I feel like he had the right to ask his girlfriend to stop eating so much because like he said his family were not wealthy like hers. Her family could easily afford exquisite meals all the time while his family were struggling just to get by.
Ashley is obviously selfish. She didn’t care if the grandma did not have food to eat for the rest of the week as long as she could fill her own stomach. Also he never once referred to or mentioned her weight so how is that fat shaming?
PLUS he said I'll take you out afterward if you're still hungry meaning that he doesn't care how much she eats just as long as it isn't the grandmother's food.
If a man can't even pack HIS own bags for HIS own trip and chooses to spend HIS time on something less important TO HIM, then he isn't even reliable to do basic things at work, or anywhere else as packing the bags could only take a few minutes to do compared to the hours he spends with his buddies mostly when he has his own children and wife to worry about more, if he can't even do the minimum, you can't expect him to do much more.
I bet he’s the type of guy where even if his wife found a job and started working he would still expect her to do all the house chores and take care of the kids al on her own
I hope the people telling these stories both left their partners, because they deserve so much better. The first woman’s husband and the second guy’s girlfriend are both very immature.
The story about the business trip is SUCH a narcissistic way of being lazy and selfish. Like it’s YOUR responsibility to pack for a trip especially if you have nothing else to do at home. You could’ve stopped to see your buddies after you packed. It wouldn’t have taken hours you just didn’t want to do it at all. When your s/o has so much to do you shouldn’t ever ask them to do more/something else that you can very easily do and that is YOUR responsibility. That’s so abusive to turn it on to your partner like that and I really hope they left that person :(
Divorces are costly and the children WILL suffer. Yeah, save your children's hearts❤❤ and just pack the selfish guy's bag 🎒 sheesh. Sure "got him" back 💸💸😒.... I guess after her son/daughter is 45 with no education and no money/prospects, her also being self serving and leaving will also "get him back".😂🤣🤔🤫🙄😏
He could of just packed he's stuff & put it in the trunk then left with friends before leaving to the airport. It's that easy & it only take 15 to 30 minutes to pack depending on what you take that is important. I can pack my stuff in 10 minutes tops with no complaining & begging.
First story: That guy is so stupid and shameless. He could have easily gotten his own bags packed instead of relying on his own wife to do it. Second story: That girl sounds like one of those annoying judgmental characters that you don't like to see. She only hears what she wants to hear, and it's sad. I feel bad for the boyfriend.
2nd story: I feel like we need to be more considerate of the girl considering what she could've been through. I mean for example her reaction seemed completely unrelated which leads me to believe she probably suffered with eating disorders and being told to eat less (no matter the reason) triggered her and that's why she got so defensive. I feel like we need to be more careful before we make judgements since we don't know the whole story.
@@princessofhell4639 lmao what Even if we dont know the whole story thats still a terrible thing that she does. We cant be too sure to judge her completely i guess but going through things doesnt give you the right to act like that.
@@princessofhell4639 Wether she was triggered or not she needs to realize that wasn’t all he said and if she wants him to be understanding for her then she needs to be understanding towards his grandma
@@goofyrat2938 I never said it gives her the right or that it excuses it. But it does show that there is probably more at play here and it might not just be out of pure maliciousness.
That first guy just wanted a mommy, that's so weird because she can't be his mommy and then a mommy to his children. what an idiot, I swear some people get way too attached to their friends.
Mommy too should not be doing such stuff, that is his own responsibility. He needs therapy to work out his issues so that he can stop bogging down the mental health of other people just to satisfy his fragile ego
@@Greenrivers14 yeah, for real. He sounds like a guy who needed his mom to wipe his ass at age 13. Hire a maid if you treat your wife like one. If I were his wife, I'd pack his bag with some useless stuff and give it to him at last second so that he couldn't check it until when he arrived to the place he flew to. Childish brat.
In the second story, Ashley was not being body-shamed. The grandmother only has so much money and food to last her the week. The last time Ashley ate a large portion of the food cooked, the grandmother didn't eat for days. Ashley turned the situation around and made it about herself.
*FIRST STORY:* He couldn’t pack his bags for HIS work trip then he blamed the S/O because he went out to spend hours with his buddies not packing his bags hoping that leaving after a tantrum would make her do it. Sorry, not sorry got what he deserved. Also if the relationship is him giving and wanting something for return ALL the time then you should break up. *SECOND STORY:* She sounds spoiled or full of herself. Probably read from the internet “Body positivity! Overweight people can also be healthy! Eat however you want.” and went on with that idea. First of all overweight people can be fat but still healthier than most skinny people yet still have some human decency and common sense but that’s out of topic so what she could have done is understand but like I said she is spoiled so it's probably hard for her to grasp that idea and she is either insecure or thinks “respect all bodies and me” like all those Knight in shining armours in twitter with their justice for everyone and argues over something that wasn't supposed to be a big deal also seems like she has no respect for others but herself. You are in someone's house and especially at an elderly man/woman's house, you gotta respect them and have boundaries and when a family member or someone tells you you shouldn't you DON'T. Have some common sense and be a decent human being.
@@liaiscool13 I'm not saying he was , but you have to consider that getting divorced is really messy and damaging especially when you have kids , it's their choice but believe me it never goes well. I wish it was more simple and it would be easy to say yes just break up , but it's usually way more complicated.
@@tigerliler1298 Kids are little sponges and they learn by watching and repeating what they see, when they are little seeing a good relationship between their parents is as beneficial as parents showing love to them but in this situation this parent is a bad example for his kids. He's irresposible, a man child and blames his wife for everything when it clearly it's his fault because he expects her to take care of him so we have a few possible outcomes: 1st - They stay together, wife does whatever he says and the kids grow having that as an example, which will possibly perpetuate this behaviour :/ 2nd - Wife stands her ground but they stay married, he will blame her every single time something like this happens again, and growing up with parents that fight like that is also traumatic for children 3rd - They get divorced, as you said this is hard and complicated because kids want their parents to be together and happy, but that's not the case because we would be again at points 1 and 2, if this happens as hard as it can be they have to be honest with their kids and only time will tell if the kids agree with what they did or not, as long as both parents are responsible and treat divorce properly (without fighting in front of their kids, talking bad about each other etc.) is hard but it should work out Sorry for any grammar mistakes, english is not my first language, this are the three main possible endings I could think of based on personal and professional experience.
Still remember when body positivity was for people who had burn marks and eczema ect. But I really hate it when people get mad at a saying that can be morphed to sound like someone is body shaming them (the 2nd story)
The first one, the father is really lazy and irresponsible... and also acting like a child. It is common sense to pack your bag a day before the trip... you shouldn't have played Fornite and instead PACK YOUR DAMN SUITCASE The second one, couldn't she understand a single word he is saying? It is for the grandma...! They don't have much. And besides the dude ain't saying anything like, "You shouldn't eat too much, you're getting fatter bla bla bla..." like bruh...
