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When I was a teenager, someone told me, "women love a man who can cook". So I learned everything I could about food and cooking and over time I was able to cook gourmet meals. But it didn't make women love me or respect me, instead, they became competitive, envious and critical. Even my girlfriends grandmother was envious and not in a good way. Envy is not the same as respect. Anyway, the same is true for anything that I work hard at, I am also an artist and musician, and I get the same types of jealousy, envy, competition, put downs, etc. Now I play music and paint for myself by myself in my studio, I don't show anyone my work or music and if I have to cook for someone it's hot dog's and mac n cheese.
Its sad when u have to hide what your good at. I'm just realizing that I intimidate my friends. Ive been told recently by a few of them. Made me feel awful. I don't want to intimate or be envied.
I think us artists cannot be truly an artist without an audience. If we just do these great things for our eyes only, does our art truly exist? Put it out there :) I think we need an audience - both critics and admirers. Whether we do good or bad, people are going to say something anyway :) Please know that I don't mean to impose anything to you btw :) if that happens again, maybe just "well, I haven't seen a hater do better than me, so...." then shrug it off hahahahahaha to trigger them even more Jokes aside, I know you figure it out ;)
Listen young man wait for the right woman she will adore you because you are such an excellent cook just have to wait for the right woman that encourages you
@@qry29 Yes, I have struggled with not having an audience. I have begun to realize though, that I am using things that God already created to make my art. God is the best audience and my aim is to please God.
Experienced a lot of this growing up and I never understood why. All I ever did was what came naturally. So I never understood envy or jealousy from someone, and I never felt it towards anyone either. Even if someone has something and I don't, I'm happy for them to have it, even I wish it for myself. But envy, jealousy? No.
true. there's this cousin i have and she has a boyfriend who gives her everything to the pt she doesnt have to work anymore and she got to have her own in her mid20s!!! but she chose to ruin my life and meddle with our family issues that she isnt directly affected by!!!
Even if rumors spread...who cares...the ones spreading the rumors are lacking...if people want to spend all their money on drugs alcohol and party time....well...can't make them stop but you are headed the wrong path...everyone has to wake up on their own.
"It is not the one who talks the loudest who is the bravest." - Chinese proverb. In my experience loud talk can be a cover for fear, particularly fear someone doesn't want to admit even exists.
you forgot naturally above average in intelligence and a hard hard worker. lol we're almost perfect aren't we except almost always we have debilitating mental health issues ahahahha
@@tanziel123 Ti-- makes one intelligent and think for themselves. Se--makes one a hard worker. Well, of course that depends on the maturity of the individual. So you're above comment won't be completely true as well :D
@@redefinedliving5974 you might be intelligent in your area of knowledge, the knowledge only human mind dared to explore and of the knowing, to think your all knowing can be a foolish mistake.. although there is some truth to your answer that is only to certain areas until the new information is explored and absorbed.
Someone told me like I am the sweetest fruit in the tree and that most people are envious of me. I wonder why when I am just an ordinary woman. But then yeah, most of the time I am alone, and I prefer it that way. Serenity over bad company.
I’ve been in a quandary for decades because I just couldn’t get my head around the fact people are viciously jealous of me to the point of causing my life misery , chaos and loss whilst they laugh . Why would a human do this to another was my constant question and I’m only now just starting to know why . The thing of it is though is the fact I couldn’t stop this jealousy even if I knew myself deeper because of the many ways I’ve tried to avoid such trouble before ( never underestimate the power and manipulation of others plus they’re stupidity) was always on my mind too . I put everything into play to have things go forward as simple as possible only for others to screw things up , even when I kept quiet and did it all myself ( 95% of the time ) others would creep in and yep take credit or try plus even by that act alone would destroy the hard work ……I truly dislike people , why they don’t get up and get a life is beyond me or why others didn’t stop , but rather encourage them is farther beyond my scope of understanding……help !
you know what even the sweetest person can't help but be jealous i don't understand!!!! now, i have this experience where i am a small fish in the big sea. however, fellow contractors are the ones who get jealous and isolate me lol lol lol but i think thats the key, surround ourselves with quality and confident people
This has consistently been my experience. I don’t have answers just higher than ever boundaries and a zero tolerance for games, manipulation, coercion or nonsense. I’ve come to learn that most people behave like children, are entitled and truly believe that they are owed what others have worked hard for. It’s interesting being in a ecosystem of consumption when your default is to be self sufficient and expansive.
