they dont move with your body, can seriously restrict breathing, cause fluid build-up in your lungs and other serious injuries, such as broken ribs, people have acquired permanent scars and other injuries from using Ace bandages or duct tape to bind
SAME I ordered my first binder and it came and it was too small and I am so sad because I hoped to have it before school pictures next week, but I wont. I really wish that they could have a binder store just for binders where you can go and try one on and just buy it right there
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR ANYONE YOU CHOOSES TO WEAR A BINDER! please make sure that your binder does not restrict breathing, make sure you do your research on how to safely wear a binder, we all want you to be comfortable in the safest way :)
This is literally my first conversation before I even open my eyes in the morning like Me: am I go- Dysphoria: yes... yes we are gonna bind today Me: but my ribs/chest hurt 😞 Dysphoria: idc.. mama always said “pain is beauty” Me: 😒 I don’t think this is what she meant... but okay
Ok this might sound odd. But like, some days im like yeah I've got boobs sweet man, and then other days I hate the way I feel and want a flat chest. And its really random too, sometimes it lasts a day, sometimes a month. Idk
PSA: The following things are considered improper binding. Improper binding CAN damage your breast tissue, which will DISQUALIFY YOU FROM EVER GETTING TOP SURGERY I know it's tempting but... Never wear more than one binder Do not wear it overnight Do not wear it over 8 hours (That may be hard for some, but literally lift it off your chest for a break even once) Don't exercise in it (Wear a loose one or sports bra) Make sure you can take a DEEP breath in it If you feel pain, TAKE IT OFF
ok thanks so much for posting this; i am a young ftm transgender and i usually bind with 2 sports bras due to not having a binder. is this ok? i do want to have top surgery when i’m older
I love the comments section, it's so nice and I went down pretty far and didn't see any hate and I fell that's how our society should be, it should be ok with what other people are
I'm hoping to be able to buy a binder soon. I'm just slowly starting my transition, but seeing these beautiful and strong people that have been through so much gives me hope and just makes me feel happy.
The sexiest thing a person can wear is confidence. Everyone should have a right to feel comfortable, confident and connected to who they are mentally and physically. If a binder makes you feel good, makes you feel more like yourself, rock it. That goes for everything not just binding. The best version of ourselves is our authentic one.
+Nicole Slater Sadly it can be very difficult to be confident with a piece of constricting and sometimes painful material pulling at your chest. (Though it's still better than the alternative.)
Tøp Trash Binding can cause lung and rib damage if you do it long enough or in an unsafe way. There's really no "safe" way of doing it, just "safer" ways. For example, a real binder isn't necessarily safe, but it's a lot safer than, say, ace bandages.
I'm so lucky that my body represents the way I feel inside. Thanks to trans comunity I'll never forget that not everybody has this priviledge. I would want other cis people to be as understanding as straight people are starting to be. Because us gay people are currently much more understood than trans people.
Is it odd that I've always identified as a female and am physically a female, and I already have pretty small breasts, yet I kinda want to do this, just because I don't like having them that big? Idk, does it mean something?
Not really. You can be a cisgirl and still find it more comfortable to be more masculine. Don't be afraid of being masculine, you don't have to be 100% feminine to be a "woman". I can't really explain how you'll know if you're trans, you just.. know that the body you've been signed with isn't the body you've identified with (personal experience so I can't speak for everyone). Stay safe. ♡
Not really. You can be a cisgirl and still find it more comfortable to be more masculine. Don't be afraid of being masculine, you don't have to be 100% feminine to be a "woman". I can't really explain how you'll know if you're trans, you just.. know that the body you've been signed with isn't the body you've identified with (personal experience so I can't speak for everyone). Stay safe. ♡
I'm a 14-year-old trans guy. I've come to terms with my identity just last year after a lot of talking with my friends and my family. I'm accepted by most of them, and I haven't been happier. I've been talking with my family about testosterone, and I'm starting soon... the only problem is that I don't know if I'm ready to commit to having a male body. I live as a guy completely, I just have a female body. The fact that I have a female body doesn't really bother me, so I don't know if I should really commit to transitioning officially. I'll go as far as getting a binder and a good haircut.
Wait until you're older before making an irreversible decision. Yes, you can stop taking T ar any time, but many of the effects are permanent. Think about your future fertility also.
I am hetero and I don't really care much about transgender, but I'm feel sorry for those who can't just be happy and comfortable in their bodies. I'm grateful that I'm comfortable and I think it's not fair how much struggle these guys have to go through, mentally as well as physically. I admire their strength and confidence!!
MsAquamonkey As long and you don't bind to tightly, don't wear it for more than 8 hours and make sure you bind safely then it shouldn't hurt too much I don't believe
I have to say that I love that the people in this video are all people who actually go through binding, instead of this being a video like "watch these cis people try on binders for fun!!!!!" like i think having this representation is so important!!!! Awesome!!!
A question, in one of the text screens, the video says queer. Where I come from, it's used as an insult and has always been considered really offensive towards people in the LGBT community and is frowned upon. Is it now acceptable?
I agree that this is better. It would be too painful to watch several perfectly good binders be given to people who don't even want them, and are getting money off of them. When some of us have no oppertunities to get one and actually need one. You had a very good point. ☺
Yassss it's amazing it's really made me understand about the community and my mate who's gay, I also am still finding out about my sexuality as I'm 12 years old so I'm around the age of more relationships and getting a bit more serious compared to primary school relationships. I do believe I am bi but I still have no clue, buzzfeed really helps with understanding and your comments is probably one of the nicer comments to see.
