Iv never met anyone on youtube that's so down to earth! You are just incredible. When I have my off days I re watch some of your videos and it makes me happy. Goodluck in this pregnancy and birth ❤
Hahahaha!, I remember the stress incontinence so well,your so real🤣🤣 Your refreshing,even when your feeling down , we've all been there. Just be yourself,i hate pretentious people,they switch me off 🎄👌
A little tip for the exercises with the ball which may make it a bit easier. Put the ball into a leg of a pair of thin tights. (An old pair of P’s if you have any would work best so they are shorter.) Hold onto the other end and then fling it over your shoulder before you go up against the wall. You’ll be able to move it around to get the spot easier without the ball dropping every time you need to adjust. Xxx
I have 2 boys and a girl but before I had her the constant thing I kept getting from people as I had 2 boys was “oh I bet you’re wanting a girl” or “are you going to try for a girl” and quite often people would say that to me in front of my boys which I thought and still think is quite rude as I didn’t want my boys to feel unwanted and I could see the look on their faces everytime I was asked that and for some reason I got that all the time. I love my boys and when I did fall pregnant again (which was a surprise) I never thought that It was going to be a girl. Always thought I was going to be a boy mum but I had to reassure them that just because I was having a girl that I still love them and all that. People can be quite insensitive sometimes and rude. Love your honesty and how genuine you are. Loving vlogmas.
I have two boys and during my gender scan with my second the sonographer actually apologised and said maybe next time youll have a girl, i was so angry! They are 4 and 2 now and im soo happy with my two boys the bond is amazing between them😍 So glad you are feeling better about it now, im sure P will make an amazing big sister x
Oh i did! I stay in a country where the healthcare here is private so i walked out of that hospital and never went back, there was no way i was paying that woman for anything else , shes since been sacked anyway so i was glad 😂xxx
I won't lie, I had gender disappointment. Thought I'd be having a boy after my girl. It took a while before I mentally accepted it. Obviously I love her!. Please don't change Jess, you're so relatable. Xxx
Totally agree about justifying yourself, we are having our 3rd and people just say was it planned? You already have a boy and a girl so why do you want another? People are so rude xx
I remember you did an old video, something like "baby girl names I love", and you mentioned how you have another favourite girl name that you won't share in the video, just in case you fall pregnant with another girl. If you can remember that name, is it still a contender? If it's still a contender after these few years, I'm very impressed haha! :) xx
Yep! That name is still on my list but Neil still hates it & wont be used 😭 have talked about it in my baby name video that I’ve got to post at some point 😘😘 xxx
Wow we have literally had the same experience I honestly thought I was having a boy and I carried differently all the way up to birth and we did find out we was having a second girl at 16weeks and I found it hard adjusting to the news but now wouldn’t change it for the world as they are both June girls 2 years apart & I love saying “my girls” or “the girls”... but I also get the comments oh another girl you can always try again 🤣 and the names also was a lot harder second time round for a girl but my other half chose the second name as my list never got any shorter & I chose the middle name & love it but we are so similar it’s crazy it’s like watching me x x
totally get you,i have boys 17,16 and 7 and with my 2nd and 3rd boys people would go aww how r u feeling bet you wouldve loved a girl,um nope as long as baby is healthy i didnt care in fact i was oppisite i couldnt imagine changing a girls nappy,and with 2 oldest close together (19months) i had all boy stuff and i absolutley love being a mum of all boys their all so caring,loving,chilled,laid back and all mams boys they always protect me lol.i hate when people seem to give the sympathy look ummm mind ya own buisness lol.p is going to be a great big sister and you will all adjust so quickly.please go to your drs about a breast reduction maybe ask your physio to do a letter and refer your for a reduction,must be awful being in pain all the time.your such a lovely woman and can see how self conscious you are about them.xx
Yep I agree, it’s so annoying that people have the perception that one of each etc is what everyone wants! I will be going to doctors post birth and see what they say, no point currently as preg 😘 xxx
I’ve just found out I’m having my second boy (will be 20 months apart) and I’m really struggling with gender disappointment 😔 I feel like I’ve let people down and everyone wants us to have a girl.. it’s pressure so I Know what you mean when you said about people being rude about finding out I’m having my second boy.. it is really hard! Xx
Awww no, don’t be silly! Sod everyone else! You are growing a healthy child, & that’s all that matters 😘 now I’ve adjusted to girl #2, wouldn’t have it any other way! xxx
Phoebe & Me yes that’s very true!! Healthy child over anything! Hope they are happy once they find out! And exactly I’ll get used to having a second boy I guess it makes it easier knowing what to do with boys and having all the toys/clothes ready for another boy 🥰 xx
I know what you mean I have one boy and 3 girls and keep getting told you need to finish with a boy now and when I tell them I Am finished they say you can't have one boy it uneven xx
Wld u consider having a breast reduction Jess god love u no wonder u suffer with ur back. I have a friend who had one and she says it is the best thing she ever done xx xx. Sorry I posted before u said about having a reduction, my friend got hers done on the NHS, just keep going to ur Dr's re back pain, not being able to lift ur children and how it is effecting u mentally and that u hate going out because people comment all the time. Even adult men when u are out with ur husband so much that u do not have a social life any more because of it xx xx
Yeah that’s pretty embarrassing to be on here trying to say how she should fraud the NHS? Plus, they aren’t there for cosmetic surgery - it would be the most basic shit ‘boob job’ you’ve ever seen. Please don’t ever advise someone to do this again.
