Knowing her general lore I was not concerned, or tricked into the pregnancy assumption. She 'lonely' but actually independent girl with a lot of love to give and no time for adult energy suckers!
I think a man who occupies 15 sheets to describe "everything he likes about you" even when he doesn't know you and barely knows your name, is a clear red flag. A description like that coming from someone who knows you, wouldn't be so disturbing; coming from a man you've seen once, it's disturbing at least for me
@@r6feeds826 Maybe, I find it super strange that someone who doesn't know you describes you like that, it's not normal. If not to you, it's totally fine
@@valeria_val8112 she’s already claimed that he’s not a normal guy, however this doesn’t indicate a red flag. It’s your assumption that he must be some creep because he did this. He could be an introvert for all we know and this is how he shows his feelings in an almost comical way. I’m not saying he couldn’t potentially be a creep, although to flat out say that this is a “clear red flag” is disingenuous at its heart.
@namimikochan then that's still more effort than most guys 😭😭😭. Most just take a 5 days to reply with no plan, no explanation, no effort, no communication etc. At least he made a template, others match on dating sites or ask for your number and end the effort there.
honestly the idea is cute but if he in real life acts dismissive i would honestly not go on the date. creativity is attractive but respect is more attractive.
Go on it and report back - it just seems kinda fun, also this video came at exactly tge right time for me wth? I was liyrerally thinking about these things. Tysm ilyyyyy
As someone else who was raised by a single mum. By the end of her life after she got terminally ill she felt extra lonely and wished she had picked someone up. It reality that single mum is very hard but my mum until she was ill did keep an active social life but it definitely was difficult for her but it does change your life experience compared to those that didn’t have that shape. Plus societies can be anti-single mothers cus it deemed not the norm especially landlords or any people they have to deal with in the previous decades who just think she stupid or could push her around but she was steely with them though and it did make her add more thickness but she was pretty vulnerable underneath and wouldn’t want to show us when she got upset or found it tough from stress.
well said, its annoying to see people strive to be single mums, like they literally have no idea what could happen and how challenging it can be, could lead to child neglect and the child feeling out of place
That guy is a big red flag, you cannot know if he sends the same document to every girl he finds cute only changing names and some attributes? And doing that without context is just scary. Anyway nice episode, me and the cous-cous I'm cooking enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you for everything!!!
I feel the same way , even in dual household it can feel like mothers are the only person raising the kids , they still feel like single mothers. I can’t be bothered to deal with a main to raise kids.
@@kcltube3you are right. And to ay35748 no, it’s being intimidating while wrapping it in so-called humor, then drawing pleasure from if she falls for it and agrees to meet him despite him having told her who he really is.
No this is such a good point like I want to have a kid with my bestie and just live with her forever and then we can like date dudes or whatever if we need but I’m loving this manless vision
literally this episode is sooo real, I mean I resonate a lot with the things you said and discussed and you made me ask myself questions about what I want to do in this life and what brings me happiness and what doesn't. Love it🫶💌
I think it is not necessary. When I think abaout this for myself I dont have a passion for any specific job. And I know that if I make myself a career based of my hobbys I won't be where I want to be financially. 🥲
It sounds like you are mentally not ready to date, but I think the effort this “boy” put in is worth getting to know him as a person. Also this is my shower podcast I love it!
This is weird.. he doesn’t even know anything about u to do all this. You wouldn’t want a man that is so moved off a pretty face.. there’s a lot of pretty faces out there.
Okay so I was also raised by a single mum and feel the exact same way. I think I want kids, but I know for sure I don’t care for marriage or a partner to do it with. I do not feel like I lacked anything in not having a dad. I have asked my mum about the loneliness, and she’ll openly tell me it was very lonely at times, but that she never necessarily thought much of that. She was just getting on with it. She had many friends around her who were also mums, some also single mums. So she could share experiences with them, and they regularly shared childcare. But things like holidays were hard - being in a foreign country alone with a 3 or 4 year old when you’re still in your early 20s yourself must have been such an overwhelming experience. The older I get, the more I respect everything she’s done for me, and all the sacrifices she’s made. I don’t know whether I have that degree of selflessness in me, certainly not yet. To think she was doing it all by my current age is scary!
What she just described wanting to have a family alone and from her childhood that there was no misogyny around because you grew up around free women is literally what I've been trying to explain to people but didn't realise there was anyone else that had the same experience!! I'm always shook when women don't realise they put men on a pedestal it's crazy!
