DON'T Bring Your Natural Hair 2 My Event, Black Women Wear Wigs & Weaves, NATURAL HAIR IS NOT PRETTY
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My natural hair is my everything I don’t wear wig and weaves. And I go everywhere with it.
me too 100%
An older woman that I worked together with in Europe many years ago kindly asked me why we do this to our hair (relaxer), she said, “I like it round”. She was expressing her love for the ‘AFRO’. 🥰
Same here, sis. I don't know the first thing about wigs and weaves. I'm not that chick. I don't care what other people do. Do you, sis. Whatever makes a sistah happy is fine with me.
@@leeleemee😊
I wear weave (I’m growing my natural hair out from a Japanese straightening thing) and I love my l hair. Once it’s at the length I like, I’ll wear it out. I don’t feel great in a TWA😂 but I love the voluminous fluffy beautiful cloud that is black hair.
I love your natural hair… I am on the same natural journey and I admire your bravery in cutting your hair making the full transition. I love you Fumi!
Fumi,
I have been natural since 2014 and I love it. Please give us some tips on how to crown our crown when attending certain events.
Please keep reminding everyone that true beauty is from within!
Thank you for your TH-cam channel and thank you for being who you are!❤
You can wear it all as Miss Ireland stated but to know that you are beautiful regardless is the important factor!
FUMI you rock!!❤
I’m the only 58-year old (African) in my family & my circle of friends who dons natural & (now) grey hair👵🏾. I’ve never dyed it. And I’m darker than midnight 👩🏾🦳. Never bleached my very dark skin. Take me or leave me 💃🏿 😂
These are the people who have changed their identity-personality to that which the wig and weave portrays to the mirror and public. Part of the problem we battle about our authenticity in our hair and our heritage. There are people who literally believe that they don’t make the wig , the wig makes them and they can’t hardly do without it. You know the song that says I am not my hair-- these women don’t want to be. Just saying ask that this wig she’s wearing has a closure in it that’s not wearing well. I am my natural hair and I personally can’t think of not wearing it showing it flaunting it loving it flexing it -I am it. When I got my big chop people behaved as if I was a celebrity when they saw it. Caucasian people raved at my authentic beauty that they could now see the strength and stride in me. My family of women love their wigs and their wigs and weave has become a fixture for them and has ruined their natural grain because they won’t hardly treat it or uncover it. I can’t imagine it. Thanks for this one Fumi and my guy too loved my chop and was so caressing. I love your hair, the exotic structure of the face the art of the face and hair is real.
A US Representative, whose name escapes me, introduced a bill entitled "The Crown Act." She's been fighting to get it passed because Black women are discriminated against -- even fired from their jobs because of wearing their natural hair! The Republicans voted against it! But, she continues to introduce the bill and now some states are attempting to pass the same as law.
Fumi you are phenomenal! I love your channel's content.
I wear wigs to cover my bold head. I lost my hair.
It is so... embarrassing. There's no rest and it is a ridiculous amount of self-hatred. And so many groups of people bleed their hate and self-hate onto Black women including Black women. It sucks. Alot.
Especially black women
You look beautiful, thank you for showing me how much you care for Nature Hair..💜🌹🙏🏻
@115dancingqueen mmm it's a mixed bag, also from different groups it's different. I wouldn't say it's "MORE" - it is in a league of its own in a way however it's MORE concerning but makes the MOST sense to be honest as it's a result of something they want to disassociate themselves with. It is a shame in the end.
@@gloriacroswell6008 🤎🫶🌟
I’ve been wearing my hair naturally for almost, if not, more than 15 years and you cannot tell me that at age 64 I still rock all of my clothes when I dress up or down for any event. I just love me. Fumi keep on pushing for us to love ourselves!
They're ignorant and deluded. Like if you feel this way keep it in your circle. Why would you even degrade yourself and other black women on social media like that??
Absolutely 💯
Unbelievable! Self hatred
And they're laughing about it👀
@@knowthyself5044 IDIOTS SOMETHING THAT IS NOTTT THEIRS.
All of this!
Miss Universe’s words made me cry, she made the point so clearly and beautifully. As an Afro-haired Latina who grew up in a mostly white environment, it took me so long to learn to love my natural hair. I’m so proud of her for being so confident at her young age. She deserves that crown. 👸🏾🤎✨
@ariamason9324 😊 they are but there are also afro latinas
@@ariamason9324 no, they are Latin.
