Karishma wouldn't have been able to adjust in the Bacchan family. Aishwarya tried so hard but even the she couldn't. Imagine Jaya Bacchan as your MIL 😂
People in our country love to blame woman for everything, everyone blamed Babita for living separate but nobody wanted know the reality, when the problem here was Randhir kapoor who was not responsible for his family and the toxic kapoor family! Thanks for showing the reality ❤
I don't think she is greddy , a women all alone without anyone help with financial struggles raising 2 daughters can you imagine the situation the trauma she must have had back then ? maybe her way of doing is wrong she Just wanted to make sure her daughter wouldn't have to face the same circumstances
Well her daughters were wealthy in their own right. Karishma made a lot of money during the 90s. I don’t understand the desperation for marrying for money
Babita has done what most Indian Moms or parents would have done, she was completely right at her place, as you said at the end, we have to see this from her point of view! Very well researched, loved you explanation ❤❤
@@Magnolia_realty babita kapoor cannot see future. she only did what she thought was right at that time. would you let your daughter marry a man who's career has just started and he's not doing good in it plus his family has a 90 crore debt on their head? yeah she should've checked the background of this Sanjay guy before trusting her daughter with him but if she had known about his actual personality I don't think she would've let her daughter marry him. I bet she feel very regretful about this decision of hers now. anywho, amidst all of these Karishma hadto go through a lot. i really feel so bad for her because when she got married she was literally on peak of her career everything was going great for her but this marriage ruined everything for her. :(
One thing you said "luxury is crucial part of their lives" and this is so deep and true, they would live in a unhappy if their lifestyle is full filled
Yes we can't blame Babita for what she wanted, it's just she didn't know that Sanjay kapoor wasn't a good person! But she just wanted good for her daughter
I remember an interview of Karishma kapoor after Raja Hindustani came out where she was asked if she would marry a taxi driver in real life . She frankly replied no I will marry a rich man who would give me the lifestyle I want . Both Karishma and kareena were clear about what they wanted .
😂😂😂😂why she married a taxi driver who will stop working once he married bollywood actress just like Samsung heiress bodyguard do to her and get alimony usd 6 million and the case dig for 8 years.
Kapoor family has always raised problematic sons. This is typical Indian family where women go through so much struggle but sons enjoy the luxury. As an elder child i can truly feel for Karishma. For Kareena it got easier only because her elder sister took the pain.
Same yaar. Elder daughters have to take the brunt . Biys don't give a fck. They just get married. Marriage is the only thing imp . Baki sab kuch Gaya .,.
Babita is the main reason kappor family is on the top these days and has the charm cuz if kapoor sisters would not be in the bollywoord, except Ranbir Kapoor , no one would be that successful in these times and hence the kapoor-ness wouldn't be in the limelight. And hats offf to karishma and kareena for never saying bad things about these evil characters like their father, and their cousin Ridhima, who publicly humiliated them. Only three graceful ladies that kept the spark of Kapoors on, till date.
First born children always have to struggle. They act as the buffer between the younger kids and parents. They have to learn to be mature even before their childhood ends. I hope Karishma finds peace and happiness. She has been through a lot.
@@Boomsaka94I don't know why when it's about a women suffering in a Bollywood family, people started saying ki "jarur paise ke liye ruki hai" Like seriously! Aish , karishma , babita , nitu Kapoor ,Jaya bachan , ye sab Aapne pati se bhi jayda Achi established actress thi to paisa bhi to unke so called pati se jayda hi kamati hogi na! Itna bhi common sense nai hai !? 😕 Society ke pressure and family pressure se ek to unemployed bano aur phir cheating , acholic and abuse ko Seh ke paiso ki bhi umid mat Karo ki Kam se Kam jis family ko bannane ke liye berozgar huyi unse hi living ke liye depend bhi na ho 🙂 Kyu Bhai ? in women ke liye bhagwan ji alag se paise transfer Karke dete hai kya?🙄 Jo na mange paise.
Simple.. Put a frog in hot water immediately it will jump straight out, but when you put a frog in cold water and gently increase the heat of the water it will turn into frog soup!.. Key words.. Manipulation (the spouse gives fake promises of a better life, whilst stringing them along with a carrot on a stick and keeps reminding the spouse of all the favours they did) which is why the abused spouse stays longer than they should. Then add kids into the mix- this makes it even harder aswell because now you have innocent minds being manipulated by the abusive spouse.
@@Cherry_fizzzzAishwarya is different she is still working and she is more than an actress, but meanwhile Karishma Neetu Babita they stopped working after marriage so obviously they were dependent on their husband
Raj Kapoor knew that Randhir was serious about nothing. So, he assumed that marrying him off while he still is successful will be good else Babita would have dumped him 😂😂
Babita wanted to protect her daughter future so married her to a financially stable man who turned out to be mentally unstable. Abhishek n Aishwarya are rumored to be having divorce n Abhishek never made it big in movies, but financially seems to be secured. I think even If Karishma had married Abhishek, they could have headed for divorce too as I don't think Abhishek is a very supportive husband or father. So both choices of mother n daughter seemed wrong. Both Sanjay n Abhishek were bad choices. Now Karishma should find someone she truly deserves!
Aish had everything he didnt have: Status Power Name Fame Looks... He hated her for that. Karishma also was more famous than he was but in only 1 point she was deficient: her looks werent Aishwarya Rai/Miss World looks. In that way Abhi could have been secure. With Aish he was panicking because she could have any man just because of her looks.
