More years ago than I care to remember I heard a character in a television costume drama say "When one is unhappy on the inside it is important to decorate the outside". This had always been my attitude & doing it had got me through the saddest times of my life. It doesn't mean that someone is being shallow, selfish or uncaring it means that they are doing positive, something to nurture themselves & for many, including me, it's our normal. When I saw you at the end of your video I could imagine Audrey looking at you with all the love & pride she had in her glorious daughter & smiling her beautiful smile.
Soo well said. Thank you for your comment that’s full of wisdom. I lost husband, son & daughter. I am in front of the bathroom mirror or closet making myself the best I can be. It’s not vanity, it’s therapy!
Y'all, I am being tested and TRIED right now, and I was feeling like I'm the only one... but then here comes Dominique, letting us know that we're not alone. Thanks for making yourself vulnerable, Dominique. We appreciate you.
Thank you for this video journey. Grief comes in waves. I'm happy you didn't cry today. It's not wrong, but today we joined you on your journey to embrace a little semblance of "normal" life. You look beautiful, too! That dress is perfect! ❤
You are a amazing women, for today you picked yourself up with this lovely beauty-ritual, and be in the moment for now. Other day will come, high and low, but for now you comforted us and yourself with this video, line from Amsterdam ❤
I lost my husband of 41 years July 16 and self care is so important. I have been surrounded with support by friends and family doing sweet things for me. My sincere condolences for losing your Mom. Praying God gives you comfort and peace during this time.
I brought my daughter to her first year of college earlier in the week. I must say it was so much harder than i thought. It actuality physically hurt. I cant imagine losing my mom and bringing a child to college for the first time in such close proximity. Hugs to you and your son!!!! You're doing great and a beautiful person inside and out
...first retching day of giving my child over to kindergarten, I found this poem: 'they are off to school, each boy and girl, and mom fondly kissing them, knowing she will now have the luxury of missing them." hope this helps in a very small way! xox
My 21 yr old started a new job in another state. Saying goodbye hurt emotionally and physically. My chest ached. Feels my heart has been taken. I understand what you are going through. I never imagined it would feel this bad
Moving forward after losing a mother is monumental...I cried and cried....Life does move forward...it does take time and she will always be part of you,day after day. She would want you to move forward just as you are doing.....Love you!!!
Good to hear from you! My youngest son moved out a few weeks ago and we haven't talked at all. We've never had any problems or issues with him, so this has hit us hard. I'm so sorry about your Mom, and I know taking your son to college was hard, but this is a nice reminder that we're all dealing with heartache and troubles. Also a good reminder to take care of ourselves. Praying for peace and strength for all of us.
I really needed this video. I have just returned home after two months in Canada as my brother in law died then I stayed longer as my sister in law was not coping and as a widow myself I knew how she was feeling. I have been so busy helping her I have not had any time for myself. You give me the incentive to look after me now once I get over the jet lag. Thank you for all your videos xx
Feeling your loss Dominique. I lost my mother right before my one and only child went to college. It felt like a bomb went off in my heart. I think I spent the first year in a walking haze. So thanks for reminding us that we need to take care of ourselves. Sending you prayers and positive thoughts.
Thanks for sharing, Dominique. I admire how you are taking care of you during this process, and I definitely encourage everyone watching this video to do so. During my time as a caregiver to my beautiful mother, I neglected myself a lot, because she became my top priority, and in reality I needed to place myself in that priority list as well, but did not know how to do that. I can say that just recently, after almost a year of her passing, I am beginning to take care of me again. ❤
Being the caregiver takes an insidious toll on a person. My Mother just died this winter at 103 years old! She needed very little care, but definitely had someone around every hour for assistance. Bless you for the care, and now it is your time to thank yourself for doing that caregiving. peace
SELF LOVE IS TRUE LOVE. The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. Every 5 years, life transitions: divorce, death, kid in college and aging. Beautiful! Bold! Blessed!
I am so thankful that you are able to find time and take the effort to comfort and self sooth. Such a wonderful example to all of us. I am also thankful that you are allowing others to take care of you. I appreciate the way you are handling your Grief and also letting us know some of the healing steps you are taking that will be helpful to all . Thank you for being you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I shared with a friend how lucky I felt having had the opportunity of having been welcomed into my husband’s life at such a young age 50 years ago. I’m a few weeks into my own bereavement and I totally get that dried out feeling when you look into the mirror and you looked parched. Just started adding those extra skin treatments morning and night in the hope I don’t end up permanently shrivelled. I also have wonderful friends who check in and ask me out, how grateful am I. Never turn down an invitation even if you feel you aren’t up to it, if they are good, understanding friends they will understand if you don’t join in or phase in an out of conversations, it’s a process and it takes time and it’s different for everyone. It’s your normal. ❤
Dominique - you look so well, even though I’m sure that grief will come and go and sometimes sneak up on you when you least expect it. It does to me still and my mom passed away in 2009! Your love for your mom and she for you was palpable. It radiated on screen. You are so lucky to have had that and for so long. And now another big life transition - your son heading off to college! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. We feel less alone. I really enjoy listening to your podcast/you tube channel. God bless you!❤
I'm sorry I haven't been on lately and i'm sending my condolences to you and your family!! I was shocked to learn of your moms passing!! I lost my mom 5 years ago this past Feb. But I knew she was dying but I thought your mom was healthy. But that goes to show you; you never know. Again, my condolences!!! Much love to you and yours!!! You look lovely Dominique!!!