Btw I volunteer as tribute for the whole different houses, same land and riding horses on weekends with kids because that’s literally what heaven looks like for me
I rarely comment on videos like this one, but I do have some things to say. Number One: Children come first. They're not meant to be a replacement for loneliness. Make your choices therefore with their well-being paramount. All kids deserve the chance to have a mother AND a father. 2: Don't let your own mother's experience color your future. A good man with father qualities is who you should seek. Then consider marriage if you're still serious about motherhood. Yes, old school and Christian behavior. 3: I was raised by one parent and I always regret it. God bless and may He bless you with wisdom and happiness.
Not everyone thinks the way you do. Just because you had a bad experience growing up with one parent doesn’t mean the next will. Stop putting bad energy out into the world and focus on healing yourself.
Omg wait I have something to add and I rlly hope someone gets it and can give feedback. I believe the concept of identity is a social construct and a double edged sword. I believe nothing is just as it's defined(it's all objective). Therefore holding onto the idea you've created of urself creates resistance against everything u believe ur not, impeding growth. Ppl who can't let go of their identity might struggle to understand why not everyone perceives them the way they perceive themselves. I think we forget, all the meaning we attach to things are objective. In other words the world is a reflection of u (so the meanings u create says more abt urself then anything else). This mainly applies to how the world interacts with YOU. A lot of ppl think understanding themselves will lead them on their path. I think that's true but understanding yourself isn't definitely urself. Imo it's reflecting on the meanings u create in order to understand what it has to say abt u in that moment while also creating space for urself to be anything and everything this life has to offer. Basically let go of defining and redefining urself cs it will not lead u on ur path it will keep you in the same cycle of experiences.
by the way he was being dismissive irl but still sent u a fucking 15 page document on why yall should go out really irks me off. its giving “i will ignore u so i can get your attention” and thats such loser behavior 💀 also theres a high chance he just goes out and sends that thing to lots of girls as his “tactic” lmao but thats just my opinion anyways
Check out the California science museum! They used to take us on field trips and the vibes there (from what my 10 year old self remembers) was just really exhilarating and mind blowing 💕🫶🏾🫂
The only thing you remember about him actually was that he was dismissive. None of the options he gave made you excited, 1 is mid 1 is an amber flag and also mid and one is a complete red flag. and he took 15 pages and 4 days to give you a rubbish answer. You said none of the deck was really selling himself to you, it was all about why he likes YOU. No fucking duhh we all know why he likes you. You’re a goddess. You don’t need to be told about what ‘traits stand out’ UGH Also I feel like replying with a pitch deck is lowkey so sarcastic like he knows you didn’t mean PITCH me the date like a board meeting you meant let me see what you have in mind and I will decide if I am enticed or not. And Queen… Ima say you’re not.
i have never found a person explain a story and just talk in general exactly like me before until now. looking at the comments makes me think people might like my tangents or just the endless thoughts that randomly enter my mind.
girl thank god im not the only one, i have thought about this before and i also just really dont want the SPECIAL someone to be there with me to raise these kids likee……NOO
"no one will teach me anything because everyone wants to gatekeep their knowledge" for reaaaalll omg there's so much competition its so hard to even ask friends for useful info like this! like... ur already in a good place, please let me acquire some of your knowledge! that's why I'm asking you!! because u already *are* successful!!
It feels so good to hear what you said about love, such an eye opener almost like a big sister giving me advice. Thank you pretty girl 💝 I love this podcast truly
When it's the right person you won't have so many qualms about getting into a relationship with them. It will flow. And you'll be more excited than hesitant.
When people diss this generation I don’t think they realise the people it’s comprised of. YOU are what it’s comprised of Madeline. Genuine, funny, authentic, nostalgic, wise, personality ridden, lively souls. Hope the freaky (UNIQUE) sounding date goes well. Go on it. Gain more wisdom. (And information).
i grew up with the same house dynamic but i also resent it because i don’t fully confide in femininity so i always felt different without knowing why. idk i think there needs to be a balance of femininity and masculinity to show the child how to be a mature person and navigate the world. i also feel that relationships aren’t for me, it makes me sad but i don’t think a man could love in the same capacity, it feels weak to allow a man to live in my home and basically feed off me but i don’t get the same love back, im not sure how to navigate it, it’s like mourning something you thought you wanted.
