Every time a bf didn’t post me, or share the story I tagged him in I found out a few months later they were cheating. There is no reason for a bf to not share that he has a girlfriend on their private account. Unless they are entertaining other girls.
@@apmg924 ok, but the question here is why social media? Why does everyone have to prove there relationship online? For validation? Cause seems to me it doesn't look like a relationship it's more like looking for validation from other online strangers instead and that's a real turn off.
That depends on many aspects. Some men are actually never really sure about any woman , they just keep having contact with several women, i have male relatives and friends who are like this (now all 35-40+ years old and still they never have anything really serious cause they find too many women physically attractive and want to keep it that way, cause they dont want to be able to only have sexual interaction with only one person, theyre also not very fond of having kids etc, they want to be 100% free at all times, which is fine...if they wouldnt LIE to those women. And that is the main problem ,in my opinion. But they wont change that either cause they know ,most women will leave them if they would know the truth...) they had the same mindset in theyr 20s and it never changed until today (maybe it does with some of them but who knows) .... - ingenerally men often have other options (if they are socalled ''players'') even IN a relationship. Many are not like ,but at the same time many are. You just somehow have to find someone whos on the good side.
Hello...I know trust would be a very expensive commodity for anyone right now after all happening on the web . But I was referred to @eddsoftware with benefit of doubt.That their services are 100% guaranteed anytime any day. I give you my word .Besides that I crave good relationships with them for helping me out with any hack recovery and by pass of any social media they can be of trust.
Well I guess my boyfriend is really sure about me because he want stop asking me can he post on his page lol....I keep telling him no...I hate social media I like and value my privacy now.
I live with the father of my child and I'm pregnant again he never post me he said he can't post me because he's afraid of being wiched, I'm no longer interested in him any more I used to have low self esteem because of this
My bf posted our photo once and that was when we started dating. After that he never post anything about us, not even about my birthday (which I thought it would be something special for him too). At first, I'm just fine with that. But later I found out he's still liking other girl posts (he likes many of her posts).
I will never share anything on social media about my relationship. Some followers or contact list are haters who are there waiting to analyse what you post or your profil update. I regret the years i lost scrolling on social media i am asking God to forgive me because i did not use time properly . Social media is like wasting life in Poubelle.
Regarding SM. Read someones clear actions as what they are. Normal healthy people use SM within a relatively small circle of people. They are happy and want to show they are in LTR. They Post pictures with their clothes on. Have a mix of partners, friends landscapes, hobbies etc…They also block inappropriate or unknown people. I understand some people cant do this due to addiction to personal validation. But it simply tells you clearly all you need to know about that person.
My bf and i are in a relationship.. and he never post me not even once… and i really do think he’s he cheating.. for one he would always post himself and his daughter and not me… he’s only saying he wants to be private.. just fine it’s hard to believe… girls always commenting on his pic on fb something is not right… who does not want to show off they girl to the world.
Over thinking it. My brother is saving for a ring for his girlfriend of 3 years and never not once posted her. He’s not into social media. Some people just aren’t.
NOT being into social media is totally different from someone who likes to post a lot on there (about theyr life ,no matter what it is and theres LOTS of them) , someone who isnt into it mainly ,that is actually quite different. And it isnt always overthinking either, i dated and met men who actually had gf already (but wanted to get into a relationship with me) they hid theyr contact to other women and therefore did not post theyr actual gf on social media. Its not just black and white, in some cases its really nothing behind it , but someone there is.
mxd-asian1990 what you said kinda sounds like what’s going on with me.. he only posted his girlfriend once in 3 months since they started dating so maybe they just wanted to confirm first. is that normal ?
