🏾
You are not complaining. You are absolutely correct. They should not be asking to use your photo which they will absolutely profit off because obviously you look amazing in the products. but they don’t want to work with you. 🤦♀️
Just want to let you know that you have a right to feel the emotions and hurt that you feel. You are human. And if they can pay everyone else for their content they can pay you. Never feel like you have to explain or get validation from anyone. God has a purpose and plan for you life and when one door closes he got 14 others . Keep your head up.