@@Margiesbaby714 Latin in itself means white, most Latin are white racially. They migrated in south Americas from Europe
@@Margiesbaby714 Latin is not a race. Therefore, just like America, Africa, Europe, etc.. You have white people and Black people.
Afro Latinas have long hair girl you are mixed you not black black
As black ladies we need to give ourselves permission to wear our nature hair without feeling less than. We are beautiful ❤️
👀 Embrace your natural hair young ladies. Psalm 139:14.
Imagine being ashamed of what God gave you😪 Low self esteem in my opinion; Oh my!!!
Individuals with the straight hair wish they had our hair.
Fumi you look Amazing with your natural hair❤
As someone who has been to school, church, weddings, cinema, theater, holiday etc with my natural hair I have no conception of why anyone will want to say this. Imagine sending a message to not only your niece but other young girls that their hair is not enough. People need to stop being ignorant.
I'm This seems like self hatred 😢😢
Im so happy that fumi is here to represent the beautiful chocolate Sisters
Let's stop the self-hatred and love our dark skin and natural hair. Self care and self love. Thank you Fumi
Black/ dark skin is so beautiful! ❤
As Black women, I feel we should be over this conversation. Yet hear we are again. Thank you Fumi for taking it to a new level. You look fabulous. That young woman has a lot to learn.
I think the beauty of being a black woman is what we already call 'the black girl magic'. Because of our hair, there is so much we can do, and look beautiful and put together in all ways. When it comes to her mindset, I really pity her. She actually thought she was making history with that comment...
She made history quite alright-the wrong kind. I was appalled at her comment. My hair has been natural for 10 years
❤❤❤❤❤❤ yesssss we different and LOVE IT......She is a CLOWN
Hurt people say hurtful things! Sad!
The discontent with our own hair ,I refer to as "the Black hair Psychosis" it's an insult to God to not Love how he Created Us.
Wow, that term is deep and true!
@@sharlaamysamuel After 62yrs of observing our behavior, I've come to this conclusion. The experiences of Black Women worldwide, historically has distorted our view of ourselves, similar to the Anorexic who while looking like a skeleton,sees obesity.
Sometimes the struggel some BW face they have come to believed God hates them and never loved them to watch them being bash left and rights of their hair. Its expensive to carter for Black hair and the frustration of it refusing to grow longer to the desire wish in many BW mind is a real struggle. Some BM are also the cause because many bashes BW hair being natural as not beautiful and go to other race to rubbed it in the face of BW that their preference got good better hair. Some BW breath for a white women hair and spend $$$$$$ for lace wigs.
Exactly 💯
💯👏🏾Say it louder‼️❤️
this is how i feel when women say you should never leave the house without makeup
Amen and amen again
@@debrajames3865 Thank you but the gaslighting is real out here
It's like the makeup is more important than you. In my environment they say:: ooh you like tired as they don't dare to say you have no makeup 🤣🤣🤣
@@deepierre7575
Skin that is used to not having makeup doesn’t have the ‘tired’ look. I took the opportunity to finally break away from it when the pandemic hit and we were quarantined. The skin on my face and neck were completely different from the rest of my body. Neck up was pale and ‘tired’. Neck down was youthful and vibrant.
I went back to using clays (rhassoul and bentanite) and Dead Sea mud powder, enhancing them with Ayurvedic powders (rose, neem, aloe, Amla, Brahmi, Zizyphus). My skin now looks better than it did when I was a teenager. It took a whole year, which seems like a long time to bounce back, but considering I wore makeup for 10 years, maybe not.
😂😂😂😂 the only make-up I ever wear is lip or lip gloss. My skin looks awesome. I get compliments all the time. So whoever says you can't go out without makeup is ridiculous
When you find black women talking about natural hair not good enough to go to an event it shows how they feel about themselves without the dead hair extensions or wigs. Beauty is how “YOU” feel and think about yourself. The ladies were expressing how they feel about themselves and projecting their feelings on to us.
I love me and am a very confident black woman; who owns who I am with and without my wigs or extensions. Love yourself and everyone will in turn love you. God gave us what He knew we all could rock and until we embrace our true self we will continue to feel inadequate.