@@mxd-1990asn my thing is this what was the reason that he created his social media page in the first place was it because to only post about his relationship I mean this generation is so wrong gone into social media to the point that you think that if a partner decides to have privacy in a relationship and doesn't pose his romantic relationship out there all of a sudden that means he doesn't love you do you realize that social posting your relationship on social media can have toxic impacts as a woman myself I do not post any of my boyfriends on social media or any guy that I am interested in maybe my husband yes like do you people not value privacy in a romantic relationship anymore like what by him posting you until show Media what is that going to accomplish how is that going to help your relationship out the only thing that is going to accomplish is people liking the photo or making either rude disgusting and disrespectful remarks about you the girlfriend or having other people try to ruin a good and healthy relationship
Yeah my boyfriend isn’t into it either the only thing he ever posts is about Jesus related things but he barely posts anything on their. Plus he’s too busy with work.
@@princess-bf2cn i prefer that than a person who is so private to the point were people dont even know they r dating i believe in privacy but 4 once post yr partner nothing wrong with that i have seen the so called private people cheating so if ur a private person date another person who is private leave people who dont mind posting to date each other period
Suggest posting it on your social media but not in a forceful way. Just take a selfie with him on his phone and be like "oooo thats cute you should post that" and if he reacts weird about it then he doesnt want his other side chicks to find out he's in a relationship with you. See hownhe reacts first.
I asked my boyfriend to post me on social media and he says the usual “he likes privacy” yet posts his selfies and all every day and has bunch of women commenting on his post and he replied to one of the girls saying he look hot with “😝🤗” I after I confronted him about it he said it’s his “homie”. Right every time there’s some female weird activity it’s always a “homie”. What a bunch of crap, I think I’m safe to believe he is cheating at this point. He refuses to even change his status on fb to “in relationship “and we’ve been together for some years now , it’s sad
I would find out his passwords to all his accounts including his phone & start changing his his accounts to relationship and post lots of pictures of us on all his social media accounts lol 😂 he be wondering why his account is different including no women on it because I would delete all them off & if he doesn’t have you on his account I would add myself to his account 😂😂😂😂😂😂
My fiance doesn't want me to change my status to engage and tag him... he said he is a private guy. Should I be worried? I'm not someone who overshares.
Mine won’t post our wedding pictures then told me well I’m post on Facebook..he don’t even be on Facebook..but posted endless pictures in stories of his friends and even our daughter in his story and picture of her on his page..I rarely post him but again rarely doesn’t mean I dont..I can’t count on my hand how many times he posted a picture of us..not even my birthday or holidays..but his friends will get a s/o or birthday post..I just want someone to comment that I’m not being crazy..he said he is private but if your private why post our daughter..we are married now..we got professional pictures taken and he don’t want to post our pics..like huh
You’re not crazy. His behavior is hurtful and invalidating. Try to come up with a compromise about the issue, like him making sure to post on your Birthday or sharing tagged posts with both of you in it. Unfortunately, social media is used for cheating. Your partner should want you to feel assured and valued. Best of luck
This is so sad. Not even about the husband, but good lord look at how our society has become with social media addiction and needing validation online 😢
I been in a relationship with my gf for about 3 years +. She’s always on social media but refuses to post me. At first I was okay with it. But now I jsut get sad about it & I’ve told her. She still refuses to post me. Is this something I should be alarmed by?
Lol, no. If you've been in a relationship for 3 years, then don't fret about the fact that she doesn't post you on social media dude. The thing is, not everybody has to post every single thing that they enjoy on social media. And that is a fact.
Have a weird one , my boyf & I don’t have the same circles or friend groups . I’m currently in his home country . I just changed my WhatsApp pic of us and he got upset and said it would trigger people. We live together . I look after his kids (as a step mum) . I’ve met his family. He looks after me . But why would it bother him for me to post us? I don’t get it .
My boyfriend doesn't post about me on social media, never though it shows in his status that his in a relationship with me, and also he doesn't want met to like or comment on his posts, does this mean something? Or should i just let it go?
