My respect for Swasti 📈⬆. Talking openly about these personal topics is really hard on the internet when you live in a country like India, but you still did it. Got mad respect for you, bro.
I can understand girl. My current bf is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction and although now he is very chill with his problem. But a few months back he was a super sad dude cause his ex was spreading rumours about him and exaggerating his condition. I'm so glad you are spreading awareness. These conditions should be normalised so that people can focus on solutions rather than the problem. ❤
@@ashleylobo7090 I know apni tarif mana krni chahiye taki ghamand na aa jaye. But this time you deserve to be praised and you have to accept it. Tum uski ex ki tarah chhod sakti thi, but still you are with him even after knowing the truth.
@@adityachauhan8141 well you need to take care of your sexual health too...people made it a taboo....that's why so many kids (irrespective of gender) face 'bad touch' without knowing what's happening to them
i fucking jumped when i saw the title, i was convinced i was suffering in solitude, this disease singlehandedly robbed me of my self confidence. i was heartbroken thinking i ruined mine as well as my boyfriend's first time but he stayed right beside me. doing what he does best making me feel secure and at peace. i love you rudraksh! kudos to you disha for having the courage to talk about such a private topic :)
My first time hooking up with someone failed because she had this issue. But I took the blame on myself. My finger was barely getting in. But I really was assuming the worst. Gladly, I don't have ED. But I think she shouldn't have blamed it on me.
@@kritikshah hey, don't be worried buddy, people tend to project their insecurities. this disease makes any type of insertion impossible. this has nothing to do with you. you are not in the wrong here. i know she might be frustrated, but that doesn't give her a free pass treat you like crap/blame it on you. be supportive, but do take a stand for yourself when required. keep safe :D
My girlfriend also struggled with vaginismus in the past. She confided in me that she was se*ually abused during her childhood, which is why she isn't mentally and physically ready for s*x. As someone who always craved sex and was somewhat addicted to it in past relationships, it was quite difficult for me to resist at first. Sometimes I thought about just going on a chill date and F*ck someone else. But my inner conscience wouldn't let me do that. Fast forward to today, my girlfriend and I are living together with all the love and intimacy. She trained her mind and body to accept me, and I changed myself from a sex addict to a supportive partner. Her vaginismus really helped our relationship become more trustworthy and soulful. I'm quite impressed with my inner changes as well because I didn't do anything wrong despite thinking about it. We are happy together now.
Hey never thought I’ll be talking about this but here goes nothing….When I was really young I was subjected to the idea of sexuality too early as it was the primary way of people “cursing” at me (being called gay and trans as a gali when I was 6-😀🥲) and then I was even molested which made me sexually frustrated . When ever I tried to explore myself I realised that I could never open my self to it..This video made me realise what the problem was…but I’d also like to share what I did to help myself out……the MOST IMPORTANT PART IS TO HAVE A SUPPORTIVE PARTNER ..I’m still virgin but he helped me relax and not tense up and now I can feel that my body opens up better…so yea if your feeling something similar try being kinder to your body for the psychological part of this condition coz the trauma of your past can effect everything about you…but if it get worse pls go for a checkup…..and once again thanks swasti for bringing awareness to such a topic…lots of love to you girlies!
Dude, Props to you to have the heart to talk about this topic! People need to know that medical conditions such as this exists and they need to not be scared and consult a doctor for proper treatment! Also, The fairy dust punchline was op! 😂
Hopefully you'll get fine soon swasti, as a boy even we should know about this! Thank you for having guts and making video on this topic! Hopefully you'll get well soon! Big fan❤
2:10 the amount of trauma you had been through is immeasurable yet you decide to take a stand for men in one of your old videos, more power to you sis 🛐💪🏽and this video is enlightening for everyone irrespective of their genders
It takes a lot of courage to talk about your body and your condition and especially if it comes as an eye opener for so many others out there. Lots of love and support to you and keep making videos that you love. I hope one day every guy understands this and no girl has to feel suppressed or ashamed of their body. Love and let love. Take care💕💕
Thanks for spreading awareness on this. I am kinda of surprised there is no cure for it. It is kinda of blessing in disguise as you can enjoy a childfree livestyle. Good luck!
I have tears rolling down my eyes. I never thought someone would actually talk about this EVER. I havent watched the video yet, but I’m already feeling so overwhelmed just by reading the title.
Vaginismus is a condition that isn't talked about enough, so it's refreshing to see someone openly discussing their experience. It's important to raise awareness about how it affects both physical and emotional health.
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic! Just 2 days back, I was googling the same stuff about me, but I am an asexual, and I assumed it's just one of the perks of asexuality. But hats off for making this content! Shows how underresearched female bodies are!