The second history is just idiot after idiot. In the first one.. that's really common in a lot of marriages (here in my country at least) the one how make money thinks that he/she doesn't need to do anything in their home. Really toxic is you ask me..
Same in my country too. But even if wife also earns the money, goes to work she’s still the one who cooks and cleans... It’s considered “low” for a man to do the housework..so frustrating
bruh, the guy from the first story is literally groomed all his life. The fact that his wife has to do that for him despite already being a full grown ADULT amuses me by the sheer stupidity of his attitude that is said common around 5 year olds. Yeah, you're the breadwinner, but it doesn't mean your the only one with important work to do. Smh, the ego of these people is so frustrating to deal with especially when they should act at LEAST a bit for their age. Not just that, he doesn't even has a sense of responsibility in himself to do what is right. Some people around the world can't even get a good paying job and this guy acted like a brat. He should be grateful that the company he is under in didn't outright fire him for his entitle attitude. I dunno why I felt so angry may have been cause I live in a 3rd world country all my life where kids were force to grow up and parents trying their absolute hardest to find a good paying job to at least feed their family and give them good education cause the government isn't giving money away to them unless its in a pandemic. And even that isn't certain. You either die from the pandemic or die from starvation. The wife did the right thing of not packing his bags cause he really needs to know that his attitude could cause his entire family's financially broke. For Ashley in the second story, I mean yeah, I get that she doesn't understand "poverty" in a sense. But the very fact that she made a conversation about his grandmother not having enough food for the week to being about HER. What LED to THAT CONCLUSION? I know what its like to not understand others situation. BUT not feeling the EMPATHY of others not being to eat anything is TOO MUCH. HAVE THIS GIRL AT LEAST EXPERIENCE ONCE IN HER LIFE OF NOT BEING ABLE TO EAT ANYTHING!!! If she advocates about being body positive, she should at least know that his grandmother isn't even near her body level and is less then that of a normal body shape. I dunno what I'm implying but that is what makes sense in my mind. The grandma is a really proud person to not ask her to stop eating the food she is going to eat which is really sad to see. I hope that the grandma can open up a restaurant or business to be able to sell her cooking if a girl from a financially well off family loves her cooking so much that she eats like 2-3 full servings of it. Also, your mind and stomach are not the same. Your mind may say "I WANT MORE" but your body says "PLEASE STOP THIS HURTS". There is a reason why people are dying from being fat. cause their body overworks to compensate gluttony. Its either you care about your body or your body no longer trusts you. The guy should really talk about to his girlfriend about her attitude and how it affects his grandmother more cause this girl needs a SLAP from reality that there are people who can't become like her or be in her situation cause either from situations like this that people like her cause others to not have food in their stomachs.
i get this, i’m still a child and growing up in a 3rd world country, it sucks here. women are expected to do absolutely everything for their husband, and its a very patriarchal/conservative government system. all i can do is hope the best for my future and get out of here asap. watching the husband blame and guilt trip the wife for not doing something he could so easily do himself was disgusting to watch, especially since she had already told him the LIST of weight on her shoulders. she deserves better.
@@fabo.5040 I can feel that too. For now or at least my case here in my country, getting a good education can have a child at least get out of poverty and be able help out in the family. Unfortunately, the department of education here is corrupt(which is no surprise actually). Hope that you can get out of the black hole of poverty or whatever situation you are in currently. Study smart, work hard, and pray that God will help you(if you ever believe there is a God) to give you opportunities to get out of that situation.
For the thumbnail. No it was not. It was for the grandmother. And if said in that way. It is never to be taken wrong. Wish you and your dude the best Kyutie. Much love to you two. 😋
@CutiePie 林檎 oh right- it came up in my notifs and I thought they tagged me. I'm just having a really tiring and exhausting day, sorry. I'll delete my comment now- thanks for telling me! Sorry to safiyyah and everyone again!
i think the couple in the 1st story should get a divorce. like if the guy cant be responsible, whats the purpose of being a father and a husband? he sounds like a grown child. i feel bad for the wife and the kids
The second story surprised me. I’ve been the larger woman and I actually ate less when in the company of others always claiming I’d eaten earlier and wasn’t hungry so I didn’t draw attention to myself and then sometimes I’d later binge eat from food I’d purchased myself. The woman seemed to be the constant victim 🙄
Wowww the thumbnail story absolutely angers me. He explained to you what the issue was and offered to take you to get more food afterwards if she was still hungry. No matter what size she was there’s no reason why you should take from someone else KNOWING you’re taking from their future meals. As a big girl myself we don’t claim her 😂 not to mention he said nothing about her size. And didn’t say to eat less BECAUSE of her size. BUT we also don’t know EXACTLY how he said it to her either, he’s just repeating the story and could very well be changing some words and stuff.
The 1st story: girl leave him. You is a queen and deserve better👑 Like I can’t even with like- i cant even use words to describe how frustrated I am 2nd story:that is a f**king 70 year old woman who nice enough to invite you over to eat even though she can’t afford it and your boyfriend tries to explain that the food she makes is all she has to eat for the whole week and you basically say “i really don’t care, i say when to stop eating her food” don't get me wrong I'm all for standing up to people who are body shamed (especially as an obese person) but because you get several large helpings and won’t consider what he said that woman has no food to eat for days Im disappointed at what this world has become
I wouldn’t even be able to live at ease if I was the person in the first story, to have someone like that as the breadwinner of our house. Instead of packing his bags like he should have done, he went out to play. When he missed his flight, instead of just buying the next flight and risk being a little late like any reasonable person, he decided he just wouldn’t go at all. And then had the AUDACITY to blame her. That says a lot about both his maturity and the type of partner he is. I’m not even sure if she can leave that easily if she wants to, if he’s her only income, and with children, it’s gonna be hard to get out.
There's something wrong with both of these, but the last one was beyond messed up.. I'm sorry but no girlfriend is more important than blood, if tht happens she'll be out of my life in a flash, I care about everyone but family comes first, But thts just me... Btw the first one, he needs to grow up, thts all simple, you messed up not her.
People don't become as*holes out of the blue and they learn only if they want to. Why do they end up having any kind of partner in their life? Wrong signals, no improvements: you ditch them after the first two weeks of dating, whoever they are. If we stop tolerating those kind of nonsense, people will adapt. I prefer to be alone in my sanity than age tired and angry with someone else's madness.
is it really that hard to pack your own bag? i mean, it only takes me 20 minutes MAX and i’m a pretty heavy packer…i also like how the guy said that him missing his flight made him “seem unreliable and irresponsible” when THATS WHAT HE CLEARLY IS
I think for the Ashley story, she was actually really embarrassed that she ended up eating the grandmother's food for the week and felt like she had eaten like a pig, and it sounds like she projected that fear onto her friend.