My issue currently is I have too many! Its very hard to have your presence be wanted and needed by all of them. Most all I am loved by but some get hurt when I dissappear to another where I'm needed more. I didn't realize my friendship meant soo much to some of them. Got to keep in touch more ig when I dissappear.
I make haters all the time, and I love it, I'm the baddest Dude wherever I go and always ready to throw down in a fight if someone thinks they can beat me
I think it doesn't matter your personality type; the world is overcrowded with jealous, competitive and narcissist people even in the most humble and low-paid job, family or friendenemies. That's why humankind will colapse; there is no notion of community. All against all; there is not an species as harmful as humans...well, maybe rats or roaches.
They envy the infj because they can't be one lol. Also confidence. Infjs confidence is like a bomb that explodes in a room and their aura lights up the room turning heads. Infj men will attract women with less or no effort at all, and the women will want and try to get the infjs attention.....infj men are so cold, they don't even give the women attention or ignore them period.
People say i have stone heart and stone mind to make me down. But i know who i am, and i am the one who take care of me and knew me well. So who are them? Being envied not really good because as far as we realize friend becomes enemy as a toxic individual. It's fine have no one to hold at least not giving wound to anyone like they did, we deserve to be better every day without take anything from any body.
@@theresefournier3269 thank you, i think i never met someone who understand me, and it's not big problem because i knew people have their on life to take care of hehehe.. 🤗
@@emiralandcluster5571 Emira? Soon, you will be delighted to see a whole new and different world. One that will understand and suit you, just fine! It does begin, as you can imagine, within!
I wouldn't say I'm too hard to get, I'm just not easily impressed with clout and materialism. I've never felt the need to hide who I am, people just worked over time to bury me with slander using nasty ass untrue words and rumors.
Ha ha ha. The black sheep, the one that gleefully call out the stains on others' coats. Neither answer to or spoken for, our words are heed with caution and fear.
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏😁 I’m learning so much about my personality and how vital it is to maintain STRONG BOUNDARIES 24/7 to lower the risk of being damaged by selfish and toxic people. After years of suffering with this personality and now knowing what personality type I am I can turn this CURSE into a BLESSING and look forward to a brighter future ! 💝🌸💖 NZ
I'm cool with having friends but if a particular environment has no decent people I will hang by myself. People must be genuinely good people to hang. I can't stand to be around them otherwise. I'm not saying that to be mean it's just I'm a human personality detector. I figure people out quickly and as such I can't deal with a fake person.
Yes I have difficulty talking long speeches as a INFJ because I’m a straightforward person that can only say one word or sentence that make sense, I can’t do storytelling when I don’t understand the things that they are saying but when one of my friend say it, I can rather go to sleep, and I will forget what’s it all about
I’m all 10, but number #1 no kidding I’m very patent, non confrontational I have literally avoidance personality when it comes conflict. But when I reach my reaching point all heel breaks lose. The older I get the more I don’t fuck f* about people’s feeling” anyone that treats wrong always regrets that they ever cross my path. Don’t forget INJS are very kind yet can become very vindictive 😂😂😂 😂😂😂I’m like don’t let my dark side come out
Wow. I can`t find words to thank you for sharing this video. ..... This is my story , my traits , my capabilities, the people I get to deal with ......The video helps me understand the reason why people get envious and try every possible way to bring me down.
@@zoinaz4866 yes they do as long as they believe in him for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
How to be invisible to others? To make them feel that nothing about you is interesting, that is the question?! As a sigma Infj, all I need is a peaceful life far away from toxic people...
Lord Jesus 🙌🏽 this video was on POINT 🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽 I have been going through all of this and being envied for a very long time….. thank you 🙏🏽 for this one ☝🏽 💕🙏🏽
Please hate me tell me i am bad person please dont see me .i defeat advocate in courts they never arguments with i never no i never think bad for anyone i want give happiness to peoples woh sad i see they i never live themselves alone if someone is not happy then i come for them when they happy and raced their life then my job is done
i feel sad why there so many people who hate.. let people alone.. let people be happy.. if you are different find your owns ways .. find your own happiness .. don't make difficult life of others just because they are happy and you are not .. for some people some things are more eats .. but doesn't mean they have difficulties to maybe they show the difficulties' in other ways .. i mean people should let people be alone and let them be happy .. if someone is better than you in some things doesn't mean that you can be good in other things
I have always encountered jealous coworkers. I didn't know how to handle them back in the day, now I am firm with my words, and don't care what they say or do. I stay the course!