Thankyou for making this video, Im feeling quite down about things at the moment but you make it feel like chatting with a good friend, you are so warm, friendly and genuine. Xx
Thank you for sharing your journey through grief! I appreciate your willingness to be open with your heart! You are beautiful! Praying for continued comfort as you carry on.
Good afternoon Dominique! Beautiful YOU video! I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious Mama, Audrey, who was so beautiful, too! Both of you from the inside out and the outside in! May God bless and guide you and your son, Styles, as you both continue your life’s journey. Love and prayers! 🙏🏻💕
Dominique, you so therapeutic to watch. I’m sitting waiting to get my oil changed and watching your video and feeling so calm. Almost like I am putting on the eye patches, conditioning my hair with you. Thank you. Wonderful to see you today. Have a wonderful day 😊
You are so correct,you cannot grieve 24/7…it is not healthy. Self care is essential for the healing process. We lost our 43 year old son in April…we are reeling. Tears come readily, I am grateful for memories, and times of sharing with friends and family. I am grateful for times of taking a break from memories. Thank you for being willing to share your journey.❤
I think happiness is the best anti-aging tip anyone can give… in addition to all the great skin care we practice. so take good care of your self! Even in times of sadness , you can still have joy in the memories and love that is shared
Lost my husband of 53 years of heart failure. I was his caretaker so I need to learn how to take care of myself. Your last few videos have been so helpful. We were HS sweetheart and new each other in 7 th grade. I promised him I would. You have been so helpful. Thank you.
Looking your best actually is a selfless act as one's appearance affects all those in your presence by lifting their spirits, too. Thank you for your generous inspiration, Dominique. Your words and your expertise are greatly appreciated.
Beauty is a gift given to you You will carry bits and pieces of your mom the rest of your days. Seize these moments and continue bringing light into the world. We need it 💝
I’m happy that you’re getting the support of friends. I understand grief all too well, having lost my father, mother, and 3 brothers! You’re a lovely person so it’s a joy to see that others are stepping up for you! Love your videos too! ❤
I’ve been where you are, it’s so very difficult to be as brave. Dominique, you’re sharing is a tonic to all of us who have been where you are. They say time heals, it doesn’t, it just helps us adjust and keep going. Love your videos love your advice. Sending hugs and strength to you from a fan in Australia 🇦🇺🤗🤗
Vulnerability is difficult for many. I’m so glad you are back just like your mom would want you to do! Take care of yourself beautiful and know we are here for you. Sending you a big hug and prayers. All the best to Styles!
I'm guessing that all of us think of you as our good friend. Thanks for your honesty always. You're a great influence on your viewers. You're the best. We love you from a distance!
I know your mom is so proud of you and is watching over you. My mom passed away in 2019 and I still feel her presence. Everyone says I look just like my mom & you do too. God bless you. You are beautiful
I agree with you 100% that self-care and doing something which makes you feel better from within is so important. The sooner we find that time for ourselves, the better equipped we will be to carry on with our challenges but also with the good moments. Thank you for reminding us that it can be done ❤.
Bless You! You’re so selfless at a time when it’s somewhat okay to be selfish. Such a class act. Thank you for continuing to be a beacon of light and hope for so many of us, even in your vulnerable moments ❤
It can be a struggle to get yourself together during hard times , but it’s so important to get comfort and joy from friends and it can really lift ones spirits.
It's so important to do the things that feel familiar and comforting during this period of unfamiliarity. What would Audrey do? She would encourage you to do exactly this, because she loved you so much and she would want you to do these things to help you through the adjustment. Sending you big hugs and lots of love from the UK ❤❤❤
Your light continues to shine SO brightly Dominique. I am praying for God's comfort as you walk this difficult journey. You are not alone. You are such a fresh breath of air❤ Love you!
The kindness of friends even those you may have lost touch with is so comforting. Take advantage of it. You are looking better and better. God keep you in his embrace.
Dominique Thank you. For all of your positivity. Lost my husband in Nov then my precious doggie 4 days ago. She has been my glue and my Angel. I am so sad 😢 heartbroken but I know she is in my heart. Today I told myself the same thing no crying today. Thanks for the uplifting video, yes self care is important ❤️ 😊 ♥️ God bless you
Dominique I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom raised a fabulous woman in you though. You get the honor of carrying on her legacy. I wish you nothing but strength & healing during this time of sadness.
Dominique Thank you so much for your down to earth videos. You gave me a game changing moment a few years back when you did a tutorial on how to look good in pictures! My confidence came back and now I don't run when my friends iPhone cams come out and everyone is saying cheese. I embrace the moment and rock it!
All the love and heart felt warmth headed your way. You deserve happiness and more importantly, peace. ❤ So glad you have a wonderful supportive network of people to help remind you you’re not alone and you are very, very loved.
So happy to hear that you have a loving, supportive network to get you through tough times and to celebrate with you during wonderful times. The final look turned out super gorgeous. Nothing better than getting dolled up and losing yourself in a fun lunch with a good friend. xoxo
Dominique I have been watching your videos for many years now. I am 62 yrs old and never commented.i have the need to tell you that you are an amazing woman. The epitome of what ushumans should be like. You are truly a blessing to everyone. To those people that no longer have you in their lives, they let the lottery slip through their fingers. Dominique may God Almighty continue to bless you and yours forever. I know you make your family proud. Thank you for everything.
