WOMEN Leave ALL men WHO CARE about THEM (Hypergamy BURNS your EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT)
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@@valeriek8077 What's your body count, 304?
@@valeriek8077 "A women will exit"
@@valeriek8077 I like my daily injection of truth. I also eat every day. Plus, the comment section always allows men to share their own experiences. I've learned very disturbing things about women thanks to that.
I can't stress this anymore....
Well done fella it's right there.
The fact that you need a strategy to deal with another human being is beyond depressing.
Resistance noted. Bleep berp beep.
its a lot of mental work, dont have so much time. I've decided to remain single
This dude helps alot listen. Not even in mbt just really listening and applying and lost weight before i watched him now I'm gaining alot of leverage over multiple sexy chicks
Women have strategies and tactics they worked out to use on men, is it wrong for those tables to turn?
You're also overestimating the importance placed on these strategies. They're more so for illustration purposes. Casey has said a thousand times to just follow your impulses when it comes to talking with the womens
@@daveskeet1489 Strategies and tactics are why everyone gets treated the way they do. Why is it that being genuine people isn’t good enough? There is nothing attractive about playing these bullshit games with people. If I wanted to play pointless games I’d hang around meth addicts.
The great paradox : if you really want a woman, stop wanting her.
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whattttt thhaaaa fukkkkkkk i hate it hereeeee, why are they so retardedddd
We all want what we can’t have
Not quite, they want to be wanted, they don't want to be needed.
It's a life lesson. Anything you want too much will evade you
Basically:
Man: Don't care
Women: Care
When a man catches feelings however.
Man: Care
Woman: Don't Care
This guy right here
Yep
100%
Everything is in life has a balance. Making her understand you're alpha early on, isn't enough. Reminding her that you are the boss with your actions will keep her engaged. She will never respect us if we show weakness and put her higher than us.
Man just summed up the whole whiteboard down to a post-it note.
On a fundamental level, 'love' has a different meaning to a woman. For a guy it means devotion, loyalty, protection and provisioning. But for her it means weak, needy, helpless, a state of being desperate and dependent. So a guy thinks he's declaring devotion when he says "I love you" but she interprets it as weakness.
Then why do all women say I want to be loved" or "tell me you love me"?
@@happyapple4269to manipulate unfortunately
Damn, that's it, THATS FUCKING IT. Married for 3 years and we are in the process of divorcing. I couldn't understand why, but your comment was the answer. Thank you Sir I just had to screenshot your comment
@@happyapple4269what power do women have without manipulation??
Realistically it’s survival tactic just like choosing the alpha
Without manipulation they can’t really do anything
Its like its designed not to work , how long can u sustain this ? We men are human , life isnt just about the hustle ? Wheres the meaning ?
When a man learns he will never please a woman by trying to please her, he will be better off.
AT FIRST I DOUBTED THIS MAN:
Gf saw some messages between me and a few other women on my phone. Thought we were gonna break up. I watched this man’s videos for advice and did as he says. 5 days later, my gf and I are back on talking terms and told me the idea of me sleeping with other women turns her on. Can’t make this shit up…
That's awesome dude, well done. Doesn't sound like the healthiest foundation for a LTR though.
If I were you, I'd would continue to hit it for a while, but that is no wife material.
she realized that you had abundance, you became more valuable to her.
Even if you have no options or are not interested in other women, they will create the illusion of you possibly cheating, quiz you, be suspicious etc. They need to feel there is a risk of losing you to be interested. If you want to get rid of them you have to convince them either by lying or through truth that no one else is interested and you have no interest in anyone else. When they realise they are the only woman in your life romantically they will go. If you want to keep a girl you have to treat them like you dont care if they leave.
@@thomaspieke9228 You obviously don't get it but simps never do.
When the White board is full you know its serious fellas...✍️
It’s always full.😛
Dating has definitely changed for the worse. My grandpa was broke and didn’t have any preselection from women and was still able to get a wife who was loyal to him forever. They didn’t play any games and he told her everything and they still stuck together even when he got sick at the end
your grandma did not have several dudes sliding into her DMs, simps giving her complements all day long, men orbiters/fiends . . .
Times have changed.
Thats a beautiful story,much like my parents together till death ,l wish it was like that now, l know now what l have done wrong ,his presentation was the story of my life,being a touchy feely cancerian ,wish l knew this fifty years ago
@@richardmackintosh2921 I learned it later in life too! But it’s the sad truth! Honestly now I feel numb tword women, i men I’m heterosexual but I just cannot bring myself to have romantic feelings for a woman anymore only sexual! As soon as I start to feel romantic feelings I shut down!