When I lost my daughter (age 22) I was grateful for having Her that long, Though I miss Her daily , I really would have traded places with Her if I was given the option to do so. I believe we are Born for a reason and purpose and I hope it is fulfilled, so I wont have to come back to this dreadful planet. The New Heaven and New earth will far exceed all expectations on what is to come. Glory be given to God threw Jesus Christ.!!!
With all due respect, not all of the facts are right. Some of them are, but not all of them. You're simply describing "Sigma Males" not "Sigms INFJ's". There is a difference in these two. I am a Sigma INFJ. I know that even all of the INFJ's are not same, but some of these characteristics are of Sigma males not INFJ's. For example: Yes we don't need others for us to be happy, but sometimes we do want to be someone who understands us, want to be with us. We don't want to be alone, what we want is to be with someone who respects our alone time, who respects our boundaries, share our vision and not just some amateur who thinks attraction as love. But we "choose" to stay alone alone and pursue our goals until we find someone like that. There are some more facts that needs to be reconsidered. Please Look into that.
the advice to that i would give to people that want to be as “contented” … is any happiness that comes from outside of yourself can be confiscated from you . pleasure comes from outside , fulfillment comes from within . Build your inner peace/world/happiness , and watch how quick simply wearing a smile in a world of straight faces will attract you greater opportunities than most are ready to receive 🌹
I hate it when you go to a Christmas party, an occasion you attend rarely in your lifetime together with your friends and you expect all your friends to be enjoying, all the attention is supposed to be with your friends, and here you are super excited to be with them, and you noticed that one of your friends constantly checks her phone, she seems out of the circle, not fully enjoying...her constant focus is on her phone and you feel disappointed that this party is somehow incomplete because one of your pals decided to prioritise her textmate (who knows who was that)..... I hate people who I consider friends who do not know how to enjoy the moment as one group. Friendship is destroyed when a friend prioritises her textmate, boyfriend more than you. Nothing wrong there though, but please don't ruin your moments together with your friends by always having your attention somewhere else. This is really my pet peeve! It's okay if the matter is an emergency but textmating on a happy ocassion?!!! WTH!!!!
Good thing we stay away from that sort of stuff, why do call them friends anyway hard for us to understand, I like to be alone and when I want to party I go down to the national park or am empty beach for a walk alone so peaceful of a party , if I go to those parties you talking about I actually feel alone around those people and it can so noisy
A word *"fitly"* spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver Proverbs 25:11 The theory of everything/God is all in all/the first and the last/the beginning and the end The preparations of the heart in man'kind and the answer of the tongue is from the LORD Proverbs 16:1 The lot is cast into the lap but the whole disposing thereof is of the LORD Proverbs 16:33 Who makes us wiser than the birds? Be wise as serpents & harmless as doves Be you of an understanding heart In all your getting, get understanding for she will keep you Those that have, more will be added unto them from those that do not have Who is as the wise man? & who knows the interpretation of a thing? a man's wisdom makes his face to shine & the boldness of his face shall be changed Ecclesiastes 8:1 He who has the mind of Christ, what is it that he does not know? Whoknowssuchthings?!?!?!? idonthavaklue
"self-sabotaging sounds like another method fanzzz(like I'm going like why am I doing this like this isn't even make any sense whatsoever I know like why am I painting a tree there it is right there like where I'm a painting it it's right there paint the freaking tree)
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00:22 10 Their self-control is impressive
01:17 09 They're difficult to manipulate
01:59 08 They are fine on their own
03:00 07 They are naturally dominating
03:58 06 They are hard to get
05:00 05 They won't care what others say
05:58 04 They are grateful despite their hardships
06:49 03 They can handle an argument with grace
07:38 02 They can work with less supervision
08:35 01 They talk less yet are the most convincing
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When I was a teenager, someone told me, "women love a man who can cook". So I learned everything I could about food and cooking and over time I was able to cook gourmet meals. But it didn't make women love me or respect me, instead, they became competitive, envious and critical. Even my girlfriends grandmother was envious and not in a good way. Envy is not the same as respect. Anyway, the same is true for anything that I work hard at, I am also an artist and musician, and I get the same types of jealousy, envy, competition, put downs, etc. Now I play music and paint for myself by myself in my studio, I don't show anyone my work or music and if I have to cook for someone it's hot dog's and mac n cheese.