I am a guy and have a bad relationship with my sister so this really sort of feels sibling like so to speak especially cuz i also have a single mother so yeah loves ❤️🔥
My input re: the date after dating men in Los Angeles/the industry for 10 years is that the ones that perform the grandest of gestures to get your attention are the most destructive in the long run. I'd say also pay attention to the fact they he blew you off in person but completely flipped afterwards, he could have googled you and changed his tune based on what deeming you good for his image. I'll just say, every time over the top gestures to get my attention made me swoon and my friends told me I was being loved bombed. I told them they ~just didn't understand~ but they were always right in the end. But we learn via our own experiences so if you wanna go out with this guy, try it, but be wary.
you may not be able to imagine a family with a man because you didn't experience it yourself growing up. Could be a possibility for how you feel. Because you didn't experience it growing up you may not know how or where a man can provide as a parent. "you don't know what you're missing" type of thing
I've never thought about NOT wanting to be with someone but I'm 32 and never dated someone.. cause life and reasons, but also I've grown so much wisdom being on my own. Now I'm thinking I'm gaslighting myself into thinking I want a partner, but I think I'm just horny. Doesn't necessarily mean I want to live with someone XD Thanks Madeline for helping me figure this out.
I read the title, scrolled past, realized what I had just read, scrolled back faster than I’d ever scrolled before and started watching 😭 😭
i’ve never clicked on a youtube video faster than
Literally and i went strait to the comments to see if it was clickbate or not
LITERALLYYYYYY
real
For real is this Clickbait 😂
Knowing her general lore I was not concerned, or tricked into the pregnancy assumption. She 'lonely' but actually independent girl with a lot of love to give and no time for adult energy suckers!
'a path that makes you cry is not your path' WOW. I love this.
That man sounds INSANE girl be careful you could either have the best time or the worst time
When I tell you I dropped everything when I saw the title.
GIRL YOU GAVE ME A HEART ATTACK
I think a man who occupies 15 sheets to describe "everything he likes about you" even when he doesn't know you and barely knows your name, is a clear red flag. A description like that coming from someone who knows you, wouldn't be so disturbing; coming from a man you've seen once, it's disturbing at least for me
You're definitely looking way too much into it. LMAO
@@r6feeds826 Maybe, I find it super strange that someone who doesn't know you describes you like that, it's not normal. If not to you, it's totally fine
@@valeria_val8112 girl shes famous and they have mutual friends.. hes gonna know stuff
@@valeria_val8112 she’s already claimed that he’s not a normal guy, however this doesn’t indicate a red flag. It’s your assumption that he must be some creep because he did this. He could be an introvert for all we know and this is how he shows his feelings in an almost comical way. I’m not saying he couldn’t potentially be a creep, although to flat out say that this is a “clear red flag” is disingenuous at its heart.
@@r6feeds826idk it’s weird like in person he was dismissive? weird as
Go on the date the man put more time and effort into you than I’ve put into my 23 years of living
Literally my thoughts lmao
but what if he does this to every girl he meets and it's actually just a template
makes sense @@namimikochan
@namimikochan then that's still more effort than most guys 😭😭😭. Most just take a 5 days to reply with no plan, no explanation, no effort, no communication etc.
At least he made a template, others match on dating sites or ask for your number and end the effort there.
honestly the idea is cute but if he in real life acts dismissive i would honestly not go on the date. creativity is attractive but respect is more attractive.
She is fake af.😂
he might have used chatgpt...
her personality in this video is peak
top tier
i'm in love
i laughed so many times
biggest inspiration i love you
your iconic madeline
I fear the pitch would work on me too🤣 absolutely not a red flag
It absolutely is
madz ur titles are insane.
this is the best podcast episode ive ever watched
i fucking love this episode so much like. genuinely one of my favourite pretty lonesome eps
Go on it and report back - it just seems kinda fun, also this video came at exactly tge right time for me wth? I was liyrerally thinking about these things. Tysm ilyyyyy
Yessa
made I could hear you speak for HOURS 😭 you're my therapy ily ily ily
Before I met my current partner, I’d always picture my life with kids but couldn’t imagine someone with me. I always thought I’d be a single mum
As someone else who was raised by a single mum. By the end of her life after she got terminally ill she felt extra lonely and wished she had picked someone up. It reality that single mum is very hard but my mum until she was ill did keep an active social life but it definitely was difficult for her but it does change your life experience compared to those that didn’t have that shape. Plus societies can be anti-single mothers cus it deemed not the norm especially landlords or any people they have to deal with in the previous decades who just think she stupid or could push her around but she was steely with them though and it did make her add more thickness but she was pretty vulnerable underneath and wouldn’t want to show us when she got upset or found it tough from stress.
