What hurts me the most is that these people finish filming or end the live then go on with their lives like they didn’t dress up like an elf and say “crunchy corn”
Cherry Crush, the girl at the start that youre talking abt, has been doing shit similar to her lives since 2017 lol. She made asmr similar to it, aswell as with suggestive topics to bait and embarrassing shit like that.
I saw a live with a teenage girl getting ready for school and doing makeup, the comments said really gross things to her, and she ended up having to leave. I feel so bad for her.
Yes I frequently join this girls live (she’s like 18 or 19 I’m not sure) and she does 80’s hair and makeup and listens to a lot of metal and I can’t tell you the amount times she’s had to deal with old men calling a poser, insulting her looks, or saying very sexual inappropriate things to her astonishing
Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for the "anime girl" comment about how anime treats girls. I always feel like I scream this (as a former anime lover) from the top of my lungs and its like no one listens or see the problems I see.
I know what you mean! I hate it. It’s so gross. I hardly watch anime anymore because of it. When my boyfriend and I are in the mood for anime we have to always look it up to see if it has anything weird with little girls. If it does, it totally ruins an anime for us.
I watched Dragon Ball for the first time today, and holy crap I cannot believe that was allowed. Modern anime is a little but better, or Chainsaw Man where, yes, it's bad but it's so dumb that I laugh about it and it doesn't take it's self seriously
As someone who has been in the SW/OF industry it’s so frustrating that making yourself look almost infantile is becoming a trend, it just gives individuals who harm children a greater platform.
It’s a scary trend in my opinion, I was frustrated with the sexualization of school girls but the infantile behavior is distressing. I feel like it could act as a gateway to actual children.
I absolutely agree. I was doing my SW with OF, Twitter, and Reddit at the time. It was disturbing how many requests I would get to do things that a grown woman shouldn’t be doing. Or being asked to act basically like a child for their pleasure. I absolutely refused any type of request, it made me very uncomfortable and those types of people are what made me question being in that line of work in the first place. Ultimately I quit. But it is very frustrating seeing so many other creators making content like that and acting as if it’s fine. They’re fueling and feeding predators and pedos fantasies alike, and the weirdos watching think it’s the more legal way to get off to what they really want. At least from what I’ve seen. It is absolutely unacceptable to me when a man subs to my page, pays money to see me nude, and then tells me via messages that I look so innocent and young (I am 23 so I’m definitely over minor age by a bit) Or that I look 16. Or that if I acted more childish and innocent it would get them going. In no world will that ever be comfortable to hear, and is scary how many dudes think it’s okay. They’re feeding this giant mass of creeps. Like you know by the way these creators look and act, that men don’t see them and say “wow this an attractive grown woman.” They think wow this chick looks like a child. Good way to get off without being completely illegal. That’s how I feel ab it anyway. It freaked me out too much.
I agree. When I was a sugar baby at 18 men would ask me to wear diapers and one guy said he only talked to me because I look like his daughter. Horrible !!
This man is just so freaking sweet. Like even though he's making jokes (harmless ones) about certain things he always adds positive stuff and understands that what we think might be cringe isnt a crime and aghh such good vibes + fun jokes.
@@nady2130 Shoot I knew it Cherry from the jump lol. Also started with her ASMR. But her nsfw is actually really good. She is a professional after all lol.
As an ethical cam model I can back you up on the fact it’s wrong when adults act like children on TikTok because it’s encouraging pedophillia weather it’s intentional or not which let’s face it if your getting gifts and tips it’s intentional.
Agreed. I'd say being on tiktok adds to it because when you're behaving like that, you aren't on an app inaccessible or difficult to access for minors, meaning you're catering to either minors or adults who are on an app full of them and are into that behavior. It's not in a controlled space.
Gosh same with people who look younger or have genetic mutations where they look like 7 forever and are literally in a childs body and then go work in these areas.. they want to be seen as adults so bad which i understand, but these grown ahh men dont care about that. They there bc of they fetish lets be fr 💀
@@RedDeadReverie one time a bouncer in the club told me to play into the fact that i look underaged, like with outfits and acting and stuff...... i said no no thank you ☠⚰ i think it screwed me over tho cause most guys who saw me wanted someone young and then i'd start talking about philosophy or some shit lmao. i was meant to be like, one of those Cultured wh0res, not a dancer that looks like i'm 17
@@mightymeatymechew wtf. I'm 17 going on 18 soon, I finished school before my friends and I don't want jack shit to do with an 18 year old let alone a 17 year old. Sounds like these dudes have a very specific problem that needs to involve the police.
Thank you for talking about infantilization. I know a lot of people who I otherwise get along with who make excuses like "she's legal so it's not weird if she acts like a child, it's just a kink" or "you can sexualise fictional minors because they're not real and no harm is being done" ignoring that they are feeding into this culture and they treat me like I'm crazy when I point out how uncomfortable it makes me feel. I like anime but it's hard to find shows that aren't guilty of sexualising a young girl. Not to mention how popular "barely legal" content has always been. It's disgusting. I'm a 25 year old woman and I can't tell you how many times I've felt pressured to act more juvenile or innocent to be attractive to a man
Thank you! It really, really irks me how normalized sexualizing minors has gotten in fandom spaces. The "it's just fictional" excuse is such crap. Obviously, it's not as bad as treating real kids that way. Duh. But that doesn't mean it's suddenly chill! It's weird and creepy that you want to make or look at sexualized content about any 15 year old, real or not. But I've legit seen arguments that it's somehow female liberation to write tons and tons of porn about 14 year old anime boys. Or that people who are creeped out by it are just prejudiced against autistic women. I was kinda shamed/manipulated into tolerating it for a while, just because I was afraid of accidentally being bigoted. But the older I get, the more I think it's just alarming. Especially considering how many people are thirsting over movie versions of Harry Potter characters, or the Stranger Things kids, which means that they're writing and/or thinking about actual, real life child bodies. And it totally bleeds over into real life attitudes, too. It's impossible to be creating and consuming that sort of content, and not have it affect you. Or, you know, have it say something about your preexisting creepiness. Infantilization of queer men and East Asians is pretty much ubiquitous in fandom culture. My last ex was a rabid anime fan, and I learned the hard way that it's never "just fictional".
my favorite parts :) 1:41 crunchy corn 🌽 6:35 the two bbgs 6:43 go buy coopers necklaces 8:31 same man 9:08 “Kelly, you’re never going to believe what happened on september 11th-“ 9:47 that poor mic 😭 11:09 absolutely dead 💀 11:23 twins 11:45 we’re suffering together cooper 12:16 my guy gives short dude energy 13:38 holy geez 14:15 yes please cooper 14:45 my guy is cutting the cords 16:23 justin bieber interview moment 20:18 his laugh is so sweet 🥹 23:40 “it’s ok to be gay” ✨ 31:16 love you cooper! ❤
The craziest thing is I used to work as a live steamer (non sexual) on a different app before tik tok was a thing and now I’m seeing all the exact same issues I had play out in the public eye. The levels of degradation, tribalism between streamers and their alliances, the streamer battles and their political undertones… it’s like looking at myself 7 years ago
Normalizing the infantilization of anyone is just a few shorts steps away from normalizing sexual attraction to actual children. It's an incredibly dangerous slippery slope. It starts innocently enough, but the end is a really really dark place.
I had to start avoiding one of my past guy friends because he always wanted me to say cutesy things for him every time he saw me and if i didn't do it he'd get all pouty and not talk to me. Also he would get weirded out when i would tell sex jokes or say dark things, but then he'd make sexual comments at me...wtf even was that... i even had my other friend intervene and text him to knock it off but the friend came back saying that the past guy friend found it hard to do and that it was hard for him to stop... then i cut him off completely -_- sick of that shit.
Yep there is A LOT to unpack there. But it's not a new thing that is going to be dangerous it is a very real reality already happening for decades heck even centuries and in many places in the world. How normalized is the school girl kink? So many people think that's normal but that's LITERALLY acting like you're having sex with a child
unfortunately the normalization of being attracted to children has already been happening for a long time. there has been a “minor attracted person” thing that is now being incorporated to the lgbt pride flags so now it would be a “hate crime” to say that it is a crime to be attracted to children. so disgusting. i hate the world.
Its so good seeing someone talking about misophonia because I’ve been struggling with it for soo long and no one ever understands. Thank you. Its sooooo draining having it. I‘ve never seen anyone explain the extreme level rage you feel when hearing or seeing something triggering.
I've been a silent watcher for a few weeks now, and hearing you talk about misophonia made me geniuely smile. No one understands what its like to have miso unless you actually have it yourself. You described it perfectly, you can't control the geniune anger you feel, but you can't help but feel bad for being angry at people just geniuely....eating. A basic human function.
Omg I totally get it. I have misophonia. School is hell. People chew with their mouths open and I just wanna punch them. I can't even eat dinner with my family anymore cause it sets me off.
Oh, I have that with sneezing. I reflexively say “shut up” whenever my family or friends sneeze, and I say it’s a joke - but it’s really not. Even my own sneezes make me want to punch myself in the face. Just know that, if you ever sneeze in public (ESPECIALLY if you don’t cover your mouth) and you feel eyes burning into your very core, that is me trying my hardest not to wring your neck like a wet towel.
It's so nice to see a creator have merch that they genuinely care about and designed. Like you can tell that he put thought into the necklaces and they're a pretty unique concept for merch
Bro, I have Misophonia and just now I realise that not all people have to beg from their friends to scream the things they want to say because whispering drives them fucking insane. Even my PARENTS didn't know this thing has a name!
I'm actually a fan of the guy at 12:38- his name is Jack Townson and his whole thing is that his channel/vids are all in character! He's a poet and an author of a romantic fantasy series about vampires, and his lives are all in character as one of the vampires from his books. His audience is definitely not meant to be children, it's supposed to be his readers, or other readers of adult fantasy! His wife helps him run the page and I believe she also plays a character. I can see why someone just coming across his page without context would find it a bit weird though. Personally, I really hate the tiktok algorithm and the fact that it makes it very hard to curate your own experience, because that's how you get stuff suggested to you without context and it's how you create a breeding ground of people just doing weird stuff for money.
Good to know. He popped in my reels, and then I saw Brittany Broski talk about him. I was like, this is odd, but you do you. There is an audience for everything. He isn't harming anybody, right?
I remember watching a lady try to put on every pair of pants she owns on at once on tiktok live. She kept stopping constantly to thank people for gifts, but I wanted to see her try and put on more pants. Still less weird than everything Cooper talked about
I FELT that misophonia rant. I also have misophonia and omg I hate everyone and myself for it. And, I hate ASMR. Even the mention of it makes me cringe. You're the first person I've heard talk about it and I'm genuinely so thankful for that. Makes me feel less alone in this world.
They are more connected than you think! I experience both phenomenon. Sometimes they even change! One second kissy sounds are my jam, the next minute you make any organic noises around me and i wanna scream. For me Misophonia is like. ASMR but BAD like theyre the same feelings being processed differently. I gots the 'tism tho so ymmv
I relate too!! I’ve had to physically get up and leave the table when i was younger because i’d get so angry and overstimulated. It’s gotten better as i’ve gotten older but i still get that rage and self hatred/guilt, you definitely aren’t alone!
I think the necklaces are such a unique thing for a content creator to be selling--and it feels so genuine to see you doing it! Happy to see that there's so many people that love them :]
I also need to point out that mukbangs and mouth sounds are not the only asmr there is (as you can see by the bombass skeleton) there's so much good stuff out there, you just have to look
What I thought when I read your comment, I immediately thought of the baby with the gigantic head and is clearly in massive amounts of pain, but the parents keep the poor thing alive for clout and money...