@@lavanya348 Consequences when girl have multiple partners before:- You should consider the risk associated with it:- 1. Due to multiple partner she may have some STD(HIV) or skin infections. 2. She might have some recorded video or photos which might trouble you/your reputation in future. 3. Using pills for birth control will definitely create hormone imbalance in her body which trouble you to have babies. 4. She is marrying you just because of her family pressure OR you have a handsome salary but may be she is still having emotional attachment with her ex and after marriage it will be converted to adultery. 5. Girls who had physical relationships they are very irritated, hyper and noisy in nature. You have to put more effort to do simple things. 6. As this is not the first time, she will not have any interest on you, as she will have expectations of at least 30 mins where u wont even last 30 seconds when ur a virgin, so her expectations will be high. ***And the most important point is - before marriage her PARENTS(planned, visited, managed time, removed evidences of her previous relationships) to do all this, after marriage what is the guarantee that she will not cheat you and do the same again. So now decide... Whether boys should marry a virgin girl who never been in a relationship before OR a non-virgin girl who have one or three or five(God knows how many relationships she has been in with in the past)
This almost sounds like my story. I'm 28 from Bangladesh. Have been following you for a long time. Refreshing to see someone openly talking about it with such humor. Thank you. ☺️
@@AlifHasan-bx1ewnope, it has been around in India for a very long time. In Christianity it's a sin to have intimacy with anyone before marriage. Maybe you condescending Indians need to change your views and stop being racist
Hey Swasti! I just wanted to say that you're really brave for addressing your situation especially as an Indian (yk, the local judgemental people xD). And I'm so sorry that happened to you in past. You're such a brave person.
I mean, it just feels weird and great at the same time because not everybody shares their personal stories and problem like this and you are doing it and I really appreciate you that you're talking about your problems openly and it would definitely help other people and it definitely made me aware, and if anything happens to someone and you just made me aware so thank you for that, and really proud of you and keep working on yourself
So glad that this topic is being spoken about. Gynaecologists in our area also destroy the concerns for women regarding these issues. Ik so many women who prefer to go through that unbearable pain in order to not GO TO the doctors because the judgement, disregard and mistreatment are real.
We love a queen who is educating people and spreading awareness abt things people shy away from talking due to societal constraints which are full of BS , you go girl you are an inspiration to lot of us youth
@@Agnivesh_007 So? it's people's bodies, their choices. If you want to stay virgin, then definitely go ahead. But how can you be angry at a random stranger for not being a virgin? 🤣
@@Agnivesh_007 She's not saying have sex at 21. She's talkin' about her medical issue. That's inspiring. People like you miss the point. Pehle judge karlo bsdk
@@MrSaxobeat020 I never cursed her...I just said my opinion....Idk how people can do anything with their bodies but the same "people" has the right to give zero opinion...I literally said facts....counter it with facts rather than excuses...I would still say it is not how someone inspire youth
This video was really informative these types of videos actually requires guts to be uploaded it on social media but love you swasti you always make these kinds of videos which really helps people that's why I am following you since a long time I have really learnt many things from your experiences and thank you for coming back after 1.6 years now please don't switch to short form content as long form is definitely your thing yes I know it takes time as you also do a job but please if you can then do upload long form content more often than your shorts videos as these types of videos really helps to get informed and learn about something important and new and yes you are good in elden ring just continue it 😁💖.
👍 relationship boyfriend sex ye sab bekar hai direct husband banao ya phir puri jindagi single bita lo, single log bhi ache parents sabit hote hai. 👍 At last it's appreciated , you told your story without thinking about society. 😊
Damn, man. I never really understood why sex is so overhyped. Now look while i do think one should either stay pure or wait till marriage. It is stills one's personal choice and one shouldn't be shamed if they haven't had sex. Remember guys sex and intimacy is not just a pleasure tool its a personal responsibility of your own body, also your own hygiene. Stay safe
@@Straykids.2018. i really just want to tell people that while sex and all is overblown and really made to be like some symbol of adulthood or something, it is also one's own responsibility of there own bodies. While i don't wanna shame for anyone who hasn't had sex i am also praising those who are either responsible with it or wait till a good time, like marriage. Overall just want people to stay healthy and take accountability of there own actions instead of simply doing it cuz of society.
so true bruhh sex is soo overhyped , having a good emotional bond is hard to find but definitely a keepsake. I too feel like waiting till marriage suits me more , but i never really felt that having sex before marriage is wrong as long as ur responsible
Meri first night me bhi nahi hua tha. But I am lucky ki maine aapna character nahi bigada by doing or even trying with anyone other than my husband. Garv se Sanatani Sanskari aur Mannered hu.