Kinda makes some sense. Maybe she was aware of the problem but chose to deliberately remain ignorant about it because it would hurt her ego as someone who’s into body positivity. I could be wrong tho
1st Story: Um... What?! I would love to ask him when at all during the planning of this business trip was his wife made to be responsible for anything? She made it VRY clear that she had other responsibilities to handle. The fact that he chose to ignore those he blatant 'No' was a tragedy ready to happen. 2nd Story: I wanna pop head in the mouth. I'm Part of the BPC (Big People Community) too, but I would understand that there are things that shouldn't' t be taken to the heart. He made it clear what kind of woman his grandmother was and her situation. For her to take all that as a insult is just mind boggling.
After reading some comments I have to say something else: about the first story lot of you said the husband was acting like a child. That's the problem, if children in your society are acting like that and parents wish they grew out of it, or say 'I'm gonna teach them later', you'll end up having adults like that man. There is no one valid excuse to not teach your kids with your own good example and then with words the moment they start to look around (when they start to be active, before crawling or speaking) They're like sponges, they absorb language as actions and emotions, they will learn what they learn more than what you teach them, so the key is to start early. Helping kids be disciplined, creative, independent and responsible is healthier than let them experience being little rebellious monkeys for years then try to force them to become 'good kids' overnight.
@@imbrilol I think what they mean is that out of spite she put all his whites with the reds and when put on the right settings it'll make pink so then he won't have stuff to wear lol
I can't help it that I don't like eating other peoples food or them buying me food because I know myself that I can afford it and it just feels wrong to take theirs.
The first one, no you're not wrong.He should've pack his own bag since you have so many things to do.As you said,you have to cook,helping your kid and stuff.He shouldn't hung out with his friends/boy just because he will 'miss' them.Take offense,but thats really irresponsible. :/
The first one: no, they weren’t in the wrong. The dude shouldn’t have just left like he did and packed for himself. The wife had a lot of stuff to do, and he had “fOrTnItE”. (No hate on fortnite if u play it)
Story 1: No. Im very very bad with time management and i still manage to paxk my own bags for trips. He needs to be more responsible. OP had things to do. If he cant be responsible for his own stuff, he deserves to look bad at work. Story 2: As a heavier woman, and one who grew up poor, no. OP clearly and precisely explained the reasoning. If she automatically jumps to "omg fatshamer", thats a big problem. She doesnt care about anyone but herself. And she probably feels a sense of entitlement due to growing up well-off, too. OP, drop her and run.
For the guy with the privileged girlfriend, is she just a Karen? Because excluding his explanation of why he wanted them to limit their food, he said he'd buy her more food afterwards if she was still hungry, so how was he fat shaming her if he offered her more food?! Smh.
I can’t believe that man in the first story and surely the wife would’ve had a lot of other similar incidents in the past. He sounds like a lost cause - why did she give up her career for that loser 🙄 she needs to get out of that crap relationship- he’s probably cheating on her too 😞
I agree with Ellen on every point with this video. It definitely seems these are ones involving habits that don't work in the real world, plus being selfish and easily taking offense over what's actually not a part of what is going on.
First story: sounds like he's going to see his mistress and not for work. Second story: take her out to eat at a buffet first and then to your grandma place afterwards. If grandma is that bad off, he should be getting grocery delivery to her throughout the week. Instacart, she can't tell them no since she's not paying and you can choose the no contact delivery. She'll use it since she wouldn't want it to go to waste.
2nd one: this is a difficult situation, where 2 families had different financial background and different ideals, try to live together. The guy is definitely not wrong and the grandma definitely didn't do anything wrong beside maybe forcing people to eat at her place. I agree that Ashley sounds very impolite and inconsiderate, she has a different ideal and a strong sense of self-worth, and I agree she definitely took it wrong when asked to eat less at grandma's. I just seem to me that they'd be both better off not being together. Also on the guy's side, expecting someone who grew up financially well to accept, adapt to and charit to his financially poor family members, would be too much to ask from someone who isn't about self-sacrifice, especially if they get married, said someone will have to deal with it for the rest of her life. To me that sounds like some strong sense of entitlement from this guy, but I guess it all started when grandma force people to eat at her place despite being too poor to feed herself, like why? I guess there's too much pride in her, cause I wasn't from a wealthy family, but i always knew to do things within my capability, so definitely no feeding others when can't feed self. It really would take a lot for 2 families like these to come together, and neither Ashley nor the guy sounded like they can do that.
Random story of mine: I used to really like someone, who ended up leading me on and made me lie to a few of my close friends, they were liked by a lot of people and were friends with literally everyone I knew, so there was absolutely no avoiding them, the thing is I never once tried to fix anything or make things better and instead I cut that person off completely, hoping it'd let me feel better. I guess that did something because I've heard they feel bad about what they did, I still felt guilty about it though because we never even talked about it and I kinda just avoided it. Was I in the wrong? Should I have taken a different approach?
I won't say that you were wrong , but if this person wants to talk about this I think it's better to talk . Not me saying you should have some relationship with him , I just feel like you will feel more at ease if you hear from this person and also if you establish where you are coming from to this person. I hope you wouldn't blame yourself for anything.have a nice day:)
Wtf yo? Fat-shaming? That's not fat-shaming! That's being courteous to a family member! Heck, I'm a big'eater too but if I want second or third portions I always ask if anyone wants to grab some of the food first, then if everyone says no I'll grab my second helping. Or if I'm not hungry then I'll have what's leftover. No big loss. Still the same food. Bitch better learn wth body positivity is actually about.
The first guy saying that he didn't go coz his wife didn't pack his bags has the same energy from the guy in primary school saying he didn't bring his homework coz his Mom didn't pack it.
Ashley was unkind and embarrassed, but the boyfriend could've used a different approach. He already knew her eating habits and privileged princess mindset, he should've taken her out to eat before going to grandma's place. And consider how would his grandma feel if she found out this is what he was saying to her guests behind her back? Poor people have pride and dignity too! If a poor person invites you to dinner, eat moderately but also don't go empty handed in the first place, bring side dishes/bread/dessert, or prepare a box of snacks/fruits/sweets that can keep for a week.
I mean the guy even said they could eat somewhere else after the family dinner if she was still hungry, it doesn't make since to think he was fat shaming :|
He wasn’t limiting her eating, he was making sure she wasn’t limiting his grandma’s eating. They could go and eat at the restaurant afterwards 🤦♀️ what an entitlement
With the second story, he literally said they could go out and eat if she was still hungry. He didn't tell her to not eat much at all that night, just not to eat too much at the grandmas house
I Told my MIL that my wife her dauther did not make me lunch for work she did not work my MIL said buy a hamburger stupid! When i drove cross country she would pack my bag but always forget something! loke no underwear or no socks, Bless her heart!