Its sad when u have to hide what your good at. I'm just realizing that I intimidate my friends. Ive been told recently by a few of them. Made me feel awful. I don't want to intimate or be envied.
I think us artists cannot be truly an artist without an audience. If we just do these great things for our eyes only, does our art truly exist?
Put it out there :) I think we need an audience - both critics and admirers. Whether we do good or bad, people are going to say something anyway :)
Please know that I don't mean to impose anything to you btw :)
if that happens again, maybe just "well, I haven't seen a hater do better than me, so...." then shrug it off hahahahahaha to trigger them even more
Jokes aside, I know you figure it out ;)
Listen young man wait for the right woman she will adore you because you are such an excellent cook just have to wait for the right woman that encourages you
@@christinajanejulian6645 Haha! I'm not such a young man anymore but, thank you very much for the encouraging and kind words.
@@qry29 Yes, I have struggled with not having an audience. I have begun to realize though, that I am using things that God already created to make my art. God is the best audience and my aim is to please God.
Experienced a lot of this growing up and I never understood why. All I ever did was what came naturally. So I never understood envy or jealousy from someone, and I never felt it towards anyone either. Even if someone has something and I don't, I'm happy for them to have it, even I wish it for myself. But envy, jealousy? No.
true. there's this cousin i have and she has a boyfriend who gives her everything to the pt she doesnt have to work anymore and she got to have her own in her mid20s!!! but she chose to ruin my life and meddle with our family issues that she isnt directly affected by!!!
Same.
Why be jealous when you can just make friends with them and they will let you borrow it once they trust you
Even if rumors spread...who cares...the ones spreading the rumors are lacking...if people want to spend all their money on drugs alcohol and party time....well...can't make them stop but you are headed the wrong path...everyone has to wake up on their own.
Lone Wolf...you NAILED it
"It is not the one who talks the loudest who is the bravest." - Chinese proverb. In my experience loud talk can be a cover for fear, particularly fear someone doesn't want to admit even exists.
My dad always said, the empty box always rattles the loudest.
@@maggiewatte7911 He was right.
So to the point, all my life have been envied, even by siblings. You get use to it.
Accurate 👍, idealist/empathetic at heart + realist at mind = sigma infj
you forgot naturally above average in intelligence and a hard hard worker. lol we're almost perfect aren't we except almost always we have debilitating mental health issues ahahahha
@@redefinedliving5974 I wouldn't agree completely to that, since it's subjective
@@tanziel123 Ti-- makes one intelligent and think for themselves. Se--makes one a hard worker. Well, of course that depends on the maturity of the individual. So you're above comment won't be completely true as well :D
@@redefinedliving5974 you might be intelligent in your area of knowledge, the knowledge only human mind dared to explore and of the knowing, to think your all knowing can be a foolish mistake.. although there is some truth to your answer that is only to certain areas until the new information is explored and absorbed.
Someone told me like I am the sweetest fruit in the tree and that most people are envious of me. I wonder why when I am just an ordinary woman. But then yeah, most of the time I am alone, and I prefer it that way. Serenity over bad company.
Absolutely. Its sad because after all we want the best for everyone
I’ve been in a quandary for decades because I just couldn’t get my head around the fact people are viciously jealous of me to the point of causing my life misery , chaos and loss whilst they laugh . Why would a human do this to another was my constant question and I’m only now just starting to know why .