@@jennybridge5089yes wealth is not everything.But you need money to live.living in a unhappy relationship with lots of money also not good. And living in very poor family with love,trust and also temporary Some people may marry poor boy/girls out love,but later they may sad about what he/she had.,
Can any good mother marry their daughter to a divorcee? Even a poor mother does not do that. Karishma became very successful, so they were not poor but they wanted more, it's her greed that she married her daughter to a divorcee because he's a billionaire, she didn't even think that one day he can divorce her daughter also
It's nothing about luck but Karma. Karisma cheated and dumped her fiance for more successful and moneyed guy. Later that guy understood Karishma motive he left her. Him being an asshole also helped the situation.
Yes...karishmas husband auctioned her with friends on their first night...yet she went ahead n has two kids....seriously??babita,karishma,kareena all are gold diggers....karishma is taking huge huge alimony from anjay kapoor whonis uber rich ...shameless
1:54 it’s not problematic. I know young people will hate this comment. But almost till 2000 , the concept of time pass relationships was looked down upon. And rightfully so. Dating someone and calling it casual shows lack of self respect, accountability and respect for other people ie the person you are dating. It’s not some TV show you are watching casually. Either think and get into relationship or hold off. No time pass. People saying, what if I meet better person later, to them my question is what if you meet a better person after marriage or your spouse finds one. Dating casually is disrespectful and hence Randhiir kapoor had to get married probably to take on responsibility
I think it was problematic because Randhir was not ready for the marriage and Raj forced this huge responsibility on him, maybe babita would have gotten someone better who was ready to take all her responsibility, also this is one of the main reason most of the 80's 90's Indian marriages are toxic,like look at our parents generation they most of them do not even understand each other, so timepass is different but giving them enough time to understand each other is very crucial
Casual dating doesn't let people married tho..they don't get married too and also those who just get married without any emotions and responsibilities will ruin marriage anyhow.. there's many people who had long-term courtship before marriage but still ruin the marriage or cheated.. there's no better person logic.. there's only either good or bad person..any person who say they will find better person later is simply telling they are disloyal..unless people are disloyal they can't find anybody outside and such people will always made partner to live in insecurity..that's not how any relationship or marriage work.. people made joke of everything nowadays
I don't like casual dating either ...old times was much better real relationship...this is f..ckng Era with only lust...old people know better and we need to go back to those times
Let's not blame the mother here. She was a successful actress who married a shitty person who wouldn't even support his kids financially. She probably kept that point in mind and wanted better futere for her daughter ( better future= stable financial status, in this case).
I don't think so if he had married Abhishek bachachan her life would be definitely a hell because Abhishek bachachan himself and his whole family is very very toxic and problematic. In my opinion Babita did good for her daughter but unfortunately the marriage didn't workout.
Hi, there's also a possibility that Babita ji didn't want to make the same mistake she did. She married when she was at the peak with Randhir ji who was starting out. As a mother she would want a stable home for her daughter. With Abhishek it was the same thing. He was starting out and Karishma was established. She wasn't being money minded but was looking out for her daughter. What happened with Sunjay and Karishma is unfortunate but who would have thought this way. Maybe she tried to make it work and had bid adieu to films, but destiny had other plans. We're never in a position to comment from far. Karishma and Kareena have a good body of work and are well respected. Babita ji raised two strong women.
I think in kapoor khandan , women were not allowed to work in film industry thats why after marrying in kapoors there daughter in law let the film industry.it was Karishma and karina who started to work in film industry that's why they faced criticism from their family especially from Rishi Kapoor as he was against this practice and he never allowed his wife and daughter to work in films even though neetu Kapoor herself was a big name when she married him.but after he died neetu Kapoor seems way more carefree and also participating in various tv shows as a guest judge and riddhima is also trying to make her name in bollywood
No sympathy. These girls could have studied or continued working and earning with dignity but they wanted an easy life of luxury so unfortunately you have to take that chance that the man paying for your lifestyle may turn out to be a jerk. They came from a privileged family so they had a lot going for them
I mean, all of this can be an accurate speculation at best. You'll never know what actually goes on in these movie star's lives and it is futile to obsess over them.
No sometimes they're bluntly open about it, and kapoors are known for their not so mysterious lifestyle , Starting for Rishi kapoor to Kareena kapoor they're brutally honest in their interviews , and karishma used to train kareena for not being that honest, so all these articles and interviews of them gives you the hint that how their lifestyles used to be
Babita also destroyed the career of her cousin Sadhna just because Sadhna showed concern and felt that Babita marrying into Kapoor family is not a good idea, Babita took offence made sure no one gives work to Sadhna in her later years
Ngl Karishma looks bso beautiful 😊 I think Karishma and Babita did what they could to help their family. I kind of feel bad for them now. Kareena is lucky that her sister paved the way for her
It was not easy for Kareena as well after the high success in Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham...she was targeted by Karan Johar...for some reason, Kareena was not on good terms with Karan so she had to do many low-budget films despite the success of kg and Kareena worked hard although those films were not successful like her previous success but they were doing good enough to keep her in demand
1st part: She was bold enough to let her daughter pursue a career in movies. 2nd part: However, she married her successful daughter to a divorcee. I find it contradictory. In the first part, she comes across as the bold, progressive mother. . But in the second part, she comes across as a traditional mother who married off daughter early despite she's very successful.