In my opinion, I understand Ashley in the second story. As a fat person people kept saying to me to eat less so that i could loose weight and if i ever heard this phrase from my partner, my first reaction would be offence. But if she is so into body positivity and all, she should understand the difference between normal requests and shaming. The second girl might have to think for a but before she speaks up because even if her mind is all positive and all, her way of understanding is not at all correct.
The one in the thumbnail is just...I never knew that idiots could go that far. Anyways, I hope that the person broke up with that girl, her existence is unnecessary
There was actually a situation that happen to me where someone said they locked themselves in a bathroom to try to entertain themselves so I said I did that too which was kinda true but then someone said I was rude and to say something else so I said "I'm sorry to hear that maybe you should get some friends" well... We all got into an argument and I left them
The first guy, omg, what a child! What an irresponsible person. I would flip, pack my own bags and stay in a hotel for the next couple of weeks. How do people like this exist? Sounds like a mama's boy.
1st one: seems to me that the husband got a sense of entitlement for being the "breadwinner" and, according to context clue, for having a wife who usually takes care of everything in the house. He's definitely immature and irresponsible regardless of whether he's the breadwinner, I feel like the wife kind of "let" this happen by doing everything in the house and leave him with no sense of responsibility, his friends are also toxic for taking up his time to be responsible. My advice for the gentlemen, be a grown-up. Advice for the ladies, keep in mind when you decide to be a housewife and give up your "financial worth" that this bs can happen anytime with any partner.
The level of irresponsibly in the first story is priceless, hope she divorce him, because it's VERY hard to him changing his narcissistic attitude any day. -_-💢
i can't stand when people like Ashley (2nd story) are super intense and overbearing when it comes to "body positivity" like that. How she was speaking was not even body positive it was just entitled asf. Makes other people who struggle with weight and/or who advocate for body positivity look stupid. body positivity/neutrality is about accepting whatever stage someone is at with their body and weight. not glorifying being unhealthily big or small, just accepting people wherever they are at. physical and mental health is a journey, some people struggle with this harder than others, but at the end of the day, it is not about normalising unhealthy eating behaviours, it's about accepting these behaviours and trying to better yourself.
Yeah, neither of the narrators were in the wrong for what they did. Some people need to grow up and also learn not to be selfish. I feel bad for both of them and they both need to divorce/breakup with their S.O.
In the first story, the woman was not in the wrong. I hope the husband learned his lesson. In the second story, the man is not in the wrong. The girlfriend should have understood the situation
The first one kinda had an F boy attitude with being irresponsible The second one is just horrible You would rather have the grandmother of YOUR Boyfriend starve because your gluttonous a$$ doesen't know that going into (Insert Term) is not healthy and the majority of this movement consists out of lazy, greedy people
Honestly I get why she may feel like she is being body shamed but that was not the reason he said what he said. I think instead that maybe he should take her out earlier for food and then take her to his grandmothers later. I think she should understand that he is not trying to dictate how much she eats (because she can figure that out herself) but that she should try and not eat too much there because of finances.
Re: last story, I would've taken her to taco bell first then to burger king and ordered some pizza too, so when we get to grandma's house she just can't have another bite 🤣🤣🤣 I know it's impractical but it could solve the problem!!
First story: Pack his bags then. Random stuff like swim trunks, band tshirts, shorts, sandals/flip flops and things not for business (including an adult toy if security checks), no personal care like shaving stuff and deodorant. (Or just kids type child toothbrush and bubble gum toothpaste.) No business attire, no cell charger items and just a note saying since you are treating it a mini vacation, I packed it like one. Second story: Dump her! What would happen if it gets serious and you can't afford a lot of quality food? She'd buy take out, eat everything and starve the kids.
I never eat more than 1 helping of food at someone’s house. It’s rude. If they say, eat as much as you want. I do. But when they don’t say anything I don’t. Ps. I’m on the bigger side to.
I feel like he had the right to ask his girlfriend to stop eating so much because like he said his family were not wealthy like hers. Her family could easily afford exquisite meals all the time while his family were struggling just to get by.
Ashley is obviously selfish. She didn’t care if the grandma did not have food to eat for the rest of the week as long as she could fill her own stomach. Also he never once referred to or mentioned her weight so how is that fat shaming?
I agree, I don’t think he was trying to comment on her weight whatsoever
Agreed like wth, how could you do that to someone's grandma.
PLUS he said I'll take you out afterward if you're still hungry meaning that he doesn't care how much she eats just as long as it isn't the grandmother's food.
The gf is really stupid, even stupid people can see that’s not body shaming. Hope the bf is not gonna get hypnotized by the gf
I'd divorce the guy who chose to miss his business trip. He's not a reliable life partner.
If a man can't even pack HIS own bags for HIS own trip and chooses to spend HIS time on something less important TO HIM, then he isn't even reliable to do basic things at work, or anywhere else as packing the bags could only take a few minutes to do compared to the hours he spends with his buddies mostly when he has his own children and wife to worry about more, if he can't even do the minimum, you can't expect him to do much more.
I bet he’s the type of guy where even if his wife found a job and started working he would still expect her to do all the house chores and take care of the kids al on her own
This man’s audacity is ridiculous. He won’t give 10 minutes of his time to pack, but HOURS to hang out with his friends? 🤯
fr like how he even got married
Fr,Like he isn't a small child that needs help for small things,It's a grown ass tax player lol
I hope the people telling these stories both left their partners, because they deserve so much better. The first woman’s husband and the second guy’s girlfriend are both very immature.
Maybe the 2 immature ones are meant for each other ??
@@zubshexol138 that would be interesting
@@zubshexol138 about to say that lol
Exactly my thoughts
the fact that both these ppl think theyre wrong... it shows how horrible their partners are.
The story about the business trip is SUCH a narcissistic way of being lazy and selfish. Like it’s YOUR responsibility to pack for a trip especially if you have nothing else to do at home. You could’ve stopped to see your buddies after you packed. It wouldn’t have taken hours you just didn’t want to do it at all. When your s/o has so much to do you shouldn’t ever ask them to do more/something else that you can very easily do and that is YOUR responsibility. That’s so abusive to turn it on to your partner like that and I really hope they left that person :(
Narcissists are a waste of space and do nothing but drain the energy of others
@@Shay-yk3cs I know how you feel. My dad’s a narcissist and never gave 2 shits about me
Ahem, my mother.
Divorces are costly and the children WILL suffer. Yeah, save your children's hearts❤❤ and just pack the selfish guy's bag 🎒 sheesh. Sure "got him" back 💸💸😒.... I guess after her son/daughter is 45 with no education and no money/prospects, her also being self serving and leaving will also "get him back".😂🤣🤔🤫🙄😏
He could of just packed he's stuff & put it in the trunk then left with friends before leaving to the airport. It's that easy & it only take 15 to 30 minutes to pack depending on what you take that is important.
I can pack my stuff in 10 minutes tops with no complaining & begging.
First story: That guy is so stupid and shameless. He could have easily gotten his own bags packed instead of relying on his own wife to do it.