Totally appreciate your context, Girls do go through many problems. But can't or rather won't (because of the societal pressure) let anyone know their stuffs . I am glad to see some who have this amount of confidence.❤❤
Dude you have so much guts really? And ya its a serious problem and we usually don't talk about it because our parents don't understand it and friends make fun of it. Realy shamefull.... But we have to make people aware about it 💪
I think the gynecologist dealt with your problem quite poorly. I hope she atleast sat you down and had gave you an idea of what was going on with you. Even after going to an expert you had to depend on google to understand the issue. That says so much! No wonder this is not talked about. But its so refreshing to see someone being so open about their experiences. I'm sure people will find this helpful :)
Now this was something I didn't knew before watching the video. Welcome back again after so long and thanks for sharing your story with us and spreading awareness about this condition 😇
Sis this takes a lot of confidence to be speaking about these topics in India, where talking about sex and sexual health is considered taboo. Hats off to you 😀😀
2:10 So sad to that know you were a victim of sexual abuse💔 and i hope that you will soon recover from this condition. I rarely comment on a youtube channel so i wish you all the very best!!! and of course keep growing and keep making unique content like this🤙🤙
As an indian girl talking about vaginal health/problem in front of people seems like social crime ,really appreciate your afford to speak confidently about it
Actually i love the fact that how comfortable you are to share it with us like some poeple when they try to explain normal knowledge full things like that they hasitate a lot which i personaly get uncomfortable with but tbh i loved the vidoe 💖
really appreciate your confidence , and spreading the awareness , I have a gf and she takes a lot of stress because many valid reasons . People don't talk about mental health and stuff like this , we get so confused because of it but in real life it's really very normal
Good to learn about stuff :)I feel so happy to have girls around me openly talk about what they are experiencing and feeling and i get to know them more. Thats nice , thats courageous and should be the norm .
Salute yaar how you openly talked about this topic not going to vulgar yet in a very normal entertaining way and the way you writed real comeback and salute once again for such a brave topic and confidence improvement dikh rhi h
Me and my bf we were trying to have sex since 2019 but just like you, I had extreme pain and my pelvic muscles used to get tighten. So after searching in Google and going through my real source and gynecologist videos I got know it's Vaginismus but mine was quite psychological since my vagina didn't show any physical symptoms like irritation, burning sensation and all. But then I did pelvic floor exercises for Vaginismus and meditations. And Holllaaa, this year we finally did it!!! We are dating since 9 years now and he has been my constant support throughout this journey. He was more patient than me❤🧿...Hope you get such a partner too❤
fuckig love the confidence this is the kind of influencers India needs not the ones who idealise western culture but the ones who show some things are normal and not trying to dismiss our culture entireky
yay ur back!! I think this is super normal especially if your not fully relaxed and aroused, i understand your situation is different tho, I'm so sorry about what happened to you, you deserve so much better💓
Old swasti is same as new swasti. Just cuz she choose to talk about things that you think is vulgar doesn't make her a completely different person. A lot of girls probably suffer from this issue it's better to raise awareness.
Hey hi maine tumhe Instagram par message Kiya tha bhaut kuch likh na chah ta tha par message limt aa gayi so tumne mujhe itna zyada entertain kiya iss liye thank you so much 😊 thank you so much mujhe 4 years ke itne tough time ke baad hasa ke ek nayi umid Dene ke liye you are so great yaar!!!!! You and your videos are best in the world. You know what tum diamond play button 💎▶️ deserve karti ho .
Explaining such things to the society is a brave task and you did it very casually and without any awkwardness... Such things should be made normal to everyone after all its a DISEASE
How are you guys doing btw?
fine and you?
Not so well doing Ca 😅
@@cyclopropyl1pretty good 😊
@@yadjthe5872all the best 👍🏽
World Cup jitgaya accha hu😂
The fact that she also talked about childhood sexual abuse and its damaging consequences really earned my respect. Stay happy and healthy, dear
Hi
your confidence is out of this world to be talking openly about these personal topic you have the repect
Cartoon video is given her a big level of confidence 😂
@@vandeindiaofficial still jo log ushko real mae jante hongay, vo bi to dekhe hongay video.
Views, Clout
@@JethiyaChampakGada essa immature reply Dene se kya fayda re😑
@@dead-channel6842 likes ka fayada
My respect for Swasti 📈⬆. Talking openly about these personal topics is really hard on the internet when you live in a country like India, but you still did it. Got mad respect for you, bro.