As a now adult woman who started being “casually” sexualised by adult men at an early age (the first time I got catcalled was when I was 10 and has been a regular occurrence since then), seeing people capitalise on trying to infantilise and sexualise themselves at the same time makes me deeply deeply uncomfortable. I have nothing but respect for sex workers, but at the same time the people who actively make themselves literally appear to be a child for their sex work does nothing but perpetuate the disgusting rhetoric that grown ass men abusing children constantly use of “she looks so mature how was I supposed to know she was only 15.” Or 13, or 10. Of course the only people at fault for assaulting or grooming or catcalling kids are the pieces of shit that are doing it. I just think that as adult women (especially if you’re doing sex work) we need to actively avoid promoting this sort of infantilisation/sexualisation combo in order to protect young girls. If we are making ourselves look younger, that by design makes younger people look like our age, and gives disgusting men more excuses to use when they try to gaslight us and others into thinking that they didn’t mean any harm or do anything wrong because “hOw WaS hE sUppOsED tO kNOw”
Nah I'm sorry they know what they're doing when they act and dress up as kids to get more tips and money. Let's not kid that grown ass adults don't willingly choose to imitate underage dress and behavior as if they don't know.
Find me a woman that hasn't been sexualized as a child and I'll give you the holy grail lol But why the first thing you do is to put the blame on the woman, for the actions of men? Let's unpack that, because acting cutesy and "childlike" with pastel colors and shit to get more money is one thing, but sitting through that live and enjoying it to the point of actually giving money to her is another, and you know very well that if she weren't making bank with this shit she would simply do something else. She likes the cutesy aesthetics, and you also don't know how her porn is, if she acts childish in there too or not btw, so why you go immediately into judging her, when she may as well just do cringy TikToks and adult ass porn? You're giving credit to the absolute LIES that creeps and pedos say("I didn't know her age" "how was I supposed to know?") in the goofy attempt to find some pearl clutching argument against a sex worker that is simply bringing money on the table to eat, and doing nothing illegal. I don't like anything of that aesthetic or kink too, but I don't need to point my finger at her, I know why she's doing it and the weirdos donating to her are WAY more likely to have illegal shit in their hardrive, and you know that damn well. She's simply doing what brings her more money since it's her job, no weirdos no money.
I find the people sending them gifts more bizarre tbh...😭 like WHY would you spend your money to make someone react to your gift like an NPC..? I mean to each their own, they can spend their money as they please but i just don't get it.
I’ve lived almost 30 years and haven’t seen a TH-camr do these reviews while sending such genuine love and non-judgement to the people they’re reviewing “if you’re watching this, I love you SO MUCH”
8:32 I CANNOT DESCRIBE HOW OVERJOYED I WAS WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THAT STUPID FINGER SUCKING THING PEOPLE DO. IT MAKES ME SO UNBELIEVABLY ANGRY MAN. Misophonia is so annoying 😭 You're the ONLY person I've ever seen that can relate to that feeling and it makes me so happy.
UGH I know! It's never talked about!!! I can't even eat dinner with my family cause my mom chews with her mouth open and makes me so mad but then I'm like... thats my mom... she's just eating.
As a 19 yr old girl I absolutely agree with your comments on ppl acting like children only to promote their OF. Its very telling that the women that infantilize themselves for prn are very popular (ex. belle delphine). The men that are into that are very gross and it's disturbing how many of them there are. but the women that do this aren't absolved of blame at all. They are continuing the cycle for money and popularity and feeding these creeps what they want. The men that are into this are also the ones that say women hit the wall at 25 so please don't feel wrong for criticizing them.
EXACTLYYYY, it’s so scary how linked those people attracted to that behaviour are to beauty standards, especially those for women or femininity, and they’re often the same people who say ‘youthfulness is most attractive’, and set that as an expectation for feminine presenting people and women in many aspects of life, like skincare and supplements, as an example, there’s endless types of anti aging creams and supplements which are often only marketed to women and make them feel ashamed of aging normally, which encourages more of this same behaviour from people to appeal to creeps because they feel that they need to be youthful to an extreme degree and the cycle goes on again.
Tbh some of them are alright and I respect them for the hustle ig? I don't fault other women for that. It's not like they've single-handedly created the market, they're just taking advantage of it. Edit/ Everyone's saying it caters to pedophiles, but I don't see how adult women using cutesy voices = a free pass to assault children. It's not and NEVER will be. Can we focus on the actual pedos out in the open on places like Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok rather than attack random women for doing what makes them money. There are also plenty of people who like the weird anime girl voices without being attracted to children. Now I'm not saying that isn't weird as hell, but they do exist.
@@kevinthefabulous1118and at whose expense, because who is more accessible/vulnerable to creeps? actual impressionable young girls and not adult s-workers 😕
@@kevinthefabulous1118 I highly disagree. You can still make adult content and make money from it without sexualizing childish behavior. I don't respect people that cater to pdf files.
It's so nice hearing about someone else who has misophonia and that was such a good description of *exactly* how I feel. To anyone with misophonia reading this I hope you never get harassed with sounds and have a wonderful day
when I was a kid and I watched a tv show or movie that had something embarrassing happen to the main character I used to get super uncomfortable. I didn't want to watch media that was about super awkward kids/teens because I couldn't stand how physically uncomfortable it made me feel.I eventually grew out of that and could laugh at awkward situation comedy and watch cringe comedy stuff. This brought that feeling back. This stuff is so immensely uncomfortable and awkward that it gives me knots in my stomach. Congrats on that achievement.
WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT MISOPHONIA I STARTED CRYING... it's such a horrible thing to live with and there's nothing you can really do to deal with it since it's relatively new (coined by jastreboff in 2001) but thanks to the technological advancements of the past few years we're getting somewhere! ever since i found out i had misophonia/symptoms (1 1/2 years), i've been researching ways to help deal with it and it does help! try and get noise cancelling headphones/earbuds! i've had better experience with earbuds (since you can hide them easily, and they aren't usually /in my experience/ seen as rude when you put them on)!! also figuring out what sounds trigger you can help. and some people (most? unsure) with misophonia also have misokinesia! it's like misophonia but seeing things triggers you :) take that into consideration!! you are not weird for having misophonia, there are people out there who care, and you can get through this!! sending love to all misophonics ❤
i am so happy for the people getting their bag, but i don't understand how they aren't dying from embarrassment. i can't imagine sitting alone in my room doing what they do. it's actually really impressive.
One time I stumbled across a live of a girl with stickers over only her nips, crack, and upside down triangle if you know what I mean and she was taking one off every time someone sent a gift and I have permanent brain damage I’ll never heal from🥲💀
I can’t even bring myself to post NORMAL content because I die of embarrassment before posting… I wish I had even a fraction of the idgaf energy that these people have
@@Peculiarpossumdawg what a self report. The algorithm shows that stuff to people who seek out those things. Nobody I know, nor me, get lives like that on our feed
as a s*x worker i 1000% agree on the acting like a kid thing, within the community im a part of its important to be aware of people who do specific things in their content that arent really ok, depends on the specifics but ive had mutuals on twt let me know when i follow someone who's a p*do sympathizer or other things that are generally not acceptable (relating to racism, transphobia, what i meantioned above, etc)
@@DiamondWorldTH-camsome people just genuinely love sw! And it’s such a broad industry too! I’m not a swer but I have a special interest in kink and fetish history and I’m friends with a lot of swers and it’s sooooooooo much more than “being an object” lots of folks only do content that they themselves find fun and attractive to do!
@@DiamondWorldTH-camSome peeps aren’t degrading themselves just because they do SW. If a person can do it at a legal age, with a consenting adult, on terms that they agree to, then I don’t see any advantage being taken. It’s just any other service job
I've always been so interested in people like Cherry (first woman) just due to the fact that her ASMR content was so popular and a lot of her audience were children and she kept her adult work and ASMR seemingly separate but it kinda just turned to all of her content being nsfw most likely due to the fact that it pays better. Something I've noticed about the adult world that I think needs to be talked about more is the fact that "normal" TH-camrs do the things that adult content creators do and they will get canceled for it but for their adult counterparts, people don't really bat an eye and can possibly continue to hurt people. The whole acting like a child thing isn't illegal but can bring up many ethical questions.
YEAH NO I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THINKING ABT THAT i watch a lot of asmr content so cherry crush is just implanted in my mind unfortunately. it used to be "the joke" that she does nsfw work (and like, get that bag girl) but her asmr content got more and more nsfw that to this day i am Sure she was the reason (or a huge part of the reason) that yt flags asmr videos instinctually.
i have misophonia too!! it’s the absolute worst because ive been going to therapy and counseling for it since 5th grade yet, if anything, it has gotten worse. and i totally agree with you on with the skeleton thing, for the past 2 nights i’ve somehow found my eyes glued to the screen watching those.
Homie, the reason you're growing so fast is cuz unlike some other critics, you're not outright bashing people for veiws. Keeps it up, we love you Cooper!!!!
If you ever consider doing a part 2 of this, PLEASE cover those people with the crying filter who stack lug nuts on top of each other and then fake-beg and edge you at the last one until someone donates. I’ve been getting them on my For You page NONSTOP and it actually drives me insane-
@@daughterphoenixthere’s a lot of these “edging” type lives where they get to the last bit of something and take a super long time to finish it. Like the egg peeling where they’ll try and get the shell off an egg without breaking the layer between the shell and the liquid. Every time I used to come across those it was when there was only a tiny bit of shell left at the very top
I personally feel disturbed watching someone act sexual and dress provocatively like an adult would (and should if they so choose).......but then they're talking and using the mannerisms of a child or of a person that has the mental capacity of one
I have misophonia as well, and you have put it so well into words and expression how awful mouth sounds are. Thanks for sharing Cooper. It’s always fun finding fellow ear sufferers haha
Me too - I would genuinely marry my boyfriend but the sound of him chewing is worse than anyone else I have ever encountered. It breaks my heart to think about living with that for the rest of my life lmao
Whispering is the thing I find most vile and a couple days ago I scrolled past a tiktok with someone whispering in the most disgusting, unhinged way that made me ill. I can't even describe what they did because they were just whispering but I felt so revolted, so violated. Just thinking about it makes me cringe. Ban whispering, I say.
i think i may have it because i get so pissed off at people chewing and asmr too like slime asmr they drive me insane i gave to leave the room sometimes bc of it
i love that you talked about misophonia here, no one really understands, and my vather sometimes tells me to go eat somewhere else when slowly become enragen again because of the way he is chewing, love to see that i am not the only one with that problem
27:57 im autistic and dated a 22 year old dude when i was 18 who constantly infantilized me even in sexual situations and i hated it so ive always had really confused feelings about stuff like this. cause like on one hand there doesnt seem to be anything really wrong, everybody involved are adults and they dont seem like they're actively trying to pretend to be a kid (i dont think?), but at the same time i remember how that felt and that icky feeling being infantilized like that gave me and i get that same feeling watching clips like that. on some level, something feels off and really uncomfortable about it.
I think the icky feeling of being infantialized is super valid. That definitely sounds like an icky situation. I'm 21 and I couldn't imagine dating an 18 year old. Then constantly making them feel infantialized with that? Like that's absolutely gross and your feelings are okay and so real.
I'm also autistic so I get how it's hard to navigate the feels and your reactions to people. That's perfectly okay. I hope your in a better place now friend
Always trust ur gut... if u felt icky, it's likely bc he WAS imagining something sick. Not saying that's ALWAYS the case.... but probably 99% of the time, it is. There's ppl who sexualize DIAPERS and say it's "not about kids" 🤨 but wtf. That blurs the line between "kink" and depravity. IMO that ain't a kink
I once watched a TikTok live of a guy very slowly and tediously removing the shell from a raw egg. It ended with him successfully removing the shell and then dropping his phone on the egg and popping it while trying to adjust the angle
I did OF for a while and I'm a really small, young looking woman (I get mistaken for a minor in my daily life) but it's completely possible to not lean into the infantilization of childish behaviors/styles. There will always be creeps who like you for your young appearance and you can't control that, but you can control how much you play up that aspect of your content. There's no excuse for this weirdness
Aren't you the same person who supports feminism?... How can you be supporting women's rights and degrade your body for creepy men at the same time? Your body is worth more than money
You hit it on the head that it’s content that gets engagement but isn’t fulfilling. As someone who was in the p*rn industry those infantilized videos get a lot of engagement in those circles because unfortunately there are a lot of creeps. I think people try to cover it up by saying it’s kink but at its core it’s pretty sinister.
