Fundamentals of ATTRACTION Explained ft.
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In the latest Episode of The Journey Within Podcast, We talk to Kshitij Sehrawat, a dating coach known for his TH-cam Channel & company 'Iron Man Lifestyle' that helps men date and be confident with girls. This Episode was rather distinct from all the other episodes on The Journey Within Podcast, we tried something new so please do give it a watch.
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00:00 INTRODUCTION
02:42 What is Attraction?
03:38 Men get Attracted like a switch.
04:03 People look for different things with age
05:08 Casual Dating vs Long term relationship
07:05 Asking marriage on first date is extreme
09:30 Commitment issues
10:30 When men feel used?
11:16 Women are always under fuckboys
14:49 How to not be out of league
16:24 All girls are not gold diggers
17:47 There is no league
21:34 You gotta try enough number of times
24:11 What should men do to hold a safe space for the women
25:30 Is it okay to change yourself for love
25:47 Kshitij in his 20s vs Now
30:05 How Kshitij helps men find love?
32:17 It is Personal Development
33:37 Do you believe in the idea of 50-50 responsibility
35:36 Top 3 red flags men see in women
38:14 Where does this 'I don't give a damn' attitude comes from?
40:16 Toxic Masculinity
40:49 What is Simp?
44:18 Love isn't about finding the perfect person
46:10 Kshitij's Client Story
47:10 Sacrifice goes hand in hand
51:17 Role of Spirituality in attracting the partners
56:02 Kshitij's Definition of success
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Between the start and end of this episode, i heard two honest people owing their story and sharing their experiences. We need more podcasts like this.
Thank you. I’m glad you resonated with it. It was an open minded, honest conversation. Hope you’re watching our other episodes too 🙏
Even I loved this conversation. Both shobha and kshitij sharing their life experiences with open mind..❤
Shobha ma'am, a big thankyou for inviting kshitij sherawat sir. He's my mentor and I'm his student and learn a lot of things from his TH-cam channel, although i enjoyed a lot and learn a lot of things from this podcast as well. Even i realised my mistake that I did in past while watching this wonderful podcast. It's full of life lessons so thank you for this & I'm forever grateful to you 🙏🏻
Just loved the episode. The episode felt real and honest and would love to get more relationship podcast which would guide us with such a deep understanding about psychology and relationship its really helpful for guys like me better understand 'relationships'
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It was refreshing to listen to this episode of the podcast. Such raw and authentic conversation is hard to find these days. Kudos to Shobha for creating an environment that encourages transparency and vulnerability.
Thank you Rajan. I’m glad you resonated with it. It was an open minded, honest conversation. Hope you’re watching our other episodes too 🙏
we need a book from Kshitij Sehrawat! What a man👏
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Smooth, natural and quite genuine kind of conversation. Conversations Sobha !!
Smooth, genuine and natural kind of conversation. Congratulations Sobha !!
was a insightful and ofc candid episode which gave a man's perspective.Please bring one such women's episode too!!!
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Excellent podcast...Kshitij you rock!!
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Shobha your talks sound so relatable ..god bless u for ypur natural feelings
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Finished watching this one 2. And I love the conversation. He is a genuine, honest guy. I don't know why some people just don't listen. Keep aside ur pre conceived notions and just learn..❤
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@@iamshobharana definetly i am gonna watch more. 1 by 1. 1 of the Best podcast, and u bring out the best out of every guest. Thats ur quality..best wishes keep it up..🤟😊
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He helped millions to change their life including me and seriously dodging lots of mental issues by learning more about women and world dynamics❤
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Amazing conversation for boys of 20 and 22 like me.😊
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This is a request : Can you make a video or podcast telling how young girls and women can be careful from men like the ones talked about in this podcast?
Thank you ❤
When did they talk about such men?
@@pranavp2345 The podcast is about how to become those men.
So true. Such a weird guy. I would also want to know how to identify such men and stay away from them
You asked really great questions by the way
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Thnku mam 🙏 i learned day by day ur podcast
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Marriage is a contract , Responsibility Not Entertainment. 😕
I recently following your channel. Your podcasts are worth watching. Please do a podcast with Karishma Ahuja.
