Break ups are hard and usually destabilized your thoughts but is not the end of the world, stay positive and remember when one door closes two will open for you, sorry you have to go through that situation, just remember hard times will make you stronger and prepare you for your future. Cheers, big hugs kiddo.
Maturing into a man can be tough at times but in the end, it builds a stronger and more stable you. I had 6 girlfriends before I actually found a real keeper. Most of my friends that married their first love ended up in divorce and child support. Some have ended up in 2 and even 3 divorces, with kids from each marriage. My friend Zayan married his first love and had three kids. That relationship ended in divorce. Zayan got into another relationship; he ended up having twins in that relationship. Now he is divorced again. When I was in high school one of my teachers asked the class of 36 students for a show of hands of the students that are living with their true mother and father. Only 3 of us raised our hands.
@@backpackmatt And it's actually all true, a fact of life. One of my friends has 3 sisters and a younger brother. They share the same biological mother, but they come from 4 different fathers. They live their lives and they are happy. They don't care, mom is mom.
You keep saying to yourself you didn't want to do this to her. But you can't do this to yourself either. Your feelings are just as valid as hers. She might say anything now just to stay together so she can make herself feel good. How long will that last? Sounds that you were making all the concessions while she seemingly was elsewhere. I can think of a hundred negative things about that type of "dismissive" behavior you are describing. But I won't go there. That is something you must search within yourself to discover. No one is an answer these questions but you. Not your friends, you our siblings, no one but you. What's even more important is YOU understand that you can never force someone to be or do what should be naturally done. Not answering your calls and disappearing for long periods doesn't sound like she wanted this relationship. Abd it certainly don't sound like she care. Sounds like something you need to come to terms with. Her silence spoke volumes. Hear that voice in your head, the one that said nothing back to you. I personally don't think you should be waiting to take anything back or hoping to restart that relationship. You need to LET GO. Settle for being friends, if that's even possible. But move on with your life. And think about this. How long into your future do you think waiting for this ONE GIRL to come around to be in this with you. Will she ever be in this with you. Ask yourself these very important questions. Because your answers tomorrow, next week, next month might be too late.
It takes some time to find the right person pray about it and someone who's right for you will come and be patient because all good things take time. 😀❤
Sorry to hear this! But you know what you need to do . . . changing and moving forward sometimes comes with sacrifice & pain. But you are going to be alright.
Brother, you are the table !! Learn, that there are a lot of woman manless.. they will never find a guy like you ! Get strong, and never cry again about this.. much love
Travis I am thinking of you and hold you in my thoughts. Whatever emotional pain you are feeling will eventually subside. You've spoken of all the the different plans you have for your personal growth and of your work and how you've been enjoying it. Keep on doing all those things that bring you enjoyment however small they might be. If the emotional pain gets too much talk to your grandma or work colleagues about it because they too will have experienced similar emotional times themselves - all humans do. You're a really lovely young man with a good heart - how do I know? Because its something that can't be faked and anyone watching you can see how genuine you are. I'm sure a lot of people are sending you their love and thinking of you and that includes me. Look after yourself stay strong and good natured and all will be well with you. Peace.
Damn! I just want to reach through this screen and give you a huge bear hug. Your such a good dude bud and also very human. Takes a lot to share your raw emotion! You are a GREAT dude!!
Broke up with my boy over the same shit recently man. We stayed together because i was so afraid I wouldn’t find anything better so i stayed wayyyy longer than i should have. You’ll be fine, i promise
It is not controling to want and expect to 'matter' in a spouse's life. Especially when it's something so simple as keeping fluent contact. It's not like we live in an age where it's letters in the post only as a way of contact. There are phones, the internet, the library, internet cafés, like, there is really no valid excuse to go MIA for any period of time to someone you say you love, unless you want to. Anyway, remember this pain, man. It will benefit you going forward. As much as it hurts, as you said, keep on reminding yourself to remember this is something you need to learn and grow from. Even the hardest times can be a learning opportunity. I am sorry you are going through this, and if you do need to talk or vent, reach out. I know you don't want to befriend your viewers, but you know, a few of us have grown to care for you so that option will be there. Stay strong dude, you got this.
oh dam. I feel your pain of break up, especially my first. However this will strengthen u and leave you better equipment for ur next one. You have so many positives and will be, from what I've seen, a wonderful share in life. It will happen. Hugs as a virtual friend from me. Talk to grandma if you can. Can you go out and treat yourself and perhaps a friend. I'd like to send some funds to buy you a coffee or what ever. How do i set that up?