My thing with Cherry Crush is that she really obviously knows what she is doing, since she was an adult content creator now doing lives on a kids app..
i was just going to say the same thing. but tiktok is not a kids app. it's not even marketed as one. adults wouldn't be allowed on there if that were the case. it may be 13+ but ultimately it is the parent's decision to let their child use it. Cherry Crush knows what she's doing by catering to *simps*, not children.
@@zombii_galtiktok used to be musicaly. It was 100% for children. We all know a large portion of tiktoks user base is children. It’s literally just brain rot from how much porn has been normalized that makes us think we need to be okay with “spicy” content creators making blatantly sexualized content that has an appeal to children because of the colors, childlike behavior, cartoons, etc.
@@akaste4413 yeah, it's so weird that creators like cherry crush and belle delphine and whoever else are so popular because they do the baby voice and act all cutesy and stuff, i'm not saying it means anything but also it majorly gives me the ick that it's supposed to be "spicy" yet they act like little kids...there's acting cute and then acting like a baby
And she’s promoting her OF on her lives. But she also has lives where she’s out of character just talking and hanging out. I actually like cherry crush as an influencer, she seems genuine. But she knows exactly what she’s doing.
I know it’s probably a little overwhelming to be perceived by more and more people as your channel grows… but just remember we’re here because we love what we saw. You’re funny, charming, and inspiring and intelligent! We can connect with the content you put out. Don’t think about the volume of people who are watching, just keep putting out videos like you always have and we’ll support you ❤❤
I just gotta say this here bc I was so shocked at the quality of the necklaces! They’re so freaking high quality!! I didn’t realize how large and nice the beads were going to be, I’m so happy with my necklace 🥹🥹
I love how Cooper can go from *kissy face* to *dead serious* in a milisecond. Respect ❣ (Also, don't be anxious about expanding your audience, cuz we genuinely love you and your videos 💖💖💖)
Coop, i definitley agree on the whole take on infantilizing ones self for views, that bubbly childish act should feel so demeaning and wrong and its sad that so many people are so easily drawn to it
Yeah he’s super cool but i worry about the fact that he properly believes he’s a real vampire. Like he’s said that he feeds on ppl’s energy instead of blood.
@@justafellowgamer7664 Let the man live his vampiric life. He says he's a vampire, let him live that life. Sanguine (blood feeding) vampires aren't the only vampire type.
@@skinless_milk I read things that weren't Bram Stoker's Dracula. It's so inaccurate. I've also read things on spiritual awakenings. Vampires, Fae, Lycans.. they all exist. Some people even seek out to become vampires. Not just Sanguine, but the other types too. I know quite a few Lycans and Fae, as well as a few Vampires.
very grateful for the "positive energy hurts 'em" person, she sends out bad energy to the devil's people because good energy would be painful, meaning that bad energy is good for them, truly a generous woman
I’ll forever remember the only TikTok live I ever did with my mom and it’s because I was explaining the history of the English monarchy to her and she thought the world needed to know 😂
@@Kaylin_elizabeth HAHAH me!! When I watched the crown it was really bad for my phone storage bc I had like 40 separate tabs open JUST for like European monarchs and like family trees on top of my 100😭😭 I understand
In my experience with tiktok lives, I’ve seen people (woman almost always) sexualizing themselves in really weird ways. Like one girl was squirting butter on her face and one time I saw someone wear a shirt with no bra, walking on a treadmill super fast and pouring water on herself. And idk…if they are ok with doing that kind of stuff then whatever, but it still rubs me the wrong way. Also sometimes I get lives of children or adults on hospital beds and then someone else is like begging towards the camera and I don’t wanna be a b*tch or anything but those kinds of lives are everywhere and it feels really exploitative. Like for all we know, those hospital beds could be fake and those children are being forced to sit there so people scroll and see them and then give them money out of sympathy. It’s just weird. Also sometimes I get lives where people are just walking in really dark and creepy forests at night, like they are in the middle of nowhere and they just keep walking and it’s genuinely kinda creepy(those I actually end up watching sometimes) Idk, tiktok lives weird me out, even during musically days I don’t think I’ve ever come across a normal livestream ever. Going back to that whole sexualization topic: fetish culture on tiktok is a huge problem and I feel like nobody really ever talks about it. The way I see it, these are just people making a quick buck but at the same time something about it feels really weird idk. I get tiktok is not a platform made for kids and whatever, but I do think some adjustments should be made to how tiktok live works
Omg I've seen the treadmill girl. I was like "for freeeee?" Lol I also see this one girl, she's black with long blonde hair and some kind of accent, I can't figure it out, and she does like the elf girl but doesn't infantilize herself. If someone gifts the cowboy hat she says something about being a cowgirl let me ride it or something. I laughed so hard. I think she also does corn
i think women tend to expose themselves online like this because they know anyone will pay for them doing the most disgusting/dumbest shit. it’s a main base of people enabling women by acting like children/weirdly sexualizing themselves by throwing money at them and interacting her content. it’s quite unfortunate
@@veekiwi you say enabling women like it's a bad thing. i say SWers can make their buck, how is it 'enabling' like a bad thing for women to earn some money?
theres a video called "why tik tok is worse than we think" and I feel like its worth a listen. Its basically talking about how there is required to be a board representing the interests of Chinas government all large companies in China including tik tok. This board gets final say of all decisions pushed by the company. The chinese government themselves have made public their plans to use tik tok as a weapon against the youth of the US by pushing sexual and "brainless" content to american audiences, while pushing science focused and more actual educational content to the chinese version of the app.
@@felixhenson9926 i don’t mean in general. i mean the weirdos that know that guys like borderline illegal shit and sexualize infancy and shit like that.
8:30 when I tell you I was bouncing off the walls when you said you have misophonia like I do- it's just such a relief when you realize there's other people like you (I know this is quite off topic but it made me happy)
The thing is, kids DONT act like that. Most anime's kinda, sexualize or mature children, and make them act like adults, which is unrealistic. That's why I like ghibli movies, they portray kids in a very fun, realistic ways.
THIS IS SOOOO IRREFLEVANT but i have really bad Misophonia to the point i struggle with eating sometimes because i can hear myself chewing, hearing that one of my favorite creators struggles with it and CARES ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE THAT MIGHT ALSO HAVE IT is so heartwarming to me. Very weird thing to point out but means a lot, thank you! 8:30
Omg I found someone with it mine isn't as bad as that but loads of people I know take advantage of it like blasting asmr or making the noises that trigger it. Does that happen to you
@@lolitzi47 yes, often times it does. I also live in a household of people that don't believe in it so whenever they're eating and I come around, they chew extra loud with their mouths open. Happens at school too. People find it funny, but don't seem to understand that it genuinely hurts my brain, me having extreme anger issues doesn't help either lol. If you ever struggle with those people, I recommend trying headphones or earbuds to tune it out. Or make another really loud noise so you won't have to hear it. If you annoy them, they'll stop eventually.
@@Stutzie0 thanks. I only found out what it was 6 months ago but I've always been annoyed by specific asmr like some of it is fine then other stuff makes me want to punch the person who made it. I get triggered by tapping and really loud mouth sounds
I don’t have it quite as bad, but I do feel for you! For me, if I’m the one who makes the sounds it’s usually ok (I do occasionally get bothered by my own chewing, but that’s only if I think about it too much and then I think it’s more that I’m in my mind at that point), but if anyone else does I want to explode. I wish you a blissfully friendly sounds day!
I think your mindset is in the right place to be responsible with a larger group of viewers. You're entertaining, not disrespectful. It's something that sets you apart, in my opinion. I think you deserve the popularity because you can stay humble, just surround yourself with people who keep you grounded, and you'll do well while still having as much fun👍
@@桜_秋ちゃん to you, my friends ancestors have gone through thag and it isn’t as funny to her and it’s disrespectful to the people who lost their lives. Sure i find it funng too but sometimes it’s much
28:08 TW!!! I am a 18 year old woman who has been sexualized since a young age by older men and to see these adult women dress up and act like children to appeal sexually is so nasty and feeding into the porn industries. There's a lot of good video essays out there about this, but I'll try my best. Watching videos on the book Lolita is a good start. It's also heavily toxic for any young girl growing up with access to the internet who sees this and the positive reactions. It just makes me so uncomfortable and I wish it wasn't so normalized. It's in society more than we think. Women are supposed to appear like that ( through the eyes of men, social media, porn, etc ) and it's disgusting and sad. It's everywhere. Sorry if I'm all over the place. I get emotional and they tend to have more control over me.
It's as weird & disgusting as step daddy and step child pron it's a depiction of " Child Pron " just hidden in plain sight. Normal people like us can see right through it. It needs to be banned just like the parents who run accounts for they child knowingly objectifying them...
i honestly thought that having Misophonia was such a rare thing and Ive never seen a TH-camr talk about it either. just comforting to know it's not just me lmao
Same! It's awful too...especially when I was like in school and had to be around soooo many people at lunchtime! I'd skip meals so I could be somewhere no one was.
no bc I have to leave the room when someone is eating which is almost constantly bc I live with a lot of people but then I'm being guilt tripped like "you never hang out with us I guess you just dont like us" and my dad gets mad that I dont sit at the dinner table. like it sucks so much bc then I feel guilty like I shiuldnt be mad at them for doing something normal like I cant just ask them to not eat or not breath heavy or sniffle a lot (idk if it's a misophonia thing or just a me thing but when people like snort to get mucus out of their throat I legit want to shrivel into myself and cry)
i definitely agree with the thing where people make the intentional choice to make themselves look and act like children to appeal to pedos... like people can say it's 'just e-girl makeup' all they want but it's obviously not just the makeup, it's speech patterns, mannerisms, the way they dress. it's totally creepy.
Hey Cooper, I think everyone really likes you recently because you give off such good vibes and seem very nice and non-judgemental. Try not to be nervous, you're doing great!
I recently subbed to him and I enjoy his content and overall personality. He seems like a fun dude to sit and have a long chat with, without getting bored. His hair is amazing too!
The only person i ever met who 100% went fully in on the "om nom! Crunchy corn!!" Style behaviour was a kinky age regressor with a whoooole lot of traumatic hangups. On one hand - all the sympathy and compassion in the world. On the other hand - the behaviour came from a childish aspect of theirself that had been treated very badly, and they were trying to cope by being sexual in a childish way. So im not really comfy seeing it.
@@elliotostling5850 sure,it's doesn't have to be. But choosing your age regression specifically to engage in ageplay, infantilising and sexualising yourself on purpose, really is
@@crowspirit5154 but that’s not age regression, that’s kink and it’s completely different and a separate thing Age regression is never ever ever sexual
@elliotostling5850 I mean OK, thankyou for the correction. I would still argue that there is significant overlap, but I respect your point of view. Is there a better word to use? I do feel that if I specify the environment of the age regression is in a context of ageplay *for sex*, then it is sexual. But is there a better word?
Like even if the age regression is instinctual or not something that can be controlled. I appreciate the difference between a reaction to trauma and just pretending.