I’m so glad you are surrounded with so much love and care! Such a beautiful, warm look for your special outing! Can’t believe your baby is college bound! Wish we could slow time down sometimes. So good to have a GRWM episode sweet, strong lady!🥰
Great for you, Dominique! So good to see you taking care of yourself after everything you’ve been through. Sending you lots and lots of love and prayers!
You look beautiful Dominique! You’re mom is watching up from above, and I’m sure is proud that you still take care of yourself and know your loved. 🙏🏻🩷🙏🏻
You got all the support and specially the prayers every day, thank you for the reminder of self care and how important it is, that is one of my daily goals because honestly at the beginning of my health journey I did not even had the strength to do my skin care specially on my days after chemo but one day I did it and just a few things I did it made me feel better and good about myself and I felt pretty. You are a wonderful person inside and out.
Dominique, I started watching your videos three years ago, in the middle of the night, during the darkest hours of the dismantling of my marriage. I have watched you share similar events, come out stronger than ever, and thrive. I have also lost my parents and Mom was my very best friend. I, too, am taking my youngest to college this weekend. My faith has absolutely exploded and I am so grateful for your inspiration. Peace and love to you as you navigate this new chapter of your life.
This is just what I needed..I lost my best friend of 40yrs and my cousin within two weeks of each other...❤ You are such a pure inspiration and joy much love
❤ we all need some self care, time to pick oneself up during difficult times. Well done Dominique, I'm sure your Mother is looking down with her wonderful smile on her face x
We love you Dominique. You are a sincere beautiful person. I know it is hard, I can see it in your face but, Mom is smiling down on you and coaxing you forward. Thanks for today’s visit.
I love this woman. For me she is the perfect person and the perfect theacher for giving lessons how to make beautiful yourself . Thank you so much, Dominique. You are the best.
Dominique it was beautiful to watch you share such authentic pure gratitude so we can all see how it truly helps lift your day no matter what your circumstances Thank you for sharing.❤
Soooo good to see you smiling just take each day at a time as you are doing! You look beautiful thank you for the tips you are always an inspiration May God wrap his arms around you today and always💞🙏
I love you so so much Dominique! I really need this self care & who better to get my advice from than you as I’ve been so depressed the past 5 1/2 mos since I lost my son. The love your mother had for you was the love I had for my son & still do of course. This love is for all eternity even after they are gone. Please forgive me for not using the correct wording for how I’m trying to explain how my heart is so broken & crushed. Even different losses for you & I, I know you are so caring that you know my heart. You are my mentor ! I am your biggest fan even tho you don’t hear from me too often. I have left my house work go that my home is a disaster especially since I have 2 German shepherds that are inside dogs but go out in my fenced in yard during the day. I’ve lost all the desire of taking care of myself & my home. I don’t want to go anywhere nor do anything. And I know this is all wrong. I was diagnosed w RA & Fibromyalgia 20 yrs ago. It’s not that noticeable except in my knuckles in my hands, but I have constant pain. Mostly mild-moderate most of the time. My son’s passing was completely unexpected. I really felt a lot of support from my small circle of friends & besides my daughter & mother, only one Aunt made me feel that she really cared. My only other Aunt which is closer to my age…10 plus yrs older that always told me everyday of my life that she loved me didn’t come to the funeral , but did walk across the road to the cemetery to tell everyone that she did not expect to see there how “she didn’t know” where the funeral was going to be!! She did not speak to her sister , my mother nor hug the 3 immediate family members , myself, my mother, & my daughter. This is 2023 & even in “1950” ppl picked up the phone & called the family or Funeral Home & asked!! I felt sorry for her, a college graduate, retiring from the State of NC & also retiring from The Northwestern Bank before that!! There’s more too this story but too much to bore you & your fans with. My point iS that being an “only” child & feeling like I was going through this devastating pain that I’m still going through, that my Aunt that has sat on the 3 row at church for 50 yrs & claims to be Christian , it all hurt that much more! My son was 11 1/2 yrs younger than my daughter & my parents helped me raise my daughter as I was only 19 & after a yr of marriage my then husband that was also Christian & claimed publicly that he had been called from God to preach, left me with a 9 month old baby & all the bills!! And to think that I saved my virginity for that kind of man?? I have suffered from chronic depression for yrs if I might add! No, I’m not suicidal but “only” bc of my religion. Do I feel like living? No. I can honestly say that IF not for God & my religious beliefs… I would not be here. And for my Aunt to lie to my face why she didn’t come to the funeral but yet came to the cemetery told me she knew exactly where what & when the funeral took place. After all, she had 10 days to fine out. On top of all this, I still haven’t received a call nor a text. It took her 5 weeks to send me a generic sympathy card. Because she had one son at age 30 & I was 30 when I had my son, both of us having C-Sections, plus she only had 2 nieces & 8 nephews, we were extremely close all my life. Mother & her sister were always close. Nobody would have deliberately hurt someone when they were experiencing the loss of a child. So this was even more for my Aunt which I forgot to add that she is a “pillow” or is it a “pillar” of the community(?) I’m sorry, I’m venting bc I am hurting so awful much & I need your motivation. When I was listening to your podcast & you were saying if your words could help someone, you would feel you were accomplishing what you set out to do. Those of course -not your exact words & I can’t quote word for word. Your words touch me & you may have saved my life, so thank you for doing what you do for all of us all over the world! Sending you much love, big hugs, & prayers to God everyday before I pray for myself… all from North Carolina ❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hugs to you! My son just left for college this morning and it was the hardest day ever. I thought I was prepared but - I honestly don’t think any amount of preparation will make it easy. I appreciate your videos. Thank you for your content.