The thing of it is though is the fact I couldn’t stop this jealousy even if I knew myself deeper because of the many ways I’ve tried to avoid such trouble before ( never underestimate the power and manipulation of others plus they’re stupidity) was always on my mind too . I put everything into play to have things go forward as simple as possible only for others to screw things up , even when I kept quiet and did it all myself ( 95% of the time ) others would creep in and yep take credit or try plus even by that act alone would destroy the hard work ……I truly dislike people , why they don’t get up and get a life is beyond me or why others didn’t stop , but rather encourage them is farther beyond my scope of understanding……help !
you know what even the sweetest person can't help but be jealous i don't understand!!!!
now, i have this experience where i am a small fish in the big sea. however, fellow contractors are the ones who get jealous and isolate me lol lol lol but i think thats the key, surround ourselves with quality and confident people
This has consistently been my experience. I don’t have answers just higher than ever boundaries and a zero tolerance for games, manipulation, coercion or nonsense.
I’ve come to learn that most people behave like children, are entitled and truly believe that they are owed what others have worked hard for. It’s interesting being in a ecosystem of consumption when your default is to be self sufficient and expansive.
I feel the same so ur not alone!
It sounds like something you want to be.
Until you realize how deep the rabbit hole goes....😅🤣🤷🏾♂️
well said....
It's a real struggle lol but it's also very empowering. As a true enigmatic INFJ, I find such solace and strength in that rabbit hole lol
as a sigma INFJ there are one type of people that absolutely despise me..... the insecure.
Like they said there is no cure for that one, along with stupidity too lol
ENvied and targeted
Envy is the most I deal with. And then they project their own jealousy onto me 🙄 yes
I think it's better to be alone forever
This is the reason why we have no (or very few) friends ;)
Even one brings such gratitude and is so eternally appreciated!
My issue currently is I have too many! Its very hard to have your presence be wanted and needed by all of them. Most all I am loved by but some get hurt when I dissappear to another where I'm needed more. I didn't realize my friendship meant soo much to some of them. Got to keep in touch more ig when I dissappear.
True
Being sigma is great, being INFJ , well it does have its cons - but still wouldn't change a thing!
I make haters all the time, and I love it, I'm the baddest Dude wherever I go and always ready to throw down in a fight if someone thinks they can beat me
Be careful out there. There will always be someone badder that you.
When as an infj not finding anyone to understand u as much as this channel do! So grateful for the presenter to ask questions after each section ❤👏
I think it doesn't matter your personality type; the world is overcrowded with jealous, competitive and narcissist people even in the most humble and low-paid job, family or friendenemies. That's why humankind will colapse; there is no notion of community.
All against all; there is not an species as harmful as humans...well, maybe rats or roaches.
Me an INFJ who wonders why everyone calls me a Dominant cold woman: *perfect*
They envy the infj because they can't be one lol. Also confidence. Infjs confidence is like a bomb that explodes in a room and their aura lights up the room turning heads. Infj men will attract women with less or no effort at all, and the women will want and try to get the infjs attention.....infj men are so cold, they don't even give the women attention or ignore them period.
People say i have stone heart and stone mind to make me down. But i know who i am, and i am the one who take care of me and knew me well. So who are them? Being envied not really good because as far as we realize friend becomes enemy as a toxic individual. It's fine have no one to hold at least not giving wound to anyone like they did, we deserve to be better every day without take anything from any body.
I hear you!
Yes, being envied is not the same as being respected.
@@humbull true 💯🤗
@@theresefournier3269 thank you, i think i never met someone who understand me, and it's not big problem because i knew people have their on life to take care of hehehe.. 🤗
@@emiralandcluster5571 Emira? Soon, you will be delighted to see a whole new and different world. One that will understand and suit you, just fine! It does begin, as you can imagine, within!
I wouldn't say I'm too hard to get, I'm just not easily impressed with clout and materialism. I've never felt the need to hide who I am, people just worked over time to bury me with slander using nasty ass untrue words and rumors.
Ha ha ha. The black sheep, the one that gleefully call out the stains on others' coats. Neither answer to or spoken for, our words are heed with caution and fear.
Our words are really heeded with caution and fear.
Thank you so much for sharing 🙏😁 I’m learning so much about my personality and how vital it is to maintain STRONG BOUNDARIES 24/7 to lower the risk of being damaged by selfish and toxic people. After years of suffering with this personality and now knowing what personality type I am I can turn this CURSE into a BLESSING and look forward to a brighter future ! 💝🌸💖 NZ
Ah I come here to stroke my ego feels good, now back to reality :(
I'm cool with having friends but if a particular environment has no decent people I will hang by myself. People must be genuinely good people to hang. I can't stand to be around them otherwise. I'm not saying that to be mean it's just I'm a human personality detector. I figure people out quickly and as such I can't deal with a fake person.
