14 Characteristics of a Sigma Male | The Lone Wolf
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- 14 Characteristics of a Sigma Male | The Lone Wolf. There was a time when men were described as either being the Alpha Male or the Beta Male. Alpha Males, with their leadership qualities, strong confidence, and no-nonsense approach to life were at the head of the pack. Beta Males, eager to take orders and fall into line were the alternative. But the more we learn about people, the more we have discovered that there are variations of Alpha and Beta and a new type of personality is seeming to emerge. One that is neither Alpha nor Beta and is dancing to the beat of his own drum: Sigma Male. The Sigma Male is currently a hot topic in psychology and people are sitting up and paying attention to what this new personality type is doing in the world. Sigma Males have always been around, doing their own thing on the fringe of society. These are the rule breakers and makers. They get a lot of attention for good and bad things, but it’s what we don’t yet know about these personality types that keep people coming back for more.
What is a Sigma Male?
A Sigma Male is a man who chooses to live his life outside of the normal social dominance hierarchy of society. Sigma males have similar traits to alpha males but prefer to walk to the beat of their own drum, and don’t often take orders from people or conform to society’s labels or systems. Sigma Males are the men who are riding off into the sunset on their horses without much more to their name than the pack on their back. They don’t need things from society the way other men do. They are often self-employed, traveling nomads who seek adventure and knowledge, rather than material goods and possessions. Sigma Males are not as far removed from society’s hierarchy as they would have you believe, and many of them don’t realize that they have an important role in the traditional hierarchical societies around the world. Sigma Males are often the ones who step outside their comfort zones, create amazing things, start businesses, are quiet and confident partners, and hard workers. While some people may think that Sigma Males retreat from society because they are lazy or don’t want to work, the opposite is true. They need time and space to craft their ideas and bring their dreams to life.
Characteristics of a Sigma Male
▸ He Loves Being Alone, But He Values Other People
▸ He Is a Silent Leader
▸ He Knows How To Adapt To Different Situations
▸ He Treats Everyone Around Him The Same Way
▸ He Doesn’t Need a Social Circle To Be Himself
▸ He Understands the Importance of Silence
▸ He’s Morally Grey, Or Worse
▸ He Hates Living Life Safely
▸ His Social Skills Could Use Some Work
▸ He’s Incredibly Self-Aware
▸ He Is the Master of His Own Fate
▸ It’s Hard To Understand Him
▸ He Could Be an Alpha If He Wanted
▸ He Can’t Be Told What To Do When It Comes To Anything
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00:00 Intro
00:53 What is a Sigma Male?
02:50 He Loves Being Alone, But He Values Other People
03:52 He Is a Silent Leader
04:49 He Knows How To Adapt To Different Situations
05:54 He Treats Everyone Around Him The Same Way
06:53 He Doesn’t Need a Social Circle To Be Himself
07:53 He Understands the Importance of Silence
09:06 He’s Morally Grey Or Worse
10:03 He Hates Living Life Safely
11:12 His Social Skills Could Use Some Work
12:29 He’s Incredibly Self-Aware
13:34 He Is the Master of His Own Fate
14:46 It’s Hard To Understand Him
16:01 He Could Be an Alpha If He Wanted
17:05 He Can’t Be Told What To Do When It Comes To Anything
18:00 The Secret To Keeping A Sigma Male Happy
18:24 New World Hierarchy
19:08 Conclusion
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Sigma is the person the king calls when he needs to get something done he can't handle himself. Who comes in gets things done then fades back off into the sunset.
WELL SAID
Sounds like a beta male to me
@@chaimrothberg5367 Nah beta males just follow the king's commands. The sigma advises the king.
@@chaimrothberg5367
You MUST be a beta male ..
To respond with something like that 🤭
🙌🏾
Sigma male: Not a leader because he doesn’t trust followers. He doesn’t live for his role, he just is what he is.
and not a follower, because he doesn't trust leaders.
Leads the group by influence so he doesn’t have to deal with the drama.
that sounds awfully true yet weird
Sounds like he'll on earth
An Antihero, if you will.
1. Loves being alone but values others
2. Silent leader
3. Knows how to adapt to diff situations
4. Treats everyone equally
5. Doesnt need social circle to be himself
6. Understands importance of silence
7. Morally gray or worse
8. Takes risks
9. Social skills need work
10. Incredibly self-aware
11. Master of his own fate
12. Hard to understand
13. Can be alpha if he wants
14. Cant be told what to do (stubborn)
Bonuses:
-you have to appeal to his pragmatic side and list benefits of getting him to try new things
-dont ostracize his choice, ask him about his plans or intents to change things in a big way
-moves upward in hierarchy by his own design and making.
Glad to save you some time… take care!
Lol 9 describes me so well 😂😂😂😭
Writing the list is a sign of sigma lol
sigma male=future sexual offender
My husband exactly
@@drunkenpirate3201 well there’s an open mind.
I am 72 years old, and I have spent my life trying to fit in to the Alfa or Beta role. For the first time I know who I am, thanks to your video. I will no longer try and fit into some one’s views of who I should be, and what I should do, but now I will be WHO I AM . Watch out world.😎
Well said!
Better late than never! Im sorry to hear you have tried to fit in. Other peoples opinions about you is irrelevant. Opinions are like assholes - everybody got one. Nobody should be coerced, threatened or bribed into being someone their not.
You are only 72. This gives you 15 good years to make a real impact on society. Never ever again shall you bow your head to anyone. Since we are created equal that is how we shall treat eachother. With respect and goodwill. I salute you Sir from Norway. If you ever should find yourselves here Im open for beer and shared silence with an occasional crazy story. Take care and use time well.
It's not late It's just high quality vintage
Your life is complete. You now belong to a group….a true sigma wouldn’t even care
@@mattie9481 I, too, found this comment to be a bit ironic.
Sigma Male; a narcissist's worst nightmare 😉
😂😩
Yes we are
Sigmas are the narcissists.
@@jasonkimbler4521 you might want to look up what a narcissist actually is. It's more of an alpha personality
@@jasonkimbler4521 lol a narc is ego af...