Okay, that’s really weird. I don’t think you should be concerned about him posting you, that’s just how some people are. But comments of likes? I feel like there could be something else going on, you should definitely do some digging or confront him about it
If he doesnt want you to comment under hisnstuff thats definitely suspicious and always go with your gut. If youre in a position where youre even questioning it.... he's hiding something.
I know of a similar situation where the guy doesn't even follow the woman who keeps posting him nor does he allow her to follow him. But he keeps adding other women and liking their posts but doesn't like or comment on her posts of them.
Hello...I know trust would be a very expensive commodity for anyone right now after all happening on the web . But I was referred to @eddsoftware with benefit of doubt.That their services are 100% guaranteed anytime any day. I give you my word .Besides that I crave good relationships with them for helping me out with any hack recovery and by pass of any social media they can be of trust.
Real relationships are open to public! It’s a red flag if a man doesn’t want to have a picture with you!
Every time a bf didn’t post me, or share the story I tagged him in I found out a few months later they were cheating. There is no reason for a bf to not share that he has a girlfriend on their private account. Unless they are entertaining other girls.
If you want me to be in Your life, you better make sure that people know that we are in a relationship or else. This relationship is over
Yeah but only irl, not social media
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@@apmg924 ok, but the question here is why social media? Why does everyone have to prove there relationship online? For validation? Cause seems to me it doesn't look like a relationship it's more like looking for validation from other online strangers instead and that's a real turn off.
When a guy doesn’t post about you in SoCial media, it’s simply becuaze he isn’t sure about you.
That depends on many aspects. Some men are actually never really sure about any woman , they just keep having contact with several women, i have male relatives and friends who are like this (now all 35-40+ years old and still they never have anything really serious cause they find too many women physically attractive and want to keep it that way, cause they dont want to be able to only have sexual interaction with only one person, theyre also not very fond of having kids etc, they want to be 100% free at all times, which is fine...if they wouldnt LIE to those women. And that is the main problem ,in my opinion. But they wont change that either cause they know ,most women will leave them if they would know the truth...) they had the same mindset in theyr 20s and it never changed until today (maybe it does with some of them but who knows) .... - ingenerally men often have other options (if they are socalled ''players'') even IN a relationship. Many are not like ,but at the same time many are. You just somehow have to find someone whos on the good side.
Hello...I know trust would be a very expensive commodity for anyone right now after all happening on the web . But I was referred to @eddsoftware with benefit of doubt.That their services are 100% guaranteed anytime any day. I give you my word .Besides that I crave good relationships with them for helping me out with any hack recovery and by pass of any social media they can be of trust.
Well I guess my boyfriend is really sure about me because he want stop asking me can he post on his page lol....I keep telling him no...I hate social media I like and value my privacy now.
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@@gapeach14 privacy is key
I live with the father of my child and I'm pregnant again he never post me he said he can't post me because he's afraid of being wiched, I'm no longer interested in him any more I used to have low self esteem because of this
My bf posted our photo once and that was when we started dating. After that he never post anything about us, not even about my birthday (which I thought it would be something special for him too). At first, I'm just fine with that. But later I found out he's still liking other girl posts (he likes many of her posts).
Boyfriend nah you joking, I'll only post a woman who will have my ring on her finger.
I do have a ring but still he doesn’t want to post me
I will never share anything on social media about my relationship.
Some followers or contact list are haters who are there waiting to analyse what you post or your profil update.
I regret the years i lost scrolling on social media i am asking God to forgive me because i did not use time properly .
Social media is like wasting life in Poubelle.
Regarding SM. Read someones clear actions as what they are. Normal healthy people use SM within a relatively small circle of people. They are happy and want to show they are in LTR. They Post pictures with their clothes on. Have a mix of partners, friends landscapes, hobbies etc…They also block inappropriate or unknown people. I understand some people cant do this due to addiction to personal validation. But it simply tells you clearly all you need to know about that person.