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The podcast episode titled "Fundamentals of ATTRACTION Explained ft. Kshitij Sehrawat | TJW 61" delves into the complexities of attraction, dating, and relationships. The guest, Kshitij Sehrawat, shares insights and experiences on these topics, offering a perspective from the male point of view.
The conversation begins by exploring the nature of attraction, emphasizing the differences between how men and women experience it. According to Kshitij, men often experience attraction like a "light switch," an immediate and clear feeling, while women focus more on the conversation and build attraction over time, akin to adjusting a volume knob.
The discussion then shifts towards the dynamics of casual dating versus seeking a long-term partner. Kshitij suggests that casual dating can be a valuable exploration phase for individuals to understand their preferences and desires. However, he also warns against chronic casual dating if the ultimate goal is a serious, committed relationship.
Kshitij addresses the challenges of explicit communication in casual relationships, highlighting the potential mismatch of expectations. He shares personal experiences of dealing with commitment issues and the common scenario where one person in a casual relationship starts desiring more commitment, leading to potential conflicts.
The podcast touches on the evolving landscape of dating, with references to changing societal norms and the prevalence of online dating apps. Kshitij shares his perspective on how communication has shifted, citing examples of people explicitly stating their intentions on the first date to avoid misunderstandings later on.
Towards the end of the podcast, the host reflects on her own experiences, mentioning her limited dating experience due to being married early. She expresses her apprehensions about navigating the modern dating world, particularly through apps, after going through a divorce.
In conclusion, the episode offers a candid exploration of attraction, dating, and relationships, providing valuable insights from a male perspective. Kshitij Sehrawat's personal experiences and observations contribute to a nuanced discussion on the complexities of modern dating. The summary encapsulates the video's main points, however, for detailed understanding, watch the entire video.
Love guru for a single boys👍 Awesome show.
Hahaha. That’s one way to put it! I’m glad you enjoyed this episode. We have many podcasts on this channel. Hope you’ll watch them too 🙏
Two different personalities in one conversation. but mam ,I respect your though and ideology more
Thank u listening him rather than getting triggered n downplaying men's experience
Thanks for recognising that. I strongly believe that we shouldn’t invalidate anybody even if our thought processes are diametrically opposing. I genuinely feel that if we can put away our judgement, we will enforce better emotional & mental well-being for all, including our own self.
@@iamshobharana Yeah , I can see many women complaining in the comment section about his opinion on bad men n good men chances of getting girls 🤔 majority of women gets triggered or blame all men in generalization while being attracted to the same type of men again n again.
Insightful podcast 😊
Thanks Aishwarya. I’m glad you resonated with it. It was an open minded, honest conversation. Hope you’re watching our other episodes too 🙏
I feel sorry for his girlfriend! 😂😂😂
Interesting in this studio 🎙️ make it here Shobha
Liked the episode, but more of mens perspective is covered, need conversations around women's perspective as well
Thank you for watching. We have another episode from women’s perspective with relationship coach Ekta Dixit 😊
Seriously i am astonished you invited this person
I thought this channel talks about knowledgeable things
Seriously I also am baffled about the quality of this guest in such a podcast
Beautiful podcast. Came here for kshitij, stayed for Shobha. Great host.
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Mam bring Sarthak Goel, it's a humble request
We will try 🙏
@@iamshobharanathanks mam
well from the conversation it's really good to be honest for their prospective partner but does it work in real life?, people speaks more lie and hiding lot of thing specially when it comes to serious relationship like marriage, here I am not getting into any judgement.
Make a podcast on how to enhance speaking English and Vocabulary as yours...please think about this also...😊
पढ़ाई करो इनसे ज्यादा अच्छी इंग्लिश तुम्हारी हो जायेगी तुम्हे पॉडकास्ट की नहीं सही नियत की जरूरत है।
Hi. I’ll try to make an episode on it soon 🙏
@@creativeLife241 You're Right,but if there is tips and trick,it'll definitely helps everyone thats why.
