ISTJ vs ENFP relationships - Alone time, biggest fight, texting habits, dates | ON THE FLOOR EP 2

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 21 มี.ค. 2023
  • In this episode, we compare the relationship dynamic between a couple with both ISTJ personality types and a couple with both ENFP personality types.
    0:30 Intro
    1:45 Get to know our guests
    3:50 Today's topic: MBTI & Relationships
    4:59 ENFP vs ISTJ description
    10:22 Work personality type
    13:19 S.O. vs Best Friend?
    15:03 Texting habits
    18:07 Emotional Oranges story
    21:16 Group chats
    22:11 Texting habits (continued)
    23:41 How often do you need your alone time? (E vs I)
    27:30 Do you think you know what your partner is feeling/thinking? (N vs S)
    29:57 Arguments/Fights (F vs T)
    35:40 Planning dates (P vs J)
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ความคิดเห็น • 67

  • @user-us4eu4lg7i
    @user-us4eu4lg7i ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Your friends story about going to the concert, I feel like its the both of them not communicating. She didn't feel she needed to inform him and he didn't care to ask her about her day or night or whatever. Since they have made it a habit to not need to tell each other things, weather the things are big or small, that's just what happened. It's on the both of them to make effort in communicating. Asking how and what you did in your day is part of communicating.

  • @ratchl
    @ratchl ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I love the concept of this video! It’s really creative!
    And I can’t believe both couples have the same MBTI 🤯🤯

  • @annatran5817
    @annatran5817 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    5th letter stands for your identity, either being (A)ssertive (stable, assured) or (T)urbulent (vulnerable, insecure) !!

  • @bayleememphis
    @bayleememphis ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i love how vulnerable the guests are around minute 30 - appreciate how this podcast feels like i'm sitting w friends having a conversation about relationships. everyone is so different!

  • @itsjocex33
    @itsjocex33 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really loving how much we’re getting to know you and June through these podcasts!

  • @CharlottesSkye
    @CharlottesSkye ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my goodness I relate so much to June - as a strong ENFP i so enjoyed this conversation! Happy your podcast is back 💖

  • @kevinchiu3869
    @kevinchiu3869 ปีที่แล้ว

    stumbled upon your channel and am loving the content! as a single ENFP with a lot of relationship baggage it's cool to hear other ENFPs share their stories and also hear the flip side to it as well

  • @michyo17
    @michyo17 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    love the matching outfits - whether they were planned or not 🖤!

  • @wynettelim6628
    @wynettelim6628 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love your podcast Esther and June! Was so insightful to get different perspectives and just interesting to listen to! Love it!! Listened to every word and even went back if I missed something hahaha 😂👍🏼

  • @hkcharmer
    @hkcharmer ปีที่แล้ว

    loved listening in on this, it was nice to hear abt other couples’ relationships and also reflect on my own haha

  • @Handlebarnpc
    @Handlebarnpc ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Interesting topic to discuss Esther. Im glad that you recorded this as opposed to just making a podcast with no film!

  • @hchung155
    @hchung155 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Love it with guests appearing on it! Altho I wish it was more than once a month :😪

  • @vicherahean212
    @vicherahean212 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yayy! I love this podcast so much!! ❤

  • @nt4075
    @nt4075 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's such a learning/mind opening experience listening to other people/couple's perspective on relationships, fight styles, habits, etc. There's always something you don't think about or think differently about because of culture or experience. More of this please :)

  • @Matchalemoncake12345
    @Matchalemoncake12345 ปีที่แล้ว

    So glad your podcast is back ❤

  • @melmel123000m
    @melmel123000m ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So happy for your podcasts❤

  • @Ricky-Ricardo82
    @Ricky-Ricardo82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an entertaining interview and discussion on these MBTI types. I discovered your channel through the TH-cam algorithm. Fascinating!👋👋👋

  • @joannacao
    @joannacao ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such an interesting topic, I always see people speaking about their individual MBTI types, but this is the first time I've seen people compare pairings/couples ! loved listening to this ❤

  • @zethumteto3159
    @zethumteto3159 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great episode 👏 thank you for a wonderful conversation❤

  • @Yu_yu1990
    @Yu_yu1990 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a great episode❤ thanks for sharing!!!

  • @ely4062
    @ely4062 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like these conversations.. thank you for posting it on YT

  • @keinname212
    @keinname212 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loooove this podcast!! Keep it up❤

  • @Michovichh
    @Michovichh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s 5am in the morning listening it half sleepy loving it 🥰

  • @Coco.mg125
    @Coco.mg125 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think ENFP and ENFJs are the most reserved/introverted extrovert types. So you guys are still extroverts just more reserved.

  • @Ghost-sz7uo
    @Ghost-sz7uo ปีที่แล้ว

    these episodes are the best.

  • @marigoldmanlosa5424
    @marigoldmanlosa5424 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waited for your vlog this week :)

  • @laurahimesekai
    @laurahimesekai ปีที่แล้ว

    Im ESFP and my husband is INTP. I love this combo sooo much! ❤ Usually i also count on horoscope signs that also change for example 2 same type.