I want to have one by the time I’m 30, I can’t afford to pay for one privately so I’m hoping the NHS will do one, if not il have to some how try to get money for a private one! With all the cuts etc I don’t know if il ever get one, but will have to see 😫 xx
Don’t worry I wouldn’t lie to the NHS to benefit myself, I’d be too scared 😂😂😂 I’d like to think I have a good chance as it does impact my life daily, but time will tell 😘 xxx
Just ingore anyone who says you should have a boy. If your happy with 2 girls then people should accept that not everyone wants one of each. I feel very lucky to say I have a son and daughter but I get the you don't need anymore babies now as I have one of each!
just think though, gender doesn't predict as much as people think - she could be totally different to P, you never really know what you'll get! but it will be easier since you've gone through it
Iv never met anyone on youtube that's so down to earth! You are just incredible. When I have my off days I re watch some of your videos and it makes me happy. Goodluck in this pregnancy and birth ❤
Aww thankyou so much, I hope it’s smooth like P’s was! xxx
Hahahaha!, I remember the stress incontinence so well,your so real🤣🤣 Your refreshing,even when your feeling down , we've all been there. Just be yourself,i hate pretentious people,they switch me off 🎄👌
Thanks so much lovely 😘😘😘
Love hearing pregnancy updates! 🤞the back eases up and the physio continues to work❤️
Thankyou 😘💗
A little tip for the exercises with the ball which may make it a bit easier. Put the ball into a leg of a pair of thin tights. (An old pair of P’s if you have any would work best so they are shorter.) Hold onto the other end and then fling it over your shoulder before you go up against the wall. You’ll be able to move it around to get the spot easier without the ball dropping every time you need to adjust. Xxx
I do that 😘😘 makes everything so much easier! xxx
My girls are 5 years apart and they're literally like best friends, it's lovely xx
Eeek I hope that’s the case for these 2! xxx
I have 2 boys and a girl but before I had her the constant thing I kept getting from people as I had 2 boys was “oh I bet you’re wanting a girl” or “are you going to try for a girl” and quite often people would say that to me in front of my boys which I thought and still think is quite rude as I didn’t want my boys to feel unwanted and I could see the look on their faces everytime I was asked that and for some reason I got that all the time.
I love my boys and when I did fall pregnant again (which was a surprise) I never thought that It was going to be a girl. Always thought I was going to be a boy mum but I had to reassure them that just because I was having a girl that I still love them and all that.
People can be quite insensitive sometimes and rude.
Love your honesty and how genuine you are. Loving vlogmas.
Yep I agree it is quite rude isn’t it, & especially if your children understand what’s being said, that can effect them too 😑 xxx
“I just wet myself, god sake!” 🤣🤣🤣
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I have two boys and during my gender scan with my second the sonographer actually apologised and said maybe next time youll have a girl, i was so angry! They are 4 and 2 now and im soo happy with my two boys the bond is amazing between them😍 So glad you are feeling better about it now, im sure P will make an amazing big sister x
Omg I’d have said something, that’s so bad! xxx
Oh i did! I stay in a country where the healthcare here is private so i walked out of that hospital and never went back, there was no way i was paying that woman for anything else , shes since been sacked anyway so i was glad 😂xxx
I won't lie, I had gender disappointment. Thought I'd be having a boy after my girl. It took a while before I mentally accepted it. Obviously I love her!. Please don't change Jess, you're so relatable. Xxx
Of course, but if you expect one thing & get the other it’s a shock to the system! Thanks for watching 😘😘
Totally agree about justifying yourself, we are having our 3rd and people just say was it planned? You already have a boy and a girl so why do you want another? People are so rude xx
Ergh god people piss me off 😂😂😂
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Thanks for watching 😘💗
I remember you did an old video, something like "baby girl names I love", and you mentioned how you have another favourite girl name that you won't share in the video, just in case you fall pregnant with another girl. If you can remember that name, is it still a contender? If it's still a contender after these few years, I'm very impressed haha! :) xx
Yep! That name is still on my list but Neil still hates it & wont be used 😭 have talked about it in my baby name video that I’ve got to post at some point 😘😘 xxx
Phoebe & Me ah damn it, Neil! 😂😂 x
Wow congratulations xxx
Thankyou 😘😘