Financial reason nhi tha Karishma Abhishek ki sagai tutne ka balkj wo amar singh ne tudwaya tha qk karishma ke ghalat kaam ka pata chal gaya tha kisi hotel waghera me 😮
Whatever you've said is right 😢 but Babita shouldn't have broken her daughter's heart ❤️ poor Karishma became the victim 😭 eventually See I'm neither supporting Babitha nor the Bachans both were arrogant and toxic in their own ways😂Babita was over concerned over the financial security of Karishma rather than her happiness 😮 I'm glad that Karishma fought them all alone and moved on❤
What ever... Babita made her daughters strong and wanted them to marry wealthy man... Nothing wrong in it... Babita didn't wanted to have the same life that she had.
😂😂😂 strong.....karishma was auctioned among sanjaysfriends on their first night...yet she has two sons....it's orostitution,just a very rich one...shameless
Babita needed a moneybag for her daughter and ended up destroying her daughter's life by knowingly getting her married to a divorcee and a well known Casanova. I think Karisma would have been happy with Abhishek as Jaya Bachchan was fond of Karisma unlike Aishwarya and even Abhishek loved her. I wish Karisma would not have listened to her mother and followed her heart just like her sister Kareena.
Seeing the recent Hema committee report, I feel Kapoors were right about not letting their daughters go into such a toxic work environment. Film industry is truly unsafe for women.
Hn unhone apni betiyon ko toh mana kr diya . But apne beto ko nhi sikhaya ki ki bahar ladkiyon k saath badatmeezi Mt Karo. Sabhi k sabhi Kapoor's mein ons krte the shaadi shuda hote hue bhi. Dusro ki beti ko toh insaan bhi nhi samjha . Itni ghatiya upbringing h n sachiii.
@foodies_kitchen6 no they are good..... didn't you enjoyed poo in kabhi khushi kabhi gam???..... after watching Ridhima I have more respect towards Kareena and Karishma and Ranbir Kapoor
I think babita faced all those things she doesn't want her daughter to face the same economical problems she was legit right in her decisions and how their father is so selfish actually whole family is selfish that they abandon them and when she becomes famous they have changed
Babita Kapoor was right to some extend. She never wanted her daughter to live a life like her. She became housewife when she was one of the top actress and then she was abandoned with two daughters! How a mother would ever want her daughter goes through the same! Even in Bachchan family the women of the home do not work in movie industry. Jaya Bachchan had to leave her career and Aishwarya too. Babita could see the future of Karishma. Destroying the career of the successful women and then make them live a life that is less than ordinary is the habit of both kapoor and bachchan family. Neetu kapoor, Babita kapoor, Jaya Bachchan, Aishwarya...all have same story. Just see how Amitabh Bachchan gives the luxurious villa to his daughters just when he realises his flop son is having affair with other women. The cheapest mentality of Bachchan family is clearly visible! Atleast after the divorce Karishma got her share of property but if it would happen with Bachchan family, Karishma could have been seen with a penny in her hand only
Babita kapoor has been greedy since as a teenager. Never treat her sister Sadhna respectfully who brought her to the film industry. She was not talking to her, and married Randhir Kapoor, just for money. What happened after that, she got divorced. She enforced Karishma kapoor to work since age 16 just for money.
It's nothing about luck but Karma. Karisma cheated and dumped her fiance for more successful and moneyed guy. Later that guy understood Karishma motive he left her. Him being an asshole also helped the situation. Regarding Aishwarya Rai, she cheated and dumped Vivek Oberoi who took a stand for her. She is probably getting what she did to others
Babita did not force at all to marry Karishma to divorcee. Age hora tha Karishma ka n they were greedy for money so Karishma herself choose to marry him
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Considering what happened to babita , it makes perfect sense for her to ask for prenuptial financial agreement. Bollywood marriages dont last. And im sure she smelled that bacchan family is shady too. Aishwarya changed so much after marriage ... physically, socially etc
Not to forget that Karishma was trolled a lot for her looks by the media. She was called names unspeakable. Still she endured , changed her look and became a very successful actor along with being labelled extremely beautiful later on after a makeover. I don't she ever underwent a plastic surgery just she changed the style of her clothes with Jeet and Raja Hindustani and became counted as one of the sexiest actresses in the industry.
Mujhe aaj tak samjh nhi aaya ke jinhe ghar baithne wali bahuyein chahiye hoti hai wo aisi ladkiyo se shaadi kyu nhi karte jo ghar mein hi baithi hai ya baithna chahti hai, ek successful lady ka career kyu khatam kardete hai?
Basically Kapoor family ka ye rule h shayad after the marriage bohu kaam nhi karegi aur beta humara famous hoga aur bahu bête k hisab se rahegi bête k ishare pe chalegi….what a creepy family
Not related but I’ve always felt Karishma’s young face looked similar to someone but couldn’t figure out who. Now I remember it’s Miley Cyrus (young). They don’t look the exact same but whenever I look at Karishma, it reminds me of Miley. Not only the look but even the way they smile or behave. It’s strange.
Even Randhir couldn’t stand her 😅. She even got her daughter Kareena out of Kaho Na Pyar Hai. 🤓 and let’s hear Sanjay kapoor side too. Right now Karisma is living off Alimony and child support. No wonder Karisma didn’t marry again 😮
Babita rejected unsuccessful Abhishek Bachchan & chose divorced businessman Sanjay Kapur. He got Guru movie with Aishwarya & became successful. Similarly, Babita rejected unsuccessful Shahid & chose divorced nawab Saif. Jab we met was superhit & Shahid became successful afterwards. Babita was toxic & too interfering in her daughter's life.
If Karishma married Abhishek, it would've been a love arrangement for both of them, but i do not think she would've survived in Bachan household. It was better if she found someone else!