I can understand girl. My current bf is suffering from Erectile Dysfunction and although now he is very chill with his problem. But a few months back he was a super sad dude cause his ex was spreading rumours about him and exaggerating his condition. I'm so glad you are spreading awareness. These conditions should be normalised so that people can focus on solutions rather than the problem. ❤
You need to be praised for still being his partner ❤. I wish he gets well soon
@@Gjjbbi Nah dude! You think I'm praiseworthy but irl I'm with him cause he is the most amazing human one could ever have. ❤️
@@ashleylobo7090 I know apni tarif mana krni chahiye taki ghamand na aa jaye. But this time you deserve to be praised and you have to accept it. Tum uski ex ki tarah chhod sakti thi, but still you are with him even after knowing the truth.
@@Gjjbbi Thank you for being kind.❤
my best wishes to you and him
Gurl raised the most Serious Problems in society in Such Funny and effective way. Women fr😭💜✨
Ig women sleep with multiple men before marriage
most serious?????....
Ya 16-17 saal mai
Ladkiya nibbi ban chuki hai @@adityachauhan8141
Yeah let people die of hunger, homelessness , war but we’re gonna talk about vagina because it’s the “most serious” problem in society right now smh
@@adityachauhan8141 well you need to take care of your sexual health too...people made it a taboo....that's why so many kids (irrespective of gender) face 'bad touch' without knowing what's happening to them
you have earned my respect for bringing up issues like this and spreading awareness in such a fun and casual way , hats off ❤❤❤❤
i fucking jumped when i saw the title, i was convinced i was suffering in solitude, this disease singlehandedly robbed me of my self confidence. i was heartbroken thinking i ruined mine as well as my boyfriend's first time but he stayed right beside me. doing what he does best making me feel secure and at peace. i love you rudraksh!
kudos to you disha for having the courage to talk about such a private topic :)
Happy for you didi ❤
Bot haina😂
My first time hooking up with someone failed because she had this issue. But I took the blame on myself. My finger was barely getting in. But I really was assuming the worst. Gladly, I don't have ED. But I think she shouldn't have blamed it on me.
@@kritikshah hey, don't be worried buddy, people tend to project their insecurities.
this disease makes any type of insertion impossible. this has nothing to do with you. you are not in the wrong here.
i know she might be frustrated, but that doesn't give her a free pass treat you like crap/blame it on you. be supportive, but do take a stand for yourself when required. keep safe :D
@@imamistakebro I agree.. and I am having no issues regarding the same now. But it is hard to not blame yourself if you are inexperienced😅
My girlfriend also struggled with vaginismus in the past. She confided in me that she was se*ually abused during her childhood, which is why she isn't mentally and physically ready for s*x. As someone who always craved sex and was somewhat addicted to it in past relationships, it was quite difficult for me to resist at first.
Sometimes I thought about just going on a chill date and F*ck someone else. But my inner conscience wouldn't let me do that.
Fast forward to today, my girlfriend and I are living together with all the love and intimacy. She trained her mind and body to accept me, and I changed myself from a sex addict to a supportive partner. Her vaginismus really helped our relationship become more trustworthy and soulful. I'm quite impressed with my inner changes as well because I didn't do anything wrong despite thinking about it.
We are happy together now.
real man you have my respect
thats so sweet brother , wish you happy memories ahead
You're giving me red flag vibes no matter how sweet and cute you tried to look
"Once a fboy, always a fboy.….
@@loveyourself-n6y same
ye toh kuch jyada hi wholesome ho gaya, bohot bohot badhai ho
This was very bold of you to share the most personal experiences. I could never.
Hey never thought I’ll be talking about this but here goes nothing….When I was really young I was subjected to the idea of sexuality too early as it was the primary way of people “cursing” at me (being called gay and trans as a gali when I was 6-😀🥲) and then I was even molested which made me sexually frustrated . When ever I tried to explore myself I realised that I could never open my self to it..This video made me realise what the problem was…but I’d also like to share what I did to help myself out……the MOST IMPORTANT PART IS TO HAVE A SUPPORTIVE PARTNER ..I’m still virgin but he helped me relax and not tense up and now I can feel that my body opens up better…so yea if your feeling something similar try being kinder to your body for the psychological part of this condition coz the trauma of your past can effect everything about you…but if it get worse pls go for a checkup…..and once again thanks swasti for bringing awareness to such a topic…lots of love to you girlies!
I hope you are healthy now......
And I don't understand why people still use gay or trans as an insult.
Good job recovering from all that
Good job recovering from trauma and respect for ur partner. It really feels good seeing that there are still many good people in world
Dude, Props to you to have the heart to talk about this topic! People need to know that medical conditions such as this exists and they need to not be scared and consult a doctor for proper treatment!
Also, The fairy dust punchline was op! 😂
Hopefully you'll get fine soon swasti, as a boy even we should know about this! Thank you for having guts and making video on this topic! Hopefully you'll get well soon!