+katrina hallworth honey 12 is too young to be thinking about relationships wait till you like 17 or something you should be focusing on school!! Plus relationships are not a game! They are serious business they are for finding your life partner not for just having that label!
+katrina hallworth don't listen to that other person. 12 is around the age I started questioning stuff and you shouldn't be afraid of all the possibilities. So yes, take your time, figure things out at whatever pace you need. Relationships aren't usually serious around this time anyways so if you want to be in one with someone then go for it, whether you think it'll last a month or a year. Now is the time to find yourself, later on things will get serious.
Hi there, non-binary dude here- Reminding everyone to NEVER use Ace bandages to bind your chest! It's very unsafe! Invest in an actual chest binder. Have a good day!
I'd like to bind only beach use my breasts make me feel vulnerable. Most of the time, I'm fine, I like wearing shirts that show a modest amount of cleavage. But sometimes, I get this crippling feeling of vulnerability, like I'm naked. However, I have no idea how you buy a binder, or what to do, and my family probably wouldn't be willing to get me one 😞
+KellseyAlexHipo You can just buy them online.. I recommend GC2B. I don't think you're parents will mind because you know they shouldn't even be looking down their anyways. And if they do mind a secret way to buy them is just go online and buy them when It's around Christmas or someones birthday so you can just say it's a present so you don't have to say what you are buying. Hope this helps or gives you some ideas :)
Desi Pfander there's no harm, but as a feminist I do think men are the problem and it makes me sad that women have to change their appearance just because some males don't respect them
so am i apparently that was not aware of chest binding and when it said chest binder i actually thought fashion designers made clothes from actual binders the school supply binder..... no, no one though this... okay
Natalie Parker that's very very dangerous. Especially for women who don't want that. Women in Africa and the Congo are forced to Bind to keep their "sexuality" pure. Even doing it the safe way like this, it could damage or flatten their breast to an extent that they don't want. It's a good idea in a mental form but to actually do it, it wouldn't be
Love bug I see your point. I hadn't thought of that. Maybe they should just put it on for a n hour or so (not wearing it in public) so that they know what it feels like to wear a binder.
I'm so proud of these amazing people. i'm glad that buzzfeed does these kinds of things to bring awareness to things that need to be discussed. thank you, buzzfeed. and thank you to those people who are incredibly strong individuals. keep being you.
Im a cis-female but i honestly would want to wear a binder just because i dont really enjoy having breast and find it a hassle and doesnt go with my fashion sense
+CheerUp2 I actually identify as a a cis (for the most part) female and do wear a binder. I don't want mean to invalidate the feelings of transmen but it makes me feel more comfortable with myself.
I'm a 13 year old trans boy and I've been binding for about 2 months. It makes me feel confident in myself, before I got a binder I wouldn't even really leave my house unless I had to. I would always just feel like everyone could see the fact that I was female and I hated it. I honestly can't wait until I'm 18 and can get top surgery
Hi I'm sorry if this is offensive! But when wearing one like how do you do it? Sorry again in just confused on how? Like do you put it on then just not wear a bra? Thank you and I'm sorry if this is offensive
I started binding like, what, three weeks ago? It's great, my dysphoria definitely isn't as big now. My back hurts a lot and sometimes it's uncomfortable, but taking it off feels amazing.
I love and appreciate what this video is doing and the educational and emotional points they're hitting on. Also, unrelated, but Devon-Norelle's voice is amazing.
I am a cis asexual but I've always wanted to bind. I've always hated having breasts and the fact that they're D's makes it seem like that's all people notice about me. I wish I was more androgynous looking but part of me is scared to bind. I'm scared that I'll do it wrong or that there's long-term health risks.
^^^Exactly. Also it's good to stretch your back and "crack" the bones in between your shoulder blades when wearing the binder. There's a way that I personally find easy to do, I'll explain it as best I can. Put your hands flat against a wall (with your finger tips facing inward) and your arms bent like you're doing a push up. They should be about shoulder width apart. Your body should be one or two feet away from the wall. Push your chest towards the wall, while pushing back with your shoulder blades. So far this method has only worked when I'm wearing my binder, but it does help.
Finding that perfect binder that's not too loose or too tight is like getting a firm hug that keeps the dysphoria away, at least for me. You look at the mirror and go "wow, that's me, I look amazing, I look like a dude". Sure it gets sweaty and you can't really do things that make you out of breath when you're wearing one, but it's totally worth it, every second. Bind safely everyone, remember to take deep breaths every now and then, don't bind for over 9 hours at a time, and don't sleep with your binder on. And stay strong.
I'm binding too and it makes me very happy to see that there are many many people outside who are feeling the same. I can't go out without my binder anymore. It makes me feel empty inside..
No I dont. :( which is why im just waiting until next year when im in college or if i get any giftcards for christmas and can tell my parents i bought stuff with them googoodollsfan
+Esther Bjerga im pretty sure this video is to educate people about trans people who actually NEED to wear a binders, and not a video about someone who wears binders just cause they can.....
By wanting to hide your beasts rather than wanting to excentuate them, you are non-conforming. It means to not do things by society's standards for what is considered ladylike, manly, normal,and so on.
+TheShyCorona I agree with you and no one really "needs" binding anyway. Yes it makes some people more comfortable in their bodies but it's not really a need.
+Jessica Byrd okay maybe I'm unconventional but I'm not gender non-conforming. I'm a woman, I participate in most female norms, I just like how my shirts hang when my chest is a little flatter.