I almost fell over laughing when he said we have bad social skills. It's not like I'm bad, I just don't wanna put that much energy into being that good all the time for other people.
This is my sentiment exactly. 💯
Damn
I feel like that all the time. Sometimes relationships and putting on airs is too exhausting. I would rather spend the time by myself. That doesn’t equate to bad social skills.
This,
I never gave a fuck if everyone liked me....only the people I deemed worthy..
@@prone_wolf8871 that sounds less sigma and more anti-social
I would say i got a little emotional while watching this because it described my personality so perfrctly. I have been misunderstood so many times in my life and when you constantly battle in your mind to understand why you are different or perceived different (not that you care what others think-the lone wolf mentality) then having some answers for yourself is truly refreshing.
I wonder if indigos are really sigma.. I’m an indigo from 1986.. both descriptions describe me
The fact that you teared up during a personality video proves you're a Beta. Crying never happens with Alpha or Sigma males unless Young and the Restless is on.
So that's what I am cool cheers everyone. Be you be true and find your space.
Contrived and deceptive is key.
beta-male behaviour
I'm definitely a lone wolf 🐺, walking my own path, not needing validation and can't stand fake people with cheap/superficial attitudes/actions/behaviors. I set my own path and welcome people with like-minded spirit and attitudes. Shoutout to my fellow Lone Wolves Sigma brothers, the true leaders and pioneers of the world that strive to change our crazy present-day world for the better.
Im in big trouble ,cause im a sigma bigtime ,like a enhanced version
And my partner follows kardashians and is materialistic ,,,,and i hate it ....
Just live your live for others..... You become what you want to then be honest about it and don't let anyone know your intentions
@@sapkarronya9081 live ur life for others ??
First of all let me tell you there's no such thing as a lone Wolf wolves are pack animals they love each other's company I consider myself a bear bears are solitary creatures who do not need the company of other bears accept when it comes to mating
@@lukem2260 oh my goodness...
So basically sigmas are alphas that don't need to have their egos stroked all the time.
Excatly!
Well none of the alpha males I know (at least the genuine ones) need their egos stroked, they will do what they know is best and right with or without people.
Pretty much like Tigers,
Cringe
An alpha male that wants their ego stroke are betas pretending to be alpha
He forgot that sigma are allergic to fakers
@@vidalskyociosen3326 psychopathy at it's finest. We see you.
🙌🏾
Glory to that!!
@@mrsdowns08 who are you describing? And where did you get that info??
@Justanother Guywithabeard feel what ??
My grandad was a sigma male, he lived with us but spoke punjabi, I wish learned more punjabi so I could have communicated with him more. A man of a few words who could protect himself if need be, a hard working Independent man. RIP Grandad ❤️
This brought me to tears. I finally know who I am at 54. Mind blown. Thanks for this video...very eye opening.
You are so welcome
IM A SIGMA ALPHA MALE WHO IS 15, WANT TO MEET UP????
In other words, he is a silent guardian...a watchful protector...a dark knight.
Yes sir
😎 "always watching, always watching"
Or a mother.
@@yrbttncrtlrrbttncrtlrr1855 K. I was half kidding- But I'm a Mother and always a silent guardian- a watchful protector and if ANYONE TRIED to hurt my child it would be a pretty DARK night for that individual...just sayin'. ; )
The hero we needed
A sigma male already knows all this because a sigma male is an introspection expert
Yeah but didn't know their was term for it .and that the world might not see it as a bad thing.
@@dannyridley2437 Exactly. I already knew this innately, I just didn’t know it was a term for it. Very very liberating!
@@dannyridley2437 They don't care that there is a term for it.
They simply don't care.
@@dannyridley2437 ha 👍🏼
I've been trying to find a word capable of describing my capability in understanding my mental, emotional, physical etc quirks... And now I found it, introspective, finally!
Sigma INFJ here. The more of these personality-type videos I see, the more I realize why I felt so misunderstood most of my life. To me, my outlook seems natural and right and even quite simple, but somehow it is so easily misunderstood by most people. Maybe because they are judging my behavior and assuming my motivations based upon what they know of Alphas and Betas.
I think there is a blood type connection to infj's. I know few and all of them are a negative. It's anecdotal but lots of infj's have a negative blood too. Not saying blood type is completely deterministic but I think it plays a role in infjs, sigma tendencies.
if you took an online personality test and are using 4-letter acronyms in conversations just STOP! Get some help. Come up out of the basement, step outside, get some fresh air, interact with REAL people (instead of thru a keyboard) and rejoin society.
@@josealexi5141 The MB typing is just another tool that provides language, that's all. It isn't gospel. It's a shorthand way of referring to people who process the world in certain ways and their behavior can be predictable based on that. It's accurate enough for those purposes.
I mean even you saying shit like "get some help" and "interact with real people" and "rejoin society" shows you have your head up your own ass and can't imagine that other people wouldn't see and process the world the way that you do. Some people don't enjoy "interacting with real people" because "real people" are judgmental twats with their heads up their own asses. What's funny, too, is that you're assuming he's a basement dweller because he spent two minutes leaving a comment and referred to a psychological tool and yet you're here scrolling through TH-cam comments yourself. Maybe you should get out of your own basement and leave people alone.
@@anwylhsm954 that's the problem now, Everybody needs to "feel special" and have a niche. "I'm a Sigma!" or "I'm an INFJ but with a head bulge and a left-hand-twist. You know, that's as rare as being born with fully developed breasts and 3 testes."
@@josealexi5141 I can certainly agree with that. I don't like all the "labels" at all. Everyone wants to be a special snowflake and be given special treatment. My teen daughter told me that kids wear lanyards around with buttons of their pronouns and fake disorders on them. How sad is that? There's a Geico commercial, of all things, that made me laugh where that woman is like, "It turns out I'm an introvert. It's very rare."