Second story: That girl sounds like one of those annoying judgmental characters that you don't like to see. She only hears what she wants to hear, and it's sad. I feel bad for the boyfriend.
Couldn't agree more
2nd story: I feel like we need to be more considerate of the girl considering what she could've been through. I mean for example her reaction seemed completely unrelated which leads me to believe she probably suffered with eating disorders and being told to eat less (no matter the reason) triggered her and that's why she got so defensive. I feel like we need to be more careful before we make judgements since we don't know the whole story.
@@princessofhell4639 lmao what
Even if we dont know the whole story thats still a terrible thing that she does. We cant be too sure to judge her completely i guess but going through things doesnt give you the right to act like that.
@@princessofhell4639 Wether she was triggered or not she needs to realize that wasn’t all he said and if she wants him to be understanding for her then she needs to be understanding towards his grandma
@@goofyrat2938 I never said it gives her the right or that it excuses it. But it does show that there is probably more at play here and it might not just be out of pure maliciousness.
That first guy just wanted a mommy, that's so weird because she can't be his mommy and then a mommy to his children. what an idiot, I swear some people get way too attached to their friends.
Mommy too should not be doing such stuff, that is his own responsibility. He needs therapy to work out his issues so that he can stop bogging down the mental health of other people just to satisfy his fragile ego
@@ss-cat7 Oh for sure, It's soo toxic and there are so many guys like this.
its like he wanted a maid more than a wife.
@@Greenrivers14 yeah, for real. He sounds like a guy who needed his mom to wipe his ass at age 13. Hire a maid if you treat your wife like one. If I were his wife, I'd pack his bag with some useless stuff and give it to him at last second so that he couldn't check it until when he arrived to the place he flew to. Childish brat.
In the second story, Ashley was not being body-shamed. The grandmother only has so much money and food to last her the week. The last time Ashley ate a large portion of the food cooked, the grandmother didn't eat for days. Ashley turned the situation around and made it about herself.
Yeah so it reasonable for the boyfriend to ask Ashley not to eat too much
First story - definitely the woman's fault. She should have packed his bag, changed his diaper, wiped his ass and given him his bottle.
LMAO
Got me in the first half ngl lmao
i know right. ugh 🙄
LMFAO
I was almost concerned but this turned into a wonderful case of satire, well done
*FIRST STORY:*
He couldn’t pack his bags for HIS work trip then he blamed the S/O because he went out to spend hours with his buddies not packing his bags hoping that leaving after a tantrum would make her do it. Sorry, not sorry got what he deserved. Also if the relationship is him giving and wanting something for return ALL the time then you should break up.
*SECOND STORY:*
She sounds spoiled or full of herself. Probably read from the internet “Body positivity! Overweight people can also be healthy! Eat however you want.” and went on with that idea. First of all overweight people can be fat but still healthier than most skinny people yet still have some human decency and common sense but that’s out of topic so what she could have done is understand but like I said she is spoiled so it's probably hard for her to grasp that idea and she is either insecure or thinks “respect all bodies and me” like all those Knight in shining armours in twitter with their justice for everyone and argues over something that wasn't supposed to be a big deal also seems like she has no respect for others but herself. You are in someone's house and especially at an elderly man/woman's house, you gotta respect them and have boundaries and when a family member or someone tells you you shouldn't you DON'T. Have some common sense and be a decent human being.
Well for the first story breaking up isn't a good idea since they have kids it would be complicated
@@tigerliler1298 People break up because of many reasons. That man was not reliable at all and isn't a good partner.
@@liaiscool13 I'm not saying he was , but you have to consider that getting divorced is really messy and damaging especially when you have kids , it's their choice but believe me it never goes well.
I wish it was more simple and it would be easy to say yes just break up , but it's usually way more complicated.
@@tigerliler1298 Oh, alright
@@tigerliler1298 Kids are little sponges and they learn by watching and repeating what they see, when they are little seeing a good relationship between their parents is as beneficial as parents showing love to them but in this situation this parent is a bad example for his kids.
He's irresposible, a man child and blames his wife for everything when it clearly it's his fault because he expects her to take care of him so we have a few possible outcomes:
1st - They stay together, wife does whatever he says and the kids grow having that as an example, which will possibly perpetuate this behaviour :/
2nd - Wife stands her ground but they stay married, he will blame her every single time something like this happens again, and growing up with parents that fight like that is also traumatic for children
3rd - They get divorced, as you said this is hard and complicated because kids want their parents to be together and happy, but that's not the case because we would be again at points 1 and 2, if this happens as hard as it can be they have to be honest with their kids and only time will tell if the kids agree with what they did or not, as long as both parents are responsible and treat divorce properly (without fighting in front of their kids, talking bad about each other etc.) is hard but it should work out
Sorry for any grammar mistakes, english is not my first language, this are the three main possible endings I could think of based on personal and professional experience.
It’s funny how these kind of people actually exist
i wouldn't call it funny...
@@bratzscene3131 yeah I know it’s not funny. I’m just being sarcastic lol
@@戦犯ちゃん-i4s ik but sometimes sarcasm is not the way to go🖤
There are worse ones.
@@eadc2158 I mean you right. there are people worse than this
Still remember when body positivity was for people who had burn marks and eczema ect. But I really hate it when people get mad at a saying that can be morphed to sound like someone is body shaming them (the 2nd story)
The first one, the father is really lazy and irresponsible... and also acting like a child. It is common sense to pack your bag a day before the trip... you shouldn't have played Fornite and instead PACK YOUR DAMN SUITCASE
The second one, couldn't she understand a single word he is saying? It is for the grandma...! They don't have much. And besides the dude ain't saying anything like, "You shouldn't eat too much, you're getting fatter bla bla bla..." like bruh...
The second history is just idiot after idiot.
In the first one.. that's really common in a lot of marriages (here in my country at least) the one how make money thinks that he/she doesn't need to do anything in their home. Really toxic is you ask me..
Same in my country too. But even if wife also earns the money, goes to work she’s still the one who cooks and cleans... It’s considered “low” for a man to do the housework..so frustrating
bruh, the guy from the first story is literally groomed all his life. The fact that his wife has to do that for him despite already being a full grown ADULT amuses me by the sheer stupidity of his attitude that is said common around 5 year olds. Yeah, you're the breadwinner, but it doesn't mean your the only one with important work to do. Smh, the ego of these people is so frustrating to deal with especially when they should act at LEAST a bit for their age. Not just that, he doesn't even has a sense of responsibility in himself to do what is right. Some people around the world can't even get a good paying job and this guy acted like a brat. He should be grateful that the company he is under in didn't outright fire him for his entitle attitude. I dunno why I felt so angry may have been cause I live in a 3rd world country all my life where kids were force to grow up and parents trying their absolute hardest to find a good paying job to at least feed their family and give them good education cause the government isn't giving money away to them unless its in a pandemic. And even that isn't certain. You either die from the pandemic or die from starvation. The wife did the right thing of not packing his bags cause he really needs to know that his attitude could cause his entire family's financially broke.