Your natural beauty is the best authentic BEAUTY!
I wear my natural hair on any outfit and for any occasion, it is just beautiful.
I feel more comfortable and confident with it.
Ditching the wigs and weaves is the best decision I have ever made. My hair is healthy, thriving, and looking much better than the struggle wigs I used to wear. Lol. We should remember that wearing someone elses hair carries certain energy and possible trauma and synthetic hair is no better. It's definitely a process, and going natural really helped me remove what I didn't know was self-hatred ❤
Not to mention that these things eat your hairline
@maxineramz4464 definitely I had traction alopecia myself so worked with many black women to help get their hairline back
@@maxineramz4464To be fair, this will not happen if you're taking proper care of your hair underneath and not using glue and all of that. I wear natural and human hair wigs, and my hairline is very healthy.
FUNMI that's me you're reading ,my chat to you.
My name is Sis Alice
I am 58 years old younger😂😂😂.
I am rocking my natural hair too, for about 10 years now.
Though i need Enitan to work on, the edges of my hair.
Thanks, I appreciate you deeply.
Most especially for reading, and noting what we; your followers writes and send to you... it shows that you' engaging we your audience❤❤
Thanks again, for being a good ambassador ,for most of our black youths; who are derailing from the train they're riding on.
By the way, your Aunty Maureen Desalu ,was someone i used to admire; whenever she visited the Finance Office i worked at ,back in the 90s.
When she speaks then, I'll just be mesmerized, be watching..
Very jovial ,and joyful, and graceful.
Guess it runs in the family.
I think she just relocated back to Nigeria then.
So whenever you're talking about how family, you come/came from,.... i cam relate to that.
Totally agree with you on the subject, how our up bringing, famliy plays a big role; an important factor into how we turn out at times in life.
Also, up bringing, acts as a factor, in the decisions; we make as we progress in life.
I tell the youths who come up to me, obssesed with social media, cos that's the new training, parenting, school where they learn and borrow ideas from.
I am not against them and social media relationship, however, I tell them if they need to follow and believe, adopt everything on social media they should check out your channel.
With your channel, they can learn some real truth about life, and not the shinanigans ridiculous ideas, they adopt from whoever they're following......
You've been in the industry of fashion, modelling, acting etc.
So you're relatable in my opinion.
A lot of misleading contents, on TH-cam, social media in general.
All these,and more, are; reshaping, clouding, and re-directing our youths in a wrong way..
By the way, i ike how you always putting a word in, for your friend Christina.
I follow her on TH-cam.
Let's encourage, promote, one another, in every way.
That's the spirit of sister hood.
God help our youths, us all, ijn Amen.
This is such a great affirmation of how you have embraced your natural hair and, I must say that I love your Afro, it looks so beautiful on you. I too, have embraced my natural hair, and finally free from the creamy crack.
I will give a naturalista grace but if your wig tacky and you paid for it…. Nope 😂
Thank you for saying this Fumi! It is okay if she feels that way for HER... to say she feels more dressed up when she wears her hair pieces or wigs while dressed up... that's FINE! But WHAT SHE SAID WAS, "don't bring YOURSELF to HER event in YOUR natural hair"! It's a statement of telling someone they're not good enough. Then the flip side are the b men degrading bw FOR wearing weaves, wigs and hairpieces! This community is tearing young girls apart with this rag doll tug of war mentality! It's SICK!
Have your preferences, but don't impose YOUR VIEWS on others!
I love my beautiful natural hair. I have been wearing my hair like this for many years. I had natural hair back in the 70’s and wore it with pride.
Their ignorance and their self hate is LOUD. She obviously was taught to hate her AIR (hair)😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@BL3SSed-Bliss I know right!🤣🤣 wearing a road kill and running her mouth about natural air (hair)🤣
😂
Fumi, thank you for doing this! I am in my 50’s also , I am natural salt &pepper and I love it! Oh my I love the versatility . I also love to wear wigs. However I will never relax or color my hair ever in this life. 😊 I went natural in my late thirties.
Fumi, you are such an inspiration to us all! We are watching you Love! ❤
Lovely profile pic! I encouraged my mum to stop dyeing her hair and she has lovely silver grey hair. I have a few greys and don’t feel the need to dye my hair like I once did a few years ago.