This has a term
The withdrawal phase, straight up happened to me... The way he explained it is spot! She was telling me things and making me feel wanted as a man, so I dropped my guard and completely let myself be comfortable for once in my life. That is when she started to withdraw and wasn't telling me what was going on between us, ghosting and not responding for long periods of time like she used to... Then eventually insecurity and desperation finished the rest, and now she is gone from my life. Women don't love men, the same a man loves a woman, it seems to be true more and more...
You could have stopped at "Women don't love men." I discovered recently that women are incapable of love, period. What they think of love is not love. Love is sacrifice, and they don't sacrifice.
I don’t think you did something wrong man I’m 100% sure that type of women you dated doesn’t deserve you very simple
A women who likes and loves you will never play games listen to her friends or even test you those women are very presentable and respected and they look for serious males
@hemzatefili1203 The thing is, she said the exact same thing, that she won't play mind games and her friends doesnt decide for her, with me, and she likes it when I passionately talk about games I like. 😅
Never get comfortable in anything, my brother. Always be putting out the best you got every day.
@@MMattikkie what woman say and do is rarely the same thing. I learned (the hard way) to not even take serious what they say. If you wanna know who you are with, watch their actions. Often our actions determine their actions though, so there is alot of true things preached her (surely not all, and surely every woman is different)
I'm 35 and it's sad to see how incredibly toxic modern dating is. It seems like you get a woman and see who can hurt the other person more before dipping.
Many factors at play..women have it very easy. They love in a plush comfortable society in the modern age where they don't need men to survive. Also feminism and empowering promiscuity has destroyed men and women relationships.
I'm the same age as you. Facts spoken women and men r competing.
Yep, that’s modern dating in a nutshell. And i’m 39.
I’m 37, I completely agree, dating nowadays is a nightmare
It’s not modern dating. This is the way it has always been and always will be. The universe is hostile. We must find new levels of strength and discipline that we didn’t know existed inside of us. Only the strong survive
Insecurely attached girls like avoidants or disorganized attached women will pull away when you show interest. The ones with unhealed attachment injuries. They’re broken and often dysfunctional. Great at sex usually but true vulnerability and commitment freaks them out. A healthy securely attached girl won’t pull away. I’ve lived this. Attachment theory is real !
I agree with this. And usually anxious attached people, avoidant people etc. are the ones who end up dating each other, then all hell breaks out because both partys trigger each other sooner or later, leading to manipulation, attacking, acting dead, drugging themselves, cheating etc. And sadly this is the trend, that more and more people are just not secure and fear deep connections! Be it with friends or partners.
yep 100%. Fantastic comment. Sadly, most girls and even people are avoidants/anxious attachment because of the way the world is trending. If you find a secure girl and you care then this won't happen.
Basically most women with absend fathers..
My wife left me and divorced me taking over $600K in property and assets. In 2 years she filed bankruptcy. She began calling me saying how much she regretted what she did. She wanted to get back together again. I told her I wanted $300K to go back with her, she never called me again
My bro😂
Nice
Have witnessed this behavior in countless women across the board. And no, it doesn’t matter how “healed” the are lol.
„Healed“ a.k.a. Bodycount of 83
All women are the same
Sounds like just another hook to get the types that did heal.
Only the slow will fall for the words.
this is a typical child behavior. in elementally school I liked this girl, gave her my attention and time, and she did not care for it. the moment I stopped, she was chasing me and doing stuff for me.
most women never grow out of that mentality, give them everything and they will value you less. give them less and they will bend over backwards for you.
You had to post this 5 days ago, she left yesterday.
To all the guys, the mistake I made is that I killed the Chase she needed, she was so wet, attracted, attached, but when she felt that she got me even a little bit, she decided to leave
Just relax, detach. You’re still valuable.
Go lift some weights
@@mkb2420 Weight is not really what you need, YOU GOTTA LEARN THE GAME
@@MetanoiaOfferMastery I’m relaxed no worries, but we men don’t like to lose
Wanna go into detail? I can’t quite see the picture you’re painting
I think a video on how to stimulate women emotions should be our next episode Casey !!!
Teasing, tension, sticking to your principles, randomly putting her on ice, having expectations of her when she’s around you while not being attached(even a to do list for your business would work)
Just be unpredictable, have expectations for her without a controlling energy, teach her shit while leading(will stick with her forever),do spontaneous shit with her and be ready to respectfully leave her at all times
"The one that you love, and the one that loves you, is never ever the same person."