This video actually made me feel better. I've been binding for 7 years. I was having a little depressed dysphoric moment and watching this actually helped. Thank you buzz feed!
+Caityowl Iskawaii You just have to be patient and understanding. Shes from a different era and doesnt understand. She probably wants the best for you. It will get better. :D
Tell her off. You are who you are and if she can’t accept you then why should you accept her? It is really sad when parents don’t accept their children. Try telling her that chest binding could prevent you from getting depression and anxiety. Binding dose help a lot of people from that if they are not comfortable with their own skin
I got my boyfriend a binder this summer and he wears it everyday since and it he loves it sooo much. It makes my heart swell when he runs his hands across a flat chest and smiles. I love him so much.
I wish binders were more available. I don't bind but I know someone who wants to. And I hope everyone who does bind does it safely. Using duct tape or tight sports bras are dangerous. Stay safe and have confidence ^_^
I agree, having binders available at places like Target or kohls would be revolutionary. People would be able to try on binders and find a size that fits and it would be so much more accessible to people without credit cards or who have to hid it from their parents.
+Magic Penguin Because of how excepting Target is of transgender people and gay people and everything in between they're probably gonna be selling binders by September
As a trans guy myself, I really appreciate this video being made. This video is great not only bc it educates people, but also because education and understanding can help to stop hate crimes. Most of the time hate crimes are due more to ignorance, and this video might just help people to understand the trans community a little bit more. Killin it buzzfeed, keep it up. 👍🏼
Aww, this totally made me tear up...We just need lots more dialogue for all of these things, I can't imagine how many people feel confused, hurt or what have you... I think hearing that other people feel the same way is universally comforting.
I don't know if this comment will get buried, but for everyone that sees this, I desperately need advice for my online friend. He is trans male and gets severe bouts of gender dysphoria. Right now, he uses 4 or 5 binders at once because he feels that using just one doesn’t make his large chest flat enough, and having only one on gives him a giant uni-boob blob. He’s at the point where he doesn’t care if it’s dangerous, but he’s willing to let me try to find a better option. He needs something that is affordable and fast enough to put on before work. Any and all help is greatly appreciated.
Make sure he gets the right size, if you have to small of a binder it'll gibe you the "uni boob" effect, sometimes even a push up bra. tell him to go up a size.
wearing a sports bra underneath a binder can get rid of the uniboob and help to flatten his chest a little more. it's not ideal, but it's way better than 5 binders at a time.
He is probably using the wrong binder. Or many have him try wearing a sports bra under a binder. If that dose not work, two sports bras. But make sure he is using the correct binder size please! I don’t want him to get hurt!
a binder that is pretty comfy in my opinion is gc2b ! they are made by nonbinary people, for nonbinary people. im glad that buzzfeed made a video about binding, because the last one included ace bandages which is a NO!! please bind safely everyone.
thank you for this video, it is SO important for people who bind to hear from others their own experiences with binding and know the doubt, fear, shame, insurecity AND the confidence, surety, empowerment, and security they feel about binding is okay. it's okay to feel all those things at one time or another (and sometimes all at once) and know you're not alone.
I'm feel really weird right now... like, I'm a cis woman and yet I don't feel like one.. I have a more boyish personally and I wear binders cuz my breasts make my shirts stick out and people stare at my breasts. But then I'll have these moments were I'll put on dresses and feel like a princess. Like, idk what I am...
you could just be a female who isn't your stereotypical female. there's nothing wrong with being a masculine woman or a feminine man. I'd say just be yourself and don't over think it.
I'm a straight, natural female and I enjoy binding. I enjoy the female anatomy and think it's beautiful, but I feel better about myself when it seems I have no breasts at all. Kudos to people that do it everyday. It can feel very constricting sometimes
My heart goes out to anyone doing their best to be their authentic self. I am so sorry and ashamed at the recent backlash about trans people using the restroom they gender identify with. Anyone in the LGBTQ community please know there are MILLIONS of us that support you and do not in any way fear you. We welcome and want you in our lives, our communities, and our hearts.
it's the attraction to multiple genders, pansexuality and bisexuality are the most common/most talked about forms of polysexuality but there are different ones as well
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Just make sure you're being safe when binding, everybody! It shouldn't be restricting your breathing.
^^^^
+Anna Brunke |-/
+Anna Brunke That profile pic yasss
I Really Dont Have A Name thankssss broo
Dylan Camp thanks broo clique as frick
remember to never use ace bandages or double bind
or tape
until I cant get a real binder, I'm using ace bandages and two sports bras. it's not the best, but it works for now.
it can physically harm you even to the point where - if you ever want top surgery - they can't do it
Dissa1 why is it bad tho how can it harm you??!
they dont move with your body, can seriously restrict breathing, cause fluid build-up in your lungs and other serious injuries, such as broken ribs, people have acquired permanent scars and other injuries from using Ace bandages or duct tape to bind
I wish regular stores sold binders and I didn't have to get them through the internet
^^^
I know, right? 😭
L. Ingersoll SAME!!!
SAME I ordered my first binder and it came and it was too small and I am so sad because I hoped to have it before school pictures next week, but I wont. I really wish that they could have a binder store just for binders where you can go and try one on and just buy it right there
Target is now selling binders, I was just on FB and they have some with the brand name Tomboy X
That guy with the nose ring has the prettiest eyes
tzxumara886 Which one? (Mwa ha ha haa)
tzxumara886 which one
tzxumara886 And hot too
tzxumara886
That's a girl
Both of the people shown in this video with nose rings are men.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE FOR ANYONE YOU CHOOSES TO WEAR A BINDER!
please make sure that your binder does not restrict breathing, make sure you do your research on how to safely wear a binder, we all want you to be comfortable in the safest way :)
Exactly, a binder should never ever cause pain or long-term discomfort
I’m like a c cup so what size binder should I use?