You are just amazing. You always have a way of making me feel better even when you are just trying to make it through the day. I cried every day for a year after my mom passed. Thought I would never smile again but slowly and surely the light came back. Watching your videos inspire me to always keep looking ahead. Bless you.
Loved this video! You are so calming and a joy to watch. Your hair color - this blonde right now - is the prettiest I’ve seen on you. It’s gorgeous. Kudos to your colorist! 😊❤
Love this video Dominique. You’re beautiful inside and out. Taking it one day at a time and keeping busy is what helped me when I lost my mom. Watching your videos got me through horrible Covid days of isolation. I practiced your makeup and skin care techniques and boy what a difference it made to feel better and look better. I send you blessings and hugs and many thanks for all that you share. And for the people commenting about lashes..she didn’t asked for your opinion. Gosh!
Dominique, let me just say..this self care makeup look…is absolutely stunning on you..possibly my most favorite of all the makeup looks! Your mom is looking down and smiling like she always did with pure joy and love for her amazing daughter !! May God continue to bless you on your new chapter
I only heard your mom's speaker few times but she seemed like a really precious woman, I know it's hard when you lose a loved one. I'm sure you'll see her one day in heaven. ❤
I always feel like you are talking to me and me alone whenever you put up these videos. It feels so personal. Your sincerity shines through as always. And you looked fabulous!
What a pleasure to spend your morning with you! You have been so transparent in your healing process and an inspiration on how to handle heartbreak and ache! I am praying for you and for today( it's Friday when I saw this episode) as you move your son into his college setting. Huge blessings and hugs to you and thanks for sharing yourself with us!! (I'm originally from Houston and truly hope to meet you some day, on a visit back.)
I lost my mom now 5 years ago it’s an overwhelming loss. You will always have her memory. You go have a great day sons onto college. A new chapter to enjoy❤️❤️
I’m so glad to see you taking care of you. Thank you for giving us this video despite your grief. I lost my mom right before my daughter’s first birthday. I had a large party planned and really didn’t feel like celebrating. My family convinced me that my mother would have wanted a big celebration for her first granddaughter’s first birthday and that I should go ahead. The morning of the party I looked at myself in the mirror and wondered how would I ever make myself pretty today? I didn’t feel good emotionally, It was around Easter which was my mom’s favorite holiday. I had a house full of flowers and colorful cupcakes…it felt wrong for someone in mourning. However, I also wore a white dress with lovely jewelry and I felt better. I did manage to enjoy the festivities. It was the first time I really smiled since my mom passed and somehow I felt her presence. Now that your son is going off to college you may feel a double loss although thankfully he is doing what kids are supposed to do! It’s a new beginning for you but perhaps not how you originally envisioned it. Thank God your mom was able to see him graduate from high school. All the best to you and I hope you continue to heal and even grow from this.
I can see how fragile you’re feeling but you’re also being so strong, we love you, Dominique xx
More years ago than I care to remember I heard a character in a television costume drama say "When one is unhappy on the inside it is important to decorate the outside". This had always been my attitude & doing it had got me through the saddest times of my life. It doesn't mean that someone is being shallow, selfish or uncaring it means that they are doing positive, something to nurture themselves & for many, including me, it's our normal. When I saw you at the end of your video I could imagine Audrey looking at you with all the love & pride she had in her glorious daughter & smiling her beautiful smile.
Soo well said. Thank you for your comment that’s full of wisdom. I lost husband, son & daughter. I am in front of the bathroom mirror or closet making myself the best I can be. It’s not vanity, it’s therapy!
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My 💗 & prayers are with you.
There are no words!
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@@Donna-cc1ktOh Donna! So much loss to bear! May you find the strength to rise up every day and live! ❤️
Sending love to you xx
I am so sorry for your trouble & hope that you are being supported. I send you my best wishes.@@Donna-cc1kt
Y'all, I am being tested and TRIED right now, and I was feeling like I'm the only one... but then here comes Dominique, letting us know that we're not alone. Thanks for making yourself vulnerable, Dominique. We appreciate you.
Thank YOU for being here, you got this ♥️
Sending hello and hope for your well-being while you are worried and stressed. peace
I don't know you, but I'm sending you hugs 🤗 hang in there, you're stronger than you know ❤
Thank you for this video journey. Grief comes in waves. I'm happy you didn't cry today. It's not wrong, but today we joined you on your journey to embrace a little semblance of "normal" life. You look beautiful, too! That dress is perfect! ❤
You are a amazing women, for today you picked yourself up with this lovely beauty-ritual, and be in the moment for now. Other day will come, high and low, but for now you comforted us and yourself with this video, line from Amsterdam ❤
Grief reeks havoc on your body. You grieve fiercely because you loved fiercely. My best to you.
I lost my husband of 41 years July 16 and self care is so important. I have been surrounded with support by friends and family doing sweet things for me. My sincere condolences for losing your Mom. Praying God gives you comfort and peace during this time.
Thank you..