Describing it as an act that reminds one of the sad clown trope really hits it on the head. Also, please tell us more about craft days with your mom and her friends. That gives me life and sounds delightful!
okay i didn't know misophonia was an actual diagnosis before so THANK YOU for that because i genuinely suffer from this on a daily basis and now i know i'm not just crazy
Can we all agree that cooper is wholesome af and needs to be protected at all costs. He's the one youtuber I can watch knowing that he'll never be problematic. So respectful the way he dose his videos and talks about the people in them.
He has done problematic things but he owned up them thankfully, idealizing him isn’t good but recognizing he is willing to take accountability is better
I HATE the sound of people eating like you wanna push their head in the food and say here now eat! i feel bad because i have yelled at my sister for chewing "Too loud" multiple different times. i don't know how some people can enjoy listening to people eat. it makes my rage fuel. and i Love people, hanging out with them. but as soon as as i hear chewing i get so angry. it feels wrong but you physically can't control it.
Hey Cooper, I found your channel about a month ago and just wanna say I’m so glad I did. I’ve been binge watching your older videos and they all have brought me so much joy during a tough time. I also reconnected with a friend yesterday we bonded over the fact that we both watch your videos! Keep doing what you’re doing, you brighten everyone’s days more than you know!❤️
THANK YOU ABOUT THE MISOPHONIA THING CAUSE ITS REAL! I have that & it literally drives me insane when my man or anyone does that i yell at him about it all the time & then feel like a pos lmao
i think the reason it’s so uncomfortable is because when ppl use content like that to direct others to their “other platforms” it kinda shows those people who enjoy there “content” are predators. in a sense it may seem they are inherently saying it’s okay by directing people towards them using a younger version of themselves. BUT it’s honestly just shows how disgusting the overall social view of intimacy has become over the years 😢
I think a lot of the reason why acting like a child is super popular for women is because during the rise of feminism, there was this idea that men wanted purity because adult women were too radicalized so they started sexualizing minors or people close to being adults, but not yet. That’s why I think it’s such a big industry still. Also, I’m bisexual so I’M GAY AND GOING CRAZY IN THE COMMENTS
The sexual infantilization of women is nothing more than a substitute for actual p*dophila and it has nothing to do with purity. Also, a lot of predatory men often want young women solely because they can control and exploit them much easier as opposed to a grown woman who has life experience and the financial freedom to leave a bad relationship. That and the deeply rooted misogyny where some men claim to believe that women's sexual value diminishes the more they have sex-- which is really just an excuse for why predators justify going after younger women as opposed to women in their age range. People who only date younger are typically total losers and walking red flags. The exploitation of young women and girls has nothing to do with a desire for purity-- it's about power and control.
The first person used to be super famous in the asmr community, and also is a corn star… The way she acts is uncomfortable for sure, you’re not alone in this.
Hey! So the infantilisation thing is actually a really interesting topic. There's certain pop cultures, like 'kawaii' culture as an example, that appears to be more on the side of feeling cute and expressing that through 'kawaii' clothes and merch but almost always gets pipelined into pornographic view of children because of association. This kind of 'cutesy' expression as an adult can be a little bit of a minefield as you're sort of nurturing your inner child, allowing yourself the vulnerability we associate with a child and puberty, but also you are an adult with adult mature feelings and fantasies as well. I guess to me it's a really stark look at the duality of vulnerability and performance within a sexualised culture? Like this woman isn't doing anything more than allowing herself to be a cute character on the internet. But because she is playing this character, and showing vulnerability by doing so, she is also leaving herself open to being exploited or sexualised (as anyone is open to in these spaces). There is nothing that a generically attractive woman can do on the internet that will not be sexualised by someone somewhere. And if she decides that she wants to make a coin off of that, more power to her! It is tough though because you don't want to encourage creepy behaviour or the sexualisation of young girls... But unfortunately beauty standards for women are to look as young as possible (ew), and not everyone is in a place where they can fight against that kind of systemic weight. Your points are valid, but it's certainly not a creator issue and more of a wider issue to do with the policing of sexuality and the exploitation of young women (and how these two systems can be contradictory as well as true!) Also a side note, it would be cool to put the people your screenshottings links in the bio or at least on the screen! It just means that your content reacting to their content at least has a link to benefiting them as original content makers as well as yourself ☺️
I can't believe what I just read. I would understand this point of view if the p0rn industry wasn't FILLED with the shit that woman is doing, jumping around, making weird high pitched noises, acting 'innocent' and obedient to the watchers and dressed in these clothes but you're trying to tell me she's exploring her "inner child"? There are so many men who jerk off to this shit and she's so very AWARE, knowing that she also does p0rn with that very 'aesthetic' is beyond messed up. This really REALLY isn't a case "Stop sexualizing women in everything". That grown ass woman knows very well what she's doing and the audience she's feeding. A hustle is fine but taking advantage of an audience built off of ped0philes/men that think acting like a kid is cute or sexy doesn't make you any better from them. And asking him to credit her is beyond insane to me, you can't be seriously vouching support for this behavior and having face to ask him to do so?
I totally agree ,women who do sexy content behaving or dressing in a childlike manner, are fuelling a demand (not the only demand obvs) and it should be criticised it’s nice to see a bloke pointing it out
I don't get the appeal, it's just weird to me. I feel like it's the creeps and pedos that like adults acting like children because they are attracted to children. If that makes sense? I just don't think it's normal to find that sexy as an adult. 🤷♀️
This is my first video of Cooper’s, and let me just say: Not only was this an INSTANT subscribe, but also the humor is peak, the fit is chill yet immaculate, and THE BACKGROUND??? HELLO??? Dino puppet guy going “dododododododo” is so amazing. also hella about the fushigi ball guy… no, I will not be taking questions at this time.
Cooper gives such short king energy even tho he’s 6’2
I need to figure out how to act my height✋😔🤚
HES 6'2?
he doesn’t even look tall😭
Lmao he does
@@FilmCooper ur too babygirl
What hurts me the most is that these people finish filming or end the live then go on with their lives like they didn’t dress up like an elf and say “crunchy corn”
Oh she's 100% an adult star and ASMR actress, it's definitely for fetish reasons.
you'd be surprised the lengths people can go for money
Cherry Crush, the girl at the start that youre talking abt, has been doing shit similar to her lives since 2017 lol. She made asmr similar to it, aswell as with suggestive topics to bait and embarrassing shit like that.
@@hel272720 dollars is a small price to pay for my heterosexuality
gotta pay the bills
It’s not the people DOING the TikTok lives, it’s the people actually watching and giving them money that I worry about
And i bet half of them are children 😩
honestly its both😭
IM TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHI ACTUALLY ARE THESE PEOPLE???
And the content creator that knows what they're doing... it's both
Honestly this, like who has that kind of disposable income to just pay money for a dude to fake blow up a balloon wtf
I saw a live with a teenage girl getting ready for school and doing makeup, the comments said really gross things to her, and she ended up having to leave. I feel so bad for her.
Fkd up that a teenager can't even do a GRWM for high-school. Some people's brains are broken.
Yes I frequently join this girls live (she’s like 18 or 19 I’m not sure) and she does 80’s hair and makeup and listens to a lot of metal and I can’t tell you the amount times she’s had to deal with old men calling a poser, insulting her looks, or saying very sexual inappropriate things to her astonishing
@@2turg_2furiousI know who ur talking about i think
@@isabelle3381 is it Ziggy?
@@2turg_2furiousShe doesn't do 80's makeup, and she didn't have a large following
Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for the "anime girl" comment about how anime treats girls. I always feel like I scream this (as a former anime lover) from the top of my lungs and its like no one listens or see the problems I see.
No yes a I like anime but can we stop sexualizing little girls or even just have a character who is a girl with a fucking personality it’s infuriating
I know what you mean! I hate it. It’s so gross. I hardly watch anime anymore because of it. When my boyfriend and I are in the mood for anime we have to always look it up to see if it has anything weird with little girls. If it does, it totally ruins an anime for us.
I watched Dragon Ball for the first time today, and holy crap I cannot believe that was allowed. Modern anime is a little but better, or Chainsaw Man where, yes, it's bad but it's so dumb that I laugh about it and it doesn't take it's self seriously
New additional reasons to watch Cooper: watching him sweetly/nervously/awkwardly accept that we think he's awesome
Also also, historical sneeze explanation: "well, it's not a me, I didn't do that, must be a spirit" 😆😆🤣🤣😆🤣😆🤣
cooper is the greatest ever
Why is he so hot
@@starlightcupcake03 i agree i agree i agree
As someone who has been in the SW/OF industry it’s so frustrating that making yourself look almost infantile is becoming a trend, it just gives individuals who harm children a greater platform.
I skimmed your comment and thought you said "us individuals" 😭 the way I double-taked. I agree, people should stop doing this immediately.
It’s a scary trend in my opinion, I was frustrated with the sexualization of school girls but the infantile behavior is distressing. I feel like it could act as a gateway to actual children.
I absolutely agree. I was doing my SW with OF, Twitter, and Reddit at the time. It was disturbing how many requests I would get to do things that a grown woman shouldn’t be doing. Or being asked to act basically like a child for their pleasure. I absolutely refused any type of request, it made me very uncomfortable and those types of people are what made me question being in that line of work in the first place. Ultimately I quit. But it is very frustrating seeing so many other creators making content like that and acting as if it’s fine. They’re fueling and feeding predators and pedos fantasies alike, and the weirdos watching think it’s the more legal way to get off to what they really want. At least from what I’ve seen. It is absolutely unacceptable to me when a man subs to my page, pays money to see me nude, and then tells me via messages that I look so innocent and young (I am 23 so I’m definitely over minor age by a bit) Or that I look 16. Or that if I acted more childish and innocent it would get them going. In no world will that ever be comfortable to hear, and is scary how many dudes think it’s okay. They’re feeding this giant mass of creeps. Like you know by the way these creators look and act, that men don’t see them and say “wow this an attractive grown woman.” They think wow this chick looks like a child. Good way to get off without being completely illegal. That’s how I feel ab it anyway. It freaked me out too much.
literally tho…the ones making more childlike content get so much more attention and stuff and it’s SCARY and GROSS…😨😨(belle delphine is an example)
I agree. When I was a sugar baby at 18 men would ask me to wear diapers and one guy said he only talked to me because I look like his daughter. Horrible !!
This man is just so freaking sweet. Like even though he's making jokes (harmless ones) about certain things he always adds positive stuff and understands that what we think might be cringe isnt a crime and aghh such good vibes + fun jokes.
I like how Cooper speaks his mind while not crossing a line of disrespect unlike some people who react to the same stuff.
the entire purposefully acting like a child thing get's way worse when you find out that the first person also does A LOT of porn
💀 hwat the fuck
i was looking for this comment
Ah, I thought that was her. I discovered her ASMR first 😅
@@nady2130 Shoot I knew it Cherry from the jump lol. Also started with her ASMR. But her nsfw is actually really good. She is a professional after all lol.
WHAT
As an ethical cam model I can back you up on the fact it’s wrong when adults act like children on TikTok because it’s encouraging pedophillia weather it’s intentional or not which let’s face it if your getting gifts and tips it’s intentional.
As a retired s*x worker, I totally agree! Glad to hear someone else in the industry say this ☺️👏🏻
Agreed. I'd say being on tiktok adds to it because when you're behaving like that, you aren't on an app inaccessible or difficult to access for minors, meaning you're catering to either minors or adults who are on an app full of them and are into that behavior. It's not in a controlled space.
Gosh same with people who look younger or have genetic mutations where they look like 7 forever and are literally in a childs body and then go work in these areas.. they want to be seen as adults so bad which i understand, but these grown ahh men dont care about that. They there bc of they fetish lets be fr 💀
@@RedDeadReverie one time a bouncer in the club told me to play into the fact that i look underaged, like with outfits and acting and stuff...... i said no no thank you ☠⚰
i think it screwed me over tho cause most guys who saw me wanted someone young and then i'd start talking about philosophy or some shit lmao. i was meant to be like, one of those Cultured wh0res, not a dancer that looks like i'm 17
@@mightymeatymechew wtf. I'm 17 going on 18 soon, I finished school before my friends and I don't want jack shit to do with an 18 year old let alone a 17 year old. Sounds like these dudes have a very specific problem that needs to involve the police.