From the profile picture you are drop dead gorgeous
@@aselyne5631 Thank you 😊
I didn't know it was possible to hate yourself this much
That is exactly what I was thinking!!!
She sounded as well as looked very ignorant.😒
@@courtneypalmer53 we have been oppressed about our hair so long they have convienced us to hate our own hair that grows from our head but they can run around with blue yellow and green hair. It is conditioning and self hatred and I hope that she wakes up to her beauty
I agree 100%% however some ladies are ruining their scalps with the glues and tight braids so much so that they will never be able to go natural. I am 73 and have gone natural, perm , hot comb, and for a very short period of wearing a short wig. I feel most free with my TWA(tiny weeny Afro) . Quick, clean, and confident. I once heard someone say that if you take an hour to put on makeup, then you are not as cute as you think you are.
They think they are being so clever, but it’s very much giving mean girl, classless, insecure, and embarrassing.
Like, can’t even imagine my future husband, his family, and/or friends stumbling across that clip.
exactly!
Thank you
Definitely insecure vibes! Putting others down to make themselves feel good/better about themselves. Its a shame because they are all beautiful women
Women have a right to wear their hair anyway they like. People bashing other women for their choices. If you don't want to wear wigs, weaves or natural then don't. Let people live their lives as they choose, without feeling one way is right over the other. People are so critical of others if someone doesn't agree with their way of thinking. This is the world we live in. So sad.😢😅.
I would take away the mean girl part because the real mean girl would NEVER invite them to their table. But everything else is accurate. A bunch of insecure black women. The nerve of them. They hate themselves. Sad and pathetic.
I was 27 years old when I decided to lock my 4c hair. My mother did not agree to this and warned me I better not do it in her house. lol So I waited until I moved. I’m 56 years old now. I cut my hair twice before I locked my hair and I was uncomfortable until I decided to embrace my hair. Both times it was because the perm did something to my hair and had to cut it. I wish this way of thinking about our hair wasn’t so ingrained into our psyche. It should not be “something we have to go through.” Because of what I went through, I made sure my daughter was going to LOVE her hair. LOVE her skin. Every chance I got, I poured into her and she got it. She wears no perms. she has wigs and wears them occasionally. What I found about the clip was the vigor in which they spoke about the hair that is growing from their own scalp and they did not recognize how venomous they sounded. The way they turned up their lips… just breaks my heart. I hope we heal and learn to embrace our true selves.
Natural hair doesn’t take away from our beauty as long as it’s groomed and loved. No matter the amount of melanin.
What is groomed by your estimation? Im curious because this means different things to different people. People also choose to grow free-form locs, which is literally letting your hair loc with zero interference. That doesn't take away from natural beauty.
Some people don’t see free form locs as groomed or beautiful. The same way we don’t see unbrushed and tangled white hair as beautiful. Nothing about race for me, everything about style. Everyone is free to decide what is beautiful to them. But all means if you find free form locs beautiful then it shouldn’t matter what others think. Seeking external validation is ridiculous when you love something. To me, natural hair is the most beautiful. Groomed = DETANGLED and intentional/maintained. So i don’t find free form locs beautiful but I love locs in general esp. sister locs. I’ll never judge or correct someone with it tho. Likewise no one should judge or correct me for my taste.
Very well articulated @@VBoo459
@@VBoo459 you addressed the hair style. My specific question was how natural beauty is reduced while wearing what one may argue is the most natural means of keeping one's hair there is. It's simply letting your hair grow, in its natural form. Based on grooming preferences, how does that change or reduce one's natural beauty? If to be 'groomed' means avoiding certain natural states, it can be classified as a 'non natural ' process. How then can the manipulation of hair decide what natural beauty is? It's why I asked the commenter for their explanation of the point, given my own thoughts. It isn't about my opinion of free formed locs. I wanted to explore why self acceptance is limited to 'neat/ groomed' hair.
I agree with you. Keep it neat!
I am LIVING FOR THIS LOOK! Love it. Effortless chic, timeless beauty. Love it!
Sistah Fumi. I too love my natural hair and our God given beauty. I am 67 years old and enjoying living a healthy life and being trendy and stylish. Sending you much love from America. Keep your videos coming darling. We Need YOU! I too, will never relax my hair again. I saw my true beauty when I gave up relaxing in 2011.