Its true, and now i am alone
I love myself and myself loves me. So this is false.
@@Vi-pv3xi this is false understanding every human or animal love themselve most, its also escape philosopy, every guy think like this, but when you have to handle reality of life, women love matters because she is going to bear your child, and it affect with every passing year, once you get old your need for love from other increases
@@Vi-pv3xi yea, but can you procreate with yourself? If not your genes will in fact die off.
100% correct. I lived it. Ended a 17 year marriage.
29 for me,it was like he was reading my story for all to hear
This is super advanced yet so basic, fundamental & critical knowledge.
Everything makes sense now.
Absolutely!!!
Remember this: Thanks to the internet, a woman meets more guys in one year, than our grandmothers combined, throughout their whole lives. It's a game that you cannot win, if you're looking for something serious and stable. Go full mode Playboy. Have fun for a few weeks tops, and change the CD. No disappointments, no boredom, no conflicts. Just pure happiness and self-esteem boost.
Facts bro, even the sweetest girls I know who say they aren't whores are going through men like water. The amount of men woman see in a month or dm is crazy. And most still think men are sleeping around with multiple woman with ease which is just not the case.
Pretty much. Social media completely not only evened the playing field but completely blew it out of the water in favor of women. They can pick and choose who they want. Pretty insane.
@@alexl.4362 Indeed. Most of them act like Hollywood divas and pop stars. They don't even need to be THAT attractive, really. Just above average, and it's done. Let the worship begin.
Yep, but by having this knowledge and applying it, you are still miles as head of other men and then you’re able to exploit it and go further than the men who are unaware!
But whatever you do, under no circumstances should you behave the same way and keep making the same mistakes over and over again!
Peace and blessings’
@@HeathenDance So true
I know all of this stuff about women. That’s why I just do my thing and let it happen how it happens. I’m eternally stoic so they’ll stick around for a couple years usually without any effort from me. When they start doing that thing where they act like they’re gonna leave I just say something like “well I’m gonna miss you but if that’s how you feel I’m not gonna try and stop you from leaving” and within a few hours they’re apologizing and acting nicer than they have for months……then a few months later they’ll start the same pattern and I give a similar response and then they’ll be alright again.
Gods looking down on humanity and shaking his head. Complete clown world
No he is not. God created women from us. He is shaking his head at us. This is how designed him it is going to plan.
Had a girl start slowly pulling away. I saw it coming a long way away and started to counter it by cranking up the cockiness and entitlement and toxicity. That seemed to do the trick.
Gawd this guy is good.😅
However most men need to know the difference between not caring vs. really not caring. You can say I love you...as long as you really don't care. She will sense it. If you say... I love you and really mean it...you're done.
damn bro I felt this😂😂 it's ridiculous how drastic the difference in her behavior is depending on if you actually meaan it
@@aust24 yeah, she can sense it. You can't fake the 'not caring'. Women can feel you on a deep subconscious level. When you 'really don't care' she will know it. That's why women always reach out when you put her completely out of your mind and really don't care.
I hate how true this is… I’m a Christian and I’m trying to save myself for marriage. How tf do you make that work if love to them is like this
Because another true Christian won't behave like this foolishness. Keep your eyes on Christ and make sure she does too.
@@SK-le4ljbro I met a Christian, mentally stable, virgin girl who I instantly clicked with and she did most of the pursuing at first. The moment I got attached and relaxed a little bit she started to pull back and now we don’t talk anymore, exactly in the way he described. This guy’s advice applies to all of them, I don’t see a way to make it work with that psychology
Daniel, got to remember that women do this by NATURE, not on purpose, or even by choice. "They know not what they do." You have to master yourself first, to get in the right frame of mind, which is not outside the framework of The Word. Stay centered Brother.
Back in the day Christianity was a religion of stoic alphas. Modern Christianity has lost its edge weakening men imo. Probably due to separation of church and state in Christian nations. Islam and Judaism have resisted feminist corruption, especially Islam, by preventing infiltration of feminist worldly ideology. I’m saying this as a Christian as well.
@@gregh2880you spitting facts right now and had the bible reference
Gentlemen, Casey is bang on. I'm 60, been married 2.5 times and each ltr i came out of the gate fantastic and subsequently took my hands off the wheel and eventually those relationships ended. Hopefully everybody that follows this presentation closely will be able to reconcile their past now. I sure have....there's peace and enourmous strength in that Good Stuff Casey!