Big fan❤
So nice of you
@@Swasti1I learnt about this for the first time. Thanks for sharing this. I hope you will be fine super soon. ❤
@@Swasti1 justice for ayush he deserves a heart
@@Mahiii778 it's okay haha
@@Ayush_Tiwari._. here your heart ❤ 😄🤣
2:10 the amount of trauma you had been through is immeasurable yet you decide to take a stand for men in one of your old videos, more power to you sis 🛐💪🏽and this video is enlightening for everyone irrespective of their genders
Jay Jay Shree Ram
Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else
@@urankumarsingh2027give me a single reason why?
@@urankumarsingh2027is gaandhi jagah peh apni bagwaan ka Naam lekar use chota mat karo.
It takes a lot of courage to talk about your body and your condition and especially if it comes as an eye opener for so many others out there. Lots of love and support to you and keep making videos that you love. I hope one day every guy understands this and no girl has to feel suppressed or ashamed of their body. Love and let love. Take care💕💕
Thanks for spreading awareness on this. I am kinda of surprised there is no cure for it. It is kinda of blessing in disguise as you can enjoy a childfree livestyle. Good luck!
It is curable. It just takes a lot of patience.
abe bina sex kiye kaise rahungi mein?
@@Swasti1 Good luck. Hope you don't lose patience.
But some people do want kids.
You do know that some people want kids right?
Bro my parents were right next me during the intro 💀
hell nahh💀💀
What did they did💀
Title me likha he - my first time 🙄
@@naturelover888my parents walked in on me right as the intro started 💀🙏
@@varuni3017my mom gave me a weird look and my dad looked like he raised a failure 💀💀💀
I have tears rolling down my eyes. I never thought someone would actually talk about this EVER. I havent watched the video yet, but I’m already feeling so overwhelmed just by reading the title.
Vaginismus is a condition that isn't talked about enough, so it's refreshing to see someone openly discussing their experience. It's important to raise awareness about how it affects both physical and emotional health.
Jay Jay Shree Ram
Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else
Jay Jay Shree Ram
Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
@@urankumarsingh2027 It's the 21st century, not the 18th. Consensual sex between adults, whether they're married or not, is their personal business. Trying to control that is outdated and absurd. Stop trying to impose archaic views on modern society.
Fantastic, fantastic, fantastic! Just 2 days back, I was googling the same stuff about me, but I am an asexual, and I assumed it's just one of the perks of asexuality. But hats off for making this content! Shows how underresearched female bodies are!
its good that a girl can talk about her sex problems to spread awareness but i kinda am oppose to sex before marriage, it has serious consequences.
Yeah
Yes
consequences like? except unexpected pregnancy
@@lavanya348 Consequences when girl have multiple partners before:-
You should consider the risk associated with it:-
1. Due to multiple partner she may have some STD(HIV) or skin infections.
2. She might have some recorded video or photos which might trouble you/your reputation in future.
3. Using pills for birth control will definitely create hormone imbalance in her body which trouble you to have babies.
4. She is marrying you just because of her family pressure OR you have a handsome salary but may be she is still having emotional attachment with her ex and after marriage it will be converted to adultery.
5. Girls who had physical relationships they are very irritated, hyper and noisy in nature. You have to put more effort to do simple things.
6. As this is not the first time, she will not have any interest on you, as she will have expectations of at least 30 mins where u wont even last 30 seconds when ur a virgin, so her expectations will be high.
***And the most important point is - before marriage her PARENTS(planned, visited, managed time, removed evidences of her previous relationships) to do all this, after marriage what is the guarantee that she will not cheat you and do the same again.
So now decide...
Whether boys should marry a virgin girl who never been in a relationship before OR a non-virgin girl who have one or three or five(God knows how many relationships she has been in with in the past)
@@lavanya348 don't ask us go Google it
This almost sounds like my story. I'm 28 from Bangladesh. Have been following you for a long time. Refreshing to see someone openly talking about it with such humor. Thank you. ☺️
Bhai sux before marriage ko yeh log itna normalise kyu kar chuke hai 😢
Because what two consenting adults do behind closed doors is not anyone's business
Kyuki ye hamesha se normal tha
Western culture
@_Chocolate_13so ur gonna marry a girl who slept with 10 other men😅
@@AlifHasan-bx1ewnope, it has been around in India for a very long time. In Christianity it's a sin to have intimacy with anyone before marriage. Maybe you condescending Indians need to change your views and stop being racist
Hey Swasti! I just wanted to say that you're really brave for addressing your situation especially as an Indian (yk, the local judgemental people xD). And I'm so sorry that happened to you in past. You're such a brave person.
It's time for some judgement baby 😤
Pfp dazai??!!