So if actress is on top of her career, could she not have saved enough property and business,and maker herself financially secure,instead of marrying someone, she didn't love, and she could have singed a pre- neptual agreement to keep her money for herself. I don't think I agree with your point of view in this
Chosing a divorced man is fine. One can’t be judged on that. But choosing a toxic man is a different story. He was extremely toxic if the stories are to be believed. But such toxicity cannot be known until after marriage I guess. Especially if you don’t know a person well
Sadly there is no foolproof solution in life. U never know how long the marriage would have lasted w Abishek. But parents need to let their children make their own mistakes and learn from it. It could have been a very successful marriage also. I don't think she would have had any issues on luxuries if she married Abishek. Babita should not have been so controlling. Anyway. To each their own. We can only hope and wish the best for them. 🎉
If she couldn't marry Abhishekh then it didn't mean that she should immediately marry any one that comes their way...She should have waited for her daughter to get a suitable person she deserved
So karishma is real heroine for her family she also make way for her sister to enter in the industry ❤
Even marrying Abhishek Bachchan wouldn't have been a good choice😂😂
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I mean it wouldn't have been as bad of a choice.
Karishma wouldn't have been able to adjust in the Bacchan family. Aishwarya tried so hard but even the she couldn't. Imagine Jaya Bacchan as your MIL 😂
Bro everyone and everything is unsafe or women better stay single like susmita
Better than marrying a man who asked her to sleep with his colleagues.
People in our country love to blame woman for everything, everyone blamed Babita for living separate but nobody wanted know the reality, when the problem here was Randhir kapoor who was not responsible for his family and the toxic kapoor family! Thanks for showing the reality ❤
Some body says I look like karishma ❤😂🎉
Atleast babita kapoor is brave enough to leave her toxic partner become single parent unlike many bollywood celebrities wives .
Atleast babita kapoor is brave enough to leave her toxic partner become single parent unlike many bollywood celebrities wives .
@@sarikajoshi7156👍
Womp womp victim card
Well Babita wasn't wrong about Abhisekh 😂😂
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Yeah, both Sanjay and Abhishek were bad choices for Karishma..
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@@Ashwini-u2pand karishma is sati Savitri gal
I don't think she is greddy , a women all alone without anyone help with financial struggles raising 2 daughters can you imagine the situation the trauma she must have had back then ? maybe her way of doing is wrong she Just wanted to make sure her daughter wouldn't have to face the same circumstances
this is no excuse..
Taking your argument, one who struggles can do immoral things?
Well her daughters were wealthy in their own right. Karishma made a lot of money during the 90s. I don’t understand the desperation for marrying for money
Babita has done what most Indian Moms or parents would have done, she was completely right at her place, as you said at the end, we have to see this from her point of view! Very well researched, loved you explanation ❤❤
Yes and the end result is her daughter ended up like her only or even worse.
She completely destroyed her elder daughter's life
@@Magnolia_realtyNot everyone is lucky in love. Even after trying many times, some people’s relationship end up this way.
@@Magnolia_realty babita kapoor cannot see future. she only did what she thought was right at that time. would you let your daughter marry a man who's career has just started and he's not doing good in it plus his family has a 90 crore debt on their head?
yeah she should've checked the background of this Sanjay guy before trusting her daughter with him but if she had known about his actual personality I don't think she would've let her daughter marry him. I bet she feel very regretful about this decision of hers now.
anywho, amidst all of these Karishma hadto go through a lot. i really feel so bad for her because when she got married she was literally on peak of her career everything was going great for her but this marriage ruined everything for her. :(
One thing you said "luxury is crucial part of their lives" and this is so deep and true, they would live in a unhappy if their lifestyle is full filled
That's celeb syndrome you know. Bhale hi toxic kyu na ho relationship par woh apni luxury nahi chhod sakte hai..
@@Ashwini-u2pand you have poor people mentality.
Yes we can't blame Babita for what she wanted, it's just she didn't know that Sanjay kapoor wasn't a good person! But she just wanted good for her daughter
Babita & Sanjay 's mom were friends
Yes all Indian parents say that while creating havoc in their children's' lives!
I remember an interview of Karishma kapoor after Raja Hindustani came out where she was asked if she would marry a taxi driver in real life . She frankly replied no I will marry a rich man who would give me the lifestyle I want . Both Karishma and kareena were clear about what they wanted .
😂😂😂😂why she married a taxi driver who will stop working once he married bollywood actress just like Samsung heiress bodyguard do to her and get alimony
usd 6 million and the case dig for 8 years.
And it's nothing wrong to wish a better life
Why daughter of Kapoor family would marry a taxi driver? People won't even dare to ask celebrity sons if they would marry maids.
@@bipashapalit159 agreed. Nobody asks rich men if he will marry poor women
But Mukesh Ambani did that@@wowser2153
Babita wasn't a mean woman... She just made her daughter stand by themselves
Yo dont know what she did with her sister sadhna
@rish_abh75 she didn't did anything to sadhana
then y she made a grown up woman marry a rich man instead of a nice man or better give her freedom to choose for herself
So babita herself has suffered bcz of bad financial conditions...
Hence she wanted her daughter to have a secure future....
Correct
Nothing wrong with that...
@@Ashwini-u2p absolutely
Secure future by marrying successful daughter to a divorcee??
Didn't she think that man is already divorced & one day he'd divorce her daughter also?
Not secure future but secure husband
Kapoor family has always raised problematic sons. This is typical Indian family where women go through so much struggle but sons enjoy the luxury.
As an elder child i can truly feel for Karishma. For Kareena it got easier only because her elder sister took the pain.
