Sometimes jealousy is cute. I also like it when my bf gets jealous and he also likes to make me jealous. But at the end of the day, i guess, trust is the most important thing which holds the relationship together. You can meet various people in one day but only love one and that's true love.😊💞
@@your_little_versailles Yes, then that becomes toxic. And, that's where trust comes in. Jealousy can be cute only if trust is of utmost importance in ur relationship. Correct me if am wrong.
@@melovesjenniekim6430 you are totally right. but trust is a really hard thing to achive...once it's gone, it'll never be the same...I guess at the beginning of the relationship, when there is still not a total trust, I think you have to take a little risk to reach that solid relationship that we all want...like I'd said, a little jealousy is cute, the idea is to not cross the line.
My ex-girlfriend was like jonathan. She constantly humilliated me and pushed me away from the people that I love. It is never too late to leave a place where you feel powerless. It takes a lot of guts and self-love but if I could do it. I believe you can. You will find someone better, I believe in you.
Woahh I was totally the "Jonathan" in my relationship Thank God I see it before it was too late Phony texts, I can't that you enough for this ❤️ You make me laugh and now, you even saved me from a breakup
If you realised that so easily your probably not all that bad. Dont feel too bad about yourself, but i hope you can be better now that youve realised your flaws
I am also a jealous person, and I can definitely not accept to have a relationship with someone that goes out with people from opposite sex that used to be a ex. Or better said. That are STILL flirting with my partner. I totally, 100% can feel how hard this is for Jonathan ! Very disrespectful to go out with someone flirting with u! Further the rest was true. U can't control someone. And if u find Friends annoying, u can't say anything about it if they aren't Ur own friends.
@@Mistyy-el9hy girl if u are in a relationship with a guy who doesn't make you happy, who holds u back, u gotta nope the fuck out right away. if hes this toxic then hes going to end up ruining your life, and it will be worse the longer you stay with him. i know it is hard, and I know you must still love him, but if you know that you need to get out of the relationship u need to find the strength to leave him. i hope everything works out for u, wishing you well, sorry ur boyfriend is a piece of shit.
I don't think he is in the wrong, the only reason an ex wants to stay friends with you is if he thinks he can get another chance with her. Flirting with other guys is cheating and he should have been the one to break up with her. You cant have trust in a relationship if you dont respect eachother, and you get respect when you stop and think, if the situation was reversed would I be hurt by this and if the answer is yes then you should stop.
He has a point tho don't go grabbing drinks with ur ex. Ik in the vid those two dated in middle school. But fr don't go out with your ex, better don't go out ALONE with your ex bring sum firends
I know this is a story but this does happen in real life and i have a girlfriend and I totally trust her and if she goes anywhere, I’m going with her and I would let her see her friends and hang out with them and I wouldn’t mind meeting them but I think this girl should of broken up with her boyfriend because he’s controlling, manipulative and a jerk. I bet another guy can treat Jon’s girlfriend better than he can if he’s not going to change
Misunderstanding, no freedom, fight, always hangout with only a person, No talk with close friends, heart break... This is why I don't interest in relationship Only a person who accept me with true heart and with trust only the soulmate I need
The girl who is typing to Jonathan is kinda dumb, honestly this poor dude just wants his girlfriend to not hang out with her ex and start hanging with his own lover but his lover is to busy with her ex if she wants to hang out with her ex she might as well date him.
Why should she even go on a drink with her ex bro. That's unhealthy relationship and gives trust issues. What kind of girl is that making him over think?
I’m on Jon’s side. Seeing an ex with your friends as a group is one thing, but grabbing drinks with an ex at night without telling your boyfriend ahead of time is a big no no. He isn’t just a friend, he is an ex. Don’t matter when. Jon is anxious about it because he may not know what she’s thinking, but he knows what the other guy is thinking. Guys know guys better than girls, girls know girls better than guys. Only reason the ex is agreeing to grab drinks with her alone is because he still had feelings. Also, who the heck leaves a note with vague information? Just send a text letting Jon know what ur doing. If it’s that big of a problem to address with ur boyfriend that ur going out to get drinks, you obviously have some unresolved resentment towards him you never spoke about. If this is something you did bring up however and you’re still afraid he’s controlling you and being narcissistic, you should have left him to begin with.
that’s just wrong actually.. if you are on good terms with an ex and weren’t in an abusive relationship or anything you are allowed to be friends with people you’ve dated in the past
@@Zaise13 but honestly this is an ideal ex-relationship situation which is very rarely seen. That's why the dude has got points and you're not completely right because of ignoring the real life probability of your argument situation.
that means me and my husband should actually breakup 😂 bcz we have these fights very often. our conversation is very near to this and i feel like i’m jon here.