Thank you for talking about infantilization. I know a lot of people who I otherwise get along with who make excuses like "she's legal so it's not weird if she acts like a child, it's just a kink" or "you can sexualise fictional minors because they're not real and no harm is being done" ignoring that they are feeding into this culture and they treat me like I'm crazy when I point out how uncomfortable it makes me feel. I like anime but it's hard to find shows that aren't guilty of sexualising a young girl. Not to mention how popular "barely legal" content has always been. It's disgusting. I'm a 25 year old woman and I can't tell you how many times I've felt pressured to act more juvenile or innocent to be attractive to a man
Thank you! It really, really irks me how normalized sexualizing minors has gotten in fandom spaces. The "it's just fictional" excuse is such crap. Obviously, it's not as bad as treating real kids that way. Duh. But that doesn't mean it's suddenly chill! It's weird and creepy that you want to make or look at sexualized content about any 15 year old, real or not.
But I've legit seen arguments that it's somehow female liberation to write tons and tons of porn about 14 year old anime boys. Or that people who are creeped out by it are just prejudiced against autistic women. I was kinda shamed/manipulated into tolerating it for a while, just because I was afraid of accidentally being bigoted. But the older I get, the more I think it's just alarming. Especially considering how many people are thirsting over movie versions of Harry Potter characters, or the Stranger Things kids, which means that they're writing and/or thinking about actual, real life child bodies.
And it totally bleeds over into real life attitudes, too. It's impossible to be creating and consuming that sort of content, and not have it affect you. Or, you know, have it say something about your preexisting creepiness. Infantilization of queer men and East Asians is pretty much ubiquitous in fandom culture. My last ex was a rabid anime fan, and I learned the hard way that it's never "just fictional".
age of consent should be 21 tbh
@@pookieluh so you can die for your country at 18 but not smash? P*ss poor take
One time someone legit said to me “You can’t fetishize fictional characters🙄” like, what the actual hell? People are honestly so screwed in the head.
my favorite parts :)
1:41 crunchy corn 🌽
6:35 the two bbgs
6:43 go buy coopers necklaces
8:31 same man
9:08 “Kelly, you’re never going to believe what happened on september 11th-“
9:47 that poor mic 😭
11:09 absolutely dead 💀
11:23 twins
11:45 we’re suffering together cooper
12:16 my guy gives short dude energy
13:38 holy geez
14:15 yes please cooper
14:45 my guy is cutting the cords
16:23 justin bieber interview moment
20:18 his laugh is so sweet 🥹
23:40 “it’s ok to be gay” ✨
31:16 love you cooper! ❤
C R U N C H Y C O R N
I LOVE THIS OH MY GOD
✋😭🤚
29:21 “I’m Harry Stoiyles”
This is literally perfect for a "funny moments compliation"
@@pastelhotmess9299I MADE ONE OF THOSE IF U WOULD WANNA WATCH IT
The craziest thing is I used to work as a live steamer (non sexual) on a different app before tik tok was a thing and now I’m seeing all the exact same issues I had play out in the public eye. The levels of degradation, tribalism between streamers and their alliances, the streamer battles and their political undertones… it’s like looking at myself 7 years ago
Exactly, it's not a TikTok problem, it's a societal problem. All the hate towards TikTokers is just ignoring the actual issue
This is not the point but I was so confused by live steamer
Normalizing the infantilization of anyone is just a few shorts steps away from normalizing sexual attraction to actual children.
It's an incredibly dangerous slippery slope.
It starts innocently enough, but the end is a really really dark place.
I had to start avoiding one of my past guy friends because he always wanted me to say cutesy things for him every time he saw me and if i didn't do it he'd get all pouty and not talk to me. Also he would get weirded out when i would tell sex jokes or say dark things, but then he'd make sexual comments at me...wtf even was that... i even had my other friend intervene and text him to knock it off but the friend came back saying that the past guy friend found it hard to do and that it was hard for him to stop... then i cut him off completely -_- sick of that shit.
@@ambersquirrel2514check his hard drive
Yep there is A LOT to unpack there. But it's not a new thing that is going to be dangerous it is a very real reality already happening for decades heck even centuries and in many places in the world. How normalized is the school girl kink? So many people think that's normal but that's LITERALLY acting like you're having sex with a child
unfortunately the normalization of being attracted to children has already been happening for a long time. there has been a “minor attracted person” thing that is now being incorporated to the lgbt pride flags so now it would be a “hate crime” to say that it is a crime to be attracted to children. so disgusting. i hate the world.
Preach. Especially if someone irl is encouraging you to roleplay or dress younger or something. RUN.
Its so good seeing someone talking about misophonia because I’ve been struggling with it for soo long and no one ever understands. Thank you. Its sooooo draining having it. I‘ve never seen anyone explain the extreme level rage you feel when hearing or seeing something triggering.
I've been a silent watcher for a few weeks now, and hearing you talk about misophonia made me geniuely smile. No one understands what its like to have miso unless you actually have it yourself. You described it perfectly, you can't control the geniune anger you feel, but you can't help but feel bad for being angry at people just geniuely....eating. A basic human function.
That sounds so annoying. I wish there was a way to hide asmr behind a confirmation wall 😕
@@melancholymountain1232 So do I. Even just the few seconds it takes me to process the ASMR and swipe it away is enough to set me off
Omg I totally get it. I have misophonia. School is hell. People chew with their mouths open and I just wanna punch them. I can't even eat dinner with my family anymore cause it sets me off.
Oh, I have that with sneezing. I reflexively say “shut up” whenever my family or friends sneeze, and I say it’s a joke - but it’s really not. Even my own sneezes make me want to punch myself in the face.
Just know that, if you ever sneeze in public (ESPECIALLY if you don’t cover your mouth) and you feel eyes burning into your very core, that is me trying my hardest not to wring your neck like a wet towel.
REAL
He may not be pregnant but he always delivers
what
what are you talking about hes literally pregnant
Lmaooo
hes got a baby wdym
Not pregnant yet..
It's so nice to see a creator have merch that they genuinely care about and designed. Like you can tell that he put thought into the necklaces and they're a pretty unique concept for merch
I get the sane vibes with B. Dylan Hollis whenever he mentions his cookbook.
Bro, I have Misophonia and just now I realise that not all people have to beg from their friends to scream the things they want to say because whispering drives them fucking insane. Even my PARENTS didn't know this thing has a name!
I'm actually a fan of the guy at 12:38- his name is Jack Townson and his whole thing is that his channel/vids are all in character! He's a poet and an author of a romantic fantasy series about vampires, and his lives are all in character as one of the vampires from his books. His audience is definitely not meant to be children, it's supposed to be his readers, or other readers of adult fantasy! His wife helps him run the page and I believe she also plays a character. I can see why someone just coming across his page without context would find it a bit weird though. Personally, I really hate the tiktok algorithm and the fact that it makes it very hard to curate your own experience, because that's how you get stuff suggested to you without context and it's how you create a breeding ground of people just doing weird stuff for money.
You scared me soo bad I thought that said Jack Townsend
@@ProjectSebastiann oml no 😭
Good to know. He popped in my reels, and then I saw Brittany Broski talk about him. I was like, this is odd, but you do you. There is an audience for everything. He isn't harming anybody, right?
You seem so wholesome🥺 I wanna be friends
@@carveylover nope, not that I've heard! He's just chillin in his writing world and trying to create new indie horror/gothic media I believe.
I remember watching a lady try to put on every pair of pants she owns on at once on tiktok live. She kept stopping constantly to thank people for gifts, but I wanted to see her try and put on more pants. Still less weird than everything Cooper talked about
Did she do it?
@patriciacarrasco9892 Yes, it took so long, but she had about 40 pairs of leggings and a couple pairs of jeans on.
@@enelezed454 let's gooo!!!!
@@enelezed454she had 40 pairs of leggings???? How do you have that many? I've been wearing the same pair since middle school 😭
@REDACTED_Hyde I'm in middle school and still have leggings from like early elementary (like 2nd grade)
I FELT that misophonia rant. I also have misophonia and omg I hate everyone and myself for it. And, I hate ASMR. Even the mention of it makes me cringe. You're the first person I've heard talk about it and I'm genuinely so thankful for that. Makes me feel less alone in this world.
me too 💙 we aren't alone
They are more connected than you think! I experience both phenomenon. Sometimes they even change! One second kissy sounds are my jam, the next minute you make any organic noises around me and i wanna scream. For me Misophonia is like. ASMR but BAD like theyre the same feelings being processed differently. I gots the 'tism tho so ymmv
i feel you there mate, you’re not the only one ♥️
Misophonia makes me so angry 😠 when I hear noises that hurt my ears no thanks.
I relate too!! I’ve had to physically get up and leave the table when i was younger because i’d get so angry and overstimulated. It’s gotten better as i’ve gotten older but i still get that rage and self hatred/guilt, you definitely aren’t alone!
"How are you not embarrassed!?" just keeps repeating the whole time I'm watching this.
I love how in almost every one of Cooper's videos, he like chooses someone who stands out and just goes "I love them."
I think the necklaces are such a unique thing for a content creator to be selling--and it feels so genuine to see you doing it! Happy to see that there's so many people that love them :]
I also need to point out that mukbangs and mouth sounds are not the only asmr there is (as you can see by the bombass skeleton) there's so much good stuff out there, you just have to look
50 dollar necklaces I would find at a gas station to be "affordable and accessible high end fashion" LMFAOOO
@@taylorrains1272IM SCREAMINGGGG
Yeah, they have crystals in them and if those crystals are ethically sourced it justifies the price tag
Also, good quality jewelry is going to be expensive??? That shit takes time and money to make !!
I’m surprised you didn’t talk about the worst lives - the ones where they show a child with an extreme medical condition without the kids consent
That stuff is so sad man. Tiktok live is a ridiculous community
they WHAT
@@Kuffkuff62 tiktok is the culmination of the worst of the internet. its the ultimate end boss of internet culture and its worse state.
What I thought when I read your comment, I immediately thought of the baby with the gigantic head and is clearly in massive amounts of pain, but the parents keep the poor thing alive for clout and money...
@@starznovaJesus Christ I’m so glad I got off tiktok
25:33 “uhm uhmuhm YUM” he sounds like bibble from barbie 😭😭
I giggle and kick my feet everytime cooper posts
Real
Relatable frfr
i get so teehee excited
We all do
Fr tho
It’s really nice seeing someone so open about misophonia. I think a lot of us are embarrassed of it and hide it. This made my day ❤
agreed i feel like im the weird one and being annoying for asking people to stop making mouth noises ❤
I hate gulping and swallowing dude it gives me fits of blind rage lol I will literally hate my friends for the 3 seconds it’s happening
It can make day to day stuff so much more difficult than necessary
🙋♀️🤦♀️🙇♀️
@@ripple329Exact same ✋🏼
I work with someone who is constantly sucking on her teeth or cheeks and making all of these noises. And I want to punch people who do that!