Hi Dominique I have been thinking about you. I am praying for you.big 🤗
I am sorry….may you also feel God’s presence and love during this difficult time. Losing a spouse is hard 💔
My Condolences and prayers to you 🙏🏻
Oh Melody I can’t imagine how you feel. I’m so sorry for your loss. May angels watch over you during this time of grieving. 🌹
I brought my daughter to her first year of college earlier in the week. I must say it was so much harder than i thought. It actuality physically hurt. I cant imagine losing my mom and bringing a child to college for the first time in such close proximity. Hugs to you and your son!!!! You're doing great and a beautiful person inside and out
Wishing your daughter all the very best ❤️
...first retching day of giving my child over to kindergarten, I found this poem: 'they are off to school, each boy and girl, and mom fondly kissing them, knowing she will now have the luxury of missing them." hope this helps in a very small way! xox
My 21 yr old started a new job in another state. Saying goodbye hurt emotionally and physically. My chest ached. Feels my heart has been taken. I understand what you are going through. I never imagined it would feel this bad
Your mom is so proud of you for your strength and willingness to try to help others during this time of sadness. Well done, Dominique! 🥰
Moving forward after losing a mother is monumental...I cried and cried....Life does move forward...it does take time and she will always be part of you,day after day. She would want you to move forward just as you are doing.....Love you!!!
You look so gorgeous in the middle of your grief and empty nest. You inspire everyone.
You’re a wonderful daughter . You are honoring your beautiful mother’s memory in such a lovely manner. We are all sending you love & prayers 💖
You have been on my mind lately. I know the pain of loss when we lose our moms. God bless.
Good to hear from you! My youngest son moved out a few weeks ago and we haven't talked at all. We've never had any problems or issues with him, so this has hit us hard. I'm so sorry about your Mom, and I know taking your son to college was hard, but this is a nice reminder that we're all dealing with heartache and troubles. Also a good reminder to take care of ourselves. Praying for peace and strength for all of us.
I really needed this video. I have just returned home after two months in Canada as my brother in law died then I stayed longer as my sister in law was not coping and as a widow myself I knew how she was feeling. I have been so busy helping her I have not had any time for myself. You give me the incentive to look after me now once I get over the jet lag. Thank you for all your videos xx
Feeling your loss Dominique. I lost my mother right before my one and only child went to college. It felt like a bomb went off in my heart. I think I spent the first year in a walking haze. So thanks for reminding us that we need to take care of ourselves. Sending you prayers and positive thoughts.
Thanks for sharing, Dominique. I admire how you are taking care of you during this process, and I definitely encourage everyone watching this video to do so. During my time as a caregiver to my beautiful mother, I neglected myself a lot, because she became my top priority, and in reality I needed to place myself in that priority list as well, but did not know how to do that. I can say that just recently, after almost a year of her passing, I am beginning to take care of me again. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss, but so happy to hear you're taking care of yourself ♥️
Being the caregiver takes an insidious toll on a person. My Mother just died this winter at 103 years old! She needed very little care, but definitely had someone around every hour for assistance. Bless you for the care, and now it is your time to thank yourself for doing that caregiving. peace
Dominique, your are so loved here in this TH-cam community. You are inspiring in every way. Much love 🩵
You are so very loved from all of us!♥️♥️♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I am having a rough day and I already feel better just watching your video. Thank you for always being sunshine to our days
SELF LOVE IS TRUE LOVE. The most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. Every 5 years, life transitions: divorce, death, kid in college and aging. Beautiful! Bold! Blessed!
I am so thankful that you are able to find time and take the effort to comfort and self sooth. Such a wonderful example to all of us. I am also thankful that you are allowing others to take care of you. I appreciate the way you are handling your Grief and also letting us know some of the healing steps you are taking that will be helpful to all . Thank you for being you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I shared with a friend how lucky I felt having had the opportunity of having been welcomed into my husband’s life at such a young age 50 years ago. I’m a few weeks into my own bereavement and I totally get that dried out feeling when you look into the mirror and you looked parched. Just started adding those extra skin treatments morning and night in the hope I don’t end up permanently shrivelled. I also have wonderful friends who check in and ask me out, how grateful am I. Never turn down an invitation even if you feel you aren’t up to it, if they are good, understanding friends they will understand if you don’t join in or phase in an out of conversations, it’s a process and it takes time and it’s different for everyone. It’s your normal. ❤
You are surrounded by love and support because you deserve it. 💗
So True 💞💞
Dominique - you look so well, even though I’m sure that grief will come and go and sometimes sneak up on you when you least expect it. It does to me still and my mom passed away in 2009! Your love for your mom and she for you was palpable. It radiated on screen. You are so lucky to have had that and for so long. And now another big life transition - your son heading off to college! Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. We feel less alone. I really enjoy listening to your podcast/you tube channel. God bless you!❤
Great seeing you in this video this week! Thanks for taking us along with you through your healing journey ❤
I'm sorry I haven't been on lately and i'm sending my condolences to you and your family!! I was shocked to learn of your moms passing!! I lost my mom 5 years ago this past Feb. But I knew she was dying but I thought your mom was healthy. But that goes to show you; you never know. Again, my condolences!!! Much love to you and yours!!! You look lovely Dominique!!!
I feel the weariness from grief that you are going through… yet you show up and make us all feel better.❤
You look amazing as always! Stay strong and remember God is always with you!!
Thankyou for making this video, Im feeling quite down about things at the moment but you make it feel like chatting with a good friend, you are so warm, friendly and genuine. Xx
Thank you for sharing your journey through grief! I appreciate your willingness to be open with your heart! You are beautiful! Praying for continued comfort as you carry on.