With MB typing, though, if you take it for what it is and are aware there are only 16 very broad types, and that it's really more about perception and processing, it can be useful - like I said, with providing language and a small window into understanding different points of view. I married someone who is my polar opposite and we have a very hard time communicating sometimes and I was able to use the way that different people process information differently - using some of the language and terms as shorthand - and it does help us communicate. We don't use it as labels of course, it was actually more about the cognitive functions those types are based on and Jung's theories. For example, I had spent years trying to show him that I process from the outside in, filling in information as I go, and he processes from the inside out, in a thorough, linear way. He couldn't quite get the difference until reading up on it, where one way is referred to as an "intuitive" and the other way is referred to as a "sensor". Because of that the concepts solidified in his mind a little bit more and now he better understands why I get super impatient when he gets stuck on a detail, and why he gets lost and thinks that I'm all over the map. It's just armchair psychology.
But yes, if you go so deep into labels and acronyms and theories and things like that I think people get lost in it and can't see the forest for the trees, so to speak. It's important to "know thyself" and for some people who process in more unique ways reading up on these things can be very helpful in understanding why they might feel alienated or awkward. But labels can often get in the way of understanding yourself in any real way and instead you've just slapped on a bunch of superficial identifiers and you're more lost than you were to begin with. This is the entire issue with Gen Z in my opinion.
Sorry for the Ted talk. Lol
This is such a accurate picture. Thanks for taking the time and effort to make this video the way it is. 👍👍
Wow I've wondered why I felt so different growing up. Love solitude..charisma turned on when needed, internally thinking..silent leader who helps solve someone's problems instead of chatting about why the problem is a problem . Efficiency..no ego..finslly I'm ME AT 40 lol
😁
wat
Don't lap up the bullshit. You are HUMAN. You are in a minority.
Sounds a lot like myself
Hey man, I'm in my late 20's & just came to a deep realization about something; the ego. It seems to me that most of our actions & feelings is solely based off of our egos. Ever since I "destroyed" my ego, I feel as if no one can offend me even if they tried to. If I'm going to be offended about something, that's because I'm allowing myself to be offended. Or if I feel insecure about something, that's because I'm allowing myself to feel insecure; no one else. See, the ego can be a bitch to deal with if you let it go unchecked. Look at people who carry a lot of pride (this could be about anything), they tend to have fragile egos & go crazy when you "insult" them. I think one can still feel any emotion (to a certain degree) without letting your ego take over. It used to get under my skin when someone would do something to me in order to rattle me one way or another. Now I'm not phased by it. Perhaps it's a stoic practice that I unintentionally came to pick up. Anyway, didn't mean to make this long.
Lone wolf. We all know who we are, don't even need an explanation.
Yup none needed
Well said
sigma balls
nerd
Cringe
It’s beautiful when this video describes you 100% and now you truly understand yourself
I have a slight deviation in one of the traits, I do talk quite a bit about my personal life but in a good way, to get people to know me more and find a comfort zone with me, but I do have boundaries and I've made them apparent to a few of my coworkers.
Very easy to distinguish a Sigma. Whenever there's a company meeting and when Alpha male (CEO, etc.) is done talking in front of a group, he would then asks people to voice their opinions, there's always this one who begins to speak and everyone turns and listens to him.
This means alot to me. I've always wondered why I felt different & didn't feel the need for following societies norms. Maybe that's why I moved into the forest & began homesteading. I enjoy surviving on my own & creating things from what's around me. I don't need company or care if I'm looked at differently. This video explains so much to me. I grew up being told & believing that I was mentally wrong about so many things. I'm glad to know there are other's out there like me.
YESSIR
In envy you.
This always been my goal!! I'm happy for you
Sigma males don't live in the forest. They need people in order to be themselves
I am COMPLETELY with u...i thought about living off-grid and I am an entrepreneur at the beginning of my journey...like dam this video just made me feel "welcomed"
It feels so good to have a video like this describe how my personality has been my whole life.. Very much appreciated for the video!!!
I struggled with finding a “type” that describes my identity, but this was so relieving to hear.
Alphas who like to pop the 'Sigma personality bubble' don't know how to handle the fact that there are men out there who don't care they are are Alpha.
Alphas need the social order. Sigmas look at the social order and roll their eyes.
Oh yeah bro you're so bad the way you roll your eyes at society. Meanwhile you're so confident you had to come to this video to reassure yourself lmfaooo
@@willdeleon7853 The same could be said for you then.
@@willdeleon7853 smh. Solid attempt at proving your beta status.
What's interesting is most sigmas are created by the presence of alphas
@@williambarkus rebels
Today is the day I realized I’ve been a sigma male the whole time trying to become “ alpha “ .. now I found a new respect for myself and the way I carry myself ! Thank you!!
Same here!!!!!
We are already awesome!!!!!!☆☆☆☆☆
Sorry but if u try to become Alpha u are not sigma
@@MrJuhs91 exactly
Any of you poor losers ever try just working out and being normal? Instead of trying to convince yourself you're John Wick. I hope you guys are super young, like 12, cuz I can't see a mature, confident guy watching vids like this.
@@noremac0575 the entire existence of this video is cancer. Men who are obsessed with this hierarchy are worthy of being called losers.
Wow, this video hit me right between the eyes. For as long as I can remember, I never really fit in anywhere. Always perfered being alone, but do enjoy being around others at times. I've always been resourceful and good at solving problems. The only thing I can't seem to succeed at is a relationship, had many girlfriends but the only thing they had in common was me.
200% relatable!!!! everything was spot on to my personality type. I always wondered where I fit in because I never felt like an alpha or a beta but maybe both and boom, I came across this video.
Same here. Exactly spot on. Be the leader that the situation requires! Not the over baring dominent one in the room just for egos sake but for the betterment of the team and for the achievement of the goal that has been established.
I don't think s true sigma would care where they do or don't fit in
Crazy right! I felt the same way. I grew up very quiet, and was a great athlete. I couldn't wait for football season because I would smash all the loud talking alpha males in the mouth and dominate them. They were always so confused on how they couldn't beat a "beta" turns out I was a sigma 🤣
cringe as fuck
@@renetravers3839 I never said I cared where I fit in. I said wondered. 2 different definitions. You can wonder about anything and not really give two f’s about it. Besides, nothing is ever black or white. Everything’s a spectrum. I’m sure there are some sigma males who do care where they fit in
Some of this is hard to hear because of how close it hits home. It’s incredibly strange that I can recall doing these things as far back as elementary school.