My friend is getting me a binder for my birthday so I'm making sure I know how to wear it safely
Milk Carton always get a size up
lauren measure your chest and use the GC2B measurements! That’s the safest way
me: binding physically hurts me and causes hella pain
dysphoria: yep
me: can i not today
dysphoria: nope
me: why?
dysphoria: you gotta
Binding shouldn't hurt, what do you use?
Same honestly
same
Oh my Jesus, yes
This is literally my first conversation before I even open my eyes in the morning like
Me: am I go-
Dysphoria: yes... yes we are gonna bind today
Me: but my ribs/chest hurt 😞
Dysphoria: idc.. mama always said “pain is beauty”
Me: 😒 I don’t think this is what she meant... but okay
the black guy with the white guages is soooo attractive.
he is
Dude yes!
umm girl..
CigarTheShow15 he identifys as a male, leave.
CigarTheShow15 lol k. Obviously you're like, 11.
CAN WE TALK ABOUT HOW THEY'RE ALL SO CUTE??
your profile pic matches your comment so well
+Morgan Alexander thank you😂
Your entire name and pic is beautiful xD xD
+DestielFromTheGrave _ yours too
we have the same pfp omf
Ok this might sound odd. But like, some days im like yeah I've got boobs sweet man, and then other days I hate the way I feel and want a flat chest. And its really random too, sometimes it lasts a day, sometimes a month. Idk
seems kinda genderfluid! don't worry about the labels though just do you!
Same, I'm genderfluid
same here honestly, you aren't alone friend
Pinkjuice12 me too!
Pinkjuice12 it's not just you
PSA: The following things are considered improper binding.
Improper binding CAN damage your breast tissue, which will DISQUALIFY YOU FROM EVER GETTING TOP SURGERY
I know it's tempting but...
Never wear more than one binder
Do not wear it overnight
Do not wear it over 8 hours (That may be hard for some, but literally lift it off your chest for a break even once)
Don't exercise in it (Wear a loose one or sports bra)
Make sure you can take a DEEP breath in it
If you feel pain, TAKE IT OFF
Thank you!! A lot of people don't know that, and end up hurting themselves.
ok thanks so much for posting this; i am a young ftm transgender and i usually bind with 2 sports bras due to not having a binder. is this ok? i do want to have top surgery when i’m older
dramatic pigeon yes, that's fine. two sportbras won't hurt you, don't try two binders at once though
TheKeeperOfGods k
Thanks!
Respect for trans people and anyone who binds
Amen
thank
+pokeman260 many thanks
I second that. Much respect
Ty
I love the comments section, it's so nice and I went down pretty far and didn't see any hate and I fell that's how our society should be, it should be ok with what other people are
Some want to have boobs, some want to have flat chests. I want Chipotle.
mood
Amen
Yasss
a-fucking-men
+Pepe Is Love, Pepe Is Life Omg 😂😂😂 You're so damn right!!!!!! 😭 Now I want taco bell 😑
I'm hoping to be able to buy a binder soon. I'm just slowly starting my transition, but seeing these beautiful and strong people that have been through so much gives me hope and just makes me feel happy.
jay the turtleboi Congratulations! Wishing you all things good on your journey :)
jay the turtleboi good luck hope it goes well
Good luck pal! Hope everything goes well for you in your transition, stay strong
Good luck mate :) you're beautiful and strong just like they are
jay the turtleboi good luck! 💖💙💟💙💘
The sexiest thing a person can wear is confidence. Everyone should have a right to feel comfortable, confident and connected to who they are mentally and physically. If a binder makes you feel good, makes you feel more like yourself, rock it. That goes for everything not just binding. The best version of ourselves is our authentic one.
+Nicole Slater Sadly it can be very difficult to be confident with a piece of constricting and sometimes painful material pulling at your chest. (Though it's still better than the alternative.)
@@FelixFFern If it’s constricting and affects your body negatively then it isn’t the right one for you. Your health comes first !!
I bind because "it makes me feel safer when I'm outside".. This made me feel sad :-(
Does anyone else have homework to be doing but for some reason decided to refresh their subscription box until a new video appeared 😂
yupp
Yess omg i can relate
You literally just described my situation right now lol
I can relate so much haha
Yesss
I've been binding for the past few months.
It makes me feel safer...
trashcan't same
make sure you do it the safe way physically too
Xena Hellic how can it be unsafe? Sorry, I don't really know much about binding
Tøp Trash Binding can cause lung and rib damage if you do it long enough or in an unsafe way. There's really no "safe" way of doing it, just "safer" ways. For example, a real binder isn't necessarily safe, but it's a lot safer than, say, ace bandages.
trashcan't OMG HI I JUST SAW YOU ON AN ONISION VIDEO OMG I BIND TOO LETS BE FRIENDS
They all look amazing bit can we take a moment to realise how gorgeous Devin is
YAS he looks like a freaking angel
OMG yes!!!
😍😍
No
😍😍😍😍
BLACK GUY WITH THE SEPTUM
MARRY ME
there was no guys in this video..