As a now adult woman who started being “casually” sexualised by adult men at an early age (the first time I got catcalled was when I was 10 and has been a regular occurrence since then), seeing people capitalise on trying to infantilise and sexualise themselves at the same time makes me deeply deeply uncomfortable. I have nothing but respect for sex workers, but at the same time the people who actively make themselves literally appear to be a child for their sex work does nothing but perpetuate the disgusting rhetoric that grown ass men abusing children constantly use of “she looks so mature how was I supposed to know she was only 15.” Or 13, or 10. Of course the only people at fault for assaulting or grooming or catcalling kids are the pieces of shit that are doing it. I just think that as adult women (especially if you’re doing sex work) we need to actively avoid promoting this sort of infantilisation/sexualisation combo in order to protect young girls. If we are making ourselves look younger, that by design makes younger people look like our age, and gives disgusting men more excuses to use when they try to gaslight us and others into thinking that they didn’t mean any harm or do anything wrong because “hOw WaS hE sUppOsED tO kNOw”
💯💯💯💯💯
well said ❤
‼️‼️ REAL
Nah I'm sorry they know what they're doing when they act and dress up as kids to get more tips and money. Let's not kid that grown ass adults don't willingly choose to imitate underage dress and behavior as if they don't know.
Find me a woman that hasn't been sexualized as a child and I'll give you the holy grail lol
But why the first thing you do is to put the blame on the woman, for the actions of men? Let's unpack that, because acting cutesy and "childlike" with pastel colors and shit to get more money is one thing, but sitting through that live and enjoying it to the point of actually giving money to her is another, and you know very well that if she weren't making bank with this shit she would simply do something else.
She likes the cutesy aesthetics, and you also don't know how her porn is, if she acts childish in there too or not btw, so why you go immediately into judging her, when she may as well just do cringy TikToks and adult ass porn?
You're giving credit to the absolute LIES that creeps and pedos say("I didn't know her age" "how was I supposed to know?") in the goofy attempt to find some pearl clutching argument against a sex worker that is simply bringing money on the table to eat, and doing nothing illegal. I don't like anything of that aesthetic or kink too, but I don't need to point my finger at her, I know why she's doing it and the weirdos donating to her are WAY more likely to have illegal shit in their hardrive, and you know that damn well.
She's simply doing what brings her more money since it's her job, no weirdos no money.
I find the people sending them gifts more bizarre tbh...😭 like WHY would you spend your money to make someone react to your gift like an NPC..? I mean to each their own, they can spend their money as they please but i just don't get it.
Petition for cooper to do a live where he just makes necklaces
Yesssss
I second the petition lol 🖋📑✨
Yas
I’ve lived almost 30 years and haven’t seen a TH-camr do these reviews while sending such genuine love and non-judgement to the people they’re reviewing “if you’re watching this, I love you SO MUCH”
8:32 I CANNOT DESCRIBE HOW OVERJOYED I WAS WHEN YOU DESCRIBED THAT STUPID FINGER SUCKING THING PEOPLE DO. IT MAKES ME SO UNBELIEVABLY ANGRY MAN. Misophonia is so annoying 😭 You're the ONLY person I've ever seen that can relate to that feeling and it makes me so happy.
nobody irl understands what it feels like. i don't think i could get angrier at anything else except LIPS SMACKING god i hate it
I RELATED SO MUCH, and then i feel really awful because they're just eating! but it makes me so unreasonably angry
@@x-CupidzBlo0d-x EXACTLY
UGH I know! It's never talked about!!! I can't even eat dinner with my family cause my mom chews with her mouth open and makes me so mad but then I'm like... thats my mom... she's just eating.
@@chaneyh7752 FR I feel so bad for not being able to eat with my family 😭😭
I love how insightful you are about things like this. IK this video was posted like a month ago but just throwing that out there.
As a 19 yr old girl I absolutely agree with your comments on ppl acting like children only to promote their OF. Its very telling that the women that infantilize themselves for prn are very popular (ex. belle delphine). The men that are into that are very gross and it's disturbing how many of them there are. but the women that do this aren't absolved of blame at all. They are continuing the cycle for money and popularity and feeding these creeps what they want. The men that are into this are also the ones that say women hit the wall at 25 so please don't feel wrong for criticizing them.
EXACTLYYYY, it’s so scary how linked those people attracted to that behaviour are to beauty standards, especially those for women or femininity, and they’re often the same people who say ‘youthfulness is most attractive’, and set that as an expectation for feminine presenting people and women in many aspects of life, like skincare and supplements, as an example, there’s endless types of anti aging creams and supplements which are often only marketed to women and make them feel ashamed of aging normally, which encourages more of this same behaviour from people to appeal to creeps because they feel that they need to be youthful to an extreme degree and the cycle goes on again.
I feel the same when P*** is labeled "barely legal" and "just turned 18". They know what message they are selling .
Tbh some of them are alright and I respect them for the hustle ig? I don't fault other women for that. It's not like they've single-handedly created the market, they're just taking advantage of it.
Edit/ Everyone's saying it caters to pedophiles, but I don't see how adult women using cutesy voices = a free pass to assault children. It's not and NEVER will be. Can we focus on the actual pedos out in the open on places like Twitter, Instagram, and TikTok rather than attack random women for doing what makes them money.
There are also plenty of people who like the weird anime girl voices without being attracted to children. Now I'm not saying that isn't weird as hell, but they do exist.
@@kevinthefabulous1118and at whose expense, because who is more accessible/vulnerable to creeps? actual impressionable young girls and not adult s-workers 😕
@@kevinthefabulous1118 I highly disagree. You can still make adult content and make money from it without sexualizing childish behavior. I don't respect people that cater to pdf files.
It's so nice hearing about someone else who has misophonia and that was such a good description of *exactly* how I feel. To anyone with misophonia reading this I hope you never get harassed with sounds and have a wonderful day
You have a wonderful day too! :D
youre a real one to all us miso soups (thats what my friend calls us misophonia folks)
I felt so validated when he described the guilty feeling you get lmao
when I was a kid and I watched a tv show or movie that had something embarrassing happen to the main character I used to get super uncomfortable. I didn't want to watch media that was about super awkward kids/teens because I couldn't stand how physically uncomfortable it made me feel.I eventually grew out of that and could laugh at awkward situation comedy and watch cringe comedy stuff. This brought that feeling back. This stuff is so immensely uncomfortable and awkward that it gives me knots in my stomach. Congrats on that achievement.
oh hey someone else who has this. i usually just skip ahead when a moment like that happens.
same bro i thought i was the only one
thats so relatable
Is it weird that I couldn’t watch shrek because of this I still don’t know why but it like pained me to watch it
I get like this all the time
WHEN YOU TALKED ABOUT MISOPHONIA I STARTED CRYING... it's such a horrible thing to live with and there's nothing you can really do to deal with it since it's relatively new (coined by jastreboff in 2001) but thanks to the technological advancements of the past few years we're getting somewhere! ever since i found out i had misophonia/symptoms (1 1/2 years), i've been researching ways to help deal with it and it does help! try and get noise cancelling headphones/earbuds! i've had better experience with earbuds (since you can hide them easily, and they aren't usually /in my experience/ seen as rude when you put them on)!! also figuring out what sounds trigger you can help.
and some people (most? unsure) with misophonia also have misokinesia! it's like misophonia but seeing things triggers you :) take that into consideration!!
you are not weird for having misophonia, there are people out there who care, and you can get through this!! sending love to all misophonics ❤
I know noise cancelling helps but sometimes I need a video to listen to
i am so happy for the people getting their bag, but i don't understand how they aren't dying from embarrassment. i can't imagine sitting alone in my room doing what they do. it's actually really impressive.
I could only do this with a mask on like dream or something lmao
One time I stumbled across a live of a girl with stickers over only her nips, crack, and upside down triangle if you know what I mean and she was taking one off every time someone sent a gift and I have permanent brain damage I’ll never heal from🥲💀
I can’t even bring myself to post NORMAL content because I die of embarrassment before posting… I wish I had even a fraction of the idgaf energy that these people have
@@Peculiarpossumdawg what a self report. The algorithm shows that stuff to people who seek out those things. Nobody I know, nor me, get lives like that on our feed
@@RectalRiot ur wrong dawg lol I have never used lives and I only watch cooking videos 100%
as a s*x worker i 1000% agree on the acting like a kid thing, within the community im a part of its important to be aware of people who do specific things in their content that arent really ok, depends on the specifics but ive had mutuals on twt let me know when i follow someone who's a p*do sympathizer or other things that are generally not acceptable (relating to racism, transphobia, what i meantioned above, etc)
Your body is worth way more than money. You are not an object to be viewed in a lustful way. You are a human with worth
@@DiamondWorldTH-cam As long as they are a sex worker of their own volition, it's none of your business what they do or do not do with their body.
@@DiamondWorldTH-camsome people just genuinely love sw! And it’s such a broad industry too! I’m not a swer but I have a special interest in kink and fetish history and I’m friends with a lot of swers and it’s sooooooooo much more than “being an object” lots of folks only do content that they themselves find fun and attractive to do!
@@DiamondWorldTH-camSome peeps aren’t degrading themselves just because they do SW. If a person can do it at a legal age, with a consenting adult, on terms that they agree to, then I don’t see any advantage being taken. It’s just any other service job
thanks for the insight/ confirmation
I've always been so interested in people like Cherry (first woman) just due to the fact that her ASMR content was so popular and a lot of her audience were children and she kept her adult work and ASMR seemingly separate but it kinda just turned to all of her content being nsfw most likely due to the fact that it pays better. Something I've noticed about the adult world that I think needs to be talked about more is the fact that "normal" TH-camrs do the things that adult content creators do and they will get canceled for it but for their adult counterparts, people don't really bat an eye and can possibly continue to hurt people. The whole acting like a child thing isn't illegal but can bring up many ethical questions.
Does she still do adult work?
@@bulma463 I believe she does actively still post on her OF yes.
Holy shit I thought she was giving me asmr vibes
Why the paragraph.
YEAH NO I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE THINKING ABT THAT i watch a lot of asmr content so cherry crush is just implanted in my mind unfortunately. it used to be "the joke" that she does nsfw work (and like, get that bag girl) but her asmr content got more and more nsfw that to this day i am Sure she was the reason (or a huge part of the reason) that yt flags asmr videos instinctually.
i have misophonia too!! it’s the absolute worst because ive been going to therapy and counseling for it since 5th grade yet, if anything, it has gotten worse. and i totally agree with you on with the skeleton thing, for the past 2 nights i’ve somehow found my eyes glued to the screen watching those.
Homie, the reason you're growing so fast is cuz unlike some other critics, you're not outright bashing people for veiws. Keeps it up, we love you Cooper!!!!
ik it’s probably a lil overwhelming, but i’m so proud of watching you and your channel grow!!! you totally deserve the fanbase you’re building :)
If you ever consider doing a part 2 of this, PLEASE cover those people with the crying filter who stack lug nuts on top of each other and then fake-beg and edge you at the last one until someone donates. I’ve been getting them on my For You page NONSTOP and it actually drives me insane-
What is this exactly…? I don’t think I’ve come across any of them but I’m curious what you’re talking about…
Or the people who are trying to "sleep" or "work" and get interrupted and pretend like they are mad
I want to believe you opened a dictionary and ad libbed this whole comment but unfortunately this has to be real
@@daughterphoenixthere’s a lot of these “edging” type lives where they get to the last bit of something and take a super long time to finish it. Like the egg peeling where they’ll try and get the shell off an egg without breaking the layer between the shell and the liquid. Every time I used to come across those it was when there was only a tiny bit of shell left at the very top
omg or the army one 💀💀
This channel popped up on my recs and I'm definitely liking the self deprecating, yet oddly confident presentation.
As someone who loves asmr but hates mukbangs I relate to the misophonia. Pure rage can take over 😅
I like tippy tippy but no mouthy soundy
Same. I love nice weird sounds.
Not eating or whispering or mouthy sounds.
Chewing noises send me immediately into the hugest rage I just want to self-immolate.
