Losing a Loved One to Early Onset Alzheimer's I NOVA I PBS

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  • @barbaragalletta3030
    @barbaragalletta3030 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Went thru this with my mom. She looked at me one day and said “I don’t know who u r but u make me laugh.” She never remembered me from then on. My heart broke that day.

  • @waterdamnaged
    @waterdamnaged 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Having witnessed this first hand, It takes everything away. It even robs you of grief and mourning, because at the end all there is is relief that it's all over.

    • @datway3582
      @datway3582 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My dad has very early Alzheimer’s but he is very normal so far, he is only a little forgetful about misplacing things or responds the wrong answer to a question he is 55, I had no idea until I overheard my parents talking, I haven’t told them I heard and I can’t help but cry myself to sleep, somebody please help me, I am 21, I hope it doesn’t get worse, I don’t know what to do

    • @florentinaberisha2237
      @florentinaberisha2237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@datway3582 it will get worse , much worse , stay strong . ❤️

    • @bellaapple2166
      @bellaapple2166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@datway3582 I hope you're doing ok. This disease is very unfair. I hope they find a cure soon💓

    • @hollyr8788
      @hollyr8788 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true, my mom has it but she is much older. I could not imagine watching someone young go through this and how hard it is for them and their loved ones. Such a sad story.

    • @cindifischer6919
      @cindifischer6919 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My FIL was lucky. His hand was taken early and didn't have the long goodbye. He got to have a heart attack and have peace and we consider him lucky. He was a husband, father, a farmer who helped feed the world, and a veteran and so much more. ABSOLUTELY WORTHLESS DISEASE ALONG WITH MANY OTHERS AND I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY SO MANY HAVE TO SUFFER.

  • @MrB00mbang
    @MrB00mbang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is helping cope with father’s long goodbye. My heart is shattered into a million pieces, and I don’t even know anymore. Ty.

  • @karenperrealt3520
    @karenperrealt3520 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My husband was diagnosed last March, 2022. He is 79. He is very forgetful with short term memory and some days long term also. It’s devastating to watch and not be able to help.❤️🙏

  • @SolaceEasy
    @SolaceEasy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I am a frontotemporal dementia patient. I'm 61. Decline is somewhat rapid. One gift from this condition: I am losing over-attachment to my mind/brain, and I wish it for humanity at large, particularly in the developed world.

    • @SolaceEasy
      @SolaceEasy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I am free with the freedom of Spirit.

    • @ThePalmettoPoltergeist
      @ThePalmettoPoltergeist 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I fear that I have it. I’m watching this as I’m having difficulty with simple math that I knew before, I often mess up writing things (usually always an error), I totally forgot a name that I speak of daily. That’s a snippet. Does it sound familiar? I’m so scared to go my doctor, I’m waiting until I’m back from this family vacation. I can’t get bad news so far away from home.

    • @MBT372
      @MBT372 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ThePalmettoPoltergeistdo you have it?

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Crying while watching this. I’m losing my aunt to early onset Alzheimer’s after she fought a trauma filled life from first her husband and then her kids. I wish I could rewind time and advocate for her care. Due to hipaa we cannot find out about details regarding her care. But after watching this it is pretty clear that she has already advanced as she cannot remember short term or long term memories, can’t remember our names, doesn’t use the bathroom properly, and sometimes doesn’t eat by herself. I am going to try to reach out to her social worker and maybe find part time work just has a nursing assistant within the Hospital she is currently residing at to at least make these last few years comfortable for her. Devastated to watch this

  • @shaunael6141
    @shaunael6141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My husband was diagnosed last year at 43. For now he is doing well. The tremors are constant but manageable.

  • @sesquashtwo
    @sesquashtwo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Her passing, ...was a release....and a release to those that loved her...and rememberd the whole person she was. What never will fade, or die...is those memories she created with loved ones, and friends. This wretched disease, can NOT touch, or alter THAT memory. May Heidi rest in the memory-of-arms, that loved her so...and she loved back, so.....

  • @kimgloria6094
    @kimgloria6094 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Just so sad. I wish they could find a cure for this horrible devastating disease . It's so heartbreaking to see such a beautiful active, intelligent woman with such a loving family go through such pain and loss.

  • @SiebertScience
    @SiebertScience 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for sharing, AJ. I can't imagine how difficult going through that would be.

    • @SolaceEasy
      @SolaceEasy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I wish someday you'll join us, and the world will be as one.

  • @Letscurealzheimers
    @Letscurealzheimers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sorry for your loss. My dad had early onset Alzheimer's as well. It isn't fair for someone to be taken so young.