Strangely enough I'd hate the attention from being semi athletic and would literally hide with my other sigma male classmate from the rest of the hurd lol this was 5th grade ...but even in 1st grade I can remember not wanting a large group of friends ..smh crazy stuff my dude
nerd
Same
@@firefox4743 That's Beta, dude.
@My Personality Is On A Border this comment is the most embarrassing thing i've ever read
I never felt like I fit into Alpha or Beta. This was 100% relatable:
- I'm a successful Artist / freelance game dev. (I pursued an unconventional, high risk field to feel purpose).
- I'm an huge introvert, a lone wolf, silent, I left the city to live in the country side and be around nature.
- I've never wanted to compete with others. Big house? Fast cars? Hot Girlfriend? I'm happy for you, and I'm not competing.
- I've looked for purpose, not money / conventional success. "success" to me is not an expensive condo in a prestigious city.
- When I'm at an interview / meeting new people, I don't wonder if they like me, but if I like them.
- A lot of my views don't fall into the status quo, I'm a free thinker and formulate nuanced views on things.
- I haven't been motivated my women, as*, b*obs, s*x. It's always been about a lasting connection that I would actually allow into my sacred space.
- My solitude is sacred, it's time for me to grow, introspect, nurture my creativity, it's the fuel that sustains my being.
- I don't like to be in the spotlight / lead, I prefer to be the keystone / mastermind.
- I don't care about impressing, nor with this comment.
Maybe some of you relate.
Totally!
Even relationships or S*x is Something should be meaningful with someone synchronizing harmony and embrace serenity in straight forward honest And considering manner... otherwise it's pure waste!
Have you ever had your hormone blood levels checked? Sounds like low testosterone.
Most people are not alpha, beta or sigma. Although betas are becoming pretty common in the west But still. These descriptions are too fit a certain kind of people, not all people fit in one of these categories. I think alot of people are just calling themselves sigma because they don't fit the category of alpha, they don't want to be considered a beta. The reality is that, maybe you aren't any of them.
You certainly understand how to express yourself
I do
This stunned me. Except for a few details this described how I think to perfection.The social parts of it blew me away especially as I have always kinda beat myself up over my dislike for formalities. I literally stopped in my tracks while listening many times as I was hearing words spoken that described me in a way that was dead on exactly right but that my mind had never mapped out and understood. I just can't describe how much it hits home. The super complimentary parts I can't/won't claim as a perfect description of me....no not at all.....but the mindset, the independence of thought, the complete rejection of hierarchy, the desire to be fair to everyone as best I can in whom I might show attention or have conversation, the fearlessness of the Alpha and the confidence to take charge if necessary.....all of it is me. Amazing.
I literally started randomly crying at number 12. I saw another sigma video and was blown away. This is me completely. It's spooky. Great video.
Sigma male: the ultimate efficient introvert that likes company
Not any company most people are not worth the time! Only quality people!!!
@@mauricedavis2905 LMAOOOO
I had just got done watching this video of sigma male it just got my thinking from all the time inside life. 65% been a person to myself most of the time as looking back at the time was a child from those time not many people don't understand me. I have some few people know me as not popular as those other people into the baseball, soccer and football. This guy on the video have me crying 😭 from the trues of which he point out of those of something of me never did notice about before now. Maybe That's why I am so distance from most of the people see in personals and online, cause they seen to don't wanna have to here what I got to say or something 😢
Sounds like Me... Woof
Also known as a male INFJ.
This was one of the most accurate, confirming, and liberating descriptions I’ve ever heard. Thank you for creating this.
Glad you enjoyed it!
I agree with you this Old thing sounds new
Thank you for sharing I thought that something was wrong. this is very encouraging very encouraging I am laughing deep inside rejoicing! Confirmation is sweet!
We've been found out.
Same here
"Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it."
Bruce Lee
I’m fascinated. In the Past, I often felt that I needed to work on myself to be an the full alpha. However, I felt as if I enjoyed my solitude & felt more flexible regarding social interactive scenarios. This reflects my personality & definitely feel complimented rather than complicated.
Because Sigmas know no one truly wins at life. We all come and go and nothing is really important than knowing yourself.
nerd
@@centi7618 😂
Winning implies competing, and you shouldn't be competing with anybody except who you were yesterday. Exactly
One of the very few worthy comments as a whole. You are a wise man, and as such you will know how important that is.
.... After all lads... Knowing... Is half the battle... 😂
I thought I was weird, but this describes me on many levels.
Finally found out what my lone wolf alpha male style have lived all my life is actually called!
As do enjoy being around people in small doses while spend most of my time alone doing my own thing so far ahead of the pack setting trends all my life as by the time they become trends have already moved on to the next cool thing that have created in my mind for myself in the extraordinary life that have led and will continue to lead as that’s all know how to do!!
THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
Your video is the most accurate description I have heard on the internet :) congrates from a sigma black wolf. Being the best version of myself.
There nothing no better than being alone & having silence the frequency vibes that brings new thoughts & ideas
Stoned male...
Potent ✨🌠
I would say having someone to share ideas with is always amazing 🙏🥇
@@justlucky964 true it is always good to have that as long as peace is within the room of environment
@@WallyW20 that I believe is what we all search for 🙏🖖👊
This video meant a lot to my partner and me. He sent this to me and said, “it’s scary how much this describes me!”
I watched it and every single characteristic describes him. Some parts made me cry because of the realizations that dawned upon me. I’m glad he found this video and shared it with me.
Some commenters are saying a Sigma is basically an Alpha that doesn’t need attention or his ego inflated but it’s so much more than that.
Thanks for sharing. It’s help my partner to better understand himself and me to understand him even more.
Straight facts
so awesome that you appreciate understanding a little more who he is
Amazing. I sincerely appreciate you sharing. I was on the fence about sharing this with my significant other. Your comment was the deciding factor.