Solid advice 👍
well said, its annoying to see people strive to be single mums, like they literally have no idea what could happen and how challenging it can be, could lead to child neglect and the child feeling out of place
@@imanahmed6126what😂😂😊😂😊😂😊
@ABZ051 well you know the insane thing is that she dating central c😂😂😂😂
@@rosk.wilburn5847 he cheated on her like 5x
extremely red flag honestly
Weird huh lol
Yeah it's giving creep energy
20:27 um…. idk if he’s talking about knives
The way I saw this on timed comments and it took me a second but once it clicked...THE SCREAM OF TERROR I HAD WAS ON ANOTHER LEVEL 😭😭
That guy is a big red flag, you cannot know if he sends the same document to every girl he finds cute only changing names and some attributes? And doing that without context is just scary.
Anyway nice episode, me and the cous-cous I'm cooking enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you for everything!!!
exactly !
it’s giving too much at the beginning…
I feel the same way , even in dual household it can feel like mothers are the only person raising the kids , they still feel like single mothers. I can’t be bothered to deal with a main to raise kids.
Love the click Bait 😭
Knives, stabbing, being dismissive… not fun in any context, idc if he’s trying to be clever or funny but please do not meet him!!
yup red flags to the max here, we know it.
It’s called having a sense of humor
@@kcltube3you are right. And to ay35748 no, it’s being intimidating while wrapping it in so-called humor, then drawing pleasure from if she falls for it and agrees to meet him despite him having told her who he really is.
No this is such a good point like I want to have a kid with my bestie and just live with her forever and then we can like date dudes or whatever if we need but I’m loving this manless vision
fr i’m living with my boyfriend and my baby and i think about living with my bestie and baby probably every day haha
me too 🤩
this is my favourite episode of pretty lonesome ever i audibly laughed all the way through😭
I feel like you shouldn’t be dating rn. You need to heal babe.
literally this episode is sooo real, I mean I resonate a lot with the things you said and discussed and you made me ask myself questions about what I want to do in this life and what brings me happiness and what doesn't. Love it🫶💌
question: is it necessary for the human being to make a career out of the things they are passionage abt or should it remain just a hobby?
I think it is not necessary. When I think abaout this for myself I dont have a passion for any specific job. And I know that if I make myself a career based of my hobbys I won't be where I want to be financially. 🥲
but like why act cold and then make a whole pitching deck?? seems like a red flag
'stab you tenderly' that just sounds worse than being stabbed normally 😭
Never related to an episode more. You communicate feelings very well
Thankyou for voicing all the odd takes that my friends do not understand bless ur soul nice to know it is not just me 😍
It sounds like you are mentally not ready to date, but I think the effort this “boy” put in is worth getting to know him as a person. Also this is my shower podcast I love it!
I thought you were preggo😂😂. Also I love the way you never stfu, ur so fun. I love you❤❤
If you find the right person building a life with them will be easy, otherwise you’re your own right person
Interview between mads and her mother would be very interesting
omg the youtuber you brought up about manifestion was also on my recommended and I love her content!! that’s crazy
Who is she?
This is weird.. he doesn’t even know anything about u to do all this. You wouldn’t want a man that is so moved off a pretty face.. there’s a lot of pretty faces out there.
No? If a man is INTERESTED he will move mountains lmao. He could still be a red flag but nit based on his approach
Okay so I was also raised by a single mum and feel the exact same way. I think I want kids, but I know for sure I don’t care for marriage or a partner to do it with. I do not feel like I lacked anything in not having a dad. I have asked my mum about the loneliness, and she’ll openly tell me it was very lonely at times, but that she never necessarily thought much of that. She was just getting on with it. She had many friends around her who were also mums, some also single mums. So she could share experiences with them, and they regularly shared childcare. But things like holidays were hard - being in a foreign country alone with a 3 or 4 year old when you’re still in your early 20s yourself must have been such an overwhelming experience. The older I get, the more I respect everything she’s done for me, and all the sacrifices she’s made. I don’t know whether I have that degree of selflessness in me, certainly not yet. To think she was doing it all by my current age is scary!