I grew in a country where natural short hair are celebrated ,thank God .i love me and i love what God created i dont need to crash people to elevate myself but lord i love who we are as black africans . Do i blame them ? No coz they are a product of their toxic environment .but in this era we can't allow people to dictacte how we treat ourselves ,how we feel . Anyway i am a rwandese born and raised in rwanda but i reside in belgium ,all my love and greetings ❤😊
Same here. I'm from Botswana and I know Ugandans, Kenyans as well as South African women wear their hair natural too. We are not even scared to shave it and we still rock our African beauty
@@maxineramz4464 exactly, we do love how we are ,its simple .
@@maxineramz4464That's one thing I noticed about East and South African women. I admire and love that about you guys. Please keep it up. Don't let the West African insecurity and self-hate get to you❤
Same in south sudan 😊
Natural beauty comes first. Fumi you are natural beauty.❤
Sister Fumi, thanks for addressing this issue. It's un fortunate that we've been miss educated about ourselves, especially our black hair, and believe it.
The message is very subliminal... we look forward as teenagers to straighten our hair without even knowing why until, as you said, we get to the place where we embrace and accept our hair and our African heritage.
Love you and your content.
Fumi welcome to the world of Hair freeeeeedom. I found my freedom 17 years ago. We are Beautiful‼️
They are hilarious 😂 They truly don’t know better. They were not taught better. It’s blissful ignorance. I’ve never worn a wig or weave in my life. They were not mean or vindictive in the comments. It’s their preference but not mine
We are in the same boat sister. I love my natural hair.
Well said, Fumi! Very well said!❤🖤💚 To tell the truth, there are some bad weaves and wigs out there too. The "Bahd and bougie" women are a perfect example of that. 😵💫
Pure ignorance, because she certainly doesn't look good with what's on her head 😢.
This is so refreshing, Fumi. One of the best shows you have ever done. You are indeed beautiful, as are all Black women- just As God made us. Real beauty comes from within. Thank you for your authenticity and grace.
I’m beautiful with my locs. I love me 💕🇯🇲
They still have a colonial mind
I have had my natural hair since 2017 and I love it. My oldest daughter encouraged me to wear my natural hair! I’m Afro Latina and proud of my natural hair! We are all beautiful. Be proud of who you are! ❤🔥❤
I love your dark skin too! its so glowing just beautiful.❤❤
I think that clip was so sad.... it's clearly not just a U.S. American problem the Self hatred that we have as black people is global.....as we would say where I'm from "baby I don't think I would have told that story if I were you" meaning some things you just ought not say, I get that it's your opinion and that's how you feel, but some things are best left unsaid and for them to be grown women on that podcast and having younger girls listening to you say that is absolutely heartbreaking. I'm not against however you want to wear your hair but to put your self hatred on such display on such a public platform is truly heartbreaking. LORD HAVE MERCY It's really sad THAT WE DON'T SEE US AS BEAUTIFUL...
I love your natural look darlinggg!!
Hi Fumi looking fabulous❤Love ur skin and that pretty dress. Grace Jones was beautiful she was just very militant
Yes she does. Fumi is fabulous 👌
😊 indeed
I love how u give us out confidence as black females. I have had natural hair since 2013 and I am loving it. I love how u are rocking your short natural hair 🎉
Has anyone thought about the fact that we (Black people) are the only group of people rocking this texture of hair. We are not looking like other races therefore we are special. When will some of us wake up?
WOW Lord have mercy . Malcolm asked a serious question " Who taught you how to hate yourself?" LORT Can you imagine how her daughter will feel about herself. I am an African American who was blessed to visit West Africa for five weeks. There were so many women running around with wigs. There are also wig shops for children- no lie. It says wig shop for kids. These wigs look a horrible mess on wheels and they do not even match the women features. Please love yourself .
I think that's why you look so much more beautiful with your new natural do, because now we can see your beautiful features so much better.
C'mon blouse! Love that top!
Edit: I stand corrected...c'mon, whimsical dress!
You look absolutely beautiful Ms. Fumi. I too have natural hair. It has been about 7/8 years and I love it!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You look absolutely fabulous with your natural hair ❤
Koko big brother "brothel Nigeria"
That's how she talks.
She no dey think before she talk now.