@@devlinm5398 how did it turn out?
I can't wait to show my wife this I Shedded a couple of Tears after watching this and finally felt understood and then immediately stop crying because that's how our minds work
Listening to this, I fit into about 13 of these traits. Good video 👍
Cool, thanks!
Thank you for this. Great video and very informative.
Last year I had a session with a psychologist and he defined me as an a-typical or textbook defined "Sigma Male" with a personality type of INFJ. He said keep it up and be true to yourself. Best advice I've ever received.
Thanks for sharing!
@@WiseWords1 You're very welcome. Another interesting fact about me is that my totem/spirit animal is the bald eagle.
ENFJ here... the E exposes me to many others while I never feel it’s really right to connect, or trust and I measure sooo much due to the J.
It’s like being highly social and not social at all. I can sell most anything effectively yet don’t have friends or social group basically speaking.
Your I, is in effect natural stealth. Save’s you from many social pains I endure as it’s extremely tiring for me to be continuously quite.
I can only be extremely quite when selling. Aka when the pay 💰off is worth the strong suppression.
That said... talking to audiences for me feels like being a maestro or symphony conductor.
Weird part is people saying I’m great and showing strong friendship interest in me.
I don’t care for it, past the fact that it’s evidence the talk was well formulated.
I’m happy they are happy. I want good for them. I like giving the talk and the attention or experience of interaction... but the flood of one on one attention afterward is not to be so enjoyed.
Much easier to be a I and say do IT work. Simpler easier struggle.
Apha is the general of the army. Sigma is the Achilles in an army.
Agamemnon insulted Achilles and had the tide of war turned against him. Hector plays an interesting Alpha/Sigma role for the Trojans.
The average man cannot exist without an alpha model. Sigma men don’t care about either. The alpha creates a society and trains followers to fight for what the alpha wants. The sigma doesn’t care about any of that and can exist alone and support his own life. The alpha can’t exist without beta, beta cannot without alpha. Sigma won’t follow alpha and again, need neither to exist. Be a free thinker.
@@i.a1932 alphas feel like they have to be a pack leader because that is there role in the pack
@@taunohill6710 and the sigma puts an arrow,Bullitt or bashes the alpha to death for being àn assholr
Anyone surviving their gangstalkers. They are owning my movements but hate I still have some rage to not give in. If you're there yet,lets chat
Sigma male:
• cooks his own food
• has a backbone of choices, but exploring new things without being involved or obsessed
• focus on their mental and physical well-being
• likes company, but loves people more who gives them space.
It's not about rejecting and accepting, it's about choosing what favours your well being and not obsessing on things that play no vital long term goal.
You have just described me😂
Also im somewhere in between of an extrovert and introvert, thats me.
Somedays I can talk alot, some days im more quiet. I cant explain this..
I train both MMA and Judo, I never felt that I fit in as an alpha or beta👌
Yeah, I just watched and listened to the narrative. This narrative described me to a T.
I like being around people , but at the same time I relish my alone time.
I go to rock concerts, but I mostly go by myself.
I have been described as being
" Wierd" but smart by my current boss, but somehow I am given tasks to accomplish, and never hear a peep about any d
Sorry fat fingered myself . To finish:
To complete my task and never hear a peep on any miscalculations on my part. Any way , way to much from me about me. Great Narrative.
Perfect. Succinct. People get butthurt with my ease. Humans are all brothers and sisters.
I always new who I was, but explaining it to others was not happening, this video is perfect, Thank You!
This whole video was awesome. I probably checked off all the boxes, though to varying degrees.
This may not describe me to a perfect tee, but it's all very close enough - enough to provide a clearer picture.
Perspective of a sigma is like walking into a grocery store and everyone just looks at you like the main character in a movie for seemingly no reason. Like people are bothered by or aware of your presence just because of your energy
Do you genuinely believe that?
@@oliverallan3719 it’s what I’ve gathered from my own personal experience I can’t speak for anyone else. It seems to be because sigmas have less trouble being themselves, so when the people around them who aren’t being themselves and fall into standardized societal patterns pick up on this, they react in jealousy, probably subconsciously a lot of the time, and send sometimes weird negative energy. You know how the saying going, they don’t like what they don’t understand
@@oliverallan3719 goes*
'I can't speak for anyone else' .. Yeh you lost me here. All of what you typed is mere speculation. You may think you have main character energy and that all the 'people around them who aren't being themselves' are subconsciously jealous of how authentic they are. But you literally have no idea what people are thinking. Chances are, unless your distinctively attractive, people wont give a shit about you. Yes you can turn heads if your confident, dress/act a certain way are unique or whatever - but that doesn't give you this strange sigma male status, which means youre above everyone else.
Also if someone really is a Sigma male, with a main character type of energy, surely they aren't actually concerned what other, mere normal people, (who aren't actually being themselves) think of them. Fact is, you and every other sigma wannabe on here is actually desperate for validation from others. Why else would you be on this YT video?
In my experience the sigma male is the guy the alpha male confides in. Usually the strong wise silent type.
Like Spock from Stat Trek?
@@jamesjci exactly
Shrigma male
@@jamesjci Spock never made a tactical decision that wasn't learned from Kirk or from a book. Captain Kirk could turn a losing battle into a fighting chance at winning the war. Spock was beta and then some till he had no choice to fight, Kirk was a stone cold killer, just ask the Klingon's....acting sure but a good inventive of a sigma
Rafiki and mufasa
I'm definitely the lone wolf type and never felt the Alpha Beta types applied to me. I'm fine with being by myself and doing my own thing but also fine with socializing when I'm in the mood.
I enjoyed every second of the video . Thank you ❤️
Honestly it’s truly amazing how accurate this video is. Just gotta say living in the middle of nowhere in the woods by yourself is like heaven I wouldn’t trade it for anything.
I wasn't in the woods, but not many knew I lived off grid in a giant willow tree a hundred yard from a big trashy homeless camp. Last summer was the best summer of my life! With very little money, built a camp inside a giant willow tree that had 11 hugebranches coming off the trees trunk, it hid a 10 × 10 with room to spare, had 5 × 6 deck, that you walk out on one of the branches to the hammock, next the the DVD shelf. A camp shower on a pully with 3 panels that fit into holes made of pipe in the ground. Water tank hooked up to 1/2 inch tubing. That ran to the solar shower bag. That is only half of the camp description.