The hardest part about having a kid is the baby dad. GIRL TRUST ME😭🤣🤣
i fear, i would fold immediately at the pitch please😭😭😭😭
As dude this is so funny cause it will be so relatable and then it’s just a “btw every man will pay for what he did” then just moves on 😂
he is def tracking your cycle
I clicked so fast while saying “of your dog right!?”💀😭
yk it's a good day when madz respawns
What she just described wanting to have a family alone and from her childhood that there was no misogyny around because you grew up around free women is literally what I've been trying to explain to people but didn't realise there was anyone else that had the same experience!! I'm always shook when women don't realise they put men on a pedestal it's crazy!
Btw I volunteer as tribute for the whole different houses, same land and riding horses on weekends with kids because that’s literally what heaven looks like for me
YOU DON'T NEED MAKEUP EVER YOUR GORGEOUS. ❤❤
bringing your love life to the public will kill it before it even starts girl...
5:33 it gives a little acoustic but in the best way
That was my first thought
never related to a podcast episode more. love you girl
I rarely comment on videos like this one, but I do have some things to say.
Number One: Children come first. They're not meant to be a replacement for loneliness. Make your choices therefore with their well-being paramount. All kids deserve the chance to have a mother AND a father.
2: Don't let your own mother's experience color your future. A good man with father qualities is who you should seek. Then consider marriage if you're still serious about motherhood. Yes, old school and Christian behavior.
3: I was raised by one parent and I always regret it.
God bless and may He bless you with wisdom and happiness.
Not everyone thinks the way you do. Just because you had a bad experience growing up with one parent doesn’t mean the next will. Stop putting bad energy out into the world and focus on healing yourself.
Omg wait I have something to add and I rlly hope someone gets it and can give feedback. I believe the concept of identity is a social construct and a double edged sword. I believe nothing is just as it's defined(it's all objective). Therefore holding onto the idea you've created of urself creates resistance against everything u believe ur not, impeding growth. Ppl who can't let go of their identity might struggle to understand why not everyone perceives them the way they perceive themselves. I think we forget, all the meaning we attach to things are objective. In other words the world is a reflection of u (so the meanings u create says more abt urself then anything else). This mainly applies to how the world interacts with YOU. A lot of ppl think understanding themselves will lead them on their path. I think that's true but understanding yourself isn't definitely urself. Imo it's reflecting on the meanings u create in order to understand what it has to say abt u in that moment while also creating space for urself to be anything and everything this life has to offer. Basically let go of defining and redefining urself cs it will not lead u on ur path it will keep you in the same cycle of experiences.
Hearing Made yap is kinda therapeutic honestly ,she makes so much sense 😩
A whole deck? Bro the quests too? Banging!
I just heard about you for the first time 10 minutes on Instagram, and now here I am. Lol
You look so prettyyyyy ! you Akne doesn’t take away that from that fact 🧚♀
Not listening to all this cause it’s about a date with a man and not a woman
mads posting late at night in ur bed is perfect bcos it's late at night and I'm in my bed and now we're basically besties that's how it works xx
Somehow you find a way to voice very thought I‘ve ever had
"give me a guitar and i'll play it for you and i'll shake my head loads while i play it" 😭
Sounds a little love Bomby but it’s cute and maybe he has good intentions. You should go and see what he’s about just keep ur guard up 😝
Madeline we know you do felting HAHAHAHA also the way you speak is so intelligent, about manifesting and life made me think differently, thank you. 💜
by the way he was being dismissive irl but still sent u a fucking 15 page document on why yall should go out really irks me off. its giving “i will ignore u so i can get your attention” and thats such loser behavior 💀 also theres a high chance he just goes out and sends that thing to lots of girls as his “tactic” lmao but thats just my opinion anyways
Just so you know some relationships do exist which involve partners having their own houses and living next to each other or close
Check out the California science museum! They used to take us on field trips and the vibes there (from what my 10 year old self remembers) was just really exhilarating and mind blowing 💕🫶🏾🫂
The only thing you remember about him actually was that he was dismissive. None of the options he gave made you excited, 1 is mid 1 is an amber flag and also mid and one is a complete red flag. and he took 15 pages and 4 days to give you a rubbish answer. You said none of the deck was really selling himself to you, it was all about why he likes YOU. No fucking duhh we all know why he likes you. You’re a goddess. You don’t need to be told about what ‘traits stand out’ UGH Also I feel like replying with a pitch deck is lowkey so sarcastic like he knows you didn’t mean PITCH me the date like a board meeting you meant let me see what you have in mind and I will decide if I am enticed or not. And Queen… Ima say you’re not.