Good afternoon Dominique! Beautiful YOU video! I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious Mama, Audrey, who was so beautiful, too! Both of you from the inside out and the outside in! May God bless and guide you and your son, Styles, as you both continue your life’s journey. Love and prayers! 🙏🏻💕
Dominique, you so therapeutic to watch. I’m sitting waiting to get my oil changed and watching your video and feeling so calm. Almost like I am putting on the eye patches, conditioning my hair with you. Thank you. Wonderful to see you today. Have a wonderful day 😊
You are so correct,you cannot grieve 24/7…it is not healthy. Self care is essential for the healing process.
We lost our 43 year old son in April…we are reeling. Tears come readily, I am grateful for memories, and times of sharing with friends and family. I am grateful for times of taking a break from memories.
Thank you for being willing to share your journey.❤
I think happiness is the best anti-aging tip anyone can give… in addition to all the great skin care we practice. so take good care of your self! Even in times of sadness , you can still have joy in the memories and love that is shared
Loved every second. Thank YOU Dominique. Be well, at peace, find joy. We are all behind and here for you. ❤️🙏❤️
Lost my husband of 53 years of heart failure. I was his caretaker so I need to learn how to take care of myself. Your last few videos have been so helpful. We were HS sweetheart and new each other in 7 th grade. I promised him I would. You have been so helpful. Thank you.
Looking your best actually is a selfless act as one's appearance affects all those in your presence by lifting their spirits, too. Thank you for your generous inspiration, Dominique. Your words and your expertise are greatly appreciated.
Beauty is a gift given to you You will carry bits and pieces of your mom the rest of your days. Seize these moments and continue bringing light into the world. We need it 💝
I’m happy that you’re getting the support of friends. I understand grief all too well, having lost my father, mother, and 3 brothers! You’re a lovely person so it’s a joy to see that others are stepping up for you! Love your videos too! ❤
Sending you much love❤❤❤❤
I’ve been where you are, it’s so very difficult to be as brave. Dominique, you’re sharing is a tonic to all of us who have been where you are. They say time heals, it doesn’t, it just helps us adjust and keep going.
Love your videos love your advice.
Sending hugs and strength to you from a fan in Australia 🇦🇺🤗🤗
Vulnerability is difficult for many. I’m so glad you are back just like your mom would want you to do! Take care of yourself beautiful and know we are here for you. Sending you a big hug and prayers. All the best to Styles!
I'm guessing that all of us think of you as our good friend. Thanks for your honesty always. You're a great influence on your viewers. You're the best. We love you from a distance!
You are so right, self care is so important! You are a shining example for all of us, what a precious soul! ❤
I know your mom is so proud of you and is watching over you. My mom passed away in 2019 and I still feel her presence. Everyone says I look just like my mom & you do too. God bless you.
You are beautiful
I agree with you 100% that self-care and doing something which makes you feel better from within is so important. The sooner we find that time for ourselves, the better equipped we will be to carry on with our challenges but also with the good moments. Thank you for reminding us that it can be done ❤.
You are Truly your Mothers Daughter; she is shining through you. Enjoy your day. 🙏🏻🌻🙏🏻
Bless You! You’re so selfless at a time when it’s somewhat okay to be selfish. Such a class act. Thank you for continuing to be a beacon of light and hope for so many of us, even in your vulnerable moments ❤
It can be a struggle to get yourself together during hard times , but it’s so important to get comfort and joy from friends and it can really lift ones spirits.
It's so important to do the things that feel familiar and comforting during this period of unfamiliarity. What would Audrey do? She would encourage you to do exactly this, because she loved you so much and she would want you to do these things to help you through the adjustment. Sending you big hugs and lots of love from the UK ❤❤❤
Your light continues to shine SO brightly Dominique. I am praying for God's comfort as you walk this difficult journey. You are not alone. You are such a fresh breath of air❤ Love you!
So happy to see you looking after yourself Dominique! You look beautiful going out for lunch. Keep strong with that beautiful smile 💕
The kindness of friends even those you may have lost touch with is so comforting. Take advantage of it. You are looking better and better. God keep you in his embrace.
Dominique
Thank you. For all of your positivity. Lost my husband in Nov then my precious doggie 4 days ago. She has been my glue and my Angel. I am so sad 😢 heartbroken but I know she is in my heart. Today I told myself the same thing no crying today. Thanks for the uplifting video, yes self care is important ❤️ 😊 ♥️ God bless you
Dominique I am so sorry for your loss. Your mom raised a fabulous woman in you though. You get the honor of carrying on her legacy. I wish you nothing but strength & healing during this time of sadness.
Dominique Thank you so much for your down to earth videos. You gave me a game changing moment a few years back when you did a tutorial on how to look good in pictures! My confidence came back and now I don't run when my friends iPhone cams come out and everyone is saying cheese. I embrace the moment and rock it!
Thank you, Dominique! So glad you are back. You have a tone in your voice of someone who has had their heart broken. Take care!
All the love and heart felt warmth headed your way. You deserve happiness and more importantly, peace. ❤ So glad you have a wonderful supportive network of people to help remind you you’re not alone and you are very, very loved.
And so with you as you heal and deal with the loss of your mom. One day at a time and self care and love is vital.