I've lived at the top of a mountain
In an army tent, growing. Wood stove, hot water, shower, real toilet and all. Just mad work and my solitude. I was quite content.
We are hunters, warriors, protectors and builders. Let men be men. Let's return to our true basic selves by returning to nature.
Well said fellow Sigma.
That sounds good but We fucked up the environment so much there’s not much nature left
I like this one. Stay strong broham.
@@xrpvegas5407 then you’ve become oblivious to how much nature there really is. I live in Ohio, and while we have some major cities, they are all surrounded by farmland, dense woods, and lakes. In 20 mins I can be in complete silence and solitude. Surrounded by wildlife and wilderness. Have humans hurt the environment? We surely haven’t helped. But things are not on the precipice of doom like many would love for you to believe.
Silver back male.
This has been me since a young man at school. Often alone, never part of a group, or at least not for a long time. Still have friends but don’t need to see them often and have intermittent contact. Even the part about women is spot on! So crazy! Even when I was the lead singer in a band I never felt the need to push my authority or spend all my free time with the group. Try to treat people well but I won’t be told what to do by anyone and have always lived alone even when I have had partners. And never happier then having an evening alone.
Wauw!! Thanks for this video!!!!! This is me forsure, always been! Thanks so muchhh
You are so welcome!
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment."
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
and greatest feeling too
Love this
Well said. I have one rule I am the same person everyday. Know yourself.
To Thine Ownself Be True. Yes, We Are Sigma.
one of the most favorite quotes
I always respected this type of character in the movies. The John Wick/James Bond character who can command the room but doesn’t need to be at the center of it yet have just as much influence. I’ve always been drawn to be that type of man. Quietly working in the background without the need for fanfare but being efficient and getting things done as all the socializing can be draining. As this type of man I realize how important it is to preserve my energy.
Basically a character like The Punisher.
I say Clint Eastwood
One is an assassin and the other is a secret agent. Their job requirement to quietly work in the background.
Thank you for this. This concisely confirmed how I've felt for years. "Actions speak louder than words" even confirms my social media handle "Action Fredo." Best regards to you.
I just want to thank you because I never knew what I was until saw this.its given me something that I've now related to and know where I'm going
I sent this to my mom. She said she finally understands me now. Words can't express how good that felt to hear... thanks for making this video.
no fucking way u just did that it so fucking edgy and cringy
@@gobrrr61 lol how
@@gobrrr61 Damn dude, chill!
@@supernova8604 sigma doesnt fucking exist it called introvert
@@gobrrr61 lmao 😂
Great minds are meant to live in solitude
@Greatest Ever Not only is that true but, because there's untrustworthy people out there, it's not their business to know your every move, anyway!
Word bruv
My god!!! This was almost scary to listen to and at the same time I have never felt more understood in my life... I feel like a living definition that has finally found its word! You have my subscription hands down!!!
Wonderful!
Be yourself in social situations, as was said before, we stay who we are and don't change for others; at least once we get past certain aspects.
This is insane, this describes me almost perfectly, I always felt like an outcast and different from most of my peers, I felt for years I needed to be more social so people like me, but never really cared, being so reserved, I’ve never cared for popular fashion or trends, and I don’t have a particular social groups, I walk alone often but still value my family more than anything, I never thought that I could possibly be sigma
You'll be surprised to read zodiac signs and how vague they are so you can relate to them
It never fails with videos like these which describe what is supposed to be a rare type of person.... 100% of every single person in the comments: "That's me! I AM the person the video is talking about"
If you are young, don't swear this crap. Alpha, Beta, and even this - none has roots in science. Generalizations...at least the first two. This is way over the top and stupid.
You should carve your own path. But do not exclude making friends and having shared experiences - you will regret that one day. I am a solo guy, but man do I love my small friend group. This video is not to be followed. If you get awkward at the idea of making buddies or asking a chic out, just remember - no one is going to kill, arrest, or bother you for being friendly. Most people want to see others succeed and we all show our ass at some point. We throw dirt on it ans keep trying.
As for chics, we all get rejected - alphas get rejected and I know a ton of introverted guys with families. This video is not an excuse to give up. Alphas look good at this because they bounce back and continue trying. A rejection is just a chic saying no - they are strange and make bad decisions all the time. Meet a chic build commonality, let her get comfortable and be direct but do not push a chic when its time for move making - simple. The internet is going to ruin us all.
@@mikerentiers
Sigma is just a hyped up way if saying basement dwelling pansy boi.
I'd even be willing to bet the person who started to normalize the Sigma ideology was a pint sized half twit mama's boy with he physical stature of an athletic female... not quite muscular, but a little more robust than straight out feminine. Probably even has a fashion sense caught somewhere between wearing combat boots as a fashion statement, but with girlie silky-lace panties worn secretly under his skin tight skinny jeans.
There's leaders, and followers in the animal kingdom, nothing in between except for those thrown out of the herd, and human are animals too. Those thrown from the herd are usually sick, deformed, or have some other type of condition which puts the rest of the herd in danger should it be allowed to stay.
Alphas and Betas, period. That's what there is, nothing more. Those claiming to be Sigma are literally admitting that they lack any criteria matching that of a leadership quality, and their personalities are too submissive for anyone to be willing to see them as leaders, even from if not directly related to, an animalistic perspective.
@@john.wick1 That is a patently false characterization of the animal kingdom. At best, it's a gross oversimplification. Humans are animals, and tigers are animals, and mollusks are animals, and so on and so forth. Are you clam? Fuck, I don't know, possibly. But more importantly, if you consciously use this nebulous, binary caste system as your compass for navigating the complexities of human social interaction and civilization, then you might actually be deserving of it. Anyone referring to the Alpha-Beta concept seems unable to resist framing themselves as some fundamental part of society, and without them the world would cease to exist as they know it. Their world in fact would. Because their life seems to only have meaning to them if it has meaning to others.