I love your videos, they make me want to be unapologetically myself. My best friend describes me as self righteous lol so I totally get it. ❤
ive never been so early wtf madeline argy you are angelic i love your videos so much
i have never found a person explain a story and just talk in general exactly like me before until now. looking at the comments makes me think people might like my tangents or just the endless thoughts that randomly enter my mind.
Be your authentic self always, Madeline! 😊 Go on the date, if you feel you want to.
Date deck guy: "The worst she can say is no. Imma shoot my shot."
Madeline:
girl thank god im not the only one, i have thought about this before and i also just really dont want the SPECIAL someone to be there with me to raise these kids likee……NOO
"no one will teach me anything because everyone wants to gatekeep their knowledge" for reaaaalll omg there's so much competition its so hard to even ask friends for useful info like this! like... ur already in a good place, please let me acquire some of your knowledge! that's why I'm asking you!! because u already *are* successful!!
Madz thats insane. He's insane. Share your location with friends and go out on the date
i'd say just don't go. no point, she's not missing out on anything expect a potentially creepy bad experience.
I never believed it either but it is sooooooo different when they are your own kids !! You will be obsessed I guarantee
I have NEVER related to someone so completely before, like genuinely that is also how I see my future and what I want atleast presently
that’s so funny I have also alway envisioned myself as a single mother
THATS SO CUTE ACTUALLY
It feels so good to hear what you said about love, such an eye opener almost like a big sister giving me advice. Thank you pretty girl 💝 I love this podcast truly
When it's the right person you won't have so many qualms about getting into a relationship with them. It will flow. And you'll be more excited than hesitant.
I say feel him out!! why not & if it goes badly yolo you never see him again and it’s something to laugh about💁🏻♀️
could not agree more on the "path" theory, i've been sayin this
When people diss this generation I don’t think they realise the people it’s comprised of. YOU are what it’s comprised of Madeline. Genuine, funny, authentic, nostalgic, wise, personality ridden, lively souls. Hope the freaky (UNIQUE) sounding date goes well. Go on it. Gain more wisdom. (And information).
Immediately knew what you meant my the title. I say this all the time
girly is in her Carrie Bradshaw with her dating, we luvvvv it✨✨
i grew up with the same house dynamic but i also resent it because i don’t fully confide in femininity so i always felt different without knowing why. idk i think there needs to be a balance of femininity and masculinity to show the child how to be a mature person and navigate the world.
i also feel that relationships aren’t for me, it makes me sad but i don’t think a man could love in the same capacity, it feels weak to allow a man to live in my home and basically feed off me but i don’t get the same love back, im not sure how to navigate it, it’s like mourning something you thought you wanted.
I am a guy and have a bad relationship with my sister so this really sort of feels sibling like so to speak especially cuz i also have a single mother so yeah loves ❤️🔥
the description of the epi is making me GUFFAW!
How dare youtube keep this from me for 57 seconds.
i so relate to not picturing someone else in the picture when i think of raising kids
he’s giving chatgbt
Stop dating guys dude we know how they are
This has to be my favorite episode of yours AHHH ❤
My input re: the date after dating men in Los Angeles/the industry for 10 years is that the ones that perform the grandest of gestures to get your attention are the most destructive in the long run. I'd say also pay attention to the fact they he blew you off in person but completely flipped afterwards, he could have googled you and changed his tune based on what deeming you good for his image. I'll just say, every time over the top gestures to get my attention made me swoon and my friends told me I was being loved bombed. I told them they ~just didn't understand~ but they were always right in the end. But we learn via our own experiences so if you wanna go out with this guy, try it, but be wary.
you may not be able to imagine a family with a man because you didn't experience it yourself growing up. Could be a possibility for how you feel. Because you didn't experience it growing up you may not know how or where a man can provide as a parent. "you don't know what you're missing" type of thing
to be honest as a man watching your podcast makes so many things make sense, does that make sense?
too relatable! I'm too excited to end up alone
I've never thought about NOT wanting to be with someone but I'm 32 and never dated someone.. cause life and reasons, but also I've grown so much wisdom being on my own. Now I'm thinking I'm gaslighting myself into thinking I want a partner, but I think I'm just horny. Doesn't necessarily mean I want to live with someone XD Thanks Madeline for helping me figure this out.