Married 2+ times? Why should we listen to anything you have to say
@@rl7329Maybe because he’s made the psychological mistakes that Casey pointed out? He may be old and has failed romantically, but he’s become introspective of his shortcomings. He can’t go back in time and fix his marriages, but he can best ingest and reflect on what he knows now.
@@rl7329 Get to 60 yourself and then let's see what you have to say. OP said himself that he "took his hands off the wheel". That's accountability..
You are 60 with experience and Casey is 27. You should have more knowledge than him. Why havent you figured women out despite two divorces? 😅
@@tz8565 Because wisdom doesn’t come from age. This is a big misconception that you need to remove from your mind. Wisdom comes from diluting the fat and blood of raw experience to realize it’s nectar. It’s the maturity to see things for what they are and not what they appear to be. It’s not as linear as you see it.
You're 100% right. I used a girl's picture as my DP on social media, another girl I had been trying to set up a date with with no success DM's me and agrees to a date. Women really are toxic 😂😂😂
Yeah man, they love the toxicity.., and don’t get me wrong it’s an amazing album by System Of A Down but in real life there was no toxicity between us. She would state “this has got to stop, it’s so toxic” so I asked: ‘what is one toxic behaviour I’m displaying?’ And she couldn’t respond.
I stated that if a toxic behaviour exists between us and she won’t express it, the reason is that she is the cause and reluctant to admit or it simply doesn’t exist.
Her eyes showed me the logic was infallible and almost caused her to have a moment of awakening… but as I’ve witnessed so much, the moment of acknowledgment is forfeited in favour of the fantasy/subconscious/unconscious impetus.
Casey has given us the key 🔑
What’s a DP?
@@TheFriendlyPsychopathDefault Photo
You used her pic with you in it or her alone?
@@TheFriendlyPsychopathDisplay Picture
Sigmund Freud may have never figured out what women want but Casey is definitely on the right track.
I agree with a majority of what you say, the proof is in the pudding often times. However, if you're with a girl for long enough you are bound to actually love her at some point. There's a difference between that and being a simp. You can still be loving without breaking frame and being spineless. Though I agree with you that being indifferent as to whether she leaves or not is paramount.
“If we resist our passions, it is more due to their weakness than our strength.”~ François de La Rochefoucauld
Loving a woman and falling in love is two different things. Love her, its her job to fall in love
@@D1rt3nthu51astTruth brother!
@@Beastboy123zx💥
Big facts
Everything is in life has a balance. Making her understand you're alpha early on, isn't enough. Reminding her that you are the boss with your actions will keep her engaged. She will never respect us if we show weakness and put her higher than us.
Casey is 100% correct. I was with a woman 9 years older than me for 5 years. Looking back on it I failed about 95% of hypergamy tests but the pattern was so deep that I failed them all the way until the end where now I am dealing with deep heartache and loss as of yesterday.
I wish I were able to understand and apply this better when I started watching to save myself the grief. The funny thing is everything he says is true it's a feeling. There's no other way to put it. If you want to save yourself pain then the only option is to understand that women don't care about you they only care about how you make them feel. You should always make them feel pursued but also a bit unworthy no matter what.
It's true. I have been there and done that. Even the birds I've had in rotation I'd find myself treating the best lookin ones better than the 7s and they would back off with the affection and chasing me initiating contact and dates. I'd test out this theory on the 7s and 6s and they would then treat me as bad as the 8s women want a cold calm and calculated breeder. The guy that doesn't limit himself to one woman. Say what you want lads and do what u want at the end of the day... You'll learn. And those that don't come to find this out for themselves aren't getting into enough situations with women to find this out. Or you are just ghosting the market and missing out on the experience.
Jesus Crist, is harder to try to get with a modern chick than getting into a fight with Floyd Mayweather Jnr.
Be Manny Pacquiao. 😂
You can judge how true a video is by how many angry women are in the comments. And it’s really true when the post-wall women are raging because their only option is to build-a-better beta.
'0% accountability + 1% self-improvement/reflection + 99% parasitic-manipulation equals a 100% narcissist.' - Thomas Edison
"Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes all the way to the bone."
Ugly personality inside a beautiful body/face is impossible to overcome.
Casey, for the past 1-2 months your content is fire. Congratulations. And thank you
He’s full of it..
Listen to this guy. Absolute truth. My ex-wife's sister is living with a guy who is taller than me for about 5 inches+, he is working in some space program(I worked at fkn KFC, bro, no shit), but still, she is totally into me, cuz I always was putting her in her place and didn't give a single fuck of what she talks. She gave me gifts, touched me and did all that stuff girls do when they like men, like making compliments to my strength and height
only week lady do this
@@user-dr6ku1gw9pMost of them are weak
Single, 37, in great shape. The majority of women I've slept with in recent years are married or have a boyfriend. That says more about them than me.