    • @MrB00mbang
      @MrB00mbang 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How is your cognitive health?

  • @motorolaandroid5688
    @motorolaandroid5688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Horrible disease, may they find a cure or effective treatment soon.

  • @vicshrily
    @vicshrily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    💔, at first.. but just to see that Heidi was /is forever a beautiful one, is forever the memory :’)

  • @AngelHawks
    @AngelHawks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    At 47 I feel a cognitive decline. My Grandmother and Great-Grandfather both had Alzheimers. I've made a doctors appointment but am afraid to find out at the same time. I watched my Grandmother cry each time we left the nursing home because her Father no longer knew who she was.

    • @21972012145525
      @21972012145525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don’t wait. At least you can advocate for yourself if you catch it early

  • @sarita5572
    @sarita5572 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'd like to know if she was on any statins. Statins and dementia seem to go hand in hand. Statins prevent your brain from getting cholesterol and our brain needs cholesterol to thrive.

  • @smeyer6960
    @smeyer6960 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a beautiful life, and a beautiful death, surrounded by her loved ones. She looked to be singing as she passed. I know that nothing I could say could ease the pain of losing her, but I am so sorry for your tragic loss.

  • @valeriezick4459
    @valeriezick4459 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really good video Jules. So simple and clear and wise. How I wish I would have had it when I worked on a dementia unit to offer to family members when they struggled to interact with their loved one. I watched the one about using music and it was also excellent.

  • @SentryFather
    @SentryFather ปีที่แล้ว

    I also lost my grandma due to Alzheimer, my grandma now could not understand me, looking back I feel heartbroken, see you to look after me when my parents are doing business at other countries, did not watch me very well due to the lack of Education, but I know she tried her best, he got separated from her husband because of family issues, I hope that one day I can treat Alzheimer's, I hope one day end all the suffering, The best scenario is that hope will come true and God will give us another chance.

  • @guntherultraboltnovacrunch5248
    @guntherultraboltnovacrunch5248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I've been taking care of my mom for 6 years now.

    • @Letscurealzheimers
      @Letscurealzheimers 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hope you are doing alright. Being a caregiver is so hard. I looked after my dad for 2.5 years. The hardest part was knowing that each morning a little bit more of the memory would be gone. Be strong you got this.

    • @guntherultraboltnovacrunch5248
      @guntherultraboltnovacrunch5248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Letscurealzheimers Thank you very much.

    • @datway3582
      @datway3582 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Letscurealzheimers My dad has very early Alzheimer’s but he is very normal so far, he is only a little forgetful about misplacing things or responds the wrong answer to a question he is 55, I had no idea until I overheard my parents talking, I haven’t told them I heard and I can’t help but cry myself to sleep, somebody please help me, I am 21, I hope it doesn’t get worse, I don’t know what to do

    • @Letscurealzheimers
      @Letscurealzheimers 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@datway3582 sorry to hear. Early stages of Alzheimers is 30% of the time misdiagnosed. Poor nutrition, depression are the leading misdiagnosis. A good person to follow is Dr. Dale Bredesen. He has had success in turning poor cognitive patients healthy. Proper testing from doctors is essential. Your dad will need to have brain imaging tests, cognitive tests and blood tests to help with getting a proper diagnosis. Unfortunately getting a positive diagnosis is difficult. Be strong. Alzheimers has no cure as of yet. The meds help to slow the decline. Aricept help my dad but he had the side effects of low blood pressure and was prone to fainting. I took him off the drug and his decline accelerated.

  • @debralittle1341
    @debralittle1341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I lost my dad to this horrible disease. It was very hard to watch

    • @SmileNDenile
      @SmileNDenile 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I lost my stepfather on Sunday to Alzheimer’s. He had it for over 10 years. I feel your pain and I’ve never met you. I’m very sorry for your loss 😔 may peace be with you 🙏

    • @Letscurealzheimers
      @Letscurealzheimers 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry for your loss. I was a caregiver for my dad. 2.5 years of pain watching the personality and life slip away. It is such a horrible disease.

  • @Suze2233
    @Suze2233 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry…❤️

  • @dannyleo4791
    @dannyleo4791 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still believe the cure is out there. I hope we find it sooner rather than later

  • @beataask
    @beataask 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I understand, I was diagnosed at 42 I am 48 now.

  • @SassyL62
    @SassyL62 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i lost my mom.. all of the hopes and drama of the future so evaporate, are destroyed

  • @AngelekaL
    @AngelekaL ปีที่แล้ว

    Please hurry science 🧬 please 🙏