I am who I am 😁
As an INFJ, I am grateful for your vids, thanks for mentioning spirituality , it is so important for my stability
Yes I have difficulty talking long speeches as a INFJ because I’m a straightforward person that can only say one word or sentence that make sense, I can’t do storytelling when I don’t understand the things that they are saying but when one of my friend say it, I can rather go to sleep, and I will forget what’s it all about
I’m all 10, but number #1 no kidding
I’m very patent, non confrontational
I have literally avoidance personality when it comes conflict. But when I reach my reaching point all heel breaks lose. The older I get the more I don’t fuck f* about people’s feeling” anyone that treats wrong always regrets that they ever cross my path. Don’t forget INJS are very kind yet can become very vindictive 😂😂😂 😂😂😂I’m like don’t let my dark side come out
Yes, I don’t need anyone to make me happy and I’ve been called “dominant” before
Wow. I can`t find words to thank you for sharing this video. ..... This is my story , my traits , my capabilities, the people I get to deal with ......The video helps me understand the reason why people get envious and try every possible way to bring me down.
Peace, rest, contentment, is only found in Jesus Christ.
INFJs have the love of Jesus 🤦🏻♀️
@@zoinaz4866 yes they do as long as they believe in him for God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
@@ChuckBrowntheClown I AM NOTHING WITHOUT JESUS CHRIST AND YES I STRONGLY AGREE!!!!
@@zoinaz4866 Amen brother!
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How to be invisible to others? To make them feel that nothing about you is interesting, that is the question?! As a sigma Infj, all I need is a peaceful life far away from toxic people...
Awe man same….
Hope your doing better now 🍀
I don't care what you think of me....I don't think of you at all....Coco Chanel.
Lord Jesus 🙌🏽 this video was on POINT 🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽🥰🙏🏽 I have been going through all of this and being envied for a very long time….. thank you 🙏🏽 for this one ☝🏽 💕🙏🏽
The same here. My thoughts in your words are these.
@@ChitraJayawardena 🙌🏽🙏🏽💕
This is definitely one of the best videos that I have ever seen. Thank you very much.
How can I be envied when I barely socialize with anyone ?
Please hate me tell me i am bad person please dont see me .i defeat advocate in courts they never arguments with i never no i never think bad for anyone i want give happiness to peoples woh sad i see they i never live themselves alone if someone is not happy then i come for them when they happy and raced their life then my job is done
i feel sad why there so many people who hate.. let people alone.. let people be happy.. if you are different find your owns ways .. find your own happiness .. don't make difficult life of others just because they are happy and you are not .. for some people some things are more eats .. but doesn't mean they have difficulties to maybe they show the difficulties' in other ways .. i mean people should let people be alone and let them be happy .. if someone is better than you in some things doesn't mean that you can be good in other things
Envied or hated on? Either way bring it
I've learned if your happy and you know it don't you dare let anyone know. Say very little, trust even less.
I have always encountered jealous coworkers. I didn't know how to handle them back in the day, now I am firm with my words, and don't care what they say or do. I stay the course!
Be quiet,, wery wery quiet...
does not work, they will come then:))
#SigmaINFJ Thank You, God Bless You! Shalom 💖🙏😇
Huge mistake underestimating us .
Indeed.
Blows my mind how accurate this stuff is...spooky 😳😁
The billowing wind, the gentle air, and the storm. 3 in 1. Toast to INFJs.
We are still aware of our flaws anyways.
When I lost my daughter (age 22) I was grateful for having Her that long, Though I miss Her daily , I really would have traded places with Her if I was given the option to do so. I believe we are Born for a reason and purpose and I hope it is fulfilled, so I wont have to come back to this dreadful planet. The New Heaven and New earth will far exceed all expectations on what is to come. Glory be given to God threw Jesus Christ.!!!
They envy are rarity. 💁🏽♀️💎
What about the rarest of them all? The Sigma, INFJ with more than one 🦂scorpio🦂in their chart💥😎oh ya, and I have a Black Swan on my coat of Arms💥
🙋🏼♀️ scorpio moon and north node 😅
The rarest of them all?