She go just open mouth waaaaaaaaaaaaaa😮😮😮😮😮.
😂
Love your hair. I did the big chop 4 years ago and I am not going back. I love my hair.....and yes we can all rock a wig as we feel. ❤❤❤❤
Oh lord how sad 🤦🏾♀️ natural hair is good everywhere on this earth 🌍
Sister Fumi you are a great role model to speak on this topic! We just never short ourselves on what is and not acceptable for black women but embrace versatility. But let that Beauty start from the inside and it will push itself out!💜
We should love ourselves no matter how we wear our hair. Our worth is not in our hair, clothes, money etc. anything less is self hatred. What we're born with is part of our identity. How we see ourselves is how we're socialized by the world we live in. I see wigs weaves etc as fashion decisions. I understand the color classism and how historically it happens. It's sad we still don't value ourselves in 2024.. Keep on loving yourself Fumi 👏🎉
We needs to start accepting and loving our natural hair, then it's game over! You will start to walk with your head high, its a whole vibe!!!! Love your natural ladies
The message that you gave on yourself was absolutely beautiful. For me the best thing is to feed off the positive energy and push the negative out the door. Uplifting someone as they may need to hear something positive to make them feel good. We all know that gossip is a sin, move on from it . I love you and my “Beautiful Black Queen” Thank you for your uplifting words.🥰🥰🥰
I am currently wearing a crochet braid protective hairstyle after almost 30 straight years of relaxers. I shared a selfie wearing nothing but moisturizer on my face ... the only person who immediately recognised me was my husband - I looked and felt so beautiful at 50! Thanks for all you do, Fumi! ❤
What's crazy is every single one of them sitting there talking about wig this wig that looked busted asf....Since she wanna wear the wig WEAR IT WELL....or shut tf up... They natural hair was fighting under them poor laid caps and ALMOST WON. See your life..... 😂
You're a trendsetter. Our ancestors regarded our hair very sacredly. After cutting we used to bury it to give it back to nature. Also, covering the head, the crown Chakra, you can't hear messages from the ancestors. To me, I could never! Love your message today gorgeous black Woman. Our hair suits us! Period! ❤
i'll tell you what: you can wear wigs straight, curly or kinky. you can wear weave down to your booty. you can rock your natural texture loud and proud. and guess what? some knucklehead out there will STILL be calling your ugly or finding fault. moral of the story? WHO CARES??? who cares what the next man (or woman) thinks. do you. do what you love. as long as it makes you happy, it's fair. just do it RIGHT! no janky wigs, no raggedy weave, no unkempt natural. do it right, or why bother doing it at all? it's all beautiful...
I've been natural over 15+ years n never looked back! Best decision I made as I embraced myself n natural beauty years ago being in Corporate.
If thats the case I WOULD NOT DARE WANT TO COME TO ANYTHING YOU HAVE BYEEEEE
Auntie your just soooooo beautiful. Wow!!!!! You just .........luv you no matter what
Simply put Miss Universe got it right. Free yourselves. The problem lies in the continuation of the beauty myth.
im attracted to edges... like natural edges... not the edges that fall back to ming dynasty. The kinkier the better.. so the fuzzy edges, man.. those are absolutely beautiful.
Thank you so much. I watched that video and really took offense to it. Your words were my exact sentiments. Thank you for using your platform to discuss this topic👏👏👏❤
Same here proud Jamaican black and proud
This is a next-level video. The part with natural hair to church and kids school. Wow so God doesn't deserve you to look presentable with natural or dress it up as well. . 🤣🤣. I can't stand ignorant people who think this hair we are born with is like we are not beautiful. Mrs Fumi, you look like a sexy school teacher 🍎❤
You definitely are beautiful, and you look so much younger with short hair. I truly feel bad for those young women because it was branded in the head since they were young by older women, now they on camera with a bird on their head and talking bad about natural/ grow out the head hair.
They are so ignorant 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
When i was younger and before i had my child i wore my hair natual and it was beautiful . I developed cancer and alopecia . My hair never grew back so yes i wear wigs all trypes and styles and i love me very much . I didnt have a choice but honey i make it work and i get many many compliments.
🙄If you want to wear a wig, more power to you; no need to bash natural hair, it’s weird and down right nasty.
