This random video that I clicked on has turned into the best advice I’ve ever gotten. If I need to “look like Sailor Moon just to brush my teeth then dress like Sailor Moon.” I think I’ve been wearing comfy bed rotting clothes for the past 20 years. I did have health issues for almost 2 decades and were extreme for about 8 years. But I haven’t been able to get out of it, almost like involuntarily bed rotting. Although I do brush my teeth and do basic hygiene, I’ve become a borderline bed rotter and I realize I just need to dress for the occasion like I’m putting on a uniform or a costume. Oh my God how amazing I’m so thankful for your advice. I mean it. I’m gonna take this seriously I think you are great too I’ve never thought of this myself, thank you
I feel like it's so silly, but I always struggle in the morning deciding what to do first: drink water? get dressed? brush my teeth? make breakfast? make tea? wash my face? meditate? do yoga? the choices are sometimes too overwhelming so I'll just stay in bed and scroll instead :') ty for making this vid! tmr I'm gonna try getting dressed first :)
My Granny and Mom always told me “Go put some blush and lipstick on, a lil spritz of perfume, maybe some clean clothes… you’ll feel like a new woman.” And yeah, I’ve had that rule for 34 of my 44 years. Yes, some days I don’t make it past a lil chapstick *maybe* a clean dress, but it is kinda amazing how a tiny bit of “self care” really can help my head space…❤❤❤
Pro tip: make your bed pretty so you want to make it. Make sure to use few enough pillows and blankets that it’s not overwhelming. My golden number of pillows is eight lol. Bed rotting also feels less rotten when you wear pretty pajamas. Something about it feels less like defeat. Fun reusable shower products make showering feel glamorous without having to constantly buy new products. I use exfoliating gloves and a scalp massager. Both of which you can get at dollar tree. Last tip: when tidying, pick up the things that cover the most surface area first. This will make the rest of the work less visually overwhelming and make the task feel smaller.
I didn't know rotgirl was a term but I'm def a member, been in the same top I don't really like and sweatpants for 48+ hours ✌ (can't really pin point when I put them on, it's a blur)
this almost made me cry, it makes so much sense, and i've thought about it before that dressing up helped me tackle things in my life and when i stopped my depression couldn't be as handled, but the way you put it helped me understand it a lot more\ thank you for making this video
as a girly who struggles with object permanence I find myself always lining up my things on dressers, desks, counter spaces etc and that makes it super easy to get overwhelming, cluttered, and messy, but if I put everything away I end up accidentally buying repeats of stuff I own, I guess overall I struggle with keeping inventory of what I have. One thing that helps me is using clear organizers for my desk to put art supplies in as opposed to opaque pencil cases or boxes, and another thing is that my dresser has all my bottoms on open faced shelves and not drawers so i can always see my outfit options (that does make mess more visible though). I've also thought about putting labels on my bathroom drawers so i can easily organize, but if anyone has this issue and tips I would appreciate! love an audhd girly
rompers are a great idea!! it never crossed my mind cuz ive never worn them before since the idea of 💩 in a romper worried me. but yessss if anyone is a romper master, a romper lover, it definetly is feminine and one piece quotes from the wise Melissssssa
Stop calling me out so damn much in the first half. Always doom scrolling. Been dreading brushing my teeth and eating. Rotting in bed for a few years now. So fucking lonely.
That’s what I was going to say also. Rotting is also a result of no relationships nowadays. Friends and family are terrible, and guys hate chicks / are cycling through a roster of 25 women so women end up getting no daily company.