Same yaar. Elder daughters have to take the brunt . Biys don't give a fck. They just get married. Marriage is the only thing imp . Baki sab kuch Gaya .,.
Babita is the main reason kappor family is on the top these days and has the charm cuz if kapoor sisters would not be in the bollywoord, except Ranbir Kapoor , no one would be that successful in these times and hence the kapoor-ness wouldn't be in the limelight.
And hats offf to karishma and kareena for never saying bad things about these evil characters like their father, and their cousin Ridhima, who publicly humiliated them.
Only three graceful ladies that kept the spark of Kapoors on, till date.
Ridhima humiliated them?
Ridhima humiliated karishma and kareena? Why? They seem to be so close I guess
@@samratalha. Kapoor's the criminals 😡😡
Now you know Babita was right about Abhishek 👍
First born children always have to struggle. They act as the buffer between the younger kids and parents. They have to learn to be mature even before their childhood ends. I hope Karishma finds peace and happiness. She has been through a lot.
I don't know how Lolo continued with her marriage for so long with such a toxic man- had two children with him, and then divorced him.
Money ig?
society and pressure
@@Boomsaka94I don't know why when it's about a women suffering in a Bollywood family, people started saying ki "jarur paise ke liye ruki hai"
Like seriously! Aish , karishma , babita , nitu Kapoor ,Jaya bachan , ye sab Aapne pati se bhi jayda Achi established actress thi to paisa bhi to unke so called pati se jayda hi kamati hogi na!
Itna bhi common sense nai hai !? 😕
Society ke pressure and family pressure se ek to unemployed bano aur phir cheating , acholic and abuse ko Seh ke paiso ki bhi umid mat Karo ki Kam se Kam jis family ko bannane ke liye berozgar huyi unse hi living ke liye depend bhi na ho 🙂
Kyu Bhai ? in women ke liye bhagwan ji alag se paise transfer Karke dete hai kya?🙄 Jo na mange paise.
Simple.. Put a frog in hot water immediately it will jump straight out, but when you put a frog in cold water and gently increase the heat of the water it will turn into frog soup!.. Key words.. Manipulation (the spouse gives fake promises of a better life, whilst stringing them along with a carrot on a stick and keeps reminding the spouse of all the favours they did) which is why the abused spouse stays longer than they should. Then add kids into the mix- this makes it even harder aswell because now you have innocent minds being manipulated by the abusive spouse.
@@Cherry_fizzzzAishwarya is different she is still working and she is more than an actress, but meanwhile Karishma Neetu Babita they stopped working after marriage so obviously they were dependent on their husband
Raj Kapoor knew that Randhir was serious about nothing. So, he assumed that marrying him off while he still is successful will be good else Babita would have dumped him 😂😂
Didn’t matter he still married her and was never dumped but Banbita got cheated on 😮 by him
Would that have hurt him no so stop being a dumb fan
It was said that Babita too started visiting her ex flame Ranjit
Oh yes the typical "shadi karega to responsible ban jaega"😂😂😂
Babita wanted to protect her daughter future so married her to a financially stable man who turned out to be mentally unstable. Abhishek n Aishwarya are rumored to be having divorce n Abhishek never made it big in movies, but financially seems to be secured.
I think even If Karishma had married Abhishek, they could have headed for divorce too as I don't think Abhishek is a very supportive husband or father.
So both choices of mother n daughter seemed wrong. Both Sanjay n Abhishek were bad choices. Now Karishma should find someone she truly deserves!
Aish had everything he didnt have:
Status
Power
Name
Fame
Looks...
He hated her for that.
Karishma also was more famous than he was but in only 1 point she was deficient: her looks werent Aishwarya Rai/Miss World looks. In that way Abhi could have been secure. With Aish he was panicking because she could have any man just because of her looks.
Abhishek has problems but not at Sanjay Kapur’s level. He’s not violent or immoral.
@@SA-lz1vx Definitely immoral if he cheated on Ash with the actress
@Kareena1988 karishma is gorgeous. Look at Ash puffy face full of fillers n botox n look how naturally beautiful Karishma is
@@heutenichtamore exactly karishma was previously & even now is much more naturally beautiful than Ash
Raj kapoor knew the importance of good genes...
So true, she was not wrong from her side, all our girls parents want a rich husband for their daughter
Wealth is not everything too much relationships nd no love
Peace and understanding hain toh sab hain....
@@jennybridge5089yes wealth is not everything.But you need money to live.living in a unhappy relationship with lots of money also not good.
And living in very poor family with love,trust and also temporary
Some people may marry poor boy/girls out love,but later they may sad about what he/she had.,
@@jennybridge5089wealth is everything in bollywood
@@jennybridge5089lol
My foot
We can't Babita, she just wanted a better life for her daughter unlike her, but unfortunately Karishma's luck was bad
Ironically her name Karishma means miracle but got the worst luck 😢
Can any good mother marry their daughter to a divorcee? Even a poor mother does not do that.
Karishma became very successful, so they were not poor but they wanted more, it's her greed that she married her daughter to a divorcee because he's a billionaire, she didn't even think that one day he can divorce her daughter also
It's nothing about luck but Karma. Karisma cheated and dumped her fiance for more successful and moneyed guy. Later that guy understood Karishma motive he left her. Him being an asshole also helped the situation.
Money talks, it doesn’t whisper it shouts!