This is a new beginning for you ❤️ I'm sure/hope soon you'll feel happy and free once the sadness fades away first its all part of the process, you are the whole package bro its time you focus on yourself fully & put your trust in God's plan❤
😢😢 Você vai ficar bem amigão. O mundo é cruel. A vida é difícil. Estamos aqui pra ajudar você. Amamos você. Você será mais forte amanhã. Invista no seu futuro financeiro e tenha metas sempre.
Did she break up with you, or did you break up with her? If you broke up, then why in hell are you crying? It is better to have love and lost, then never have loved at all. What did she do, did she close the amusement park, stop punching your "E" tickets. There are approximately 50 million girls in the country, you'll find another, or maybe you'll be better looking for love elsewhere. Most girls bring a lot of drama and baggage into a relation, when she tells you, she won't change you, she's already came up with 50 different ways to change you. Love hurts dude, how much depends on you. Maybe she's open the amusement park for someone else. You're young, you have a lot of time to find a girlfriend or even a boyfriend if that be your thing. First loves is like Puppy Love, it comes and go. Let it go, if you love something, set it free, if it is meant for you, it will come back. Just don't do anything stupid, you are never alone, no matter how lonely you may feel. You are not the first guy who's broken up with a girl. You are very conflicted, talk to your family, sounds like you need help to pull through this.
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Liking and loving someone does not always mean you should be in a romantic relationship with them. There is more to it.
You will be OK, a girl that doesn't put you first obviously isn't into you the same way you're into her, you'll be all right
#truth #love #honesty 🐧🍏🍎💙
Break ups are hard and usually destabilized your thoughts but is not the end of the world, stay positive and remember when one door closes two will open for you, sorry you have to go through that situation, just remember hard times will make you stronger and prepare you for your future. Cheers, big hugs kiddo.
Maturing into a man can be tough at times but in the end, it builds a stronger and more stable you. I had 6 girlfriends before I actually
found a real keeper. Most of my friends that married their first love ended up in divorce and child support. Some have ended up in 2 and
even 3 divorces, with kids from each marriage. My friend Zayan married his first love and had three kids. That relationship ended in divorce.
Zayan got into another relationship; he ended up having twins in that relationship. Now he is divorced again. When I was in high school one
of my teachers asked the class of 36 students for a show of hands of the students that are living with their true mother and father. Only 3
of us raised our hands.
Wow! That's some hardcore reality. Thank you for speaking your Truth. 🐧🍏🍎💙
@@backpackmatt And it's actually all true, a fact of life. One of my friends has 3 sisters and a younger brother.
They share the same biological mother, but they come from 4 different fathers. They live their lives and they
are happy. They don't care, mom is mom.
@@DanAdair-ot9ge Love is the Thing with Feathers, That perches 🐦 in the Soul. And sings the song without the Words, And never stops at all. 🐧🍏🍎💙
You keep saying to yourself you didn't want to do this to her. But you can't do this to yourself either. Your feelings are just as valid as hers. She might say anything now just to stay together so she can make herself feel good. How long will that last?
Sounds that you were making all the concessions while she seemingly was elsewhere. I can think of a hundred negative things about that type of "dismissive" behavior you are describing. But I won't go there. That is something you must search within yourself to discover. No one is an answer these questions but you. Not your friends, you our siblings, no one but you.
What's even more important is YOU understand that you can never force someone to be or do what should be naturally done. Not answering your calls and disappearing for long periods doesn't sound like she wanted this relationship. Abd it certainly don't sound like she care. Sounds like something you need to come to terms with. Her silence spoke volumes. Hear that voice in your head, the one that said nothing back to you.
I personally don't think you should be waiting to take anything back or hoping to restart that relationship. You need to LET GO. Settle for being friends, if that's even possible. But move on with your life.
And think about this. How long into your future do you think waiting for this ONE GIRL to come around to be in this with you. Will she ever be in this with you. Ask yourself these very important questions. Because your answers tomorrow, next week, next month might be too late.
Getting dumped is 100X worse than when you make the decision to leave or stop. Fuck that shit hurt.
It takes some time to find the right person pray about it and someone who's right for you will come and be patient because all good things take time. 😀❤
Sorry to hear this! But you know what you need to do . . . changing and moving forward sometimes comes with sacrifice & pain. But you are going to be alright.
Endings. Beginnings.
Give it time.
Brother, you are the table !!
Learn, that there are a lot of woman manless.. they will never find a guy like you !
Get strong, and never cry again about this.. much love
Thank You! 🐧🍏🍎💙
Oh, move on. You're young, good looking, there are a lot of fish in the sea, go fishing, young man!