@@bouncethemtts2025 there are a lot of guys tho, all of them cute
bouncethemtt's lmao shut the hell up
@@bouncethemtts2025 I think you need some glasses, mate.
bouncethemtt's yes there is . stop being ignorant
I'm so lucky that my body represents the way I feel inside. Thanks to trans comunity I'll never forget that not everybody has this priviledge. I would want other cis people to be as understanding as straight people are starting to be. Because us gay people are currently much more understood than trans people.
Monika Krátká the world needs more people as accepting as you
Yes! I literally get harassed all the time for being a transitioning enby. People need to accept us fr.
I need an opposite binder
same XD
Lol
I think that's called breast implants
Just get a padded bra
Me too😂😂
Nobody talking about this good looking man? Just me? K.
lol
well, which one?
+All About my FuFu all of them
+Naslin Ahmed they are all good looking!
+Naslin Ahmed I'd go for Tony, he has such... nice eyes.
Is it odd that I've always identified as a female and am physically a female, and I already have pretty small breasts, yet I kinda want to do this, just because I don't like having them that big? Idk, does it mean something?
Not really. You can be a cisgirl and still find it more comfortable to be more masculine. Don't be afraid of being masculine, you don't have to be 100% feminine to be a "woman".
I can't really explain how you'll know if you're trans, you just.. know that the body you've been signed with isn't the body you've identified with (personal experience so I can't speak for everyone).
Stay safe. ♡
Not really. You can be a cisgirl and still find it more comfortable to be more masculine. Don't be afraid of being masculine, you don't have to be 100% feminine to be a "woman".
I can't really explain how you'll know if you're trans, you just.. know that the body you've been signed with isn't the body you've identified with (personal experience so I can't speak for everyone).
Stay safe. ♡
teamleobaby I do it, too. If the shirt is loose enough, wearing a sports bra is enough to make me look flat. I love it!
I have pretty small breast, and if it wasn't because one is double the size of the other (yup) I would love them, but yeah, one side is way bigger -_-
teamleobaby i feel the same i feel that it wold be fun to try it
I know this is a kinda serious video and I appreciate it but ummmm ...Can we take the time to acknowledge how much of a baddie Devin is?
Yessssss omg
hello!
I'm now confused, but yes he is😍
+breon757 what are you confused about?
I get the message, i meant im confused because I'm a gay guy who is not normally attracted to trans men
Bless everyone who has to go through this 🙌🏼
I'm a 14-year-old trans guy. I've come to terms with my identity just last year after a lot of talking with my friends and my family. I'm accepted by most of them, and I haven't been happier. I've been talking with my family about testosterone, and I'm starting soon... the only problem is that I don't know if I'm ready to commit to having a male body. I live as a guy completely, I just have a female body. The fact that I have a female body doesn't really bother me, so I don't know if I should really commit to transitioning officially. I'll go as far as getting a binder and a good haircut.
Alienated Anakin you do whatever makes you comfortable :3
Alienated Anakin Do whatever makes you happy 😊
Camille Wetherell LizCraft And other games!!! Thank you guys for your input (:
Michaela O'Keeffe Thank you 💛💛
Wait until you're older before making an irreversible decision. Yes, you can stop taking T ar any time, but many of the effects are permanent. Think about your future fertility also.
I am hetero and I don't really care much about transgender, but I'm feel sorry for those who can't just be happy and comfortable in their bodies. I'm grateful that I'm comfortable and I think it's not fair how much struggle these guys have to go through, mentally as well as physically. I admire their strength and confidence!!
That looks so painful...much respect and love to all here, and all who bind.
MsAquamonkey As long and you don't bind to tightly, don't wear it for more than 8 hours and make sure you bind safely then it shouldn't hurt too much I don't believe
i feel like we all have a love/hate relationship with our binders
isnt anyone gonna talk about how hot Devin-norelle is?
Yup. soooo hot :)
+akashi x that's my friend. he's the sweetest person i know
+Alexa Acosta seriously omg he's soooo attractive
Why thank you ;)
+Alexa Acosta your lying
Huge amount of respect for the people in this video, and to anyone else going through this, it must be so difficult.
My best friend got his binder when he came out. You should have seen the tears on his face. It was beautiful.
I get chest pain just for wearing a bra. I would not image myself binding
Same.
+Ife Uchime It's actually quite comfortable and in some ways I feel more mobile with a binder instead of a bra.
It's terrible.
It hurts every muscle on the upper half of your torso. It's sucks
I actually think that a binder is more comfortable than a bra
I have to say that I love that the people in this video are all people who actually go through binding, instead of this being a video like "watch these cis people try on binders for fun!!!!!" like i think having this representation is so important!!!! Awesome!!!
A question, in one of the text screens, the video says queer. Where I come from, it's used as an insult and has always been considered really offensive towards people in the LGBT community and is frowned upon. Is it now acceptable?
I agree that this is better. It would be too painful to watch several perfectly good binders be given to people who don't even want them, and are getting money off of them. When some of us have no oppertunities to get one and actually need one. You had a very good point. ☺
I still would have liked to see someone that has never worn one, try it for a week. Cis or not.
Ya'll. Devin is so freaking cute. He's so cute. Omfg.
agreed! that full pic tho 😍
It's so sad that they have to fear being assaulted.
+imagineaddie They don't have to fear anything...
+TheRealMcGyver what do you mean?
They don't have to be afraid
TheRealMcGyver
it seems like it's a rational fear, doesn't it?
the guy said in the video that he feels uncomfortable without his binder because he fears being judged or assaulted.
Respect to buzzfeed for having more videos on trans and the Rest of the LGBT community
Yassss it's amazing it's really made me understand about the community and my mate who's gay, I also am still finding out about my sexuality as I'm 12 years old so I'm around the age of more relationships and getting a bit more serious compared to primary school relationships. I do believe I am bi but I still have no clue, buzzfeed really helps with understanding and your comments is probably one of the nicer comments to see.