Yes...karishmas husband auctioned her with friends on their first night...yet she went ahead n has two kids....seriously??babita,karishma,kareena all are gold diggers....karishma is taking huge huge alimony from anjay kapoor whonis uber rich ...shameless
Babita was right as a mother
Lolo is the sweetest and most genuine of them all
1:54 it’s not problematic. I know young people will hate this comment. But almost till 2000 , the concept of time pass relationships was looked down upon. And rightfully so. Dating someone and calling it casual shows lack of self respect, accountability and respect for other people ie the person you are dating. It’s not some TV show you are watching casually. Either think and get into relationship or hold off. No time pass. People saying, what if I meet better person later, to them my question is what if you meet a better person after marriage or your spouse finds one. Dating casually is disrespectful and hence Randhiir kapoor had to get married probably to take on responsibility
I think it was problematic because Randhir was not ready for the marriage and Raj forced this huge responsibility on him, maybe babita would have gotten someone better who was ready to take all her responsibility, also this is one of the main reason most of the 80's 90's Indian marriages are toxic,like look at our parents generation they most of them do not even understand each other, so timepass is different but giving them enough time to understand each other is very crucial
Casual dating doesn't let people married tho..they don't get married too and also those who just get married without any emotions and responsibilities will ruin marriage anyhow.. there's many people who had long-term courtship before marriage but still ruin the marriage or cheated.. there's no better person logic.. there's only either good or bad person..any person who say they will find better person later is simply telling they are disloyal..unless people are disloyal they can't find anybody outside and such people will always made partner to live in insecurity..that's not how any relationship or marriage work.. people made joke of everything nowadays
I don't like casual dating either ...old times was much better real relationship...this is f..ckng Era with only lust...old people know better and we need to go back to those times
Let's not blame the mother here. She was a successful actress who married a shitty person who wouldn't even support his kids financially. She probably kept that point in mind and wanted better futere for her daughter ( better future= stable financial status, in this case).
I don't think so if he had married Abhishek bachachan her life would be definitely a hell because Abhishek bachachan himself and his whole family is very very toxic and problematic. In my opinion Babita did good for her daughter but unfortunately the marriage didn't workout.
Hi, there's also a possibility that Babita ji didn't want to make the same mistake she did. She married when she was at the peak with Randhir ji who was starting out. As a mother she would want a stable home for her daughter. With Abhishek it was the same thing. He was starting out and Karishma was established. She wasn't being money minded but was looking out for her daughter. What happened with Sunjay and Karishma is unfortunate but who would have thought this way. Maybe she tried to make it work and had bid adieu to films, but destiny had other plans. We're never in a position to comment from far. Karishma and Kareena have a good body of work and are well respected. Babita ji raised two strong women.
Babita was not a good actress, see her old movies
@jyotin1690 hello, she acted and established herself, who are we to judge.
Kareena betrayed Shahid for divorcee saif.
Babita married of Karishma to another divorcee at age of 28. What is this? 😅😅@@RoseAqua02
I think in kapoor khandan , women were not allowed to work in film industry thats why after marrying in kapoors there daughter in law let the film industry.it was Karishma and karina who started to work in film industry that's why they faced criticism from their family especially from Rishi Kapoor as he was against this practice and he never allowed his wife and daughter to work in films even though neetu Kapoor herself was a big name when she married him.but after he died neetu Kapoor seems way more carefree and also participating in various tv shows as a guest judge and riddhima is also trying to make her name in bollywood
The wives of Shammi and Shashi Kapoor did not quit acting after marriage. Both women were established actresses who acted till the end of their lives.
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Dono lalchi hai... divorced aadmio se shaddi Kari...kareena ne toh buddhe musalman Saif se nikah kiya...ghatiya hai dono
@@sneha_d_mystery_princess dono behan lalchi hai...nakchadi ...khadoos
No sympathy. These girls could have studied or continued working and earning with dignity but they wanted an easy life of luxury so unfortunately you have to take that chance that the man paying for your lifestyle may turn out to be a jerk. They came from a privileged family so they had a lot going for them
Next suggestion, Jiah Khan story plz 😢😢
I never really liked Kapoor sisters much but now much respect to these three women for standing up for themselves.
Unfortunate situation......money problem.... struggle is real.....
I mean, all of this can be an accurate speculation at best. You'll never know what actually goes on in these movie star's lives and it is futile to obsess over them.
No sometimes they're bluntly open about it, and kapoors are known for their not so mysterious lifestyle , Starting for Rishi kapoor to Kareena kapoor they're brutally honest in their interviews , and karishma used to train kareena for not being that honest, so all these articles and interviews of them gives you the hint that how their lifestyles used to be
Babita also destroyed the career of her cousin Sadhna just because Sadhna showed concern and felt that Babita marrying into Kapoor family is not a good idea, Babita took offence made sure no one gives work to Sadhna in her later years
Ngl Karishma looks bso beautiful 😊 I think Karishma and Babita did what they could to help their family. I kind of feel bad for them now.
Kareena is lucky that her sister paved the way for her
It was not easy for Kareena as well after the high success in Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham...she was targeted by Karan Johar...for some reason, Kareena was not on good terms with Karan so she had to do many low-budget films despite the success of kg and Kareena worked hard although those films were not successful like her previous success but they were doing good enough to keep her in demand
1st part: She was bold enough to let her daughter pursue a career in movies.
2nd part: However, she married her successful daughter to a divorcee.
I find it contradictory. In the first part, she comes across as the bold, progressive mother. .
But in the second part, she comes across as a traditional mother who married off daughter early despite she's very successful.
I think you have made a good analysis.
Money is important. The Bachans were in debt. What a future to give your daughter away to.....