I kinda am like jon with the trust issues with my ex Girlfriend I mean she keeps getting with other people during our relationships and only talks to me on Sundays um we break up and get back together A LOT that what I mean by “our relationships” so I think I have a reason to be having trust issues with her
..... I should stop being a Jon.... Thank you. That's maby why I feel so drained. I should just let him be. Like plus, the reason I Like him is because he is him. Why did I try to change him?? Bruh.. Okay but going out with an ex alone with no one with is a bit hurtful. But I mean yeah, trust. But I don't trust the other guy or in my case, girl. You know?. But everything turned out good when I realized what I was doing to him. And we worked things out. Thank you. I appreciate it. 👍🏻✨💜
It is the nature of guys to be overprotective for one who they really love and don't want to loose but this is over kill type of situation. Normally I used to get kinda jealous too when I saw my girl laughing with her male friend (only when she laughed i get jealous and not at other things) reason behind that was I loved to make her laugh. I tried to make her laugh and smile 24x7 but I never do kind of things that are in video, I never even complained about it to her ever. Because I trusted her. Alas the shitty BS of religion got in the way and it was like a switch. And we lost every mode of communication to each other. Basically she was house arrested by her parents. I have lost basically everything in my personality that day 😢. I became a Ghost that day. It's been years and I don't want any kind of relationship. Yes I have friends but nothing more.
Sigh give me a break. When a man feels this way it's obviously because the woman has made an action or is about to make an action that is inexcusable. Jealousy is a beautiful thing from God. Get this off my lawn
what i would do if i was her is just break up with him at the first sign you can already see he's trying to control the girl and i think that sum i dont want if i was her.
Well, well, that writing paragraphs and then reading why don't you just TELL me was so relatable I almost went like yeah and now you're gonna tell her she's complicated and should know how to say things to your goddamn FACE? Well what do you think I just did, Jon?
… I’m not the bad guy I just rather use a fake text bot and make up a hypocrite girlfriend since Everyone made this unfair to me, or catch a bus back to my town and get myself a slush then I might have a friend
Well she is also someone who went out for drinks with her ex and she even told that to her boyfriend and I don't think any boyfriend toxic or not will be happy to hear that...I don't know if she is just stupid or....she is also the one who is at fault here...and it's not only the guy who is at fault.
I think her friends have those sort of humour a lot of people irl don’t understand and take too seriously I’ve had to deal with this before because anyone who hasent been my friend just calls me weird for having an internet sort of humour
Is this shayla saying what i think she saying? 😮 Girllll the truth will most definitely set you free!!! Go and let your bestie know you slept with her man, and that baby Kai is his baby...
I actually really love this. When it comes to stories like these, it is always the females giving the "bad signs." I love how the male is giving the bad signs this time lol. (No hate to males, I just really hate how the world is super unfair to females. The world has gotten so ridiculous as to a difference of perfume and cologne and 25 cents fewer than males when it comes to getting your pay for work 😒)
Are we missing any signs?
Yep
THEY WILL FOLLOW YOU UNTIL YOU DO WHAT THEY SAY
Yh I think but Idk what
Can u please do a video on bff leaving u for the girl??*emotional breakdown*
@@leenadcruz7974 yesss
Love the typing sound when texting back and forth.
ty ty! Thanks for watching!
@@phonytexts no prob
Same
Same
Samee
She could've just texted him or something instead of leaving notes cuz notes can go unnoticed
**7 signs that u should break up**
Me: Just don't be in relationship bruh
I am underage
@Guiness Book of World record Ohhh
Wise words :3
i love how most people can text someone and then get there Response in like 4 seconds,
and im over here waiting 1 week.
í have tó wait monthss :(
SAME
And I hv to wait fr a year 😂😂
IKR
Your typing is so satisfying.
Fr yass
yep
Fr
Facts
You are educating and entertaining us at the same time. Well done. Learning from the best
From text stories to relationship advice, Phony has come a long way.
Should we rebrand to Phony Advice? lol
@@phonytexts oooo that'd be cooll
@@phonytexts haha, that'll be cool
@@phonytexts Make a whole new channel, if u dont wamnns just CHANGE THE WHOLE DANG THING
@@phonytexts Oh you'll rock at everything you do! You're amazing!