+katrina hallworth honey 12 is too young to be thinking about relationships wait till you like 17 or something you should be focusing on school!! Plus relationships are not a game! They are serious business they are for finding your life partner not for just having that label!
+katrina hallworth don't listen to that other person. 12 is around the age I started questioning stuff and you shouldn't be afraid of all the possibilities. So yes, take your time, figure things out at whatever pace you need. Relationships aren't usually serious around this time anyways so if you want to be in one with someone then go for it, whether you think it'll last a month or a year. Now is the time to find yourself, later on things will get serious.
Me
Megan Jimenez they're...running oo of ideas this is offensive
I do it because I'm a cosplayer and I've only cosplayed guys before
Ruby Bain sameeeeeeee😄
One more totally straight guy here that *SUPPORTS* your community 100%!!! Much love.
+godfatherNYC seeing this made me really happy?? ty fam :^))
-a really gay trans person
It's nice to know that I can feel comfortable even around cis/straight people. Thanks man! -small trans dude
Hi there, non-binary dude here-
Reminding everyone to NEVER use Ace bandages to bind your chest! It's very unsafe! Invest in an actual chest binder. Have a good day!
agreed! i have a friend who was actually fractured ribs by using ace bandages. please stay safe everyone!!
I'd like to bind only beach use my breasts make me feel vulnerable. Most of the time, I'm fine, I like wearing shirts that show a modest amount of cleavage. But sometimes, I get this crippling feeling of vulnerability, like I'm naked. However, I have no idea how you buy a binder, or what to do, and my family probably wouldn't be willing to get me one 😞
+KellseyAlexHipo You can just buy them online.. I recommend GC2B. I don't think you're parents will mind because you know they shouldn't even be looking down their anyways. And if they do mind a secret way to buy them is just go online and buy them when It's around Christmas or someones birthday so you can just say it's a present so you don't have to say what you are buying. Hope this helps or gives you some ideas :)
+KellseyAlexHipo If you're a minor, there are some sites that do giveaways for free :)
KellseyAlexHipo vulnerable? And why would they make u feel this way?
Desi Pfander we don't have to change our appearance because of men. They should change their behavior!
Desi Pfander there's no harm, but as a feminist I do think men are the problem and it makes me sad that women have to change their appearance just because some males don't respect them
so am i apparently that was not aware of chest binding and when it said chest binder i actually thought fashion designers made clothes from actual binders the school supply binder..... no, no one though this... okay
Me too
Same
tbh
+K Michael same tbh
Yeah :P
Omg the black guy with the nose ring
+Entertainment Reviews nah it said trans man next to his name
+Entertainment Reviews if you are a trans man, you are a man. Please, get it right.
***** W to M. So man x
I knoooow! right? dayum, sir, you look great.
***** ... a) i’m not thick. b) that means he is still a man ...
Video idea: cis women wear binders for a week.
Natalie Parker that's very very dangerous. Especially for women who don't want that. Women in Africa and the Congo are forced to Bind to keep their "sexuality" pure. Even doing it the safe way like this, it could damage or flatten their breast to an extent that they don't want. It's a good idea in a mental form but to actually do it, it wouldn't be
Love bug I see your point. I hadn't thought of that. Maybe they should just put it on for a n hour or so (not wearing it in public) so that they know what it feels like to wear a binder.
Natalie Parker they should just try them on... they hurt for newbies
how abt////////no...........
Lol hell no!
I'm so proud of these amazing people. i'm glad that buzzfeed does these kinds of things to bring awareness to things that need to be discussed. thank you, buzzfeed. and thank you to those people who are incredibly strong individuals. keep being you.
Im a cis-female but i honestly would want to wear a binder just because i dont really enjoy having breast and find it a hassle and doesnt go with my fashion sense
same!
+CheerUp2 As a trans guy who used to have to wear a bra, I can tell you that certain brands of binders are MUCH more comfortable! :)
+CheerUp2 I actually identify as a a cis (for the most part) female and do wear a binder. I don't want mean to invalidate the feelings of transmen but it makes me feel more comfortable with myself.
Saylor Do you have any recommendations? :D
I just got a new gc2b binder and its amazing
I'm a 13 year old trans boy and I've been binding for about 2 months. It makes me feel confident in myself, before I got a binder I wouldn't even really leave my house unless I had to. I would always just feel like everyone could see the fact that I was female and I hated it. I honestly can't wait until I'm 18 and can get top surgery
How's life now
Hey, you're 16 now, how are you? Life as a trans person can be tough so I just wanted to check in :) Remember to stay safe and hydrated!
I try to resist watching Buzzfeed but then I catch a glimpse of one of those intriguing titles and then I'm sucked into a Buzzfeed marathon
WHY IS NO ONE TALKING ABOUT DEVIN, I AM IN LOVE
ok yea he is bae 👌😏
Devin is unbelievably attractive. Dayum.
Sue Z ikr
My mom bought a binder thinking it was a sports bra
Lol
+kawaii asuna lucky you
oh 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I never knew people didnt enjoy binding, I've learnt so much!
This is why I love Buzzfeed.