@pixeldressed hi, the next day after that comment I woke up early n finally cleaned my room for the first time after like 5 months since the last time I cleaned it 🥲 I have dressed nicely every day since, even my sister asked if I was going somewhere 😅 I started to use my skincare again after so long n run on the treadmill 🥲 i was in a bad state these past 5-6 months because of the terminal illness n death of the most important person who i love the most in my life. Sorry for saying all these but I hope u know that your video helped me 🥹 thank you 💗
i literally love u so much thank you also your edits are like they should be in an art museum like one of those full-room displays with comfy pillows like that shld be u
she a real one for asking the real questions 🏆personally complementary colors are easiest cuz it's just two, monochrome, or one color and use black or white as accents/contrasts
It won’t happen every day, but on days that you hit upon an outfit that makes you feel good, take a photo of yourself in it. Build a little wardrobe photo album. Then on days when you are too brain-blah to actively think of a nice outfit,you have that photo album to refer back to. 😉
i want to go out and dress cute, but everytime i do i get the worst attention from men and its too stressful, so i stay in bed or go out looking like a bum #plshelp #needadvice :,)))
I know that it sucks but try to distract yourself when it happens, like listening to music or even just having air pods in or headphones on. Don't make eye contact with them, and try to carry yourself with confidence. Carry something to protect yourself like pepper spray or a hand held buzzer I hope that this helps ✨
I need a chastity belt for my brain so it stops being mean to me
🤝🥇TOP TIER COMMENT
(i need this too 😩)
I'm using this argument next time I get mad at myself so that I stop being angry to myself, cuz this definitely cracked me up now. 😂😂😂😂
lmaooo
This random video that I clicked on has turned into the best advice I’ve ever gotten. If I need to “look like Sailor Moon just to brush my teeth then dress like Sailor Moon.” I think I’ve been wearing comfy bed rotting clothes for the past 20 years. I did have health issues for almost 2 decades and were extreme for about 8 years. But I haven’t been able to get out of it, almost like involuntarily bed rotting. Although I do brush my teeth and do basic hygiene, I’ve become a borderline bed rotter and I realize I just need to dress for the occasion like I’m putting on a uniform or a costume. Oh my God how amazing I’m so thankful for your advice. I mean it. I’m gonna take this seriously I think you are great too I’ve never thought of this myself, thank you
I feel like it's so silly, but I always struggle in the morning deciding what to do first: drink water? get dressed? brush my teeth? make breakfast? make tea? wash my face? meditate? do yoga? the choices are sometimes too overwhelming so I'll just stay in bed and scroll instead :') ty for making this vid! tmr I'm gonna try getting dressed first :)
My Granny and Mom always told me “Go put some blush and lipstick on, a lil spritz of perfume, maybe some clean clothes… you’ll feel like a new woman.”
And yeah, I’ve had that rule for 34 of my 44 years. Yes, some days I don’t make it past a lil chapstick *maybe* a clean dress, but it is kinda amazing how a tiny bit of “self care” really can help my head space…❤❤❤
Pro tip: make your bed pretty so you want to make it. Make sure to use few enough pillows and blankets that it’s not overwhelming. My golden number of pillows is eight lol. Bed rotting also feels less rotten when you wear pretty pajamas. Something about it feels less like defeat. Fun reusable shower products make showering feel glamorous without having to constantly buy new products. I use exfoliating gloves and a scalp massager. Both of which you can get at dollar tree. Last tip: when tidying, pick up the things that cover the most surface area first. This will make the rest of the work less visually overwhelming and make the task feel smaller.
I didn't know there was an actual word for me laying in bed to the point my hips hurt 😂
How do you know I doomscrolled tiktok for 3 hours today??? LOL
👁️👁️ i am watching you
me too though 🥴 after 9 months of sobriety, I redownloaded tiktok onto my phone and i think it's here to stay for a bit 💔#summertimesadness
Rokkie j just did 12
I didn't know rotgirl was a term but I'm def a member, been in the same top I don't really like and sweatpants for 48+ hours ✌ (can't really pin point when I put them on, it's a blur)
welcome to the team 🙈❤️ feel that fr
this almost made me cry, it makes so much sense, and i've thought about it before that dressing up helped me tackle things in my life and when i stopped my depression couldn't be as handled, but the way you put it helped me understand it a lot more\
thank you for making this video
as a girly who struggles with object permanence I find myself always lining up my things on dressers, desks, counter spaces etc and that makes it super easy to get overwhelming, cluttered, and messy, but if I put everything away I end up accidentally buying repeats of stuff I own, I guess overall I struggle with keeping inventory of what I have. One thing that helps me is using clear organizers for my desk to put art supplies in as opposed to opaque pencil cases or boxes, and another thing is that my dresser has all my bottoms on open faced shelves and not drawers so i can always see my outfit options (that does make mess more visible though). I've also thought about putting labels on my bathroom drawers so i can easily organize, but if anyone has this issue and tips I would appreciate! love an audhd girly
I'd totally add Rompers too to the mix of overalls! A little feminine and still a one-piece that can make a fit :3
rompers are a great idea!! it never crossed my mind cuz ive never worn them before since the idea of 💩 in a romper worried me. but yessss if anyone is a romper master, a romper lover, it definetly is feminine and one piece quotes from the wise Melissssssa
and jumpsuits! I
Not me dressing up as an office worker cuz I'm a remote worker. 😂😂
I'm trying this tomorrow and I'll see how this goes. 😂😂😂
I hope it works out. 😅
Did it work
3:30 changing out of my moomoos rn and into my Sailor Moon fit as you speak
hell yaa out of moomoos, ur a wizard herry, magical gorl weeeeeeeeee~~~~✨🧚♀️✨
I watched this video and now I’m not depressed
Stop calling me out so damn much in the first half. Always doom scrolling. Been dreading brushing my teeth and eating. Rotting in bed for a few years now. So fucking lonely.