Financial reason nhi tha Karishma Abhishek ki sagai tutne ka balkj wo amar singh ne tudwaya tha qk karishma ke ghalat kaam ka pata chal gaya tha kisi hotel waghera me 😮
Randhir is the Prince Andrew of Bollywood. Born into a filmi royal family but good for nothing.
Whatever you've said is right 😢 but Babita shouldn't have broken her daughter's heart ❤️ poor Karishma became the victim 😭 eventually
See I'm neither supporting Babitha nor the Bachans both were arrogant and toxic in their own ways😂Babita was over concerned over the financial security of Karishma rather than her happiness 😮
I'm glad that Karishma fought them all alone and moved on❤
Abhishek Bachchan might not be a successful actor but he owns many businesses... he's damn rich and he got Miss World as his wife
U know why .. because he is not muslim
Before watching this video, i also used to think babita is the villain, but you just opened my eyes, you explained it really well, loved the video❤❤❤
That kapoor generation is worst!!!!
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Too greedy? Babita did what all mothers would do.
The toxicity is with the man she married. A horrid man.
What ever... Babita made her daughters strong and wanted them to marry wealthy man... Nothing wrong in it... Babita didn't wanted to have the same life that she had.
😂😂😂 strong.....karishma was auctioned among sanjaysfriends on their first night...yet she has two sons....it's orostitution,just a very rich one...shameless
Just imagine a bollywood without kapoors.
😂😂 without toxicity and arrogance maybe
@@kanu4659 And Khans too!! 😂
Just imagine a world without abrahamic religions ...islam ,Jews, Christianity
Why are you bringing religion Bigot@@Rocky-m2c8z
Ye babita ji ne Aishwarya ko bhi rok diya hota Abhishek se shadi krne se to achha rehta
Ekdammm sahi pakde
Hahahhahhh , damn such a good one
Babita is very realistic, selfrespectful and wise lady. She took really good decisions for her daughters.
Babita needed a moneybag for her daughter and ended up destroying her daughter's life by knowingly getting her married to a divorcee and a well known Casanova. I think Karisma would have been happy with Abhishek as Jaya Bachchan was fond of Karisma unlike Aishwarya and even Abhishek loved her. I wish Karisma would not have listened to her mother and followed her heart just like her sister Kareena.
Are you kidding me
The bachans were in total debt at tht period of time , they needed a scapegoat
The bachans are arrogant and rude as hell
Yolanda Hadid lite 😂
Kapoor family is so problematic tbh
Seeing the recent Hema committee report, I feel Kapoors were right about not letting their daughters go into such a toxic work environment. Film industry is truly unsafe for women.
They were the ones who were making it unsafe. It was Raj Kapoor who was gropping women and forcing them to have sex with him. What right do they have?
It's not toxic for nepo kids...
@lilly-xg8gv gropping is allowed in bollywood...it's part of acting...every actor grops female co star during shoot
@@lilly-xg8gv What 😨!!!! Was he like this? Kapoor's are literally toxic. Be it Ranvir, Randhir, Rishi. everyone in this family are toxic.
Hn unhone apni betiyon ko toh mana kr diya . But apne beto ko nhi sikhaya ki ki bahar ladkiyon k saath badatmeezi Mt Karo. Sabhi k sabhi Kapoor's mein ons krte the shaadi shuda hote hue bhi. Dusro ki beti ko toh insaan bhi nhi samjha . Itni ghatiya upbringing h n sachiii.
Itne problem me reh kar bhi dono bahene heera nikali acting bhi bhaut jayda achi hai I love thire work ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
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@foodies_kitchen6 no they are good..... didn't you enjoyed poo in kabhi khushi kabhi gam???..... after watching Ridhima I have more respect towards Kareena and Karishma and Ranbir Kapoor
You are amazing gurll
Thank you & so are you ❤
Both babita and neetu never were top actress 😅
They were in their era
Yes they were
I think babita faced all those things she doesn't want her daughter to face the same economical problems she was legit right in her decisions and how their father is so selfish actually whole family is selfish that they abandon them and when she becomes famous they have changed
Jane do abhishek ko to miss universe mili thi wo usko achi nhi lg rha to karisma kya chiz thi
Karishma b miss world Jesi hi beautiful hai
@Noor-l4s
Jysi h na hai nhi wohi to baat h
Babita Kapoor was right to some extend. She never wanted her daughter to live a life like her. She became housewife when she was one of the top actress and then she was abandoned with two daughters! How a mother would ever want her daughter goes through the same!
Even in Bachchan family the women of the home do not work in movie industry. Jaya Bachchan had to leave her career and Aishwarya too. Babita could see the future of Karishma.
Destroying the career of the successful women and then make them live a life that is less than ordinary is the habit of both kapoor and bachchan family.
Neetu kapoor, Babita kapoor, Jaya Bachchan, Aishwarya...all have same story.
Just see how Amitabh Bachchan gives the luxurious villa to his daughters just when he realises his flop son is having affair with other women. The cheapest mentality of Bachchan family is clearly visible!
Atleast after the divorce Karishma got her share of property but if it would happen with Bachchan family, Karishma could have been seen with a penny in her hand only
Babita kapoor has been greedy since as a teenager. Never treat her sister Sadhna respectfully who brought her to the film industry. She was not talking to her, and married Randhir Kapoor, just for money. What happened after that, she got divorced. She enforced Karishma kapoor to work since age 16 just for money.
She was a queen. She never got her due...Just like Govinda
It's Bachan's who rejected Karisma, it's not the other way round.
Isn't it logic, why will babita do engagement if financial status was her concern.?