Devin is such a babe wo
My boyfriends name is Devin
Zoe Rae cool
:)
you mean steroid beyonce
TheHybridNarwhal trying too hard
Devon got me feeling some type of way
Ah thank you! Binding is painful and I am so hopeful for top surgery
Hi I'm sorry if this is offensive! But when wearing one like how do you do it? Sorry again in just confused on how? Like do you put it on then just not wear a bra? Thank you and I'm sorry if this is offensive
+Alex Tiedye Correct, they're worn on their own like an undergarment and then normal clothes on top.
+Nathus Dorkus thank you!
Can we talk about how handsome and hot af is Devin? ohmygod
Which one is Devin?
thank you :)
What if donald trump was blue
omg
the smurfs will not accept him..
Well, he already is a weird colour, so it wouldn't make that much of a difference
it would make sense
My brain:
Side 1: what the hell? Where did this come from?
Side 2: LIKE A GIANT SMURF WITH A POWERED WIG!!!!!!
i never thought about the ones who cant afford surgery before
I started binding like, what, three weeks ago? It's great, my dysphoria definitely isn't as big now. My back hurts a lot and sometimes it's uncomfortable, but taking it off feels amazing.
I love and appreciate what this video is doing and the educational and emotional points they're hitting on. Also, unrelated, but Devon-Norelle's voice is amazing.
What about fat people? Does it work for fat people?
lel
yeah.... duhh
Spanks my friend, spanks. Full body spanks
Sort of. It kind of squeezes your belly a little, but it's no worse than any spanx I've ever had on.
Probably.
I am a cis asexual but I've always wanted to bind. I've always hated having breasts and the fact that they're D's makes it seem like that's all people notice about me. I wish I was more androgynous looking but part of me is scared to bind. I'm scared that I'll do it wrong or that there's long-term health risks.
^^^Exactly. Also it's good to stretch your back and "crack" the bones in between your shoulder blades when wearing the binder. There's a way that I personally find easy to do, I'll explain it as best I can.
Put your hands flat against a wall (with your finger tips facing inward) and your arms bent like you're doing a push up. They should be about shoulder width apart. Your body should be one or two feet away from the wall.
Push your chest towards the wall, while pushing back with your shoulder blades.
So far this method has only worked when I'm wearing my binder, but it does help.
get a breast reduction?
Finding that perfect binder that's not too loose or too tight is like getting a firm hug that keeps the dysphoria away, at least for me. You look at the mirror and go "wow, that's me, I look amazing, I look like a dude".
Sure it gets sweaty and you can't really do things that make you out of breath when you're wearing one, but it's totally worth it, every second.
Bind safely everyone, remember to take deep breaths every now and then, don't bind for over 9 hours at a time, and don't sleep with your binder on.
And stay strong.
Can Buzzfeed make a video on how to bind safely ?
I'm binding too and it makes me very happy to see that there are many many people outside who are feeling the same. I can't go out without my binder anymore. It makes me feel empty inside..
I don't want to do my homework so imma just watch this
mMM my fandoms |-/
I love your name!
oh man I've been binding for going on 4 years. I cant afford top surgery. Im glad to hear Im not the only one having to bind this long.
i cant wait until im in college next year and can buy one of these :D
You can get one for free. There are a lot of companies that give away free used binders
yeah but i cant get stuff shipped to my parents house thats the problem googoodollsfan
TheLizzerd Have a friend that it could be shipped to
No I dont. :( which is why im just waiting until next year when im in college or if i get any giftcards for christmas and can tell my parents i bought stuff with them googoodollsfan
Same
Yus finally I've been waiting for this for so long !
That Devin guy is so attractive, wow! I'm glad people can be themselves and that this channel supports that!
My binder may constrict me but it's the most freeing feeling to be who I want to be at my age and know that this makes me happy
I like binding and I'm as a straight cis female. It's not just trans and non-conforming people!
+Esther Bjerga im pretty sure this video is to educate people about trans people who actually NEED to wear a binders, and not a video about someone who wears binders just cause they can.....
By wanting to hide your beasts rather than wanting to excentuate them, you are non-conforming. It means to not do things by society's standards for what is considered ladylike, manly, normal,and so on.
+TheShyCorona I agree with you and no one really "needs" binding anyway. Yes it makes some people more comfortable in their bodies but it's not really a need.
+Jessica Byrd okay maybe I'm unconventional but I'm not gender non-conforming. I'm a woman, I participate in most female norms, I just like how my shirts hang when my chest is a little flatter.
+Esther Bjerga I know I was mostly poking fun.
haha everyone's just talking about how hot Devin is, yass 😁
Devin's surgical scarring is magical.
I complain about my sports bra being to tight I can't imagine what this feels like.
This video actually made me feel better. I've been binding for 7 years. I was having a little depressed dysphoric moment and watching this actually helped. Thank you buzz feed!
1:28 he remind me of Sam Pottorff
omg true
I was thinking Dom Deangelis
Is Sam still alive ??
+cookiedough123 OMG same!! And I love your picture. I'm a big fan of G-Eazy too. 😊
My mum refuses to let me bind even though I told her how much I need too. She only cares that she doesn't want me to change, not about how I feel.
+Caityowl Iskawaii You just have to be patient and understanding. Shes from a different era and doesnt understand. She probably wants the best for you. It will get better. :D
Tell her off. You are who you are and if she can’t accept you then why should you accept her? It is really sad when parents don’t accept their children. Try telling her that chest binding could prevent you from getting depression and anxiety. Binding dose help a lot of people from that if they are not comfortable with their own skin
I got my boyfriend a binder this summer and he wears it everyday since and it he loves it sooo much. It makes my heart swell when he runs his hands across a flat chest and smiles. I love him so much.
The only binder I use is at school to put my work in.
77....