For Ashley in the second story, I mean yeah, I get that she doesn't understand "poverty" in a sense. But the very fact that she made a conversation about his grandmother not having enough food for the week to being about HER. What LED to THAT CONCLUSION? I know what its like to not understand others situation. BUT not feeling the EMPATHY of others not being to eat anything is TOO MUCH. HAVE THIS GIRL AT LEAST EXPERIENCE ONCE IN HER LIFE OF NOT BEING ABLE TO EAT ANYTHING!!! If she advocates about being body positive, she should at least know that his grandmother isn't even near her body level and is less then that of a normal body shape. I dunno what I'm implying but that is what makes sense in my mind. The grandma is a really proud person to not ask her to stop eating the food she is going to eat which is really sad to see. I hope that the grandma can open up a restaurant or business to be able to sell her cooking if a girl from a financially well off family loves her cooking so much that she eats like 2-3 full servings of it. Also, your mind and stomach are not the same. Your mind may say "I WANT MORE" but your body says "PLEASE STOP THIS HURTS". There is a reason why people are dying from being fat. cause their body overworks to compensate gluttony. Its either you care about your body or your body no longer trusts you. The guy should really talk about to his girlfriend about her attitude and how it affects his grandmother more cause this girl needs a SLAP from reality that there are people who can't become like her or be in her situation cause either from situations like this that people like her cause others to not have food in their stomachs.
i get this, i’m still a child and growing up in a 3rd world country, it sucks here. women are expected to do absolutely everything for their husband, and its a very patriarchal/conservative government system. all i can do is hope the best for my future and get out of here asap. watching the husband blame and guilt trip the wife for not doing something he could so easily do himself was disgusting to watch, especially since she had already told him the LIST of weight on her shoulders. she deserves better.
@@fabo.5040 I can feel that too. For now or at least my case here in my country, getting a good education can have a child at least get out of poverty and be able help out in the family. Unfortunately, the department of education here is corrupt(which is no surprise actually). Hope that you can get out of the black hole of poverty or whatever situation you are in currently. Study smart, work hard, and pray that God will help you(if you ever believe there is a God) to give you opportunities to get out of that situation.
For the thumbnail. No it was not. It was for the grandmother. And if said in that way. It is never to be taken wrong. Wish you and your dude the best Kyutie. Much love to you two. 😋
"And your dude"? Am I missing smth??? Does she have a partner??
Huh she doesn't have a partner, these stories she read isn't hers
@CutiePie 林檎 oh right- it came up in my notifs and I thought they tagged me. I'm just having a really tiring and exhausting day, sorry. I'll delete my comment now- thanks for telling me! Sorry to safiyyah and everyone again!
@CutiePie 林檎 Thanks a lot!! I really appreciate nice ppl like you on the internet :)
If you watched the video, he explains and she still said that he was fat shaming
the first dude sucks. I'd get a divorce tbh 😐
id get him a order of a slap, divorce papers, and a "pack ur bags, not for your trip but or the streets
The husband in the first story is irresponsible. If my husband treated me that way, I would leave him. His wife and children deserve better.
Yeah
i think the couple in the 1st story should get a divorce. like if the guy cant be responsible, whats the purpose of being a father and a husband? he sounds like a grown child. i feel bad for the wife and the kids
The second story surprised me. I’ve been the larger woman and I actually ate less when in the company of others always claiming I’d eaten earlier and wasn’t hungry so I didn’t draw attention to myself and then sometimes I’d later binge eat from food I’d purchased myself. The woman seemed to be the constant victim 🙄
Wowww the thumbnail story absolutely angers me. He explained to you what the issue was and offered to take you to get more food afterwards if she was still hungry. No matter what size she was there’s no reason why you should take from someone else KNOWING you’re taking from their future meals. As a big girl myself we don’t claim her 😂 not to mention he said nothing about her size. And didn’t say to eat less BECAUSE of her size. BUT we also don’t know EXACTLY how he said it to her either, he’s just repeating the story and could very well be changing some words and stuff.
The 1st story: girl leave him. You is a queen and deserve better👑
Like I can’t even with like- i cant even use words to describe how frustrated I am
2nd story:that is a f**king 70 year old woman who nice enough to invite you over to eat even though she can’t afford it and your boyfriend tries to explain that the food she makes is all she has to eat for the whole week and you basically say “i really don’t care, i say when to stop eating her food” don't get me wrong I'm all for standing up to people who are body shamed (especially as an obese person) but because you get several large helpings and won’t consider what he said that woman has no food to eat for days
Im disappointed at what this world has become
I wouldn’t even be able to live at ease if I was the person in the first story, to have someone like that as the breadwinner of our house. Instead of packing his bags like he should have done, he went out to play. When he missed his flight, instead of just buying the next flight and risk being a little late like any reasonable person, he decided he just wouldn’t go at all. And then had the AUDACITY to blame her. That says a lot about both his maturity and the type of partner he is. I’m not even sure if she can leave that easily if she wants to, if he’s her only income, and with children, it’s gonna be hard to get out.
There's something wrong with both of these, but the last one was beyond messed up.. I'm sorry but no girlfriend is more important than blood, if tht happens she'll be out of my life in a flash, I care about everyone but family comes first, But thts just me... Btw the first one, he needs to grow up, thts all simple, you messed up not her.
People don't become as*holes out of the blue and they learn only if they want to. Why do they end up having any kind of partner in their life?
Wrong signals, no improvements: you ditch them after the first two weeks of dating, whoever they are.
If we stop tolerating those kind of nonsense, people will adapt.
I prefer to be alone in my sanity than age tired and angry with someone else's madness.
the first story reminded me of someone in my family...hate the way he relies everything on his wife😩
is it really that hard to pack your own bag? i mean, it only takes me 20 minutes MAX and i’m a pretty heavy packer…i also like how the guy said that him missing his flight made him “seem unreliable and irresponsible” when THATS WHAT HE CLEARLY IS
I wish people that keep making noise in my woods and leaving trash everywhere out here would realize they're wrong for that
I think for the Ashley story, she was actually really embarrassed that she ended up eating the grandmother's food for the week and felt like she had eaten like a pig, and it sounds like she projected that fear onto her friend.
Kinda makes some sense. Maybe she was aware of the problem but chose to deliberately remain ignorant about it because it would hurt her ego as someone who’s into body positivity. I could be wrong tho
@@kathleenli7638 I feel like that's very possible too
1st Story: Um... What?! I would love to ask him when at all during the planning of this business trip was his wife made to be responsible for anything? She made it VRY clear that she had other responsibilities to handle. The fact that he chose to ignore those he blatant 'No' was a tragedy ready to happen.