@@iamshobharana plz ha
@@livelife9631 first start with good grammar & spelling book to learn any languages. Speaking comes with habit gradually & listening & reading books of that language.
30+ are saying how to attract girls, they did this and now podcasting with nothing have to do
What's bad in that?
The host is so smart
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The meaning of simp which he explained was wrong btw
as prakhar said kshitij is best
i love this video
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To be honest I have always seen this guy as ch*tiya but after listening to him with shobha, I have found out that whatever he says or does in his videos is for his profession only and has nothing to do with the individualistic personality as a whole. Has has a lot in his head and believe me guys you need to press the right switch to get the lights and who does that exceptionally. Most people read books just to flex but only a few people actually enjoy it and Kshitij is one of them. The way he describes Animal movie and Mark Manson about his Hidden Gem book was phenomenal. I'm sure most of us weren't aware by that. Applause shobha for asking right questions.
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Yes ,It is not love , I haven't seen you, First I will see then lust story start.
When I will no your behaviour, expression, thinking, vision, views about many topics,then I will able to know your soul, after that only love will start. I don't know how love in first sight is happening, without knowing soul , initially it is lust stories only. Person should say lust in Frist sight
Kshitij Brothaaa 🔥💗
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bro knows the basics but it nothing new under sun he said...shes not yours its just your turn..enjoy while it lasts
Itne ad daal rakhe h ki it pissed me off, closed it midway
He is really putting all efforts to you sobha , 😂
Amazing episode ❤
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Imagine ur family member under influence of a fuckboy, although guidance and attitude may be essential, we should always take guidance from Spiritual point of view, i think Kangna gave best answer on hookups.
Bahat hi achha tha❤but why we are not able to speak in Hindi 😢
We can but we keep it as it’s flowing. There are some episodes that are fully in Hindi and some are completely in English. We are also experimenting to see what work the best with our audiences.
@@iamshobharana Yeah it's fine I think you can connect more people if your Hinglish will be 70Hindi 30 English combination 😊Bdw it's up to you what's fit u the most,,, it's my personal opinion 🙏
There is no one in India to put seal on these and some podcaster .
I never met a girl who can give emotional support, the first one got turned down because i was emotional
I hope you find a good partner soon if that’s something you’re looking for 🙏
Boys cant be emotional that's fundamental
Not talking what's important.
How tall are you ma'am
Are we promoting dating and hookups in this 2024 generation.
I don’t know what words to put on here . Few people taking advantages of technology and social media .
Hookups ons bhot phele se hai india mai lagta hai aapko abhi pata chala hai
You invited Self-proclaimed 🍎 Alpha male😢😂
Social Status Definitely Matters In Real Life. Don't do hollow talks. 😂
Not interested in your podcast but I like kshitij that's why I am watching
Okay sir 🙏
@@iamshobharana 🙏🙏
He is 100/. Right 👍watever he said no matter Girls may not like this truth 😂
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Sex is the biggest attraction for youths especially boys. 😕
Combine kshitij n sarthak goel together😅
wants more
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2 different people's sharing their conditioning patterns 🤣
I am some where in between both.. So when i try to be any one i feel fake..
So even if a good guy become f ucboi he can't pull it.. He will feel fake
Dating coach
we are doomed as a generation .
Kuch nahi Mila Naya Sikh ne .... sorry shayad me Jada hi bada hu in sab ke liye 🙂
Just no need to beep the slangs, Shobha
May be but I still like to keep it clean 😊
Really not needed
😊🙏
Every girl is different. Why even bother reading or watching such things lol
Sorry mam i don't know English
I understand. We have Hindi episodes on this channel. You can watch those 🙏😊
Why people were angry on deepika padukone when she was checking other suitrs but appreciating this guy when says he has multiple girlfriends... Just wondering🤔
cry about it
@@terabhai_boogeyman after watching ur dp I felt like though
How to talk to girls ?