This is just a 20 minute video of some guy masturbating, muttering under his breath about how everyone from high school was wrong and he's just so dark and misunderstand. "Some day I'll show them, they just don't get me!" It's a neurotic contrarian with a Christ complex. Maybe you just have bad social skills and rather than making an effort to work on it, you adopt it as a personality. You're Jerry wearing his shirt backwards saying, "I like this way." Maybe you don't do things others do so that they'll notice you and think you're different, which you confuse with interesting. Maybe you're a worse person than you give yourself credit for.
And that's okay. So many would rather build an entire house ifIt's okay to be normal. Most people are not secret, mysterious geniuses. They die shitting themselves in obscurity with little wealth to their name surrounded by anyone that was able to tolerate them for their very human flaws, and appreciate their very human qualities. And they're lucky to have that, as many people pass away with even less. It's okay to live a human life. You're both more and less special than you think you are. You don't have to change the fucking world. Try living with the truth first.
It's heartbreaking how normalized the act of constant self-obsession has become. Thinking about yourself this much is a slow, lonely poison. The world is a vast, interesting place, and yet too many spend life inside their head, with only themselves for company.
No wonder they tend to create such grandiose interpretations of themselves.
It feels pretentious to want to wear the title "sigma male" but this video stirs a deep connection with me. I've always detested the dickish ways of alphas, but the role as a beta is unacceptable. I moved around alot as a child, was often the new kid, always felt a sense of loss of things that I acquired over time but would lose when uprooted. Hard work makes me feel close to God, I like to put all of myself into my endeavors and even when I'm exhausted I like to muster my strength and persevere. In workplace environments I like to talk to my superiors as tho I am their equal, and I address outcasts and bottom feeders as tho they are my own equals. It is a trait that has served me well over the years because those at the top of the hierarchy respect me for putting myself on their level when I communicate. Those towards the bottom of the pyramid remember that I treated them the same way I treated everyone else and that has also served me well. Thank you for this video because it makes me feel a bit more at home in this world that has often left me feeling as tho a place has never really existed "for me"
Have to say, I dig it exactly.. you put it extremely well.
Wow. All I can say is EXACTLY
It's not pretentious if you're not pretending to be something you're not naturally comfy with.
Your journey describes mine to a T. I've always instinctually done these same things
PREACH GIRLLLLL
Thank you so much for this video!
You are so welcome!
This is my way. I isolate from people because their drama makes me sick, at the same time when I am around people I find that I can almost always find something to appreciate about each person.
My husband, to the "T." Yes, he sent me this video, because even after 23 years of marriage, he is still a stubborn ass, but he feels bad when I cry; I still don't fully understand him, and that can create friction.
Don't know if this applies to all Sigma males, but I suspect they are very faithful to their significant other.
You will never fully understand him. But trust , integrity depth and silent determination are what drives him fakery and bullshit is not shouted about but avoided . Faithful loyal to those who earn it . Strong and silent its what we do . Peace .
Don't be selfish, and attention seeker. Let him be
@@miranblazek5303 your comment makes no sense.
they are faithful because we have to much to do, so much to think about.
I understand this my wife of 20 years still doesn't understand what I am and why even though I think I have talked and shone her all my characteristics and reasons behind my actions of how I was created. Friction happens between us I think only because of gender... And my belief that generationally people try to program young people to a certain response instead of allowing them to grow naturally. Some want to be kings and queens and how one can if they don't have their "peasants". Peace.
It's just annoying sometimes to come in a situation to tell someone: "Just because I am silent and tolerant, doesn't mean I am blind and stupid."
But yes, sometimes it's necessary to bring back order in place.
agreed i believe sigma society is mocked as we are discrimated against by beta wolf pack leaders
I have most of these traits. You find quickly that you are going to be lonely. Sometimes it doesn't matter, sometimes it is a heavy burden. But you just don't reach out, and handle it yourself, as that is the only way you know
A lone wolf having the capacity to lead, but cant be bothered, bouncing back from adversities due to strong intuition and exploring those grey areas with justice describes the animal I am.
I usually don’t like labels but damn 🎯
Bro… that’s Sigma energy! 😂 I’m with you!
@@buyyourhoodback I understand you have no friends
@@karby3179 tf
@@karby3179 better to love yourself than get it from others.
@@kaiiheenjik1668 beta grindset
All of a sudden, every guy thinks they are a SiGmA MaLe! 😂
😆😆😆😆
ACTUAL SIR I'VE BEEN A SIGMA MALE MY ENTIRE LIFE
People have a necessity to belong or have a purpose, this "sigma" label will help with their situation and decisions they've made.
Of course they do.
Some will be right....and some will just continue to be stupid - it's a win/ win.
Just about giving up on having anyone in this world understand who I am, I came across this video. As strong as I can be, this video brought me tears. There are actually others like me in this world! Being understood felt so joyful. Would love to connect with others with "Sigma" men or women qualities.
While watching this I felt as if my life story was being told, I have battled within my own mind for so long as I’ve always known I am no where being a beta male yet I am not alpha male as I cant stand the “alpha” males personality characteristics most of the time, this video was so accurate to the characteristics and personality that I have I truly felt as if my life story was being told of the type of man that I am! I thank you for this video as it has and will help me to be at peace am with myself and no longer be at war within my own mind questioning the type of man that I am! Thank you for this video!
Thanks for saying it even better than I could , Sigma Bro !
@C. Teer: _"While watching this I felt as if my life story was being told ... I am no where being a beta male"_
exact same thing uttered by every l0ser, social outcast and beta male since the dawn of time.
As an Aquarius I relate to this heavily. Especially about the seeming like a robot from other peoples perspectives. It’s not that we don’t care, because we do care about things a great deal. It’s just harder to be unbiased about any kind of situation if you allow emotions to cloud your judgement whatever the situation may be.
AQUA-RI-US!
Big facts.. too real tbh
aqua squad
Tau-rus men are born sigma males
You’re just a beta male sociopath. That’s all.