No, it makes *all* of you rats with no integrity.
I set 2nd date on Saturday, she asked to move it on Sunday, i didnt care and said YES...and ended up in ignore list.
she does not care, she has another 300 dudes in her chatbox@@truthtelleranon
ANY time she chooses a day or time, you object and propose another. If she doesn't agree, then it's "OK maybe next weekend." Then go silent for several days. If she chooses a table at a restaurant, object and choose another. I'm telling you, this sh!t works. Remember, you are the Master of your world. She is only a guest in it.
Ignore women and life is great
Thats my plan
@@jeansollot6419 long may that continue
Always exactly what i need to hear, thanks Casey; esp for risking your love life for us simps
Comfort × consistency = ingratitude + contempt
A woman is a rollercoaster. A man is the track. You can guide her in the right direction, but there are only certain sections where it isn't flat and bumpy.
So true.
Casey can't lie this is getting fun. Thanks
The degree to which Casey's message about women is true depends on the degree to which a particular woman is identified with her physical nature. This stuff applies more to shallow pretty girls because their physical/animal side is mostly the only card they can play.
The reason I say this is that there are going to be a lot of bitter men who take this on board and act this mode of thinking out, thereby winning 'the game', rather than BEING truely content within themselves. Necessarily therefore, winning 'the game' employing these ideas isn't a sustainable way to be.
The ONLY message for men that's going to give them a solid personal foundation is to be truely content in themselves, which is a totally different message than the one about women's nature. That way they'll just be all the things that woman like that Casey is pointing out without having to try.
Also, do you really want a relationship where it all depends on this game you play? A shallow woman like that will just leave you when you're too tired to play. I think there is a danger in not understanding women as *people* who, beyond their bodily inclinations - which either sex can be more or less prone to - are just the same as men.
The Truth exists.
Not sure if I agree with the very end of your statement but otherwise agree
It's true, shallow women are more honest about all this ... They make it easy to identify.
But in reality all women have this system built in. Some to a lesser degree. Others also communicate to correct you so you don't turn them off - they try to help you out.
Still it helps to be aware of it, and have the information at the back of your mind ... Then you can choose what to do by yourself on a day-to-day basis based on what you are specifically seeing in front of you.
You should just become a playboy. Have lots of female partners, avoid becoming attached to them. If you have enough self-esteem, that's the best option, instead of falling into romantic crap, which always ends up badly, from conflict to extreme stagnation and boredom. I'm 40, wish I had this vision when I was 20. Specially in the 21st century, where, thanks to the internet, a woman meets more men in one year, than both my grandmothers in their whole lives, that's the only rational and constructive - and happy - option.
@@HeathenDancewhich means no children, and end of humanity.
Unless it’s ww3 soon and then it’s a quicker end to it all.
Wrong, it applies to all women. My ex was the most good girl you would get in today's World, but all of this was true for her too...broke up with her twice in 3 yrs, many guys in college wanted her, but she was loyal to only me until I finally let her go just before covid. Everything he's saying I've experienced without even realising it.
Basically, letting her feel like she needs to work for your attention makes her feel valued.
I listen to your information and a couple others and it's spot on. I take these conversations and talk about them with my wife and I watch her mind slam from one side of her head to the other everytime. It's all true. None of us are exempt from the hardwired modern day woman. I love her more than she will ever know, or that I care to admit to her. But I'm definitely not delusional and I will always be ready for the smoke that no man can dodge.
Awesome, I'm starting to get a hold of it. Big hug from Chile, snd remember my brothers, don't simp!
Everything you said happened to me n m glad that happened to me which opened my eyes n endded up watching your videos n learned bout female nature
That's a game changer for the inner game and more pratical than most of the red pill stuff! Thanks a lot for your work Casey!
BTW: I'm a dude watching this in Germany, we're all in the same boat! ✊🏼
u just explained exactly what I experienced with my ex...spot on video
True I feel like I'm starting to get a picture of why some of my relationships failed
One of the best videos I have ever watched from Casey ::: After 3 weeks of bad behavior, I walked way .. sometimes thinking to reach out again .. after seeing this .. I rather be alone and focused on my shit , than going back to the same miserable spot
You are doing Gods work sir.
She does not view care as safety! Damn so true
That is running from Reality creating an Anti-Reality.