I mean, it just feels weird and great at the same time because not everybody shares their personal stories and problem like this and you are doing it and I really appreciate you that you're talking about your problems openly and it would definitely help other people and it definitely made me aware, and if anything happens to someone and you just made me aware so thank you for that, and really proud of you and keep working on yourself
you are literally so brave! Keep going. Issues like these are rarely addressed. Kudos!
So glad that this topic is being spoken about. Gynaecologists in our area also destroy the concerns for women regarding these issues. Ik so many women who prefer to go through that unbearable pain in order to not GO TO the doctors because the judgement, disregard and mistreatment are real.
We love a queen who is educating people and spreading awareness abt things people shy away from talking due to societal constraints which are full of BS , you go girl you are an inspiration to lot of us youth
Inspiration??she was trying doing it while she was 21... I'm following her for 1-2 years yet I would say this is not how someone inspire youth
@@Agnivesh_007 So? it's people's bodies, their choices. If you want to stay virgin, then definitely go ahead. But how can you be angry at a random stranger for not being a virgin? 🤣
@@Agnivesh_007
She's not saying have sex at 21. She's talkin' about her medical issue. That's inspiring.
People like you miss the point.
Pehle judge karlo bsdk
@@MrSaxobeat020 I never cursed her...I just said my opinion....Idk how people can do anything with their bodies but the same "people" has the right to give zero opinion...I literally said facts....counter it with facts rather than excuses...I would still say it is not how someone inspire youth
@@Surya_Kiran_K femboy spotted
This video was really informative these types of videos actually requires guts to be uploaded it on social media but love you swasti you always make these kinds of videos which really helps people that's why I am following you since a long time I have really learnt many things from your experiences and thank you for coming back after 1.6 years now please don't switch to short form content as long form is definitely your thing yes I know it takes time as you also do a job but please if you can then do upload long form content more often than your shorts videos as these types of videos really helps to get informed and learn about something important and new
and yes you are good in elden ring just continue it 😁💖.
Jay Jay Shree Ram
Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else
Props to you for talking on this topic🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
👍 relationship boyfriend sex ye sab bekar hai direct husband banao ya phir puri jindagi single bita lo, single log bhi ache parents sabit hote hai. 👍
At last it's appreciated , you told your story without thinking about society. 😊
My greatest cumback
Nice
I wish I had a comeback for that joke , but take care of yourself
Fr
Glad to know you are alive
Wow
That was pretty informative. Never knew such a condition exists. Thank you Swasti. And you're back! Glad you're back.
THE BGMMMMMMM!!!!!!!!! That jotaro theme bought so much nostalgia
Welcome back Swatiii
Thank you for educating people about this
Jay Jay Shree Ram
Government must make rule that without marrying someone , no one can have sex using condom even they are BF or GF or anybody else
Damn, man. I never really understood why sex is so overhyped.
Now look while i do think one should either stay pure or wait till marriage. It is stills one's personal choice and one shouldn't be shamed if they haven't had sex.
Remember guys sex and intimacy is not just a pleasure tool its a personal responsibility of your own body, also your own hygiene.
Stay safe
Finally some one said it
Wouw these sweet humans really exits😭🩷
@@Straykids.2018. i really just want to tell people that while sex and all is overblown and really made to be like some symbol of adulthood or something, it is also one's own responsibility of there own bodies.
While i don't wanna shame for anyone who hasn't had sex i am also praising those who are either responsible with it or wait till a good time, like marriage.
Overall just want people to stay healthy and take accountability of there own actions instead of simply doing it cuz of society.
@@rishabhsingh357Par broo log to yahi bolenge ki koi nahi mila isliye ye gyaan de rha hai
Hardly anyone is virgin till marriage in this generation
so true bruhh sex is soo overhyped , having a good emotional bond is hard to find but definitely a keepsake. I too feel like waiting till marriage suits me more , but i never really felt that having sex before marriage is wrong as long as ur responsible
Kudus to you for openly discussing this matter and spreading awareness 👏🏻.
Phir wahi sax sux ki baate 😂, But yarr really proud of you ki tum is topic ko itna khul ke bata rahi ho and awareness spread karrahi ho ❤
Meri first night me bhi nahi hua tha. But I am lucky ki maine aapna character nahi bigada by doing or even trying with anyone other than my husband. Garv se Sanatani Sanskari aur Mannered hu.
Women with high values are always Respected❤
Real queen
aree swasti zinda hai
Thank you for sharing this informative video♥. And And "jaldi wahan se hato" was legit epic🤣🤣🤣
Totally appreciate your context,
Girls do go through many problems.
But can't or rather won't (because of the societal pressure) let anyone know their stuffs .