My bf and i are in a relationship.. and he never post me not even once… and i really do think he’s he cheating.. for one he would always post himself and his daughter and not me… he’s only saying he wants to be private.. just fine it’s hard to believe… girls always commenting on his pic on fb something is not right… who does not want to show off they girl to the world.
Over thinking it. My brother is saving for a ring for his girlfriend of 3 years and never not once posted her. He’s not into social media. Some people just aren’t.
NOT being into social media is totally different from someone who likes to post a lot on there (about theyr life ,no matter what it is and theres LOTS of them) , someone who isnt into it mainly ,that is actually quite different. And it isnt always overthinking either, i dated and met men who actually had gf already (but wanted to get into a relationship with me) they hid theyr contact to other women and therefore did not post theyr actual gf on social media. Its not just black and white, in some cases its really nothing behind it , but someone there is.
mxd-asian1990 what you said kinda sounds like what’s going on with me.. he only posted his girlfriend once in 3 months since they started dating so maybe they just wanted to confirm first. is that normal ?
@@mxd-1990asn my thing is this what was the reason that he created his social media page in the first place was it because to only post about his relationship I mean this generation is so wrong gone into social media to the point that you think that if a partner decides to have privacy in a relationship and doesn't pose his romantic relationship out there all of a sudden that means he doesn't love you do you realize that social posting your relationship on social media can have toxic impacts as a woman myself I do not post any of my boyfriends on social media or any guy that I am interested in maybe my husband yes like do you people not value privacy in a romantic relationship anymore like what by him posting you until show Media what is that going to accomplish how is that going to help your relationship out the only thing that is going to accomplish is people liking the photo or making either rude disgusting and disrespectful remarks about you the girlfriend or having other people try to ruin a good and healthy relationship
Yeah my boyfriend isn’t into it either the only thing he ever posts is about Jesus related things but he barely posts anything on their. Plus he’s too busy with work.
@@princess-bf2cn i prefer that than a person who is so private to the point were people dont even know they r dating i believe in privacy but 4 once post yr partner nothing wrong with that i have seen the so called private people cheating so if ur a private person date another person who is private leave people who dont mind posting to date each other period
Got it guys.Thanks❤
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Suggest posting it on your social media but not in a forceful way. Just take a selfie with him on his phone and be like "oooo thats cute you should post that" and if he reacts weird about it then he doesnt want his other side chicks to find out he's in a relationship with you. See hownhe reacts first.
I asked my boyfriend to post me on social media and he says the usual “he likes privacy” yet posts his selfies and all every day and has bunch of women commenting on his post and he replied to one of the girls saying he look hot with “😝🤗” I after I confronted him about it he said it’s his “homie”. Right every time there’s some female weird activity it’s always a “homie”. What a bunch of crap, I think I’m safe to believe he is cheating at this point. He refuses to even change his status on fb to “in relationship “and we’ve been together for some years now , it’s sad
I would find out his passwords to all his accounts including his phone & start changing his his accounts to relationship and post lots of pictures of us on all his social media accounts lol 😂 he be wondering why his account is different including no women on it because I would delete all them off & if he doesn’t have you on his account I would add myself to his account 😂😂😂😂😂😂
This is my situation rn. I feel like I'm the only one who put effort for the relationship, while he just acts like "go with the wind".
My fiance doesn't want me to change my status to engage and tag him... he said he is a private guy. Should I be worried? I'm not someone who overshares.
Be worried I married someone who did this to me. I said post me or we get an annulmeny
If ur partner don't keep ur pic if u r in serious relationship then it's not right.. may b they r hiding something from someone..be careful
Mine won’t post our wedding pictures then told me well I’m post on Facebook..he don’t even be on Facebook..but posted endless pictures in stories of his friends and even our daughter in his story and picture of her on his page..I rarely post him but again rarely doesn’t mean I dont..I can’t count on my hand how many times he posted a picture of us..not even my birthday or holidays..but his friends will get a s/o or birthday post..I just want someone to comment that I’m not being crazy..he said he is private but if your private why post our daughter..we are married now..we got professional pictures taken and he don’t want to post our pics..like huh
Same problem !