So happy to hear that you have a loving, supportive network to get you through tough times and to celebrate with you during wonderful times. The final look turned out super gorgeous. Nothing better than getting dolled up and losing yourself in a fun lunch with a good friend. xoxo
Dominique I have been watching your videos for many years now. I am 62 yrs old and never commented.i have the need to tell you that you are an amazing woman. The epitome of what ushumans should be like. You are truly a blessing to everyone. To those people that no longer have you in their lives, they let the lottery slip through their fingers. Dominique may God Almighty continue to bless you and yours forever. I know you make your family proud. Thank you for everything.
Thank you Domonique for the positivity you bring to this world! Especially at a hard time. Thanks for the tips and tricks, you look lovely!
I’m so glad you are surrounded with so much love and care! Such a beautiful, warm look for your special outing! Can’t believe your baby is college bound! Wish we could slow time down sometimes. So good to have a GRWM episode sweet, strong lady!🥰
Great for you, Dominique! So good to see you taking care of yourself after everything you’ve been through. Sending you lots and lots of love and prayers!
Dominique you are the epitome of true beauty! Elocuente on your expressions as beauty in your words, mind and physique.
Thanks for just being you & sharing your life with us 💕
You look beautiful Dominique! You’re mom is watching up from above, and I’m sure is proud that you still take care of yourself and know your loved. 🙏🏻🩷🙏🏻
You got all the support and specially the prayers every day, thank you for the reminder of self care and how important it is, that is one of my daily goals because honestly at the beginning of my health journey I did not even had the strength to do my skin care specially on my days after chemo but one day I did it and just a few things I did it made me feel better and good about myself and I felt pretty. You are a wonderful person inside and out.
Dominique, I started watching your videos three years ago, in the middle of the night, during the darkest hours of the dismantling of my marriage. I have watched you share similar events, come out stronger than ever, and thrive. I have also lost my parents and Mom was my very best friend. I, too, am taking my youngest to college this weekend. My faith has absolutely exploded and I am so grateful for your inspiration. Peace and love to you as you navigate this new chapter of your life.
This is just what I needed..I lost my best friend of 40yrs and my cousin within two weeks of each other...❤ You are such a pure inspiration and joy much love
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️for you dear friend & for our sweet precious wonderful Dominique!!♥️♥️♥️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
You are beautiful from the inside out as well as outside in. You are blessed, loved and appreciated.
❤ we all need some self care, time to pick oneself up during difficult times. Well done Dominique, I'm sure your Mother is looking down with her wonderful smile on her face x
We love you Dominique. You are a sincere beautiful person. I know it is hard, I can see it in your face but, Mom is smiling down on you and coaxing you forward. Thanks for today’s visit.
You're so good for all of us even in your need. Self care looks good on you Dominique ❤ enjoy time with your friend and a great meal
I love this woman. For me she is the perfect person and the perfect theacher for giving lessons how to make beautiful yourself . Thank you so much, Dominique. You are the best.
Dominique it was beautiful to watch you share such authentic pure gratitude so we can all see how it truly helps lift your day no matter what your circumstances
Thank you for sharing.❤
Sending you lots of hugs Dominique ❤ You have made your beautiful mother so proud. She’s your guardian angel. 🙏
Hi Dominique. Have a great rest of the week and enjoy your weekend. Thank you for everything you share to us. ❤️
I am so happy you are being good to yourself. It really is a time for self love. 🙏❤️
We love you Dominique! Your Mother must be so proud!❤
Soooo good to see you smiling just take each day at a time as you are doing! You look beautiful thank you for the tips you are always an inspiration May God wrap his arms around you today and always💞🙏
I love you so so much Dominique! I really need this self care & who better to get my advice from than you as I’ve been so depressed the past 5 1/2 mos since I lost my son. The love your mother had for you was the love I had for my son & still do of course. This love is for all eternity even after they are gone. Please forgive me for not using the correct wording for how I’m trying to explain how my heart is so broken & crushed.
Even different losses for you & I, I know you are so caring that you know my heart. You are my mentor ! I am your biggest fan even tho you don’t hear from me too often. I have left my house work go that my home is a disaster especially since I have 2 German shepherds that are inside dogs but go out in my fenced in yard during the day. I’ve lost all the desire of taking care of myself & my home. I don’t want to go anywhere nor do anything. And I know this is all wrong.
I was diagnosed w RA & Fibromyalgia 20 yrs ago. It’s not that noticeable except in my knuckles in my hands, but I have constant pain. Mostly mild-moderate most of the time. My son’s passing was completely unexpected. I really felt a lot of support from my small circle of friends & besides my daughter & mother, only one Aunt made me feel that she really cared. My only other Aunt which is closer to my age…10 plus yrs older that always told me everyday of my life that she loved me didn’t come to the funeral , but did walk across the road to the cemetery to tell everyone that she did not expect to see there how “she didn’t know” where the funeral was going to be!! She did not speak to her sister , my mother nor hug the 3 immediate family members , myself, my mother, & my daughter. This is 2023 & even in “1950” ppl picked up the phone & called the family or Funeral Home & asked!! I felt sorry for her, a college graduate, retiring from the State of NC & also retiring from The Northwestern Bank before that!! There’s more too this story but too much to bore you & your fans with. My point iS that being an “only” child & feeling like I was going through this devastating pain that I’m still going through, that my Aunt that has sat on the 3 row at church for 50 yrs & claims to be Christian , it all hurt that much more! My son was 11 1/2 yrs younger than my daughter & my parents helped me raise my daughter as I was only 19 & after a yr of marriage my then husband that was also Christian & claimed publicly that he had been called from God to preach, left me with a 9 month old baby & all the bills!! And to think that I saved my virginity for that kind of man?? I have suffered from chronic depression for yrs if I might add!