I am glad to see some who have this amount of confidence.❤❤
4:50 , was unexpected 😅
Dude you have so much guts really? And ya its a serious problem and we usually don't talk about it because our parents don't understand it and friends make fun of it. Realy shamefull.... But we have to make people aware about it 💪
Tujhe bhi ye problem h kya?
@@AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj AEEEE VEDEYA
Animation was awesome and you are funny as hell... Thanks for educating more people about this and keep up the good work :)
I jumped after i got your notif finally you are back and and thank you for speaking on vaginismus and making people aware . Love you a lot Swasti
Thank you so much 😊
One life one women da!!!
-Aj bhairav (the Alpha king)
So it's not wrong to expect from partner too😢
@@Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo I dont think with that haircut even one woman is coming near him
@@samfisher9562 you clearly don't know Indian woman
Chapris with this cute slay puss all day I've seen it myself
@@Dr.Suryakant.NSahoo true , one life one women also she must be virgin before marriage
No one is a virgin @@rggrrggr290
3:52 "khul Ja Sim Sim"😂🤣🤣
😂😂
We are so back baby long form content after 1.6 years 💪🏼💪🏼
Love you swasti 😘
😭
Hey why are you crying 😂
@@yadjthe5872 you stupid or what ?
@@yadjthe5872 That's not crying 😭🤡
@@yadjthe5872 khushi ke ansoo hain
I think the gynecologist dealt with your problem quite poorly. I hope she atleast sat you down and had gave you an idea of what was going on with you. Even after going to an expert you had to depend on google to understand the issue. That says so much! No wonder this is not talked about. But its so refreshing to see someone being so open about their experiences. I'm sure people will find this helpful :)
its great to say such bold topic openly without hesitation ,i think it might help others to understand their partners prospective.
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love is not for just SEX or something
- love is for emotional connection, understanding bla bla bla
Bro i was searching for this comment 😂😂 and i only found one
You're very brave to discuss your personal thing in public
You're a great person
I feel proud to be your subscriber 😌
Bro this video is so educational as well as entertaining love it 😂💞
Now this was something I didn't knew before watching the video. Welcome back again after so long and thanks for sharing your story with us and spreading awareness about this condition 😇
Sis this takes a lot of confidence to be speaking about these topics in India, where talking about sex and sexual health is considered taboo. Hats off to you 😀😀
2:10 So sad to that know you were a victim of sexual abuse💔 and i hope that you will soon recover from this condition. I rarely comment on a youtube channel so i wish you all the very best!!! and of course keep growing and keep making unique content like this🤙🤙
Could you explain sexual abuse in this context
Like did she involuntarily have sex with someone in childhood? Is that what sexual abuse is?
@@saitamathecoder1386 sexual touch etc. without permission of a person is known as sexual abuse
Following you since you had 1k subscribers. Really came a long way. Im proud you could openly talk about this and I hope its gets better. Good luck
Girl hands off to you covering most serious topic in so easy way
Man this is seriously so brave of you. Keep up the great work!🙏
"choti choti cheejein" wheels must be crying 😭
I didn’t mean it that way 😅 but ab video dekhke wesa he lagra hai 😂
fr 😂😂
@@Swasti1
You finally posted after a year ❤😂
lol where was this line?
@@AlwiyaSheikh watch it again give er sum watchtime come on
As an indian girl talking about vaginal health/problem in front of people seems like social crime ,really appreciate your afford to speak confidently about it
crazy!! talking about this and being indian at the same time respect 100+
Didn’t know about Vaginismus. Thank you for the info❤
Actually i love the fact that how comfortable you are to share it with us like some poeple when they try to explain normal knowledge full things like that they hasitate a lot which i personaly get uncomfortable with but tbh i loved the vidoe 💖
really appreciate your confidence , and spreading the awareness , I have a gf and she takes a lot of stress because many valid reasons . People don't talk about mental health and stuff like this , we get so confused because of it but in real life it's really very normal
Good to learn about stuff :)I feel so happy to have girls around me openly talk about what they are experiencing and feeling and i get to know them more. Thats nice , thats courageous and should be the norm .
I wasn't aware of this. I'm glad to have learnt more. I hope you get better in the future!
😭 finallllyyyyy aaa loongggg videoooo....thanksss swasstiii
Being a boy, I cannot able to feel your problem.