Jealously: *is one of the options*
My bf: *loves when I get jealous and tells me to get jealous more often*😂😂😂
Sometimes jealousy is cute. I also like it when my bf gets jealous and he also likes to make me jealous. But at the end of the day, i guess, trust is the most important thing which holds the relationship together. You can meet various people in one day but only love one and that's true love.😊💞
a bit of jealousy is cute, too much is a disease.
@@your_little_versailles Yes, then that becomes toxic. And, that's where trust comes in. Jealousy can be cute only if trust is of utmost importance in ur relationship. Correct me if am wrong.
@@melovesjenniekim6430 you are totally right.
but trust is a really hard thing to achive...once it's gone, it'll never be the same...I guess at the beginning of the relationship, when there is still not a total trust, I think you have to take a little risk to reach that solid relationship that we all want...like I'd said, a little jealousy is cute, the idea is to not cross the line.
@@your_little_versailles Truer words were never said.!👍
My ex-girlfriend was like jonathan. She constantly humilliated me and pushed me away from the people that I love. It is never too late to leave a place where you feel powerless. It takes a lot of guts and self-love but if I could do it. I believe you can. You will find someone better, I believe in you.
:) you're a good guy
What if you feel kinda powerless but don't really want to leave or aren't ready to
I mean, i understand Jonathan's jealousy. Grabbing drinks with your ex is something you shouldn't do in a relationship
I agree.
So you are in a Toxic relationship too I guess 😂
@@salvatoretrovato7518 I'm not even in a relationship, period
From when they were children? Really? 🤨
Not really a middle school “ex” though, that should eh fine
Woahh I was totally the "Jonathan" in my relationship
Thank God I see it before it was too late
Phony texts, I can't that you enough for this ❤️
You make me laugh and now, you even saved me from a breakup
Hope you change for the better :)
If you realised that so easily your probably not all that bad. Dont feel too bad about yourself, but i hope you can be better now that youve realised your flaws
Most people don't realize they're being like that so you're pretty cool for noticing it
Me to...I feel so bad rn💔
@@andellgraham1104 YOU'VE GOT TO DEAL WITH IT ASAP. Do something!
I lost my relationship because of this, so please don't make the same mistake I did
I am also a jealous person, and I can definitely not accept to have a relationship with someone that goes out with people from opposite sex that used to be a ex. Or better said. That are STILL flirting with my partner. I totally, 100% can feel how hard this is for Jonathan !
Very disrespectful to go out with someone flirting with u!
Further the rest was true. U can't control someone. And if u find Friends annoying, u can't say anything about it if they aren't Ur own friends.
Bruh the typing so satisfying and i love the text too full of drama lol 😂😂
Ain't happen if you have drama at school
That sh** is real
Felt this in my SOUL. This is exactly how my relationship was with my ex.
oooof that's tough!
Same, and he blamed the whole break up on me... turned "friends" on me and everything.. oh well.
I'm in a relationship like this just now- but I cant leave him.
@@Mistyy-el9hy girl if u are in a relationship with a guy who doesn't make you happy, who holds u back, u gotta nope the fuck out right away. if hes this toxic then hes going to end up ruining your life, and it will be worse the longer you stay with him. i know it is hard, and I know you must still love him, but if you know that you need to get out of the relationship u need to find the strength to leave him. i hope everything works out for u, wishing you well, sorry ur boyfriend is a piece of shit.
@@wendywhaliums true
they're both have mistakes, they're both don't love each other, and there is no give and take.
But only break up when things are on extreme level....
These are two very immature people that shouldn't be together. They both have work to do on themselves.
Jonathan has the right to be jealous. Don't ever go out with someone you used to date. The girl was also a red flag.
I don't think he is in the wrong, the only reason an ex wants to stay friends with you is if he thinks he can get another chance with her. Flirting with other guys is cheating and he should have been the one to break up with her. You cant have trust in a relationship if you dont respect eachother, and you get respect when you stop and think, if the situation was reversed would I be hurt by this and if the answer is yes then you should stop.
Exactly
Totally agree with this comment.
Agree
Yes
''No reason to freak out''
There's always a reason to freak out.
He has a point tho don't go grabbing drinks with ur ex. Ik in the vid those two dated in middle school. But fr don't go out with your ex, better don't go out ALONE with your ex bring sum firends
FACTS
I know this is a story but this does happen in real life and i have a girlfriend and I totally trust her and if she goes anywhere, I’m going with her and I would let her see her friends and hang out with them and I wouldn’t mind meeting them but I think this girl should of broken up with her boyfriend because he’s controlling, manipulative and a jerk. I bet another guy can treat Jon’s girlfriend better than he can if he’s not going to change
Misunderstanding, no freedom, fight, always hangout with only a person,
No talk with close friends, heart break...