Man that was good. Look forward to seeing you in the next one
Perfect breakdown it took me years to learn this about women. You are 100% correct
From my own experience, this is dead on accurate
I've cared too much my whole life and always struggled with women.
I love how Casey is alway so serious and its really funny when he gets pissed, he doesn’t even like talking about weak man shit…it disgusts him and we should appreciate this
Daaang.. What you teach is true 💯 Reminder me of my past fiance. I was really care too much about her
Right on target. Never develop attachment, care as little as possible. Move on at the least provocation.
She has just revealed to me a few hours ago that she doesn't love me! Excuse, she feels we are not going to workout. But all this started when I felt she needed care because I got a lot of empathy.
This video - is PURE GOLD!
This was a hard one to listen too, but I cannot deny anything that you said. It is all truth.
Casey turns conventional wisdom on its head.
This guy is so spot-on. That Disney fairy-tale BS us men were spoon fed really messed us up. Now as a man, what do you do?
Growing up on the internet listening to women and what they want really made me realise that women are the biggest liars. Whatever they say, it’s a safe bet that they want the opposite.
Once again I came across this channel a week ago what I love about him is he talks about .. money can’t save you from this it’s deeper then that . Mostly other guys like fresh and fit basically say fitness and money is everything if broke it’s over . And I love fresh and fit but this guy here’s let’s you know that’s very important!!! These are the real facts here
Brother your nuggets are amazing! 💪🏼 love it
Casey, the way you break things down in all your videos, I don’t think it could be said any better. I get more women chasing me by being that cocky arrogant asshole batboy and putting them in their place, than I ever have before. Make more videos please. I watch this shit all day while at work.
I literally came on Casey channel one month ago to try to cure my one year relationship, indeed my girlfriend was displaying all signs of toxicity (disrespect, non cooperative, withdraw sex, always on her phone). Through the journey I learnt so much about women’s behavior and especially how I was supposed to behave, on my end (yes did screw up up - but new information new reaction) which mean not being insecure, nor weak for her and not wanting sex. We did break up two weeks ago. And the more I look back on this relationship combine with Casey’s advice, I now understand that the sweet spot (if not the only) is being the « side dude ». Being focus on my goals, being selfish to achieve my mission and having two / three girls around that are part of my journey without me being committed and not seeing them more than once a week. Never thought I would change that much (always been in couple), however I do think now this is the only way to go.
When does it end though? How do you shift from the mindset of stringing girls along to keep them interested to getting into a LTR but not getting into the pitfalls that would come with maintaining the fuck boy attitude. Or do you just do that? Surely there must be a balance of "Hey I really love you", but also implementing what Casey talks about, but how, because Casesy insinuates that once you commit to a girl its game over?
Don't waste your time seeking to commit yourself to any woman they don't want commitment, just enjoy their company, perhaps one day you'll find the one that will want to commit to you, let her be the one to make every effort to want to be with you, you just be still and don't seek commitment from her, make sure that she's the one focused on pushing the relationship forward, bruh
@@KidLionMusicLet her tell you she wants a relationship. If you give her one maintain your frame at all times. But nothings bulletproof because women also just get bored & have countless men in their social media profiles & real life approaching her. So they’re always comparing men.
Hi...I'm a woman and Casey you definitely know what you are talking about!!! Great work!!
Bro Casey I don’t know if you’ll see this comment but I’m 17 and I’m so glad I found your channel. These videos made me realize how stupid I was acting everything you say not to do I did but thanks for helping me correct my mistakes. Truly this is the best dating advice channel out there
Your lucky to hear truth so young.. being an emotional clueless man is painful and embarrassing if not corrected...
@@airgunballistics1779very lucky
100%
Good for you for learning this so young. Don't ever let a woman tell you what to do.
Your very lucky fifty years late for me
A dude in Pennsylvania loving your content!
I've come up with a statistical framework behind male and female behavior. It might be complete BS, but whatever I'll explain it anyways. Based on my own experience it seems to hold though.
I look at male behavior as normally distributed where the mean behavior is loving/liking a woman and expecting reciprocal behavior back and then you have outliers on each end of the normal distribution. On the left end you might have aloof male behavior in essence not caring about her and on the right end you might have overt simp/beta male behavior. Female behavior on the other hand has a bimodal distribution with one peak on the left having the mean of wondering if the guy who appears not to like her likes her and liking him more for it and the other peak on the right being disgusted by the guy who likes her. Notice in the center of a bimodal distribution there are minimal to no values there. This means that when you overlay male normally distributed behavior on female bimodally distributed behavior, you have the mean behavior for men getting nothing and then outlier behaviors being rewarded or punished by female behavior depending on how they align with the peaks of female bimodally distributed behavior.
