When the narcissist sees you regaining your confidence after the discard

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  • @kellyandaaron2005
    @kellyandaaron2005 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Don't trust a word that comes out of their mouths.

  • @PrayingWarfare
    @PrayingWarfare 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    Watch out for the spiritual attacks once they can't come to you physically. Pray.

    • @user-sq6wq9bq9g
      @user-sq6wq9bq9g 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Could you expand on this please...?

    • @PrayingWarfare
      @PrayingWarfare 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      Sometimes, some of the narcissists that's aware practice black magic. Examples of Love spells, enter in spiritual dreams, or in some instances tries to spiritally attack your body. They need energy, so they will do everything they can to lure you back in their life, this is just a another type of hoover. Pray with psalms. Psalm 91 is powerful. Jesus is the way.

    • @dawnhandelman308
      @dawnhandelman308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      How can a person get cleansed so to speak Thank you 🙏

    • @hasansarhan9296
      @hasansarhan9296 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@dawnhandelman308prayer meditation chanting singing whatever

    • @zoewynne8433
      @zoewynne8433 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@dawnhandelman308 The sword banishing ritual calls on angels for help. It's not black magick. Just want to put that out there in case anyone says it is related to something dark. HTH

  • @dropintheocean9952
    @dropintheocean9952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    A wicked game they play.

  • @emmamonroe3311
    @emmamonroe3311 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I will always feel better becuz my feelings are real and authentic there’s are not.👈🏻

  • @smartsurvival2605
    @smartsurvival2605 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    He's pinning videos we did together on tik tok for Valentine's Day. A subtle hoover? I didn't look, my friend told me. I'm not looking anymore. He said he didn't love me. He said I forced him into our relationship. He said he wanted to be single. He cheated on me with another girl. I said okay, I'm gone. I am not interested anymore. I am doing well.

    • @shannonluck5066
      @shannonluck5066 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Good for You! 🎉

    • @Wherethereisnodarkness
      @Wherethereisnodarkness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Maybe stop having your friend report his online activity to you?

    • @smartsurvival2605
      @smartsurvival2605 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Wherethereisnodarkness It doesn't bother me. I'm over it. It's kind of redeeming to see how pathetic he is.

    • @pinkchilldivestmentor
      @pinkchilldivestmentor 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations keep it up

  • @beelzebootthecanadiandevil9600
    @beelzebootthecanadiandevil9600 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "When it comes to avoiding pain, the only pain that can be avoided is, perhaps, the pain that comes from trying to avoid pain."
    -Unknown

  • @paulandshark1
    @paulandshark1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Missed your calming voice

  • @TimetoWonder222
    @TimetoWonder222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I see him as crap now. If that was his goal then he succeeded. I cut off all of the flying monkeys too. He had no idea I was raised by a narcissist. I was armored by pain long before he came along. I don't want anything to do with him. He's blocked everywhere. I'll never forgive him for how he treated me. He's dead to me now just like my narcissist mother who tortured my childhood. Escaping from the awful people of my childhood is how I become strong and confident. I only fell for it until I realized what was happening.

    • @dawnhandelman308
      @dawnhandelman308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🕊❤️🙏

    • @NurseKathi
      @NurseKathi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same, but it took me 23 years. My capacity for pain was so deep. On true healing path now. I'm 70 but it's not too late

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bin all gifts, all energy out of your space. Clears the energy and healing begins. Then block and delete all contact routes. Peace and acceptance release the tie emotionally. Disgust arrives. He is pitiful. Silence my response.

  • @JacquelineOuma
    @JacquelineOuma 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this video it came at a time that i really needed to hear this...this people are very bad they break you to the point where by they think you cant stand back on your feet but who is God ....a magnificient father

  • @MrBeard-ig5zc
    @MrBeard-ig5zc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Make sure you let them know that you know WHAT they are. They won’t come back.

  • @UVstarbaby
    @UVstarbaby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    6:00 That was true for me. I decided to not play anymore and stopped responding to the N. I haven't been the same since, really. Something died in that connection. Love, yes, that had to be shut down on my end, but also something optimistic in myself died. Something hopeful. That something that believed in love. It's sad, and sometimes I think that was the last of love connections for me in this life. I guess that's the saddest thing about it. I prefer being alone, still. Thank you for all your videos, Joe. 💗🕊️🌹🌿✨

    • @heatherwagar5868
      @heatherwagar5868 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I feel exactly the same way

    • @NurseKathi
      @NurseKathi 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Be alone as long as you need to. Remember there are other types of love, not just romantic. I don't want that either, but am returning to interactions with others who Love and Connect on other levels. You are loved by me ❤

    • @UVstarbaby
      @UVstarbaby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@NurseKathi Thank you, that's very kind of you. Sending love to you, too, Kathi. It's true, there are so many people, animals, plants, and other creations in the world to love...and God. 💗🌹🌿✨

    • @robertblum4342
      @robertblum4342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      There is love after the distancing and fading memories of her, ‘my’ Covert narcissist, into the past, after many , many, torturous, grueling, most agonizing psychically and physically excruciating months of my life… at least for me, yet I am still now ensnared in the trauma bond asking questions that have no answers and perhaps don’t need any… I don’t know from the one-sided love in a one-sided relationship with a narcissist. I almost killed myself with sleeping pills in a car crash at 3:30 in the morning… and now I understand that she would just have thought oh well, going out and bought some ice cream and had a good day and never give me a second thought… I have 1 foot out of the quicksand, and I’m almost there… 90% back to normal but still trauma bonded but yet I know now I am loved and I’m loving myself two more and more every day getting stronger every day! You will too !