This is why I don't interest in relationship
Only a person who accept me with true heart and with trust only the soulmate I need
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The girl who is typing to Jonathan is kinda dumb, honestly this poor dude just wants his girlfriend to not hang out with her ex and start hanging with his own lover but his lover is to busy with her ex if she wants to hang out with her ex she might as well date him.
Why should she even go on a drink with her ex bro. That's unhealthy relationship and gives trust issues. What kind of girl is that making him over think?
I’m on Jon’s side. Seeing an ex with your friends as a group is one thing, but grabbing drinks with an ex at night without telling your boyfriend ahead of time is a big no no. He isn’t just a friend, he is an ex. Don’t matter when. Jon is anxious about it because he may not know what she’s thinking, but he knows what the other guy is thinking. Guys know guys better than girls, girls know girls better than guys. Only reason the ex is agreeing to grab drinks with her alone is because he still had feelings. Also, who the heck leaves a note with vague information? Just send a text letting Jon know what ur doing. If it’s that big of a problem to address with ur boyfriend that ur going out to get drinks, you obviously have some unresolved resentment towards him you never spoke about. If this is something you did bring up however and you’re still afraid he’s controlling you and being narcissistic, you should have left him to begin with.
Imagine blaming a relationship when she was 13yo that lasted 2 weeks.
I got you buddy but please xd
Lol when she said I dated mookje for two weeks at 13 o was like relationships in middle school never last long and aren’t really considered exes
I know right??
still johnatan had some points tho dating is still dating the man is right
Dude no one should hang out with ex girlfriend/boyfriend
that’s just wrong actually.. if you are on good terms with an ex and weren’t in an abusive relationship or anything you are allowed to be friends with people you’ve dated in the past
@@Zaise13 naw he gotta point
@@Zaise13 i don't agree..cuz it can make your partner insecure n i would never so something that would affect him
@@Zaise13 nah nah he's got a point
@@Zaise13 but honestly this is an ideal ex-relationship situation which is very rarely seen. That's why the dude has got points and you're not completely right because of ignoring the real life probability of your argument situation.
that means me and my husband should actually breakup 😂 bcz we have these fights very often. our conversation is very near to this and i feel like i’m jon here.
Just remember that you get to decide if you wanna break up you dont have to do it
Then you're toxic. Try to work on yourself so your partner doens't feel suffocated.
Love your Videos! Thank you for keeping us entertained!!
Glad you like them!
Omg my name is Betsy! Thanks for actually using my name whenever I only see it on old ladies or cows. 🙄😂😂😂😂
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Thanks for the tips and signs. These are the worst when they does this
Nah fr tho going for drinks with the person you used to date is kinda sketchy ngl XD very sketchy that has nothing to do with jealousy at that point
Omg he reminds me of my ex that I dumped for acting just the same as in this video!!!
This was the first time when someone typed a whole paragraph.... and sent it!!!
Me:watches this
Also me: *cries*
Dude... This is just like the girl I broke up with a week ago... 🤣... Gawd, why are there people like this?
The way I actually got offended and was like "Bitch what did you just say??"
I kinda am like jon with the trust issues with my ex Girlfriend I mean she keeps getting with other people during our relationships and only talks to me on Sundays um we break up and get back together A LOT that what I mean by “our relationships” so I think I have a reason to be having trust issues with her
I'm glad that I chose to stay single because dating such people is stressful smfh.
Hopefully not everyone is like this u.u
Wow i love the story and the emotion! Good job 👏 👏👏
I'm annoyed by that guy too.
Well that's what you call a unhealthy relationship😬😬
And thanks for the signs😀😁
I might need this when i get in a relationship😅😅
learning couldn't get better
mookie like cookies
edit: OMG IM FIRSTTTTTTTTT
Oh wow
I lost my ex gf because I was the Jonathan. I know I know.. but can’t change the past you can only change yourself going forward.
..... I should stop being a Jon.... Thank you. That's maby why I feel so drained. I should just let him be. Like plus, the reason I Like him is because he is him. Why did I try to change him?? Bruh..
Okay but going out with an ex alone with no one with is a bit hurtful. But I mean yeah, trust. But I don't trust the other guy or in my case, girl. You know?.
But everything turned out good when I realized what I was doing to him. And we worked things out. Thank you.