No, in fact Jayaji looked so happy when she introduced Karishma as her daughter in law.
@jyotin1690 breaking of engagement happened 4 months after engagement.
No.its babita.Amitabh was very upset for his son..I was Der..I saw it all
Babita did what any mothet would do, also evn though she didn't want her daughter to live the same life as her but still Karishma is a single mother 😢
She is not greedy she is mature mother 😌
It's nothing about luck but Karma. Karisma cheated and dumped her fiance for more successful and moneyed guy. Later that guy understood Karishma motive he left her. Him being an asshole also helped the situation.
Regarding Aishwarya Rai, she cheated and dumped Vivek Oberoi who took a stand for her. She is probably getting what she did to others
This babita even not helped sadna alone..when she's her czn sister
Babita did not force at all to marry Karishma to divorcee. Age hora tha Karishma ka n they were greedy for money so Karishma herself choose to marry him
Hi savegeous please make a video about babita kapoor and her cousin sadhna
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How come you get to know about all this??
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@@dreamerachiever576reddit doesn't give you every information, if you'll see she mentioned the articles and she had to well research about this
You know , The Internet
She has research well
No greedy but being parents what we faced, we don’t want our kids should faced the same.
Neetu singh is a great character actress, after marriage, watch do duni char and jug jug jio 👍
So, the Kapoor family is basically typically patriarchal!!!
Young Randhir Kapoor looks so much like Ranbir Kapoor. Uncle and nephew have a very strong resemblance.
55 legal case !!!👀
Did you change your channel name ? I swear I subscribed to another channel with a similar voice
The admin of this channel tries to copy The Spill Bee
still makes better content than her, and spill is stealing content from some small youtubers including this channel i noticed recently😂😂
And spillbee copies every gossip from reddit. Such low effort content
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@@AasthaSinghJadonand she copies the English channel tea spill starting from Thumbnail to it's name😂😂
Does it really matter?? It's the content that matters here.
Considering what happened to babita , it makes perfect sense for her to ask for prenuptial financial agreement. Bollywood marriages dont last. And im sure she smelled that bacchan family is shady too. Aishwarya changed so much after marriage ... physically, socially etc
Not to forget that Karishma was trolled a lot for her looks by the media. She was called names unspeakable. Still she endured , changed her look and became a very successful actor along with being labelled extremely beautiful later on after a makeover. I don't she ever underwent a plastic surgery just she changed the style of her clothes with Jeet and Raja Hindustani and became counted as one of the sexiest actresses in the industry.
So Karishma was some 10 year old forced in to a child marriage.😅😅
Mujhe aaj tak samjh nhi aaya ke jinhe ghar baithne wali bahuyein chahiye hoti hai wo aisi ladkiyo se shaadi kyu nhi karte jo ghar mein hi baithi hai ya baithna chahti hai, ek successful lady ka career kyu khatam kardete hai?
Babita ji is a wonderful person. Did best for her daughters.
Basically Kapoor family ka ye rule h shayad after the marriage bohu kaam nhi karegi aur beta humara famous hoga aur bahu bête k hisab se rahegi bête k ishare pe chalegi….what a creepy family
Typical Punjabi family
This channel owner knows everybody 's dark secrets.......😂😂
Not related but I’ve always felt Karishma’s young face looked similar to someone but couldn’t figure out who. Now I remember it’s Miley Cyrus (young). They don’t look the exact same but whenever I look at Karishma, it reminds me of Miley. Not only the look but even the way they smile or behave. It’s strange.
Even Randhir couldn’t stand her 😅. She even got her daughter Kareena out of Kaho Na Pyar Hai. 🤓 and let’s hear Sanjay kapoor side too. Right now Karisma is living off Alimony and child support. No wonder Karisma didn’t marry again 😮
No mother will want bad things for their child
Babita rejected unsuccessful Abhishek Bachchan & chose divorced businessman Sanjay Kapur. He got Guru movie with Aishwarya & became successful.
Similarly, Babita rejected unsuccessful Shahid & chose divorced nawab Saif. Jab we met was superhit & Shahid became successful afterwards.
Babita was toxic & too interfering in her daughter's life.
If Karishma married Abhishek, it would've been a love arrangement for both of them, but i do not think she would've survived in Bachan household. It was better if she found someone else!
What so greedy, how ash is treated now, this shows babita was correct to secure her daughter's future however Karishma divorce was her destinyb
So if actress is on top of her career, could she not have saved enough property and business,and maker herself financially secure,instead of marrying someone, she didn't love, and she could have singed a pre- neptual agreement to keep her money for herself. I don't think I agree with your point of view in this
Raj Kapoor was a big toxic patriarchal villain
I like how you don't butcher the person's doing and take a look at the whole picture.
Chosing a divorced man is fine. One can’t be judged on that. But choosing a toxic man is a different story. He was extremely toxic if the stories are to be believed. But such toxicity cannot be known until after marriage I guess. Especially if you don’t know a person well
Sadly there is no foolproof solution in life. U never know how long the marriage would have lasted w Abishek. But parents need to let their children make their own mistakes and learn from it. It could have been a very successful marriage also. I don't think she would have had any issues on luxuries if she married Abishek. Babita should not have been so controlling. Anyway. To each their own. We can only hope and wish the best for them. 🎉
Every one blamed for bride or her family for failed marriages...don't make any kind of judgement about anyone bcz you were not there😂😂
If she couldn't marry Abhishekh then it didn't mean that she should immediately marry any one that comes their way...She should have waited for her daughter to get a suitable person she deserved