Simple : Don't talk 😎😎
He is not a certified psychologist or psychiatrist, than why the hell we should we hear from him?? Dose it make any sense to listen to such guy who thinks they are so called love guru or certified in talking about such sensitive topics??
He has lots of ground experience.
@@ayanpandeydpsn-std9005 everyone has.
What he told about Deepika Padukone was totally flawed! When two people are in an open relationship it means both of them are okay seeing other people. Why is it that when the woman does it, her partner is called a simp but when the guy does it, she is meant to accept it?
Brother or sister is never about who has to accept or what yes if he was aware of the open relationship of them he doesn't feel a out of context men what he felt on the show and when he ask questions about the fact she said she totally refused it that I didn't know what you are talking...his expectations less face tell us about what he felt on that point
Hope u know more clear about the fact also we are not here to judges who judge them so stop comparing
Hope u get it 🌷
@@ki5hn how does anyone know the fact of the relationship between Deepika and her husband. Judgements have been made in this video by calling him a simp hence pointed it out.
@@ToughCookie100 you again missing it I said she refused to admit a fact what she said by herself it is not about their relationship....😬
@@ki5hn how do you she refused to accept the fact? Also you are saying by his expressions you understood what he must have felt. So who is judging here? When a couple says they were in open relationship the society chose to bash the woman calling the guy a simp. Even the guest of this chat admits to being in multiple casual and open relationships. So he what authority he has to judge Deepika.
@ToughCookie100 I am not an person who assume things when Deepika unveel the story ranveer said by his mouth on that episode "abhi tumne yeh kaha aur ab you don't remember " and in reply she said" idk what you are talking about " and you think they bouth unveil about their open relation So you don't have the context you just came by watching some reels of anti women cultural....if they bouth want to reveal their past open relationship he never looked at her that way and but he was unaware of the whole situation which I think you didn't notice
Note yarrr type karne mai aalas aa raha hai 😅😅
Fuckboy and his own world😂
Hindi me bol lo bhai... Hame bhi samaj aaye...india me hi ho na aap
Tamil mei bolna chahiye ya fir malyalam mei kyuki main south se hu 😅
Audi, Mercedes leke maze karlo. Lekin last mein Maruti hi long term chahiye 😂
L generation and people 😂
Attraction ❌Sambhog 🤡 Acharya Prashant was right 😂🙏🗿
First bad episode on this series with Shobha Rana. What a dark person this guy is and since hes a coach...all the best to our future society
Like if you think she speaks in 1.5x speed
Hahaha! Do I?
Itna sabh sochne ki jarurat nahi baat sidhi agar tumhe jara bhi darr lagta hai kisi bhi chiz ka toh samajhna koi pyar nahi hua tumhe
He is talking in a way which women will find attractive... I must say he has some good game and whether he has learned it through his own experience or through reading and watching other such mens that is not clear...
He is sayimg things like 'I am the way I am.. You know what you are getting into... If you dont like me go away... I will find a person who likes me'...
Then he said red flags are 'if she is getting close to other guys or meeting her ex' but he himself said that he is what he is and around women and it's ok for her girlfriend to feel insecure and that he cant say what will happen in the future'..
In short, he does not want boundaries for himself but has boundaries for the girl...
These kind of statements are full of game and ignorant women fall for it...
Its the women who needs to be aware of such men and their games and men dont need to learn anything from such men...
There is only one reality between men women relationship...
Men need to be strong, physically, mentally, financially and be of socially high status and be their honest self to attract women...
Chose the girl who you are compatible with and not in this dating culture and marry her....
And the dating culture is not good for the emotional well being for any man or women emotionally because sooner or later you will be on the receiving side and it will hit you hard....
How to talk to girls?
Alien hoti hain kya vo. Vo bhi insaan hain khaana khati hain nahati hain fresh hoti hain itna hype kya krna.Kuch bhi chal rha.
Even crazy people talks ,you didn't get the point.