    • @UVstarbaby
      @UVstarbaby 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@robertblum4342 Wow, Robert, that definitely sounds like an N. Sorry you had to experience all of that. It's no fun, but life definitely goes on and I'm glad you're feeling better and more love for yourself. That's what healing is all about. Thank you for sharing and caring. 🕊️💕🌸🌿✨

  • @deb2319
    @deb2319 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    No more hoovering. Bye Bye Boy! lol

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's so exiting to find a new video of our favorite podcaster Joe B House !!! Thank you for treating us with one today . We missed you and always waiting. Thank you ! 🤗❤

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I walked away from him let’s get that straight it’s toxic violent drama

  • @joannfreedman8807
    @joannfreedman8807 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Your videos are always exactly what I'm going through! Conformation! ❤ Thank you so much.

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you Jo! :)

  • @SagittariusBabe87
    @SagittariusBabe87 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Joe, this video really resonates with me. I keep watching videos like this to help me & focus on the path. It's taken me 10mos. healing from the first discard. Working on 12-month/yr mark. Gotta remember that they may come back to sabotage my life so they can get supply from my misery and, for a long time. I won't let it happen! Time to stay vigilint & don't let these people back in, ever!!! First time was bad enough and I learned the lesson of the Narcissist. Educated & applying the wisdom to my own experience & life. Life is beautiful without them and I been free & healing. I'm thankful🙏😌💯

    • @WithAnEss
      @WithAnEss 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hope you're doing well❤

    • @SagittariusBabe87
      @SagittariusBabe87 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@WithAnEss Thank you very much😌❤️
      I am doing well. I appreciate your concern.💯

  • @erichoben4125
    @erichoben4125 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Joe.
    A special thanks to CK for opening my eyes 13/04/2024

  • @GRIZZYHENDRIX
    @GRIZZYHENDRIX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    JOE B BACK WITH ANOTHER ONE 🙏🏾

    • @joebhouse
      @joebhouse  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Cheers buddy 🙏

    • @dawnhandelman308
      @dawnhandelman308 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂❤

    • @GRIZZYHENDRIX
      @GRIZZYHENDRIX 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dawnhandelman308 joe b sound like a cool dude has a cruel intentions type vibe I just found him

  • @ralphhowton3286
    @ralphhowton3286 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Welcome back 🎉

  • @paulandshark1
    @paulandshark1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Joe❤

  • @RobWash-cs5qt
    @RobWash-cs5qt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My narky came back after 7 years when the relationship they were in started having trouble. I fell for the hoovering thinking that they had changed when in reality they were really using me to get the other person they were with jealous. Now that they were taken back I again have been discarded. It's true what is being said here that they do keep an eye on you even while giving me the silent treatment. I notice when I post something that I'm doing or travelling they check it out but never comment. I understand now what narcissism is and I'm a lot stronger and know how to spot the signs. My question is is it okay to continue to post my happy and full life now and let them keep seeing what I'm doing. Having fun traveling especially places where they always wanted to go.. is that wrong? Is it playing games ? Honestly it does feel nice knowing that they know I'm not crying my eyes out anymore and enjoying a full and happy life. I welcome any comments. Thank you

    • @dropintheocean9952
      @dropintheocean9952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's awful that they make us feel not ourselves. We question the profile we prefer, our visibility, what we say, how we act...
      If they are masters in secrecy, silent treatment, we almost eventually reflect that...like with practicing no contact. We play their game for our own protection, at the end. The more their energy gets the best of us, the more you become like them - a converting energy - Spontaneity killers - Their Projection. The cruel stain they leave on us. Our spontaneity is our innocence. Our innocence is our Joy. Don't allow anyone to take it. Use your discernment. Follow calm intuition and remain humble. 💜
      Be strong. 💜 Correct yourself. 💜 Enjoy yourself. 💜

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Block its been 7 years

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I would avoid all social media that they access to. Anything they see about you gives them supply and it will be used against you at some point. Narcissists love info on their ex-s and will use flying monkeys to spy on you. Also, avoid checking up on them on social media. You are keeping the door open to them following or watching them, it is not healthy for you. To fully heal, have nothing to do with them. A lot of narcissists have a 6th sense, they appear to know when you are doing good or poorly. It is a reflection of the dark energy they have and use.

    • @Thatsmybusinessnoturs
      @Thatsmybusinessnoturs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If it feels right to you and you can honestly say, I am doing x, you, or z for me and would do so regardless of them (I don't mean to sound morbid or anything like that), imagine they were dead....would you still want to, feel like doing it? I used to feel the same way. Very concerned about what I posted, or said, or did because I simply didn't want to give them any more fuel or ammunition to be used against me. But I don't feel like that anymore. I do what I want, say what I want, post what I want, etc., because I would regardless of them. Before meeting my ex, I used to post just as much as I do now. And I post because I enjoy it. I enjoy discussing things with friends about their posts and vice versa....and I am so over worrying about if they like it or not, or if wish to think I am doing so for their benefit, etc. If they wish to believe that everything you do, say, post is about them....honestly, just goes to show just how vain they are and how they think everything is about them. You do you! 😊

  • @robinandrews3515
    @robinandrews3515 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If they don’t see you how do they know you aren’t well

    • @StellarHeron
      @StellarHeron 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They have spies. Actually.

  • @aramiscolon4507
    @aramiscolon4507 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Talk why they tell their wives about you other woman

  • @buildfireforchrist
    @buildfireforchrist 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    3 x

  • @LV4REAL
    @LV4REAL 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you, Joe!! 😊❤