Tara Brach on the RAIN of Self-Compassion

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  • The RAIN of Self-Compassion - Tara Brach (12/16/2015)
    This talk explores three key features of the trance of unworthiness and introduces a guided meditation based on a new version of the acronym RAIN that awakens self-compassion and de-conditions the suffering of being at war with ourselves.
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  • @ThestarryeyedHermit
    @ThestarryeyedHermit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I don’t know if this will help anyone else but I think for myself whenever I notice myself crying (or just feeling some hard feelings) I’m gonna use those tears as a notification almost that I need rain. I thought this may be helpful because when you’re caught up in those feelings it can be hard to remember the tools you have within you. 🌧💗☺️

    • @ashleydevine7448
      @ashleydevine7448 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you 🙏💜💚

    • @ts3858
      @ts3858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashleydevine7448 Thank you...

    • @AndreiaRuivo
      @AndreiaRuivo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🤍

  • @sandramedina9482
    @sandramedina9482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    “Don’t change.... I love you just as you are”. Transforming and healing.

  • @barbaraconnett5057
    @barbaraconnett5057 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am at 85-year-old widow, I have been watching Tara branch and enjoying her very much, I have lot of pain du to surgery on my neck I had in 84, my feet are messed up duty surgery’s,on them, I had a wonderful woman living with me and helping me, my kids want me to move out there way and got rid of BOBBY my dog, I want to stay in my home, and keep my dog,

    • @barbaraconnett5057
      @barbaraconnett5057 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your thoughts, Barbara j. Connett

    • @beaumontanderson5595
      @beaumontanderson5595 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh my goodness, keep Bobby! How could you not? 💓💓💓

  • @amarcadiacastillo
    @amarcadiacastillo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thank you Tara, you are helping me to understand my insecurities and fears. Thank you for teach us self compassion in a very simple and special way.

  • @taramaree6738
    @taramaree6738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are heaven sent Tara. I keep sending endless love out to the world and keep forgetting to do the same for myself. Thank you for being my wiser voice at times that I can not hear it.
    Namaste.

  • @barbarastone7546
    @barbarastone7546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love your message you are a loving compassionate teacher. Woman. I am thankful for our crossing paths Barbara

  • @levjanashvili752
    @levjanashvili752 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Very impressed with Tara Brach. Deeply healing insights and a wonderful manner as a speaker.

  • @sophismpress
    @sophismpress 8 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Just what I needed today...thank you Tara.

  • @heatherwiner2883
    @heatherwiner2883 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thank you! I sobbed. I never realized the extent of how bad and unworthy I thought of myself.

    • @jonashjerpe7421
      @jonashjerpe7421 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Heather Winer May I ask how you feel about yourself now? Blessings

  • @kimberlyrose144
    @kimberlyrose144 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you, Tara! Your talk was exactly what I needed to listen to at the end of my day. (Your way of speaking and your topics are calming, interesting, make me smile and think. I woke up thinking about your words this morning. Self-compassion sets my day's intentions beautifully.

  • @lindamilne3166
    @lindamilne3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tara, I Love Your “Loving, Living, Compassion and Humor! “
    You are Teaching me Humor & Poetry & Laughter!! 🙏Thank You!!

  • @cofoothills
    @cofoothills 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RAIN: recognize, allow, investigate, nurture

  • @elizabelleg3270
    @elizabelleg3270 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Tara for your compassion and teachings. Your talks and meditations are helping me begin to heal.

  • @susansacco7583
    @susansacco7583 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much. Namaste 🙏

  • @paulam5864
    @paulam5864 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Exquiisite love- thank you Tara, you are such a gift to my soul🙏🏻❤️

  • @samallen6322
    @samallen6322 7 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for helping us to try and open our hearts to ourselves again. What transformation this can bring about!

  • @marnazsad
    @marnazsad 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hello Tara Brach. Thank you very much for sharing your teachings; I am grateful for having your sessions made available, where I can watch and listen numerous times, when I feel I need to go back again and again on a point that makes more sense at this time. Thank you for teachings on compassion and self-actualisation with much humanity, explaining the knowledge of psychology in the everyday situations we come across in one way or another, and making them more simple to grasp for those like me who need modified versions...... :) :) :)

    • @emberbender6973
      @emberbender6973 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Tara really great to listen to you> have to have more self compassion to get me through troubled times. I need to serender and take control of my monkey mind and take control of my life

  • @robertkraljii5048
    @robertkraljii5048 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely meditation.

  • @joannesmith4102
    @joannesmith4102 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Powerful, wonderful, thanks so much for posting 💗💟💖

  • @smalefamily9806
    @smalefamily9806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wonderful thank you for sharing with us

  • @travingos
    @travingos 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thanks. This was most helpful.

  • @Ahoneywell
    @Ahoneywell 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your work XX

  • @lindamilne3166
    @lindamilne3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️💟LOVE YOUR HUMOR!
    Tara, You are Teaching me
    “Love, Laughter & Humor!!”

  • @aliwa6891
    @aliwa6891 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, such an inspiration

  • @normbabbitt4325
    @normbabbitt4325 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So beautiful!