Wow we have literally had the same experience I honestly thought I was having a boy and I carried differently all the way up to birth and we did find out we was having a second girl at 16weeks and I found it hard adjusting to the news but now wouldn’t change it for the world as they are both June girls 2 years apart & I love saying “my girls” or “the girls”... but I also get the comments oh another girl you can always try again 🤣 and the names also was a lot harder second time round for a girl but my other half chose the second name as my list never got any shorter & I chose the middle name & love it but we are so similar it’s crazy it’s like watching me x x
I know it’s crazy isn’t it. Now I’m used to the idea, am very happy with how tall turned out & cant wait to see what she looks like! cxx
totally get you,i have boys 17,16 and 7 and with my 2nd and 3rd boys people would go aww how r u feeling bet you wouldve loved a girl,um nope as long as baby is healthy i didnt care in fact i was oppisite i couldnt imagine changing a girls nappy,and with 2 oldest close together (19months) i had all boy stuff and i absolutley love being a mum of all boys their all so caring,loving,chilled,laid back and all mams boys they always protect me lol.i hate when people seem to give the sympathy look ummm mind ya own buisness lol.p is going to be a great big sister and you will all adjust so quickly.please go to your drs about a breast reduction maybe ask your physio to do a letter and refer your for a reduction,must be awful being in pain all the time.your such a lovely woman and can see how self conscious you are about them.xx
Yep I agree, it’s so annoying that people have the perception that one of each etc is what everyone wants! I will be going to doctors post birth and see what they say, no point currently as preg 😘 xxx
Have you uploaded the baby haul yet? X
Nope, still got loads of other pre recs to go first 😘😘😘
We are due like the same time march 11th with a baby girl aswell 👶🏻👶🏻
Wow, how exciting! 💗💗💗
You need to watch SJ Strum on youtube for baby names. She does a massive variety of names 😊 x
I have been, yet still anything I suggest Neil says no 😑 xx
Such a beautiful woman and family xxx
Thanks very much 😘😘
Ha ha yeah. When i found i was having my son people were quite rude saying keep trying till get a girl
Bad isn’t it! xxx
I’ve just found out I’m having my second boy (will be 20 months apart) and I’m really struggling with gender disappointment 😔 I feel like I’ve let people down and everyone wants us to have a girl.. it’s pressure so I Know what you mean when you said about people being rude about finding out I’m having my second boy.. it is really hard! Xx
Awww no, don’t be silly! Sod everyone else! You are growing a healthy child, & that’s all that matters 😘 now I’ve adjusted to girl #2, wouldn’t have it any other way! xxx
Phoebe & Me yes that’s very true!! Healthy child over anything! Hope they are happy once they find out! And exactly I’ll get used to having a second boy I guess it makes it easier knowing what to do with boys and having all the toys/clothes ready for another boy 🥰 xx
I know what you mean I have one boy and 3 girls and keep getting told you need to finish with a boy now and when I tell them I Am finished they say you can't have one boy it uneven xx
Ergh just ignore them! So annoying! xxx
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Thanks for watching 😘
Your baby doesn't need a middle name if your not sure, my youngest does my oldest doesn't ha ha it will be lovely whatever I'm sure x x x
The struggle 😂😂😂
Wld u consider having a breast reduction Jess god love u no wonder u suffer with ur back. I have a friend who had one and she says it is the best thing she ever done xx xx. Sorry I posted before u said about having a reduction, my friend got hers done on the NHS, just keep going to ur Dr's re back pain, not being able to lift ur children and how it is effecting u mentally and that u hate going out because people comment all the time. Even adult men when u are out with ur husband so much that u do not have a social life any more because of it xx xx
Yeah that’s pretty embarrassing to be on here trying to say how she should fraud the NHS? Plus, they aren’t there for cosmetic surgery - it would be the most basic shit ‘boob job’ you’ve ever seen. Please don’t ever advise someone to do this again.
I want to have one by the time I’m 30, I can’t afford to pay for one privately so I’m hoping the NHS will do one, if not il have to some how try to get money for a private one! With all the cuts etc I don’t know if il ever get one, but will have to see 😫 xx
Don’t worry I wouldn’t lie to the NHS to benefit myself, I’d be too scared 😂😂😂 I’d like to think I have a good chance as it does impact my life daily, but time will tell 😘 xxx
Just ingore anyone who says you should have a boy. If your happy with 2 girls then people should accept that not everyone wants one of each. I feel very lucky to say I have a son and daughter but I get the you don't need anymore babies now as I have one of each!
Exactly, I agree 😘😘😘 xxx
just think though, gender doesn't predict as much as people think - she could be totally different to P, you never really know what you'll get! but it will be easier since you've gone through it
Yep exactly, could be into completely different things to P! Excited to see how it all turns out! xxx