@@didhoe bro I commented bcz I seen only the thumbnail I haven't watched the whole video. But if that's the only theme I don't think that I have made the wrong statement. What u re trying to convey to me?
Dont lack context, watch the complete conversation before forming a judgment. We are open for diverse thoughts which is why we've kept the comment section open
@@iamshobharana okk sorry for that
@@anuragmishra1701men like you are a problem for society
Shobha, it was a good poscast but this person is more of a salesman than a dating coach. I hope you are doing your due diligence before calling your guests.
We want to bring diverse line of thoughts and make it a safe space for conversations that are relevant for us. You have to watch the episode to know what it entails 🙏😊
@@iamshobharana Thats a good way to put it, I hope you understand that the opinion of these people and the way they are putting their thoughts across has an impact on the young audience who usually lack the ability to question things, especially a topic like dating, sex and relationships.
@@MrBlackjack456 I understand that. And that’s why you will find all the content insightful for the audiences. I keep my questions very practical instead of promoting something vague and beating around the bush.
@@thezoldics7648 I am not restricting free speech. But I have the right to question things.
@@thezoldics7648 Salesman independently aur objectively baat nahi kar sakta isliye woh har chiz mein audience ko influence karega apna course bechne ke liye. Salesman sell their products by making the audience believe that unme kuch Kami hai aur woh Kami mein Puri kar sakta hoon. It is not necessarily good for the people.
I don't know why this video came to my feed. This guy has no love, only violence in his spirit. He may realise that later, now he is perhaps what in hindi is called behoshi. Such guys are so sad and spiritually bankrupt inside and just try to cope up with fake cool dude persona. They don't really have a life.
Toxic guy
Far far from reality😂😂😂
Just work on yourself guys and don't chase girls ... Work for your family not for finding girls who have been with hundred of guys...........
Bhai kon samjhaye inko... Yeh banda sabko jail karayega. Yeh sab faltu ke kaam nahi karte😅. Apna best do best milega simple si baat hai.
That's no solution really, men get lonely and porn addiction is now like a mental disorder for a reason. This guy charges lakhs for coaching, most of his clients already have worked on themselves and have high earning careers to afford his coaching, if only life was so simple.
And you HAVE to chase girls if you want to date girls(unless you want gold diggers who will throw themselves at you) because that's how human mating dynamics work, so unless you hate biology and evolution, men have to take initiative 99% of the time if they want to date women.
Sigma males😂
Aata kuch nhi,lekin Gyan chanakya wala😂😂
Kshijit bhai OP🫶🏻🔥
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So you are basically ASHOK KUMAR of chhoti si baat !
But ' she didn't asked a reasonable question ' like have you ever approached by a girl or do you jave girl client Too ?.
And its just a western half backed unfit concept for Indians ' and he named some mark about being dating coach , though it was always there as i said about ASHOK KUMAR. Character than it came as love guru's thing , so its not new just with more openness ' like date' have sexual relation ' so far things are not bothering you are enjoying the sex have it , by than you will be so mechanical gradually in the relationship ' than the next stage will revealed to you as extra marital affairs ' and you will accept that too .
Just think the last guest dr sid warrior talk to go to Thailand and this gentleman also went to Thailand ' well its just coincidence i was trying little humour here to express that i am old but not old school ' with sealed brain i always consider every idea .
my idea is you dont fall in love ' this is so wetern term , we say dil jeet liya ' mere dil me uske liye badi izzat hai ' iske saath zindagi guzari ja sakti hai , aur isme kahin bhi lafz mohabbat nahi aata , mohabbat inke baad paida hoti hai !
But i like this PODCAST
Mam with all due respect. Please don't invite such people on your show. This guy has his own reality in his mind which is far fetched from actual ground reality.
You are right. But girls need to know what goes in the minds of f*boys. Everyone should know how to protect oneself and one's partner from these kind of people.
Mam please block him
True.
The guy is speaking the truth you are in a dreamy world
@@Glotubex Young immature girls behave like that, not women. After the age of 25 girls' expectations change a lot. If you want hookups then follow this guy.