Engineer......
This is so f*cked up, but totally my experience. I don't know what should men in the middle look for. Pets? It's pathetic
Good...I actually like the last part where you OVERLAY the two distributions...we can have a discussion on the left and right groups in the bimodal distribution..needs to be better characterized
@@tjssjt296 Yeah this is all stuff I put together in a couple days so its very raw. I'm thinking modern male behavior actually might be left skewed with the majority behavior aligning with female apathy or disgust.
@@justlurkin Could be right..but maybe its the Womens curve which has evolved over time due to movements like feminism particularly in the west. it could be interesting to have a time-lapse video of the overlaid distributions and have comments for each time period.
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Brother from another mother, you gotta do at least an hour long master class at least once or twice a year. Hope you never run out of ideas. Thanks TED
Great video for all real men. Also learned something from a man that is at least 15 years older than me: happy life without a wife. It’s true, when you didn’t meet early enough and you’re left with the leftovers. Too many ladies consider men as waste
FELLAS, THE MAGICAL WORDS OF THE DAY ARE..
✔️ *COUNTERINTUITIVE*
✔️ *SUBCONSCIOUS*
This is exactly what happened to me about a month ago. I saw it coming though and pulled away too thinking that by doing so she would come around. Nope...just gave her the excuse to pull away more...so I ended it myself.
Bro so should I pursue her, because by pulling away I'm feeling I'm hurting myself even more. She told me that I talked rudely and stuff we officially never entered a relation but at first she was attracted to me but afterwards when I started to show care she slowly started to pull away, I'm now ignoring her but this doesn't seem to be working, I haven't confessed my feelings to her or something, what should I do brother.
Because around me I always see simps getting into relationships but my boundaries attracted her but now they are the reason I cannot chase her, or should I just chase her shamelessly
@@zedwhy654 Well I think you can turn it around. You have to realize that woman are testing us all the time. Make this all about you and not her. If you continue to pull away and so does she you have to realize that she has already made her decission. You cant change that by talking with her or anything. Turn your back on her and walk away. Go find someone new and move forward with your own life. Build a better you.
@@zedwhy654 Do not chase...that will make it worse.
Just be patient, let her be free, don't try to force anything, if she truly likes you, she will persue harder, in the meantime develope a roster of options by persuing other women, don't stay hunged up.on one, having more options will keep you from the temptation to chase and look desperate, do this and you don't have to worry about losing one chick cuz you'll have options, bruh
The title tells it all, brotha! It's the sad truth, d@mn it :(
This summer i tried to offer her most of my attention and love but she rejected me so easily like i was just a teddy bear with no soul or feelings...
This one was powerful!
Always makes me laugh when he refers to Drake everytime. When the list came I was waiting for it.
Women have God given qualities that turn a "guy" person a real man. A real man do all these naturally if he didn't learn it hard way.
Bro! I can confirm all of this!!!!!
Damn, matrix at its finest. Appreciate your Clarity on the situation
Can we take a moment to show Casey some appreciation 👏
I've been missing from TH-cam for 3 months…
I've posted a video with an explanation.
Thank you for supporting my journey.
We got this men.
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The most annoying thing about this: being in love with a woman does NOT, in fact, mean you are in scarcity. It's just because your soul sees something special in hers.
I've had a respectable amount of women showing interest in me over the years. I've only fallen in love with a tiny percentage of them.
It's not like I turn into a grateful, infatuated puppy dog every time a woman shows interest in me. Some I like, some I don't. Even the ones I like rarely cause me to fall in love. A lot of them I actually find annoying.
It's not about physical beauty either.
I know they interpret a man's love as scarcity but they shouldn't.
They follow Ignorantism, let Entropy alone for your whole well being or destroy IT. There´s only two ways, or you stay away from someon Entropic following Para-Philosophies, in this case, a very strong Sensationalism, or you destroy them with Truth, Knowledge, Virtue and Equilibrium. DECIDE!
Great presentation spot on Casey
Good Stuff Dr. Casey!💪🏾💯
Just happened 30 mins ago 🙄 these chicks i swear ..
Bro they have too mony options even if you are the biggest alpha male on the planet they still leave you. I dont hate woman but thats how they are in western countries. Why? Too much freedom did this !