I personally feel disturbed watching someone act sexual and dress provocatively like an adult would (and should if they so choose).......but then they're talking and using the mannerisms of a child or of a person that has the mental capacity of one
I have misophonia as well, and you have put it so well into words and expression how awful mouth sounds are. Thanks for sharing Cooper. It’s always fun finding fellow ear sufferers haha
I agree
Me too - I would genuinely marry my boyfriend but the sound of him chewing is worse than anyone else I have ever encountered. It breaks my heart to think about living with that for the rest of my life lmao
Hi fellow misophones! 💖💖💖
Whispering is the thing I find most vile and a couple days ago I scrolled past a tiktok with someone whispering in the most disgusting, unhinged way that made me ill. I can't even describe what they did because they were just whispering but I felt so revolted, so violated. Just thinking about it makes me cringe. Ban whispering, I say.
i think i may have it because i get so pissed off at people chewing and asmr too like slime asmr they drive me insane i gave to leave the room sometimes bc of it
i love that you talked about misophonia here, no one really understands, and my vather sometimes tells me to go eat somewhere else when slowly become enragen again because of the way he is chewing, love to see that i am not the only one with that problem
27:57 im autistic and dated a 22 year old dude when i was 18 who constantly infantilized me even in sexual situations and i hated it so ive always had really confused feelings about stuff like this. cause like on one hand there doesnt seem to be anything really wrong, everybody involved are adults and they dont seem like they're actively trying to pretend to be a kid (i dont think?), but at the same time i remember how that felt and that icky feeling being infantilized like that gave me and i get that same feeling watching clips like that. on some level, something feels off and really uncomfortable about it.
Well, also, sexualizing children even with an adult is still not ok. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
I think the icky feeling of being infantialized is super valid. That definitely sounds like an icky situation. I'm 21 and I couldn't imagine dating an 18 year old. Then constantly making them feel infantialized with that? Like that's absolutely gross and your feelings are okay and so real.
I'm also autistic so I get how it's hard to navigate the feels and your reactions to people. That's perfectly okay. I hope your in a better place now friend
Always trust ur gut... if u felt icky, it's likely bc he WAS imagining something sick. Not saying that's ALWAYS the case.... but probably 99% of the time, it is. There's ppl who sexualize DIAPERS and say it's "not about kids" 🤨 but wtf. That blurs the line between "kink" and depravity. IMO that ain't a kink
I once watched a TikTok live of a guy very slowly and tediously removing the shell from a raw egg.
It ended with him successfully removing the shell and then dropping his phone on the egg and popping it while trying to adjust the angle
I would've laughed my ass off😂
why does this sound 5 times more entertaining than whatever Cooper showed
@@deligeorgieva8535 it was actually kinda cool to watch the viewer count increase exponentially as he got more and more of the shell off
ive seen lives like that: the guy taking painfully long to put the last cup or some object ontop of other stacked objects to make a pyramid.
i used to do this to mess with my mom when she was make breakfast 😭
I did OF for a while and I'm a really small, young looking woman (I get mistaken for a minor in my daily life) but it's completely possible to not lean into the infantilization of childish behaviors/styles. There will always be creeps who like you for your young appearance and you can't control that, but you can control how much you play up that aspect of your content. There's no excuse for this weirdness
what is OF?
@@aislinnhurtado8318 onlyfans. I just wasn't sure if TH-cam blocks that word
How did your family react on thanksgiving
@@zorlockts5744 who cares lol she made bank
Aren't you the same person who supports feminism?... How can you be supporting women's rights and degrade your body for creepy men at the same time? Your body is worth more than money
You hit it on the head that it’s content that gets engagement but isn’t fulfilling. As someone who was in the p*rn industry those infantilized videos get a lot of engagement in those circles because unfortunately there are a lot of creeps. I think people try to cover it up by saying it’s kink but at its core it’s pretty sinister.
My thing with Cherry Crush is that she really obviously knows what she is doing, since she was an adult content creator now doing lives on a kids app..
i was just going to say the same thing. but tiktok is not a kids app. it's not even marketed as one. adults wouldn't be allowed on there if that were the case. it may be 13+ but ultimately it is the parent's decision to let their child use it. Cherry Crush knows what she's doing by catering to *simps*, not children.
@@zombii_galtiktok used to be musicaly. It was 100% for children. We all know a large portion of tiktoks user base is children. It’s literally just brain rot from how much porn has been normalized that makes us think we need to be okay with “spicy” content creators making blatantly sexualized content that has an appeal to children because of the colors, childlike behavior, cartoons, etc.
@@akaste4413 yeah, it's so weird that creators like cherry crush and belle delphine and whoever else are so popular because they do the baby voice and act all cutesy and stuff, i'm not saying it means anything but also it majorly gives me the ick that it's supposed to be "spicy" yet they act like little kids...there's acting cute and then acting like a baby
@@zombii_gal Yeah, kids app wasn’t quite the right phrasing. An app largely used by minors
And she’s promoting her OF on her lives. But she also has lives where she’s out of character just talking and hanging out. I actually like cherry crush as an influencer, she seems genuine. But she knows exactly what she’s doing.
I know it’s probably a little overwhelming to be perceived by more and more people as your channel grows… but just remember we’re here because we love what we saw.
You’re funny, charming, and inspiring and intelligent! We can connect with the content you put out. Don’t think about the volume of people who are watching, just keep putting out videos like you always have and we’ll support you ❤❤
Literally came to the comments to write this, but you said it perfectly!
I just gotta say this here bc I was so shocked at the quality of the necklaces! They’re so freaking high quality!! I didn’t realize how large and nice the beads were going to be, I’m so happy with my necklace 🥹🥹
13:53 i kinda love how much effort he puts compared to the others (or maybe i just love vampires…)
hello fellow sub creator ! :DD
@@g528jsp HIIII
@@g528jspOH MY GOD. fellow Freminet enjoyer???? Hello????
I love how Cooper can go from *kissy face* to *dead serious* in a milisecond. Respect ❣
(Also, don't be anxious about expanding your audience, cuz we genuinely love you and your videos 💖💖💖)
Coop, i definitley agree on the whole take on infantilizing ones self for views, that bubbly childish act should feel so demeaning and wrong and its sad that so many people are so easily drawn to it
Call me weird if you want but I absolutely love the vampire dude’s lives. They’re spooky but also cozy and perfect for a rainy night lol
Yeah, he's really freaking cool. The owner of a Discord server I'm in hangs out with him sometimes.
Yeah he’s super cool but i worry about the fact that he properly believes he’s a real vampire. Like he’s said that he feeds on ppl’s energy instead of blood.
@@justafellowgamer7664 Let the man live his vampiric life. He says he's a vampire, let him live that life. Sanguine (blood feeding) vampires aren't the only vampire type.
@@AndyRoyaleur like a vampire expert that's so cool
@@skinless_milk I read things that weren't Bram Stoker's Dracula. It's so inaccurate. I've also read things on spiritual awakenings. Vampires, Fae, Lycans.. they all exist. Some people even seek out to become vampires. Not just Sanguine, but the other types too. I know quite a few Lycans and Fae, as well as a few Vampires.
25:09 cooper could be rambling forever, but if he looked at me like this right after? yea i’d fold im sorry
very grateful for the "positive energy hurts 'em" person, she sends out bad energy to the devil's people because good energy would be painful, meaning that bad energy is good for them, truly a generous woman
I’ll forever remember the only TikTok live I ever did with my mom and it’s because I was explaining the history of the English monarchy to her and she thought the world needed to know 😂
this is. too damn cute
DO IT AGAIN PLEASE I GO ON DEEP DIVES OF THE ENGLISH MONARCHY AT 2AM ALL THR TIME I WOULD BE SO INTERESTED 😭😭
@@bethanyblonder I’ve been obsessed with the history of England recently, like I know way too much information about minuscule things 😭
@@Kaylin_elizabeth HAHAH me!! When I watched the crown it was really bad for my phone storage bc I had like 40 separate tabs open JUST for like European monarchs and like family trees on top of my 100😭😭 I understand
In my experience with tiktok lives, I’ve seen people (woman almost always) sexualizing themselves in really weird ways. Like one girl was squirting butter on her face and one time I saw someone wear a shirt with no bra, walking on a treadmill super fast and pouring water on herself. And idk…if they are ok with doing that kind of stuff then whatever, but it still rubs me the wrong way. Also sometimes I get lives of children or adults on hospital beds and then someone else is like begging towards the camera and I don’t wanna be a b*tch or anything but those kinds of lives are everywhere and it feels really exploitative. Like for all we know, those hospital beds could be fake and those children are being forced to sit there so people scroll and see them and then give them money out of sympathy. It’s just weird. Also sometimes I get lives where people are just walking in really dark and creepy forests at night, like they are in the middle of nowhere and they just keep walking and it’s genuinely kinda creepy(those I actually end up watching sometimes) Idk, tiktok lives weird me out, even during musically days I don’t think I’ve ever come across a normal livestream ever. Going back to that whole sexualization topic: fetish culture on tiktok is a huge problem and I feel like nobody really ever talks about it. The way I see it, these are just people making a quick buck but at the same time something about it feels really weird idk. I get tiktok is not a platform made for kids and whatever, but I do think some adjustments should be made to how tiktok live works
Omg I've seen the treadmill girl. I was like "for freeeee?" Lol I also see this one girl, she's black with long blonde hair and some kind of accent, I can't figure it out, and she does like the elf girl but doesn't infantilize herself. If someone gifts the cowboy hat she says something about being a cowgirl let me ride it or something. I laughed so hard. I think she also does corn
i think women tend to expose themselves online like this because they know anyone will pay for them doing the most disgusting/dumbest shit. it’s a main base of people enabling women by acting like children/weirdly sexualizing themselves by throwing money at them and interacting her content. it’s quite unfortunate
@@veekiwi you say enabling women like it's a bad thing. i say SWers can make their buck, how is it 'enabling' like a bad thing for women to earn some money?
theres a video called "why tik tok is worse than we think" and I feel like its worth a listen. Its basically talking about how there is required to be a board representing the interests of Chinas government all large companies in China including tik tok. This board gets final say of all decisions pushed by the company. The chinese government themselves have made public their plans to use tik tok as a weapon against the youth of the US by pushing sexual and "brainless" content to american audiences, while pushing science focused and more actual educational content to the chinese version of the app.
@@felixhenson9926 i don’t mean in general. i mean the weirdos that know that guys like borderline illegal shit and sexualize infancy and shit like that.
8:30 when I tell you I was bouncing off the walls when you said you have misophonia like I do- it's just such a relief when you realize there's other people like you
(I know this is quite off topic but it made me happy)
The thing is, kids DONT act like that. Most anime's kinda, sexualize or mature children, and make them act like adults, which is unrealistic. That's why I like ghibli movies, they portray kids in a very fun, realistic ways.
THIS IS SOOOO IRREFLEVANT but i have really bad Misophonia to the point i struggle with eating sometimes because i can hear myself chewing, hearing that one of my favorite creators struggles with it and CARES ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE THAT MIGHT ALSO HAVE IT is so heartwarming to me. Very weird thing to point out but means a lot, thank you! 8:30
Omg I found someone with it mine isn't as bad as that but loads of people I know take advantage of it like blasting asmr or making the noises that trigger it. Does that happen to you
@@lolitzi47 yes, often times it does. I also live in a household of people that don't believe in it so whenever they're eating and I come around, they chew extra loud with their mouths open. Happens at school too. People find it funny, but don't seem to understand that it genuinely hurts my brain, me having extreme anger issues doesn't help either lol. If you ever struggle with those people, I recommend trying headphones or earbuds to tune it out. Or make another really loud noise so you won't have to hear it. If you annoy them, they'll stop eventually.
@@Stutzie0 thanks. I only found out what it was 6 months ago but I've always been annoyed by specific asmr like some of it is fine then other stuff makes me want to punch the person who made it. I get triggered by tapping and really loud mouth sounds
Same here! It depends on what I’m eating but I prefer to eat with headphones in for this very reason lol
I don’t have it quite as bad, but I do feel for you! For me, if I’m the one who makes the sounds it’s usually ok (I do occasionally get bothered by my own chewing, but that’s only if I think about it too much and then I think it’s more that I’m in my mind at that point), but if anyone else does I want to explode. I wish you a blissfully friendly sounds day!