That’s what I was going to say also. Rotting is also a result of no relationships nowadays. Friends and family are terrible, and guys hate chicks / are cycling through a roster of 25 women so women end up getting no daily company.
My best friend sent me this
ur bestie is a real one for that
Ok I def gotta start wearing my summer dresses this is a great reason to
do it do it doitdoitdoit doooo ittt
I didn't expect this video to be so helpful, thank you
omg i love these...i love how relatable this is and how u mentioned neurodivergence!! i love ur sense of style too :3 very excited to see more!!!
This is actually so helpful and respectful. Thank youn
Thank you i will do this tomorrow if i can wake up before 3pm
Sorry I woke up almost 4pm today 😓 I'll try again tomorrow
i feel that. how's it going now?
@pixeldressed hi, the next day after that comment I woke up early n finally cleaned my room for the first time after like 5 months since the last time I cleaned it 🥲 I have dressed nicely every day since, even my sister asked if I was going somewhere 😅 I started to use my skincare again after so long n run on the treadmill 🥲 i was in a bad state these past 5-6 months because of the terminal illness n death of the most important person who i love the most in my life. Sorry for saying all these but I hope u know that your video helped me 🥹 thank you 💗
i literally love u so much thank you also your edits are like they should be in an art museum like one of those full-room displays with comfy pillows like that shld be u
omg love the editing and the in depth tips on how to transform !!!
as a totally cis boy I hate dressing up cuz I hate pants :c
pants are awesome they got p9ckets and shit
aw everyone should have fun dressing up. is it the textures/fitting that bothers you?
Thank you for going through all this hard work ❤
thank you for appreciating the effort ❤️ hope it helped!
the puella magi madoka clips made me fall in love with you i think
spotted the girlz nite out dolls in the background 💕
yesss another bratz fan yipeee yipeee
Bed rotting at 1AM as I'm watching this 👍🏾
Good luck to all of us, hope we manage to do something today ❤
I really needed this, thank you!
Really smart advices
mentally ill girlies unite
unite!!!
Clicking on this video was a good idea
TAME IMPALA oh i imidiatlwuy love you
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I don't like getting dressed because it means doing more laundry...🥴
I was in need of this video but didn't knew, thanks
I think color-coordinating outfits while being super depressed and bedrotting is tough, any tips on that?
she a real one for asking the real questions 🏆personally complementary colors are easiest cuz it's just two, monochrome, or one color and use black or white as accents/contrasts
It won’t happen every day, but on days that you hit upon an outfit that makes you feel good, take a photo of yourself in it. Build a little wardrobe photo album.
Then on days when you are too brain-blah to actively think of a nice outfit,you have that photo album to refer back to. 😉
Can you do one for hair? Something low maintenance?
Please part 2 🙏
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I identify as a bed rotter 😮
I want to dress up but I look ugly in everything and it makes me feel worseeeeee😍🥰😘
i want to go out and dress cute, but everytime i do i get the worst attention from men and its too stressful, so i stay in bed or go out looking like a bum #plshelp #needadvice :,)))
I know that it sucks but try to distract yourself when it happens, like listening to music or even just having air pods in or headphones on. Don't make eye contact with them, and try to carry yourself with confidence. Carry something to protect yourself like pepper spray or a hand held buzzer
I hope that this helps ✨
what if im too depressed to get dressed
and what if i have no pretty clothes and i cant do online shopping and the stores have ugly minimalistic sad beige clothes
plus my mom refuses to buy me more clothes that arent christmas clothes
I am deep in enemy territory
(Keep up the good work, this advice applies to mentally ill dudes too)