Sigma males are really good at accepting outcasts I know from my own experience.
Because we, ourselves are outcasts, and we always relate to the outcasts more.
nerd
@@valley6824 not a fuckin loser who watches Sigma male content pretending im special when in reality im just bad at talking to women lmaoo
@@centi7618 you haven't paid attention at all being a Sigma male is much more than how you interact with women its an entire lifestyle 👌
@@deuntaithomas4823 its about pretending you're special because you've settled into mediocrity. Genuinely just get some hobbies and meet people. This shit is going to stunt your ability to act rationally for a long time
This is a good vid, very observant, and well thought out
I’m so glad I found this. I always knew I’m not a alpha but this video helped me understand my self, this is accurate with me
Thank you for making this video
Glad it was helpful!
Sigmas are also alphas but with No PAC or followers and never follow anyone too
This is the perfect video so far about Sigma traits. Infact a perfect video about personality traits. The tonality, music, content and elaboration. Well done.
Wow!!! Eye opening. The fact that a Sigma male can act like a alpha if needed, but would prefer not too. I always wondered why I felt that way.
i feel i am a silent wepon often and my people just ask me serious qestions and also say my presents just feels and dont need to be load or explane myself !
cool to know eisier to go forward and dont qestion myself way everytime things just happends !
peace from sweden
I shared this with my wife and kids to hopefully help them 7nderstand why I am the way I am. Thank you for sharing.
Yeah most apply to me, but not the full list. I was fascinated by the phrase "surrounded by people, but alone", I understand it now, because I live it everyday.
"im a sigma"
"sigma what?"
"sigma balls"
HA! *GOT I'EM*
😂😂😂😂😂
@@tysonellis1172 glorious comment
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love the line about sigmas not needing constant verification. Very true.
We don't really care about it. It may look that we're inflexible but it's just the way it is.
You mean validation
OF COURSE they _SAY_ they don't need validation, because they *NEVER* get any, they never *EARN* any!
Definitely me! Not exactly, but about 85% for sure. I'm glad there's a section that describes me. There's probably subsections that haven't been discovered because I'm rather
1. Very vocal
2. Very black and white morally
3. Emotionally intune and very romantic
Can't thank you enough for this insight. I feel more than seen. This is a game-changer.
This is deeply accurate. My girl friend was struggling to understand me until i sent her this..
My fellow sigma males its up to us to help balance the world. I love yall man ik how hard it is to be misunderstood constantly bc of our deep thoughts, feelings perspectives, and desires, I assure u there r no coincidences. Do ur part every single person is important and we all need to fulfill our destinies for mother earth and her future. 💯💕🤞
Wow! I never heard of a Sigma. This video is incredible! I started to treat it as a test. Only two areas am I different in. And yet, they’re temporary differences. ;) Thank you for this.
Great to hear!
Thank you for Helping find myself in a time of loneliness !! God bless everyone find true peace
I remember when men were those who stood their ground.Who opened the doors for others. Who used charm and manners to move thorough life. A firm hand shake,
A look in the eye, a word kept and a chair put in for their partner in a restaurant and who loves with a heat of a burning sun..We see how men are supposed to be now but they look weak and are wishy washy.
Lets show the world who we are.
well...
..people, men.... aswell as women trye to live within their groups (at work, at home, at school, at the bus stop, around all kind of social situations) and don't want to bother assasing every situation and reacting acording to their personality; it easyer to have a (thin) mask on and use that all the time.
but yes, it makes pople more bland (blend/bland in, do you?)... and there you have it, the norm.
and everything that sticks out of that.. if even a little is labled, often as "abnormal", which is a shame really.... but we can't help ourselves. we are (ever so slightly) fake, so we expect that from others aswell; when you don't, you're basically a trator.
but hey.... fuck 'm! as long as I (or you) and live good with me (or you).. it's all good, no? it doesn't mean we should all jsut do as we like, that's what the phrase is for"don't do onto others......" oh right, you americans do it the other way around, no?).
a little respect carries a long way and a lot of respect even further; despite that you can't really buy anything with it (well.. maybe some counter-respect) ;- )
This is really well done. I would like to modify for another project - can we connect offline? Thanks.
Wow,I I've needed this video in this moment I'm in....for so long I knew I wasn't an alpha and wasn't a beta but never knew about Sigma, so my whole life I had to choose which characteristics to be which often time I chose alpha, even though it didn't quite feel right. I've been so fd up trying to figure out who I am and why I don't relate to either alpha or beta. Turns out, I've been a Sigma all along, I've just been lost in between two worlds I was forced to choose from when my category wasn't known to me. Man, what a relief this video was...
*True, Alpha's and Sigma's have a mutual respect for each other, one that Beta's aren't privy too, nor one they truly understand.*
i agree us sigmas need to stick together and improve our soicety to increase, lone wolves need a pack sometimes then maybe one day well all be as sigma as me
A sigma male is just as aggressive as an alpha, a sigma is just as strong as an alpha, the only difference is.. he doesn’t need the validation from society. He’s the one that can take down the beast, and avoids the attention afterwards. He’s the one causing problems for the alpha, making the alpha nervous. The sigma knows he can run the pack, but doesn’t wish to control anyone. He lives for himself and the few he cares about (which is very few). He values loyalty above all.
SALUTE 👍🏾💯
Too true bro. These videos r a pain in the arse eh, it was better bein in the shadows, stay free.
what is bro yapping on about
And free will. Feared by alpha for alpha leads by force, sig’s lead by example. In other words, sig’s are chosen leaders whilst not wanting to lead, alpha’s goals are to lead, in any way. Which is funny in itself; sig’s never strive to dethrone an alpha…. But alpha’s do feel threatened in their position.
I knew I wasn't crazy. As I travel through life I wondered why I was the way that I was, Yet I stayed true to it. After realizing my type, I saw things as they are and became comfortable with myself and how I move. If you are a sigma too or can learn how please embrace it and just do it. You are to be as an arrow moving through the earth. It does not care what is in its way, only the target and the journey to that point.
Maybe this saved my life, I struggle to find my self. This helped. Thank you truly