I'm not looking at the moment. I want to focus on myself
Travis I am thinking of you and hold you in my thoughts. Whatever emotional pain you are feeling will eventually subside. You've spoken of all the the different plans you have for your personal growth and of your work and how you've been enjoying it. Keep on doing all those things that bring you enjoyment however small they might be. If the emotional pain gets too much talk to your grandma or work colleagues about it because they too will have experienced similar emotional times themselves - all humans do. You're a really lovely young man with a good heart - how do I know? Because its something that can't be faked and anyone watching you can see how genuine you are. I'm sure a lot of people are sending you their love and thinking of you and that includes me. Look after yourself stay strong and good natured and all will be well with you. Peace.
Damn! I just want to reach through this screen and give you a huge bear hug. Your such a good dude bud and also very human. Takes a lot to share your raw emotion! You are a GREAT dude!!
Attachment brings pain. Relationships are transactional.
Broke up with my boy over the same shit recently man. We stayed together because i was so afraid I wouldn’t find anything better so i stayed wayyyy longer than i should have. You’ll be fine, i promise
Prayers hope u feel better.
It is not controling to want and expect to 'matter' in a spouse's life. Especially when it's something so simple as keeping fluent contact. It's not like we live in an age where it's letters in the post only as a way of contact. There are phones, the internet, the library, internet cafés, like, there is really no valid excuse to go MIA for any period of time to someone you say you love, unless you want to.
Anyway, remember this pain, man. It will benefit you going forward. As much as it hurts, as you said, keep on reminding yourself to remember this is something you need to learn and grow from. Even the hardest times can be a learning opportunity. I am sorry you are going through this, and if you do need to talk or vent, reach out. I know you don't want to befriend your viewers, but you know, a few of us have grown to care for you so that option will be there.
Stay strong dude, you got this.
oh dam. I feel your pain of break up, especially my first. However this will strengthen u and leave you better equipment for ur next one. You have so many positives and will be, from what I've seen, a wonderful share in life. It will happen. Hugs as a virtual friend from me. Talk to grandma if you can. Can you go out and treat yourself and perhaps a friend. I'd like to send some funds to buy you a coffee or what ever. How do i set that up?
I would have to share my account with you but it's fine bro. I'll be fine.
It may be so hard for you for now but eventually, it will get better! You're a young lad the perfect girl is out there waiting.
Break ups are tough Stay strong and follow your Im sure you have people that are there for you Try to smile and be happy Be safe
That's really hard man, I'm sorry. 😔 Here to chat if you need.
This is a new beginning for you ❤️ I'm sure/hope soon you'll feel happy and free once the sadness fades away first its all part of the process, you are the whole package bro its time you focus on yourself fully & put your trust in God's plan❤
Oh, ABC, I'm sorry man. 🥺😔🐧🍏🍎💙
It's better this way you know...get over a her and find a him or an it (beware of the we's though). Who knows nowadays.
😢😢 Você vai ficar bem amigão. O mundo é cruel. A vida é difícil.
Estamos aqui pra ajudar você.
Amamos você.
Você será mais forte amanhã.
Invista no seu futuro financeiro e tenha metas sempre.
Gracias por su amabilidad y apoyo. 🐧🍎🍏💙
Get in touch !
Stay strong and follow your heart Sorry
You show no commitment whatsoever. It is about you. The us is not there. The break is necessary until you have developed.
It was his first love...give him a break. 🐧🍏🍎💙
@@backpackmattshe is not his chattel.
We'll see
@@estebancorral5151 Did some one hurt you? 🐧🍏🍎💙
Did she break up with you, or did you break up with her? If you broke up, then why in hell are you crying? It is better to have love and lost, then never have loved at all. What did she do, did she close the amusement park, stop punching your "E" tickets. There are approximately 50 million girls in the country, you'll find another, or maybe you'll be better looking for love elsewhere. Most girls bring a lot of drama and baggage into a relation, when she tells you, she won't change you, she's already came up with 50 different ways to change you.
Love hurts dude, how much depends on you. Maybe she's open the amusement park for someone else. You're young, you have a lot of time to find a girlfriend or even a boyfriend if that be your thing. First loves is like Puppy Love, it comes and go. Let it go, if you love something, set it free, if it is meant for you, it will come back. Just don't do anything stupid, you are never alone, no matter how lonely you may feel. You are not the first guy who's broken up with a girl. You are very conflicted, talk to your family, sounds like you need help to pull through this.
It was his first love...be nice! 🐧🍎🍏💙
Watch the video and you'll find out
nobody needs to see this boy...you are not that important
Nobody needs your worthless comments either but here we are. Welcome to the internet buddy
Someone's salty 🐧🍏🍎💙
@@backpackmatt kid need attn...sad
not really
@@abrokenclock23 really!