  • @fullofbl1ss
    @fullofbl1ss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was so much needed this morning. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @WilliamJCroft
    @WilliamJCroft 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Profound insights and practice. Will be returning to this recording many times. Thank you.

  • @laurenceerrington4139
    @laurenceerrington4139 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love this (and all of Tara's talks). They make so much sense when listening. But I find RAIN hard to do in practice. I am a reasonably intelligent person, but when it comes to dealing with my mind and body (along with the traumas I've experienced, I find it hard to do for various reasons. Right from the beginning - R - it's hard to even stop and remember to practice RAIN. If I do recall the RAIN, then it's difficult to recognise what is going on. A for Allow is OK, but Investigate is tough too. Nurture is reasonably OK, but After The Rain is tough too. Does this ring bells with anyone or any tips?

  • @seranine3000
    @seranine3000 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This helps me so much. Thank you.

  • @Fonixsed
    @Fonixsed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    big one for me tara im learning so much i glad i have this possibility thanks god for this gift

  • @ethicalphytophage
    @ethicalphytophage 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Tara! You are amazing! :):)

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This ... 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @olias6162
    @olias6162 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Absolutely wonderful! Most healing ❤️‍🩹 thank you 🙏

  • @ThestarryeyedHermit
    @ThestarryeyedHermit 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    26:22 for rain 🌧

  • @surandika2094
    @surandika2094 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is my first experience of a guided meditation program. Really impressed and enjoyed. Thanks Tara.

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I cried.

    • @Dee33300
      @Dee33300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      chilloften it just explains how it feels perfectly. you know someone else REALLY gets it and can meet us where we are at.

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Dee33300 I’m glad you commented and drew me back to this beauty. Glad to know it was 4 yrs ago I took in this wisdom. Yet, I listen again today and cry so hard. Everything will be ok.

    • @Dee33300
      @Dee33300 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      chilloften everything will be okay ❤️
      and if it makes you feel any better, my therapist will tell me the same thing that she’s describing here (so i’ve already heard it before) but even so, this definitely brought me to tears.

  • @compassionatedesign
    @compassionatedesign หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love this.

  • @JenX1
    @JenX1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Tara

  • @cathyrosa79
    @cathyrosa79 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wonderful. thank you.

  • @momcatwoo
    @momcatwoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Still some great dharma talks.

  • @adrianacampos6567
    @adrianacampos6567 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    GREAT

  • @heatherbrown1880
    @heatherbrown1880 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    a Shining Star.

  • @laurenceerrington4139
    @laurenceerrington4139 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I've bought the book (Radical Compassion) which I'm appreciating - wish it had an index tho. It seems daft that I need to ask (I'm a man!), but when practising RAIN (with `uprooting painful/negative beliefs' in her book ) I find myself crying so often at the R (recognise) stage with my particular beliefs . Is this others' experiences?

  • @jeffsommers7788
    @jeffsommers7788 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks this helps with what I going through with my sister. I know now its not my problem that my sister put on me its her's. Thanks.

  • @lizxxx5543
    @lizxxx5543 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I dont think im unworthy yet i feel depressed & anxious... Selected few of us need this & not the whole world as they seem like they know how to live already.

    • @leannewilliams1927
      @leannewilliams1927 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We're all in the same boat Libby. x

    • @beccareynolds4625
      @beccareynolds4625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all suffer some of us are just more conscious. 💞🙏

  • @Bokescreek
    @Bokescreek 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The practice begins at 45:00

  • @AayeCreates
    @AayeCreates ปีที่แล้ว +1

    𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒀𝒐𝒖 ❣︎

  • @christiehelley7573
    @christiehelley7573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Tara but wish she could do something about dry mouth as it is distracting.

  • @angiebagley
    @angiebagley 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Guided meditation starts around 45:30.

  • @sureshbajaj6031
    @sureshbajaj6031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🌹🌹🌹🌷🌷

  • @stevenkok1926
    @stevenkok1926 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Rapturing in the rain.

  • @swamibubba
    @swamibubba 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    so what is the rain acronym?

    • @christinelaferriere9412
      @christinelaferriere9412 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Rich Allen right??

    • @carlosesq43
      @carlosesq43 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Rich Allen - (R)ecognise - (A)llow - (I)nvestigate with kindness - (N)ourish with compassion. - Recognise what you are feeling. Allow life and what is here to be just so. Investigate what is here with loving-kindness. Nourish what is here with compassion.

    • @swamibubba
      @swamibubba 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Carlos Esq thanks

  • @mellowEsko
    @mellowEsko 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who disliked this video...? I will pray for you to be less hateful and judgemental. Namaste. Compassion friends.

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don't have a safe place to go to...😓

    • @lindamilne3166
      @lindamilne3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      T S. Know You are Love!

    • @lindamilne3166
      @lindamilne3166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Send You Love!
      Sending You Safe Places, ALWAYS!

    • @ts3858
      @ts3858 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lindamilne3166 Thank you for your kind words...You too..🙏💗💗

  • @Heimal
    @Heimal 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did she say the dominant religion was muslim?!

    • @ABLovescrafting
      @ABLovescrafting 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think so. Next question... why?

  • @christinelaferriere9412
    @christinelaferriere9412 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jewish mom