Divorce noooooooooo! That's not okay
You’re not crazy. His behavior is hurtful and invalidating. Try to come up with a compromise about the issue, like him making sure to post on your Birthday or sharing tagged posts with both of you in it. Unfortunately, social media is used for cheating. Your partner should want you to feel assured and valued. Best of luck
This is so sad. Not even about the husband, but good lord look at how our society has become with social media addiction and needing validation online 😢
I been in a relationship with my gf for about 3 years +. She’s always on social media but refuses to post me. At first I was okay with it. But now I jsut get sad about it & I’ve told her. She still refuses to post me. Is this something I should be alarmed by?
Yes, your a placeholder. She waiting for someone better or she’s embarrassed of you. Walk away for a bit and see what happens.
It just means your not important enough.. and doesn't want to offend anyone..
Lol, no. If you've been in a relationship for 3 years, then don't fret about the fact that she doesn't post you on social media dude.
The thing is, not everybody has to post every single thing that they enjoy on social media. And that is a fact.
Im sorry and the fact you been with her so long. It doesn't sit right with me but YOU KNOW HER. So follow your instincts
Have a weird one , my boyf & I don’t have the same circles or friend groups . I’m currently in his home country . I just changed my WhatsApp pic of us and he got upset and said it would trigger people. We live together . I look after his kids (as a step mum) . I’ve met his family. He looks after me . But why would it bother him for me to post us? I don’t get it .
He might have a crazy ex. if he is using the term "trigger". Might even have to do with the Bio mom.
Not his only interest
So my bf post a picture of me on his social media, idky should I post him
If you’re secure in your relationship stuff like this wouldn’t matter
My boyfriend doesn't post about me on social media, never though it shows in his status that his in a relationship with me, and also he doesn't want met to like or comment on his posts, does this mean something? Or should i just let it go?
My dear he is lying about something....he can have your relationship status showing to you but not be visible to other friends?
Okay, that’s really weird. I don’t think you should be concerned about him posting you, that’s just how some people are. But comments of likes? I feel like there could be something else going on, you should definitely do some digging or confront him about it
If he doesnt want you to comment under hisnstuff thats definitely suspicious and always go with your gut. If youre in a position where youre even questioning it.... he's hiding something.
I know of a similar situation where the guy doesn't even follow the woman who keeps posting him nor does he allow her to follow him. But he keeps adding other women and liking their posts but doesn't like or comment on her posts of them.
Also does his relationship status say in a relationship with Ash K or just "in a relationship"? Because that could mean anybody.
Got same problem my girl friend doesn't post me the boyfriend
Mine hasn't posted me for 4yrs. He only posted me ones in 4yrs and that was because he wanted to post my ex best friend
My boyfriend only have Twitter and Whatsapp but he never post me yet I do. He really doesn't even post anything on whatsapp
Stop posting him, and if you have before and it’s up delete it. Keep the energy the same
Don’t be stupid, whether you are being posted or not doesn’t add any value to the relationship
It boost trust
@@emillykiragu5263 it doesn’t boost anything
@@kwabena10as86 it does I break up with my 3 yrs boyfriend because of this posting issue...he always say he.will post me but he keep postponing.
@@emillykiragu5263 why would you risk your relationship over a post, 🤦🏾♂️I’m positive you have regretted it now .
@@kwabena10as86 no
Yes the sisters mus approve
Hello...I know trust would be a very expensive commodity for anyone right now after all happening on the web . But I was referred to @eddsoftware with benefit of doubt.That their services are 100% guaranteed anytime any day. I give you my word .Besides that I crave good relationships with them for helping me out with any hack recovery and by pass of any social media they can be of trust.
Some religion's don't like it for a man to post his wife or girlfriend photos on social media
This is pathetic