I appreciate it. 👍🏻✨💜
These all happened with my ex so i gave up. He never had time for me and Whenever i hangout with friends he said im being selfish
This is why I want to be single just live a happy life and work in a Pre-k room that thers alot of kids and parents.
I love that these videos exist
Idk but i laughed at "mookie"
If this was the other way around and she read that he's hanging out with his ex she would become Pain from Naruto
-Jealousy-
And this is how Jonathan became Jonathan Galindo
I would be on Johns side in this situation..
I found this super funny at the beginning
Creative guy/girl!
Keep it up.
This was a silent arguement 😂😂
Both sides in this story are toxic 😎👌
amen
I mean kinda
The gf is more toxic
It is the nature of guys to be overprotective for one who they really love and don't want to loose but this is over kill type of situation. Normally I used to get kinda jealous too when I saw my girl laughing with her male friend (only when she laughed i get jealous and not at other things) reason behind that was I loved to make her laugh. I tried to make her laugh and smile 24x7 but I never do kind of things that are in video, I never even complained about it to her ever. Because I trusted her. Alas the shitty BS of religion got in the way and it was like a switch. And we lost every mode of communication to each other. Basically she was house arrested by her parents. I have lost basically everything in my personality that day 😢. I became a Ghost that day. It's been years and I don't want any kind of relationship. Yes I have friends but nothing more.
6:06 OMG!! YOUR FINGURES ARE FASTER THAN HUSSAIN BOLT!!
6:08
bro chill 🥴
thnks for giving advice. Now once i get a gf i will use this if she ever goes out for drinks lol
Sigh give me a break. When a man feels this way it's obviously because the woman has made an action or is about to make an action that is inexcusable. Jealousy is a beautiful thing from God. Get this off my lawn
Love your videos pls do something related to Disney
The funniest thing is the fact that this whole breakup started from a note on the fridge. Relationships are really difficult 😣
*"Dont want to suffer? Dont love!"*
Amazing how u are breaking the stereotype. Then again... what do I know of relationship 🤣😂
what i would do if i was her is just break up with him at the first sign you can already see he's trying to control the girl and i think that sum i dont want if i was her.
Well, well, that writing paragraphs and then reading why don't you just TELL me was so relatable I almost went like yeah and now you're gonna tell her she's complicated and should know how to say things to your goddamn FACE?
Well what do you think I just did, Jon?
Jonathan's correct though... He's the wounded child that needs to be treated right
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I’m not the bad guy I just rather use a fake text bot and make up a hypocrite girlfriend since Everyone made this unfair to me, or catch a bus back to my town and get myself a slush then I might have a friend
I understand the jealousy tho.. It's her ex who she is with.. Doesn't that ring a bell..?
facts
On god, she's so wrong
The 7 dislikes are the people who got broken up with
lolol
Why just text him and not leaving notes
No problem
Well she is also someone who went out for drinks with her ex and she even told that to her boyfriend and I don't think any boyfriend toxic or not will be happy to hear that...I don't know if she is just stupid or....she is also the one who is at fault here...and it's not only the guy who is at fault.
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Can I get your ig I need advice for my crush
one main sign is= they try to plot twist u... they do it really carefully
hmmm...i'll remember this the day i have a relationship :)
That is okay...but mookie is a bit too much her ex anyway ahah
Who is the bad guy? Jon?
this was entertaining omg
Well i just faced that kind of problem....and i dumped him
I really face some problems to understand who is boy and who is a girl
I think her friends have those sort of humour a lot of people irl don’t understand and take too seriously
I’ve had to deal with this before because anyone who hasent been my friend just calls me weird for having an internet sort of humour
Thank God at least in this video the long text was send
Just wow….
Is this shayla saying what i think she saying? 😮 Girllll the truth will most definitely set you free!!! Go and let your bestie know you slept with her man, and that baby Kai is his baby...
well
I can't
Is Mookie a reference to Mookie Betts?
yep. we are from LA and huge dodgers fans. Good catch (no pun intended).
@@phonytexts I’m a HUGE fan of baseball like a super HUGE one so I definitely recognized it lol
How fast does he read it omgggg
And i accidentally made a funny joke.
Why would you leave a note when you can send a text? Like, is not the 1980's anymore
Yeah you really shouldn't be in this type of relationship
so true
Thank god me and my bf are not like this
I actually really love this.
When it comes to stories like these, it is always the females giving the "bad signs."
I love how the male is giving the bad signs this time lol.
(No hate to males, I just really hate how the world is super unfair to females. The world has gotten so ridiculous as to a difference of perfume and cologne and 25 cents fewer than males when it comes to getting your pay for work 😒)