I think your mindset is in the right place to be responsible with a larger group of viewers. You're entertaining, not disrespectful. It's something that sets you apart, in my opinion. I think you deserve the popularity because you can stay humble, just surround yourself with people who keep you grounded, and you'll do well while still having as much fun👍
he makes alot of 9/11 jokes though. still love him tho
@@sarmntsThe thing is,they are funny.
@@桜_秋ちゃん to you, my friends ancestors have gone through thag and it isn’t as funny to her and it’s disrespectful to the people who lost their lives. Sure i find it funng too but sometimes it’s much
this guy is so silly, I love it so much. like, nothing about his videos are normal, and its the best thing ive ever watched
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I am a 18 year old woman who has been sexualized since a young age by older men and to see these adult women dress up and act like children to appeal sexually is so nasty and feeding into the porn industries. There's a lot of good video essays out there about this, but I'll try my best. Watching videos on the book Lolita is a good start.
It's also heavily toxic for any young girl growing up with access to the internet who sees this and the positive reactions.
It just makes me so uncomfortable and I wish it wasn't so normalized. It's in society more than we think. Women are supposed to appear like that ( through the eyes of men, social media, porn, etc ) and it's disgusting and sad. It's everywhere.
Sorry if I'm all over the place. I get emotional and they tend to have more control over me.
It's as weird & disgusting as step daddy and step child pron it's a depiction of " Child Pron " just hidden in plain sight. Normal people like us can see right through it. It needs to be banned just like the parents who run accounts for they child knowingly objectifying them...
i honestly thought that having Misophonia was such a rare thing and Ive never seen a TH-camr talk about it either. just comforting to know it's not just me lmao
IT REALLY IS!!!
Frrrrr bro everybody thinks I’m weird
Same! It's awful too...especially when I was like in school and had to be around soooo many people at lunchtime! I'd skip meals so I could be somewhere no one was.
no bc I have to leave the room when someone is eating which is almost constantly bc I live with a lot of people but then I'm being guilt tripped like "you never hang out with us I guess you just dont like us" and my dad gets mad that I dont sit at the dinner table. like it sucks so much bc then I feel guilty like I shiuldnt be mad at them for doing something normal like I cant just ask them to not eat or not breath heavy or sniffle a lot (idk if it's a misophonia thing or just a me thing but when people like snort to get mucus out of their throat I legit want to shrivel into myself and cry)
Michelle McDaniel also has misophonia that shes talked about
8:46 Cooper!!!! i have awful misophonia too, and the self hatred is so real. It really sucks but now I feel less alone! Thanks for sharing that :)
as someone who has misophonia too, WHY DID YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT EATING NOISES WHILE MAKING SAID NOISES 😭😭😭
i definitely agree with the thing where people make the intentional choice to make themselves look and act like children to appeal to pedos... like people can say it's 'just e-girl makeup' all they want but it's obviously not just the makeup, it's speech patterns, mannerisms, the way they dress. it's totally creepy.
Hey Cooper, I think everyone really likes you recently because you give off such good vibes and seem very nice and non-judgemental. Try not to be nervous, you're doing great!
Unless your a Republican like me then you are called stupid and pathetic
I recently subbed to him and I enjoy his content and overall personality. He seems like a fun dude to sit and have a long chat with, without getting bored. His hair is amazing too!
The only person i ever met who 100% went fully in on the "om nom! Crunchy corn!!" Style behaviour was a kinky age regressor with a whoooole lot of traumatic hangups. On one hand - all the sympathy and compassion in the world. On the other hand - the behaviour came from a childish aspect of theirself that had been treated very badly, and they were trying to cope by being sexual in a childish way. So im not really comfy seeing it.
Age regression is *not* sexual
@@elliotostling5850 sure,it's doesn't have to be. But choosing your age regression specifically to engage in ageplay, infantilising and sexualising yourself on purpose, really is
@@crowspirit5154 but that’s not age regression, that’s kink and it’s completely different and a separate thing
Age regression is never ever ever sexual
@elliotostling5850 I mean OK, thankyou for the correction. I would still argue that there is significant overlap, but I respect your point of view. Is there a better word to use? I do feel that if I specify the environment of the age regression is in a context of ageplay *for sex*, then it is sexual. But is there a better word?
Like even if the age regression is instinctual or not something that can be controlled. I appreciate the difference between a reaction to trauma and just pretending.
Describing it as an act that reminds one of the sad clown trope really hits it on the head. Also, please tell us more about craft days with your mom and her friends. That gives me life and sounds delightful!
you know it’s a good day when cooper post!❤😊
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okay i didn't know misophonia was an actual diagnosis before so THANK YOU for that because i genuinely suffer from this on a daily basis and now i know i'm not just crazy
you're not crazy!!!! I love you and it's gonna be okay some day, I know how hard it is and how it can make you doubt your sanity
@@pumpkin3461I’m sorry I giggled a lil bit cause I thought you said “you’re crazy!!!!”💀
@@ciitrus111awe haha
Not a diagnosis but it is real
Can we all agree that cooper is wholesome af and needs to be protected at all costs. He's the one youtuber I can watch knowing that he'll never be problematic. So respectful the way he dose his videos and talks about the people in them.
He has done problematic things but he owned up them thankfully, idealizing him isn’t good but recognizing he is willing to take accountability is better
@@bean2570 wait wha?
I HATE the sound of people eating like you wanna push their head in the food and say here now eat! i feel bad because i have yelled at my sister for chewing "Too loud" multiple different times. i don't know how some people can enjoy listening to people eat. it makes my rage fuel. and i Love people, hanging out with them. but as soon as as i hear chewing i get so angry. it feels wrong but you physically can't control it.
Hey Cooper, I found your channel about a month ago and just wanna say I’m so glad I did. I’ve been binge watching your older videos and they all have brought me so much joy during a tough time. I also reconnected with a friend yesterday we bonded over the fact that we both watch your videos! Keep doing what you’re doing, you brighten everyone’s days more than you know!❤️
I love how you're so polite and nice to them all the time. Meanwhile, I'm just going standard Aussie "fucking lunatic!" 😂
The Skelton dude with the soup water, I adore their channel so horribly much. I've watched their lives almost every day because it's so calming man
THANK YOU ABOUT THE MISOPHONIA THING CAUSE ITS REAL! I have that & it literally drives me insane when my man or anyone does that i yell at him about it all the time & then feel like a pos lmao
9:56 you can see the fear in his eyes😭😭 cooper fighting the demons on tiktok live to get out a video lol💀💀💀
i think the reason it’s so uncomfortable is because when ppl use content like that to direct others to their “other platforms” it kinda shows those people who enjoy there “content” are predators. in a sense it may seem they are inherently saying it’s okay by directing people towards them using a younger version of themselves. BUT it’s honestly just shows how disgusting the overall social view of intimacy has become over the years 😢
I think a lot of the reason why acting like a child is super popular for women is because during the rise of feminism, there was this idea that men wanted purity because adult women were too radicalized so they started sexualizing minors or people close to being adults, but not yet. That’s why I think it’s such a big industry still. Also, I’m bisexual so I’M GAY AND GOING CRAZY IN THE COMMENTS
YESSSS I WANTED TO SEE MORE GAYS IN THE COMMENTS, I’M OMNI HIIII
First, yes, I was thinking the same thing and it’s gross ugh ew
SECOND, YASSSSS I’M LESBIAN HIIIII I’M A GAYYYYYYY
The sexual infantilization of women is nothing more than a substitute for actual p*dophila and it has nothing to do with purity.
Also, a lot of predatory men often want young women solely because they can control and exploit them much easier as opposed to a grown woman who has life experience and the financial freedom to leave a bad relationship. That and the deeply rooted misogyny where some men claim to believe that women's sexual value diminishes the more they have sex-- which is really just an excuse for why predators justify going after younger women as opposed to women in their age range. People who only date younger are typically total losers and walking red flags. The exploitation of young women and girls has nothing to do with a desire for purity-- it's about power and control.
The unyielding ABSOLUTE rage that is misophonia isn't understandable by people that don't have it
7:50 i LOVE the little skeleton guy and his ladle and his stupid wood bead soup, i watch it every night before i go to bed, its so relaxing
The first person used to be super famous in the asmr community, and also is a corn star… The way she acts is uncomfortable for sure, you’re not alone in this.
As a tarot reader who got such a giggle from this video, please please YES.. a full video on the TikTok psychics!
Hey! So the infantilisation thing is actually a really interesting topic. There's certain pop cultures, like 'kawaii' culture as an example, that appears to be more on the side of feeling cute and expressing that through 'kawaii' clothes and merch but almost always gets pipelined into pornographic view of children because of association. This kind of 'cutesy' expression as an adult can be a little bit of a minefield as you're sort of nurturing your inner child, allowing yourself the vulnerability we associate with a child and puberty, but also you are an adult with adult mature feelings and fantasies as well. I guess to me it's a really stark look at the duality of vulnerability and performance within a sexualised culture? Like this woman isn't doing anything more than allowing herself to be a cute character on the internet. But because she is playing this character, and showing vulnerability by doing so, she is also leaving herself open to being exploited or sexualised (as anyone is open to in these spaces). There is nothing that a generically attractive woman can do on the internet that will not be sexualised by someone somewhere. And if she decides that she wants to make a coin off of that, more power to her! It is tough though because you don't want to encourage creepy behaviour or the sexualisation of young girls... But unfortunately beauty standards for women are to look as young as possible (ew), and not everyone is in a place where they can fight against that kind of systemic weight. Your points are valid, but it's certainly not a creator issue and more of a wider issue to do with the policing of sexuality and the exploitation of young women (and how these two systems can be contradictory as well as true!)
Also a side note, it would be cool to put the people your screenshottings links in the bio or at least on the screen! It just means that your content reacting to their content at least has a link to benefiting them as original content makers as well as yourself ☺️
I can't believe what I just read. I would understand this point of view if the p0rn industry wasn't FILLED with the shit that woman is doing, jumping around, making weird high pitched noises, acting 'innocent' and obedient to the watchers and dressed in these clothes but you're trying to tell me she's exploring her "inner child"? There are so many men who jerk off to this shit and she's so very AWARE, knowing that she also does p0rn with that very 'aesthetic' is beyond messed up. This really REALLY isn't a case "Stop sexualizing women in everything". That grown ass woman knows very well what she's doing and the audience she's feeding. A hustle is fine but taking advantage of an audience built off of ped0philes/men that think acting like a kid is cute or sexy doesn't make you any better from them.
And asking him to credit her is beyond insane to me, you can't be seriously vouching support for this behavior and having face to ask him to do so?
This lady isn't just trying to be cute...she is luring weirdos to her onlyfans. It's gross
This is genuinely a pretty nuanced take and I appreciate it.
I totally agree ,women who do sexy content behaving or dressing in a childlike manner, are fuelling a demand (not the only demand obvs)
and it should be criticised it’s nice to see a bloke pointing it out
I don't get the appeal, it's just weird to me. I feel like it's the creeps and pedos that like adults acting like children because they are attracted to children. If that makes sense? I just don't think it's normal to find that sexy as an adult. 🤷♀️
@@bluebree totally agree
This is my first video of Cooper’s, and let me just say:
Not only was this an INSTANT subscribe, but also the humor is peak, the fit is chill yet immaculate, and THE BACKGROUND??? HELLO???
Dino puppet guy going “dododododododo” is so amazing.
also hella about the fushigi ball guy… no, I will not be taking questions at this time.
My day immediately gets better everytime Cooper posts something
My Cherry Crush has been my favorite SW for almost a decade. I live under a rock now but I'm happy to see her continuing to hussle