Sigma Empath INFJ with High Functioning Autism & 25+ years Born Again Spiritual Christian. 😃👍
Yup, AWARE.. Bt, I Choose To IGNORE..
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With all due respect, not all of the facts are right. Some of them are, but not all of them. You're simply describing "Sigma Males" not "Sigms INFJ's". There is a difference in these two. I am a Sigma INFJ. I know that even all of the INFJ's are not same, but some of these characteristics are of Sigma males not INFJ's.
For example:
Yes we don't need others for us to be happy, but sometimes we do want to be someone who understands us, want to be with us. We don't want to be alone, what we want is to be with someone who respects our alone time, who respects our boundaries, share our vision and not just some amateur who thinks attraction as love. But we "choose" to stay alone alone and pursue our goals until we find someone like that.
There are some more facts that needs to be reconsidered. Please Look into that.
Jist remember who you are and love how God made you those who have a problem with you tell them to eat your dust
Story of my life
I’m always told, “Go have fun.” This is fun. Thank you 🎉❤
Yes, I prefer to be alone, and yes to all.
To thine owns elf be true.....
the advice to that i would give to people that want to be as “contented” … is any happiness that comes from outside of yourself can be confiscated from you . pleasure comes from outside , fulfillment comes from within . Build your inner peace/world/happiness , and watch how quick simply wearing a smile in a world of straight faces will attract you greater opportunities than most are ready to receive 🌹
Add this to my list of my traits.
I dont think i need No one to be Happy since beeing with someone Special and Talk about deep stuff makes me Happy...
this whole Video Apart of who I Am
Me too
I hate it when you go to a Christmas party, an occasion you attend rarely in your lifetime together with your friends and you expect all your friends to be enjoying, all the attention is supposed to be with your friends, and here you are super excited to be with them, and you noticed that one of your friends constantly checks her phone, she seems out of the circle, not fully enjoying...her constant focus is on her phone and you feel disappointed that this party is somehow incomplete because one of your pals decided to prioritise her textmate (who knows who was that)..... I hate people who I consider friends who do not know how to enjoy the moment as one group. Friendship is destroyed when a friend prioritises her textmate, boyfriend more than you. Nothing wrong there though, but please don't ruin your moments together with your friends by always having your attention somewhere else. This is really my pet peeve! It's okay if the matter is an emergency but textmating on a happy ocassion?!!! WTH!!!!
Good thing we stay away from that sort of stuff, why do call them friends anyway hard for us to understand, I like to be alone and when I want to party I go down to the national park or am empty beach for a walk alone so peaceful of a party , if I go to those parties you talking about I actually feel alone around those people and it can so noisy
Now I understand! Thanks for another great video
Truth 💯
I wonder why people envy me... I just don't have anything special.
Because you are what they're not.
Yes 👏🏻
How did I get here? I will never know. All I know is that, that's not me :D
Sup
😂😂😂😂😂 sounded so real
My advice... FO
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A word *"fitly"* spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver Proverbs 25:11
The theory of everything/God is all in all/the first and the last/the beginning and the end
The preparations of the heart in man'kind and the answer of the tongue is from the LORD Proverbs 16:1
The lot is cast into the lap but the whole disposing thereof is of the LORD
Proverbs 16:33
Who makes us wiser than the birds?
Be wise as serpents & harmless as doves
Be you of an understanding heart
In all your getting, get understanding
for she will keep you
Those that have, more will be added unto
them from those that do not have
Who is as the wise man? & who knows the interpretation of a thing? a man's wisdom makes his face to shine & the boldness of
his face shall be changed
Ecclesiastes 8:1
He who has the mind of Christ, what is it
that he does not know?
Whoknowssuchthings?!?!?!?
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You nailed it on the head
I'm INFJ.. That's all I know
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i can be having a nervous breakdown and people will comment how lucky i am. fml!!!
Yes this island is awesome population 1
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"self-sabotaging sounds like another method fanzzz(like I'm going like why am I doing this like this isn't even make any sense whatsoever I know like why am I painting a tree there it is right there like where I'm a painting it it's right there paint the freaking tree)