No, I’m not suicidal but “only” bc of my religion.
Do I feel like living? No.
I can honestly say that IF not for God & my religious beliefs… I would not be here. And for my Aunt to lie to my face why she didn’t come to the funeral but yet came to the cemetery told me she knew exactly where what & when the funeral took place. After all, she had 10 days to fine out. On top of all this, I still haven’t received a call nor a text. It took her 5 weeks to send me a generic sympathy card. Because she had one son at age 30 & I was 30 when I had my son, both of us having C-Sections, plus she only had 2 nieces & 8 nephews, we were extremely close all my life. Mother & her sister were always close. Nobody would have deliberately hurt someone when they were experiencing the loss of a child. So this was even more for my Aunt which I forgot to add that she is a “pillow” or is it a “pillar” of the community(?)
I’m sorry, I’m venting bc I am hurting so awful much & I need your motivation. When I was listening to your podcast & you were saying if your words could help someone, you would feel you were accomplishing what you set out to do. Those of course -not your exact words & I can’t quote word for word. Your words touch me & you may have saved my life, so thank you for doing what you do for all of us all over the world!
Sending you much love, big hugs, & prayers to God everyday before I pray for myself… all from North Carolina ❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hugs to you! My son just left for college this morning and it was the hardest day ever. I thought I was prepared but - I honestly don’t think any amount of preparation will make it easy. I appreciate your videos. Thank you for your content.
You bring peaceful happiness to my life ✨️
I admire you!
You are just amazing. You always have a way of making me feel better even when you are just trying to make it through the day. I cried every day for a year after my mom passed. Thought I would never smile again but slowly and surely the light came back. Watching your videos inspire me to always keep looking ahead. Bless you.
Loved this video! You are so calming and a joy to watch. Your hair color - this blonde right now - is the prettiest I’ve seen on you. It’s gorgeous. Kudos to your colorist! 😊❤
I love your hair color as well Dominque! And the cut & style look stunning! My favorite look on you! 💕
You have beautiful kind friends. What a great reminder to find ways to be that way towards others.
Lovely to see you Dominique. Sending you healing vibes ❤
Love this video Dominique. You’re beautiful inside and out. Taking it one day at a time and keeping busy is what helped me when I lost my mom. Watching your videos got me through horrible Covid days of isolation. I practiced your makeup and skin care techniques and boy what a difference it made to feel better and look better. I send you blessings and hugs and many thanks for all that you share. And for the people commenting about lashes..she didn’t asked for your opinion. Gosh!
You've inspired me to go do some self-care!
Thinking of you often ❤
Dominique, you are very loved by all of us, glad you are feeling a bit better. Thanks for the nice video.❤️
You are beautiful even without a stitch of makeup. Love the blonde hair! ❤️Lisa
Dominique, let me just say..this self care makeup look…is absolutely stunning on you..possibly my most favorite of all the makeup looks! Your mom is looking down and smiling like she always did with pure joy and love for her amazing daughter !! May God continue to bless you on your new chapter
I only heard your mom's speaker few times but she seemed like a really precious woman, I know it's hard when you lose a loved one. I'm sure you'll see her one day in heaven. ❤
I always feel like you are talking to me and me alone whenever you put up these videos. It feels so personal. Your sincerity shines through as always. And you looked fabulous!
The more you age the more you’re gorgeous Dominique ❤ you look stunning
What a pleasure to spend your morning with you! You have been so transparent in your healing process and an inspiration on how to handle heartbreak and ache! I am praying for you and for today( it's Friday when I saw this episode) as you move your son into his college setting. Huge blessings and hugs to you and thanks for sharing yourself with us!! (I'm originally from Houston and truly hope to meet you some day, on a visit back.)
Have a wonderful day🌹
You too ♥️
I lost my mom now 5 years ago it’s an overwhelming loss. You will always have her memory. You go have a great day sons onto college. A new chapter to enjoy❤️❤️
An excellent video, thank you. Pardon me for mentioning that I prefer you without the lashes, no offence & simply my humble opinion !
Self care is a must. Wishing you all good things! ❤
Love it❤
I’m so glad to see you taking care of you. Thank you for giving us this video despite your grief. I lost my mom right before my daughter’s first birthday. I had a large party planned and really didn’t feel like celebrating. My family convinced me that my mother would have wanted a big celebration for her first granddaughter’s first birthday and that I should go ahead. The morning of the party I looked at myself in the mirror and wondered how would I ever make myself pretty today? I didn’t feel good emotionally, It was around Easter which was my mom’s favorite holiday. I had a house full of flowers and colorful cupcakes…it felt wrong for someone in mourning. However, I also wore a white dress with lovely jewelry and I felt better. I did manage to enjoy the festivities. It was the first time I really smiled since my mom passed and somehow I felt her presence. Now that your son is going off to college you may feel a double loss although thankfully he is doing what kids are supposed to do! It’s a new beginning for you but perhaps not how you originally envisioned it. Thank God your mom was able to see him graduate from high school. All the best to you and I hope you continue to heal and even grow from this.