I'm glad for you brah. It's a good thing. Finding this stuff out for yourself is the best way and probably the only way you truly take this in. Once you see this you see it in all of em. Once you know how they work it's easy to navigate the bs. All that changes from here on in is faces and names. Shapes too ;)
@@chilledchadmost men dont learn from mistakes, they avoid accountability and blame others (like OP blamed the woman). He gonna fall forever like that without changing
@@ShameTheSluts we get it, u got the cape and big S on ur chest. Go save em bruh 💪🔥
@@daviedood2503😂😂
So you can never love a woman and she love you back? Build a family? So whats the point? Just sex? Damn.
Exactly that’s all these videos are. They have nothing to do with an actual relationship. Some of his advice is useful, but long term never have a GF is his message. Sad
@@scottjo76look mate. Women arent designed to love men
@@SD-mi2vc Where did you get that dopey idea from? Women love to love their man, it's all tied in firmly with respect.
@@scottjo76 look around. 75% of divorces are started by women. Also Hypergamy kicks in
@@SD-mi2vc Cute....maybe women haven't loved you and you're now bitter from experience? Don't be bitter.... be a man a woman can respect....that's where her love will come from
Uncles C...always on the spot!!!
You ever hear something that sounds intuitive. Well, this is it. And now it makes total sense. It gives me great motivation to do what’s best for me. Any other option leads to disaster and self inflicted emotional pain. Strong, stoic, confident with purpose is the only way.
love the simple message for our gorilla brains
that's what happened to me man 10 years ago. I grew up with this woman. She was a solid 8. We got together. She initiated sex and threw herself onto me. I was doing good. the sex was good it was all good. Sometime later I got emotionally weak. And BOOM all attraction lost. She gave no reason, and I blamed her until about 4 months ago. I realized it was me. now i got a lot of guilt. like wow. I turned into a weak man. what happened.
Good that you took accountability. That's what makes Casey's stuff worthwhile in the RP/BP stuff online -- men taking it upon themselves to understand, not just sit around and keep bitching about women like crybabies.
@@ncp321 yeah man it's like my eyes have been opened. And your right. No more blaming women.
when you say emotionally weak, do you mean that you committed to her? Or is it possible to commit to her and still be emotionally strong? Because Casey is very anti commitment, but its impossible to get married and have a family without commitment,
@@user-yj8xn1fq3l It's possible to have a family but not a marriage. Just don't marry, it's useless and risky for men.
@@user-yj8xn1fq3l dont be needy
Needed this reminder, in a ltr found myself caring more and her doing less
My god! Your videos are on point
Much of what Casey preaches is valid but not all of it. His methods are fine for dudes who just want to be going from chick to chick. LTR not so much.
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Exactly
If you looking for a LTR you have already put yourself at a major disadvantage. And truly this works with ltr. Because the game doesn’t change. Truly the game gets harder the closer y’all are.
@@kloserlooknah you do this shit in the video with a girl you're in a LTR with and she will be gone
@@nxkzofficial you do things the the blue pill beta way will lose her as well. But even if you thinking bout losing a women well you already lost her. See it’s all about perspective.
I think you can show the woman you're with that you're high value and not have a scarcity mindset but still show emotional affection for her. Geeze...if not....what's the purpose of even being with a woman except for psychopathic, narcissistic reasons? Not fun. I think we got to have a balance and that includes some emotional affection.
yes, shocking! you can't have your cake and eat it too
you can with some women I assume. Probably the uglier the more emotional attachment you can get away with.
Unfortunately, theres no balance once a womans hypergamist nature kicks in. Its biological like Casey mentioned.
I just walked away silently (Emotionally Detached) from my gf of 5 years relationship. She displayed all the preparation of exiting the relationship. And this is my round 2. 🪓
Ive learned to be stoic and live for myself.
🤔 The best way to use hypergamy against women is being the best option (SMV, Financially Stable for yourself, Fitness & not giving a F@#$K)
My thoughts exactly. Otherwise it's just easier to buy escort. Some guys takes this redpill stuff way to far.
@@christopherhogbring7771 You're missing the main point -- CZ is showing (as others before him) how to engage a woman's emotions, what the point is for them, etc. He emphasizes calmness and playfulness. An escort will give you none of this -- *unless you treat her this way, too, understanding her emotions, because she, too...is a woman*.
your theories are 100% correct for western women.
Holy shot, Casey, it's happening with me right now w a married chick, she knows that I'm not going to get bent out of shape if she changes her mind ,and she does.
I have always kept 💯 percent take it or leave it attitude.
I didn't plan it ,but Holy shot, it's working.