77 FREAKIN' DEGREES !!!!
COME TO TEXAS AND FEEL THE HEAT
My binder makes me feel really happy tbh
I’m also on the spectrum, so I like the compression feeling too.
I wish binders were more available. I don't bind but I know someone who wants to. And I hope everyone who does bind does it safely. Using duct tape or tight sports bras are dangerous. Stay safe and have confidence ^_^
Amazon...?
but remember, not everyone has access to the internet or a credit card.
I agree, having binders available at places like Target or kohls would be revolutionary. People would be able to try on binders and find a size that fits and it would be so much more accessible to people without credit cards or who have to hid it from their parents.
Exactly, That would be amazing. I hope in the future this would happen
+Magic Penguin Because of how excepting Target is of transgender people and gay people and everything in between they're probably gonna be selling binders by September
devin is a BABE !
Can you please show me where in the video, I've rewatched 5 times now..
+hurdur durdur In the thumbnail , the black guy with the white tanktop :)
heck yes. he's so handsome.
what is his instagram?
chest binding, as much as it is constricting, also comes with the most freeing feeling ever
As a trans guy myself, I really appreciate this video being made. This video is great not only bc it educates people, but also because education and understanding can help to stop hate crimes. Most of the time hate crimes are due more to ignorance, and this video might just help people to understand the trans community a little bit more. Killin it buzzfeed, keep it up. 👍🏼
+Nick Young
Trans guys unite ^^
Wearing a binder when it's warm is the worst
Aww, this totally made me tear up...We just need lots more dialogue for all of these things, I can't imagine how many people feel confused, hurt or what have you... I think hearing that other people feel the same way is universally comforting.
I don't know if this comment will get buried, but for everyone that sees this, I desperately need advice for my online friend.
He is trans male and gets severe bouts of gender dysphoria.
Right now, he uses 4 or 5 binders at once because he feels that using just one doesn’t make his large chest flat enough, and having only one on gives him a giant uni-boob blob. He’s at the point where he doesn’t care if it’s dangerous, but he’s willing to let me try to find a better option.
He needs something that is affordable and fast enough to put on before work.
Any and all help is greatly appreciated.
Make sure he gets the right size, if you have to small of a binder it'll gibe you the "uni boob" effect, sometimes even a push up bra. tell him to go up a size.
wearing a sports bra underneath a binder can get rid of the uniboob and help to flatten his chest a little more. it's not ideal, but it's way better than 5 binders at a time.
goirkens if he keeps using mire then one binder he's going to ruin his breast tissue and loose the chance to get top surgery.
Oh my god using multiple binders at once is so dangerous and it can damage his breast tissue and make it to where he can never get top surgery
He is probably using the wrong binder. Or many have him try wearing a sports bra under a binder. If that dose not work, two sports bras. But make sure he is using the correct binder size please! I don’t want him to get hurt!
a binder that is pretty comfy in my opinion is gc2b ! they are made by nonbinary people, for nonbinary people.
im glad that buzzfeed made a video about binding, because the last one included ace bandages which is a NO!!
please bind safely everyone.
thank you for this video, it is SO important for people who bind to hear from others their own experiences with binding and know the doubt, fear, shame, insurecity AND the confidence, surety, empowerment, and security they feel about binding is okay. it's okay to feel all those things at one time or another (and sometimes all at once) and know you're not alone.
they're all so beautiful
I'm feel really weird right now... like, I'm a cis woman and yet I don't feel like one.. I have a more boyish personally and I wear binders cuz my breasts make my shirts stick out and people stare at my breasts. But then I'll have these moments were I'll put on dresses and feel like a princess. Like, idk what I am...
Anastasia Demkin genderfluid
Anastasia Demkin I think you might be just not typically feminine.
same here. I identify as gender fluid personally, but you don't have to use a label, if you don't want to
you could just be a female who isn't your stereotypical female. there's nothing wrong with being a masculine woman or a feminine man. I'd say just be yourself and don't over think it.
I feel exactly the same! Sometimes I like to be very feminine, but many times I really enjoy to look boyish, and this video made me want a bind
They're all so beautiful and happy with theirselves it makes me cry
I'm a straight, natural female and I enjoy binding. I enjoy the female anatomy and think it's beautiful, but I feel better about myself when it seems I have no breasts at all. Kudos to people that do it everyday. It can feel very constricting sometimes
My heart goes out to anyone doing their best to be their authentic self. I am so sorry and ashamed at the recent backlash about trans people using the restroom they gender identify with. Anyone in the LGBTQ community please know there are MILLIONS of us that support you and do not in any way fear you. We welcome and want you in our lives, our communities, and our hearts.
This is so sweet. It's rare that I see a comment so heartwarming and supportive.
Thank you, Anna
i watched this before i got a binder and now it's over a year later and im so nostalgic and happy :')
I'm planning to ask my mum for a binder after I come out as Polysexual and Non Binary
Taylor Clifford what's polysexual?
it's the attraction to multiple genders, pansexuality and bisexuality are the most common/most talked about forms of polysexuality but there are different ones as well
Simon Thena thank you 😊
Technically I identify as Pansexual, so it's not as hard to, explain what Polysexual is
Trash Good luck ❤ Be yourself and everything will be fine ❤
Damn, the black trans guy with the man bun is hot af 😍😍😍😍😍
+Alison Gold WHO IS HEEEEEEEEEEE
+ZombieKara DEVIN AT 1:51 GOD DAMNIT HES SO HOT
Alison Gold? The Alison Gold? I loved you in Chinese Food.