My hair is exactly like Fumi and I love my hair; I do remember being called younger Whoopi and it looked like I belonged on the field because of my hair and my very defined black features.
I used to wear wigs until I seen how ridiculous I looked 😂🤣because my features are suited for short hair! ❤❤❤
Fumi you late to the diss its been out!....those dozy broads dont know themselves.
Fumi you look soooo much more beautiful with your natural hair! I 😍❤love it
Sis Fumi looking FABULOUS! Everything on point! Love your hair today. Looks healthy, shiny and chic.
During the pandemic I did the big chop, no longer able to have my relaxed hair done every two weeks. I had been relaxing my hair from the age of 14 (was approaching 60). I loved my natural short hair but found it was more work than I wanted to deal with so, I found a stylist who said how about the two strand twists? My twists naturally turned into locs and I absolutely love them. I by the way am a lighter shade of brown sister with straight up, tightly coiled hair. Like you dear Fumi, I will never relax my hair again and embracing what God gave me. As you so eloquently say .. I live and love for it❣️❣️ Blessings and light to you and the Fumi Nation🥰
Love this. I've been natural & now sister locs for a decade & a half. I can't believe that those attitudes still exist.
Insecurity to the max with the 1st girl that spoke.
The colonialists have done a number on my sister😂😂😂
I’ve got a fro and putting on my lace front tonight. But better believe the natural styles are ultimate elegance.
Also, that wig on that lady was hard, stringy and dry at the same time. Her natural probably would have looked better.
I think this is your best video ever.
Thanks for the lessons.
Indeed, I have learnt alot. ❤❤❤
I SOOOOO feel the same way, Fumi regarding the bad, obviously fake hairline from a bad wig, and I detest the long, fake, over embellished nails. I agree also it’s ridiculous not to wear short hair and wearing overly long fake lashes that actually truly look fake. All of this reeks of insecurity and self hate.
Am so happy having natural hair.
It's 12 years now.
And I love it.
I do wear wigs at times ,but not often.
Their wigs look wiggy though.
Beautiful Fumi, I am sooooo glad if the young people who are now embracing themselves. Thankfully, my parents raised us to be beautiful, my father (1902-1986) taught us abour colonisation and oppression and my mother (1922-1997) taught us beauty within ourselves and others. My family has waist-length dreads, afros, twists, and some sometimes wore wigs as fun - throughout, we know, believe, and think we are beautiful. Blessings, Fumi and your tribe :)
It’s sad; Ladies please stop putting your insecurities onto the next person .. Young beautiful black girls; are watching, being teased on the daily because of their appearance !!! Yet black womens are the FIRST to cry “ discrimination “; Reality is we need to WORK on our traumas. As much as we grew up being taught a “wig and straight hair “ is beautiful/ professional. We are living in times we’re we need to put a STOP to it. Mentally we need to change. To go on a public platform and say that chest up?. Disgusting!! if a person of another race had said that; it would have even been “cancelled.” But because it’s black on black “discrimination” ; I guess it OKay. 😢💔💔💔💔
As a black women we need to work 10x more harder to make it anywhere. But trust another BLACK WOMEN to make it 20x harder for you. Oprah worked hard yet she’s making it 50x harder for the next woman. I do not know who raised yawl; but that is vile behaviour.
I take ABSOLUTE offense to the term: “ Wear your natural hair if you are going to church.” Why is church not good enough to wear “fancy” hair? Let me say CHURCH is the BEST place to wear your VERY BEST! I wear my BEST clothes , make up, jewelry, accessories to church FIRST before I even wear them anywhere else. I do my very BEST for God so when I go into His house I am at my very BEST and that includes wearing my natural hair at its very BEST!
Thank you Fumi. I don’t have a problem with the wigs etc though I have NEVER worn anything but my natural hair (to each his own) BUT I take offense that your natural hair is not good enough for outside and only for church. Well church is suited to ANY hair and to me my natural hair in church is blessing for my hair. At church I feel most beautiful and blessed because I am in the presence of God. Church is the BEST environment for ANY hair. Blessings on you Fumi. I absolutely LOVE you and your style and your vibes and your intelligence. God be praised!!!
PS. I totally love your infectious laugh. ❤
Yay!!!! Congratulations on never relaxing your hair ever again! Our hair is so versatile.