  • @lyrapedernal
    @lyrapedernal 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for posting Esther! It was nice hearing all of your thoughts. I believe the fifth letter for MBTI is A and T. A = Assertive and T = Turbulent.

  • @connie0613
    @connie0613 ปีที่แล้ว

    17:07!! Ahh! Spot on, on the productive part

  • @jennyk88
    @jennyk88 ปีที่แล้ว

    favorite podcast 🫶

  • @hsiaochihsiaochi
    @hsiaochihsiaochi ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Literally can’t stop smiling for some reason😂

    • @kji459
      @kji459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      sameee xD

  • @Michonce
    @Michonce ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I resonate with June so much lmao. Talking about your enneagrams would also be super interesting! Could explain why you’re all different despite having the same MBTI

    • @ByKristyLin
      @ByKristyLin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes i find enneagram to be a great companion to MBTI

    • @AnnaLin
      @AnnaLin ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayeeee!!

  • @ruth-uy9hb
    @ruth-uy9hb ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Esther, I love your videos!
    From, a Korean American college student who looks up to you 😌💓

  • @ByKristyLin
    @ByKristyLin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Last letter stands for Assertive vs. Turbulent! I have met couples that have the same MBTI but the last letter is "opposite"

  • @lilita937
    @lilita937 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The last letter is A and T for assertive and turbulent

  • @simplyellenxo95
    @simplyellenxo95 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yaaaas you go girl!

  • @gmsk1
    @gmsk1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very clear the girls are more considerate of other people's time. Doesn't matter if it's strangers or friends when it comes to valuing other people's time!

  • @nanaoduro1193
    @nanaoduro1193 ปีที่แล้ว

    so wholesome!

  • @yee2minty
    @yee2minty ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm an INFJ and have not changed since my college days in 2018!! Haha~~ I try to take different ones every year and never strayed.. will see if this year I am the same or if I have changed. :P

  • @iamichelle
    @iamichelle ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m really into mbti so these kind of videos are interesting to watch. I’m an istp and it’s pretty spot on for me

  • @nisarap.6695
    @nisarap.6695 ปีที่แล้ว

    really love the way of ISTJ couple

  • @trami7056
    @trami7056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I‘m really looking forward for new podcast episodes… it’s so relaxing to listen to 🥹🫶🏼

  • @poundsuspect
    @poundsuspect ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I’m just wondering if you’re gonna post these new EPs on other platforms?? Anyway, love listening to your podcast!❤

    • @phoebe9471
      @phoebe9471 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes pls post on spotify 😢

    • @hchung155
      @hchung155 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And apple!

    • @jf2306
      @jf2306 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spotify pls

  • @miandryy
    @miandryy ปีที่แล้ว

    Love love this 🤍

  • @joanmichel
    @joanmichel ปีที่แล้ว

    im more like Jun, sharing my everyday details 😂 thought i was the only one 😅

  • @florencesitu8798
    @florencesitu8798 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why is the spotify link still not available? I would love to listen on spotify!!

  • @becca873
    @becca873 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm and ENFP too! I'm curious what your enneagrams are.

  • @soph1175
    @soph1175 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “Sh-she can’t just be a happy person?” HAHAHAHAH

  • @kellykelz_23
    @kellykelz_23 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the link so I can take the test?

  • @Skinnypnny
    @Skinnypnny ปีที่แล้ว

    I always thought Esther and June are an I!!! But wow they are an E 😮 eventho I’m an I, in terms of relationship I prefer doing things with my bf like I prefer time with him, but I can do all things alone as well 😅

  • @alejandromarquez9368
    @alejandromarquez9368 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Cute couple podcast

  • @nataliebulaun9097
    @nataliebulaun9097 ปีที่แล้ว

    are these podcasts on spotify?

  • @ElmoTinker
    @ElmoTinker ปีที่แล้ว

    My husband and I are both ENTJ lol I don't know what to make of it, but it's a good time nonetheless 😂

  • @est.stella
    @est.stella ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m INTJ and my boyfriend is ENFP completely the opposite but we don’t feel it that much, there are aspect in his life where he need an INTJ and I have aspect in my life where I need ENFP. How come y’all have that calm friendly voice?

  • @votolatodiaries
    @votolatodiaries ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So my husband and I are the exact opposites like the couples here: I'm an INTJ and he is a ENFP. I'd LOVE to see you guys dissect our fights. We are very open and don't mind being vulnerable so I think it would be a good segment for your listeners! You can get a taste of our relationship on our channel!!

  • @ajadegirl
    @ajadegirl ปีที่แล้ว

    so cutee

  • @melvinchessy
    @melvinchessy ปีที่แล้ว

    Lord it's me again :-)

  • @AnnaLin
    @AnnaLin ปีที่แล้ว

    Hahah totally get the ENFP folks 😂😂

  • @krm355
    @krm355 ปีที่แล้ว

    💓

  • @user-cm1fg7qr9q
    @user-cm1fg7qr9q ปีที่แล้ว

    👀❣️

  • @aliciasalenga3490
    @aliciasalenga3490 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Listened to this on my way to work!! 🫶🏼🤍