2nd Story: I wanna pop head in the mouth. I'm Part of the BPC (Big People Community) too, but I would understand that there are things that shouldn't' t be taken to the heart. He made it clear what kind of woman his grandmother was and her situation. For her to take all that as a insult is just mind boggling.
After reading some comments I have to say something else: about the first story lot of you said the husband was acting like a child. That's the problem, if children in your society are acting like that and parents wish they grew out of it, or say 'I'm gonna teach them later', you'll end up having adults like that man. There is no one valid excuse to not teach your kids with your own good example and then with words the moment they start to look around (when they start to be active, before crawling or speaking) They're like sponges, they absorb language as actions and emotions, they will learn what they learn more than what you teach them, so the key is to start early. Helping kids be disciplined, creative, independent and responsible is healthier than let them experience being little rebellious monkeys for years then try to force them to become 'good kids' overnight.
I would’ve packed his bag and told him to get tf out of my goddamn house.
She had the time to do laundry with his clothes and then pack for him. Everything stained bright pink.
@@Anna-fw7lm
Huh?
@@Anna-fw7lm wdym???
@@imbrilol I think what they mean is that out of spite she put all his whites with the reds and when put on the right settings it'll make pink so then he won't have stuff to wear lol
@@jeanbean_bc
Ohhhhhhh lmao I’m stupid😭
I think we can all agree that the husband in story 1, and ashley in story 2 are spoiled as hell and don't deserve their significant others.
I can't help it that I don't like eating other peoples food or them buying me food because I know myself that I can afford it and it just feels wrong to take theirs.
The first one, no you're not wrong.He should've pack his own bag since you have so many things to do.As you said,you have to cook,helping your kid and stuff.He shouldn't hung out with his friends/boy just because he will 'miss' them.Take offense,but thats really irresponsible. :/
Edit your comment and put “take offense” he deserves to take offense
@@camihatescake oh okay
@@unnotice7887 NOOO I WAS JOKINGGGGG... but like take offense😏
@@camihatescake i know but i thought you were serious TvT
Kyutie, I lovee your vids, they're the only thing that makes my already crappy day better
Ashley doesn't realise the difference between large people and selfish Karen pigs. That is sad.
The first one: no, they weren’t in the wrong. The dude shouldn’t have just left like he did and packed for himself. The wife had a lot of stuff to do, and he had “fOrTnItE”.
(No hate on fortnite if u play it)
He had time to pack his suitcase 🧳 his wife is not his mom
Your makeup looks really pretty today💞✨
Story 1: No. Im very very bad with time management and i still manage to paxk my own bags for trips. He needs to be more responsible. OP had things to do. If he cant be responsible for his own stuff, he deserves to look bad at work.
Story 2: As a heavier woman, and one who grew up poor, no. OP clearly and precisely explained the reasoning. If she automatically jumps to "omg fatshamer", thats a big problem. She doesnt care about anyone but herself. And she probably feels a sense of entitlement due to growing up well-off, too. OP, drop her and run.
For the guy with the privileged girlfriend, is she just a Karen? Because excluding his explanation of why he wanted them to limit their food, he said he'd buy her more food afterwards if she was still hungry, so how was he fat shaming her if he offered her more food?! Smh.
I can’t believe that man in the first story and surely the wife would’ve had a lot of other similar incidents in the past. He sounds like a lost cause - why did she give up her career for that loser 🙄 she needs to get out of that crap relationship- he’s probably cheating on her too 😞
I agree with Ellen on every point with this video. It definitely seems these are ones involving habits that don't work in the real world, plus being selfish and easily taking offense over what's actually not a part of what is going on.
*the first one annoyed the fuck out of me, he definitely was in the wrong*
That first one got me rolling up my sleeves. If my partner ever did that to me, I'd tell them to get the hell out of my house and never return
Yeah
First story: sounds like he's going to see his mistress and not for work. Second story: take her out to eat at a buffet first and then to your grandma place afterwards. If grandma is that bad off, he should be getting grocery delivery to her throughout the week. Instacart, she can't tell them no since she's not paying and you can choose the no contact delivery. She'll use it since she wouldn't want it to go to waste.
2nd one: this is a difficult situation, where 2 families had different financial background and different ideals, try to live together. The guy is definitely not wrong and the grandma definitely didn't do anything wrong beside maybe forcing people to eat at her place. I agree that Ashley sounds very impolite and inconsiderate, she has a different ideal and a strong sense of self-worth, and I agree she definitely took it wrong when asked to eat less at grandma's. I just seem to me that they'd be both better off not being together. Also on the guy's side, expecting someone who grew up financially well to accept, adapt to and charit to his financially poor family members, would be too much to ask from someone who isn't about self-sacrifice, especially if they get married, said someone will have to deal with it for the rest of her life. To me that sounds like some strong sense of entitlement from this guy, but I guess it all started when grandma force people to eat at her place despite being too poor to feed herself, like why? I guess there's too much pride in her, cause I wasn't from a wealthy family, but i always knew to do things within my capability, so definitely no feeding others when can't feed self. It really would take a lot for 2 families like these to come together, and neither Ashley nor the guy sounded like they can do that.
That first guy deserves a divorce! His wife is not supposed to mother him. And he should have spent time with his kids. What an inconsiderate buffoon!
Random story of mine:
I used to really like someone, who ended up leading me on and made me lie to a few of my close friends, they were liked by a lot of people and were friends with literally everyone I knew, so there was absolutely no avoiding them, the thing is I never once tried to fix anything or make things better and instead I cut that person off completely, hoping it'd let me feel better. I guess that did something because I've heard they feel bad about what they did, I still felt guilty about it though because we never even talked about it and I kinda just avoided it.
Was I in the wrong? Should I have taken a different approach?
I won't say that you were wrong , but if this person wants to talk about this I think it's better to talk . Not me saying you should have some relationship with him , I just feel like you will feel more at ease if you hear from this person and also if you establish where you are coming from to this person. I hope you wouldn't blame yourself for anything.have a nice day:)
Wtf yo? Fat-shaming?
That's not fat-shaming! That's being courteous to a family member!
Heck, I'm a big'eater too but if I want second or third portions I always ask if anyone wants to grab some of the food first, then if everyone says no I'll grab my second helping. Or if I'm not hungry then I'll have what's leftover. No big loss. Still the same food.
Bitch better learn wth body positivity is actually about.
Exactly. Ashley was being greedy and selfish
Exactly my younger brothers did that they are big eaters and always ask if we want more
The first guy saying that he didn't go coz his wife didn't pack his bags has the same energy from the guy in primary school saying he didn't bring his homework coz his Mom didn't pack it.
