Hi, I can only let you know what I would do, knowing what I know. I’m not a member of the bar so my advice comes from experience and knowledge I have gained, but happy to help
My x has stoped me seing my 2 young boys.. who r 3 an 1... shes hooked up with this new guy an hes moved in with her an there engaged already.. been together 4 months.. shes ripped my heart out an ruined our family... shes a narcissist aswell so shes done nothing wrong in her eyes.. but shes booked 2 go on holiday in feb a day b4 my sons birthday, which hurts.. didn even ask me if its ok 2 go untill after thed booked it. but the things she has said an done 2 me r appuling! An shes enjoyed an he has watching me lose it all... im completely drained mentally, physically an financially.... an just dont know wat to do anymore.. i just wana c my kids an b a good dad.. but according 2 her im not right mentally, an her an her family wont let me c them now.. so i just gota keep a cool head an do things the right way.. which i was doing anyway. But any lil slip up an they use it against me . so to c your vids shows that this is happening day in day out.. an its the worst feeling an time ever.. i hope your ok yourself mate and ill take wat i got from your vids an try an use it to help me through this...
@@margem10001 i had my 2 boys here last tue. an they were dropped of 2 me tired an my 3 year old is a handful when hes tired. There names r Elijah n Gabriel. He wanted his tablet, which they didn give me. I tried 2 take them out but eli made a fuss, so we came back, i took gabe out the garden but eli didn want to an was crying for his mam, i tried to calm him down but wen hes like that its hard. So i was out the back an Elijah started banging the door crying, so i ran up 2 him, he peed himself. So i said right ill change u now its ok, i ran back dwn to gabe an hed found some discarded bottle of pop an was trying 2 drink it.. so i got it of him, ran bak up 2 the house an changed eli.. i then rang her mam an told her wat happened an they were disgusted by me.. an now they say i cant look after them an my mental health is to bad, so they dun feel the kids r safe.. no i will say, since she left me for this idiot in feb i have gone dwnhill, ive been drinking heavily an yeah my head as gone a bit Martin, but i know wat im doing an i love an adore my kids more than anything! An wud never put them in any harm. but according 2 her an her family im unstable. Even though it coz of my x im like this. shes lied about wat ive done an made me look bad. Im so depressed. Its so hard knowing ive lost her, but to stop me seing my kids is the worst pain ive ever felt. I feel absolutely useless an discarded. all her family have turned there back on me an theve taken this new guy in without a care. he lives with my x now an there engaged only after 4 months. An im here all alone.. every day now is tough coz he around my kids more than me now. but i need 2 rise above it an just b a good example 2 my kids.. i tell them i love them every day mart an god knows i do. But i just feel like ive lost everything..
@@margem10001 also... i lost my dad 2 covid last October. I lost my mam in January 2 a heart attack. Then i lost jess. ,(the x) end of February.. now ive lost my kids.. an her family wonder why im struggling.. ive lost so much martin... then shes saying lies an the most hurtfull of things 2 me like u wont bealive.. saying my son doesn't ask about me anymore, she was only with me to have babies, she hopes i have a sad lonely life coz its all i deserve?? Wtf like.. i was never! Nasty or aggressive or anything like that to her.. i loved her.. i still do.. but the things she has said an done is unreal.. id b here all day telling u.. shes a narcissist c, so shes done nothing wrong, its all my fault.. its taken its toll on me... an i just dont know wat 2 do anymore...
All the best maybe he Will be back to better feelings.
Love you for your videos. I can relate alot. I think you should do a revist of your older vids.
Hi mate, hope you are well. Any update on your situation?
All the best to all of you guys how are in problema with womans
Hi Martin, How can one get in contact with you? Thank you!
My email address is mallen8@sky.com please feel free to contact me
martin is there anyway i could contact you for some advice atall ? really could do with some help right now
Hi, I can only let you know what I would do, knowing what I know. I’m not a member of the bar so my advice comes from experience and knowledge I have gained, but happy to help
@@margem10001 if i could get your email address i would appreciate a chat martin iv tried to leave mine but my comment gets deleted
My x has stoped me seing my 2 young boys.. who r 3 an 1... shes hooked up with this new guy an hes moved in with her an there engaged already.. been together 4 months.. shes ripped my heart out an ruined our family... shes a narcissist aswell so shes done nothing wrong in her eyes.. but shes booked 2 go on holiday in feb a day b4 my sons birthday, which hurts.. didn even ask me if its ok 2 go untill after thed booked it. but the things she has said an done 2 me r appuling! An shes enjoyed an he has watching me lose it all... im completely drained mentally, physically an financially.... an just dont know wat to do anymore.. i just wana c my kids an b a good dad.. but according 2 her im not right mentally, an her an her family wont let me c them now.. so i just gota keep a cool head an do things the right way.. which i was doing anyway. But any lil slip up an they use it against me . so to c your vids shows that this is happening day in day out.. an its the worst feeling an time ever.. i hope your ok yourself mate and ill take wat i got from your vids an try an use it to help me through this...
What reasons has she given, you don't have to pay if she is not giving you your rights, if you are self employed. Why pay to be abused
@@margem10001 i had my 2 boys here last tue. an they were dropped of 2 me tired an my 3 year old is a handful when hes tired. There names r Elijah n Gabriel. He wanted his tablet, which they didn give me. I tried 2 take them out but eli made a fuss, so we came back, i took gabe out the garden but eli didn want to an was crying for his mam, i tried to calm him down but wen hes like that its hard. So i was out the back an Elijah started banging the door crying, so i ran up 2 him, he peed himself. So i said right ill change u now its ok, i ran back dwn to gabe an hed found some discarded bottle of pop an was trying 2 drink it.. so i got it of him, ran bak up 2 the house an changed eli.. i then rang her mam an told her wat happened an they were disgusted by me.. an now they say i cant look after them an my mental health is to bad, so they dun feel the kids r safe.. no i will say, since she left me for this idiot in feb i have gone dwnhill, ive been drinking heavily an yeah my head as gone a bit Martin, but i know wat im doing an i love an adore my kids more than anything! An wud never put them in any harm. but according 2 her an her family im unstable. Even though it coz of my x im like this. shes lied about wat ive done an made me look bad. Im so depressed. Its so hard knowing ive lost her, but to stop me seing my kids is the worst pain ive ever felt. I feel absolutely useless an discarded. all her family have turned there back on me an theve taken this new guy in without a care. he lives with my x now an there engaged only after 4 months. An im here all alone.. every day now is tough coz he around my kids more than me now. but i need 2 rise above it an just b a good example 2 my kids.. i tell them i love them every day mart an god knows i do. But i just feel like ive lost everything..
@@margem10001 also... i lost my dad 2 covid last October. I lost my mam in January 2 a heart attack. Then i lost jess. ,(the x) end of February.. now ive lost my kids.. an her family wonder why im struggling.. ive lost so much martin... then shes saying lies an the most hurtfull of things 2 me like u wont bealive.. saying my son doesn't ask about me anymore, she was only with me to have babies, she hopes i have a sad lonely life coz its all i deserve?? Wtf like.. i was never! Nasty or aggressive or anything like that to her.. i loved her.. i still do.. but the things she has said an done is unreal.. id b here all day telling u.. shes a narcissist c, so shes done nothing wrong, its all my fault.. its taken its toll on me... an i just dont know wat 2 do anymore...
I was never given a chance to meet my son even though I got access in court
Again no justice good enough to pay not good enough to share wrong I feel your pain