But
₹2000 ka fee really
It's painful😔
Spraaad karrooo 😼
😂@@yorrichitsuginuki8124
ILYSM swasti it was kinda weird when you started talking about it but hands down this has became my fav video
Salute yaar how you openly talked about this topic not going to vulgar yet in a very normal entertaining way and the way you writed real comeback and salute once again for such a brave topic and confidence improvement dikh rhi h
I feel heartbroken, i hope you'll get cured soon 🙌
Thanks for raising this serious issue and awaring us from this condition... Hope everyone like you will cure it.. ❤️
Swasti guts hein tum mein itna openly personal life ka btaya
This is the proof that how little we know about our body because of that taboo things
Me and my bf we were trying to have sex since 2019 but just like you, I had extreme pain and my pelvic muscles used to get tighten. So after searching in Google and going through my real source and gynecologist videos I got know it's Vaginismus but mine was quite psychological since my vagina didn't show any physical symptoms like irritation, burning sensation and all. But then I did pelvic floor exercises for Vaginismus and meditations. And Holllaaa, this year we finally did it!!! We are dating since 9 years now and he has been my constant support throughout this journey. He was more patient than me❤🧿...Hope you get such a partner too❤
So you guys are married now?
Sad for your future husband
@@Yennefer-bg9hb😂😂
@@Griffith_1802 Another reason for men not to get arrange marriage ...
Because the arrange marriage market is full of these second hand used products.
@@Yennefer-bg9hb what if the guy isn't virgin too ?
fuckig love the confidence this is the kind of influencers India needs not the ones who idealise western culture but the ones who show some things are normal and not trying to dismiss our culture entireky
Ab ladkiyaan bolengi past doesn't matter🌚🌚🌚
True. I would never engage with such girls.
It shows their character 😂
@@AYUSHKUMAR-yw7hj you wont get one 🤣
Past always matters specially for girls..
They never forget the guy with whom they experienced everything for the first time
@@katrinapolyu should worry about urself after w#*ring around taking people D's for fun. When it comes marriage phir wahi cycle wali kahani 🤡🤣😂
yay ur back!! I think this is super normal especially if your not fully relaxed and aroused, i understand your situation is different tho, I'm so sorry about what happened to you, you deserve so much better💓
Hope you recover soon 👍🏻
Very informative video for ignorant boys like me 😅
Hi found you
Old swasti 😎🗿🍿
New swasti💀💦🤡
The comment I was looking for 🗿🍷
Yeah pls shut ur mouth.. it's about her personal life. It's none of ur business
@@SaurabhSingh-js2sb oh u are here too 😂 yeah he is right if u don't like his comment then don't bark here like my friend dog.
Old swasti is same as new swasti. Just cuz she choose to talk about things that you think is vulgar doesn't make her a completely different person.
A lot of girls probably suffer from this issue it's better to raise awareness.
Arre Arre bhago, ligma male ji aaye hain !!
4:46 was hilarious 😂😂
0:14 okkeyy WHERE IS MY HEADPHONE... 🤥😶🌫
Abhi Lata hu ruk
I Appreciate your confidence.
Main expect nahin kar raha tha koi itna openly Apne itne personal chij ke bare mein khulkar bol sakta hai 😯
OMG THANKS FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO SOME UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS GOT CLEARED!!!!✨😭💗
wake up babe swasti just dropped a vid
When u feel strict parents are god gifted ❤
*Realise
Fully agree.
Entertaining yet Informative👍
Thank you Sir 🙏🏽👍🏽
Karan animation but 2 likes....
Kya baat hai 💀👏
Bhai tera bhi tight hai kya
Look who is back 🙀🙀🙀good to see you back😁
After video--- damm,it needs courage to talk about such topic,swasti🙌
Great video..loved the way you put it in a light and interesting way and yet it was so informative😁🙌
Really you are so confident sharing this.. Fantastic video.. aagla comeback jldi hona chahiye btw😂
Happy Birthday Swasti 🎂🥳
Hey hi maine tumhe Instagram par message Kiya tha bhaut kuch likh na chah ta tha par message limt aa gayi so tumne mujhe itna zyada entertain kiya iss liye thank you so much 😊 thank you so much mujhe 4 years ke itne tough time ke baad hasa ke ek nayi umid Dene ke liye you are so great yaar!!!!! You and your videos are best in the world. You know what tum diamond play button 💎▶️ deserve karti ho .
3:08 broooo😭😭😭😭😭
I love this woman😂❤
My fav part... can't stop laughing
Untill Now i was unaware of existence of the word Vaginismus😅
But you choose a bold story to tell ❤
Explaining such things to the society is a brave task and you did it very casually and without any awkwardness... Such things should be made normal to everyone after all its a DISEASE
Like share subscribe 👍
Story time video jldi laana next time 😅
Ok kardiya ab iske badle aaj gaming ka live stream karna
Next video ek saal baad?
Swastiiiii reply iam ur biggest fan 🎉
Done 😊
Bro, I had amazing laughs in this video, keep it up
Glad you enjoyed!
After 2 years you back🙌. I m 21 year guy watched for knowledge. Hope you upload more videos like before 💙
Aww we love you swasti....thankyou for talking about it. Probably one of my favorite videos on you youtube now