@CutiePie 林檎 they weren't-
Ashley was unkind and embarrassed, but the boyfriend could've used a different approach. He already knew her eating habits and privileged princess mindset, he should've taken her out to eat before going to grandma's place. And consider how would his grandma feel if she found out this is what he was saying to her guests behind her back? Poor people have pride and dignity too! If a poor person invites you to dinner, eat moderately but also don't go empty handed in the first place, bring side dishes/bread/dessert, or prepare a box of snacks/fruits/sweets that can keep for a week.
I mean the guy even said they could eat somewhere else after the family dinner if she was still hungry, it doesn't make since to think he was fat shaming :|
If the first girl doesn't DIVORCE his ass...I mean sweetie, is he your husband or your 3 y/o CHILD
He wasn’t limiting her eating, he was making sure she wasn’t limiting his grandma’s eating.
They could go and eat at the restaurant afterwards 🤦♀️ what an entitlement
Worst thing of all, discriminating again people for something they cant change.
Why don’t Ashley get her own food then, she got the money for that anyway
It only takes like 15 to 30 minutes depending on what you take to pack your bags before leave to the airport. He is just so lazy.
the "oK aShLeY" got me 😂😂
Good grief, it's stories like these that make me grateful that I'm single.
That one dislike is ashley
With the second story, he literally said they could go out and eat if she was still hungry. He didn't tell her to not eat much at all that night, just not to eat too much at the grandmas house
Whole video was GREAT but it was when he said “No, actually I’m a plumber!” For me LOLL
The first one is leading up to a Divorce 😃
Bro I got even madder when I realized “the boys” were his friends I thought he was gonna miss his children-
No because I'm a child and I get mad when people back my bag for me-
I Told my MIL that my wife her dauther did not make me lunch for work she did not work my MIL said buy a hamburger stupid! When i drove cross country she would pack my bag but always forget something! loke no underwear or no socks, Bless her heart!
In my opinion, I understand Ashley in the second story. As a fat person people kept saying to me to eat less so that i could loose weight and if i ever heard this phrase from my partner, my first reaction would be offence. But if she is so into body positivity and all, she should understand the difference between normal requests and shaming. The second girl might have to think for a but before she speaks up because even if her mind is all positive and all, her way of understanding is not at all correct.
The one in the thumbnail is just...I never knew that idiots could go that far. Anyways, I hope that the person broke up with that girl, her existence is unnecessary
There was actually a situation that happen to me where someone said they locked themselves in a bathroom to try to entertain themselves so I said I did that too which was kinda true but then someone said I was rude and to say something else so I said "I'm sorry to hear that maybe you should get some friends" well... We all got into an argument and I left them
The second one is so sad...
The first guy, omg, what a child! What an irresponsible person. I would flip, pack my own bags and stay in a hotel for the next couple of weeks. How do people like this exist? Sounds like a mama's boy.
1st one: seems to me that the husband got a sense of entitlement for being the "breadwinner" and, according to context clue, for having a wife who usually takes care of everything in the house. He's definitely immature and irresponsible regardless of whether he's the breadwinner, I feel like the wife kind of "let" this happen by doing everything in the house and leave him with no sense of responsibility, his friends are also toxic for taking up his time to be responsible. My advice for the gentlemen, be a grown-up. Advice for the ladies, keep in mind when you decide to be a housewife and give up your "financial worth" that this bs can happen anytime with any partner.
I lost so many precious brain cells reading both of these stories...it's honestly really sad ppl like this still even exist.
How disrespectful of this guy , how can he do that . 100% Jerk
The level of irresponsibly in the first story is priceless, hope she divorce him, because it's VERY hard to him changing his narcissistic attitude any day. -_-💢
i can't stand when people like Ashley (2nd story) are super intense and overbearing when it comes to "body positivity" like that. How she was speaking was not even body positive it was just entitled asf. Makes other people who struggle with weight and/or who advocate for body positivity look stupid.
body positivity/neutrality is about accepting whatever stage someone is at with their body and weight. not glorifying being unhealthily big or small, just accepting people wherever they are at. physical and mental health is a journey, some people struggle with this harder than others, but at the end of the day, it is not about normalising unhealthy eating behaviours, it's about accepting these behaviours and trying to better yourself.
omg do more of these i really enjoyed this!
the first one, they should have a very serious talk.
Yeah, neither of the narrators were in the wrong for what they did. Some people need to grow up and also learn not to be selfish. I feel bad for both of them and they both need to divorce/breakup with their S.O.
For both stories, its the partners fault. No blame should be put on the writers of the stories
The first dude is so entitled I swear
1st story. The guy is clearly a gaslighting nobhead. I would not be with someone like that end of
ISTG if I don't start working harder to be responsible, I'm going to end up just like the first guy.
In the first story, the woman was not in the wrong. I hope the husband learned his lesson. In the second story, the man is not in the wrong. The girlfriend should have understood the situation
i feel bad for the first woman. i hope she left that guy, but it would be hard considering they have kids
The first story:
Me: Shocked why the husband didn't begin with ex
The first one kinda had an F boy attitude with being irresponsible
The second one is just horrible
You would rather have the grandmother of YOUR Boyfriend starve because your gluttonous a$$ doesen't know that going into (Insert Term) is not healthy and the majority of this movement consists out of lazy, greedy people
This girl was my childhood I watched her when I was 7 I'm now 12
Kyutie you were the reason why my life turned around thank you
Honestly I get why she may feel like she is being body shamed but that was not the reason he said what he said. I think instead that maybe he should take her out earlier for food and then take her to his grandmothers later. I think she should understand that he is not trying to dictate how much she eats (because she can figure that out herself) but that she should try and not eat too much there because of finances.
Yup, these two were in the wrong...
...relationships, it's sad T-T
Man needs better time management skills. Should not expect servants.
The 1st story sounded like it was some 13 year old rebellious teenager..
I feel attacked😆 I am nothing like that Ashlee tho😂
There is one simple answer for that. Break up with them. Don't care if you love them break up with them.
Your username 😂
@@blingus_ I couldn't think of a name 😂😂😂
Re: last story, I would've taken her to taco bell first then to burger king and ordered some pizza too, so when we get to grandma's house she just can't have another bite 🤣🤣🤣 I know it's impractical but it could solve the problem!!
First story: Pack his bags then. Random stuff like swim trunks, band tshirts, shorts, sandals/flip flops and things not for business (including an adult toy if security checks), no personal care like shaving stuff and deodorant. (Or just kids type child toothbrush and bubble gum toothpaste.) No business attire, no cell charger items and just a note saying since you are treating it a mini vacation, I packed it like one.
Second story: Dump her! What would happen if it gets serious and you can't afford a lot of quality food? She'd buy take out, eat everything and starve the kids.
Bro I’ve never been this early before
And the nerve of these people like tf entitled much??
I never eat more than 1 helping of food at someone’s house. It’s rude. If they say, eat as much as you want. I do. But when they don’t say anything I don’t.
Ps. I’m on the bigger side to.
First story
Wife should call his boss and tell him everything that happened
Including the fort nite